Most Women Won't Level Up

[@intentionalgreatness]

Leveling up is really supposed to be about loving yourself. In doing so you choose men that will love you and give you the best life possible. Of course there's the aspect of choosing men that make a lot of money and looking better with wigs, makeup etc but if self-esteem hasnt improved the level up isn't complete.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

That's what it should be about.

[@user-mw6wp6ce4p]

"You're gym membership betta be kickin' 😂😂😂😂😂 About get my membership 🖐🏿

[@latoyathornton1871]

I've been listening and leveling up uncle rom mind, body and soul.

[@sheloves3663]

A good realistic view point. I always say, you have to be in that percentage either looks wise (why foreigns or more exotic women tend to pull this off since they’re “look” is seen as more in demand) or finance wise to rub shoulders with that caliber of men. Workout, diet, take some etiquette classes, don’t do atypical activities (golf, art studios, etc). Necole Mechelle does a good job of breaking this down well also. And of course, don’t be argumentative and combative or you’ll be irrelevant to them from the jump lol

[@mimia8388]

Cardio kick-boxing, Zuma and salsa will get any woman in shape. Great video. I Like the way you address, highlight the different groups of men with their income level/status and break it down in terms of expectations and so forth. Nicely done. Ladies must also remember to love themselves first so it will be easy to be love by others. Everything in life comes with a price.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Real talk especially about self love.

[@lizzylewis5793]

Ladies this is true, get your body together and stay in shape. Always maintain a nice figure. There is no excuse for looking sloppy. Men want to walk around with a trophy on their arms like barbie, real talk.🏃‍♀️💅👠💄

[@suavelassiter7077]

Put them in game sis I'm looking for my male version of a Barbie doll I need us both turning heads

[@lizzylewis5793]

@@suavelassiter7077 Yes lol

[@lizzylewis5793]

@@Robert-gw4st Ok but thats what yall men are paying attention to. Yall not looking at the hard working, career driven, adjustable 7's are you?

[@rmac8012]

LizzyLewis career driven doesn’t normally equate to cooperative. That’s the point that’s always missed. Yes a man pays no attention to a woman that does not function in his best interest. That’s just nature.

[@jessicavarona8099]

I live in the DC area also. Saw this young white mother pushing one of those sporty looking strollers with one hand and doing bicep curls with the other right outside her condo...they're not playing.

[@nmc1859]

Lol omg isnt that a bit much

[@nmc1859]

Lol. Level up like how? Get hair, nails, and makeup done?? She ra talks about this stuff and acts like there isnt much grey area. Like we could all 'get' a high earning man to take care of us in this day and age. Lol. All those hoops. I would rather get my own masters and well paying job at this point, rather than jump through endless hoops that hold no certain meaning. My husband makes 60, I make 50 and he basically takes care of me as far as food house payment, insurance, etc. I have utilities and my own clothes and such. He cant afford any more than he does. Who would I be to not appreciate who I have?

[@rmac8012]

But some on KZbin will say “you are in your masculine energy” by you working and not staying at home. “You not getting the bag”. 😂😂😂😂 It’s crazy out here with these narratives and talking points. You know that works and there are no complaints.

[@nmc1859]

@@rmac8012 lol. Companies dont pay enough for only one person in a household to work. Then who will be left to buy the makeup and hair do's lol?!! I still work on the femme energy. Dont nag. Give space, etc. But my household is far more stressful if we dont have enough money and that's not good. We need to understand our own circumstances (and they are common now a days) and do our best to be balanced. No it's not always easy

[@devinicole1278]

I believe it... its easy to do it and it takes time...

[@marlboropiked]

Brother Rom, this makes sense to me & I’m sure it makes sense to a lot of other men, but does it make sense to women? All 6 figure men have requirements, whether it’s the blue collar guy that’s barely over it or the office executive that’s well above it. As far as the adjustable 7’s or cooperative 6’s they seem to have an abundance mindset due to them being on social media or multiple dating apps & men being smarter & desiring them also. I think women should definitely understand that leveling up is gonna cost you. You’re not gonna level up & still get to be lackadaisical as if you were FWB’s with Pookie & RayRay

[@speedlife301]

We are very picky I don’t know why. I will give you ladies some advice. Be genuine, nice and a team player. Most men with money didn’t get the women they wanted back in the day so now they only really want that because they put the work in and they know most women only are looking at them as a provider. So don’t have an attitude and put in work for him as well and think he is going to chase you 90/10 because they know female nature now and how to tell when a woman is playing or being real. They have options so you have to put in work or the next woman will because women out number men 10/1 and it gets higher when you consider men in jail, aint shit , gay etc so good attractive men with money , no kids and that want to treat you right don’t grow on trees so when you play games earlier in life you are only playing yourself.

[@geminilove7830]

@Gerard Stevenson Why do you keep mentioning women of other nationalities? BW are not threatened by women of other nationalities. Only BM ( some) are obsessed with women of other nationalities. Real BM love BW. If your so in love with women of other nationalities...go get you one and stop trying to throw it in our faces. #wedontcare #youwillbeback #westillwontwantyou You sound like a bitter, MGTOW, woman hater. And who told you that black men are wanted by all races of women? You obviously have delusions of grandeur. You bitter broke niggas like to go to these other countries and impress these thirsty women with $10 so you can feel rich. Your a weak man...it's obvious. I bet you only make these comments on KZbin but would NEVER say it to our face. Coward!

[@geminilove7830]

@Tasheri How he gone call you a 7 and he looks like a 5 with shades on. That's his opinion. What's hot dogs to him could be steak to someone else. You are beautiful...he is obviously a woman hater! You are so right...a lot of these dudes only get a chance to talk to us on YT. Funny how you never hear men talk like this in person.

[@geminilove7830]

@Mocha Brown and probably broke and/or unattractive!

[@geminilove7830]

@Mocha Brown no, I was agreeing with you. My statement was in addition to what you said...lol. we're good!

[@Andre25167]

Well said speed life

[@thrilla72]

Uncle Rom...TELL 'EM!!! I suspect a certain channel inspired this video.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

I've been hearing that term all over the place.

[@MsJoyce31202]

What y'all aren't nosy like I am? You ladies would know 😉 what Rom has said to the men if you were listening to the men's channel.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

LOL!

[@rmac8012]

They nosey, they just don’t want to listen.

[@David-ej1ps]

Also you need to tell women that with such men they must be prepared to share him with another/other women. Too many women think and actually believe they gonna have such a man to themselves.

[@skyrhymee]

Shera7 lol please collaborate i listen to both of your channels and I find that the combined elements are helpful to elevating life in yourself, outlook of what you're looking for and what you are aiming to achieve.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

This isn't in response to any one woman.

[@skyrhymee]

@@helloladieswithromwills6426 understood.

[@dudewat212]

From a mathematical perspective as you addressed, is the problem that they want the high quality guy or is the problem that they want him *exclusively* ? You are always insightful, Rom. Thank you. (Even in typing the comment, I know some others have made videos on informal polygyny (not polygamy) and its potential impact on the black community).

[@tommyjones1582]

Your math isn't good! Real talk Rom!

[@jamesjeromebell284]

MOST truly I say to you today my friend that women today are truly the epitome of hypergamy not only in regards to just Manning up to the max level for truly not working with men who are creative and ambitious and also a go-getter. I believe that women today need to get the rising star while he's still in that infancy stage so to speak because once a man has it all a woman is just a byproduct of his success and hard work really a true teammate and co-captain of a man's life should be that a woman who is unique beautiful and supportive today though that rarely is the case.JAMES JEROME BELL YOU TUBE AND GOOGLE ME.

[@greendelano]

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