Moving diaries 📦✨🚐⎮ Establishing a routine in a new city

[@shelliegoddard5629]

Oh Dear sweet Des. You touched my heartstrings. I wish I could give you a great big hug. I’m an old lady of 64, who has never had kids. I don’t have young people in my life, and I love books and started watching you and Sara and Haley. It’s like you’re my kids now, and I love watching your lives evolve. Take care - you’re doing everything right. You will be just fine. Sending love and hugs your way.

[@siennakay3922]

this is the SWEETEST comment.

[@michellemontoya7466]

This is so wholesome 🥹

[@7marissa]

such a beautiful soul

[@rachelstacey5272]

this is so sweet omg - I will be your child too hahah

[@alyssablakee]

This comment was like a hug I can’t explain it

[@gabbyl85]

GET A LANDLINE!! It’s sounds so outdated but I live somewhere with no connection to and it really helps you not feel alone and scared when the wifi goes out, you’ll still be able to make calls when the connection or wifi is bad!

[@sheramelton3583]

Yes! I also still have a landline because I live in a very rural area of Kentucky and cell phone service is not reliable. It really does help to have a landline and be able to call someone without worrying about the phone not working.

[@emilygarza9302]

It was actually almost a Texas wide outage because the storm took out some tower in Houston. It came on for like 10 minutes and went out again but was back up by like 8 pm.

[@healingwithvaness]

I felt this exact way when I moved to college. Trust me - feel the emotions, keep yourself busy, maybe start going to therapy, and explore your new area!! You can always go back home, but you won't have this moment ever again. Give it your all and then decide. It will get better

[@maggiehotmer7580]

I also felt this way when I moved to college. Cried the whole first week and still catch myself feeling isolated a lot. This is a really great way to look at it!

[@andelijaaa]

bestie des we’re all so PROUDDD!!!! the nostalgia is real but this new chapter of your life is going to be so new and fresh 💘💘💘💘💘

[@abbey9826]

people you see in other moving vlogs might not have the support system you did at home, and it’s okay if that is a priority in your life!! even if it means texas doesn’t end up working out for you. you’re trying something new and that takes so much courage but at the end of the day, you can only know what works for you by trying new things and figuring out what doesn’t work! I’m positive it will get better but there is no shame in missing a place you felt safe. people spend their whole lives looking for a solid support system it so valuable! rooting for you! thanks for sharing this journey ❤

[@amydwaah]

Thank you for being so vulnerable to us des. Girl you made me tear up. You don’t know how much you inspire others and it will be hard moving onto a new chapter but you will get through it and we are here always to support and uplift you the same way you uplift us by posting. We love U DES 🥹❤️❤️🫶🏾

[@iheartcats4life_]

Wanted to offer some encouragement: I moved to a new city during the pandemic and it was very isolating of an experience. What's helped me to finally settle in 4 years later is having somewhere to go as a "3rd place." I attend a free meet up each Saturday and other local events when I can, go to coffee shops and have even joined some book clubs that meet in person. Having a 3rd place to go to has really been a big change for me. But it takes TIME to find the right places and events that are the right fit for you. Hang in there!

[@tinybookgardener]

Cozy gaming streams would be so fun! I’d love to see some streams if you wanted to try them.

[@ShaniaWilliams-ru1nh]

I would for sure watch

[@aubreyjoyxx]

AGREED 💛💛

[@Martina-jl8kt]

YESS!!

[@dariareads3728]

Sorry I literally just commented but I would love an animal crossing stream from you or like a paint with me video or even a video of you getting back into your favorite hobbies that aren’t reading. I know sometimes you may feel people only watch you for your book content but sis we watch you because it is YOU! You should do whatever you feel passionate about and I promise it will always target the right people💜

[@kittyquinn004]

Lifestyle vlogs, or more lifestyle content (making coffee/food or doing chores/running errands) in your weekly vlogs, I’m SO here for. It also makes my own chores more fun to have those on while I’m doing them 💚

[@TheSimikira]

this is so random, but i am SO excited to see how you decorate your house for holidays. Fall, christmas, they’re all going to look SO GOOD

[@oliviadixson]

Destiny thank you so much for showing all the raw parts of this. I literally sobbed for a week straight when I moved 20 minutes away to my college campus. I’m really close to my family so I understand how hard it can be. But you’re so brave for moving and taking that step. I’m so proud of you!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@oliviadixson]

Also a side note: you are literally the cutest crier haha

[@taylornpickle]

52 mins? we are blessed

[@calreadsbooks]

I’m usually a silent viewer but your vulnerability about the loneliness and scariness of living away from everyone and everything you know had me crying with you. I haven’t lived in the same state as my family and friends in 4 years and I still have moments where the sadness and homesickness literally feels like it body slams me. As sad as it is it’s nice to know I’m not alone in that feeling and I’m not overreacting. You’re not alone either :) I struggle with horrible horrible anxiety too so I feel you Des! You’re doing a hard thing so remember to be kind to yourself!

[@jennastephan1413]

sounds like you want to stream for you and that’s what is most important, you got it, you don’t have to monetize your joy. We support you either way love

[@elishaevans8017]

When I first moved out of my parent’s house, I would just start crying doing the most random things. It’s definitely a part of the process. And I only moved an hour and a half away from my family. It’s something that you work through and I’m sending all the positive vibes ❤

[@TheWorldAccordingToLouise]

I’m old as hell and had to move out when o was 17. But I didn’t have such a close family. You’re absolutely breaking my heart when you cry because you’re similar age to my son. And yes, being open helps. It shows people that yes you’re very successful but at the same time you’re going through the motions we all do. I’m glad you kept it in. I think you should always be transparent with your audience. If all we saw was you at your best then that kinda comes unattainable for everyone else. You’re okay. You’ll be okay and it will take time but please give yourself some grace. You’re doing all you can do but grace is most definitely a needed.

[@shayleepeterson3750]

Your feelings are so valid Destiny and moving away from family is terrifying. You are doing the best you can and we are so freaking proud🥹♥️ just day by day

[@Lizmacleod324]

I'm just so happy that you have Charlie there with you I wasn't sure if she was staying with you just hug her always when you're feeling home sick ❤❤❤

[@kmariereads]

Literally SO proud of you. Starting a new era in a completely new and different place is so hard. Sending all the love and prayers your way!

[@haleygaspard9315]

Let yourself feel the emotions Des. When I first moved out, I was the exact same way. I would let everything bottle up and the smallest inconvenience made me burst into tears because everything started to boil over. Just take it a day at a time and never feel guilty if you need to take some time from KZbin. We will still be here when you come back! We love you and just want you to take care of yourself first and foremost!

[@sarahawillliams]

Don’t worry about others who criticize you for being open about your feelings and anxieties. You help so many people by sharing what you are going through. There is nothing wrong with being open, and people who disagree have no place here. I moved away from home myself at the beginning of this year. I moved to a city where i know no one, and over time ive grown very lonely. I relate to what you said about how ur used to waking into a home full of people. It’s one of those things you don’t realize how much it means until you’re away from it. But don’t worry! You are not totally alone, and soon enough you will make friends in your new area! You got this Des!

[@emilylj2257]

Destiny's accent around 12 minutes in is cracking me up because she truly sounds southern when she says "oil" even though she's not even from the south 😂 as a person from the south though, i can confirm you'll fit in just fine, bestie des! 😂❤️

[@shaylenlammers3557]

This is the comment I was looking for lol

[@ashleyaustin1566]

personally i want to say thank you for being so vulnerable because i am soooo scared to move out and i feel like no one else shows that emotion so thank you so much for showing something that validates my feelings so much!

[@Emvic94]

About 8 months ago I moved across the country away from everything I've ever known. So I get how you're feeling, my family is also huge to me. It honestly took me about a month and a half to stop randomly crying because I was so scared and homesick. Routines are so helpful to make a place feel like home. But you can do this!! Give it some time and see how it feels, but there's honestly no shame in deciding that living that far away isn't for you if you come to that conclusion!

[@hope_lynn]

My heart broke for you while watching you share how isolating you feel. I think your feelings are totally justified and are normal. I have felt that way in the past and we can see how much your family loves you so it has to be tough moving away from them. Please know that it will get better as you adjust to your new home and get into a routine. ❤

[@itsjustmylife_x]

It will get SO much better. I had a tough time for months and I kept telling myself that the good memories with my parents are exactly that, they are memories and it is time to create new ones in my new life and something really good to do, is to plan a visit with your family in advance. Even if it is over a month or two or three later. It will give you peace of mind and something to look forward to. You should try your best to enjoy the company around you now. Ps, I cried with you on this video 😂 I've been out of the house for about 7 or 8 years already, and I never miss it anymore but damn that was so sad to see. But you'll see how quickly things change. Just don't force it or overthink, take it day by day.. Sending big hugs!

[@readwithorla]

when i moved to uni (it was only 2.5 hours away from home but the furthest i’ve ever been!) i struggled immensely with homesickness and loneliness. i cried so so so much and it can be so hard! everyone feels the emotions of moving away differently but it’s so so valid to feel emotional and overwhelmed because it is a big change but that’s okay. without change life would be so boring! whilst it’s so hard right now it will get easier even if it doesn’t feel like it and you’ll appreciate the time with your family so much more

[@juliareste]

moving is SO HARD. you are NOT alone. thank you for being authentic. I, like you, have only seen positives. this is so real thank u!!!

[@gabz49242]

Sorry to see you're having a tough time with moving. As someone who's moved to three different cities as an adult since finishing my undergraduate degree, and lived in 5 total since leaving for college, here's a few pieces of advice: 1. You're so lucky to have family you want to go home to. Not all of us could stand living with our family for a week, let alone long-term. 2. Be pro-active about finding places where you can meet new people and there's an activity so you don't have to worry about the small talk as much. Find a walking or running group that you can do a few times a week, and if nothing else, it'll get you out into different parts of a new city and hopefully help you meet some friends to make it feel less lonely. Found family has made all the difference for me when moving. 3. I don't think I've ever felt wholly comfortable in a new city in less than a year. Be patient with yourself and try your best to be okay with feeling a bit lost at times. Lean on your partner to help you through it as you can. You're doing great so far! Just give it time and you'll love living on your own, plus you can always go back and visit family :)

[@Jay_bum]

I am a military wife and I completely understand where you are coming from with moving far away from family for the first time!! I moved from Texas to Maryland in January and my emotions hit a few weeks into the move as well! I just wanted to let you know that it does it get better but days are still hard and I still shed a few tears here in there when I have a rough day and my family isn't physically there to talk to but with that being said it is definitely worth "starting a new chapter" and learning myself more! Your video was very inspiring and made me feel less alone!

[@daniellek6646]

You’re doing so good girl, and feeling the emotions comes with the changes!! But you’ll get your routine down soon 🥰 as someone who is now 26 and had very similar feelings since moving out at 18, you’ll get there 🫶🏻 as Taylor once said “time heals most anything”, just takes some time 💞

[@gillianleigh]

I understand so much about you crying about moving. I moved in with my boyfriend a town over from my family in December and the first 2 months I was so stressed and cried all the time bc I missed my hometown and felt like I wasn’t doing anything right. I can just tell you it gets so much better once you fall into a routine!

[@MontanaK96]

I’m 28. This is the moving vlog rawness I needed to see when I was 21 to know I wasn’t alone 🫶🏼 Sending so much love to ya sis. Thanks for being vulnerable!

[@SwavyCurlyCourtney]

Fun fact, HEB has an app and you can search for an item in the app. And it will tell you which aisle it is on. Cause there ain’t no way and HEB in Texas didn’t have Sriracha! 😅 kinda teasing, they could have totally been out or no actually have it.

[@Enchanting_Vix]

I agree, HEB does carry Sirarcha, maybe she didn't ask or they were out but it's in the same aisle as Soy Sauce, I worked for them years ago.

[@Tinahgirl83]

I just wanted to give you a huge hug while you were so upset. Everything you’re feeling is perfectly normal. It will get better as time goes on. And Texas is overwhelming in and of itself. Everything is huge and far apart, and missing exits in San Antonio and Austin can be a bit of a nightmare. It’s not much better here in Dallas, honestly. Just take it a day at a time. Get out early and just drive around and explore. Try some of the bookshops, and different foods. (I love P. Terry’s burgers.) Also, it would be great to see lifestyle stuff on your vlogs. I really enjoy those.

[@larenholtman8681]

I don’t normally comment I just knew I had to for this one. Des, you are NOT ALONE with your feelings that you’ve been having with your move!! I also think you were so exhausted so that also pushed the emotions out- so dont beat yourself up too much ❤ I studied abroad in college for a semester and let me tell you I cried for the entire first week because I felt so lonely but it all worked out- so I have no doubt that you will survive and THRIVE! Also- I would absolutely watch every single stream of you playing games!! That may also spark some new fun and inspiration in this new season of life for you!!

[@emmanoack13]

i keep forgetting to comment about it, but i absolutely LOVE your new hair! i think it suits you so well! 🫶 and i love love love these long vids! it keeps me motivated to go to the gym and read etc too

[@camrynjacob9247]

I literally have to stop everything I’m doing bc Des just posted another moving vlog 🥰

[@daisylovesbooks1]

thank you des for being so raw and brave uploading this

[@itsserge1493]

Thak you for being vulnerable and so authentic with us Des. I cant imahine how you are feeling being so far from your family and the realization constantly hitting that you are on your own now. I have the same fear of leaving and feeling homesick in the future for when I do start living on my own, but I just want you to know that everyday WONT always feel like that and you can and will get through this.

[@fallonturner7441]

You’re not alone. When I first moved into my new place by myself, my internet also took a few weeks to get working and I found it quite hard and lonely to start. But it didn’t take long until I got into my routine and started to adjust. I’m sure it’ll be the same for you - sending you all of the positive vibes ❤

[@thesimplereader]

Hi Destiny, Seeing your tears over being homesick made me remember being in your same spot. It’s HARD but you’re strong! It may take a couple months, but once you settle in and thrive in your independence, it will be so worth it. 💜

[@miahhargrove]

Des, I just want to say how immensely proud of you we all are. We are all gonna miss the old chapter of your life in your old bedroom with the yellow door but you are moving on to do bigger and better things. Thank you for always being so open and vulnerable with us, it has saved me more than you know. Also, I know sometimes you feel like you are dragging things on or that we don't care about the stuff you are talking about but I could literally listen to you talk about wallpaper for an hour and wouldn't be bored. You can do it babe. We love you so much❤❤

[@AshNicole14]

I moved 2,000 miles away from home and was thriving until it all hit me about 2 weeks later. It’s now been about 3 months and I’m loving my new city. There’s things I miss from my home state and hard days but overall it’s good. Thank you for sharing because it makes people feel less alone!

[@Steph-xu7jd]

Des! You made me cry! I just wanted to give you a hug! I went through this when I moved in with my husband ❤ it does get better, just give yourself some grace, your doing amazing ❤

[@jesspayne9948]

Girl I totally felt you:(- I moved out of my parents house 2-3 months ago and definitely had been the hardest for me cause I’m super close with them so it was a big adjustment, but trust me it will get better! I believe in you! Just keep doing your best and be busy as much as you can and do stuff to make yourself better physically And mentally. You got this!

[@pattikendall3848]

do not ever hide your feelings!! they are part of life, i commend you for taking such a big step in life!! it will all come together sooner or later!! BUT never let your family leave your life. Rember they are only a call away!! Once you have a routine days will go by so fast. BIG HUGS!!!!!

[@emmaleemiklosovic5558]

girl moving to a new place is so hard! I moved a year and a half ago from michigan to iowa all by myself (i genuinely knew no one in the town i moved to) and I know exactly what you're feeling. It took months for me to feel like I had a place and had friends and to form a support system here. I spent many nights crying and wondering if it would get better or if i'd ever meet good people or if i'd made the right decision when i decided to move. It's such a hard process and it takes so much time to get used to. For me it took about six months to start feeling like my new town was home. There are still hard and isolating days, it's not always fun, but sometimes the hard things are so good for us. I'll be praying for you, girl. know that you are not alone in your struggle. moving is so hard, especially when its so far from your friends and family. your feelings are so valid and i'm so proud of you for taking this step. whatever happens, life is a learning process and I hope things go so well for you

[@hayleyb.5256]

Girlie you are so brave. Change is scary. You are allowed to be sad and scared. You are so strong!!! I believe in you

[@hotteaalex]

Bestie it is totally ok and valid to feel this way. We are all here for you and we love you. Moving is hard and your emotions are so valid. It’s a big change. I love you and I’m so so proud of you.

[@britneylouise1919]

you remind me so much of myself i’m so happy to see you normalise anxiety because i am the exact same way and always feel like it’s stupid for being like that but seeing you talk about it so openly is so refreshing

[@mirandasreads]

I promise it will get better Des, I moved away from my family 3 years ago. There are still days when I feel very lonely and miss them but they do become further apart. The first 6 months or so was definitely the hardest. But I think moving has really helped me grow as a person. You got this girly! ❤❤

[@ochoasamantha]

Destiny, As someone who moved from Los Angeles, CA to Omaha, NE with not a single family member is incredibly rough. You are 100% justified to feel the way you do. And I know the feeling anxiety of "If something happens how can my mom get here". Its going to get easier, and I promise you that this feeling is temporary. Its hard and its going be hard, but the amount of growth and development you will have from this will be extraordinary. You are going to make incredible memories and Texas will have a special place in your heart from everything and all the memories you make. I came to Nebraska for College and then stayed out her post-grad because I needed a job (lol). I had 3 friends who were still in college and I felt so isolated and alone. 3 years later I am engaged to the love of my life, made friends (I'm a home body but my fiancé's friends became my friend so I didn't have to put in that much work) and I love my life. We are moving to Texas at the end of the year and I will probably have to feel it all over again. But I am telling you its worth it. I remember I had an emergency and my mom was in Nebraska in less then 5 hours. It may be hard when you want to just drive to see your family in less than 20 but I promise it gets easier. For a while I regretted it so hard. It didn't make sense at the time why I wanted to move so far. I really traveled 1,000 miles to do the same thing I could do near home. But I trusted the Lord and he gave me more than I could of asked for. You may not see it right now, but you were called to Texas and there's a reason you are there (regardless if you leave your house or not). Not sure if you are Christian or not, but the Lord says "Remember not the former things, neither consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert" Isaiah 43:18-19. I am praying for you Destiny. Its hard but know that your family loves you and that you have so much hope in your future. The feeling is temporary. I promise everything will be okay. Some days will be tougher then others, remember that this journey isn't linear and you are allowed to be sad about the move 9 months from now. Just know that everything that will come to you, will be more than you can ever ask or think and its going to be worth it.

[@morganjustine3637]

Hi Des, I moved across the US for college but always expected to go back home. This year, my fifth year away, I’ve decided to stay where I am and not go back home. It has been such a hard decision and caused such a toll on me. Thank you for sharing your experience. It means so much that, among all sorts of moving vlogs and travel content, you’re sharing what’s real to you. Much love in this new chapter 🫶

[@amberbogart4680]

I watched this probably 20 minutes after it was first posted but have not stopped thinking about it since. The way you were so vulnerable was incredible. You’re amazing and you can do such hard things xoxoxoxo 💗💗💗

[@elliealeman8892]

Bestie des is in the same city I go to college now. My excited shot up so high 🥹 I felt the same way when I moved from my hometown to Austin. It was so hard, so sad, and so overwhelming but you’ll slowly start to create your life here and you’ll begin to love Austin because there’s so much to do and the people are so sweet here

[@hanbanansss]

the way I ran to this video after seeing you posted! edit: thank you for being so vulnerable with us. I can't even begin to imagine what type of feelings you're going through right now. I hope it all gets better for you des

[@grace_nadine]

these are the exact emotions i felt the first month i was at college, now a year later i can’t wait to go back

[@sp26000]

First of all, I would love animal crossing streams. Sending all the light and love your way. I also struggle with anxiety, I already knew about, and OCD, which I didn’t know until after I moved out on my own. I relate to a lot of what you’re going through. Like especially the part when you were talking about just trying to go to get a gym membership and to get home to Charlie and make sure everything was okay. I moved out of my parents house last July my boyfriend moved 4 hours away to a different city. I’ve been self sufficient for a while but there’s an added stress when you’re “on your own” to keep everything together, but at the end of the day we’re all human. You’re so talented and self aware and I hope that you give yourself grace during this time and lean on the people who are around you for support. This is a time to truly learn about who you are as an individual and I’m so excited for you! I recognize as a content creator being vulnerable is extra scary, but we’re all here for YOU. 💗

[@preslynhudman8864]

i felt the same way going to college. I can imagine how you feel, and it’s a lonely feeling, but you are going to do great things. You can be more independent, find yourself, and create new memories in your very own home.

[@andreainmn]

wow destiny, i have been following for so long and I just want to say I see so much of myself in this video. i moved from Minnesota to California and I spent the entire first day sobbing in an empty apartment. Your videos were one of those things that grounded me. Now its been nearly a year and I cant believe how quickly I have made myself a new life here. Although I miss my family so much and I think about what I could be missing out on living closer to them I see now that it is equally as special that I get to create memories of my own here. San Fransico has become a city of my own and I miss Minnesota everyday but I love all of my new experiences here. Feelings don't typically come when they're convienet so know every hiccup or cry-ses is truly just your own way of going through such a major change. Take it day by day and I promise you'll slowly start to feel better. Sending all my love

[@justajenni]

My parents are currently on vacation on the other side on the world and I’ve been alone for 4 weeks now. You talking about missing your parents made me realise how much I actually miss mine. I’m so happy that they are coming back home in 2 days, because just like you said, talking on the phone is completely different to speaking in person with them ❤

[@katy_hill]

Des! Your internet big sis, here. You're doing amazing, I promise you! Moving states is SO hard and this is the hardest part. It takes time to adjust. Your brain is used to one certain way of living and you're now creating new pathways with your new life changes. It's exhausting, it's hard, it's a time of grief amidst the excitement and the perfect time for anxiety to pop up. PS - anxiety can manifest when we don't sleep enough and let ourselves truly feel all of our grief in these times (I will listen to sad music when I feel a backup of sadness to let it all out and it helps with my anxiety). I learned that the hard way. These feelings are so real and so fair. Please give yourself ALL of the grace and know that just because transition/change is hard, does not mean it was the wrong decision. I've moved states twice and you grow so much through it. You'll find your community, you'll find your place in this new city, it just takes time. Hang in there. Mother yourself when you need to, get in sweats, and binge watch Netflix if you need a break. Get extra sleep (when your stomach is kinder to you). Take EXTRA EXTRA good care of yourself right now. Treat yourself in little ways every day, even if it's just one thing that brings you joy, like the perfect cup of coffee. We're cheering you on. You've got this!

[@amiyahgreen4828]

So proud of you Des! Thank you for sharing the real, raw parts of life. I was just talking to my mom about how no one really prepares you for the heartbreak of growing up, mourning your childhood, and creating a life for yourself- however that looks.I love this vlog and I'm grateful you are letting us follow you along on your journey! I can't wait to see all of the new bookstores and coffee shops you discover and all the memories you will make❤

[@Liv_2105]

watching Des brings so much comfort to me because i deal with anxiety and the things i struggle with daily and are hard for me to talk about, i see Des being so open and vulnerable about it inspires me so much and probably a lot of others too. Thank you des for being you, you always have the support of all us besties! we love you des !!!❤❤❤

[@macysherwood8474]

Me watching this from Austin while also having Spectrum. Tuesday was completely awful & I bawled my eyes out on my bathroom floor. I know change is scary, especially without your family nearby to lean on. It's a minute by minute type of thing. One foot in front of the other. I will get easier & you'll find your groove. I'm proud of you

[@Nalastasia]

You're doing so amazing, when i moved across the country leaving all my life and family behind i was an absolute blubbering mess. You're only human and you're handling this so well. I will get easier and you will be back thriving in a new routine!

[@sunmodel779]

Ahhh I feel this so much! You’re not alone, I moved to a new city a few years ago and it was my first time leaving home… the second my parents left AND my boyfriend … the absolute worst 7 hour anxiety/panic attack of my life. I felt completely isolated and alone in a city I didn’t know. It eventually got better, but in the moment I felt exactly what you are currently feeling! 🫶🏼

[@lulovee7790]

i just moved in with my boyfriend in a complete different state as well. It's been a year and I'm still struggling but taking it day by day. The more yo find your routine and more hobbies the easier it gets. It is normal feeling this way but the more you put yourself out there, you will start to feel more normal and a sense of home.

[@cassandraflores4495]

I love watching your videos Destiny! I know how you feel, my parents left the state I live in some 6 years ago and I don’t have anyone here except my bf and two friends and it feels lonely sometimes and not having my mom here with me, but I call her almost every day. Growing up is hard but I know you’ll do amazing stuff in Texas and adapt it’s a challenge but you’re a strong woman

[@izzyr497]

destiny, i relate so strongly to the emotions of moving, and found this video comforting in the fact that i am not alone. new beginnings are so terrifying!! i love how authentic and real you were in this video, and we are here to support you each step of the way. you are not alone, and your feelings are so valid. im proud of you for not pushing them down and instead feeling them all and working through that. we are all so proud of you. thank you for the authenticity because it’s rare nowadays and i feel so much more seen now 🩷 i luv u des and it’ll all be okay! ✨🩷

[@NaturallyWavy21]

The homesickness is so real and so valid!! You’ll get through this girl and it’s makes the time you are with them in person that much sweeter. You are spreading your wings and doing that big girl stuff that will help you grow and learn how to adult even more!

[@hannahstahmann5498]

Destiny thank you so so much for sharing your feelings about moving. I felt this exact same way 2 years ago when I moved 2 hours away from home. I missed my family, my dogs, my boyfriend, my friends, etc. and it felt like my life was ending. I cried every day for like 2 weeks but now I feel great and I’m living alone and made new friends and see my family and boyfriend when I can and I’ve completely adjusted. You will feel much better in a few days/ weeks. Planning out times for you/ your family to fly to visit each other and talking on the phone will help so much! You got this girl! We are all so proud of you! 💕

[@Ashleylovesreading]

I totally understand your emotions of feeling isolated. For myself, it’s essential to be close to family. Family is your community who is always there for you. Even as an adult we need each other.

[@rubyr2217]

Des i also did a big move recently away from my family to a new country. It is really comforting for me seeing someone go through the same things that I am right now. I really love how authentic and real you are in your videos. It is scary being vulnerable but I really appreciate your honesty and hearing your perspective, it’s comforting. Wishing you all this best on this new chapter in your life

[@lisaneveitt5203]

Des I have been where you are. I grew up in Florida. At 21 I got married and moved to Los Angeles. I am 56 now so this was a long time ago but I went through every emotion you are describing. All of my family was back in Florida and my husband was in the Navy. Right after we got settled he had to go underway on the ship. I was all alone. It gets easier it just takes time to get comfortable. Sending you virtual hugs for the sad feelings. Keep your head up and keep that routine going it will help a lot.

[@charlottelife9357]

So proud of you! I moved literally 20 mins away from my parents and sobbed for a week.

[@messyatbestx]

I feel that this video was a ‘wake up’ call for me, I’m currently living on the same road as family but different houses, and I’ll be moving to a different place soon, and I know it’s going to change and I don’t do well with change. So you being transparent with us in your feelings, makes me feel better because I know I will feel the same when I have to move💗you’re my hero💗

[@Sarah-kt3xq]

I love seeing your more honest moments of moving. I also moved at the start of July and it’s amazing but stressful and emotional too. You’re the first KZbinr I’ve seen who shows that side of it. Thank you so much. You’re going to have so much fun! You’ve got this!!

[@craftyfoxthreads]

Thank you for being genuine. It was hard moving out of my parents' house about 5 years ago, even though they and my siblings have mostly lived nearby. My husband and I moved to new Zealand in August, and the first month was rough. We knew no one, were still searching for jobs (previous jobs backed out on us), and we had to find a whole new routine. You're not alone. Sending hugs❤🤗

[@sierrarain03]

We are so grateful that you showed a vulnerable side to you and to the moving out experience for some. When I moved in with my boyfriend I was only about 15 minutes away from my mom's house. And I was very ready to move out and I had some ups and downs with my family I love them but I needed the space. When I was driving away from my mom's house to move into my boyfriend's house I started immediately sobbing uncontrollably in my car on the way there and it took me by surprise. New chapters like that and new phases of adulthood can be hard to adjust to as well as it can be hard to navigate the emotions from it. I felt so seen when you were having your vulnerable moment about moving and I'm sure others feel the same way. Thank you! Things will get easier and you will find your way i promise ☺️☺️☺️

[@Anna_Ranae]

I really love these FaceTime type vlogs they are so well filmed and entertaining!! So proud of you des❤❤

[@marianapadilla6964]

You talking about moving away from home made me feel soo seen because I felt those things when I moved to college. Thank for being open to talk about those things with us and know that we are soo happy for this new chapter in your life !!

[@emerygraf1323]

This video was so wholesome and inspiring and really encouraged me and made me feel seen about my anxiety and nervousness about moving out in the future! Thank you Des for making me feel not alone and for being vulnerable/authentic with us!!❤❤

[@gabriellagrace3926]

big hugs to you destiny, honestly moving when you struggle with so much anxiety and rely on others to help keep you balanced and feel safe is SO hard. i've tried and failed so many times to move bc I struggle with such bad anxiety too and you're honestly killing it already. so be patient with yourself and know that moving out for the first time is the hardest thing in the world, but you've already got your foot in the door.

[@amandaskadsem8745]

Sending so much love to you 😭 I remember moving away from home and it odd definitely scary and emotional but I have never regretted it. I have grown so much since leaving. I am excited to see you thrive with your new independence! When you get your new PO Box be sure to share it! ❤

[@alexisn.k.789]

I’m so proud of you for being vulnerable! Moving to a brand new space, nonetheless a new STATE, is so hard!

[@becs3194]

Thank you for sharing your experience with moving! I'm additionally in a big life change right now (albeit different situation haha!) and I found so much comfort in your vlog! I hope these next few weeks are easier for you and your routine comes. I'm primarily commenting because I love book content but I also LOVE cozy games! I would absolutely watch an animal crossing stream!

[@Grace_.6]

this is such a big thing to do so either way its a pretty big achivement, i love these type of videos i legit got so excited seeing this video being 50+ minutes long. everyones so proud of you des and moving from family has gotta be so weird at first but soon you will feel settled and look forward to exciting goals ahead. that new office looks like such a vibe at the same time its gonna be so exciting being able to live independently in your own home, a house you achieved yourself because of where you have gotten to in your life. I ALSO WANNA SEE DAYS IN YOUR LIFE

[@Cheytle]

Girl, you have me crying over here. You got this!! You were right when you said you can do hard things! That goes for the little things and the big things. Just keep on going and it will get better. ❤ I love the open content and also I think the streams would be so fun and cute, so if that’s what YOU want, go for it! We’ll be here!

[@salenabrooke07]

girly we’re all so proud of you!! i know it is probably hard to process for you after the move, but just know that i’m praying for peace in your life!❤🙏

[@marynasanchez6294]

girl I moved recently and uprooted my entire life at the same age as you. And it has been really hard you aren’t alone! And these videos help me tremendously. You’ll get past this and thrive, it takes time

[@fallenashes]

I am so here for this new era of your life. Also I would love to watch you play animal crossing! It seems like such a fun way for you to enjoy your hobby without feeling guilty about it, and we also get to hang out with you more ❤

[@daniellawoods8579]

Aww sweet girl 😔 you are so incredibly brave. I remember when I loved to New York City I found myself to be very lonely and lost. It takes time but I know you will find your way in your new city. We are all rooting for you - you are not alone 🤍✨

[@Shellllbeee]

Dessss!! ive been thinking about you since youve moved.... i know your mom and you had a huge connection and how much your family was involved in your life... i completely understand how you feel. i moved 10 minutes away from my parents and when my bf left for long work trips i would feel the same way you do 39:44. i always watched to get in my car and drive to my parents but would feel guilty about leaving my dogs so i would sit alone and watch youtube instead... lol glad we all cope the same! i hope you can find some great friends and build your new support circle!! we all love you and are so proud of you!!

[@madysengoff8537]

we are all here for you and proud of you for everything you’re doing. these feelings you’re having are normal. i’m gonna be moving soon and i’m so scared and i’ve seen all of my old friends moving out and they’re so happy but i’m just scared bc i’ve grown up with all of my family being five minutes away like my entire family lives 5-15 minutes away from each other. and now i’m not gonna have that and it scares me. but to know you’re also going through this is helping. thank you for sharing your feelings with us. so many people are going to appreciate this video bc they will know they aren’t alone and that these feelings are normal. we love you des ❤

[@HollyOnFilm]

"I don't wanna cry on the internet but I also wanna be authentic" GIRL SAME, moving is so ROUGH and you're right literally no one talks about it online. Everything you have said I am going through, and I feel so seen. I found I need to keep giving myself time to let it out and feel these emotions so that I can keep going and work on making my new city and country my home

[@kaitstein06]

Girl, I'm freshly 18, just graduated high school and am going to my community college starting fall and I just want to say how much I appreciate these videos and your vulnerability on this subjects because it's not talked about often. Even coming from a standpoint that I'm not moving from home, it's the changes that are so normalized in life but are really really scary and lonely. This video inspired me so much. Thank you so much for sharing your experience

[@britjustine1334]

I did the exact same thing as you moving out of my parents’ house and across the country for the first time. Feeling alone is valid and real. I know it’s hard to see, but I promise you will make it through! Thank you for always showing us the truth. So proud of you Des.