MOM VLOG: GENDER REVEAL, YOSHI SCHOOL MUSICAL, LIFE UPDATE & MORE | Ellarie

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[@allthingsnatural3882]

Awww don’t cryyyy!! JUST GIVE IT TO GOD! He is your best friend, he is your companion, he knows you better than you know yourself! Go to him for comfort at times like this! Spend time with him any time he’s always there!

[@Ellarie]

i apologize to Him when i cry He knows im emotional...and i know that things could be worse! i just have my moments ❤ ty!

[@lana198623]

I won't say you're wrong because you parent in a way that makes sense to you. However, what I will say is, I could see Yoshi shrinking as you were fussing at her which doesn't usually happen when you're correcting her behavior. It felt like this moment may have been too much for her to process at the time and it would have been best to cut the camera and continue the conversation. Also, if possible, you might want to have these conversations when at home after school rather than before school. The conversation may or may not set the tone for her day and you don't want that. You're doing the best you can, I see that but it's important that you catch things like this before she gets older and you're having conversations with an older Yoshi who's telling you things about your parenting that you don't want to hear or that you wish you'd known earlier.

[@jessiejonas2769]

As a teacher, YOU SAID WHAT YOU SAID!! More parents need to come down on their kids like this! We are getting fed up with the mannerisms and entitlement of children. You said absolutely nothing wrong bc it could have gone left real quick! I’ve been a viewer for a while and usually don’t comment, but I had to say something. You’re doing so well and I hope this confirms any doubt or uncertainties you may have. ❤

[@Ellarie]

girl some of the comments had me confused like i need to go apologize! im like where was i when i cussed her out and embarrassed her opposed to talking to her about how school comes before everything, even when she tried to make excuses about it! she askin 'where we goin this weekend' and STILL aint done with her work! i asked for the opinions so im not offended by any of them but thank you for affirming my point of view lol ❤

[@Khadijah_time]

EXACTLY! Sis did VERY well and it shows she actually CARES for her beautiful daughter. This is REAL parenting done right. ❤️

[@Khadijah_time]

@@Ellarie You got this momma! Well done.

[@kolis_lady]

​​@@EllarieBut Yosh we see you and your mom talk it out all the time. We are like your internet aunties lol. I wonder what makes it different this time to her? Maybe as she's getting older she's more self-conscious about being on the camera or maybe her friends are tuning in more. Idk I guess that can be taken into consideration but honestly it was a normal conversation to me nothing we haven't seen before. But don't feel bad Yosh... Also keep in mind that Mom isn't really feeling 💯 yet, so try to help her out more and do your part. You're doing great😂🎉

[@SdotJarv]

So funny because I remember having convos like this with my mom growing up and it would always be in the car on the way to school but they def taught me a valuable lesson so while she may not have liked what was said I guarantee she learned from it

[@quaquinn]

You said it, “do what you’re supposed to do-period!” And before you take it back, add more to it. She is a very beautiful, intelligent, and blessed young lady. You are teaching her the importance of responsibility and accountability. Hats off to you! Praying for your strength 🙏🏼

[@thebossmommynetworkllc]

Sending lots of love and hugs. As single mom, I’ve been feeling the same way. Trying to find my purpose outside of motherhood, and showing up for myself. You’re doing your best as mom. My suggestion would be to have this discussion off camera and after school that way her day isn’t going bad. There is no rule book in parenting, but we are always learning and growing with them. Love y’all ❤

[@tekasmith157]

Hi Ellarie! I understand everything you were saying, it’s hard feeling like you’re alone & no one to talk to! But hang on trouble don’t last. Far as you correcting Yoshi wrong doing on camera i seen nothing wrong, Yosh shows a bit of attitude a lot, smart comments, eye rolling etc on camera so you telling her about herself just about school work, you handled it very well. You’re a great mom🙏🏼

[@shanj2009]

Man, Ell. That transparent moment really touched me. Currently going through the same. Sending you all the love 🤍

[@sharoncoleman2836]

Hi there, I'm a therapist. I think her asking for privacy is reasonable. As you know the internet is wild. Who knows what she might experience when others see her being reprimanded on camera. I agree that she has to better manage her time but maybe those conversations can be had off camera.

[@NiaryTasha]

I can honestly see where Zara is coming from. Everytime you discipline her on camera I also feel some way like I’m in her shoes and it definitely hurts a bit being scolded in front of everyone. Yes she needs discipline but some of it can happen off camera.. These moments will stand out to her even when she grows up, she won’t forget this.. Everyone gets scolded by their parent but we never get to see cause it’s not a nice thing to see.. We love y’all’s dynamic but some stuff we don’t need to see..

[@Ellarie]

lol ok imma agree to disagree with some of yall considering this a 'scolding' but i hear you! if i showed yall how she be frolicking around this house, ignoring the fact that she's grounded, going back and forth with me etc...yall would consider this gentle parenting. lol i dont show everything and i agree some things dont need to be seen and i dont show everything...but that convo was light! ❤

[@carringtontaylor1304]

You ate that outfit up. You are such a great person. You are beautiful. It is ok Ellarie I understand how you feel. Yoshi did so good on her performance. I love you Ellarie. Keep posting great stuff.

[@Ellarie]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@eclark122]

Let me tell you how much I needed this video. I am going through the same thing with my middle schooler and it is a lot of emotions when your handling by yourself all the time. So it’s okay to cry because authentic. I needed it.

[@robynsolomon-lawrence8525]

Life of a mom. Don’t back down sweetheart. I’ve been this way with my kids from Kindergarten. Middle school, they were on point with everything. The good thing about my kids is that they were in sports at school so the grades had to be on point. Kuddos hun. Keep praying and stay positive. This too shall pass ❤

[@Riteideas]

I LOVE how your family/friend circle ….is ALWAYS a circle of SUPPORT & LOVE!!!!

[@georginacampbell260]

Awww I’m sending you a virtual hug. It’s ok, be patient with yourself and give yourself grace. Things will get better and I hope you and Yoshi both feel better ❤

[@courtknee491]

Sending you lots of love and positivity! A lot of us feel the same way you do and when you’re feeling low just remember it’s temporary. Keep pushing forward! Love your videos so much ❤

[@AmbiLovesU_]

Girl when you’re emotional and when you’re going thru it it always gets me😭. We need those moments once we release then we need to truly give it God and let it go. Now about Yoshi, because she’s getting older and I can understand her feelings of not wanting to be disciplined on camera. It’s more of an embarrassing thing for her now because she’s thinking what if her friends or peers see this and try to use it against her. As a parent, I get where you’re coming from and nothing you said was too harsh to be filmed on camera. But putting myself in her shoes I definitely get it. You’ve mentioned some things about her feeling a little self conscious in the past and this could add to that. I love your vlogs girl they are always so real and that’s is very rare in these days. And Yoshi did amazing at her performance, I know that she’s going to be great! School does definitely come first I’m a firm believer in that and she doesn’t realize it now but she’ll thank you when she gets older 🤞🏾💕🙏🏾

[@Ellarie]

i agree with everything you said...thank you! ❤ ❤ ❤

[@niesharoary6952]

You are human, so be patient with yourself. We all have our moments at time when life be lifing, but know that God wouldn't bring you to it, if he couldn't bring you through it. Now for our birthdays! I'm excited to celebrate. I'm taking a girls trip to Cabo, so I hope you enjoy your special day #ariesgang

[@BlessedandBrilliant]

Girrrrrrl!!! The way you described how you were feeling is exactly how I’ve been feeling but I couldn’t figure out how to put them into words 😩 😢 thank you for pushing thru and being vulnerable with us because some of us is going through the same thing as you ❤ I was having a terrible day but this video made it better. God bless you 🙏🏾

[@adana320]

Hey ❤it’s ok to feel overwhelmed at times. We as mom have a lot on our shoulders. It’s ok to have your moments hope you’re doing much better health wise, mentally and physically ❤❤❤❤

[@STYLESHKENNA]

Idk if you’ll see this but I know exactly how you feel, this has been me on and off especially after recently losing my father. It’s okay to cry, crying helps you heal & feel better. Continue to pray God got you & is going to see you through whatever you’re dealing with.. I feel like we have so much in common just going off your videos & meeting you once. Your a strong individual God wouldn’t put more on you than you can bare. ❤ your so inspiring, with that being said I’m sure you need the same support you give others. I feel you girl trust me. Praying for your strength ❤

[@Ellarie]

im so sorry to hear about your dad! i want to say i can relate but since i didnt meet mine before he passed im sure what you feel is beyond words and that makes me sad to even think about. even tho releasing can be 'healthy,' stress is a silent killer so i really try not to be in these moments long and i pray you find healing and something that can occupy you with positivity and joy. i was even thinking about buying a easel and sitting on the porch like the movies until i thought about the bugs that would interrupt my peace lol but yes, like you said, GOD will see us through!

[@STYLESHKENNA]

@@Ellarie do what you have to do to help you through.❤️ thank you so much!

[@jamilamorgan9573]

Yoshi and my son are the same age, and TRUST ME, I get how you’re feeling. Sometimes I literally sit and cry from being overwhelmed because LORD HE TRIES ME!! You’re doing an amazing job, and I’m sending so much love and light your way ❤

[@Kishla20]

First off, I absolutely love your vlogs and find so much relatable. Pertaining to your conversation with your daughter, I think you were respectful but firm. However, I feel she may be getting older and wanting to be more in control of what is being put out there in regard to her image on social media. You made the comment that “you put your stuff out there too” but that is a choice that you are fully in control of and maybe she wants to be more in control of her social media narrative. Now I stand by the fact that I do not personally feel you did anything wrong (because these entitled kids really do be trying us single moms! 😂) but what is it going to hurt to comply with her request of not handling those situations on camera. ❤

[@johnettahuckeba6506]

Monroe always has the best vlogs, fashion, and vibes! Thanks for always taking us along for the ride! ❤

[@wond_rousworld]

awe thank you so much for sharing. you shouldn’t feel bad for not always showing up 100. you are human just like the rest of us and it’s a normal thing. it’s something that others i’m sure can relate to. i hope you feel better love, take care. 🤍

[@khloevlogs]

Girl, I’m a single mom and I live in a state without any family. I came down here with my now ex husband so now that I’m divorced , I feel alone all the time. And my friends are close by. So I get exactly how you feel and I also too have the same moments of like WTF. as far as Yosh, it’s not what you said to her. I agree wholeheartedly. This is the things I tell my 13 year old son as well. But those are private conversations and I think it should be as well. Discipline is warranted - absolutely but also listen to their feelings. It makes a difference. I used to yell at my son when I was having mood swings even though he deserved it but then he told me the things I said hurt his feelings even though he knew he was wrong. So I changed how I delivered the discipline and now those things that he used to do wrong , they no longer do.

[@Charita85]

Sending love and light, I completely understand how you feel but I'm praying it gets better soon ❤

[@pr3ttyface.nana.]

Heyy Sissssss!! Glad you is doing way better bc gurrl. I Cant sit right without seeing you up and at it cause ifykyk. Dont ever feel upset bc js know u got all these supporters and we luv uu!

[@yadip5527]

Sending you more positive vibes honey. Please know that it will all be ok in the end, and if it’s not ok, then it’s not the end. Things will get better. Spring always comes after winter. You will be ok. ❤

[@SamariaYvonne]

Sending you hugs and prayers for increased peace. ❤ God got you Super Woman!

[@kyndranicole3094]

Long time follower here! I’m late to this video cause life been life-in, but awww I hope you’re feeling better. One day at a time girl, you got this! And please don’t apologize for showing your emotions! Sometimes you gotta just let it out! We love you and Yosh! Pray it out girl 🙏🏽

[@Kyawins]

Being human is fkn hard sometimes. Only for those of us who are trying. You’re appreciated for showing us the ups and downs. You are the visual and the content so don’t stress it too much. Here’s your flowers for being that girl regardless ! 💐🌹🌸🌺🌷🌻

[@coralieciceron6855]

Showing the good and the bad is important

[@Ellarie]

i think its very important thank you!!!

[@blessedbythebest1140]

Sending love and light babes, thanks for being vulnerable.

[@chloeerintv149]

Praying for you! ❤️

[@Ellarie]

thank you ❤

[@TamTam79340]

We love you ellarie trust me we understand .I’m in the day situation just pray babe and take your time everything will fall into place. Just get quiet to your self daily and pray and let God talk to you 🤎🤎

[@thegirlintheloft]

We watch all of your vlogs, and I appreciate the raw emotion in this one. I don't think you were "wrong" for the convo with Yoshi, but I could see she really didn't want to be filmed during that time. Maybe during editing you could have removed that clip in order to acknowledge her feelings. I'm a girl mom too so trust I know how they can get under our skin!!

[@laurenembry9714]

Aww, Ellarie! Go ahead and let it out girl! Sometimes, it's best to just let it out as long as you don't wallow in it! Remember that your peace is expensive so if it cost you your peace don't allow it/them in your space! Continue to take it all to God, and He will handle it !!!❤❤❤

[@Ellarie]

amen!

[@Bee97971]

Therapy❤ venting to a professional who aligns with my values has truly changed my mental. I love my friends but having someone outside of the mix is refreshing. Sending love and prayers. This is hard but please respect her wishes to not be called out on camera. BUT EVERYTHING YOU SAID WAS TRUE AND SHE STILL NEEDS TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE.

[@tamikalove2658]

Hi Sis, so glad to see you up and at them…get it girl🔥🔥 continued prayers that your tough season is over🙏🏾

[@Ellarie]

Yes! Thank you!

[@TheAPlusFamily]

Aww sis I know it gets tough...like annoyingly tough but if it's any consolation you are doing an amazing job. Real moments and situations are part of all of us. My daughter is 12 and I'm going through the messy room, being unorganized, late schoolwork, etc. If the moment happens to be caught on camera...it's a real moment. Kids hate being called out in front of people or in this case a camera but maybe in that moment she understood that you were being serious and it's exhausting having to repeat yourself over and over. I'm sure you guys had your talk and sooner than later can both come to some sort of mutual understanding. Again, you're doing a great job mom!!! Hang in there ❤️

[@ashnecole88]

Whew girl we are literally in the same boat! Parenting my 14yr old daughter on my own, plus dealing with my own issues is really whipping me right now lol. You are not alone sis we got this!!❤❤❤❤

[@tasetistell3524]

Not me crying at the comments!! We love you Ellarie!! I hope you see that. Down to support anything you do and want to achieve.❤

[@KahaanaLora]

Ellarie,I honestly love ur parenting, keep doing you,ur stressed, tired,in pain and the last thing u need is your preteen disrespecting u girl,hope you feel better,keep on teaching Zara lessons till she learns,she almost 13,she needs to grow up,I love your loyal subscriber @ZeeDans

[@giajones9850]

Ellarie, you can't be unreal all the time, if you need to get into your emotions do. You are a real life person not a robot. You are ok. Give it to God, he got you. You are doing an amazing job. I'm glad that you are feeling better from your surgery.

[@sjlewis271]

DISCLAIMER:I DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN. SO I CAN BE WRONG BUT I WAS A STRAIGHT 'A' STUDENT UP UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL, WHO PLAYED MULTIPLE SPORTS AND WAS APART OF ALOT OF OTHER THINGS LIKE CHURCH GROUPS, CHOIR, AND PLAYS. If you want to keep a relationship with your child, please don't scold her for the internet to see. Both you and her have channels and you wouldn't want to see yourself being embarrassed or hurt on her channel. So don't do that to her. We didn't have the internet/social media growing up (I'm 34). Could you imagine your mom posting your bad moments on YT for ppl to engage with while you're upset and embarrassed?! Yeah...ABSOLUTELY NOT. You have the right to discipline your child and check their behavior. But that's not of our business. She deserves a safe place to not be scolded and pushed to be perfect for views (no shade). I don't watch her channel but she's getting older. What if she starts posting how she feels about what you do and how you treat her? You would want her to take it down and talk in private, right? Ok. So let's keep those things private. Both of you deserve that...NOT JUST HER. This isn't a rant. Just my perspective from a child that wouldn't have sat there and just took it like her. We would've went back and forth. I didn't take too kindly to adults trying to embarrass me. We both can play those games. The difference is... ONE OF US IS THE CHILD. Im gon take it too far. Now you mad, im grounded, and I'm not sorry or apologizing. It could be worse is all im saying. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@robynsolomon-lawrence8525]

Of course Yoshi had the main roll. ❤Get it sweetie. Good job.

[@Kiara0515]

No tears no tears😢. I'm sending you hugs hugs and more hugs. And I totally understand how you feel. That lonely feeling sucks. Being a mommy and doing it on your own is hard. I do it every day with my two boys it's very draining. You are strong you are doing great. And you motivate me as well. I've been following you since the beginning and your growth is a beautiful thing. I'm proud of you. As far as Yoshi I understand she's getting to the age of where she doesn't want to discuss certain things in front of people. It's embarrassing to them so maybe certain things off camera. I have a soon to be 13-year-old and he's the same way but you were not wrong for saying what you said.. She has to prioritize. She's getting to that age where she wants to do everything and she has to realize she cannot. Grades are important especially the high you get in school. Like I tell my preteen I gave you the curriculum for our county. This is what we have to follow. He doesn't understand But he can understand fortnite and everything else that's not important.....😒😒I want to scream.😅

[@MissJazzy_]

Just take it a day at a time, friend! We love you and we’re here anytime you want to vent!❤❤

[@sixela527]

Thank you for your vulnerability when it comes to parenting... as a mom of three it is HARD and seems like it gets harder the older they get. You are not alone cuz I'm with you sis!! As far as the car conversation, I had the EXACT same convo with my 12 yr old last week. You absolutely did not scold her and I see nothing wrong with showing the REAL. I honestly think she said the camera thing to dismiss what you were saying because she was already rolling her eyes and making faces. She wasn't tryna hear it on or off camera lol kids will be kids keep doing you momma!

[@jaylaelle]

i can’t lie, when you scold Zara it’s lowkey uncomfortable cuz i feel like those are convos & points that should be made off camera! i appreciate you sharing those real moments but at the same time, it’s embarrassing to be chastised for the internet to see. i can understand maybe sharing your frustrations or the points you wanna make after you’ve already talked to her, but i wouldn’t film it & make it a vlog segment. i love the authenticity, but don’t be so caught up in filming those moments that it interferes with your relationship with her 💛

[@corenabrown508]

SIS😢…I wish I could just hug you. My (only) daughter is 13 and I’m legit dealing with the exact same thing. I dont check behind her because she does very well in school but I go on the parent app and see she has 11 missing assignments. I lost it! You did nothing wrong! If she was getting her assignments in like she’s supposed to she wouldn’t be embarrassed on camera. You’re doing a good job and keep up the good work!! Thank you for being vulnerable cause we all out here just trying to keep them off the poll. At the same time try to remember you’ve been where she is. This is a stage and you’re adjusting. The moment you adjust, here comes another curve ball. YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!

[@Mommyof_4Boyz]

Yesssssssssssssss!! Love when I get a notification from your channel!!!! 😻😻😻😻🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@aliciamackie5876]

I totally understand the emotions and the feeling of not really having anyone to talk to about my issues because they have their own things going on. I had an emergency surgery last year and I haven’t felt right emotionally. I did have the benefit of a therapist for the first few months following surgery. My therapist had to take time off to deal with her life issues (it really hit me therapists are people too lol). Anyway, after almost a year, I’ll be starting back with her next month. Said all this to say seek out therapy where they allow you to get it all out. Things will get better. Just wait for that rainbow after the storms ❤

[@thehallway4486]

When I cry … I get clarity on the things I need to do 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼I hope it will work for you too❤❤❤

[@myaartis1247]

It’s ok you do a great job as a mom that is alone and you try your best to stay strong for your kind and you have god and he is there with you ❤I wish you the best and hope you injoy your week and you are an amazing mom and person ❤❤❤

[@Ellarie]

thank you ❤❤❤

[@V.ChanelVlogs]

Zara loves the camera so to be held accountable on camera is a life lesson. I wish y’all the best I love y’all and I have to get on my 14 yo only child the same way. I don’t have a lot to say. Keep your head up and I’m sending both of you love and warmth.💜💜

[@sondrap1441]

Aww Ellarie!! I completely feel you on being uncomfortable and not really having that someone. I pray it gets better for you 😢

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@WorldofJazzD]

You are doing great. I don’t know how much you hear that, but you are a great mother, friend, daughter and so much more. You have so much beauty inside and out. Your light shine so much for others to see. I see it and I know a lot of others see it too. It will get better ❤️‍🩹 P.S. I am similar to Zara somewhat and I hate when my mom puts me on blast in front of my family so I could only imagine it being on the internet. What you are saying isn’t harsh, she needs to hear it but I definitely feel like the camera could have been cut halfway through and you just tell us how u feel after the fact. Obviously we don’t know everything but just my opinion.

[@carleneclark1702]

Love 💕 watching you and your family. You and your sister are raising some amazing young ladies 🎂🍰🍧🍡🍢🥮🍟🍔🌭🍕🥐🍋🍊🍐🍎⚡️✨🌟⭐️💥🔥☀️🌼🌸🌺🪷🪻🥀🌷🌷🍁🍂🍃🌻☘️🌿🦋🦄🐶❤💕🤎💙🧡💜💛💚💗💓💝💖❣️🤍

[@shaid843]

12:21 the closest I've heard to Ellarie singing even after that whole Making the Band storytime lol. I only have a 21 month old so I haven't been doing the mom thing long, but I do think it may be best to have those conversations with Yoshi off camera BUT you are completely right with everything you were saying to her. School comes first.

[@djwilliams7768]

Crying is good, it's just water for your seed ❤️ your just watering your next blessing. Keep your hope you are such a force and the Devil is busy. You and your family are in my prayers 💞.

[@marisha5254]

I’m back : the part where you said March is suppose to be your month ….. maybe it doesn’t mean it’ll be all jolly and fun maybe you’re going through these moments to push you through what you’ve been praying for , maybe bring you clarity and transparency 🙏🏾 Love you 🥰 . Take it easy .

[@luvleebreeze108]

It's ok to cry you're not alone I have a twelve year old and I've been doing it by myself for twelve years. I've been crying as well lately thank God I have my uncle that I speak to almost everyday about what I'm going through thank you for sharing.

[@t.mc.4680]

You’re doing a great!! Give yourself some grace 🥰

[@keetareeder]

I’ll be your friend Ellarie!!!! 🫶 I have definitely been in that space before. Sending prayers and positive vibes

[@itsblessyntime8780]

Be encouraged I wanted to tell you I could tell she didn’t like when you get on her in front of the camera. I am here for you anytime we can pray, cry and laugh. You are an amazing mother and it takes a village continue to live and enjoy life and your family. It’s not easy and as she gets older she will understand you only want what’s best for her!!!!! Love you

[@teewalt0418]

Ellarie give yourself some grace. You are human. Parenting isn't perfect, life isn't perfect. Being vulnerable is ok. You are moving into a season and you may have to do more things on your own which is scary. Take care of your mental, and physical health 1st. There is only one you. Anemia is no joke. Take your iron friend. It took me a whole year to realize how serious not taking your iron can be. As a fellow Aries our fire comes out with tears because nobody is getting what we're going through. We give our all to everyone and everything and it feels like its not enough. Yoshi will get what you're saying as she gets older. I agree with everything you said to her. I would have given her just a little grace because she seems like she has never given you any trouble academically. She's had a rough and busy few weeks too. You having surgery, you in recovery, back and forth with family, school and extracurricular. Again I don't disagree, school 1st, and then activities. However, as you said having missing assignments isn't the norm for her that's why id would have given her a little grace. She knows what she needs to do. Come Friday and them assignments ain't done, then may the punishment commence😄. Praying for y'all. One journey just prepares you for the next. God's got you!

[@ritaw7060]

I will keep praying for you. Keep seeking God. He will Comfort you. You are an awesome lady. You are a great example of what a parent is. You really try. God is there. Cry out to him. Keep on keepin’ on. We need your laughter and wit. You are truly blessed. Please don’t cry.

[@nikkiwiley7997]

Ellarie girl I love you but when you get into momma mode with Yoshi I be getting PTSD 😅😅😅 I know it’s necessary but man, it gives me flashbacks with my mom. She was a single momma too and I didn’t understand back then the things that set her off or what she was going through but I do now and I give single moms all the cudo’s in the world! You’re doing great sis! ❤❤❤

[@Ellarie]

deng yall making me feel bad but yoshi was wrong! even if i wasnt already going thru my own thing this girl comes in the house singin, dancin, eatin everything, on the phone, playin roblox, watchin tv without a care in the world and had like over 10 assignments due! she usually never has school work so i didnt think i had to follow behind her but if i didnt get an email im not sure what her grades would have been! how else was i supposed to handle that, she got a TALK and yall saying im giving yall ptsd! send help cause im hella confused! lol 😅

[@nikkiwiley7997]

Sorry sis didn’t want to make you feel bad. I think it’s more just putting her on camera while getting scolded. I felt her embarrassment coming through and I wanted to cry for her. Definitely discipline her but maybe not on camera. Just a suggestion. ❤️🥰

[@divjg90]

You are a fantastic mother Ellarie ❤ I have been watching you since Yosh was a little baby girl. Sending you so much love from Malaysia

[@airianbattle9758]

Happy medium...I dont think its what you say but how you say it. I do think what you said was what she needed to hear but how you said it may have effected her feelings. I have a rough tone as well and when my daughters tell me im being to rough or hurt their feelings, i try to talk it out to find some understanding. Im a tough love mom but i also had to learn that my kids feelings matter. My husband taught me that because his mom is the same way and he talks about how bad the way she spoke to him growing up still effected him and still effects him. I also want to say hang in there ellarie. Being a working single mom is a lot and you are doing the best you can. I think 2024 is going to be a tough emotional year. Thank you for always being transparent with us and showing us we arent alone. I as well have had an emotional year so far, even losing really close family and friends. Im learning that crying and getting it out actually makes me feel better. I pray whatever you're going through, you will see the sunshine soon! ❤

[@MustLoveJones]

Glad to see you doing well! I think the moment in the car was a good parenting moment and was handled well. However, I can see how Zara might feel about having a spotlight on her when she's being corrected. I recall being reprimanded by my parents in front of company and feeling like I was being put on blast/ publicly shamed. That feeling is probably amplified for her because she knows a lot of people will see and possibly comment on what she did.

[@jazzminedevone7380]

Hey there! I am a single mother with two children (both girls) and I agree with your sentiments Ellarie. I can tell you that there is absolute value in coaching in the moment! If the moment happens to be while you’re filming and on camera, I understand why you are having these conversations in that environment. What I would encourage, if you haven’t done so already - have a conversation with Yoshi and ask her specifically why she said she didn’t want to do this on camera. That way we mitigate the risk that you (we) are, assuming how she felt and you then can consider giving your daughter what she says she needs moving forward. Last note- I also know the feeling of immediately feeling bad after having that kind of conversation before your child goes to school. Pointing this out because we, as parents, always want our children to start their days in the most productive and optimistic manner. But I also know that most mornings you struggle with Yoshi the way that I struggle with my 10-year-old , making most mornings challenging. So there’s that. Hang in there!

[@user-nz4he1hs7v]

It ok Ellarie you be fine❤😢🫶🏾

[@MrsZShoffner]

I’m gonna be honest it’s tough watching you feel defeated but the lord won’t let you fall he didn’t build you for that. Also I have a hard headed knuckle head 12 almost 13 yr old son and he tries me daily but I agree with her it wasn’t a conversation to have on camera also before school adds stressors and typically adds for a more stressful day I have learned that from experience. I’ve had to normalize apologizing to my kids if I truly crossed a line in this particular situation I would apologize.

[@kaemjsquad5097]

God has a plan and a purpose for you you got this don’t give up event to God he’s listening he’s there for you don’t give up Ellarie you got this Jesus loves you and if you read your word start with Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, I just vent to God and tell him how you’re feeling and just keep praying no matter what you’re never alone God is always with you in Jesus name I pray that you receive this❤

[@colettemccullough1586]

Sis it is OK. Life happens and we are aloud to have a day. Get it all out GOD got you. Praying for your peace sis.

[@Ellarie]

thank you! ❤

[@Milah81]

21:04 awwww dont beat yourself up!! Youre a great mom you & your child are healthy, look back at this a year from now you might have a man and strong foundation. Praying for u 💕 being a single mom is fckn hard . But if yall do that podcast im def tuning in

[@naes8721]

I completely agree on how you discipline your daughter. It just doesn’t have to be on camera. I have to sometimes skip the parts when you are in mommy mode when you discipline Zara. It feels like I’m in a private conversation and I shouldn’t be there lol.

[@naes8721]

There is a lot studies coming out of kids growing in social media and most be harder when you life is displayed for all of us to see. Just recently one of the sons from sister wives just killed himself. And I’m not saying you anything like them. That example is extreme. But I would just be careful what you put online. You don’t want Zara to look back on these videos and feel some type of way putting certain things she didn’t wanted online.

[@AffectionateJungleWaterf-qd1qx]

You are down ❤❤❤❤❤. I miss fun ellare 😊😊😊😊😊. She back 🎉

[@chartaviafuller4027]

That’s right mama! Hold her accountable! That’s the only way our kids will learn responsibility! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@JourneeHoward-vq1tx]

I love your videos your so real and is not fake I love you ❤💕

[@laurynhawkins6074]

I love y’all ❤

[@Ellarie]

❤ ❤ ❤

[@candidcami2158]

Hey, I wish you were close to Philly because we would definitely hangout. I feel the same way and have been through a lot mentally. I don't have many to talk to, so I mostly keep to myself. I always try to remain strong and take care of my son as a single mom. It's overwhelming, and your channel does give me some excitement. I appreciate you sharing and being so real with us. ❤

[@AmandazzWorldd]

Just had to comment to let you no we love you ELLARIE !!! ❤❤

[@cookingmyway854]

Its ok she needed that talk 👄 inftont of the camera. Nexts time she will do what she needs to do. Its life she's 13th now no time to play in school. You did right mom.❤❤👍🏽👍🏽

[@mstoby76]

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻You might know this but Ellarie, PRAY, PRAY, PRAY, PRAY & THEN PRAY SOME MORE!! IM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOSHI!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 GOD CAN CHANGE/DO ANYTHING!!! PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND WORRY ABOUT NOTHING!!! GOD GOT YOU ELLARIE!!! DONT EVER FORGET THAT!!!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻, I know easier said than done!! But prayer works and don’t give up!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY!!🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻 GOD BLESS US ALL!! 🙏🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️ AMEN & AMEN!!! Thanks for sharing!!!❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻

[@melaniebarnes4787]

Aww Ellarie, dont cry! Everything will be ok soon. Looking forward to our birthdays (mine is 3/26) Aries gang

[@miashere0529]

You might be a little more emotional because of the surgery. I was a single mom (my son is grown now). It’s A LOT! We’ve all been there and still there. Chin up chest out Sis! We love you and are so very proud of you! One day at a time ❤

[@xobarbz]

Love your videos ❤❤

[@Ellarie]

❤❤❤

[@SB-qe1fe]

It's not what you said, it's what you did (record, edit and post online for thousands of eyes to see). If you value, and want to maintain, y'all's relationship you should consider honoring her request to keep it offline. Hugs to you both ❤

[@marisha5254]

Awww 😢😢😢don’t cry Ellarie !!! I feel like you need to take a break . We will understand. Maybe go back and watch old videos sometimes that helps in terms of purpose ❤. Go back to the beginning so you see the WHY I started KZbin. I’ll pray for you and Zara to keep her room clean ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@laurenoliviajames4178]

Girl you aint failing, you're doing everything right! And you aint say nothing we all aint heard, goood job girl!!! Now go sip you a glass of wine 💕

[@CarinRenee]

Shout out to you for locking down the lil pavilion.. That was me for my son’s elementary graduation a couple years ago 🤣🤣

[@user-jp8mn4si6q]

loveee your nails an makeup slay slayyyy

[@dominiqueed6432]

Awww Ellarie you had me tearing up as well. I get everything you were saying. Also you were not wrong for the conversation with your daughter. I go through the same exact thing with my son and he prioritizes what HE wants and end up having hella missing assignments. He gets mad at me but had the time to do it, idk these teens backwards af now n days lol

[@Shermarial]

El is feeling well! She gave us a 36 minute video, as she is recovering. No, but seriously, I think we all are having a rough 2024 Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually etc. It's ok to have a moment. It helps to reassure we all have trying times, but we persevere. I feel you when you say, you feel alone. We are at an age of our friends starting their families, and they are as available. So, it can be hard. You didn't say anything word to Zara. She is just at that age of awareness of her actions and how she feels when you call her out.

[@jayy_purp]

Honestly,This Hit Home I Used To Be The Kid Who Would Turn In Late Assignments Or Didn’t Turn Them In At All…My Parents Got On My Ass ..So,I Don’t Think You We’re Wrong,She Needs To Understand Those Late Assignments Can Do Damage Even When They Do Get Turned In.

[@c0rsi88]

Definitely going through it over here. Especially with my baby & trying to get him into school, speech therapy, etc. Hes 2 & I'm mf tired already. But we got this.

[@sherrierice6882]

Ellarie. I had the same conversation with my 8th grader. He can't do track and missing assignments. Teacher emailing say it due Friday after the track meet. These teenagers smh

[@Ellarie]

right and she had SEVERAL missing and they barely get school work...im like so you wasnt do nothin nothin smh

[@sherrierice6882]

@@Ellarie Same thing I said

[@laditraharrison1651]

You were not wrong. I totally agree. They are at the age where responsibly and planning need to be in place. I am dealing with some things similar with my daughter. I dude what di yiu have to worry about. Very privileged and spoiled. Our fault😢😅 Im so glad you are back and feeling better.