Moving Update, Fertility Doctor, Making Friends ⎮Catch Up Q+A

[@PaigeBlackmerRealtor]

We do Sabbath on Saturday(Friday at sundown till Saturday at Sundown)We go to church in the morning and then we have lunch there and fellowship then go home and relax. We do not spend any money, do any chores, or allow someone to work for us during this time.

[@indymast3443]

My husband and I sabbath Friday night through Saturday, it feels fitting and much needed right after the work week ends. Friday before dinner we clean up the house so there's nothing to worry about doing on Saturday. We spend the day off our phones, we sleep in (get like 12 hours of sleep LOL) we start the day at a coffee shop and get lunch there too, we rest from any shopping or wanting, it's a day to be satisfied and thankful for everything we have. We spend the middle of the day reading/praying, taking a short nap, going on a walk if it's nice out, Delighting in the world that God created, delighting in good food too! In the evenings we play games, get our favorite takeout, and then at night watch our favorite show at our families house. We've been doing this for only about half a year so we're still learning what works for us and how God wants our sabbath to look like! I feel like not a lot of people talk about this so I would love to see you guys sharing about your experience once you start :)

[@abbigail.a]

Kian you are in my prayer journal- in beautiful blue & green writing, with flowers doodled on the side. You are a ray of sunshine in a dark world. Your sweet spirit encourages me so much. I love you & just know you have sisters around the world rooting for you, praying for you, and lifting you up.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Wow, thank you! 🤍🤍

[@faithwithvivian]

Kian last night on Instagram live someone asked me who my fave KZbinr was and all I could think of was you lol crazy I use to watch you when I was so wild in the world and now I have my own Christian channel 😭 def get a lot of inspo from you. Love your videos

[@lisa-amara]

aw I love watching both of you!!

[@moniquegarcia6350]

I actually take a Sabbath every Saturday - it was originally on this day of the week. As a family we devote the day to spending time together, date days, trips, etc, we also cheat on our healthy lifestyles (it’s the only day we cheat), and the only rule is absolutely no work - no emails, texts, etc. It’s a day for family, fun, and Christ.

[@moniquegarcia6350]

Also - we work 6 days a week and take the 7th day off. That’s the other thing :)

[@Happytown7523]

That is the Jewish tradition, the sabbath was changed to Sunday

[@kaya.graceee]

The no makeup look looks so good on you, Kian!

[@nivieaa4467]

Hey girl. Thank you for being real. If I'm being honest the one thing that has kept me away from church is just how fake it feels. I'm so glad that there are still some real Christians out here. I've been struggling a lot with my walk lately, so really, thank you! I love you and please stay strong ! edit: I think I WOULD LOVE your church because like???? omg??? no makeup??? not dressing cute??? every time i go to church i feel like its a beauty competition.... like???

[@Notsavsimage1]

Thank you for such a transparent and sincere video! Videos like this are hard to come by. I also really appreciate you addressing praying in tongues and sharing your experience. I find praying in tongues to be essential in my own life.

[@Heavy.Saint.]

You are just so so sweet. I love listening to your heart!

[@Marissachanel]

Thank you for sharing about normalizing speaking in tongues ! I really know I need to speak in my prayer language I have the gift but I don’t do it regularly, but I feel as if God wants me too and that’s something my mother in law told me to do. To use it regularly and it’s a gift from God and we shouldn’t leave it dormant it’s very encouraging to know you and Kyle are using your prayer language 🙏🏻♥️

[@bluedolphinx]

It’s so nice to see that the Lord’s presence is clearly with you as you seem so full of light and peace amidst being in a turbulent season~ Thank you for always being vulnerable with us, as it reminds us that none of us are alone in our struggles (including you) ❤️ God bless and hope you fall in love with your new home!

[@gabl3400]

Loved this video!! So glad to see a more personal chat

[@dmarie4192]

Excited for you and the new home. Trying to figure out a sabbath routine too. Been loving flowy wide leg pants, so great. Where are your necklaces from?🧡

[@Naomiwhitwifelife]

Your advice on making friends is great! Definitely applies to me right now since I just recently moved to Texas.

[@mackenzieklassen8916]

I also recently moved to Texas and also found the friendship advice super helpful hahahaha

[@beltranalmendrarociodejesu8384]

ahhh you bring me so much peace!!

[@higginsphotofilm]

This is so encouraging!! I agree that getting your prayer language is life changing! Haha my fiancé tried praying for me to get it too, but I didn’t get it until we had some friends pray for me! Keep shining your light!💗💗💗

[@suewolfgang5130]

May God bless you and Kyle and surround you with love, joy and peace in your new home! 🙌💛

[@amygiommetti1661]

Great video so happy you found a home so quickly

[@KizNic]

I am actually pretty glad I am following you and that you had a wardrobe change because I also love flowy comfortable clothes with minimal make-up and couldn't get right until I saw you do it! So thanks! Now I can be cute and comfortable in this Caribbean weather!😁

[@averymackler]

Lovely catch up!💛

[@LoveeeeelyM]

Yay!!!! You uploaded! 😊

[@Haleybluebarry7]

Kian you have the best advice for making friends :) and LOVE everything you said about tongues

[@aurorap.7578]

The way I like to Sabbath is plan my week so I don't have to cook or clean on Sabbath. Typically my Friday is spent doing any cooking and cleaning I didn't get done during the week. When Sabbath starts I like to pray and have worship in song and reading scripture. In the Jewish faith they light candles and bless the family members and the home to open the Sabbath which i would love to encorporate. Saturday I go to church and I try to have lunch with a church member if there's no potluck. Otherwise after church I like to nap and go on hike with some snacks and just be in nature and have a date with God. I like to close the Sabbath with a song and prayer and spend the time after sunset to connect with family or friends over the phone.

[@921ILoveU]

Exodus 20- the 4th commandment speaks about how to spend the Sabbath, and that it should be kept Holy on the Seventh-Day, from Friday night to Saturday night at sunset. 😊

[@lizzynestel9670]

Would you ever consider doing a video with Kyle about speaking in tongues? I grew up in an environment and currently attend a church where the belief is that Spiritual gifts are not apart of the modern day church. I can see both sides of the argument, but my heart leans towards believing it is possible. I think you and Kyle have so much wisdom and I’d love to hear how you find it biblically, how to ask the Lord for it, and more!

[@efuakoomson598]

Believing that the spiritual gifts don't apply to the modern church isn't compatible with God and the Bible. Because the Bible says "God is the same yesterday, today and forever". It would be good to read James 1:17. It says God doesn't change like "Shifting shadows'. When Jesus said he would send his Helper (aka the Holy Spirit) it means the Holy Spirit will remain with us. See how nowhere from that point on in the Bible does God say anything about things being impossible for God or the Holy Spirit withholding his Gifts. Where the Holy Spirit is, there is Freedom and His ability to Give Gifts. The Holy Spirit is God, so He is omnipresent and omnipotent. He is always Present and Never Changing. Anything about the Character of God the Bible says, Applies to the Holy Spirit. When the Bible says God is Generous, it means the Holy Spirit is also generous, and willing to give His Gifts to whoever He plans and when you ask. The Modern Church and the Biblical Times Church are all one they are the 'Church & Bride of Christ'. They aren't different and God doesn't treat them differently. The Baptism of the Holy Spirit applied to the Early church the same us Now. Because God doesn't Change❤️♥️ That is Why. Read 1 Corinthians 14, carefully. Remember this, if the Tongues Paul talks about in 1 Corinthians is the same tongues is just speaking in different Earthly languages (Acts), if speaking in Tongues edifies only Yourself (the Speaker) and you must Pray for Yourself to Interpret it or someone else to interpret it, Then how could the Tongues in Corinthians be an Earthly tongues. If you speak a language by the Power of The Holy Spirit that you don't understand, if someone in the congregation knows that language they could interpret what you said Without PRAYING or the Gift of Interpration specifically from the Holy Spirit. They could interpret by human knowledge. That doesn't match the Holy Spirit influence the Bible says Tongues only works by. Remember, Paul equates Speaking in Tongues to 'Singing with his spirit's. He is then taking about singing/speaking in a language that is directed to GOD from his Spirit. Which is what Tongues (the type in 1Cornthians 14 is and is a Gift of the Holy Spirit). Tongues is a language directed to/from God only God can discern that Edifies your Spirit and would Edify the spirit of others in the Church if the Message was Interpreted to them) 1 Corinthians says: 14 'For if I pray ina tongue, my spirit prays'. Praying in French at church if you only understand English is not Your 'Spirit praying' it is only saying a Message that someone else that speaks French could easily Interpret humanely. It is not Holy Spirit led. This is why the Heavenly Language of Tongues Paul speaks about in Corinthians requires Interpretation to be Prayed 'For' and can the Spirit and People of the Church. kzbin.infolrH15JbJWSY?feature=share Thanks, I hope that God opens your eyes to His Holy Spirit and the Truth. Then you will want to Speak Tongues as Much as Paul😍😉🥰😎❤️♥️

[@gabriellapavlov3308]

“Now that we’re a family” KZbin channel / podcast has a video on doing a sabbath!

[@username25256]

Woo!! I pray in tongues too (: thank you for sharing!!! Yes if you pray a lot in tongues it increases the prophetic gift and the other gifts. You are on the right track with your walk ❤️‍🔥

[@Andrea-it6wd]

Hi Kian, Keeping the sabbath is a wonderful blessing! My husband and I are Seventh Day Adventists and keep a weekly sabbath from Friday sundown to Saturday sundown. It’s great to help recover from a busy week and recharge spiritually. There’s a good sermon on KZbin titled “How to Keep the Sabbath” by Pastor Mark Finley. I hope it’s a helpful resource. 🙂

[@paidbychrist]

❤love you, have a blessed day

[@Sydneyspulse]

I highly recommend the book “The Messianic Church Arising!: Restoring the Church to Our Covenant Roots” by Robert Heidler to learn about Shabbat and it’s also extremely fascinating because it talks about how the holidays they had back then were twisted into the holidays we have now. (I tried posting the link to it on Amazon, but it wouldn’t let me comment)

[@Still_blessedlouise]

I really needed to hear that it’s OK that’s once to read your arrival. Because I’m not mad at God I’m not like oh I don’t want anything to do with God because I had to miscarriage, but I just don’t want to read it right now and I do feel very present and every moment.

[@mackenzieklassen8916]

"i want to learn how to break bread", I think that was prophetic 😜

[@mountainchipmunk8530]

I look forward to your videos! Thank you for sharing your life with us, always pointing to Jesus. Super excited to see your new place and how you end up decorating it and making it cozy

[@siebelinkshenanigans1652]

How did you find that fertility doctor?

[@claireedmonds6450]

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry was a great book on the Sabbath! Highly recommend 🥰

[@LuandChan]

YES!! Agreed, loved this book.

[@worldwanderingwhittakers]

Agreed! And the podcast John Mark Comer does with another guy about his book and the to hell with the hustle book

[@indymast3443]

@@worldwanderingwhittakers Yes I think it's called Fight Hustle End Hurry! with him and Jeff Bethke. And agreed with Ruthless Elimination of Hurry! its a life changing book, I read it multiple times a year.

[@bfoz]

Nice to see you. You look better.

[@jessefoster2832]

FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE JOHN 3:16

[@Bleigh1584]

So nice having girl chat again! Exited for you and Kyle and all God has for you!

[@angelavanoosten1]

I want a reacting to my old single diaries video hahaha

[@TheCatcherInTheRye_leon]

Yes. Never let God on the 2nd place. Both husband and wife gotta keep God in front of them, in the morning and before bed. Sidenote : all babies will be reunited with parents in Heaven. :) God is holding your baby too. :) Jesus is coming so soon. Dont be distracted by worries . Stay ready. Amen

[@journaling_tea]

There is a spam account under the name Kian and Kyle replying to post pretending to be you guys. It's bizarre and I reported the reply to my comment from 9 months ago. Just be on the lookout for that

[@laurenvollmer7]

Hey girl. I recommend a book that is helping me during this season aswell, it’s called supernatural childbirth by Jackie mize. It’s awesome book that’s helping my faith tremendously

[@arr0991]

There seems to be so much confusion when it comes to the topic of speaking in tongues. During Pentecost, the Holy Spirit filled the place and He gave the apostles and all the followers of Christs who were there the gift of tongues so that they could go preach the gospel to all the ends of the world. People from different parts and all over the place could understand what the disciples were preaching because they were speaking in their own native tongues which the disciples had never learned before. And then Paul, whom himself had the gift of tongues speaks about how God is a God of order and that when we speak in tongues there shouldn’t be many people speaking at once and that there should be translators so that everyone can understand. So He is clearly talking about the different native tongues of different countries and peoples, which those with the gift of interpretation can help multiply even more by translating what is being said in another tongues to those who don’t understand it.

[@averywatson4538]

It’s definitely confusing. I grew up speaking in tongues and then my campus ministry encouraged me to read what the Bible says about it because I was feeling a sense myself distancing from speaking in tongues. After researching it more it left me more confused than I was before. I haven’t spoken in tongues for a couple of years because I feel uncertainty about it still and praying for clarity hasn’t gotten me anywhere either. I can see how people can have very different views about it because of how the scripture is interpreted. I think it’s wise for people to read about it and do their own research before desiring the gift or telling others that should do it. And I think there is a common misconception that the gift is for everyone(I even used to be a part of a denomination that taught that you had to do it in order to be saved) but the Bible makes it clear that it is a spiritual gift that God gives to certain people just like the other spiritual gifts. I just wish I could have clarity on the subject because I can where people are coming from on both sides.

[@mrsallisonturcios]

@@averywatson4538 this made me feel SO normal. I grew up with parents that spoke in tongues and went to many churches where it was a common practice. I always desired to speak in tongues but didn’t receive it until I was 22. I was told it would develop the more I spoke them… idk I just never got there and eventually stopped altogether. Then my now husband explained the scriptures regarding it (he doesn’t believe they’re for today) and I’m even more confused than ever 😂 I do find comfort in knowing that even if I don’t practice them, it does not make me any less saved or close to God.

[@lilyrose3005]

Exactly. Also, in many languages, "tongue" and "language" are the same word.

[@madisonshae2034]

@averywatson True! These are all true things. But the gift of tongues is not just for when it’s interpreted. In fact, Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:2, “when you speak in a tongue, you speak to God and not to man" meaning, you speak to God! Of course it is used often as a miraculous work for other to be spoken to in their language! But it’s also an angelic language that speak to God and prays his perfect will, as Paul is saying here! Also, the reason that we believe it’s available to everyone is because Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:5 that he wishes ALL of us would speak in tongues! Why would he say that if it wasn’t available to everyone? Hope that’s helpful!

[@madisonshae2034]

@@lilyrose3005 yes of course it is! But that doesn’t mean that one of those languages isn’t “angelic.” Romans 8:26-27 talks about this when it refers “the spirit himself making groanings for us which can not be understood.” A conservative commentary I read on this says, “this of course is the purpose of the gifts of tongues, to pray in a way that is not limited by our knowledge or our ability to articulate the heart of our God. The purpose of tongues is not to prove that we are “filled with the spirit” or to prove we are especially spiritual.”

[@dianaalvizo5755]

We love you 🥹🫶🏽💗

[@LoveIsTruth___]

Why are you guys always moving?

[@katymcguinness9228]

John Mark Comer has a really good 4 part series on sabbath on Spotify :) And interesting that your word for the year is rhythm because his second episode is called “Sabbath as rhythm”!!

[@roxyalyea433]

I don’t ever want to be the annoying person pushing things on a person especially when it comes to fertility. I’ve been there and couldn’t stand it. I experienced a miscarriage a little over a year ago and have been going through the process of healing my body and trying to conceive again. I feel like I tried absolutely everything until I learned about detoxing. Detoxing heavy metals, plastics, contraceptives and steroids. I didn’t realize the imprint these things leave on the body even if only having a steroid shot once when I was maybe 11! But I thought I’d share since it resonated so much with me and I truly think it could help those of us struggling to get pregnant. If you are interested please let me know and I can send you information! I’m not a doctor, btw. Just someone looking for a homeopathic way of healing my body for the best possible space for carrying a baby. 💜

[@r.m5883]

How did you detox

[@jojoboy1568]

Do a video with Paul Morgan please

[@notrelevare9332]

The book Sabbath by Dan B Allender changed my life and I would highly recommend it.

[@brookerome6046]

God hears, sees, and is madly in love with you Kian! I love watching your videos!! I am believing that God is going to provide for you in every way you need and desire in Jesus' name! Keep pressing on!!

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Aw thank you so much Brooke!

[@Alli_3.]

Didn't understand what you meant by the laughter thing so researched holy laughter... The most convincing scriptural argument against what is called "holy laughter" is found in Galatians 5:22-23. It says, "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law." If self-control is a fruit of the Spirit of God, how can uncontrollable laughter also be a fruit of His Spirit? Revival leaders claim that being filled with the Spirit means that we are sort of "tossed about" by His whims. But the idea that God would make people act drunk or laugh uncontrollably or make animal noises as a result of the Spirit’s anointing is directly opposed to the way the Spirit acts, according to Galatians 5:22-23. The Spirit described in Galatians 5 is one who promotes self-control within us, not the opposite. Finally, there was no one in the Bible more filled with the Holy Spirit than Jesus, and not once does the Bible ever record Him laughing

[@jesseferguson3205]

I'm curious about the people who don't "do their hair and makeup" regardless of their environments, social pressures and surroundings

[@pamm2652]

Hi woman, that doesn't do makeup 90% of the time, and when I do, it's normal because of bags under my eyes. And when I do it's very minimum. High school, I felt like my skin looked fine and wanted that extra time to sleep. Also I was going through life, I would hear women talk about makeup that rubbed me the wrong way. "I need to put on my face before we go." "I hate my face" Also noticed a pattern on that one of very heavy makeup. Which lead to the thought of it like real-life photo shoping your face. To where you don't feel comfortable without that. Which I did have a lot of Self esteem issues growing up. So it kind of felt like I would be more likely to have those issues. Making me very minimum on makeup to try and avoid going down that path.

[@TDM602]

😍🤩😃😍🤩😍🤩

[@TDM602]

did u git myn

[@katywest]

Learn about how Orthodox Jews celebrate the Sabbath! You don't have to do all that they do, but it really makes you think through things you may not otherwise.

[@kaylajohnson5316]

My fiancé and I have began celebrating Sabbath on the original day being Saturday! It is such a wonderful experience! To just spend a complete day relaxing and trying to grow my relationship with the Lord!

[@abtellone2281]

I watched cheesy rom coms after / during my miscarriage 😂😂 but yes I second telling people. Gosh the keeping it a secret for the first tri doesn’t work for me. I need community.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

I think it's pretty common, my other friend did too! 😂 Yes so true, you need people to love on you!

[@jessefoster2832]

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

[@TDM602]

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[@hannahcostello6816]

thank you for talking about speaking in tongues 🤎