As someone who has lived with multiple roommates throughout the years (especially in college), don’t be afraid to wait until the guys come back home so they can help you with things for the house. Remember, it’s their house too and you’re not alone in this. That will help you get things done and not be as stressed about it.
@teestrails2 ай бұрын
I second this!! The burnout become real and fast!
@JenevaGriffin2 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@giannamechel77642 ай бұрын
I was just thinking “doesn’t she live with 3 other people??”
@siham.elam172 ай бұрын
@@giannamechel7764 who else does she live with?
@giannamechel77642 ай бұрын
@siham.elam17 If I'm not mistaken, it's her boyfriend Isaac, and I think 2 of their friends/family
@georgiaelenapacurariu92392 ай бұрын
girll, you do not have to do everything yourself, you can get the guys to help, and just cuz you work from home doesn't mean you have to play housewife!
@macaroni69482 ай бұрын
"i can do hard things, but not in a timely manner." 😭 this speaks to my soul
@JenevaGriffin2 ай бұрын
@@macaroni6948 gosh, same here!
@keayannadavis98362 ай бұрын
me af lol
@imchristinac2 ай бұрын
girl those men better be picking up the slack and not letting you do everything
@ashley.ayyirie2 ай бұрын
Seems like you’re managing quite a bit of the household issues on your own - hope that’s not the case & you’re not overworking yourself
@Reilly.McIntire2 ай бұрын
Bestie, get a dehumidifier in your office to protect your books from all the moisture/humidity and keep book mold away!
@hayleyrhein55982 ай бұрын
charli just standing there watching you try to move the mattress is priceless
@nikibarrydds2 ай бұрын
If you’re leasing-read the contract, if it’s not in the contract landlords can’t make you get a lawn company if you all can do the work. Might want to take indoor and outdoor (including landscaping) before photos to have when you move out. Also, for the water leak, make sure you notify the landlords or property mgmt company asap so they deal with (if they aren’t already)-water remediation etc. Might want to consider renters insurance if you don’t have it yet (can be relatively inexpensive and pay huge dividends). Love your videos!!!
@nic56972 ай бұрын
seconding considering renters insurance!
@carolinereynolds24372 ай бұрын
@@nic5697 i have renters insurance through liberty mutual and it is so cheap
@annmariesloan84062 ай бұрын
I believe, as I recall, it was the HOA, not the landlords who wanted the landscape people. She said they were very strike
@michelleschafer88822 ай бұрын
The warning for CA is literally on everything. Literally. Everything.
@Brittanynmartin2 ай бұрын
I know you said you don’t play around with that stuff, but the California proposition 65 thing is on a LOT of stuff. They’re the only state that requires companies to put it on there, but you wouldn’t believe the amount of things they have to put it on. Some teas, clothes, furniture, cell phones, laptops, keurig coffee makers, etc, even frying foods can release one of the chemicals they warn against. Just so you know- because it’ll likely be on quite a few of the other things you have or will buy and it can be anxiety causing if you’re unfamiliar with it.
@DiannaCarney2 ай бұрын
I was gonna say this! Most likely the desk and bookshelves had that warning too, I know mine did!
@ren.sparks2 ай бұрын
I was gonna say I see that on literally everything 😂
@Risalynn87x2 ай бұрын
Right, most everything has the warning now!
@sagekay2 ай бұрын
AND a lot of those things are only a precaution because things like dyes and some metals have been shown in SOME California studies to cause cancers and such. As a cali resident for most of my life, we had those labels on pretty much everything that you can buy, and even posted at restaurants. It's really just so the companies can't get sued if you do get some illness.
@nataleeweigt2 ай бұрын
THIS!! Even coffee shops have to put it on their doors as warnings for entrance😂
@thebahnsens69512 ай бұрын
Girl boss!!!! I’m wondering where the guys are though! Put them to work 😜
@breaavril2 ай бұрын
the amount of things that went wrong is this video i literally gasped when the camera fell into the water 😭 Des i'm sending you so much love and you are girl bossing btw bc moving is so stressful! you're doing all of this while consistently uploading JUST KNOW you're doing great 💘 and you're so inspiring!!
@wowpandas3332 ай бұрын
it’s like des knew i was about to sit down and eat
@Dkg2602 ай бұрын
Literally same!
@mariakara24192 ай бұрын
@Bookswithannie2 ай бұрын
Water damage is no joke! We had similar issues recently, I'm so sorry you're dealing with that! I love getting to watch you make this house your own!
@mikaylamueller9392 ай бұрын
I just want to say you are handling this house water stuff like a boss i would be crying on the floor for a week! I am so proud of you
@boringbrynn2 ай бұрын
The mattress clips had me cackling. When the you dropped the box and just let it slide down the stairs and then when Charlie kept jumping on the mattress as you were tryna set it up was SO freakin funny
@zahrawwww2 ай бұрын
I don’t want this moving dairies to end 😭🫶🏻💓💓
@fa3ryg1rl12 ай бұрын
When you have that much water damage, as far as I know the only way to fix it correctly to make sure that you don't get mold is to cut out all of the wet damaged areas even though it's a pain and it takes a long time and replace everything completely. If you don't, you run the risk of toxic mold. We had it happen and it was the dangerous kind of toxic black stachy mold. We had to move out of our house for over 6 months while they ripped apart most of the house to fix it and we got sick from the mold.
@LeannaSalmanson2 ай бұрын
Des is giving Bob the builder in this video and I am here for it
@mirandasreads2 ай бұрын
I love watching streams on Twitch, it's such a great background video. But it's also great because you can directly speak to the person streaming so I feel like you actually build a connection with so many people
@Itsjennycamacho2 ай бұрын
I really like these videos! I love how real and authentic you show up, when your not having a good day when your genuinely happy I know you’ve said that you gotten some hate for talking about your mental health on here but im one of your subscribers that is here for those chats of yours. Speaking for myself here but it makes me feel seen so thank you for your vulnerability Also Your passion for video and content creation shows within your edits LOVE IT! ❤
@oliviabergin992 ай бұрын
When I moved out for university, it was so hard, my parents and I are very close, but now that I lived on my own for a while I LOVE LOVE being on my own, it gets easier being away from your close and loved ones
@miahhargrove2 ай бұрын
ALWAYS a good day when des posts, especially when its a vlog. her vlogs just bring such a comfort, it feels like home (also totally girlbossed getting that mattress up the stairs)
@catcoronado82622 ай бұрын
am i the only one wondering why she's dealing with all this by herself? doesn't des live with like, 3 other people?
@sheramelton35832 ай бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing. Why are 3 grown men doing nothing and she is doing it all?
@the.scarlett.reader2 ай бұрын
she said in the first moving vlog obviously she is living with other people but she’s not going to have them on camera
@whatsdesreading2 ай бұрын
i am keeping my personal life private! and i do not film them at all! also im super independent so i like to do things by myself!
@somtoochukwunsude88512 ай бұрын
Destiny and Sara in 1 day.
@Itsjennycamacho2 ай бұрын
I read this as Destiny and Sara in 1 video so I thought Sara was in Texas and going to be a featured guest on this vlog I got really excited until a few minutes into the video when it finally clicked that this comment meant they both posted videos on their channels today 😂
@somtoochukwunsude88512 ай бұрын
@@Itsjennycamacho Why is this kind of hilarious
@Brooke.w2 ай бұрын
Yesss I’m so here for these moving diaries!!!! I’ve been watching you for so so long and this makes me a little less scared of moving out when im older because you are so real with everything ❤❤❤ LOVE U SO MUCCHHH DESSS STAY STRONG!! So proud of you girrlll keep up the amazing vlogs ilyssmmmm🥰🥰
@andelijaaa2 ай бұрын
bestie des we’re all so PROUDDD!!!! the nostalgia is real but this new chapter of your life is so exciting 🩷🩷
@hayleireads2 ай бұрын
The moving diaries might be might favorite there so fun to watch
@lannie.litfic2 ай бұрын
I hope you know that I am SO PROUD of you. I know how hard it is to move away from home, but then to have things almost IMMEDIATELY go wrong with your new home, I just know how stressful that is even if you’re trying to be logical and not stress, it can be such an overwhelming experience, so much love and hugs to you!! I had a roof cave in on a rental home of mine and had to find another place to live and it was very shocking and stressful, so I get it sister 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
@StaceyMathis-p6i2 ай бұрын
I feel your pain. We are currently in the clean up process from a burst pipe. We had 20 of those fans all over the house!
@allhailvale2 ай бұрын
Just had to comment to say I'm so proud of you Des! I know the challenges you faced throughout the video were stressful and overwhelming but you're doing amazing and really deserve to give yourself grace! 🤍
@itshope78132 ай бұрын
Love you so much Des wishing you all the best! Your videos make my day I struggle a lot with my mental health and physical health a lot so when you post when you post it always lifts my spirit! I love this book community with my whole heart 💗And Charlie with the shoe while your trying to get the mattress up the stairs is so silly
@VictoriaBryant-g9w2 ай бұрын
I literally just moved from Alabama to Las Vegas a week ago. Watching your vlogs and seeing the things your going through and the stuff you're talking about has really helped me, especially last vlog about moving from family. You are such a motivation for me so thank you so much for that
@marthepool99812 ай бұрын
Yayy I actually love this ❤I feel like it's such a realistic moving vlog, like not everything goes well and smooth! Hope you're feeling at home a little bit already 💗 And omg so excited for you that your mom is visiting x
@helaenaaa2 ай бұрын
congrats again on your move des! i’m so glad charlee is still living with you, you’re such an iconic dynamic duo!! 💙🦋
@springoffaith96902 ай бұрын
Ahhh queen des posted! Love her vlogs; she's so comforting and real
@wholeselfnourishment2 ай бұрын
“I can do hard things but in a timely manner” I laughed so hard, too relatable!!
@bonniemae13972 ай бұрын
You are doing such a great job!! None of this is easy and you will learn as you go!! It’s definitely not easy to give yourself grace always, but you truly deserve to give yourself that!! Keep girl bossing💛 you are inspiring so many of us thank you for sharing💛
@Cassandrareads2 ай бұрын
As someone who lives in CA, those signs are on literally everything
@turningpageswtori2 ай бұрын
23:44 OMG the house in the morning looks so beautiful! 🤩
@madi_iiiiii52 ай бұрын
Please the mattress clip 😭😭😭 and then Charley sitting there 🤣🤣🤣
@MilesCrosby2 ай бұрын
bestie you girl bossed so cloae to sun in this video!! You're amazing but also give yourself some grace too!
@JaelynnF.2 ай бұрын
*Destiny posts* immediately watches the video
@sarahb2082 ай бұрын
I love following along with your moving journey, keep girl bossing it destiny, I'm so proud of you!!
@NonsenseTV132 ай бұрын
Always a good day the the queen destiny posts ❤❤❤
@lizzie_wing2 ай бұрын
i used to have such bad cystic acne on my chin in high school. i had tried everything from cera ve to the ordinary, and nothing worked until i used curology as a last ditch effort. i have been using it since 2021 and i am so much more confident in myself! i hope it works for you des💗
@caprisbookisland2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you still posted this lmao the rain from the ceiling and the chaos is literally what life is like. You have all these plans then bam 😂 glad you got Some stuff done though
@emilywheeler11402 ай бұрын
WHOS EXCITED!?! --> Love you des ❤
@user-xb8fk9ku4t2 ай бұрын
Literally the best KZbinr ❤☀️🤌🔥
@katrineserop55002 ай бұрын
Going to bed rn, so excited to watch this! Thanks girlie!⭐️
@hollyperry78662 ай бұрын
watching this while crocheting💞the guest room is so cute!!
@AtlasJLively2 ай бұрын
We love you girl. I’m 12 minutes in and I want you to know I’ll always have your back 💛
@marybarton97922 ай бұрын
Moving and settling in is very overwelming, but you got this. One day at a time, like the saying goes "Rome Wasn't Built In A Day". Definately give yourself grace, you have plenty of time and you are doing a fantastic job. As others have mentioned, don't feel like you have to do everything yourself. Your going to burnout quick get the help from the others. You need to take care of you so you don't get stressed out. Things are coming together thought and it looks really nice. 😊💜
@elsawesterberg84262 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOOVING THESE VLOGS LATLEY
@kendalallen10042 ай бұрын
I'm honestly so impressed! you have done so much by yourself!💓
@emilyvillareal39772 ай бұрын
I love these kinds of vlog type things they are so entertaining. You're doing great! The longer ones are my favorite.
@gabihuber61812 ай бұрын
Oh, wow! You managed all these on your own! I am so proud of you. Big hug to you❤❤
@emerygraf13232 ай бұрын
You working on the mattress had me dying and Charlee laying on it was absolutely hilarious 🤣🤣
@maddieschillreff28762 ай бұрын
des the way i screamed when you mentioned streaming!! im so hyped
@carolinefirkins37332 ай бұрын
Love this series, going through a move as well so it makes me feel so heard and normal 😭
@Riverr042 ай бұрын
It is so amazing to see these types of videos from you cus ur so amazing and I LOVE moving vlogs so this is like the best combo ever. Also ur doing great!!!
@umapraharshitha2 ай бұрын
i have been living alone for the past two ish years and damn i hate getting repairs done. i hate booking stuff and following up with appointments. have been living alone since i was 19 years old ( 21 right now ) and honestly its a little scary to get things done while alone at home. anndd i am also scared that people will underestimate me and think i don’t know if they are actually getting stuff or not and scam me 😂 love that you are girl bossing through stuff even though its uncomfortable. sending lots of love 🫶🏼
@EmmaRyan-m4h2 ай бұрын
Girl, I love you so much. Totally made my day. I love the moving vlogs, they are my new comfort video. Hope your day is amazing x
@just9em2 ай бұрын
destiny you look so stunningly beautiful with this hair colour like truly breathtaking
@KriSri-b9y2 ай бұрын
This was a really inspiring watch, you did so much!!
@laurenmacinnis26192 ай бұрын
You are so intelligent, independent and responsible!! I love getting inspired by how much you get done on your own 🤍
@maryredacted2 ай бұрын
omg SCREAMING with excitement about you streaming!!! thank you des!!!
@Lauren-lh4yt2 ай бұрын
the ceiling dripping triggered my fight or flight since we JUST got a leak fixed in our house. Literally had to pause the video and came back and heard you talking about it lol
@madelinezezuto2 ай бұрын
Charlie following you up the stairs with the mattress made my day
@madelinezezuto2 ай бұрын
AND THEN HER LAYING ON IT AWWW
@SG-kt3vj2 ай бұрын
Absolutely adore you girlie 💗 glad we help you because you definitely help us! THANK YOU!
@ildemmiyim2 ай бұрын
Tbh I love the hectic vibes since I relate to it nowadays ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing your experience it motivates me so much
@Swiftie-e7x2 ай бұрын
Yay! I needed a new Destiny video ❤
@lizzie.kirk022 ай бұрын
at least the leak wasn’t in your office/book room!
@emilepurcell60412 ай бұрын
Ok I'm pretty sure Destiny does not understand how hilarious her dry humor is 😂 "ok...this is gonna be our ambiance" *water dripping into bucket* like holy crap I literally die laughing every time I watch her videos and sometimes I don't even think she's trying to be funny 🤣 anyone else agree???? Also LOVE YOU DES 🫶🏻
@savannahketron2 ай бұрын
these are so fun to watch!! im so happy for you to experience this & proud bc ik how hard it is moving away from home🫶🏽
@gracewilliams65032 ай бұрын
1. You need some pretty rugs throughout your house. Lots of tile/hardwood floor. Feel like rugs would pull it all together. 2. Is there a vlog or video of you getting that car?? I feel like you had a different/older one??
@maggiehowlett78992 ай бұрын
DES!!! love you & proud of you bestie girl🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
@simplygabby61622 ай бұрын
My day is instantly 100x better when des posts!❤
@audreywestrik26972 ай бұрын
That guest room is soooooo cute. I would live in there. Love you lots!
@brooki3_cookie2 ай бұрын
Love it when queen destiny posts ❤😊
@theheleneway89452 ай бұрын
I absolutley love your natural look😍🫶☀️
@the.scarlett.reader2 ай бұрын
one time our (downstairs) apartment had a massive flooding because of the plumbing issues going on in the unit above us and we had those huge fans everywhere for weeks it was torture
@TeresaSalina-wo6gk2 ай бұрын
love you des you’ve become my safe space ❤️❤️
@KarlyJo2 ай бұрын
we moved a year ago and our house still isn’t together 😂😅 there is always work to do and set backs, just have to accept it and enjoy the ride 🤠 literally i’ve been trying to paint the house for months but other things keep coming up like okayyyyyy thank you very much i quit 😂
@Shandelle.Sherman.21372 ай бұрын
Every time you post it is a great day 😇🫶🏻
@emmadm8262 ай бұрын
You can stream on both! I personally prefer to watch streams on KZbin because I have premium so I can have them on in the background while on my iPad.
@catherinebugden2 ай бұрын
Oh man I was rooting for you. I have had many fights with my mattress and moving stuff about 🤪
@cicijade2 ай бұрын
perfect timing! i’m unpacking my new apartment right now!!
@sophiawyatt72532 ай бұрын
I am loving this moving vlog era!!!
@kaleidoscopeuniverse88802 ай бұрын
Me literally cheering at my tv like you can hear me when you were moving the mattress 😂
@DaryenHamby2 ай бұрын
My Monday is made! des you’re my favorite 💕🫶🏻
@ReaderandWriter.2 ай бұрын
Ma'am....I graduated high school in 2003. I feel old but I love you!
@leahtison70822 ай бұрын
loving these moving vlogs!! literally girl bossing so hard with that mattress 💪🏼
@babetteeatsoatmeal2 ай бұрын
love when you post! 💓
@readingwkatelyn2 ай бұрын
SO BEYOND PROUD OF YOU
@belki51812 ай бұрын
The way that this video made me laugh a lot and you were being so serious most of the time 😅
@paigedavis94702 ай бұрын
Prop 65 is on everything! I wouldn’t worry about it Des you won’t be licking the metal 🤪
@rsarlls082 ай бұрын
May be the coffee stop was a bit much? I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed try living in a CAMPER TRAILER, yes you read that correct. I have very limited space and right now it looks like the trailer threw up my belongings EVERYWHERE....I stress myself out when it comes to figuring out where to start. Just have to step back and breath and take one step at a time and don't be in a hurry.
@melodycollis2 ай бұрын
You are officially my favourite youtuber 💓🫶🏼
@Leesybae2 ай бұрын
U should do reading sprints and stuff as well so we can all read along with you ☺️☺️