I totally agree with that at the ;57 mark,I got tired of being used and now I'm alone but not being used they were with me for the good but as soon as it got a little rough they ran!
@andsoitbegins4646 ай бұрын
Jeff, you are better off without them. You deserve someone who will stand by your side, in good times and bad. Sending you love and light.
@jeffharper75796 ай бұрын
Thanks👍 I just wish I could find that special lady but I don't know if I will
@Smarterthanyou-mthrfkr6 ай бұрын
Or you were a crap shag😂
@anthonypapp63496 ай бұрын
They always do, that's nothing new, only a true friend or partner will stand by you through thick and thin, the rest will slowly vanish out of sight, they may try to reconnect when they need someone.
@jeffharper75796 ай бұрын
I have so many true friends I need only need two fingers to count with, best one I have known from junior high ,he is in Ohio and the other one my ex worked with his wife and even after her and I devoriced he and I still talk and help each other out.
@freeman81286 ай бұрын
"Most women lost a good man because they listened to their toxic single friend's advice."
@rudrachaudhary66176 ай бұрын
That real bro she lost me because of her single toxic friend
@DandyMandy1116 ай бұрын
Or he cheats an gets caught an denies although it’s on security camera
@rudrachaudhary66176 ай бұрын
@@DandyMandy111 not all men and women are same i think you got cheated by your boyfriend
@saulescamilla36056 ай бұрын
They don’t have to be single, mines got brainwashed to by her jealous mom and sisters. They hated I was so good to her and always had her and her daughter happy. It’s ok she can be miserable with her family. I don’t go back.
@robertmayfield87465 ай бұрын
@@saulescamilla3605 Similar story. My mrs been brainwashed by unhappy women in the family. They couldn't stand somebody else's happiness.
@BiteThemBack756 ай бұрын
The one lesson I learned from my worst breakup is that you have to deal with the woman in front of you, how they are, at that moment. Forget how you think she should be, or how she was.
@weaintfree4 ай бұрын
Wise Words! (This is Not always an easy thing to do)
@herbertlewis31056 ай бұрын
Many years ago, I was willing and ready to do any and everything for this one particular girl. I kind of knew that she wasn't the genuine type, but I invested time and dollars and shot my best shot. It wasn't good enough. She through me over-board like a spent shell. For years, I wondered around believing that I'd never recover from the blown-up relationship. Some 5 years later, I met a young lady that had it going on. Why, she chose mixed up me, only God and the heavens know. She allowed me to move in with her, and we've been together over 45 years. She put her faith and trust in me years ago, and now she wants for nothing. She's given me a gorgeous kid and there is not a person on earth that can come between us. I owe everything that I've accomplished to her.
@darron77146 ай бұрын
You are one blessed man
@MG007.6 ай бұрын
Im Happy for you my friend. You were blessed by God indeed
@herbertlewis31056 ай бұрын
@@MG007. You are correct!
@herbertlewis31056 ай бұрын
@@darron7714 Absolutely!
@lobsterattack43235 ай бұрын
WOW! God does exist.
@leexinping6 ай бұрын
Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@leexinping6 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@leexinping6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@tobiaskasoma89376 ай бұрын
I was in the same situation but God really helped me to be happy again. I learnt to focus on God alone and 3 weeks later I got a job and everything turned around. It was really tough for me to forget her because I love her so much but God knows the reasons why things have to go that way.
@unleashedme7156 ай бұрын
Stay in no contact till she try to contact if she miss you it’s worth if not then congratulation you got a new life. Just think god saved you from even worse pain!!
@Unknownuserhtps6 ай бұрын
Be strong you will move on, she wasn’t the one trust the lord
@elduchie686 ай бұрын
I've been with my wife for 16 years, and I STILL dont know what it is about her that made me completely turn my life upside-down. Got my own place when i was 19 after growing up homeless and had a carefree and simple life being a single Batchelor with my own pad for over 10 years. Then, somehow, in a matter of months, she's completely moved in with all her stuff. And for reasons i still can't understand, i had absolutely no issues with any of this and actually wanted her to move in. My easy life now has a wife and 3 kids, every day is chaos and i wouldn't have it any other way 😊
@andnowyouknow33636 ай бұрын
0:00 One of the best skills I have acquired was to distinguish the genuine women from the false. A genuine woman will prove her love with her actions and will move heaven and Earth to be with you. Whereas the woman who only sees you as a tool for attention or validation will ditch you and come back whenever it is convenient for her. Ask me how I know.
@OperationRanch6 ай бұрын
Boom. Nailed it!! 🎯💯
@MrRelevancesound6 ай бұрын
How do u know?
@carlrenshaw36496 ай бұрын
No.
@andnowyouknow33636 ай бұрын
@@MrRelevancesound The same way you would know whether a friend of you holds you dear. You simply know, because their words and actions show you. They are busy making you feel appreciated, make plans with you and are there when you need them. They won't give you a chance to question their intentions or interest. The same way with women and relationships. If you are in doubt whether a woman likes you or not, she most likely does not.
@KroniccKrona16 ай бұрын
My first love (unfortunately) was a narc and it's all I know now. I'm currently talking to someone who actually seems... different? All I've known (obviously know now, not during the relationship) was gaslighting, manipulation, controlling, lies, beetrayel.. and more. So if someone genuine and healthy rocks up to my world, it's gonna be a huge shock to the system. Crazy thing is, I have honestly no idea if my ex actually at one point cared and loved me, then got to the stage she realised she couldn't deal with a relationship etc, was too coward to end it so got ME to the point I hate her. I really don't know, but, it's sad now to think we couldn't even stay as friends and have friendly communication instead of her thinking of X, Y and Z just to make me jealous because of how high her ego, self centred personality it. I'm 29, she's 22. I probably just answered my own question but hey. Hopefully my next person DOESNT have "Do not disturbed" on her phone - else, red flag and you're gone love.
@januszdworak47806 ай бұрын
Well. The relationship with my wife was good, but it still hurts that she was disrespectful and disloyal (not unfaithful) except for the last month of her life. In the last month of her life, she worshipped me. God has been waiting for it. Then He took her.
@Memicrosy_51506 ай бұрын
.❤
@paulfitzpatrick65666 ай бұрын
I had a wife of one year who after I married her she showed her true self, disrespect & disloyalty. Within a few days. After 3 warnings I left it & divorced it within the required lawful time frame. That was 34 years ago. I wouldn’t class that conduct as acceptable, nor say that it pointed to a good marriage, the exact opposite tbh. As any man with self respect would say. Disrespect shows that they don’t recognise your value, & disloyalty shows they don’t recognise their accountability to you. Both complete Nadas 👎 in any relationship.
@ashersmilesaluri76546 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that, I hope that you heal quickly and know that God will never leave you nor forsake you ❤
@mikecarr13785 ай бұрын
My ex was a cheater that always wanted more, I tried every thing . But she's gone and I'm better now.
@herbertlewis31054 ай бұрын
Yeah Mike, I hear you! And when some time has pasted--she will fundamentally begin to realize what a damn fool she was.
@randomgeezer34565 ай бұрын
Women do NOT "get broken to pieces" when a relationship ends. Ever. In all likelihood SHE ended it, and probably had another guy in the on-deck circle ready to replace the one she kicked to the curb.
@WinfriedBerger-l8e4 ай бұрын
When you are truly in love and you end up alone you are broken in to peaces as well for women or men
@MacAucha-kiltedbikerReptilian3 ай бұрын
Ugh. Women usually “check out” mentally before they leave- because it takes some planning to leave, especially if they’re afraid of a violent confrontation
@NineToes195 ай бұрын
The thumbnail said it all for me. “A woman left a good man just because.” Just because. Because she could. We men need to do better by better evaluating the females in our lives. Especially the females we allow into our private, day to day, week to week, month to month, year to year lives. Don’t take in the first female that laughs at all your jokes. Who is ‘apparently’ completely on board with your life’s plans. Females are good at playing ‘the long game’, and games in general. You have no room or time for games. When you meet that beautiful face, smile, body and personality, next observe, never letting your guard down. Always keep in the back of your mind whether or not she is worth all your hard work and sacrifices, for the next few decades. This is the time to observe and use your critical and analytical thinking to determine her character. Good things come to those who work hard and to those who wait. Courting a woman is practically gone in American society. In its place is one night stands, weekend flings and ‘sex’ buddies. The fewer marks on your headboard, the fewer heartbreaks you will endure. Slow down. Take your time. The good ones will be slow and take their time too. The easy ones are always trouble. Stop looking for the love of your life in clubs and bars or any drinking environments. Instead I suggest public bookstores. Look for females in the ‘self help’ area of the library. You never know; you might have some things in common. And that’s a great place to start a conversation. You already have something in common. After that, having things to talk about and laugh about is easy. Laugh at yourself. Some good females like that and some of those females will laugh at themselves too. Now, you’ve found a target. Keep her in your crosshairs, and in focus. But, go slow. Don’t just watch. Instead, study. We are all old enough and smart enough to know alcohol causes us to let our guards down and make poor choices. Now is the time to use intellect and gain/use our wisdom. And never allow yourself to be so desperate for a female in your life, to the point where you look for her online. Stay off all dating apps. No one will ever truly know everything. That said, no one is too old to learn. Wisdom. If you do find the love of your life, keep some things for and to yourself, and never completely let your guard down. With today’s females, you never know. Speaking of ‘with today’s females you never know’, if you find yourself frustrated with that or are truly tired of that, it’s more important to YOU if you choose to walk away from females. And, if your friends disagree with that choice, they don’t have your back either, and because of that, they’re not the best ‘friends’ to allow into your life. It’s ok though, if you have to put bad character behind you. Not only will your life actually be better, you must remember one thing: As we get older, the fewer TRUE friends we actually have. That’s life and human nature. Embrace that. True friends are hard to find. Always be VERY selective in who you allow into your inner circle. Male and female. And don’t make decisions on who you allow into your inner circle based on skin color or ethnicity. You might find additional wisdom from them. Don’t allow yourself to automatically rule them out as friends, including good people you allow into your inner circle. Diversity has many advantages to it. I’m trying to say ‘think and act upon what the head on yours shoulders says, instead of the one in your pants, without saying it. LOL!! If she doesn’t ADD goodness to your life, she’s not your best choice. Always, always go for the females that want more FOR you, than FROM you. And you be the same for her. And I respectfully suggest you use that same ideology for EVERYONE you allow into your inner circle. If you do this, in time you’ll notice how much fuller your life is by allowing good character from anybody, regardless of skin color and ethnicity. And, it’ll be effortless. Stop concerning yourself from worrying about what others think of your choices, if you follow this advice. Find who you are and never, ever stop being yourself, especially when you allow that one special female into your life. That way, you both become a team and you both get what you want and need. That’s where the strong bond between you and your woman is formed, unbreakable and the most beneficial for both of you for decades. Remember, we’re never really alone, but merely by ourselves. And many of us men are happier by ourselves, without all the drama and faked scenarios to test our ‘manliness’. If you sense your female is testing you, get out while you’re ahead. She’s forcing things without allowing things to happen naturally. And she won’t stand by your side or have your back when things get rough and tough, as life has a habit of doing.
@redish9536 ай бұрын
Most women lost a good man because good man for them is not personality a good man for women is a handsome man tall man rich man nothing else matters
@BiteThemBack756 ай бұрын
Your early 20's are rough. The girls your age are getting picked over by older men, you can't go too much younger. Your options are limited.
@jigsawkramer41755 ай бұрын
@@BiteThemBack75yeah, that's true, young girls have serious daddy issues and crave sugar daddies. For them a man their age or younger is a kid and expects a man old enough to be their father or uncle to treat them with respect and dignity. This is surely some serious double standard. But thankfully such norms are evolving. As, even in my own friend circle several of my female friends are choosing younger men. All of them are in their late 20s to early 30s and some even married guys their own age or younger.
@edwardclarkson-ph1kl6 ай бұрын
Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@edwardclarkson-ph1kl6 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?
@PeekaBooo246 ай бұрын
Very sorry for your gf walking out on you. Not to sound like an insensitive douchebag, but eventually you must suck it up, move on, elevate yourself and be the best man you can be emotionally, mentally and even physically. After she gets burned out in the dating world, she’ll most likely definitely look for you. Then you might get back together, or you may see that her leaving you in the first place was the best thing to have happened.
@accadacastkr49126 ай бұрын
you and me both mate, but i lost everything with one, and the new gf , well lots of empty promises , i got the double whammy
@Lollipops14336 ай бұрын
Why did she leave though? Woman don't just leave a man they love for no particular reason? Especially if her man loves her so much? No disrespect at all, nor am i claiming it's your fault. I feel really bad for you.
@Largeagegaplove6 ай бұрын
@@Lollipops1433 Many women leave because they are "Bored"
@brettrusso67036 ай бұрын
People will always disappoint you, But Jesus never will😊
@billfarley91675 ай бұрын
Those Jesus freaks in the Christian Nationalist Party certainly are disappointing. They want to destroy our democracy and turn the US into a theocracy. They are evil and not Christians.
@sammyquartey12845 ай бұрын
💯
@filthyanimal8744 ай бұрын
Yes I know
@FrankGruden3 ай бұрын
@@sammyquartey1284 seriously? 5 prayers are unanswered everyday...everyday
@claytonmartin4765 ай бұрын
Most women lost a good man for listening to the men they were sleeping with and giving all the bullshit talk to the man that loved them once trust is broken cannot be repaired it over😊
@richardturner76645 ай бұрын
OVER
@themanftheworld84396 ай бұрын
If you don't go after what you want you ll never have it??? I went after it and still don't have it!
@KBowWow756 ай бұрын
That doesn't mean you will get it if you go after it. It just means that if you don't try, it's never going to happen.
@mister-zen84916 ай бұрын
Pursue but don't chase.
@woodrowmagnus25356 ай бұрын
Bingo, she's still got it. You know what they say, patience is a virgin.
@dreacul4 ай бұрын
Better to try and get a slap than never knowing how that slap hurts bro. ;) One day something will land in your life and it will take you by surprise.
@vanessawatkins48726 ай бұрын
“Lost” a good man… nope, never even had a chance to show him who I am. He didn’t feel the same way as I do. I recognize him as a good man.
@andiXD19905 ай бұрын
then it wasn´t his time to be in commitment. Everybody has their own path and as they move through life and become the good versions we see in them, they start longing for what people like you had to offer back then.
@jjthe13th4 ай бұрын
0:50 This point about a woman wanting to feel like the only special person in ur life tends to bring out the more toxic side of women. It's this desire that drives her to drive you AWAY from ur friends, ur family, ur hobbies and interests. She wants to be the REPLACEMENT for ur source happiness, not an addition, or even the most important. The ONLY. Tread carefully with this point fellas. If u don't stand ur ground, u ll lose everything
@TimHigginbotham-w2b5 ай бұрын
I have two women now who have been in three to four failed marriages. But they are trying to give me advice on this lady I care about. For me. I had a 21 year successful marriage. I should be giving them advice. Thank you for this video.
@thepsychologybook5 ай бұрын
❤️
@racebannon963 ай бұрын
There are a lot of self-appointed experts out there. Be careful what and who you share personal info with. People love to gossip and many are not looking out for you.
@Lonewolf74-g3e3 ай бұрын
Did all 5 but she couldn't 1, even after doing everything without asking for anything and all that was needed were boundaries to be set. When you have friends that are miserable is one thing, but when you don't want to control family when she had full control to, it's another. No need to fight for someone to love you if they're not willing to defend your relationship. In reality it was never there and everything was fake. 💯
@hanten105 ай бұрын
3 weeks ago I caught my girl cheating and the worst situation is she's already slept with the man for many times before. I choose to leave her but still suffering with her doing.
@herbertlewis31054 ай бұрын
Hey man, don't feel like the lone stranger--it has happened to many of us. It hurts, but the best thing to do is to go about your daily business and ride it out. It will take some time, but eventually time will heel your wounds. What I'm about to say might seem weird, but the next time you find someone that you're interested in, don't show your entire hand. In other words, keep about 25% of your feelings in reserve mode. If you can't do without her don't let her know it.
@filthyanimal8744 ай бұрын
Don’t ever go back. She’ll do it again guaranteed. In time you’ll find someone else and you’ll completely forget about her. Guarantee you she’s been with countless guys before. She just got caught this time.
@DivineKnight_1154 ай бұрын
I understand brother. I may not have been cheated on myself but a relationship you thought was going somewhere just breaking down and then being dropped like garbage feels bad too. This pain you suffer with will stay with you but it will strengthen you. For right now you may feel lost, broken, alone, but you aren’t. Most people around you are struggling with battles and sufferings of their own so we are all in this together. Just keep going day by day and slowly but surely the pain will fade like a scar. It’s never going to leave and I can’t lie to you and say it will. What will happen however is you will grow, become stronger if you let it build your awareness, use the pain as motivation to be better than that persons mistakes. I have days where I hardly ever recall my ex, the next day feels like the breakup happened last week, but noticing the time pass and learning that they’ve moved on, so should I has helped a lot. Don’t waste your time worrying about the pain they’ve caused you. Instead focus on working honestly. Grow in humility, and do kindness for others and the pain in your soul will fade and lessen in severity. Eventually it will only leave a battle scar and you will have been refined from it. In order to become beautiful we must burn in the flames of suffering and be refined by the actions we respond with. It’s ok at mess up, but acknowledge that and do better next time. People are here for you and I pray to our lord Christ that he offer you clarity, and strength, for he was able to forgive those driving mine inch nails into his body, if he can do that we can forgive lesser pain. Hope this meets you and helps you, God bless brother.
@Ma-my4jx3 ай бұрын
Hoe are u now?
@igorbruno93524 ай бұрын
2:38 That's exactly what happened to me. I broke up with my girlfriend, after many times she said she was afraid I would leave her.. Her parents used to scare her about that often. Our relationship was wonderful, but she changed with all the psichological pressure they did.
@darrylmorissette92745 ай бұрын
Good advice....just should add " women who listen to TOXIC family members and so called friends. " Family can drive a wedge into the marriage/relationship just as much as toxic friends. If she's not strong enough to be in a marriage/relationship without external interference...then what's the point of wasting your time on that person??? Cut your losses and MOVE ON.
@soham79695 ай бұрын
My ex kept involving her friend between our arguments. I never went back. My privacy and self respect are more important than feelings of mine
@leevang90876 ай бұрын
Every day i visited her and make time for her, but then I realized she never made time for me. Later she found someone new within two weeks... don't come back because that i'll be gone
@racebannon963 ай бұрын
When you are not on someone’s priority list, walk away quietly. There is nothing worse than being in a relationship where you are the only one that is putting in the effort.
@theblackbrazillian765 ай бұрын
These words are memorable! Perfect guidelines for a peaceful life! And some happiness mixed in!
@Truelm-tv2xb3 ай бұрын
Facts & Exact.True Intimacy is between two not 3,4 or more. Privacy & private life are very important. Integrity tells you what's shared & what is private.
@Ndamix6 ай бұрын
Very informative vid...thanks!
@thepsychologybook6 ай бұрын
❤️
@Darkrosejill6 ай бұрын
If lost a man he was not meant to be..noone loses what God appoints
@hoanganhngo-u6x3 ай бұрын
What a great video! I learned so much and was thoroughly entertained. 🌟
@PaulB-justme2 ай бұрын
When I left my first wife after 20 years of marriage, I told myself that the worst thing I would ever do to her was to leave her - but that the worst thing I would ever do to me was to stay with her... It broke my heart to leave, but she just saw me as her slave, and did nothing for me.
@rgTORO_grOSO2 ай бұрын
Same boat
@ironjawwills6 ай бұрын
Very good advice thank you .
@NineToes195 ай бұрын
Just because the woman was the common denominator in ALL her failed relationships.
@jannaghaleiw55045 ай бұрын
Absolutely right and very true, thanks to everyone who participated in the preparation and publication of this excellent video ❤👍💐🌺⚘️💯
@Ryandye26Ай бұрын
I’m going through a divorce now. I spent 20 yrs trying to make her happy and fill the void in her. Now I’m unhappy and have a void in me. Everyday is a struggle. I know I’ll be better eventually. My kids say I’m making the right decision even on days when I do not think I am.
@ChristinaLubumad-l7u4 ай бұрын
😂 Thank you for the video, but remember most of us like to be close to someone cuz I think they don't feel secure about themselves. Of course they always have reasons but I don't think like them and I'm glad . We're all searching for something, so think straight and never trust or depend on anyone no matter what 😂
@burningheart29093 ай бұрын
My ex wife = anxious avoident, emotionally unavailable of 7yrs. Now, I'm a single man with a healing heart and lessons learned. ❤ ☕️
@anthonybowman11243 ай бұрын
December 2019, I got tired of being used, being the one to reach out, make plans, blah blah blah. I stopped contacting everyone in my circle to see who my real people were. Many reached out months and even a couple of years later and some still haven't. Let's just say that circle became a dot
@elainecalder36032 ай бұрын
People who have never been in a relationship, have still got feelings. I am one of those. We just get overlooked. Most people are only bothered about Money.
@AnjuTiwari-f5r6 ай бұрын
Very nice video. It was a masterpiece. I liked it very much
@thepsychologybook6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@HowTalks3 ай бұрын
I know for a fact that the person reading this is really strong. You are really a strong man and your are doing so good! Anxiety is really hard to overcome so be proud of yourself for not giving up. (virtual hug) Remember that everything will be okay, it doesn't matter when, just hang on okay? Hang on. It will come - and after it arrived you will be so happy, happy about the fact that you never gave up. That you are strong. I want you to stand up for yourself, for you future. Time is passing, Always hang on and wait for your happiness to arrive.❤
@thobaniselby28426 ай бұрын
Timeless wisdom spread this wisdom across the globe
@Underestimater_7325 ай бұрын
Your words are so important in our living life.
@thepsychologybook5 ай бұрын
❤️
@goldentiger44355 ай бұрын
you don't know how much I needed this video!, thank you so much! what an eye opener :) especially this part 1:10
@tuvitex17706 ай бұрын
Is it really true i have been doing this all 5 things but she left me like nothing. All the promise planning our future she left me. I didnt leave her why i really loved her i was ready to sacrifice anything for her.
@MG007.6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately you were not loved by her in return. I'm sorry 😞
@Kiwicross19433 ай бұрын
Do not distract pain with pleasure, with work, or with play. Refusing to acknowledge pain, only prolongs suffering. Sit with the pain, feel it in it's entirety. Allow it to take you over, momentarily. Once the pain has run it's course, you will not have to let go of it. IT will let go of YOU.
@jasonw26963 ай бұрын
Amen! I have been a house has been for the last 10 years. I took care of the kids. The farm cooked majority of the meals from scratch ,changed most of the diapers did all the midnight bottle feedings for our son, maintained and repaired all the vehicles did all the packing every time we moved🤦🏻♂️. And she walked out on me for a job in another state 😔
@michaellopez40186 ай бұрын
I lost mine do to Politics, and neglecting her! I am reaping what I have sown!
@Emptytopfloor5 ай бұрын
Politics,….hahaha
@victorlamothe67326 ай бұрын
Very good advice!
@dee63385 ай бұрын
Women lose a good man because they overlook his hardships heart breaks disappointments from other women in the past and some of us reach a point in our lives where we are done telling them about our FEELINGS and will not let another look in to our eyes or even look at another woman the same
@harleylinke2 ай бұрын
well said
@Girish_ji3 ай бұрын
The women who supported me in my lowest is my Mom and my sister.❤️
@arthurdevrome89256 ай бұрын
Genius advices: Always leave your umbrella at home when it’s raining. The rain will respect your confidence and stop just for you.
@Queequeg614 ай бұрын
I had a girlfriend who didn’t like my brother and tried to make me turn against him. That was an easy decision. Hope she’s happy with someone else.
@racebannon963 ай бұрын
Later on she would found another issue to try to control you. Good that you got out.
@Under5104 ай бұрын
This is a really good advice! Appreciate it💯
@thepsychologybook4 ай бұрын
❤️
@accadacastkr49126 ай бұрын
just very recently 8 years and 200k down the drain in the philippines , and i lived for the realationship and the advancement of the property just to findout i was with a theif #piamanzano
@JackLynti5 ай бұрын
Happiness is overrated Happiness is shit waiting to happen Happiness is for the kids, wives and pets Happiness makes you soft
@jokert6153 ай бұрын
Thank you sir.
@nightcore_nex88054 ай бұрын
'Its a relationship not a community project' hits me.
@normaangoelal42095 ай бұрын
Most Men lost a good women also !
@quasimode90385 ай бұрын
For example Brad Pitt. He lost Angelina Jolie.
@BB-fo5mr6 ай бұрын
Some of this is accurate, some of this is absolutely incorrect. Merely rhetoric.
@jonasquedens86856 ай бұрын
great video. i would rephrase one thing tho: it says "people who were in a successful relationship" i would rephrase it to "are in a successful relationship". first of all if it is successful it is still ongoing and also if they are not in a relationship no more they are likely looking (actively or passively) for a new partner.
@Godofhispuppets4 ай бұрын
Very true sadly you don't see it till you lose it
@sangpanyasalud88143 ай бұрын
Sometimes a man lose good girl also coz focus only focus with ex, care less what his feeling in present! .. actions important than words! Miss understood with conversation for confidence.
@jadensteve41986 ай бұрын
Awesome and it's so true in reality! ❤❤❤❤
@thepsychologybook6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lanacaine34556 ай бұрын
*when a PERSON loves you... thanks
@comparecards56886 ай бұрын
My ex took advice from her step mum that has had multiple failed marriages 😂
@laurivaltter6 ай бұрын
xd unlucky tho
@onlineonly99003 ай бұрын
Best video
@thepsychologybook3 ай бұрын
❤️
@ericsmith66774 ай бұрын
sorry but starting around the 1:50 min mark this is totally worng. woman dont nurture men they dont encourage men they dont love you for you and run away at teh first sign of trouble. they dont know commitment and wont work through things
@JordanCatchC3 ай бұрын
They're out there man, but usually they have to learn after making many mistakes. It's nearly impossible in the world we live in to find a good woman who has never made these mistakes. Blame society not them.
@Chuncy5664 ай бұрын
It would have been alot better if you wouldnt.have rushed it thru so fast,i didnt have time to read all of each one,let alone stop and let it sink in so i could concentrate on its meaning. Would there be some where i could study it more closely?
@MalikJohnson-ys5tr4 ай бұрын
Well said
@moubhattacharyay68916 ай бұрын
2:38 No Need To Thank Me!😅
@curtsgab64933 ай бұрын
mainly because of their so called "besties" who are pulling her away
@MacAucha-kiltedbikerReptilian6 ай бұрын
This isn’t true. Most men aren’t attracted to women anymore.
@TimKeachie-o2e6 ай бұрын
how true thanks
@BeADad24476 ай бұрын
Because they were crazy Sea you next tuesdays! We have to teach and protect our boys.
@cristinanascimentocastro56666 ай бұрын
I just miss him
@jckre50612 ай бұрын
Interesting
@RB-uc6os3 ай бұрын
Romans 12:13 Share with the saints who are in need. Practice hospitality.
@denthestorytellers20234 ай бұрын
Thought provoking
@doliful6 ай бұрын
This place behind beautiful heart made of road between vineyards....go visit Slovenia
@ethelmhango28183 ай бұрын
Interesting video ❤
@PremM-r9f6 ай бұрын
2. Is the easiest out of all i can say this with confidence they need help on those were a man strength is needed u literally don't need to do anything They also need some help at house work's it's sooooo normal i have seen this thing's in mu friends, family & relatives Piece of advice: just be a normal human do you're jobs, stay with only one partner, you don't need to be kind or anything this is bullshit u just have to be urself it's good to yourself, it's okay to not be special just live you're life normally and don't overthink or do things that you can't handle stay away from those who always criticized u in everything or toxic people.❤
@TheMchyaby5 ай бұрын
Usually reason 1 is hypergamy, then boredom. Then taking advice from spiteful single women
@Kekilove-n4u5 ай бұрын
Some are just back to their original n beautiful family he lost!!
@SaddamHussain-ed4kb6 ай бұрын
Hats off man u just made my day😊😊😊
@thepsychologybook6 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@janinelehmann6 ай бұрын
And sometimes so-called good men destroy a good woman because she was that .
@CGiam6 ай бұрын
All of THIS! A "good" man/husband doesn't emotionally and mentally abuse their wife to punish them for not obeying them! Many ppl think their "good" when they're actually not!
@StoicLifePrinciples865 ай бұрын
nice video
@Krishna_00225 ай бұрын
thanks man 🙃
@thepsychologybook5 ай бұрын
❤️
@sarangannathapatturamaswam41116 ай бұрын
🙏 GR8 🙏
@paulfitzpatrick65666 ай бұрын
You don’t need much in life to be content. A relationship with Christ when you’ve recognised you’ve broken God’s laws & come to genuine repentance, which then gives you peace of mind which without knowing Christ no one has. Somewhere to lay your head, a dog for a mate ( dogs don’t have agendas like 99.9% of people do nor expectations that they themselves cannot attain ) who will be far loyal than any woman & adequate food to sustain yourself. That’s all you need. People fill their lives with a multiplicity of ‘friends’ who in reality are only there when it’s going well & depart at the first sign of rain & activities thinking that both will bring peace of mind, when the exact opposite is true. Ask any wise man in his 70’s 80’s mature years & you’ll get the same answer.
@hestergreen20316 ай бұрын
Yes
@edlinke2368Ай бұрын
men think with their head women think with their heart so treat it gentely so as not 2 break it
@rgTORO_grOSO2 ай бұрын
I'll say it = perhaps the entire notion of "till death do us apart" is horse 💩for the vast majority. I know lots of stubborn older couples that always appeared miserable for decades and still are, including my own parents... yet they stay together out of fear of being alone and/or convenience. Marrried 16 years here and just now realizing I have been utterly used for the past 10-12. I am DRAINED and yet full of hope for a new beginning...
@chuck39992 ай бұрын
I'll never trust a woman again! Mamy just use a man to get what they want. When the man needs a favor in return, she rejects or dismisses him by using criticisms and abandonment. As much as I would love to be in a healthy relationship, for me, it isn't worth the time or investment!
@gerhard-jx4rn4 ай бұрын
1000 times Amen
@RaheemCh-i4i6 ай бұрын
Thanks all for valuing Dr Blue 🔵😢
@champchamp17745 ай бұрын
I repent for all of my sins. God please save me.
@terryannwomack92736 ай бұрын
❤ Thank you father God/Jesus Christ 🙏
@harleylinke2 ай бұрын
they loose a good man kus they think the grass is greener on the other side