Motherhood is Hard! How I'm Coping | My Reality

[@liwilliams2151]

Journaling my thoughts to read later. Calling the Village, and support group.

[@toniagrant275]

Congrats on your new prince, and motherhood is very difficult especially with a toddler and a baby! Enjoy your day blessed be to your family as well as everyone😊🙏🏾

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Thank you 🙏

[@liwilliams2151]

Enjoy the circle of life moments. It takes a village.

[@Onyiiiiiii]

I agree with you 💯 %. Motherhood is a ministry, please be prepared for it by prayer. Thank you so much for this message.

[@dearbreanna]

More content like this, Charity. I’m not a wife or mother yet still I love your approach to motherhood. Praying for your continual strength, faith and grace in motherhood and wifehood🙏🏾

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Amen, thank you and noted (as far as content)

[@priscilladebrah2]

May God continue to strengthen you and others that needs help as well.

[@DW-tt8si]

I cherish my time as a single woman. I feel like I've accomplished soo much in my personal and professional & have been longing for >10yrs to experience life as a wife and mother. 🙏

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

So glad to know that you are a profitably busy single! Please keep investing in yourself. I pray the Lord grants your heart's desire to be a wife and mom.

[@Neisha_G]

I’m going to implement the Biblical scripture prayers for my girls. That’s amazing that your mom is capable to help care for your children. You are so right about everything you said. ❤ The way I cope with motherhood is praying for my children (newborn and 6 year old) and always ask for God to bless me with strength, energy and guidance I need to be a good mom and child of God in Jesus name because I can’t and don’t want to do things in my own strength I need the Lords help.

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Prayer is truly the most important aspect of motherhood.

[@jsole3]

Congratulations once again Sis Charity! I agree with all the points you mentioned! It’s very important to identify the areas of help and seek for help. I used to be narrow minded and fearful about seeking help because I want to be really careful about who I have around my children especially because of the tender age they’re in but I quickly realized I need to put that fear away in God’s presence. Once I prayed and received guidance, then there’s no need to fear anymore. One way I cope with motherhood is to just enjoy it. I have a 5yr old, a 4yr old and 3month old. Children will be children and I understand my home may not be as organized as I want it to be and that’s okay. Another way is selfcare, it’s really important to take time out for me. The more I pour into myself, the more I’m able to be pour into my home. I enjoy going for walks and I do that as much as possible, just me. Other times, I take myself out for shopping as much as possible even if I don’t end up buying anything, I am refreshed by the time I get back. The dishes can wait, I can come back to sweep the floors and fold that laundry etc. I ask hubby for help when possible. I’m so thankful to him, he’s always ready to help and 75%of the time, he the dedicate shower person for the kids. I also, let my 5 and 4 yrs help as well. We all have our own basket of clothes in the closet and so once I’m done with laundry, I fold them (my daughter offers to help as well sometimes) and let them take it to the clothes basket. Lastly, I somewhat have a schedule but I know each day is different so I’m not so rigid about it. Prioritizing what needs to get done we’re good.

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Wow! Thank you for taking the time to write ✍️ these helpful points, Sis Joy!

[@PhalesChewe-u4h]

You have so much wisdom ❤

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom..." Proverbs 9:10

[@mercyoni4804]

Very good job 👍🏽 my dear Charity! You are making a difference to your generation! More grace to you In Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen 🙏🏽!

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Amen! Thank you, mommy Mercy 😊🙏.

[@CoilyDiaries]

As a mum to a 12 month old, I relate 💯! It’s very hard! It’s like everything stops as you have a whole human to tend to for everything. Very beautiful and rewarding but it’s not a decision to take lightly ❤

[@inpursuitofholiness416]

Amen. May God bless you and your family. May He give you the grace and wisdom to bring up your children in the right way and to be a gracious wife

[@DavidLoveJanet]

Just catching up!! Nice one . And well done!!! With Gods grace you’ll continue to get used to it and God gives you grace in each season!!!!

[@DavidLoveJanet]

I fall asleep when my body needs too 🤣🤣

[@gailvargas6416]

In the church of God. We as wives stay home and take care of our children. In the church of God, the husband's are the bread winners for the family. We live in NYC and we never saw the rightous forsaken or his seed begging bread. We love to obey the word. Staying home and not going out to work, as Titus 2:5 says, as wives, we keep a watch on our own children and safe guard them against those who would want to hurt and harm our children. God has blessed us greatly.

[@mercyoni4804]

The proverbs 31, woman worked and still took very good care of family and her children turned out very well and her husband was recognized for good by all. If you choose to stay home and not have a profession, it’s your choice. God bless you richly and give you understanding.

[@mercym3078]

Yes. The bible is never against wives who are not stay at home moms and have careers outside the home.

[@gailvargas6416]

We all can do things that seem right in our own eyes. We must stick with bible principles. The bible tell us that a wife should be a keeper at home. This doesn't take away from the wife, or her being mother. It gives her more time to devote to training her children in the fear of God and the keeping of the home. The day care or public school cannot train your children, the way God's say to train them. Home school is the best.

[@omi_abena]

We've missed you so much.. can't wait for amazing content😊❤

[@tumimajek923]

Congratulations!!! All you said is right! Please can I ask the Bible scriptures you use to pray over your children. I have a 17month old

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

I am still compiling scriptures but one of the scriptures that I love is "For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure." Philippians 2:13 My prayer: oh Lord create the willingness in my children to choose to love and do your will in all things. I pray they serve God out of genuine love for God.

[@triple_T]

Needed this!!! thank you so much

[@LYou-gz3uz]

Great video! Great information!

[@melindas2046]

Congratulations girl ❤❤

[@everythingmrs.charityumar]

Thank you!🙏