As someone who has lived with multiple roommates throughout the years (especially in college), don’t be afraid to wait until the guys come back home so they can help you with things for the house. Remember, it’s their house too and you’re not alone in this. That will help you get things done and not be as stressed about it.
@teestrails5 ай бұрын
I second this!! The burnout become real and fast!
@JenevaGriffin5 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@giannamechel77645 ай бұрын
I was just thinking “doesn’t she live with 3 other people??”
@siham.elam175 ай бұрын
@@giannamechel7764 who else does she live with?
@giannamechel77645 ай бұрын
@siham.elam17 If I'm not mistaken, it's her boyfriend Isaac, and I think 2 of their friends/family
@georgiaelenapacurariu92395 ай бұрын
girll, you do not have to do everything yourself, you can get the guys to help, and just cuz you work from home doesn't mean you have to play housewife!
@macaroni69485 ай бұрын
"i can do hard things, but not in a timely manner." 😭 this speaks to my soul
@JenevaGriffin5 ай бұрын
@@macaroni6948 gosh, same here!
@keayannadavis98365 ай бұрын
me af lol
@imchristinac5 ай бұрын
girl those men better be picking up the slack and not letting you do everything
@ashley.ayyirie5 ай бұрын
Seems like you’re managing quite a bit of the household issues on your own - hope that’s not the case & you’re not overworking yourself
@Reilly.McIntire5 ай бұрын
Bestie, get a dehumidifier in your office to protect your books from all the moisture/humidity and keep book mold away!
@hayleyrhein55985 ай бұрын
charli just standing there watching you try to move the mattress is priceless
@nikibarrydds5 ай бұрын
If you’re leasing-read the contract, if it’s not in the contract landlords can’t make you get a lawn company if you all can do the work. Might want to take indoor and outdoor (including landscaping) before photos to have when you move out. Also, for the water leak, make sure you notify the landlords or property mgmt company asap so they deal with (if they aren’t already)-water remediation etc. Might want to consider renters insurance if you don’t have it yet (can be relatively inexpensive and pay huge dividends). Love your videos!!!
@cozyalchemy5 ай бұрын
seconding considering renters insurance!
@carolinereynolds24375 ай бұрын
@@cozyalchemy i have renters insurance through liberty mutual and it is so cheap
@annmariesloan84065 ай бұрын
I believe, as I recall, it was the HOA, not the landlords who wanted the landscape people. She said they were very strike
@Brittanynmartin5 ай бұрын
I know you said you don’t play around with that stuff, but the California proposition 65 thing is on a LOT of stuff. They’re the only state that requires companies to put it on there, but you wouldn’t believe the amount of things they have to put it on. Some teas, clothes, furniture, cell phones, laptops, keurig coffee makers, etc, even frying foods can release one of the chemicals they warn against. Just so you know- because it’ll likely be on quite a few of the other things you have or will buy and it can be anxiety causing if you’re unfamiliar with it.
@DiannaCarney5 ай бұрын
I was gonna say this! Most likely the desk and bookshelves had that warning too, I know mine did!
@ren.sparks5 ай бұрын
I was gonna say I see that on literally everything 😂
@Risalynn87x5 ай бұрын
Right, most everything has the warning now!
@sagekay5 ай бұрын
AND a lot of those things are only a precaution because things like dyes and some metals have been shown in SOME California studies to cause cancers and such. As a cali resident for most of my life, we had those labels on pretty much everything that you can buy, and even posted at restaurants. It's really just so the companies can't get sued if you do get some illness.
@nataleeweigt5 ай бұрын
THIS!! Even coffee shops have to put it on their doors as warnings for entrance😂
@michelleschafer88825 ай бұрын
The warning for CA is literally on everything. Literally. Everything.
@breaavril5 ай бұрын
the amount of things that went wrong is this video i literally gasped when the camera fell into the water 😭 Des i'm sending you so much love and you are girl bossing btw bc moving is so stressful! you're doing all of this while consistently uploading JUST KNOW you're doing great 💘 and you're so inspiring!!
@wowpandas3335 ай бұрын
it’s like des knew i was about to sit down and eat
@Dkg2605 ай бұрын
Literally same!
@mariakara24195 ай бұрын
@thebahnsens69515 ай бұрын
Girl boss!!!! I’m wondering where the guys are though! Put them to work 😜
@mikaylamueller9395 ай бұрын
I just want to say you are handling this house water stuff like a boss i would be crying on the floor for a week! I am so proud of you
@Bookswithannie5 ай бұрын
Water damage is no joke! We had similar issues recently, I'm so sorry you're dealing with that! I love getting to watch you make this house your own!
@itsbrynnleebish5 ай бұрын
The mattress clips had me cackling. When the you dropped the box and just let it slide down the stairs and then when Charlie kept jumping on the mattress as you were tryna set it up was SO freakin funny
@fa3ryg1rl15 ай бұрын
When you have that much water damage, as far as I know the only way to fix it correctly to make sure that you don't get mold is to cut out all of the wet damaged areas even though it's a pain and it takes a long time and replace everything completely. If you don't, you run the risk of toxic mold. We had it happen and it was the dangerous kind of toxic black stachy mold. We had to move out of our house for over 6 months while they ripped apart most of the house to fix it and we got sick from the mold.
@zahrawwww5 ай бұрын
I don’t want this moving dairies to end 😭🫶🏻💓💓
@LeannaSalmanson5 ай бұрын
Des is giving Bob the builder in this video and I am here for it
@mirandasreads5 ай бұрын
I love watching streams on Twitch, it's such a great background video. But it's also great because you can directly speak to the person streaming so I feel like you actually build a connection with so many people
@somtoochukwunsude88515 ай бұрын
Destiny and Sara in 1 day.
@Itsjennycamacho5 ай бұрын
I read this as Destiny and Sara in 1 video so I thought Sara was in Texas and going to be a featured guest on this vlog I got really excited until a few minutes into the video when it finally clicked that this comment meant they both posted videos on their channels today 😂
@somtoochukwunsude88515 ай бұрын
@@Itsjennycamacho Why is this kind of hilarious
@oliviabergin995 ай бұрын
When I moved out for university, it was so hard, my parents and I are very close, but now that I lived on my own for a while I LOVE LOVE being on my own, it gets easier being away from your close and loved ones
@Itsjennycamacho5 ай бұрын
I really like these videos! I love how real and authentic you show up, when your not having a good day when your genuinely happy I know you’ve said that you gotten some hate for talking about your mental health on here but im one of your subscribers that is here for those chats of yours. Speaking for myself here but it makes me feel seen so thank you for your vulnerability Also Your passion for video and content creation shows within your edits LOVE IT! ❤
@miahhargrove5 ай бұрын
ALWAYS a good day when des posts, especially when its a vlog. her vlogs just bring such a comfort, it feels like home (also totally girlbossed getting that mattress up the stairs)
@andelijaaa5 ай бұрын
bestie des we’re all so PROUDDD!!!! the nostalgia is real but this new chapter of your life is so exciting 🩷🩷
@skye-brooke5 ай бұрын
Yesss I’m so here for these moving diaries!!!! I’ve been watching you for so so long and this makes me a little less scared of moving out when im older because you are so real with everything ❤❤❤ LOVE U SO MUCCHHH DESSS STAY STRONG!! So proud of you girrlll keep up the amazing vlogs ilyssmmmm🥰🥰
@lannie.litfic5 ай бұрын
I hope you know that I am SO PROUD of you. I know how hard it is to move away from home, but then to have things almost IMMEDIATELY go wrong with your new home, I just know how stressful that is even if you’re trying to be logical and not stress, it can be such an overwhelming experience, so much love and hugs to you!! I had a roof cave in on a rental home of mine and had to find another place to live and it was very shocking and stressful, so I get it sister 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
@StaceyMathis-p6i5 ай бұрын
I feel your pain. We are currently in the clean up process from a burst pipe. We had 20 of those fans all over the house!
@hayleireads5 ай бұрын
The moving diaries might be might favorite there so fun to watch
@allhailvale5 ай бұрын
Just had to comment to say I'm so proud of you Des! I know the challenges you faced throughout the video were stressful and overwhelming but you're doing amazing and really deserve to give yourself grace! 🤍
@itshope78135 ай бұрын
Love you so much Des wishing you all the best! Your videos make my day I struggle a lot with my mental health and physical health a lot so when you post when you post it always lifts my spirit! I love this book community with my whole heart 💗And Charlie with the shoe while your trying to get the mattress up the stairs is so silly
@unsatisfactori5 ай бұрын
“I can do hard things but in a timely manner” I laughed so hard, too relatable!!
@turningpageswtori5 ай бұрын
23:44 OMG the house in the morning looks so beautiful! 🤩
@VictoriaBryant-g9w5 ай бұрын
I literally just moved from Alabama to Las Vegas a week ago. Watching your vlogs and seeing the things your going through and the stuff you're talking about has really helped me, especially last vlog about moving from family. You are such a motivation for me so thank you so much for that
@Cassandrareads5 ай бұрын
As someone who lives in CA, those signs are on literally everything
@springoffaith96905 ай бұрын
Ahhh queen des posted! Love her vlogs; she's so comforting and real
@super_awesome_queen5 ай бұрын
congrats again on your move des! i’m so glad charlee is still living with you, you’re such an iconic dynamic duo!! 💙🦋
@JaelynnF.5 ай бұрын
*Destiny posts* immediately watches the video
@marthepool99815 ай бұрын
Yayy I actually love this ❤I feel like it's such a realistic moving vlog, like not everything goes well and smooth! Hope you're feeling at home a little bit already 💗 And omg so excited for you that your mom is visiting x
@madi_iiiiii55 ай бұрын
Please the mattress clip 😭😭😭 and then Charley sitting there 🤣🤣🤣
@catcoronado82625 ай бұрын
am i the only one wondering why she's dealing with all this by herself? doesn't des live with like, 3 other people?
@sheramelton35835 ай бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing. Why are 3 grown men doing nothing and she is doing it all?
@the.scarlett.reader5 ай бұрын
she said in the first moving vlog obviously she is living with other people but she’s not going to have them on camera
@whatsdesreading5 ай бұрын
i am keeping my personal life private! and i do not film them at all! also im super independent so i like to do things by myself!
@bonniemae13975 ай бұрын
You are doing such a great job!! None of this is easy and you will learn as you go!! It’s definitely not easy to give yourself grace always, but you truly deserve to give yourself that!! Keep girl bossing💛 you are inspiring so many of us thank you for sharing💛
@MilesCrosby5 ай бұрын
bestie you girl bossed so cloae to sun in this video!! You're amazing but also give yourself some grace too!
@sarahb2085 ай бұрын
I love following along with your moving journey, keep girl bossing it destiny, I'm so proud of you!!
@emilywheeler11405 ай бұрын
WHOS EXCITED!?! --> Love you des ❤
@lizzie_wing5 ай бұрын
i used to have such bad cystic acne on my chin in high school. i had tried everything from cera ve to the ordinary, and nothing worked until i used curology as a last ditch effort. i have been using it since 2021 and i am so much more confident in myself! i hope it works for you des💗
@marybarton97925 ай бұрын
Moving and settling in is very overwelming, but you got this. One day at a time, like the saying goes "Rome Wasn't Built In A Day". Definately give yourself grace, you have plenty of time and you are doing a fantastic job. As others have mentioned, don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Your going to burnout quick get the help from the others. You need to take care of you so you don't get stressed out. Things are coming together thought and it looks really nice. 😊💜
@caprisbookisland4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you still posted this lmao the rain from the ceiling and the chaos is literally what life is like. You have all these plans then bam 😂 glad you got Some stuff done though
@AtlasJLively5 ай бұрын
We love you girl. I’m 12 minutes in and I want you to know I’ll always have your back 💛
@elsawesterberg84265 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOOVING THESE VLOGS LATLEY
@user-xb8fk9ku4t5 ай бұрын
Literally the best KZbinr ❤☀️🤌🔥
@Lauren-lh4yt5 ай бұрын
the ceiling dripping triggered my fight or flight since we JUST got a leak fixed in our house. Literally had to pause the video and came back and heard you talking about it lol
@emilyvillareal39775 ай бұрын
I love these kinds of vlog type things they are so entertaining. You're doing great! The longer ones are my favorite.
@maddieschillreff28765 ай бұрын
des the way i screamed when you mentioned streaming!! im so hyped
@maryredacted5 ай бұрын
omg SCREAMING with excitement about you streaming!!! thank you des!!!
@EmmaRyan-065 ай бұрын
Girl, I love you so much. Totally made my day. I love the moving vlogs, they are my new comfort video. Hope your day is amazing x
@Riverr045 ай бұрын
It is so amazing to see these types of videos from you cus ur so amazing and I LOVE moving vlogs so this is like the best combo ever. Also ur doing great!!!
@hollyperry78665 ай бұрын
watching this while crocheting💞the guest room is so cute!!
@NonsenseTV135 ай бұрын
Always a good day the the queen destiny posts ❤❤❤
@kendalallen10045 ай бұрын
I'm honestly so impressed! you have done so much by yourself!💓
@KriSri-b9y4 ай бұрын
This was a really inspiring watch, you did so much!!
@gracewilliams65035 ай бұрын
1. You need some pretty rugs throughout your house. Lots of tile/hardwood floor. Feel like rugs would pull it all together. 2. Is there a vlog or video of you getting that car?? I feel like you had a different/older one??
@audreywestrik26974 ай бұрын
That guest room is soooooo cute. I would live in there. Love you lots!
@emilepurcell60415 ай бұрын
Ok I'm pretty sure Destiny does not understand how hilarious her dry humor is 😂 "ok...this is gonna be our ambiance" *water dripping into bucket* like holy crap I literally die laughing every time I watch her videos and sometimes I don't even think she's trying to be funny 🤣 anyone else agree???? Also LOVE YOU DES 🫶🏻
@lizzie.kirk025 ай бұрын
at least the leak wasn’t in your office/book room!
@katrineserop55005 ай бұрын
Going to bed rn, so excited to watch this! Thanks girlie!⭐️
@Swiftie-e7x5 ай бұрын
Yay! I needed a new Destiny video ❤
@gabihuber61815 ай бұрын
Oh, wow! You managed all these on your own! I am so proud of you. Big hug to you❤❤
@just9em5 ай бұрын
destiny you look so stunningly beautiful with this hair colour like truly breathtaking
@laurenmacinnis26195 ай бұрын
You are so intelligent, independent and responsible!! I love getting inspired by how much you get done on your own 🤍
@kaleidoscopeuniverse88805 ай бұрын
Me literally cheering at my tv like you can hear me when you were moving the mattress 😂
@carolinefirkins37335 ай бұрын
Love this series, going through a move as well so it makes me feel so heard and normal 😭
@ReaderandWriter.5 ай бұрын
Ma'am....I graduated high school in 2003. I feel old but I love you!
@emmadm8265 ай бұрын
You can stream on both! I personally prefer to watch streams on KZbin because I have premium so I can have them on in the background while on my iPad.
@Slay1529w5 ай бұрын
My day is instantly 100x better when des posts!❤
@SG-kt3vj5 ай бұрын
Absolutely adore you girlie 💗 glad we help you because you definitely help us! THANK YOU!
@madelinezezuto5 ай бұрын
Charlie following you up the stairs with the mattress made my day
@madelinezezuto5 ай бұрын
AND THEN HER LAYING ON IT AWWW
@sophiawyatt72535 ай бұрын
I am loving this moving vlog era!!!
@emerygraf13235 ай бұрын
You working on the mattress had me dying and Charlee laying on it was absolutely hilarious 🤣🤣
@umapraharshitha5 ай бұрын
i have been living alone for the past two ish years and damn i hate getting repairs done. i hate booking stuff and following up with appointments. have been living alone since i was 19 years old ( 21 right now ) and honestly its a little scary to get things done while alone at home. anndd i am also scared that people will underestimate me and think i don’t know if they are actually getting stuff or not and scam me 😂 love that you are girl bossing through stuff even though its uncomfortable. sending lots of love 🫶🏼
@katgreer61135 ай бұрын
Love it when Des posts!!
@rsarlls085 ай бұрын
May be the coffee stop was a bit much? I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed try living in a CAMPER TRAILER, yes you read that correct. I have very limited space and right now it looks like the trailer threw up my belongings EVERYWHERE....I stress myself out when it comes to figuring out where to start. Just have to step back and breath and take one step at a time and don't be in a hurry.
@cicijade5 ай бұрын
perfect timing! i’m unpacking my new apartment right now!!
@readingwkatelyn5 ай бұрын
SO BEYOND PROUD OF YOU
@maggiehowlett78995 ай бұрын
DES!!! love you & proud of you bestie girl🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
@babetteeatsoatmeal5 ай бұрын
love when you post! 💓
@brooki3_cookie5 ай бұрын
Love it when queen destiny posts ❤😊
@Shandelle.Sherman.21375 ай бұрын
Every time you post it is a great day 😇🫶🏻
@TeresaSalina-wo6gk5 ай бұрын
love you des you’ve become my safe space ❤️❤️
@savannahketron5 ай бұрын
these are so fun to watch!! im so happy for you to experience this & proud bc ik how hard it is moving away from home🫶🏽
@leahtison70825 ай бұрын
loving these moving vlogs!! literally girl bossing so hard with that mattress 💪🏼
@trinitysmet78525 ай бұрын
You’re girl bossing SO HARD 🫶 thank you for sharing with us, so sorry about all the things that went wrong, you’re doing great babe Also so random but you mentioned that you need a new mascara u have no idea why but thrive cosmetics mascara is my favorite, it’s a tubing mascara that comes off with water, I’m pretty sure tarte has a tubing mascara too!
@the.scarlett.reader5 ай бұрын
one time our (downstairs) apartment had a massive flooding because of the plumbing issues going on in the unit above us and we had those huge fans everywhere for weeks it was torture
@definebailey5 ай бұрын
Yes!! So excited for your twitch era!
@ildemmiyim5 ай бұрын
Tbh I love the hectic vibes since I relate to it nowadays ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing your experience it motivates me so much
@catherinebugden5 ай бұрын
Oh man I was rooting for you. I have had many fights with my mattress and moving stuff about 🤪