Is my relationship Real or just a Game?

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[@revivaln]

My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over

[@lady_sits]

Very true ❤️... I'm glad that you had the strength to leave 🙏🏽

[@shirleygeza5677]

Well done sis. Someone will appreciate and marry you in less than 6 years.

[@reamogetsetjale2814]

Well done sis, the biggest thing that matters is (YOU DID LEAVE)💕

[@nette2144]

@@reamogetsetjale2814 Absolutely.

[@malebelomaphutha6566]

You were hoping that he will eventually see that you are that right woman, big ups for leaving super proud of you!

[@BuliMakhubo]

The privacy vs secrecy topic is a big one !

[@mapasekamulane9492]

Hey Mpumi and Brenden I introduced my boyfriend to this channel, now I feel like he watches it more than me🙈, you guys are awesome... Thank you

[@tshegofatsoellenmashigo6863]

I love Brendan's honesty in all this. He's genuine.

[@edwinapheladi9447]

When Brenden said " ooooh you can't remember now, onale amnesia?" 😭😭😭💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tisha7870]

“Sometimes we have to allow each other to find out what’s real for us and what we want” impactful 🥺🔥🔥🔥.

[@malethaboskhosana2001]

Our Love Journey is a great blessing for us on KZbin hle ❤❤❤ God bless this union❤

[@_nceba__]

Today's topic hit home 🥺🥺. We find ourselves attached to people who haven't even said they like us like that. Yoh😏🥺

[@naomieises2056]

The way I love how Mpoomy says 'Indoda yami'......... 😃

[@BerniceMB]

Thoroughly enjoyed this chat! Mpoomy is right the gut feeling NEVER lies. Women always know! Thank you guys 🙏🏾

[@mons7921]

Always babe always!

[@nette2144]

Always. When you know you know..🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@noreenm6638]

It’s the Sotho for me 😂🥴 “Di bedroom relationships” I love you guys wholeheartedly . ♥️😪

[@lethabogloria3059]

Brenden "so lento yama musician k'dala iqalile" 😂😂😂😂 I died!

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

lmao he is being extra

[@Boitumelo_Pohotuna]

Same!! 😂🤣🤣

[@mologadihazellegodi8626]

Brenden is extra🤣🤣🤣

[@angellamula]

No but same😭😭😭

[@nomhlemabaso2807]

I experienced something similar with a musician 😂😂😭so it hit the spot for me

[@Boity_Lehihi]

The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂

[@Samantha-bc2uu]

Im currently in that situation, things are great when we are together but when we not together he doesn't communicate. I called it quits though...

[@brendenpraise_]

re mo!!!!

[@valenciamashalagma]

Sila and we love it here💫

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

always...

[@sophysehlola3723]

Sila ❤️❤️❤️❤️☕

[@sethembilegwamanda4819]

Sikhona. Enjoying the convo

[@aororiswemedupe1917]

Love your depth Brenden such an amazing man

[@siphosethuthuthu9464]

One thing about Brendon, he loves his wife❤️. Always touching, so beautiful guys.

[@thendoportiaramupfumedzi7197]

This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,

[@kevinkkirimii]

10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.

[@undergroundkid8337]

Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.

[@unarinedagada1764]

You guys are the older siblings I never knew I needed!🥺❤️ Enjoyed this so much🤞🏽

[@runner9528]

Lol they are husband and wife!

[@olwenkosikhafu1398]

Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

Yebo including family. Until he sends the cows don't even

[@sanelemanana3824]

I'm obsessed with this channel, I'm 23 and I learn a lot from you guys, you literally my gift from God

[@phiwosweetness9945]

My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌

[@brendatsela9102]

wow... this is deep thank you for sharing

[@preciousprincess5333]

I am here....As young as I am.....I love this couple and they inspire me in every aspect of my life. May God richly bless you in Jesus Name,Amen

[@lefiika]

I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication. I really enjoyed this topic.

[@refiloenolwazi9547]

Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom

[@kutulloletuku7752]

Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.

[@mmathapeloa61]

This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.

[@ntshegokgware9061]

Love love this, always enjoy your talks!❤❤

[@carryncharlize2252]

Amen ♥️

[@hbooijr]

I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣

[@ngurimujetjihimise4756]

What you're saying is difenatley true we don't have anyone to teach us all this things it should be a topic even in schools

[@shambyprincess3688]

This 💯🙌🏾

[@Karabo-c2x]

I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided

[@nette2144]

Absolutely. One has to be honest. If a batla go tsamaya then a tsamaye motho. 🤣

[@sinazositshange96]

The Sesotho part in this conversation is killing me 😭🤣🤣❣

[@missm518]

So true Brenden it's important to put out your expectations saves you so much drama. It's saved me from so much future drama and it scared away the wrong guys

[@siliziweyangapi1573]

I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.

[@kgothatsosebothoma4850]

Thank you so much for these videos they are such an eye opener and I’m loving it man!

[@yolandahdandala2529]

Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys! We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️

[@tidodlamini]

"Ona Le Amnesia?"😂😂😂 Brenden Was Speaking For The Gents Here I'm So Triggered🤣

[@mbhali_shandu]

lol i was on the floor when he said that

[@otjanngaisiue6385]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Boity_Lehihi]

I died 😂😂🤣🤣😂

[@b_reshoketswe2777]

🤣😂😂

[@stabiledube9634]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@olwethudlamini6720]

"today I'm cutting you so much"... That thoughtfulness😊. Very sweet. Interesting conversations. I'm married 5 years with an amazing man!... And sometimes as a woman it's hard to understand and accept the real make-up of a man in general but I love how you guys discuss so comfortably. I'm grateful to God and for Him giving us close and senior couple friends that we learn from who have strong Godly principles about life as a whole. ❤️

[@misskhanyisa_m8361]

As always loved the conversation! I was a victim of being stringed along.. “ Bedroom relationships” killed me 😅😂🤣

[@fikileassah1026]

Not wanting to take a picture together, it's a red flag for me.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

lol not always, its important to ask why

[@muciikujoyce]

I was like this, till I realized I was just embarrassed of the guy.

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

😂😂😂 not always. Privacy is good sometimes

[@nette2144]

@@muciikujoyce i like your honesty😂😂

[@lwazimakhanya8394]

or they're not confident in themselves especially within pictures

[@nothandonkosi1694]

This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better . You truly are one of our own role model😭 Keep shining ❤.

[@lethabolegodi]

yall really bring the best content. Thanks for this.

[@leerahmojalefa5565]

Brendan's "wankwishisha" takes me back home.😁🥺

[@rochellemathebula9156]

Eish, I honestly miss home now 😂(Bushbuckridge, Mapulaneng)

[@mrspboledi]

Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼

[@Gods_Corner]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys

[@mbinaomukuambi2459]

My word, y’all are dropping facts here... Louderrrrr 🙆🏾‍♀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@amandachiliza7090]

I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park.. It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

absolutely

[@Keighmazizi]

Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷‍♀️😆ayisembi

[@tetelomampe3064]

Hectic right 🤣🤣

[@tshidingcobo7]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣killed me hle

[@aloisianangombe115]

(can someone please translate that for me) I didn't understand what he said but his vibe was fun 🤣🤣

[@lisebomarykotelo77]

@@aloisianangombe115 if he hasn't that they're dating then they're NOT dating, ... just hanging out. Something like that

[@aloisianangombe115]

ahaa..🤣🤣🤣thank you

[@soniachibi5144]

Brenden was like you have amnesia 😂😂😂😂. Mpoomy tell him that we as gurls love pictures that is one thing God gave us😂😂😂😂

[@boipelomogudi6861]

Got to work this morning and I took some time out to go say a prayer ... you guys heard my prayer, telling God that I think I want to be in a relationship. Feel like this was an are you sure questionnaire. Thank you

[@myspce]

Your podcast is not rehearsed. I love that❤

[@mokgaetsimalahlela315]

Mpoomy and Braiden content🔥🔥🙏 Communication, honesty and effort is the key. Thank you

[@anothandomolosi7320]

True the playing wifey part went straight to my heart... Thanks for sharing, I have to introspect #Much Love ♥️

[@ujarumuekapetua9187]

This coach is a legend mpoomy....It never seem out of place always ready to fit in with the deco. Oh and nice video. Been enjoying and learning lots. Thanks I appreciate the time. 🎷🎷🎷

[@mxolelimtyida7868]

Firstly we appreciate this content , it’s so real and raw. A lot Of open mindedness from sis Mpoomi. Brandon makes a good point about pictures, I still cannot understand why but sometimes it’s necessary...as long as the intention is pure .

[@_nceba__]

"Pictures for eng? Onale amnesia?"- Brenden 2021 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿. I died

[@R.K.R.2001]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mologadihazellegodi8626]

Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mologadihazellegodi8626]

Did I not die😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tshegofatsontabane584]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 threw me off

[@nomliss4152]

Sis dead😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 peak of this episode

[@rainationFantasy]

Really enjoyed watching this..❣👌is as if I just shared my bad decisions in relationships and You guys just gave out good advices...❣Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden .....Honesty and Communication is way to go

[@joemiles7554]

Great topic guys, thank you. Ja neh, SOME men really can change your outlook on men and love. I always say our definition of love really is messed up, by so many things - we only realise this when we start loving ourselves and being honest about the nonsense we've settled for in the past. Thank God for hindsight.

[@khomotjomalatji4600]

Just stopped by again just to save this for my kids especially my daughter. I had this convo with my father after the fact and it freed me. I’m at a good and happy place and I know I wouldn’t have been if it wasn’t for that.

[@letshegomancoe4481]

Brendon is always touching Mpoomy ❤️❤️❤️

[@chiedzachuma2026]

Right?! Love it, it's so cute! ♥️

[@sinovuyomtyenene5433]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nkepengmarumo3648]

I've noticed and it's so cute I like it

[@LivingWithTheFrancisFamily]

Oh Gassssshhhhh i love taking pictures for memoirs to lay and go through one day with them to even laugh about as it reminds you about how long the relationship is coming and places you've visited together!! Its so beautiful to feel those emotions again when going down memory lane🤗🇳🇦🇳🇦 or just laugh about your fashion sense or how you've grown etc. Ps: Not for the social media as i barely most

[@pksimom2429]

Your topics are everything ❤️! Love how you guys take them on so holistically ❤️

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you! we love having yall

[@Julietndlofane]

Lol It's Baby Talk Mpoomy...😁

[@katlegomontle450]

Honestly love listening to you guys and the way Brenden looks at Mpoomy so sweet❤️

[@thembelihlezuma8445]

I'm learning something new every time when I'm watching you guys thanks a lot for the advices,

[@tumimathebula7752]

I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.

[@anzasingo116]

I also admire that about them coz wow, the conversations I’v had with my man about my ex were all such a cringe fest for him😂 so ay.

[@malebelomaphutha6566]

I think guys feel uncomfortable with this kinda topics, also depending on the depth of the details I guess. Once did and he wanted to throw up, he was sick to the stomach 😬🤕

[@anzasingo116]

@@malebelomaphutha6566 exactly!! Its rare for a man to be comfortable with this particular topic🤦🏾‍♀️ This is very admirable of Brandon👏

[@tshepangmashike4852]

The taking picture part kills me🤣😂. Bari “you got amnesia?”!! We’re suffering and all we want is pictures💁🏻‍♀️🤣🤣🤣..

[@mwazimara7565]

I personally am greatful for this topic it came at the right time. You guys are just the best at everything when it comes to this

[@sbusisiwemasondo1318]

Yol posted this at the right time🥺❤ subscribed and hooked💕

[@molatelompe3977]

You are so amazing , real and honest . much love

[@kaminyangiwe8604]

Jonga. I love this and you guys are amazing! 👏🏾 It’s the fire content for me💕

[@LuthandoLuyanda]

Communication- some guys will make you sound crazy for wanting to Determine the status of the situation/relationship. That fight about “what are we?”… hayibo kanti who else must a lady ask if not you brother since you are the one I’m talking with? Dating culture can be such a toxic environment because of lack of true intentions

[@teeworld9524]

What's the meaning of hayibo kanti?

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

Because the guy hold the cards of whether it's vibes, a relationship or not, or relationship for marriage, that's why it is a fight. All you can do as a women is work with standards and make him work with them until you know where you stand or your worth

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

@@teeworld9524 it's just an expression to emphasize exxagaration

[@LuthandoLuyanda]

@Tiyisela Baloyi ; but that doesn’t excuse the fact that gents start things or disturb a lady in her peace while having no real intentions. If it’s just vibes, it should also be communicated. Not this I must wait and see thing. People sit 5 years in waiting because he is the one who holds the cards??? No sir

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

@@LuthandoLuyanda Yessss I don't disregard the accountability a man must take. That's the other problem, the wait and see thing gets dragged for longer than it should. The problem with a man is he knows what you are looking for so if you invest yourself and tell him what you want before he says anything and still no clear answer it's better to leave because he can use words to manipulate you to stay, always wait for him to say where he stands with you

[@noxxie1496]

I love Mpoomy's laughter😍❤️

[@thembipapi9686]

It's just how you look at Brenden for me🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@sihovaanna5959]

You can tell she's forever in love with her husband 💕❤

[@s3ipAtyMmm]

Loved this so much! Also Mpoomy's laugh is one of my favourite laughs...love it.

[@nicolehopemkhari924]

Got a notification that you posted a video and I never clicked so fast😀. Love you so much. You guys are such an inspiration

[@livelovelaughwiththeblesse9630]

You guys are everything and more!!!! 👏👏👏 Thank you so much for the whole conversation ....So insightful Lots of love ❤️

[@darrenmachikicho4047]

Genuinely enjoyed the conversation. Your conversations are relatable. Thank you guys for the video. Humorous as well.

[@thabisomsiza8891]

Mpoomy's attempt to speaking Sepedi!!! Thoroughly enjoyed. Can't wait for more!!!

[@biancaross5876]

My fav notification. Thank you Mpoomy. 🌸🙏🏽🤗

[@tshepangmokwena8738]

This may be pulling it, but would it be possible to have Mpoomy n Brenden on Defining 😊

[@mbinaomukuambi2459]

Riiiiiiiight??????! 🙌🏾

[@Navigating_Modesty]

I've beeeeeen saying 😭

[@nelisaashtonmagenu293]

Abeg!!😭😭

[@langelihlesibandankiwane1528]

Yessss

[@shongiengano8170]

Yes please we need to see it 🥰🥰🥰

[@nosiphiwombeki2872]

I've been watching your videos guys since last year and i liked you so much...but never once have i thought of subscribing to your channel. Because of your beautiful consistent content today i have decided to subscribe and hit the notification bell because wow im learning a lot from you both...may God continue blessing your union💗

[@sinoxolomoyo987]

When Brenden said. "Lento Yama musican kudala yaqala" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nette2144]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lesego_fitness]

Yohhh Mpoomy my intuition has never ever failed me!!! I’ve learnt to listen because if I ignore it I get burnt

[@njabulomoloko4206]

Mpoomy has always been into musicians 🤣🤣🤣 Brendan sounds congested. Hope he gets better.

[@lengwebobo7418]

Brenden is pouring out that truth that is SOOO needed

[@all_things_busishozi1721]

So true 👍if we don't listen to our gut feeling we fail ourselves

[@nette2144]

True. Our inner voice. It's louder than all other voices.

[@zwothemuthabeni5557]

True ❤️

[@jenamowabo]

I loved this conversation! So informative and relatable on so many parts.

[@operitjipuka7377]

I love the importance of expressing your intention from the onset, WHATEVER the intention is. It truly eliminates a lot of doubt and insinuations. If it’s “I like you but I want to take time to get to know you”, it’s OK. The person still has a choice on whether they want to linger on or not. I love the importance of also expressing your idea of a relationship. My husband said to me after 2 months of getting to know each other…”I want to marry you but if you have no intentions of getting married, let me know so I move on”. In that moment I just thought “what dude is this”…but it spoke about intentionality and it made me refocus and rethink as well. A great video for our young couples “courting” or having intention to truly want to start something. LET US NOT IGNORE FLAGS…they won’t go away if you don’t address them.

[@siphosihlemakhubo1097]

The part of the insecurities is where I learnt most, what an informative chat🔥

[@thandeka4487]

Beautiful topic it's good to have you back guys ❤

[@odwachonco]

Absolutely love and enjoy the content guys. Thank you🌸

[@lebomoloi6459]

I really loved today’s conversation. It is so important to make your intentions known from the get go😁😁

[@amyvolk3571]

Thankyou Mr. Ledwaba being honest upfront from the beginning saves us from alot of drama. Keep up the good work..I enjoy your content.

[@chigosworld.]

I Love this couple and the content the brings on the table. Thanks for sharing 💖

[@lamemogapi1704]

Loove this relationship content!! Would be lovely to hear about your love languages and how they have evolved from your dating to marriage, post babies etc because I believe they do change over time. Keep going guys! Learning so much from you.❤

[@kamogelontsewa58]

I could listen to you guys speak all day 🥺❤️❤️

[@sinovuyoshoco9197]

Thank you so much ledwaba's.... You touched my heart I really needed to hear this...

[@PhindileNdimande]

I’m here .. 💃🏾🌹. Notification gang. My favourite Podcast

[@patricatracy4976]

I have learnt that pipo go through alot to get that perfect person to settle with🤕...but honestly in the end u #Praise #Jesus💖 4 the person u settle with

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

This couple made me realise my worth,made me realise that true love does exist and settling for less is no longer in me.i love you guys so much ❤

[@naninitsofela2624]

Ayi shame, I've missed these conversations!!! Welcome back guys 😂❤️