“Mother Having an Affair” | Ask Ganjiswag #86

[@AskGanjiswag]

Thank you for all the love and prayers. I’m sure not most of you make it to the end of the video but there was an update over there - my mamu had passed away after a few hours of this recording. Please remember him in your prayers, thank you.

[@huzaifaali2209]

Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. I am really sorry for your loss. May Allah grant him higher place in Janna. Ameen!

[@deva1831]

RIP

[@hamzazahid3479]

Inna lillahi wa inna illaih rajiouun , Allah apko sabr de lot of prayer goes out to him

[@ports0339]

So sorry to hear it

[@kamranali9826]

Allah unko Jannat naseeb ata farmain Ameen🙏

[@fozyk1099]

My father stopped sending money coz we moved back to pakistan and he was out of job for a long time, all my paternal relatives stopped talking to us. Even when we visited dadi's house, all my phuphos would sit in a separate rooms than us, jinke kamro ke ACs baba ne lagwaye the. So yeah, thats true.

[@alizaidi5974]

sad reality dude 😔

[@Vrtpnwr]

That's so messed up.

[@Samrak-t9n]

Thats so sad😔

[@zeerakkhan1230]

Same here bro...☹️

[@razamughal9095]

Dont ever talk to them either.

[@FarhanKhan-wn1bx]

very sad Junaid that you had to go through this while facing personal loss. I hope your Mamu gets better. I feel for you but deep down I know it's a lost cause. As a nation we are obsessed with self glorification and taking a selfie with you is just a mean to the cause. A sad reality.

[@singhhaa6704]

I think that person is his mamu and not mother.

[@abdul_sami155]

Look at the last slide of the video

[@naila8299]

when he started crying, my heart just broke

[@anasughratdar8045]

Time stamp please

[@ahmedhabib2812]

@@anasughratdar8045 in the beginning 🥹

[@m.huzaifakhan5879]

"Junaid bhai love your dedication" feel very sorry for your Mamu's illness. I am 18 now been watching you for 2 years you are like a teacher to me . I feel very blessed to have a teacher like you who is really teaching us everything from ethics to career growth and much more ...thank you 💓 respect and more power to you.

[@beinghuman721]

Just a suggestion. Please do follow up episodes of Ask Ganji Swag to show whether the situation of the individuals after getting advice from you has improved or not by asking them to keep you updated. I pray and hope that the person of the last email can take the right steps to fix the issue after hearing from you. Keep doing the great work. May Allah give you more strength and courage and your mamo get well soon. Ameen.

[@Osama_Rashid]

Ameen.

[@al-kimiya6962]

if you really think that his feminist solutions can solve anything then you're grossly mistaken, what he's suggesting will only aggravate the situation.

[@MA-wg8lc]

@@al-kimiya6962 says who? What's your degree? Are you qualified as some kind of therapist to decide whose opinion is wrong or whose opinion is right?

[@al-kimiya6962]

@@MA-wg8lc you don't need a degree to call BS a BS, and this feminist nonsense has no place in a muslim society, you can cope and seethe.

[@al-kimiya6962]

@GQ INFINITY he should rather keep his mouth shut if he has nothing else to offer than feminism.

[@sarmadayyaz5547]

me being a 20 y/o listening to these will definitely make me a better person, and I will be able to take better decision.

[@Osama_Rashid]

Best of luck buddy.

[@unknownxsax]

IA

[@hamzestic1281]

best of luck brother, i think the same while listening to his mind

[@mannykhan7752]

Really sad to hear about what happened to you at the hospital. This is a time of emotional trauma and you still managed to be in your senses and handled the situation respectfully. I hope your mamoo gets well soon 🤲

[@sarranasif6705]

Junaid bhai ik you are not gonna read this but for past 2 yrs you were my therapist and cured me of depression ❤️

[@ahsansiddique7496]

Junaid bhai inko fans nahi kehty, they just know you're a public figure, that's why they were taking selfies with you. Agr wo fans hote unho ne apki videos dekhi hoti to wo mature hogye hoty. because these are the things which you mentioned in almost all of your videos. jahalat in Pakistan. Our prayers are with you, i hope everything will be fine very soon iA.

[@abhimanyusingh9384]

It takes courage to take these type of question especially last one and answer it 🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@shahilhassan9415]

Sir i am ur new Indian subscriber and i pray for ur maamu RIP ❤️ I genuinely feeling so good right now after listening u solving people problems and hope for them for a better future. Luv from India 🇮🇳❤️

[@zaeem2893]

Junaid bhai, you know why I watch these sessions of yours. Yes to some extent for social, moral education but more so each time I watch these, I am filled with gratitude for being born to such parents who have ingrained in me such fabric of principles, much of which you preach. That along with Privileges of financial and social class that I am enjoying in this godforsaken land there's too much I've been blessed with that I don't acknowledge. And anytime I have thrived in this world is by being aware of how insanely privileged I am, and that I need to payback to the society. Absolutely love your work... there's literal dearth of such productive content in Pakistan that you churn out. More power to you Sir. God bless!

[@youcantguessit]

I can feel the pain of losing someone. I lost my mother. Ppl usually dont understand the pain which you’re going through. I have faced. May Allah give you sabar and hidayah to others.

[@Osama_Rashid]

Ameen.

[@obaid653]

If the mom was honarable and respectful enough she would've remarried. The children would definitely support this decision. Women at this age and status don't really change. Leave her and move on with your life. Loneliness and darkness is coming for her.

[@AsadAli-jc5tg]

You're nobody to say that. Young guys do married women just for fun and conquest feeling. If your mother would fall in such a relationship, would you say the same?

[@singhhaa6704]

My mother also had suffered from bladder cancer. Its very unusual to have that in women especially. She is an obese woman and struggles a lot even walking. Although by god's grace she survived because it was probably the first stage. Still she needs to have full cystoscopy session every 4 months in a year. Hope your mamu recovers soon. ♥️

[@Billalr818]

He Died. Allah jannat me jaga dey

[@singhhaa6704]

@@Billalr818 Om Shanti 🙏

[@fatimamirza3530]

Oh god, I can feel the pain in your voice in the intro. I'm so sorry you had to go through it

[@SuperPeterpan79]

I am not sure Junaid saheb, but ur todays caption of video "Mother's having an affair" sounded more like haqeeqat news youtube or awam akhbar zameema. may Allah bless ur mamoo saheb.,

[@amberskitchen2899]

last email bht hi sensitive topic pe bat hoi or ap ne bht ache se answer dia bas ALLAH asani farmae usklie

[@some1406]

I feel the pain at 22:19 😭😢. Same thing has been happening to us since the past 25-30 years! But now my father has realised alot that he made a mistake by helping them. The relatives never change and blamed us but now its a little different. اللہ کا شکر ہے۔ Pehly se behtr h!

[@sum_saifainna]

So sorry to hear that, you had to endure so much at such a personal level. The problem is that people have lost empathy and tolerance. They really have no etiquette whatsoever. Thank you for taking time and using this platform to at least address it. Lots of dua for your family.

[@vrindabolinjkar3861]

Om shanti for your departed mamaji 🙏... Very sensible advice given to the last boy having problems with his mother ..but the boy needs to be a little detached from the situation which i know is very difficult ...he seems too tangled in the mess ..

[@talhawaheed1590]

Lots of prayers with you. We hope everything will get well soon ❤

[@rafaysdeck2131]

It is unfortunate that you had to deal with these public figures who do not deserve to be called "fans". The amount of effort you were trying to not shed a tear is inspiring. More power to you Sir. I hope your Mamu gets better and keep it together, Bhai.

[@dauniqueone52]

What an insight , hope you get time and get more and more subscribers to this hidden gem of a channel. Thank you for your time and genuine care to all who are seeking the best advise and trying to resolve complex matters of life.

[@farwanqv]

His comment about life of a woman in Pakistan is spot on. Many woman are being treated badly by their own family including parents, husband, in laws and even kids. No one is ready to even help her in house specially males.

[@Eurostudenti-zohaib]

I am an International student in Italy and during our class project we invented a QR code for visually disabled people which further sent to EU to impose QR code to all clothing tags, groceries and in markets. so that they can Scan and hear what is in the product e.g. it's a white T-shirt with x measurment of sleves, made of wool, price Is x, etc. Our Project is submitted in EU vision 2030. Idk if it would be imposed or not but It showed how much European youth is concerned for EU vision 2030 with inculsivity of disabled people.

[@Eurostudenti-zohaib]

@@noneofyourbusiness8770 bachelor

[@UnboxedGoodies]

Sorry to hear about your mamu, my mother was also a kidney patient and on dialysis, and my aunt was a cancer patient, so I can understand the pain your family is going through. May Allah give him a speedy recovery (Ameen), Lots of prayers ❣

[@haroonabassbatt]

More power to you Junaid bhai. Our prayers are with you and your loved ones. May Allah SWT grant Shifa a qamila to your mamu.

[@abdul_sami155]

Look at the last slide of the video unka inteqal ho gaya

[@haroonabassbatt]

@@abdul_sami155 Allah pak unki magfirat farmayein.

[@remsha321]

Really sorry about the experience you went through at the hospital. Loads of prayers for your mamoo's good health

[@Counter879]

his mamu passed away . rip

[@zunnairaj8091]

Such a real episode.... Sorry for your loss , inna lilahi wa inna elehi rajeoon, you take care

[@hamzazahid3479]

Hey Junaid , i have started following you since you were in UAE :) love your hustle & apkay mamu ko shifa de i will pray for him. I love this series i am started to begin admire you more . I hope this mom guy get in touch with you so junaid bhai you can get clarity . Hopefully logo ki zindagi mai apki solution kaam aye . Huge fan of yours ❤

[@AhmedRaza-pn8lz]

A son needs lots of courage to share this. May Allah help you stay strong

[@AsadAli-jc5tg]

@Waleed Ali Hayat You just can't say that. Also, this KZbinr's advice is trash, that young guy won't marry his mother. It's nothing about being strong and blah blah

[@xyz101ytrr]

Junaid bhai Allah apko apkay waldain specially apki walida ko lambi sehat tandrusti wali umar ata farmawaye. We’re all with you in this tough time. I just pray for betterment of us all as national ethically and morally. Allah asanian kry apky maamlaat mei.

[@Sandman9811]

Hospitals in Canada in "shared wards" have curtain partitions to maintain patients' privacy. Hospitals in Pakistan can have the same setup. All this invonvenience can be avoided.

[@abdullahabbasi3874]

to the last guy! bro leave that woman and pray for her, start ur own business or work somewhere, everyone has options she had too and chose worst and if u love ur mental health leave as soon as u can

[@cherishgp]

Sorry for your loss

[@embee007]

Sad for your Mamu, totally cruel world. People are strange. Allah sab ko hidayat day. Prayers for your Mamu, may Allah give all of you the strength to cope with all and ease his pain. Ameen

[@AMITZ9]

Regarding last question: That boy should talk to her sisters and tell them the whole story. And they all brother sisters should talk to their mother about the problem, because if he talk to that guy who is coming at night he will surely say Kay meri galti nhi hai, she ask me to come toh phir Kuch kehnay ki BAAT hi nhi rahegi, Maybe his mother is being blackmailed by that guy?

[@mnawaz76]

Very saddened to hear about your maamu. May Allah bless him and give you all the patience to bear with this situation which is definitely not easy. Stay strong, maybe his family needs your strength and mental support to get through this. All the best.

[@Daniyal.raza1]

Junaid bhai is Auladon k Tariq Jameel, you hit the nail right at the point whenever I watch any epi of AskGanjiSwag. Lots of love & respect brother. One more thing, I have learned a lot of social ethic & personal hygiene etc by listening you.

[@ammarmunir9126]

I have also gone through kidney and bladder problem. It gives you very severe pain. One of my mamu is also suffering from kidney failure. He is diabetic and didn't take care of it. Eventually it affected his kidneys and now he has to go through dialysis two days in a week. My prayers are with your mamu. May Allah bless him good health.

[@WajahatAK]

Man, you really made me cry at the start. Stay strong. Really fame is hard thing to handle. Btw prayers for your mamu and you 😇

[@amberzulphiqar5]

I used to watch your podcast but aaj ye pehli bar dekha! You are a gem! 🌝❤️

[@mianqasim7112]

For the last guy! Bro literally I'm in tears! Dua hi Kar saktay hain! Allah apko jald koi hal de! Bro you are the strongest person here right now! 💔💔

[@AsadAli-jc5tg]

What do you mean? You don't understand his position, I can.

[@botpolice429]

​@Asad Ali my mom has also had extramarital affairs with 4 men 😢

[@AsadAli-jc5tg]

@@botpolice429 Sach?

[@roughrider4048]

I am very sorry Junaid Bhai for the trouble you are going through and also the dumb situation you had to go through. I can understand your situation, you are depressed because someone close to you is going away and people not understanding your pain and joking about it with you. I have been in a similar situation (when my pet cat passed away). Anyways, I wish that Allah Tallah bless you and your family members with Sabr-e-Jameel.

[@comradesalman7625]

Pet cat lol..What a Burger boy..Learn not to compare animals with humans.

[@saadhasnat3730]

إِنَّا لِلّهِ وَإِنَّـا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعونَ

[@ranaehtishammanj3841]

I am visually impaired: Suffering from Stargartd’s disease since birth. Studied with normal children throughout, used to get bullied too. I remember I was unable to see the board throughout but studied just by hearing what the teachers used to teach. Alhamdulillah managed to get an MBA degree from Lahore School Of Economics and working in corporate for 10 months earning close to 6 figures. Although I’ve done better than many people with the same disability but the system was never kinder to me considering my disability. There are no special jobs, no inclusion in regular schools and universities for people like me.

[@amunadil]

kudos to you ❤

[@bassam2013]

If you want to ruin someone then start giving him money. This is the easiest way to do it and the crazy thing is that person will be indebted to you without realising what has happened.

[@batsy941]

I am sorry to hear about the situation

[@zayyanaworld5307]

Very sad. May Allah gives a very speedy recovery to your mamoo. Ameen. And please keep us updated about his recovery.

[@namerak9564]

May Allah Almighty bless him with eternal peace in the hereafter and grant you and your family the patience to bear this loss. Ameen

[@asimkhan915]

Really sad to hear about what happened to you at the hospital. sorry to hear that your mamoo passed away. RIP.

[@HaqShanaas]

I normally watch your videos im 2x but ... start ka sara part mene normal speed se suna.. 💔 khuda sabr de apko. Is dukh ko samjh sakta hon 🙏🏼 ... to apka mood acha karne ke liye pichay mortein ki bhi marketing ho rahi hai 😊 khush rahen junaid bhai ❤ bro hain aap

[@syedbilalhussain]

It's sad to hear about your mamu. May Allah give him speedy recovery in sha Allah.

[@shaziasaund2203]

I’ve been waiting for it for so many days 😁

[@Rampageneski]

Yah, I studied in Australia both bachelor's and master's from UC , and went back for few months in Lahore, tested the job market and my uncle hired me at his consultancy , end of the month I was given 10,000 RS lolz. I loved that pay cheque, proudly gave that to my parents lol but came back to Australia..lolz and the Gov here hired me straight away, wasn't meant to be I guess but when I look back now, it does bother me that our society is wired differently when it comes to money.

[@jdmkill319]

Bruh 10k??I`d frame that cheque if i was you,Plus you should appreciate your uncle for opening your eyes.

[@Hilder221]

Yar muje aik cheez samajh nahi ari. Mai kisan hun. Muje potty chahye. It has a high percentage of Nutrients that are beneficial for the soil and hence grow more mangoes. Mera sawal yeh hai. Mere paas 100 qeema hai. Woh aik banday ko ya 10 banday ko khilau tou kaun zyada potty dega. Aik banda ya 10 banda. Qeema 100 hai. Zyada potty kahan se milaygi? Bohot important question hai. Soch kay btaye. We are an agricultural economy.

[@hirasaman]

It’s so so sad . Inal lil lahe wa inna ilahe rajioon. May Allah give you and your family sabar May your mamoo’s soul Rest In Peace 😢 I don’t know how you are making that video when u are already so broken and then taking those emails . Need big heart and courage to listen to other peoples problem when u are already in pain . May Allah ease their pain also and helps them Ameen .

[@basitchohan113]

I'm currently preparing for my MDCAT (entrance test exam for MBBS/BDS) only few days are remaining I even don't have a time for lunch or dinner but I watched your all videos specially Asked videos cos it's really teach us alot

[@SPEED_ZONES]

Bro Good luck 🤞

[@yashtricky]

@@SPEED_ZONES mai bhi apne NEET ( Indian exam for medical) ke time pe suna krta tha jab bhi tension si hoti thi , aaj bhi mbbs me hoti hai toh bhi dekhta hu.

[@saimazahoor8823]

My condolences to you and your family. May Allah grant you all the courage to endure his absence from your lives and he rests in eternal blessings. Aameen

[@ravindrasharma9200]

I pray for your mamu. May his soul rest in peace 🙏🙏.

[@noumansaghir6382]

It is mentioned in hadeeth that the best money is that which one spends on his family.🥀

[@farhanaqureshistories]

Bro, Hats off to you by telling the truth

[@dr.farooqhabib3925]

Junaid bhai take your time do not do these episodes while your mamu is unwell. Take care of him and yourself. KZbin can wait fans can wait

[@fabihagm9593]

Talking helps. Let him vent out. Must show care like you did though.

[@Moazzautomates]

Very sad to hear people don’t understand basic ethics but Dua karaingay Pakistani family Ke liye , if you have anything for us to help we all are here

[@Nostalgia111]

Junaid Bhai more power to you aik AP hi hu ju hamare emotions ku samaj saktey hu.

[@makkhan5216]

The last mom simply should re-marry ...instead of sleeping with guys.. thers no excuse that her husband died .. she wouldn't want her daughters doing that in life

[@6xhussain992]

Such a Amazing Podcast Junaid Bhai Learned Alot From These Kind Of your Podcast

[@sarasaadi1948]

May Allah grant him the highest place in Jannah. May Allah ease this painful situation for you and your family. Aameen

[@Zeeshan_Tanwri]

💔 i am so sorry junaid bhai, it was heart breaking

[@umairkhan-fd9yi]

Last Question... Sometimes i feel Junaid bhai todhe Allah ke aur kareeb hote...to in sawaalo ke behtar jawaab de paate... Sometimes Allah has the answers your worldly wisdom doesn't..

[@amughal7101]

So sorry for everything you went through Junaid Bhai, Allah Sabar de

[@labnankhan694]

Can't see u as a broken may all bless your mamo and recover him soon and best wishes ♥️ that his surgery may successfull because u gathered us and make us strong to fight against our problems and stand .deeply and personally praying for u u stand for us my hero and mine and my family prayers are with us

[@honainaali]

LEARNT ALOT DEFINITELY JUNAID SIR YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS HELPS ME COPING UP WITH MY LIFE

[@ryoxwolfiya9198]

I feel sorry for the bad times you have to come across. Many prayers for health of ur Mamu but people need to understand how to act maturely in these critical situations!

[@Umair114ahmed]

Great advice for the last guy, as weird/awkward as it may be, its the right thing to do. She's your mother, God knows what shes been through, yet she accomplished alot. Help her, dont hate her. You can hate what she does but don't hate her, shes your mother and try to talk to her, help her. Its a difficult thing but you need to do it.

[@catgirl000]

Father ne sari umar apne (joint family wale Ghar) ko bnaya.germany beth ke pese bhejte rahe .bhabhiyon ko gold bhi bnwa k dia. Ab jab kerna chor diya halat ki wajah se to sab chor gayi.father became addicted to smoking.left heart broken💔

[@F-Khan491]

May Allah send your mamu to the highest place in Jannah. May Allah give you and your family patience. You are a brave man Junaid. Our prayers are with you.

[@aliadeeb1347]

Junaid bhai you are outstanding person❤

[@mehreengul3618]

You speak reality.thanks sir for guidance.

[@ImCyberBhai]

Really sorry to hear abt ur mamu .. May his soul RIP.. tc bro be strong

[@getcraftywithrm1762]

Mai nyapnilifeka ak bara hisa pedaish sy lay kr bahir guzara. Jab pakistan ai. Tou baehisi deakhkr insanou ki rona a gya. Or still ata. Ajh ap ki bat sun kr dobra a gya. Allah humae hidayat dye

[@PrimeFinds__]

Bro that Cigarette part where you Comforted your Mamu really got me mahn. Stay Blessed man. Hoping good for the Mamu

[@muhammaddanishchaudhry5425]

InshAllah she will be fine.

[@VoiceofRK18]

09:30 I haven't been in the bank for past 7 years. Even though I'm a self employed person, I am from India 🇮🇳

[@AdamRecap]

Not really a big feat

[@Ilmaaa_hasan]

Innal lilahi wa inna ilahi raj'un I am sorry for your loss but you must know that he is at much much better place then here. He is no more in pain and free from all the obligations. Allah Taala give sabar to you and your family. Lots of duas

[@sohail_tanwar]

Visually impaired can try to become accessibility tester as now a days every website/app need to be compatible with visually impaired people especially in US and Europe, you can do freelancing or can work as full time employee of any software company in testing department, i have two friends who is visually impaired and are working as accessibility tester in MNC

[@Saifsal33m]

Happened with my dad also. He was sending his dad money every month after we moved to the US. My parents used to fight a lot because of that. But little did he know, the money my dad was sending to his dad, was actually for his brother (my chachu) who didn’t work, who had a wife and 3 kids. When my dad found out about it, he stopped sending money and of course my dada got against him overnight and told him to fuck off and you’re not my son anymore like what the actual fuck!! My dad realized that my mom was right and admitted to his mistake and felt backstabbed. But Alhamdulillah Allah is there and watching everything and gives justice in this life or the hearafter.

[@SalmanNaqviOfficial]

Extremely sorry for this society Junaid. May God Bless You and Your Maamu

[@BZD1911]

I am so sorry Junaid bhai. May God bless your mamu with speedy recovery.

[@talhaqureshi3422]

Stay strong man.

[@zoyasaad0]

The first few minutes broke my heart

[@shahzaibalisajid5841]

Greetings all! Addressing the first query, individuals with disabilities often experience ridicule, particularly in Pakistan. While I cannot speak for other nations, it is imperative that we rally behind and offer our support to those navigating challenges related to disabilities.

[@omkardatar5794]

Don’t worry your mamu gets better .. may god bless him 🙏🏼

[@jawadghani4135]

Mate, I feel for you. May Allah Bless you and your family and give all of sabr. I always say we need to socially educate our public... Take it easy mate and stay Blessed

[@aroosrao6699]

May your mother feel better soon ❤

[@shamsuzzuhadanwer3991]

I wish all the health to your mamu and may Allah give you strength in this testing time.

[@jaintango]

Same perfume for mother and wife cracked me up :D

[@gulzaman556]

Just an opinion for this channel. I truly understand junaid bhai that ur intentions are good and pure you want ppl to be heard but Junaid you need to have a small team of psychologist and well-educated religious scholar to address such issues because ppl are literally asking for advices from you that can turn their lives into good or worst . and we know you do your best too in ur capacity to address their issues but sometimes that is not enough we need other minds to get the best possible solution.