Moving in together? Here are some things you NEED to know | Hush Podcast

[@redwings1974]

Co-living is a double edge sword. It’s the period where the couple gets to know each other’s good and bad habits, as well as character. Sometimes it’s the little simple things that bonds. Main thing is to always have good communications and respect.

[@sleepy_dobe]

11:18 This is not whether a person is independent or whether they've been so used to staying alone. This is a question of awareness and sensitivity. How aware are you about your surroundings and how sensitive are you to the needs of people around you? Does it occur to you whether or how what you're about to do or say may affect those around you. I'm always thinking of such things. Even when driving. If I do this or that, would it cause inconvenience to others, or open up some space for others etc. Situational awareness, sensitivity and consideration towards others.

[@Lololol555x]

But apparently most people are not aware and people like us who are very aware suffers big time.

[@sabeeeee4]

my therapist tells me i have emotinal sensitivity. not that i'm sensitive but i'm sensitive to my surroundings' feelings haha. yes i suffer hahahsadhahaha

[@Vovolove]

Cohabitated with my exes before and honestly girls, don’t do it! Unless you’re 100% certain you will be married. If not, you will feel hurt as you can packing all your stuff and shifting out. Majority of the time, it’s the ladies that suffer and not the guys as it’s a risk on our female timeline. I have seen my girl friends getting delayed of proposal as the guy is too satisfied with status quo. If your goal is marriage, it doesn’t seem like a good idea contradictory to the trend nowadays.

[@NiolaVianni]

If things don’t work out, it’s either breaking up (earlier) or a divorce (later) after seeing your partner fully as how they are. So, you choose. Break-up or divorce 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@sabeeeee4]

23:30 i AGREE with Germaine!! my hubs and i have separate bathrooms so my makeup/skincare is in one bathroom and his toiletries are in his. recommended

[@Firecracker97]

As a guy myself who is in my early 20’s I do not agree with moving in together.Thn wats the difference if you’re married?what do u look forward to in marriage?if you do everything before marriage what’s the purpose of marriage even?our expectations became so high compared to our pioneers which is why the divorce rates and singles are more now.Isnt marriage abt give and take?Is things like not washing dishes and toilet not being clean a deal breaker?aren’t there solutions like getting a full time helper.Even if u can’t afford it isn’t marriage about love?wouldn’t u know how the person handles situations while you guys are dating ?you would know your partner and their way of communication..there is nothing a good communication and the love u have for each other can’t solve.

[@eliTUNE]

PREACH IT

[@yukisnoww]

I think the biggest point is that, people hold onto the romantic delusion, often for far too long. They can't (or rather didn't) imagine that every relationship together eventually devolves into something 'boring and consistent', which is almost a guaranteed, it's just life. This is not to say, the couple can't spice it up with the fortnightly date nights etc, ya know, conscious effort. So imo when dating, you got to start from the perspective of finding a partner that can be a lover, not the other way round. The former requires some conscious effort, but the latter involves changing the person, often times entirely. As we know, that, doesn't end well. P.S. CLEAN THE DAMN KNIFE EVERY USE, thank you :)

[@itsclarityco]

Agree! And thank you for cleaning the knife after every use 💖🤪

[@melissatan158]

Has Jermaine had a successful relationship leading to a marriage? That she should make such a statement about cohabitation?