It's just sex....whats the big deal?

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Mpoomy Ledwaba

Mpoomy Ledwaba

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@dumilesia9274
@dumilesia9274 4 жыл бұрын
im 29 still a virgin .i dont regret being a virgin at all .im so happy honestly, im not ashamed at all.
@nanit06
@nanit06 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏don't ever compromise that for anything or anyone, no matter what! I gave up my virginity two months before I turned 25... worst decision of my life. 4 years later, just before I started dating my mow husband, I became celibate --- best decision I ever made!
@nontembisomanyathi8587
@nontembisomanyathi8587 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that inspiration! I'm 25 years and still holding. To be honest, some days are better than others. But I think the anxiety of letting it go is bigger than the desire to engage. Thank you so much for sharing that comment, with it and with this video, I'm holding it down until marriage. ❤️❤️
@leratopatriciamokoena9274
@leratopatriciamokoena9274 4 жыл бұрын
Im 26 and still a virgin. I'm content and the world will make you think something is wrong with you
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
keep going sis!
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758 4 жыл бұрын
Girl don't give it up please. For anything or anyone who isn't sent by God for you! I commend you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@joytitus766
@joytitus766 4 жыл бұрын
I'd like to remind whoever is feeling dirty, impure, guilty Listen! God loves you and He's able to cleanse all things through His Word. YOU CAN BE PURE AGAIN❗
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😭😭😭
@zwivhuyafaith8177
@zwivhuyafaith8177 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@mataeliletamo3696
@mataeliletamo3696 4 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819 4 жыл бұрын
You are the best babe
@qothoasek5815
@qothoasek5815 4 жыл бұрын
🙏
@NNK0312
@NNK0312 4 жыл бұрын
I am a 18 year old teen and i am just so encouraged to wait until marriage.
@FadzieM655
@FadzieM655 4 жыл бұрын
Ndapunikwa Kushinga Wait Dear
@esethu.M
@esethu.M 4 жыл бұрын
Keep waiting love, and while in waiting let's build our relationship with God 😊
@favour979
@favour979 4 жыл бұрын
Yes nana, wait, u will not regret it
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819 4 жыл бұрын
Please babe,its worth it
@conslatekoyo475
@conslatekoyo475 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best décision you will have made for your life😊
@buhlelusenga8266
@buhlelusenga8266 4 жыл бұрын
I actually used to think that being a virgin is the only way to be seen pure...But now i see that even if you made a mistake God still welcomes you and restores you
@russelbanze
@russelbanze 4 жыл бұрын
You figured it out sis. 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️ That's more of less the whole point.
@funiesadiki2220
@funiesadiki2220 4 жыл бұрын
”God can't use you if you are not completely honest with Him” Amen!
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
amen!
@ndivhuwomachiba5471
@ndivhuwomachiba5471 4 жыл бұрын
I wish someone told me all this when I was a teenager, but it's never too late to learn and God will forgive
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
grace covers us. when we know better we do better
@ProphetEdgarkapanga
@ProphetEdgarkapanga 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@onthatilenatasha365
@onthatilenatasha365 4 жыл бұрын
Same here i wish i knew this sometimes i kinda hate or feel bad for breaking my v card without knowing but it wasn't my intention
@ProphetEdgarkapanga
@ProphetEdgarkapanga 4 жыл бұрын
@@onthatilenatasha365 as she said, we serve a forgiving God Remember the woman who was about to be stoned for adultery Her accusers had all been disqualified and the one who could chose to forgive You are Forgiven Go in peace
@ProphetEdgarkapanga
@ProphetEdgarkapanga 4 жыл бұрын
@@MpoomyLedwaba amen, amazing grace
@mohaumamatela4890
@mohaumamatela4890 4 жыл бұрын
I've been celibate for almost 2 years this year, and I can admit that soul ties are soooo real! I used to have a sexual relationship with someone who was depressed and had no drive in life, and I actually started seeing those traits in me...but prior to that, I didn't really think they existed. I used to feel like if I don't give someone sex then I won't be enough for him and in order for me to be treated well I had to give him sex..basically saw it as a currency. But I'm no longer that person as I've got a renewed and transformed mind in Christ. I am worth it because He says so, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Sex can really mess you up but it's never too late to come back to God. Thank you Brenden and Mpoomy for this honest talk that nobody's interested in, especially in this day and age. Stay blessed guys!❤
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
love that! its never too late!
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you sis 🙏🏾
@boitshepokekana2039
@boitshepokekana2039 4 жыл бұрын
Literally going through this right now I just realized it of late. Soul ties are real.
@claudiahindongo6524
@claudiahindongo6524 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this really helps me make a choice that pleases God.
@mohaumamatela4890
@mohaumamatela4890 4 жыл бұрын
@@claudiahindongo6524 that's really beautiful girl!❤
@thobiledlamini6797
@thobiledlamini6797 4 жыл бұрын
"God does not only call the qualified, He qualifies the called" 💕
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thats the gospel
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819
@allthingsemploymentwithnok5819 4 жыл бұрын
Wakhuluma kwevakala,phela wena wakitsi!!.I'm also a Dlamini
@sinikiwedlamini3004
@sinikiwedlamini3004 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 23 and still a virgin, I'm encouraged to wait till marriage. Thank you💕
@awandezwane1500
@awandezwane1500 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it up girl!
@mapule2780
@mapule2780 3 жыл бұрын
Wait dear. It's a blessing. I also waited for marriage.
@oratile7205
@oratile7205 2 жыл бұрын
Please continue to wait, I pray for more grace.
@lesegopooe8890
@lesegopooe8890 4 жыл бұрын
Love how Brandon acts like he never knows the topic but gets into it fully prepared!😂 legendary! On a serious note though, This is powerful!
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
lmao hes always clowning
@litze8786
@litze8786 4 жыл бұрын
Great subject to talk openly about 😊 I stopped having sex, soul-ties are real, so now I'm waiting for God to prepare me for Marriage 💍
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
amazing!
@whywhy3049
@whywhy3049 4 жыл бұрын
😒
@litze8786
@litze8786 4 жыл бұрын
@@whywhy3049 ?
@nonhlanhlandwandwe3341
@nonhlanhlandwandwe3341 4 жыл бұрын
wise decision
@litze8786
@litze8786 4 жыл бұрын
@@nonhlanhlandwandwe3341 it's a daily prayer that I remain in Gods Prescence
@joytitus766
@joytitus766 4 жыл бұрын
Also, can we appreciate learning from other people's mistakes? You don't have to touch the fire to know that it burns, if you saw it burn someone, that's a lesson enough to stay away from it. YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING ❗
@chulumancomahanjana5866
@chulumancomahanjana5866 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my word, been saying this. People disregard the lessons that come from other people's mistakes and opt to experience things themselves and end up fetching so much pain, shame and regret. We need to normalize learning from other people's mistakes and forget this YOLO culture that pushes us to experiment with things that often leave us broken and hurt.
@MissElla26
@MissElla26 4 жыл бұрын
True!
@mpho4164
@mpho4164 4 жыл бұрын
Joy Titus absolutely
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
yes we dont all have to burn!
@bongekadube8648
@bongekadube8648 4 жыл бұрын
I am always saying this. People think "ah now that you've had your fun, you want to ruin ours"...and its only because you didn't know better at the time.
@afoodiesadventure4809
@afoodiesadventure4809 4 жыл бұрын
Argh... Brenden😩😩 that hand reaching to cover Mpumi as she speaks about her experience... Haibo. God bless this union. Mrs mom, we are learning, we are listening, we are trying to be better people. May God continue to use you as a vessel ❤️🙌🏽
@nomfundomiya5614
@nomfundomiya5614 4 жыл бұрын
I also noticed that 😭❤️ so beautiful ❤️
@nomfundomiya5614
@nomfundomiya5614 4 жыл бұрын
I also noticed that 😭❤️so beautiful 😭❤️
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@CynthiaSerah
@CynthiaSerah 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@tumimotsatse165
@tumimotsatse165 4 жыл бұрын
A love language ❤️
@leely1173
@leely1173 4 жыл бұрын
I don't wanna lie, when i saw the caption I tried to stay away from the video because deep down i know the video would somehow force me to face my own "demons"...but I do agree with everything you guys are saying...very true
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
eyyy girl! face them
@elsienomcebo9255
@elsienomcebo9255 4 жыл бұрын
I had to face my demons😢
@russelbanze
@russelbanze 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Komako & Ms. Nomcebo, you ladies got this 😊. It's not about what you've done & have been. It's about where you're going. God will always be on your side to help with the hardest battles. You can't defeat them alone. 😊😊😊
@memorybukuru
@memorybukuru 4 жыл бұрын
Russell Kenyangwa thank you! I needed to hear this. It’s about where im going🙏🏾 God has a plan for me
@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424
@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424 4 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄this cracked me up,we got each other in this walk with God sis,pls do not compromise,Christian relationship is so amazing
@MpumiMabunda
@MpumiMabunda 4 жыл бұрын
Yooo you guys🙌🙌 I'm 25 and still saving myself for marriage. This gives me more courage to continue waiting🙏🙏Thanks alot❤❤
@rebabaletswe
@rebabaletswe 4 жыл бұрын
I love this ❤❤
@lenhlemat
@lenhlemat 4 жыл бұрын
Me and you same boat girl. Same age and all. Keep waiting babe❤
@roejo9662
@roejo9662 4 жыл бұрын
AWESOME!!! Beyond commendable!!!
@russelbanze
@russelbanze 4 жыл бұрын
😊 Keep it up.
@OKUHLEMZINYATHI100
@OKUHLEMZINYATHI100 4 жыл бұрын
Jhoo keep it up guys.
@marinkymphahlele3684
@marinkymphahlele3684 4 жыл бұрын
"you can't go too far where God can't find you" 😭😭
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
amen!
@kahlynn-y1040
@kahlynn-y1040 4 жыл бұрын
The Bible says he gathers you from scattered lands
@Nadiamatlala
@Nadiamatlala 4 жыл бұрын
Being celibate has been the best decision I ever made 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Almost 10 years
@ThandazaMK
@ThandazaMK 4 жыл бұрын
10 years? HA sisi wow....that is really inspiring👏👏👏👏👏👏💛💃💃💃💃💃
@Nadiamatlala
@Nadiamatlala 4 жыл бұрын
Mathapelo Moloi thanks boo. Being single most of the time helps 😂😂😂 But creating boundaries and dating like minded people helps. And the break ups are easier. God really does make us new creations in every sense of the word. ❤️ The old has passed away.
@leratoramz6515
@leratoramz6515 4 жыл бұрын
I’m inspired 😭😭👏🏽👏🏽. That’s amazing sis ❤️❤️
@thobzatcebekhulu94
@thobzatcebekhulu94 4 жыл бұрын
Thinking of joining you
@onenkosisimilemkize3191
@onenkosisimilemkize3191 4 жыл бұрын
It is sooooooo worth it🤞🏾❤️ 3 years in and I have nooo regrets!! It brings you closer to God and allows Him to fully deal with you🙌
@sebaganku8125
@sebaganku8125 4 жыл бұрын
Who else like before watching....🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@thobilemlimi3844
@thobilemlimi3844 4 жыл бұрын
Me💃💃
@fillemonhaufiku2091
@fillemonhaufiku2091 4 жыл бұрын
I liked because you said so 😅
@sebaganku8125
@sebaganku8125 4 жыл бұрын
@@fillemonhaufiku2091 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sebaganku8125
@sebaganku8125 4 жыл бұрын
@@thobilemlimi3844 👊👊👊
@frankboateng4133
@frankboateng4133 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂💀mee
@deshonjoseph1292
@deshonjoseph1292 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 19 year old male virgin going to college face to face in September and I’m hanging on strong to my faith and virginity. It’s hard sometime especially when having sex for a guy is considered to be a sign of masculinity by the world but I will continue to speak boldly about my faith. Keep me in your prayers guys.
@melanin7770
@melanin7770 Жыл бұрын
Keep it going bro
@ChibesaChibesakunda
@ChibesaChibesakunda Жыл бұрын
Keep going
@SuperGospelfavorites
@SuperGospelfavorites 4 жыл бұрын
I found Mpoomy when I was doing research on natural hairstyles. But I have been pleasantly surprised at how God used that video to introduce me to your videos about your Christian walk! All of your videos have been such a blessing to me and so encouraging. Keep doing what you're doing. People are listening and being ministered to. :) Praise the Lord!
@ashleydludlu4407
@ashleydludlu4407 4 жыл бұрын
" you cant go too far where God can't fetch you" I felt that
@lesegomakone6612
@lesegomakone6612 4 жыл бұрын
i'm 29 going on 30 still a virgin and i'm glad i watched this cz it gave me more depth on understanding of my journey and also the sympathy that you spoke of for those who have treat the path i haven't, THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR THIS.
@ropachinhoyi
@ropachinhoyi 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are basically my parents. My parents never talk to me like this. Thank you♥♥♥
@empireempire-rf5hd
@empireempire-rf5hd 4 жыл бұрын
Delivered!
@Ebenesia_noabes
@Ebenesia_noabes 4 жыл бұрын
Now this is how such topics ought to be addressed now church, homes and schools who agrees with me🙅‍♂️🔥🔥🔥# dankie so much mpoomy and brenden really needed to hear this,this was honestly sound I appreciate your transparency means a lot x.
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@Ebenesia_noabes
@Ebenesia_noabes 4 жыл бұрын
@@MpoomyLedwaba ❤❤
@TheZuluSamurai1
@TheZuluSamurai1 4 жыл бұрын
Nuri is blessed to have you both as parents.. Onwards and Upwards!
@LottyBeingVegan
@LottyBeingVegan 4 жыл бұрын
I am 19 yrs old, doing my third year in varsity. Am a virgin and sharing that with people especially when u still in varsity it's like I am stupid or not smart enough to actually engage in sex because to majority it's a norm. Most of the time I feel ashamed to confess my virginity to people bcoz of how they will judge me. And it makes me sad that most people never understand how sex for me is more about sharing yourself with someone, a spiritual and emotional connection.
@olwethuzuma8004
@olwethuzuma8004 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate love 🤍 keep your purity
@njokinjuguna6388
@njokinjuguna6388 4 жыл бұрын
Be determined dont mind what people will say about ...people will always there to judge but just do what u know is right n keep ua purity
@blessingphophi9552
@blessingphophi9552 4 жыл бұрын
I feel u ey
@mercybanda4142
@mercybanda4142 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it that way sis. It's not stupid. Stupidity is going against God's way . Keep on pleasing God sis and not People.
@LottyBeingVegan
@LottyBeingVegan 4 жыл бұрын
Tijan Gift that's the energy. Thank you. ❤️
@hayongwonderlik5417
@hayongwonderlik5417 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Ever since I gave up my virginity I haven't been the same. It's been almost 3 years. The hardest thing for me was drifting away from God and my spirituality becoming weak. I've been struggling to reconnect with God, it's just been really hard. From the beginning of this year I made a decision to to being sexually active. I'm working of fixing my relationship with God because that was a huge aspect in my life. I'm now staying cilabit until marriage. Thank you so much for this video.... you are touching many lives.
@russelbanze
@russelbanze 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it up ❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊
@khanyisileruselo9502
@khanyisileruselo9502 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you sis ❤ keep on pushing what's more important is the relationship with self and with the higher power .
@nqobilesibiya3126
@nqobilesibiya3126 4 жыл бұрын
"You have to ask the Lord to release you from these people...name them one by one"😥
@kgothatso_N
@kgothatso_N 4 жыл бұрын
"It takes you far from God and when you realize that you're far from God, you become scared of God and you don't have a relationship with God"- Brenden I felt that🙌🙌💯💯
@smartandmarried9373
@smartandmarried9373 4 жыл бұрын
This MINISTRY entails of transparency and authenticity, thank You for being obedient. You guys are spirit led yoh🥺🤞🏿. Siyabonga
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
yes transparency is the key!
@Ntombizanele_Tshali
@Ntombizanele_Tshali 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful video and as a single young Christian who is trying to mend her relationship with God, this is perfect for me. Thank you 🙏
@nolubabalomcengwa6935
@nolubabalomcengwa6935 4 жыл бұрын
Keep on. Seek Him and you will find Him.
@mabotsechoshane
@mabotsechoshane 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are filled with God’s wisdom ❤️ A rare thing for our generation. Thank you for encouraging biblical wisdom 🙏🏽
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@ntsakomavunda54
@ntsakomavunda54 4 жыл бұрын
Well said Mabotse, truely beautiful to have the Ledwabas in their space of influence to really talk about such topic from a pure Godly/biblical stand point. We are cheering u guys and praying for you to stand until Christ comes ..im soo sharing this!
@thebtalk4391
@thebtalk4391 4 жыл бұрын
Relationship Goals - Ps. Michael Todd. This was open and honest. God Bless your marriage and carry on with the work that you are doing.
@kgomotsohlaka7755
@kgomotsohlaka7755 4 жыл бұрын
This is amazing🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 26 and never regreted not losing my virginity till now... And to those who aren't virgins anymore and wanna be celibate, remember that it's not necessarily about keeping yourself for your husband, but for the sake of purity and being obedient to God. A few of us are contemplating being eunuchs for the kingdom of God, so we might die virgins, but what I'm stressing is that though virginity and purity are two different things, may the decision be made because of your love and obedience to God and not for someone else primarily... Tha K you for the amazing, godly content. ❤️❤️❤️
@delchetty6126
@delchetty6126 4 жыл бұрын
amen obedience to God
@nolubabalomcengwa6935
@nolubabalomcengwa6935 4 жыл бұрын
"We are nobody's but we know someone who is amazing and who can change lives"-Brenden. That was so deep! Could even be a song.
@amparanyameyie5719
@amparanyameyie5719 4 жыл бұрын
There is a song like that by Casting Crowns. "I am just a nobody"
@odwanxokwana8694
@odwanxokwana8694 2 жыл бұрын
I genuinely felt that!
@khutso_mbokane
@khutso_mbokane 4 жыл бұрын
"A marriage without a ceremony... " yoh! I felt that. God bless you guys. I will share your video and pray it reaches not only peoples eyes but penetrates into their spiritual minds. This is the wisdom young people lack. Also I commend you as a couple for opening up as much as you have... to help others. Stay blessed.
@Miss_Greatness
@Miss_Greatness 4 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are real😢I am still struggling to get over my ex, he was toxic to me but I couldn’t let go. I even stopped going on dates because I just think of him and wish he was the one I went out with. I wouldn’t advice anyone to have sex before marriage, it hurts you in the long run
@nuseruiters1214
@nuseruiters1214 4 жыл бұрын
Going through the same thing and it hurts soo bad.Let us hang in there,God is able.
@wanderingcucamber7082
@wanderingcucamber7082 4 жыл бұрын
Love and light standwa. ❤🥺 I know this all too well.
@sarahletsoalo9668
@sarahletsoalo9668 4 жыл бұрын
Nombuyiselo Nyembezi take it upon yourself now, to seek God and cut the ties through prayer. God is not unjust, pray through the name of Jesus and mann your life will be transformed and changed
@ndivhuworamadwa
@ndivhuworamadwa 4 жыл бұрын
My current reality
@delchetty6126
@delchetty6126 4 жыл бұрын
totally get you girl!!!!!!1 stay strong.
@tlalythabo7021
@tlalythabo7021 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the truth!👐🏾 Sex is certainly not just sex and, done wrong, it does hinder intimacy with God!
@lebonhlapo2607
@lebonhlapo2607 4 жыл бұрын
As a person who's still dealing with soul-ties, IT IS THE PITS. HELL AT IT'S FINEST!!!!!!!!DON'T ENTERTAIN THE DEVIL NOR DEMONS. However God is faithful and merciful yet I've changed❤ and turned my life over to Christ.
@shifab7029
@shifab7029 4 жыл бұрын
I’m Muslim and a lot of what you say resonates with us. Reminded of this that all those what would be in heaven will be sinners BUT sinners who repented. it’s beautiful the relationship we have with god all he wishes is protection and goodness for us and he knows best❤️
@thembekamabaso9001
@thembekamabaso9001 4 жыл бұрын
"The Gospel is for those who are sick and needy." Oh Lord! God bless you and your family.
@siphe6335
@siphe6335 4 жыл бұрын
What a sermon, strange enough a friend of mine spoke about this to me izolo reminding me of how powerful I used to be when we were saved and varsity changed me. Thanks guys, I will practice this. Its actually my first time watching your channel, I believe God was confirming what my friend was saying and this morning I took Uber, the Nigerian Uber driver just started talking about this topic and how it has been delaying me from being great. Its strange!! But I believe God is really talking to me now
@amandabeta6257
@amandabeta6257 4 жыл бұрын
I was also watching Pastor Mike Todd yesterday evening, its so funny that just recently these videos are being recommended to me...God is speaking🙌...Thank you guys God bless u
@yvonnengema5325
@yvonnengema5325 4 жыл бұрын
Who? Mpoomy and Brandon? Fixing the country those ones🥺You people are everything❤️We love you so much🥰
@chisae_
@chisae_ 4 жыл бұрын
14:10. The devil definitely uses shame, secrecy and guilt to destroy you. Thank you so much for this video. You are really helping young girls by sharing information and advice that we don't necessarily hear at home from our parents. God Bless you.
@tncgambu
@tncgambu 4 жыл бұрын
"God can't heal what you don't show Him." Thank you so much. I needed this❤️💕
@thatomphafudi
@thatomphafudi 4 жыл бұрын
Half way through the video and this convo is intense, I love how you guys touch on topics that promotes personal and spiritual growth. Thank you
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank yu Thatho
@leratoramz6515
@leratoramz6515 4 жыл бұрын
I genuinely love how honest you guys are 😭❤️❤️.
@nanampunganyi4058
@nanampunganyi4058 4 жыл бұрын
"There are certain things I feel like you can do without" yaaaaassss 🔥💯
@its._tlholo1858
@its._tlholo1858 4 жыл бұрын
The Holy Spirit brought me here as I was confused as to what now happens to my relationship as I’ve changed my lifestyle, thank you for this revelation ❤️
@joytitus766
@joytitus766 4 жыл бұрын
Ya'll are doing the most👏 The world has normalized sex like crazy, it's almost like an infectious disease now that is somewhat strangely attractive. At the end of the day, God knows what's best for us and there's wisdom in everything He said we should stay away from. There's no shame in doing things the God-way, after all, we are not of this world
@litze8786
@litze8786 4 жыл бұрын
Amen, Amen, Amen 👏
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@khanyisileruselo9502
@khanyisileruselo9502 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I couldn't agree more 💖 sex is a trend now .
@mamobabalwa6500
@mamobabalwa6500 4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🙏
@b.m709
@b.m709 4 жыл бұрын
“Let me give it to you before you take it away from me” I felt this in my spirit. I relate so much. I’m so glad I’m no longer that person. Thank you for being light 🌕
@b.m709
@b.m709 4 жыл бұрын
Also i could tell from your conversation that you follow Ps Todd Michael 🔥🔥 let’s go!!!!
@berverlymbedzi5317
@berverlymbedzi5317 4 жыл бұрын
The way he rubbed her shoulder when she got emotional😢
@dearnewmom
@dearnewmom 4 жыл бұрын
That got me smiling...
@ncebakazitshangela1032
@ncebakazitshangela1032 4 жыл бұрын
Can we pause and applaud Mrs Mom for keep giving us these videos. I always look forward to hearing from you madam. Thank you. Now let's watch😉
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
ahhhh thank you
@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424
@dcc-randomstorieswithmel7424 4 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄this is funny,we love them too
@phililemkhize5946
@phililemkhize5946 4 жыл бұрын
I am a 20 years old young woman, turning 21 years this year. I have decided at a young age that I should save myself for marriage. I am a virgin and I decided to save myself because I believe that having sex with someone is a sign of marriage. I think that is why God said we have to do it when we are married.
@Kcee1212
@Kcee1212 4 жыл бұрын
Am 28 and still a virgin by God's grace , it's not easy but God is faithful. I still choose to wait till am married.
@redeemablesoul
@redeemablesoul 4 жыл бұрын
I was crying on my way to work..this convo is deep
@favour979
@favour979 4 жыл бұрын
deep n very deeply powerful, educational n awesom
@bennykimanibk
@bennykimanibk 4 жыл бұрын
You can't expect God to heal/change something you have been hiding from Him...Thank you for this!
@gakiikinoti4514
@gakiikinoti4514 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@olebogengsekete2104
@olebogengsekete2104 4 жыл бұрын
The hand comfort that Brandon did to his wife wow reminds me of my partner...God heals and restores with the best ... I’ll testify very soon thank you for this
@_Lolo00
@_Lolo00 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for the release from soul ties. Wow this hit home & I fully agree cause if we pray about everything else, one can pray about this too.
@talentlnsouthafrica7376
@talentlnsouthafrica7376 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like God is really talking to me, I've been celibate and was thinking of quiting but I feel like through this convos, He's telling me I should continue and I still have a long way to go, I still need to break a soul tie I have I still need to be devoted to the word and understand really what sex is or what marriage is, why women have to sacrifices this much, and I feel like as much I feel like it's a huge sacrifice women are making, so the fact that He made me a woman for a reason
@jemimaoduwaiye
@jemimaoduwaiye 4 жыл бұрын
Hope95Hope Hope95Hope bless you🙏🏾
@litze8786
@litze8786 4 жыл бұрын
Pray the Lord will help you through this journey 👍 I've been celibate few months now, I've surrendered it all to God I've removed myself from places of temptation don't see guys anymore keep as far away as possible just working on producing a better version of myself so when the Lord blesses me with a husband ill be ready. God Bless you always
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
im so glad you have decided to stand by your decision. it will be worth it.
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758
@kurhulandlovuzulu6758 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😔 and please don't give up celibacy
@mbalenhlehlatshwayo7761
@mbalenhlehlatshwayo7761 4 жыл бұрын
Don't stop... I was celibate and decided to just stop. Biggest mistake I ever made in life, not only did I just feel like my life was falling apart piece by piece I felt stagnant... During that period I learned that the guy I was dating was a devil worshiper! It's not worth, trying to get back to the life I was living before has been really tough... N also to touch abit on what Mpumi said about soul ties the guy I slept with was a smoker n for a few months I found myself enjoying cigarettes from nowhere, prior to that I cudnt stand cigarettes... But God has been good to me, I'm well on my way back to being my normal self.
@nonkosimsomi3122
@nonkosimsomi3122 3 жыл бұрын
I love how you guys are so transparent. Usually as Christians we just act like we are already in heaven and don't speak about the realities of this world. Thank you for being so transparent 🙏🏽❤️
@pinkimanong2704
@pinkimanong2704 4 жыл бұрын
Mpoomy reminds me so much of myself 🤦🤦🤦girl I was born and raised in stounch Christian home, Pastor's kid vibes but yoo my mistakes 🙆🙆🙆. We thank Jesus for Grace now I'm older and now better. 🤗🤗🤗Keep up the good work guys ♥️
@vickymor3963
@vickymor3963 3 жыл бұрын
Lol same same story for me too
@Khumo_Tshenkeng
@Khumo_Tshenkeng 4 жыл бұрын
I felt it when u said "your purpose is delayed " 😭that's soo true
@people2people983
@people2people983 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful preaching guys. The content is really ministering. I absolutely love it. The sexual struggle is real especially for those that are seeking to live lives that are pleasing to God.
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@Munzhe
@Munzhe 4 жыл бұрын
"The more you love God the more you want to live for Him" ❤️
@amandlamanzana3248
@amandlamanzana3248 4 жыл бұрын
I have been against the term soul ties for a while now because let's say I didn't quite get it. Now that you're talking it's making sense. It does change you. You pick up habits that you never had all of a sudden. Struggles that you didn't have. I'm encouraged guys and I love your channel. Thank you for your wisdom, courage and transparency.
@amandamathonsi8222
@amandamathonsi8222 4 жыл бұрын
Same here I never really took it seriously until today. I think most people fail to explain it. They really did good with this one👏🏽👏🏽
@norahmodika5460
@norahmodika5460 4 жыл бұрын
John 1: 9- "But if we confess our sins to God, he will keep his promise and do what is right: he will forgive us our sins and purify us from all our wrongdoing". Your Videos inspires many & makes one to evaluate their lives. Thank you 🤗😢
@pearlmashego8536
@pearlmashego8536 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are a whole mood. I like how you tackle all the these topics. Your confidence, sympathy and truth is amazing. " Start by loving God before obeying him"
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
ahhh we appreciate you
@thanandlovu5107
@thanandlovu5107 3 жыл бұрын
How he comforts her when she tells her story 🥺
@pelonolophepheng
@pelonolophepheng 4 жыл бұрын
Shuuu 😭🙌 this came at such a crucial time in my life 🙌. Thank you so much guys, I can't wait to share my testimony a few years from now. God bless yallz for this!
@leratomathibe1862
@leratomathibe1862 4 жыл бұрын
Pelonolo Phepheng cuz you are here as well? small world..
@pelonolophepheng
@pelonolophepheng 4 жыл бұрын
We're here for the content cuzlo 😁🙌 it's too good!!!
@ndivhuwomachiba5471
@ndivhuwomachiba5471 4 жыл бұрын
Mpumi I wish you know how much changes you have done in my life. I thank God for sending you to open my eyes. Each and every video you post shift something in my life. 😭😭😭
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
ahhhhh im so happy!
@kamogelomithi5738
@kamogelomithi5738 4 жыл бұрын
I have named them one by one and cut those ties in Jesus name...believe you me I instantly felt a relief. Thank you Jesus that I am free 😭😭🙏🏻 all the glory to him 🙋🏻‍♀️
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
amen you are free!
@lungelontuli7053
@lungelontuli7053 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I really feel like God was talking to me here! My boyfriend and I have recently decided to go celibate and maaaan has it been difficult! I thank God for putting this message in your heart and for you guys heading the call!
@malebelomaphutha6566
@malebelomaphutha6566 4 жыл бұрын
May God give you the strength Lungelo.
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
so proud of your decision, put boundaries in place
@Mellie_Matshubeng
@Mellie_Matshubeng 4 жыл бұрын
The transparency that you guys are serving is beautiful 👌
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@amantlemmileng
@amantlemmileng 4 жыл бұрын
Guys.. soul ties are a real thing. Guard your heart & protect your body. I remember being in a sexual relationship with this guy and being soo addicted to him. And he was so mean to me. I was unwilling to just sit and listen to the Holy Spirit anymore, even at the point of not understanding why God would not just let him be the one. I was gonna make him the one for me. God's purpose and plan was unimportant to me. Looking back, I cannot even believe that was me. This video is an important lesson that I wish every young Christian could hear.
@tintswalochabalala4672
@tintswalochabalala4672 4 жыл бұрын
I went through the same thing sis, I forced myself on him even with the hurt that came with. I forced myself to believe that he was the one, although I knew deep down in my heart. I replaced God's place in my heart for him. I put him first and I refused to see anything else other than love and it wasn't love. For 8 years, I refused to listen to the holy spirit. Today I look back and think.... It can only be Grace❤️
@uhlengihadebe3512
@uhlengihadebe3512 4 жыл бұрын
@@tintswalochabalala4672 relatable content
@Miss_Greatness
@Miss_Greatness 4 жыл бұрын
I went through the same thing
@itumelengmbane5922
@itumelengmbane5922 4 жыл бұрын
Please watch. "I will wait for you" its a poem by P4CM i think you might enjoy it. It speaks about the whole the concept❤
@thandomapeyi3757
@thandomapeyi3757 4 жыл бұрын
This is me now. But i am choosing to listen to the holy spirit. As much as it is so hard i need to let go and let God.
@kathorusparliament
@kathorusparliament 4 жыл бұрын
God is real and good!!! Mpoomy is pretty with brains and kind ...beautiful fam, good husband, they both sing well and love God and all *claps once*
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
lol thank you
@mereoniwaqa4298
@mereoniwaqa4298 4 жыл бұрын
"That is a truth but not the whole truth" Thank you for being so real🙌
@palesapisces6206
@palesapisces6206 4 жыл бұрын
The truth nobody wants to talk about. Thank you for this. Love your content ❤️
@kesegokgagodi4425
@kesegokgagodi4425 3 жыл бұрын
Very spiritually eye opening! May God keep using you guys as vessels of honor to rescue young people and couples from traps of the devil.
@Miss_Greatness
@Miss_Greatness 4 жыл бұрын
The Ledwabas make me wanna get married tomorrow😍
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
hahah embrace every season
@thobzatcebekhulu94
@thobzatcebekhulu94 4 жыл бұрын
Lool nami yazi 😂😂😂
@sanelyfchannel3745
@sanelyfchannel3745 4 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm all the best❤️❤️
@tabitanomancwabeneti4174
@tabitanomancwabeneti4174 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣OMG I thought I was crazy🤣🤣
@thembisamakhoba7219
@thembisamakhoba7219 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@amandasibiya
@amandasibiya 4 жыл бұрын
I cannot begin to describe how passionate I am about this subject. I'm also a Preachers Kid I believe this is something that needs to be spoken about not as "DONT HAVE SEX OTHERWISE YOU'RE GOING TO HELL" but the truth about it. SEX IS GOOS! but in the container of marriage.. this is so beautiful, you two are beautiful and thank you for not being ashamed to tell your story.. This is such a much needed conversation!!! above it all GOD LOVES YOU AND GOD WANTS TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR WEAKNESSES!!!!!
@catherineduna3718
@catherineduna3718 4 жыл бұрын
I just prayed for you two coz you’re truly a beautiful blessing 💕
@juniormosomi
@juniormosomi 4 жыл бұрын
Such an important perspective... Guilt & shame is the devil's playground
@mary9853
@mary9853 4 жыл бұрын
The transparency here is amazing and extremely enlightening 🌼🔥🔥
@opthecarfanatic
@opthecarfanatic 4 жыл бұрын
honestly you guys are saving a lot of people including and its really inspiring seeing a young fearing GOD and teaching a lot of youth about how we should preserve ourselves as people and that sex is supposed to be a pure thing between married people...honestly brendon's story is almost similar to mine and i really relate when he says sex really changes who you are and your relationship with God.. Thank you very much on taking your time and sharing this with us, i really appreciate it
@TheDlotos
@TheDlotos 4 жыл бұрын
I just love you and I feel like I say that too much but you’re guys are totally my inspiration. If it was I’d love to watch you guys talk all the time. Your content no.1 is so informative, you grow so much depth and I love transparency and the truth. I hope out of this channel, more couples get raised. Thank you🙏🏽❤️
@MpoomyLedwaba
@MpoomyLedwaba 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so so much
@its_elly_welly
@its_elly_welly 3 жыл бұрын
I like how Brenden took out his hand holding Mpoomy when she was sharing her experience. Wow I'm glad I came across this podcast.
@aliciamudumela1383
@aliciamudumela1383 4 жыл бұрын
The price is too high and not worth it indeed. Wow. Thank you for the content and sharing your journey with us. You are leading by example and I love it. May the Lord continue to guide you on your journey.
@natypaulo-mbaiwa
@natypaulo-mbaiwa 4 жыл бұрын
This was great. It reminded me of my youth meetings more than 20 years ago. The teachings seemed old fashioned but I thank God for His grace because they saved me from alot of bad choices and paths. I pray that my kids follow God's ways.
@hlengiebuda3742
@hlengiebuda3742 4 жыл бұрын
I personally thank God for the both of u and for yo wisdom,am very greatful always💋
@malekalekgala8682
@malekalekgala8682 3 жыл бұрын
The part of "shame and quilt" really hit hard on me, I remember last week I refused to go to church because of the things I during the week... I felt dirty to go to the house of the Lord... And also ever since I engaged myself into this adult thing I became distance, and whatever bad thing I wanna do, I justify with the fact that I did lot of sins then why no do this one... But today your voices reached me and I see things at different perspective and I'm willing to remind myself of my purpose in this life... Thank you for a very significant message ❤ Thank you for the nice people
@phillipmphahlele3528
@phillipmphahlele3528 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing ministry you guys are leading here, the transparency and depth of this vid is refreshing, may God be glorified 🙏🏽
@mandisamfenyana8122
@mandisamfenyana8122 4 жыл бұрын
Being transparent with God has truly liberated me. The truth shall surely set you free - not only knowing it but also speaking it.
@busingyeclare1110
@busingyeclare1110 4 жыл бұрын
Yooo.. Soul ties are so real.. You give away something and something is taken away from you..then shame and guilt start haunting. But our God is able to restore us when we confess to Him
@aphendulwegasela257
@aphendulwegasela257 4 жыл бұрын
its so refreshing to see young people passionate about the gospel of Christ and about the truth. may God bless you abundantly and protect you from the enemy
@betswe.ratlhogo
@betswe.ratlhogo 4 жыл бұрын
My personality really did change after breaking my virginity and I’ve decided to become celibate. I totally relate to Mpoomy
@zanelemadiba178
@zanelemadiba178 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve taken a “break” from Christianity for personal reasons but watching you guys always revives me and reminds me you cannot unlearn the truth. Thank you for the great content as always.
@thendomakherana1864
@thendomakherana1864 4 жыл бұрын
Zanele Madiba what if you take a break and never get a chance to change? Tomorrow is not always promised.
@ntandokazi5587
@ntandokazi5587 4 жыл бұрын
Christianity is a lifestyle not religion
@thembisibiya4435
@thembisibiya4435 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you Zanele, you will be ok. God will see you through whatever challenge you are facing. You are loved❤️🙏
@zanelemadiba178
@zanelemadiba178 4 жыл бұрын
Thembi Sibiya thank you so much for this message. ♥️
@joychiamaka3281
@joychiamaka3281 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this view,twas timely for me, it touched me in every aspect, specially when you talk off purpose,guilt and shame.. like God wanting to use you but you disqualify yourself You are officially like a role model to me Plus you have a nice family Love you
@nadea2645
@nadea2645 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys😢😢😢😢😢😢😢thank you , thank you.i love you !!the devil uses guilt to keep you from speaking to God indeed and the more you dont speak to God , the further you drift away from Him and the more you are lured to darkness
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