"You don't get to be good-hearted by accident-you get kicked around long enough, you get to be a real professor of pain"-isn't that the truth!
@the777john3 жыл бұрын
First time I've ever seen this clip and he's speaking ageless truths in this one.
@datsnuffydude54602 жыл бұрын
Damn straight.
@treyichabod5840 Жыл бұрын
I felt that. My ancestors felt that.
@clips001ify Жыл бұрын
Paddy Chayefsky’s poetry of the common man….professor of pain. Phrases like that.
@isolda9804 ай бұрын
Yes!
@daveconleyportfolio51925 жыл бұрын
The best writing in the scene is when she quietly gives her age, and he tells her his. It is both a confession, and a proposal.
@BruceJC754 жыл бұрын
That is a great analysis. I like that.
@lucindaarmour46853 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said.
@Robobongo882 жыл бұрын
It's beautiful!
@zhongwa2 жыл бұрын
But was she really 29? That little hesitation before she said it, makes me wonder.
@prayingmantis67772 жыл бұрын
I don't get the proposal meaning.
@vincentthompson16084 жыл бұрын
She's adorable. I love how she told him " I'm 29 years old" like she fully expected Marty to run off upon hearing that. This movie was made well before I was born but the story and message is timeless.
@corsaircarl95824 жыл бұрын
I assume being that age and single was a bad thing in the 50s?
@tom11zz8844 жыл бұрын
@@corsaircarl9582 Very bad indeed If a woman didn't marry by a certain age, she was called a " SPINSTER", and had all kinds of negative meanings attached to it.
@anafernandez36794 жыл бұрын
And she is not so beaute... The both are ugly for the cannon of beaute,but persons with feelings
@anafernandez36794 жыл бұрын
@@theiceman6941 the feelings makes them no ugly...
@breeeegs3 жыл бұрын
I don't think she's ugly at all
@Psergiorivera6 жыл бұрын
This dialogue is so GOOD, this is some real heart to heart talk here!
@TravelinBand7474 жыл бұрын
Paddy Chayevsky, the writer, was excellent at that. He killed it in "Network" and "The Hospital" too.
@ZetaReticuli_2 жыл бұрын
That's what made their relationship so beautiful, and why you root for Marty even more. The connection the two characters had was something real, not just infatuation.
@somethingyousaid50595 жыл бұрын
"You get kicked around long enough... you get to be a... a real professor of pain." Paddy was a great writer.
@ThomasHoag-k7d5 ай бұрын
Ernest Borgnine brought such believability to his role. He made Marty real and life-like.
@cynthiahawkins23895 жыл бұрын
Marty feels so comfortable with Clara from the start, they talk so easily. His family nags him to find a girl. Then when he DOES find a girl he really likes, who likes him..everyone starts objecting. Interesting, eh??
@eunahhunter49364 жыл бұрын
Encouragement then pessimism
@BruceJC753 жыл бұрын
Nothing has changed in 66 years.
@deacondawg14163 жыл бұрын
Yep interesting Indeed
@jabronisauce6833 Жыл бұрын
That's why you don't listen to others even family, don't live your life based on other people's opinions.
@Josh-fp2qn Жыл бұрын
Really, what kind of girl did his family expect Marty to get? A super model?
@MelancoliaI5 жыл бұрын
There's something about this amazing movie. It aims for nothing but the heart and soul of its audience. And never misses the mark.
@hanahkush32635 жыл бұрын
She's not ugly
@mikev85774 жыл бұрын
Not by today’s standards.
@JW-cr2lk4 жыл бұрын
Neither is he tbh
@HaIsKuL3 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for him to tell her she's not ugly, but if he said that, it'll take away from the message that it's not about just looks, at least that's what I think the reason is.
@antonivsfortis9 ай бұрын
They're both gorgeous!!
@hollowknight33427 ай бұрын
Being and believing are 2 different things, brother
@QuietlyCurious10 ай бұрын
His speech here made me shed tears. So heartfelt & compassionate.
@FilmandTVFan4 жыл бұрын
This has quickly become one of my favourite scenes in any film PURELY by how realistic and relatable the dialogue is! Marty is a true masterpiece. Totally deserved the Best Picture and Best Actor! Made me cry ;)
@mjt11860 Жыл бұрын
Lol, ur comment made me cry. Such a sweet movie.
@Fr.StevenSchuneman8 ай бұрын
Marty is an amazing and beautiful film with tremendous acting with these two characters. I think its the best work Borgnine ever did. He deserved the Best Actor Oscar for a moving performance that brought tears to my eyes.
@uslines4 ай бұрын
I agree! In fact, I believe it is one of the top ten American films of all time.
@chrisn72594 ай бұрын
So glad I had the opportunity to tell this great actor how much Marty meant to me. He was so gracious, and admitted it held a special place in his heart.
@RSTI1913 ай бұрын
I love how the camera pulls back at the end of the scene and they dissolve into the crowd.. This movie was filmed beautifully..
@lv10235 жыл бұрын
We are all Marty.
@Rinesmyth5 жыл бұрын
Exactly that.
@bertroost16753 жыл бұрын
some more than others
@anitakathait57373 жыл бұрын
69 likes. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.
@HBMHD2 жыл бұрын
But I thought Ryan Gosling was literally us :v
@EliHank Жыл бұрын
Cope. Only conventionally unattractive guys can be Marty's. Conventionally attractive, desirable men and all Women can never be Marty
@hamburg13064 жыл бұрын
The sensibilities reflect the times. The dog references and Marty referring you his father as ugly in appearance. But the sentiments are what keeps the story relatable after all these years. Marty’s despair that he’s been holding back comes out. It’s heart wrenching to hear and the heart of the story as these two characters finding love and finally happinesses.
@AZrakoon2 жыл бұрын
I like to think after the movie, they both got married and live together till their passing.
@BruceJC755 жыл бұрын
By the time I finish school I’ll be 34. Maybe I could be so lucky as to find someone so genuine and lovely.
@halfmettal3 жыл бұрын
School at the age of 34? What school is that, genuinely curious.
@BruceJC753 жыл бұрын
@@halfmettal well no more school now. I went back to become a Physical Therapist Assistant, but I failed. I’m still a massage therapist, so I guess I’ll have to be satisfied to be a blue collar man like Marty lol.
@wellknown12043 жыл бұрын
@@BruceJC75 hey, best of luck with your work, and whatever future you are planning to have. Not everything is going according to our plan, but it's how we handle the alternative. Keep up the chin up, friend!
@stanleykijek6983 Жыл бұрын
@@halfmettal Today, people of all ages attend school for many reasons, although mainly to advance their careers. Back in them days, most people only had 1 career their entire working lives, so unless one was an engineer, doctor or high tech job, going back to school was not necessary.
@LordSmatchy Жыл бұрын
@@BruceJC75well hoping life is treating you well regardless. It’s refreshing to see so many new generations of people appreciating this special film. This was made decades before I was born but it’s story and message are moving and so warm.
@zhongwa5 ай бұрын
She said she's 29, he's 34. My parents were barely out of their teens when they married. I guess in those days, that was considered "old".
@reneehurt3872 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace and birthday wishes to Betsy Blair. 12. 11. This has always been a touching scene, made even more so by how it was played
@rirobjr3 жыл бұрын
What I don’t understand is how anyone would think Ernest Borgnine was anything but HANDSOME! Man he was good looking!
@bertroost16753 жыл бұрын
He combed his hair and dressed well. He had respect in his appearance. Today people wear pajamas to walmart.
@29subhra3 жыл бұрын
@@bertroost1675 sad
@QuietlyCurious10 ай бұрын
Ikr, he's very masculine too which is appealing
@martinbench36573 жыл бұрын
This Paddy Chayefsky , he sure can write ( :
@corsaircarl95824 жыл бұрын
Oh god Marty's my age... *tears up*
@caramellopippop71904 жыл бұрын
It's interesting how mid-thirties for them is considered old and mid-thirties for us is still quite young.
@CongregationEmanuElSF4 жыл бұрын
This was back in the 50s! And most women (not all, but most) didn't wait until 29 to get married.
@92AlexanderS2 жыл бұрын
It is not as young as we think it is. We are just fooling ourselves.
@stanleykijek6983 Жыл бұрын
Even in 1970, a person who just turned age 70, was considered to be near the end of life. At that time, living to age 80 was a huge accomplishment as perhaps only 25% of the population living before 1970 would eventually make it to 80. Living to age 90 and beyond was a rarity then.
@alexvig23697 ай бұрын
People today are delusional - being in your 30s isn't that young either. Especially for women - pregnancy at 30 is _not_ easy.
@ElFino0133 ай бұрын
It's still like that in Japan, if a girl doesn't have somebody by the age of 25 then they are looked at like expired food. Search the term Christmas Cake Japan.
@knowthispodcast9182 Жыл бұрын
This movie should be required viewing. I’m just blown away how relevant this film is today.
@arriuscalpurniuspiso7 ай бұрын
More than ever. Do looks matter? This is a great scene
@ozlozano94702 жыл бұрын
I watched this movie when I was in my 30’s seems so long ago. It was relevant then as it is now. I’m a butcher. And I’ve been kicked around so much that I’ve become a master. Maybe that’s why I’m such a nice guy. In the silence I can hear my soul cry out for the truth of this film.
@sidpheasant75852 жыл бұрын
My grandad was dear to me. He was a butcher (well, butcher's boy first, later delivery-van driver, but ended up with the whole shop). Not a pretty job, and - amazingly - this was a guy who would never have hurt any animal (or person) in any other context. It was always important to him that animals should not suffer. He had the chat, especially for ladies who came to the shop (in those days the customers were nearly all female). He was quite a good-looking guy in fact (more so than Marty), yet he married a woman (my grandma) frankly less good-looking than he was. Interesting how that happened. 10 years on from the wedding, that wife was dead - TB. A year later it would have been treatable, but she got ill just too soon. She spent 6 months in bed, before things got really bad and she had to be looked after by her husband's sisters. She died at their home, so that my dad would not have to witness the whole process. Grandad took to tobacco and beer. But somehow he stopped smoking at the right time to save himself. He also stopped using a motorbike at the right time to save himself (when the roads started to get more busy). Years later he stopped drinking at the right time to save himself. And he lost weight at the right time to save himself. And years after the first marriage he had a second one, which was happy. He was a good man, a kind man, though maybe he tried a bit too hard to jolly along everybody around him, even though of course he was hurting inside. It was his way, it was his mission. And he had his integrity. Whoever he talked to, he was looking for a connection with them, and it was amazing how often he found one! He was much-loved by quite a few people, and although he was not born into any family of that kind, he was a gentleman and a gentle man. He did not swear, though it would have been natural for him to do that; and one of the MANY pieces of wisdom he passed on to me was that "no matter what you do, some people will just not like you". Although he had a few blood-pressure issues, he died in his 80s having been ill for only a couple of weeks. Was God kind to him, even when life was not so kind? I think so. And I think he deserved that. I am sure he had a deeper side, but it was not visible too often. However, once in the 80s (never mind about 2022), he said "I think we have already seen the best times there will ever be". That was rather odd for a guy who had lived through WW1, Spanish Flu, The Depression, WW2 and a lot of other stuff. But looking back from the last few years it is hard to say that he was not right...
@mjt11860 Жыл бұрын
Such a heartwarming story. Thanks for sharing.
@applesandgrapesfordinner4626 Жыл бұрын
@sidpheasant7585 Sounds like a phenomenal gentleman. I think it shows that, ultimately, the love for yourself matters before you're ready to love the world.
@hamburg13064 жыл бұрын
Marty and Clara talking about crying suddenly in private is relatable and painful to hear.
@valteraugusto66174 жыл бұрын
I just LOVE this movie.I even bought a dvd of it 9 years ago.
@professionaltrollgirl26822 жыл бұрын
Hi
@omkarsangvikar41663 жыл бұрын
That was a great era and making of movies
@Fr.StevenSchuneman Жыл бұрын
What a great performance these two actors gave.
@m.e.d.79976 жыл бұрын
He got that right about looks. Looks will never hold a man.
@robrick93614 жыл бұрын
......but without them you can't get him in the first place
@joselaw66693 жыл бұрын
@@robrick9361 Because he isn't a man
@robrick93613 жыл бұрын
@@joselaw6669 Yeah that's a load of BS. Even my cousin who's a Dr and not usually shallow still wanted a guy who's over 6ft tall. Now you're using shame to manipulate men into not desiring what they desire. Grow up.
@bertroost16753 жыл бұрын
@@robrick9361 Ahhh the list.
@pl3bx2 жыл бұрын
@@robrick9361 Are you implying having standards for appearance is inherently a shallow thing?
@mrabrasive516 жыл бұрын
I'm 34..that's 5 in dog years!
@mjt11860 Жыл бұрын
I never thought she was ugly. She may not have been incredibly beautiful, but she was very attractive. I'd prefer her over any of the Kardashians.
@johnhewitt13245 ай бұрын
Ernest Borgnine wasn’t acting. I had a personal encounter with him the experience was wonderful he was with his wife and he was genuinely kind and sincere.
@bruce3242 Жыл бұрын
Such a lovely film recently saw it for the first time absolutely delightful.... A film about love at its purest and a film about the human condition, anyone who hasn't seen this gem should check it out immediately
@garichar Жыл бұрын
This movie is so beautiful.
@chikaliciousdessert18383 жыл бұрын
These two crushed it!
@AZrakoon3 жыл бұрын
You have that conversation today, and the other person will think something is wrong with because your so blunt.
@YouTubeallowedmynametobestolen4 ай бұрын
"You're not such a dog as you think you are." You sweet-talker, you!
@jfq72232 ай бұрын
A wordsmith he was.
@caravanstuff28273 жыл бұрын
What a charmer .... he's got the" chat down pat" as the young people say....in the 50s!!.😂😂😂😎
@anitakathait57373 жыл бұрын
From a younger generation, can you please explain your comment.
@WinslowLeach19743 жыл бұрын
"Professor of Pain" if Marty was a singer that would be his next album title.
@maureencora15 ай бұрын
Yeah, Like Sting Song "King of Pain"
@geedee74635 ай бұрын
They're not even ugly lmao
@SharonPadget5 ай бұрын
This movie speaks about the real value of human beings and what loving relationships should be about. Wonderful, but I do think the main characters may have been suffering from depression which wasn’t recognized in those days. Fine film.
@IdlesQueen5 ай бұрын
Such a classic
@nole8796 Жыл бұрын
Great acting. See why he got the academy award.
@arriuscalpurniuspiso7 ай бұрын
They don't make them like this anymore. Great wtiting and acting.
@antonivsfortis9 ай бұрын
They're so cute together 😭😭
@meatflu23711 ай бұрын
Professor of pain sounds like a hell of a nickname
@Mark-yb1sp3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@manuginobilisbaldspot4244 жыл бұрын
What's interesting to me is the fact that a guy like Ernest Borgnine could be a leading man. Joe LoTrulio from Brooklyn 99 looks SO MUCH LIKE HIM, but wouldn't get a movie role as affecting as this nowadays. IDK if it's the reaction to the complaints about Adam Sandler/Seth Rogan types getting hot women or just the lack of creative ideas to make real romantic movies, but you don't really see them like this much anymore in the cinema. There's always got to be a humorous element. I love this movie because we much more like Marty than we're like Bradley Cooper or Jon Hamm or Michael B. Jordan or any of these leading men. And it grounds that reality in to something worth rooting for.
@kevinalarcon81342 жыл бұрын
Dude i see you everywhere lol
@RevLeigh554 ай бұрын
This is my second all-time favorite movie. (“The Best Years of Our Lives” is number one).
@GoGoWhoa644 ай бұрын
This is such a great movie. When I first saw it I didn't want to take my eyes off it.
@martinbench36573 ай бұрын
Top 5 for me Marty , American Graffiti , 3 Days of the Condor , The Apartment , The Quiet Man
@adriencarver57222 жыл бұрын
God, he just kills this monologue.
@somethingyousaid50595 жыл бұрын
Marty: "So it doesn't matter if you look like a gorilla." Well now I don't think I'd go that far. (Laughing)
@charlene-zw5 ай бұрын
😆 you sweet talker !
@michaelgonzales33072 ай бұрын
I'll find my Clara one of these days.
@jamesdrynan2 жыл бұрын
Pauline Kael wrote a bad review about this film about which I totally disagree. Chayefsky's dialogue is spot on. A brilliant story of two " dogs " like Lady and the Tramp, falling in love.
@williampetersen9915 Жыл бұрын
It's a different tempo, but the song playing while they're dancing is the theme to Marty.
@papillon39862 жыл бұрын
All my life needed was some place to go to be a person like other people.
@davidalen2590 Жыл бұрын
Timeless.
@davidpruiksma80144 ай бұрын
Wow! I had forgotten how really great picture this is!!!!
@chivakias853 жыл бұрын
Second scene I watched on KZbin of this movie, I dont think I can watch the whole movie, without shooting my self.
@dominichutchison132211 ай бұрын
it lives as a heart shaped jar one we hand to each other asking "can you open this" and we tend to get the same response "not with out breaking it" more often then sometimes i say go for it.-shane koyczan
@jaker.5038 ай бұрын
I just can’t get over the squeaking hardwood floor 😂
@gerrymcguire75214 ай бұрын
What a performance! The movie just kills me!
@vtiger813 ай бұрын
I watch this movie, and I'm pulling for these two!
@CJPooz3 ай бұрын
“I cry all the time.” Damn Marty I know the feeling 😭
@user-nj5ce9dq3e3 жыл бұрын
This is a classic!
@martinbench36573 ай бұрын
the memory how my parents were , i think thats whats gets us , we all have pictures of what we remember
@NBDYSPCL2 ай бұрын
Something that strikes me about the character is his humility.
@538frostrd5 ай бұрын
You really kind of pull for these two to get together.
@Harryjohnson689 Жыл бұрын
This movie was way ahead of its time
@saleemahfareed4790 Жыл бұрын
Good movie both say negative things about each other but they still have confidence in there selves
@דגנדשסקט2 жыл бұрын
what a world we live in, even now. but relatable indeed.
@onceagian Жыл бұрын
He just get away with calling her a Gorilla to her face? Lool love this movie
@TheBeast-ub9jo2 жыл бұрын
I like this scene because I’ve been called a gorilla or shrek from a young age. Now I wear it with pride and tell people that’s what I resemble so they can’t make fun of me if I’m already making fun out of myself.
@dianesingerman96502 жыл бұрын
George Lopez talks about his big head and Ray Romano makes fun of his big nose. Own it!
@92AlexanderS2 жыл бұрын
This is the scene all we miserable man should watch after the other clip, to stop feeling like a "bug".
@LPJack02 Жыл бұрын
RIP Ernest Borgnine (January 24, 1917 - July 8, 2012), aged 95 And RIP Betsy Blair (December 11, 1923 - March 13, 2009), aged 85 You both will be remembered as legends.
@martinbench36572 жыл бұрын
I still want that tie 🙂
@laurenceschwartz86062 жыл бұрын
I love this film. I watched it many years ago with my girlfriend, who loathed it. ??
@lzcollins5672 ай бұрын
Ernest always looks the same age in every movie I see him in, no matter what year it is.
@spvcs36153 жыл бұрын
This movie is hard 💯🖤
@arthurgastreich54726 жыл бұрын
I think she a very pretty woman
@m.e.d.79976 жыл бұрын
They played her down quite bit. She could be really pretty. I have seen her in other things.
@johnburkardt21894 жыл бұрын
She gave him a look though at that "dog" comment lol!
@zhongwa4 жыл бұрын
She was Gene Kelly's wife.
@manuginobilisbaldspot4244 жыл бұрын
That was one of the slight criticisms of this fantastic movie. That Betsy Blair was too conventionally attractive. The mom from The Sopranos actually played the role in the TV adaptation in 1953 with Rod Steiger as Marty.
@hamburg13064 жыл бұрын
Definitely downplayed her looks for the movie. Nancy Marchand played Clara in the TV play.
@mkeogh762 жыл бұрын
As everyone notices, Betsy Blair was very attractive and was, in fact, Mrs. Gene Kelly. You definitely have to suspend your disbelief as her being a "dog" as this film's story requires. Nancy Marchand, who was much less conventionally pretty than Blair, played this role in the original television play and wouldn't have required as much disbelief suspension.
@TanzDerSchatten2 жыл бұрын
I saw the movie long before I knew about the teleplay and was a little annoyed that the producers chickened out on casting a truly "less conventionally pretty" actress and decided that "dog" meant "moderately attractive girl with a sweet personality and dowdy clothing." I think the movie is generally superior to the teleplay, but Nancy Marchand was the better choice for Clara.
@adamt1564 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, Nancy Marchand was a more appropriate choice given the script--and, as I recall, Rod Steiger's Marty was somewhat more angry and bitter than Borgnine's The teleplay has a different feeling to it. I still prefer the movie version.
@supermetallicman6 ай бұрын
Nice, i know i will never get that in life.
@hanahkush32635 жыл бұрын
He called and proposed the next day, to a pretty lady.
@23Robusto4 ай бұрын
Wait till Binghamton hears about this!
@mark-ib7sz5 ай бұрын
Crying is not bad . It shows you are human. As long as you do not do it all the time.
@bgarri574 ай бұрын
Except the actress really didn't cry. I didn't see any tears--they should have had a squirt bottle handy for her...
@ericgoldfarb4870 Жыл бұрын
Good ting day was boat katlick.
@thankthelord45365 ай бұрын
Clara" real life husband was actor/ dancer Gene Kelly.
@KorisnickoIme84 Жыл бұрын
Funny part is that today due to dating apps/feminism Marty wouldn't stand a chance with a woman like Clara cuz she would have endless hook-up options and would be delusional thinking her prime age is at 35..
@JaegarLourdesHeathman3 жыл бұрын
Mermaid man back in the day
@ManGoatHamburger4 ай бұрын
What’s been lost is the Marty was dressed in a way that was slightly-out-of-fashion for the time.
@yochips848 Жыл бұрын
where can i watch this movie 😮🤯👏🏾
@billb77354 жыл бұрын
After they said their ages they should have kissed like Spader and Sarandon in White Palace.
@jackfenton22715 ай бұрын
I'm going to use that line with women...... "you're not such a dog" Wish me luck.
@SlugSage4 ай бұрын
Report back
@jfq72232 ай бұрын
Luck will not help you in that case 😅
@FreemindRicochet2 жыл бұрын
2:06 so nobody saw buddy in back looking like “34?”
@jeffisaliar4 ай бұрын
Ever feel like people want you like this so you can be the low mark on the pole and everyone else can feel better about themselves?
@keatonstemler50923 жыл бұрын
Hey, it's Ted Denslow
@derekcooley583210 ай бұрын
Just think, if she was getting a lot of attention from strangers on Instagram they would have never met.