When I was 30, my husband got a brain injury. We moved in with my parents while my husband learned how to walk and talk again. And we built a home on their property. I’m 35 now, and we still live here and I doubt we’ll ever move. It’s nice to be close to home. There is no shame in being close to family or living with them.
@trina70122 ай бұрын
PLEASE @17:35 the clip of you writing with Bomie's head on the desk should be your new outro clip every video with music, it would be SO CUTE PLEASE!
@AmaraFranklin2 ай бұрын
I am so excited for you to move back home. Only you know what is best for you and anyone who tries to give you unsolicited advice about your own life can shove it. ❤
@quinncaddel11232 ай бұрын
The clip of Boemie falling asleep at your desk is so precious!! Oh my gosh, I lived in my mother's unfinished basement/garage for a bit too! I miss being able to climb up the stairs to bother her at all hours of the day. (And thank you for mentioning pocamarket I was JUST looking for photocards!)
@bluemountainlittle2 ай бұрын
With the economy it makes total sense to move home! Even if you pay rent to your parents, it’s less than apartment rent so it helps you and your parents! And if it helps your mental health too, it’s nuts not to do it!
@Zi.B.Writes2 ай бұрын
I can't wait to see how the basement will look when you move. I think it was a good thing for you to experience living alone for a while. We all have or had this fantasy of moving out, some learn to enjoy it while some realize it wasn't for them. It's totally fine, and I'm happy to see you make a choice for your well being. By the way, the song you were singing is Crazy by Le Sserafim (If you were still looking for the song).
@CaitlinJoyful.2 ай бұрын
Living in the basement sounds really cool! You'll have pretty much a full floor to yourself! A slightly pricy but good solution to the basement light issue, buying lots of lamps, maybe look at a sunlamp, they mimic natural daylight. My mum uses one over winter and loves it! I still live at home (Never moved out) and I love being a short walk away from hugging my parents! It's so good for my mind, being able to have endless hugs from them throughout the day. I'm so glad that we are getting Aaron's book!
@DianeMariee2 ай бұрын
The way I gasped when I heard my name as I’m casually watching your vlog as I always do. 🥹 I’m proud of you for doing what’s best for you and deciding to move back home. I’m looking forward to that next phase of your life. So excited for youuuuu ✨💕
@storiesbydesirae2 ай бұрын
It's great you got to grow at this apartment and learn more about your comfort. And it's nice that you're able to move back with your family in a bigger space than your bedroom. Thanks for sharing your journey!
@iheartfood5622 ай бұрын
Bomi’s little cashmere sweater 😭💞
@ninanatascha2 ай бұрын
I'm happy to hear moving is slowly progressing! When I moved out it took me months to actually move out. I stayed at my parents so much and I live like a 10 minute walk away too. Now with my cat I have to stay living in my apartment😅 4 other cats would be her hell. You know what you want/need best!
@SDHegyesАй бұрын
I'm so happy for you that you can move back home when you want or need to. Especially if doing so will positively effect your mental health. I have lived with my parents a couple of times since I turned 18 and moved out the first time. None of them were really pleasant experiences. My mom's a bit of a narcissist who gaslights those around her (saying things we have picture and video evidence of never happened mostly) and it's just... Hard... To deal with her. If it was just my dad, it would be fine. It's not and I can't. However, my husband and I have now had several conversations where we talked about what'll happen when our girls turn 18, and I straight up made it clear that I won't ever kick them out (unless they've done something extreme and unforgivable... Which... Doubtful...) and as long as they're happy, healthy and actively doing something to help around the house whether that's chores or helping with bills or actively partaking of work/school, they'll have a home with us no matter how old they are because the housing market is IN-SANE!!! He and I cant afford a house on our current salaries combined. There's no way they'll be able to.
@JadeJuniiper2 ай бұрын
Yesss! Diane! I adore her!
@angeljackson74852 ай бұрын
I think that was Le Sserafim you were singing. "all the girls are girling girling" gets stuck in my head all the time too. 😂
@JoeyPaulOnline2 ай бұрын
Living alone isn't for everyone and that's completely okay, y'know? Do what's best for you! 💜
@oneeyewitch2 ай бұрын
I'm almost 40 and I live at home. No shame in it. I love being home to take care of my parents and having help with my child. But also why pay rent that covers someone else's mortgage when I can help my parents
@shay4942 ай бұрын
So many people say rent is a waste of money, it's giving you a clean, safe place to live. Plus, houses aren't cheap, upkeep, property tax, etc.
@ElaraLiu2 ай бұрын
It's Le Sserafim 'Crazy'. Lol. There's no Australian in the group. Two Japanese members though. Anyways, congrats on moving back home! I'm very introverted and totally understand being lonely living by yourself. It's nice just to have people around.
@AuthorSarahSutton2 ай бұрын
I love that it sounded Australian to me but it wasn’t 😂😂 that’s actually HILARIOUS But really excited for this next chapter and hopefully feeling less isolated! 🥹
@JadeJuniiper2 ай бұрын
Continuitiniteous 😂
@ReadableMarie2 ай бұрын
Just don’t get pregnant while you live in the basement. Those trips up and down the steps while living in a basement made the final trimester a nightmare! 😂 also, please don’t spend most of your time downstairs. It can drive a person crazy after a while, being without much natural light in an unfinished basement, especially in the winter. Take a lot of walks! Good luck!
@caesuracrossing54732 ай бұрын
lesserfram girling is the song your humming
@SilverXT2 ай бұрын
I'd love to have accountability buddies
@CynthiaCarverAuthor2 ай бұрын
You are cool. More cool than you realize.
@AuthorSarahSutton2 ай бұрын
😭😭🫶🏼
@sydneyhanley75682 ай бұрын
No offense Sarah, but I think that the reason why you haven’t gotten a lasting boyfriend yet is because you’re so obsessed with kpop boys.😂🤣 All of the men know that they’re nothing compared to your gorgeously hot Korean singer guys.❤️❤️❤️
@SilverXT2 ай бұрын
Omg. I'm sure she'll find someone though lol
@Zi.B.Writes2 ай бұрын
Her hobby has nothing to do with her love life. And if she were to have gotten higher standards because of that hobby, then good for her. She shouldn’t settle for anyone less just for the sake of being in a relationship. K-pop/Stray Kids make her happy, and if she meets a guy that brings her down for loving what she loves, then he’s not the one. I know you didn’t mean it in an offensive way, but it’s an assumption I’ve seen much too often. I’d even call it a stereotype.