Forced off the job!!! How did it get to this???

[@mikemclennan2909]

Thanks

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Morning Mike, hope you're well mate. Just to let you know that the £4.99 that you so generously gave us will be going to a local charity. We're going to promote what you've done and tell others that should they wish to do the same, the amount amassed over the year will then be spent on toys for the kids at Birmingham Children's Hospital at Christmas 2024. Hopefully mate, with a few more people like yourself and a bit of luck, you may have started a little something that can put a few smiles on some faces. Have a great day mate.

[@mikemclennan2909]

That’s great. It’s not much but I hoped this would show my support in a bit more than words. All the best. Mike

[@Mr_A_Builders]

@mikemclennan2909 fair play to you mate. All the best.

[@michaelhewlett4401]

I think u will look back and thank fook I got away from that 😂😂😂

[@Mr_A_Builders]

@michaelhewlett4401 haha! Already am mate!

[@GRRR1148]

I’m a Chartered Engineer specialising in bridges and major civil structures - I have designed some very large retaining walls (up to 35m retained height). I completely agree with your approach, and based on this video would definitely employ you! Well done for standing your ground.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Daniel. I really appreciate that! All the best for the new year!

[@stevefromlondon9175]

Totally agree if that went over that on your back I would have done the same Regards Steve UK London

[@ouethojlkjn]

I worked for a building firm in London, and we eventually went to court and lost because the judge said “you were the experts you should not have done the work if you knew it was wrong”… just a warning!!

[@matthewtodd357]

You were 100(percent right. As a suggestion to you go and speak to the neighbours about what will happen to the tree if you went any nearer so they can make sure it doesn't die.

[@paulgilliland2992]

Name the type of foundation employed on this wall ?

[@Norfolkbiker50]

My father was a builder and I did my apprenticeship as a bricklayer. I left the trade in 2009 because I realised that there were easier ways to make a living but I had my share of "difficult customers". One that I remember very well was an extension I was asked to build for a young couple in Norfolk. Within days of starting the job I found out that the girls father was a retired architect and every morning I was given a list of things that either didn't meet his criteria or he was demanding I did and all of them were against building regs. I put up with this for a couple of weeks until I arrived on a Monday morning to find that he had been at the weekend and demolished all the brickwork I had done after telling them that "A proper bricklayer does the blockwork first and paints them with sealant before doing the brickwork" at this point I put my tools in the van and left after telling them to get her dad to do the work. Over the next year or so at least 4 other guys that I know of took on that job and all left within a week because of this idiot. The house then went up for sale without the extension being built.

[@ianmuir3640]

I’ve retired from the building trade (bricklayer) it’s the best thing that’s happened to me don’t miss it at all

[@Norfolkbiker50]

@@ianmuir3640 I hadn't laid a brick for more than 10 years but last summer I built a garage for a mate. Laying bricks in the fresh air was actually a nice change but I'd never go back to it, like you I don't miss it. It always seemed to me that it was bloody hard graft for a little money, I know a lot of people think brickies earn a fortune but the truth is that you're always at the mercy of the weather, you get ripped off and if you do anything about it you're undoubtedly the one who ends up in court. I clean carpets for a living these days, I don't have to pay for anything, van, diesel, equipment is all supplied by the company I just turn up and do my job. Happy days!

[@lea-rw5cb]

​@@ianmuir3640 same I was a plasterer,loved the laughs on site but that was all,I retrained after plastering for 20yrs I'm now a engineer 👍 best thing I ever did, was a shame as was in the trade 20yrs, sadly I feel now its all going down hill rapidly due to short cuts and alot of things not being passed down, the works getting rougher and rougher no pride anymore just all about the money.

[@garnhamr]

A friend of mine was going to complain about a hob installation because there was a tiny little gap at the front and the back (you could slide a piece of paper under it) which turned out to be the worktop was very slightly concaved (so higher in the middle than the front and back). LOL some people... I did tell him not to and i hope he didn't. I'm so glad that i'm capable of DIY and not an ignorant pen pusher lol.

[@Norfolkbiker50]

@ERGRUPPETTO worked for the department of work and pensions from 09 until 2012. Since then I've cleaned carpets.

[@colinsimpson2421]

You act professionally, calmly, and with integrity. Well done for maintaining standards and not taking the easy route.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Colin. I really appreciate that. Take care.

[@GosforthHandyman]

Followed you guys for ages. Your work is exceptional. Their loss. Have a fantastic 2024 to you and yours! 👍🎉😁

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Hello pal! Hope you're well. Yes, you've given us a couple of shout outs within your videos last year and we really really appreciate it, thank you! Were big fans of yours too. Hope you've had a great Christmas mate and all the best for the new year to you and your family. Take care, thanks again.

[@adrianrose9155]

I am a surveyor of 47 years - still active and have, on occasion, inspected work in progress. The situation you found yourself in meant there was no option but to walk away. The architect (most likely a technician ) should have advised your client on the facts. Your approach is first class, and the trees will now be suffering due to the exposed roots . I suspect nothing will be right for the client, and to have progressed any further would have meant deeper foundations for the extension to satisfy Building Control. At your cost . I am pleased you stood your ground . The Building Safety Act 2022 now applies to all construction. I doubt the client is aware of their obligations . Wish you a good 2024 you didnt need this one .

[@Richard0292]

So if the customer found a builder to build against regs they're both liable?

[@bandidol200]

The architect and structural engineer should have raised the point to the customer about the closeness of the tree. If you were to continue, then your concerns should have been put in writing to be approved and signed by them, then you'd have no come backs. However, you did right by sticking to your professional guns. Well done.

[@badasswood]

this is why most masons are cynical bitter jerks to every one😅😅 all the bull crap we have to put up with from idiot customers, and the white shirts...

[@GarethPearce-k2z]

If you are a surveyor of 47 years then you should absolutely ashamed of yourself for your disgusting slurr against the architect who should sue you!

[@GarethPearce-k2z]

Totally wrong! The client is there solely to observe the builder carrying out his work, he has no authority over the builders work, it is his building site once he is engaged and he has the right to finish the job as hired!

[@John316OBrian-cm4fj]

20 years ago I might have listened to the client but after a lifetime of listening to amateur builders now I'm out the door when I start getting advice from clients ,you did the right thing

[@Occident.]

100% mate. I've even had one punter telling me when I priced her job...."15 mins paint a door side, 10 door sides 2 coats, that's 20 door sides, i expect you have them done by noon". I just turned my back, walked away and said......get someone else.

[@mohmda4449]

Always better to leave it and walk away, then have to face continous bad feedback. Stick to your principles 👍

[@mrbluesky9891]

thAn ffs!

[@mickeytherye]

Adam, you should be so relieved this job has gone, you have definitely dodged a bullet, top builders like yourself will never struggle for work. I would wish you good luck but I don’t think you need it .

[@shazbo42]

Be really interesting when you’re driving past over the next year to see what the progress is like and how many other builders they get through. If you’ve come out evens then ide take it as a blessing. You could have given them a rainbow and there wouldn’t have been enough colours, all the best for 2024 all of you xxx

[@lwo7736]

I'm using the rainbow quote all the time from now on haha

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Haha! It's a good one isn't it!

[@noelwallace5257]

From one self employed tradesman to another, well played my man.

[@michaelbritton9778]

I’m no builder but I think it’s always best to build inside your own boundary. It may save a lot of hassle from-neighbours later.

[@pauljames1258]

thats exactly what he has done but its off cock so its gonna grind on the client

[@robbierobinson394]

I have been a working foreman for a very good builder for many years. I am now retired, but I would have loved working for you with the quality and morals you have. Well done outstanding. Wish you all the best, you did the right thing.

[@davidatkinson3336]

Wholeheartedly agree with your reasoning. You could potentialy leave yourselves open to a court case for negligence should it have collaped and hurt someone. Happy Christmas and a good start to 2024 guys. Keep the videos comming.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Cheers mate! All the best.

[@grahamparkyn1590]

Good for you, right is always the correct way…

[@RedlandShed]

As a building professional specialising in party walls and neighbourly matters I admire your integrity, impartiality and common sense. Professionalism shines through in all that you note here. All the best to you. Any customer who secures your services will be very fortunate.

[@JasonHolmes-uy8xq]

Would u want wall out square to boundary like this if moved wall should move it keep square not one side

[@svetozaratanasov9155]

I respect your honesty and courage to put this video, because usually we don't see videos on youtube when things go badly wrong. I'm sure future customers who see this video, to me it's a confession, they will appreciate your professionalism and the fact that you are not willing to do a rubbish job. I hope more customers to see your story and you'll defenitly get the right clients. I wish you all the best for the new year, and keep up the good standard and moral ground as you did. Good luck.

[@Cybertruck1000]

First time I've seen your channel. I'm sure most of us viewing this would be delighted with a builder like you to be working with us. The greater loss is theirs not yours. Good luck to them in finding a builder as conscientious as you.

[@markkerridge8084]

I've been telling my mates in the trades to embrace the power of the word "no" for years. It's one of the best lessons i've ever learned. We all need to be happy with the work we are doing. You did well.

[@1sostatic]

Absolutely 100% with you on that. ... although some narcissistic customers dont have "no" in their vocabulary. ... it's easier in my profession, I can run away from them at the start. It's a pity some other professions dont seem to get that opportunity.

[@markkerridge8084]

Another favourite phrase of mine is " I'm afraid you'll have to look elsewhere "@@1sostatic

[@garyedmondson796]

Customer sounds like a nightmare !! looks like to me another customer is going to gain a great tradesman and appreciate your work. Sometimes these things happen for a reason and a better project will come along. All the best keep up the good work👍🏻

[@RabanABurr]

What you've done is entirely correct and to allow for the trees is a wise decision. For over thirty years I worked in construction and I experienced similar circumstances on many occasions. I too stuck to my principals and in the knowledge of the potential consequences of the customer's desires, I refused categorically to undertake the work to the customer's specifications. Year's of seeing bad workmanship and having to put things right, I would never put myself in a position where I would have sleepless nights. We live and learn, but for some it has to be the hard way. Good decisions in life are precious and ensure a good reputation in the long run.

[@davidgray2653]

Beenther had it took shit of customers glad IAM out of it I done a job for a women and she kept changing her mind and asking for extras not price asked for more money threw her toys out the pram and with that loaded my tools in van and pissed off

[@raylp4751]

Im thinking once backfilled it would make a great feature with small shrubs either in planters or with mood lighting. Go with what you have.

[@truthwillout7909]

That exactly what I was thinking, without a decent width of ground it would look weird I think. Some nice bushes etc would look really nice and break it up a bit.

[@EMEL-hr4ut]

​@@truthwillout7909think they must be prison warders liking walls so much and hating a bit of greenery. They could use the bit 'given up' for some tasteful shrubs or climbers to hide some of the 'what trees' they could not see anyway.

[@m0aze611]

I’ve witnessed how you’ve gone that extra mile to ensure a first class job was done. I’m gutted for you guys but good luck and hope they find another quality builder that’s prepared to take this job on. Merry Christmas to you all and time to move on. 🎄🎅🎄🎅🎄

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Mike! How are you?! I hope you and the family are well. Have you moved yet? If so I hope it all went well. Thank you as always for your continued support, I hope you and your family have a great Christmas. Thanks again.

[@patrickobrien5367]

😢

[@adamstevens8226]

It’s a testament to the high standards you’ve set that you are willing to walk away instead of backing down and going against your morals. Well done Adam and gang. Am sure you will look back on this one and say am glad I walked away. Also you won’t be losing me as a subscriber because I respect you even more lads. Keep up the great work and have a fantastic new year. 👍🏻

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Nice one Adam! I really appreciate that mate, thank you for sticking around! Merry Christmas, mate. All the best.

[@richardcoupland4427]

The reason I started following your channel was your videos on making a retaining wall right. Not many would put their hands up and try to resolve an issue like that. Hence why I then looked back at all your previous videos and subscribed. If I had the ability to be in a position to have the dream build, I'd be pleading with you to build it. You don't sugar coat or placate the process and the fact that you aren't willing to compromise on quality tells me everything I'd need to know. You care about what is right and what will outlast the previous crud which you have to work with or fix, thats important to someone who understands the levels of grey that exist. Hopefully it'll be a blessing that you'll get plenty of work because of it, not in spite of it in 2024. All the best for the festives to you all and looking forward to the continued amazing content in the new year!

[@danwilliams6776]

That retaining wall video is how I ended up here! Funny KZbin algorithm.

[@Mr_Ashley]

That’s so weird that’s the first video pop up in my recommended too. Kept following as found these guys to be extremely professional and honest.

[@TheNicko306]

Same here too, better workmanship you will not find. Hope it all works out for you in 2024.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Richard. I really appreciate your comments and kind words. I hope you and your family are all having a great Christmas. Thank you again, take care.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Haha! That algorithm sure does take you to some strange places!!! Thank you for sticking with us, Dan! Merry Christmas.

[@geoffh2560]

Thanks for such a reasonable and reasoned explanation of what went wrong on this job. We had horrendous issues with a neighbour over boundary issues, when extending our propert, so I can relate to your situation!

[@robandchristheateam5053]

An excellent study of old school technical integrity in the modern world of entitled undeserving materialism. You are a star.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Why thank you!

[@narrowboatadventures6462]

I'm one of the 3K new subscribers who started watching because of this build. From the outside, it looks like an epic, technically and logistically challenging. I think you have had a lucky escape and done the right things throughout. Your approach to the retaining wall (and tree) is spot-on from what I can see. I agree the Anderson Shelter gate looked like a bonkers idea. I'm loving your other vlogs, so keep them coming. Happy Xmas and a happy 2024

[@ExposedBen]

So

[@davidunderwood5133]

I've been in the trade for well over 40 years, and as soon as I saw the state of the original house I didn't think it could work or a least not be cost affective. By what you have posted and of course there are two sides to every story you have done your very best. love watching your content and will continue to watch I was really looking forward to this series but sure you will continue to put out great stuff. All the best for 2024 and beyond

[@zionking71]

As disappointing as it feels now to be off the job, imagine the grief and headache saved on further aspects of the build.

[@PBYM79]

Sounds like you've dodged a bullet here. Roger Bisby on the Skill Builder channel recently did a video on why so many trades are leaving the game and one of the big reasons was.....the customers! As much as we all love KZbin for the videos that guys like yourselves take the time and effort to make, the customer will watch one 5 minute video on retaining walls and immediately feel they know more than the builder who's spent 30 years in the trade. I'm a decorator by trade and i am stunned by the amount of customers I get who will actually try to tell me how to do my job. This has only been the last 4 or 5 years but it's on the increase. I'm lucky that I have enough good, solid, regular customers that I can turn around and walk away from pricing a job if I start to get any grief but if I was just starting out now, I'd definitely be reconsidering my future in this industry. You definitely did the right thing in sticking to your decision and backing your professional experience. I hope you're ok for work now this one has gone down the carzey but I reckon 100% of tradesmen watching this would have your back. Great channel by the way, keep it up 👍

[@youtoob1811]

Clearly these particular customers are a pain in the arse, and this guy and his outfit are pros..... But..... I've come to realise that most tradespeople are in fact cowboys. Sure there's 20% who are solid, but my god, the number of shitty tradespeople is shocking. I'm getting my place fixed-up and have had most trades in to do various bits, and they're so bad, I can barely believe it. All were highly rated on job-sites! Wonky wall light wiring, off-level sockets/spurs (by nearly 2 inches), skim that's blown within days, skim that looks like the surface of the moon, vertical radiators put on the wrong way round, new pipework flooding the ceiling, poor screed installation - the list is endless - 😂. I've had to fix half the stuff that's been done. Tradespeople are the problem - if they weren't then customers wouldn't need to refer to KZbin to find out what's wrong/right.

[@PBYM79]

@youtoob1811 thank you for a well constructed response to my comment. I wonder where you get the statistic that 20% of trades are solid and 80% are cowboys? I haven't seen this official survey anywhere so would appreciate a link. You've clearly had issues with some of the trades you've had in to do your work, I agree that there are poor tradesmen out there and I've had to put right bad workmanship in the past myself so I get it - but here is an official stat for you, in 100% of the cases I've followed a poor tradesman, the customer opted for the cheapest quote and didn't do their due diligence before employing said person or persons to carry out the work. By due diligence I mean asking around people they know, looking at references online, do they have a website you can look at past work? Did they arrive in a tidy van or car and look at the job in an explanatory manner? Was their workwear smartly branded and tidy? Did they do little things like keeping their hands out of their pockets while looking at the job? Did they hold eye contact with you? Did they follow up in a timely manner with a breakdown of what they intend to do on the job and a quote on a headed email or letter? Did you get more than one quote? I'm not having a pop at you here, I'm merely asking if you carried out these steps before allowing these people onto your site. Would you go out and pay £15k for a car and not find out about the dealer, the history of the car and the potential issues with that particular vehicle make and model? Would you buy off a scruffy, mouthy, rude dealer from a dump of a lot? Of course not! Buyer beware in all cases. Please reply so I can help you not to make the same mistakes going forward. All the best 👍

[@alexjames9547]

I feel for you mate, I absolutely loath domestic work for this exact reason, I never seem to understand people who hire professionals and don’t listen to what they say. Probably dodged a bullet in the long run if they are willing to make such a fuss over losing a foot of garden for a better job I can only imagine the hassle of building an extension for these complete idiots. There is always a compromise when it comes to building works nothing ever goes exactly to plan you have to make it work and make it right.

[@cbee402]

it seems like the customer was seeking a way out of contract

[@longleaf0]

I've been bitten by this situation before, got deeper into the job than I should have before I decided enough was enough. Customers who don't understand why some things need to be done a certain way and are insistent on demanding that they're done a different way are also exactly the same sort of customers who will then hold you responsible when the work fails. Lesson learned (it was a painful one and cost me a lot of money! :D )

[@AJ-xv7oh]

Alot of people have this opinion because there's more than just a few dodgy 'experts'.

[@AJ-xv7oh]

I've just had an 'expert' wire a shower extension. He put in electrical cables that 10 minutes online research shows was wrong. And this is an expert with qualifications. It's embarrassing.

[@colinlees7936]

I feel for you Adam I think the way you have explained your reasons for doing what you have done and the amount of garden they have lost they are being totally unreasonable they have got more than enough garden left to play with .I just hope they don't muck you about paying for the work already done

[@Mr_A_Builders]

No issues at all regarding money, mate. They were as good as gold in that regard. Cheers Colin, Merry Christmas mate.

[@Ultimate-roofing-square.]

Well done for parting company with them. Reading the comments it shows you made the right move, and confirms you are a very creditable builder. 🙌🏻 Shame we can’t see a follow up in a few months time when they are using builder number 4… 😬

[@therealdojj]

During our extension build I asked the builder for things that I wanted and he said he could do some but others would have to be because they would be better He's the expert and did the best he could and we were happy

[@exploringsuffolk]

I'm a painter and decorator i get similar, after a lifetime in the industry i now am able to filter out the difficult clients and jobs before i even start

[@fatwalletboy2]

Oh do tell? Whats the signs?

[@jayvosloo6382]

Glad to see some honest builders out there KEEP UP YOUR GOOD WORK

[@ciaranamhain]

What a tough video to have to make so well done for doing it with such integrity . Onwards and upwards, as much as it hurts at the moment you will look back on this as a valuable learning experience. That job was a cluster fuck from the start but I've no doubt you'd have aced it if you'd been able to persevere. New year new challenges good luck mate.

[@mikeybmw1]

Total nightmare mate, I have been there so I know how you feel , I closed my own company down due to issues like this , just wasn’t worth the stress , I work for another builder now but tbh I am wanting to set up again , this puts me off 😂, always do your best and if that’s not good enough well that customer obviously wants the impossible..

[@anitagough8117]

My first thought when I started this video was 'sounds like a boundary problem' then you spoke about the issue with boundary re. extension it all makes sense! The British are so boundary conscious - personally I think you've come off the worst end of a neighbourhood dispute. Good luck finding more customers that appreciate your skill level and attention to detail.

[@andyharpist2938]

Old British. Not new British.

[@webuildltd]

I’m 4 mins in and you’re 100% right! A good contractor will always highlight potential problems to their clients, I know we do. I had the front of a building fall on me a few years ago by listening to a client, thankfully nobody was hurt but since then we’ve questioned and commented on anything and everything that we feel could have a negative impact on the client. Your actions are logical and based from a position of experience, fair play to you!

[@ivanbrennand280]

You will never regret standing to your guns ( I have run my own small construction company for 40 years ) The customer not understanding good practice Just imagine how the rest of the project would have gone I think you have got out at the right time Well done Keep the high standards up

[@phil7309]

Love your work, methods, standards and integrity. Look forward to watching what ever you work on next. Always inspirational with great knowledge helping us plan our own extension job. If only you guys worked down in Exeter. Merry Christmas !!!

[@BarryPaffey]

I think you've done exactly the right thing, this customer seems to be totally unreasonable and uncompromising. If they wont listen to an expert and be lead by common sense then there's no point in continuing. Your integrity is unquestionable and I'm sure there's plenty more work out there for builders like yourselves. Keep up the great work and please keep the videos coming, I personally love them.

[@davewilson8610]

Must of been difficult to walk away from that amount of work. Definitely sounds like you made the right decision. If you were having issues at this part of the job I’d dread to think what it would be like further on down the line. Having customers like this is extremely stressful and sometimes not worth it! Hopefully you’ve managed to sort some work to replace the work you’ve lost

[@mikemclennan2909]

I’m sorry to hear this. I’ve had my struggles with builders in the past where they have not informed us of issues or discussed approaches. I would love to have a builder with your integrity.

[@DropShort105]

You put your experience, knowledge and most importantly your integrity, over being a yes man and jeopardising what you know. Full respect to you mate, you deserve all the best.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Lemi. Really appreciate your comment mate. All the best to you too.

[@FrankieBoy-wn6qt]

With you 100% mate looks like you had a lucky escape from this one makes you think if the customer had the money to pay you in the first place …good luck on your next project ..👍👍

[@paulpurves484]

Well done Adam I admire your honesty, hope 2024 is a great year for you and your team.

[@robdixon786]

I wouldn't worry bout what potential customers think your videos show the high quality work you do and how professional you and the team are . Merry Christmas

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Rob. I hope you're right mate. Merry Christmas to you too. Take care.

[@robdixon786]

Your work speaks for its self top rate

[@John_Bauers]

I've worked in construction for years and have learnt the hard way to make notes of every discussion with all parties, client, architect, engineer, sub contractor, I then email the notes to all concerned. This has proved invaluable as the project progresses as it is a record of what was agreed and when. It is also accepted if one is forced into independent arbitration (actually it has often prevented things going that far). Mostly people are fair and work as a team but sometimes memories can be 'selective'.

[@robotsonmars1989]

There was 3 choices here. 1 build it the way you did. 2. Put the pillars in the inside and have the wall half a metre closer to the boundary. 3. Persuade the neighbour to remove the trees so you can put the wall next to the boundary. There is no way that a wall will take 2 maturing trees that close. A failure waiting to happen.

[@carter83419]

Hats off Adam, such a shame, but you’ve done the right thing. You all have my respect as it still stings doesn’t it. I’ve walked away from a good few can you just do this jobs. Sometimes to protect your good name, it’s just not worth touching some things. Once you get that gut feeling, you need to trust it. Most importantly, Happy Christmas to all 🎄🎄

[@jrsuk1170]

It looks like you had a lucky escape gentleman, it would of only got worse. At the best, Adam, Rich, Mick and Brad👍

[@fatwalletboy2]

Absolutely it would

[@djohh3057]

100% with you Adam, leave them to it - they may learn something as they move from builder to builder. As an ex project manager my advice would be to always keep a daily logbook of what was said and agreed verbally ( I'm sure you do, but I like repeating myself ).

[@ozhoneybadger]

Spot on. I don't work in construction but defo keep a log book of what was said at what time.

[@myopinion69420]

all this over what will amount to ~600mm of yard area that they are not going to even notice and that's coming from someone who recently completely remodeled my own laundry to gain 90mm. (laundry was very narrow, washing machine door and controls 'stuck out' into the door swing (door missed, but it was still awkward) pushed the washing machine back 90mm into the wall so now the door and controls are in line with or behind the edge of the benchtop.) it definitely sounds like (particularly with the 100mm on the bunker side and the not being able to go down the narrow side of the house) they are just making up reasons to discontinue using your services, Not sure what the building industry is like in the UK, but there is no way you would be able to get anyone to be able to pick up tools on a new job in that short of notice here in Aus. for a job that size you would be waiting months at best unless you had lotto winnings to throw around (or potentially hiring dodgy builders that are out of work for good reason.) its all fun an games until the neighbors tree topples over and kills someone or knocks down part of the owners new extension due to undercutting its roots.

[@Zeus-kj7nn]

You've done the right thing mate. It sometimes not all about the customer, its your own work ethics, morals and integrity. Keep your head up. Wishing you a happy and successful 2024.

[@Chrisbr3452]

Definitely dodged a bullet there guys, well done for sticking to your principles. Good builders are not easy to find, I wouldn't worry, plenty of work out there.

[@gezwebster2951]

Sorry you lost the job but I totally agree with what you have said Adam makes total sense and sticking to your principles shows us all what an excellent company your running the workmanship is always top notch, keep up the hard work and I wish you and the lads and family's a merry Christmas and a prosperous New year 👍👍👍

[@jaylawson9874]

Sometimes these types of jobs are better to walk away from when neighbour disputes are going on they can go on for years. Blessing in disguise.

[@stuartandrews4344]

Speaking from experience,It's aways better to walk away & keep your reputation & high standards...

[@lenboyd8119]

Thanks / we all can read between the lines .We hope you have received all progress payments due.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

I personally didn't make any money from it mate but the lads got paid which is the main thing.

[@markpayne9266]

Well done, really interesting video, you dealt with a tricky situation very well, I suppose we're all interested in how the new builder deals with the problems. I hope they have the bravery to do a follow up video. Good luck with your future projects.

[@brucejoseph8367]

I suspect these customers are wealthy and of lets say the "incoming variety" and don't want to listen to those they look down on i.e. tradesmen who actually know what they are doing. They will regret it and you are better off out of it! Merry Christmas to you, your family and your expert fellow tradesmen.

[@LeeHobbies]

THIS is the video of your that KZbin decided to try me with, I'd never watched your channel before, but it looks like this video may bring you more subscribers than the build you were hoping to work on. Anyway, good for you in remaining professional and I hope the year ahead brings you some wonderful surprises.

[@garethrushby2481]

Crazy to think that they have managed to find another builder and get them on site within 5 days? Are good builders really available for a job of that size at such short notice, I very much doubt it? All the best Adam to you and your team for 2024 and I look forward to more of your great videos in the new year!👍

[@bigboundsy]

Yep will be cowboys. They are going to regret it

[@hod2116]

@Ardwick-Crome company's are crying out for work at the minute

[@A2Z1Two3]

Sounds like there was a side deal with the customer another builder , and some of the problems could have been created to make the builder leave .

[@mott2945]

@@A2Z1Two3exactly this 👏

[@edwardecl]

A certain group of travelling Irish would be all over it, good luck to them.

[@karldoyle8470]

Love how composed you are as it must have been hugly frustrating. Well done.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Oh it was mate, for many weeks! Thankfully we're out of it now, though. Cheers mate.

[@stubarry3206]

I have to agree the wall is in the wrong place for me, but it was a case of needs be, what might have been a idea from the start, if both neighbours had discussed the removal of the two trees and maybe the retaining wall could have served both neighbours with a replacement fence built on top, everyone would be happy, two new trees could have been planted in better location, I think this whole situation could have been sorted with a bit better communication and discussion, keep building guys 👍👍

[@tlangdon12]

The trees were not impressive examples, but they are the neighbours, and prior to the development there was no issues with a few of their roots straying into this garden. There was no reason for the neighbour to agree to get rid of the trees, but a cooperative neighbour would have done so to make the build easier.

[@alexjames9547]

Even if they agreed judging by the way the customer acted I can’t imagine they would be happy paying a couple of grand for them to be removed, you have to work with what you have. Inability to see reason and compromise accordingly is the exact definition of a nightmare customer. In the grand scheme of things once the job is finished would you even notice?

[@anthonynash6835]

​@@tlangdon12I can't imagine being so entitled that I would expect my neighbour to destroy anything on their property so I could move a wall a couple of foot closer to the boundary

[@mott2945]

@@anthonynash6835exactly

[@truxton1000]

@@tlangdon12 It should be a law against having trees so close to a border. But as. British people worship trees more than anything it’s usually impossible to do anything about the problem with trees that are in the wrong place. This trees are ugly anyway.

[@tkthebear984]

Well Adam I fully agree with your decision to walk away from this job. You guys do quality work from the videos I’ve seen on here and you’re perfectly correct in relation to the trees, cos if you went any closer to the boundary that trees roots will cause enormous problems in time. My feeling is it’s the customers loss here as they’ve lost a quality building company. Merry Christmas to you and your band of merry men and may 2024 be a good year for you all. 👍🙂

[@mustertherohirrim7315]

He didn't walk away. He emphasised he didn't walk away.

[@SBODevelopments]

I’ve got a lovely house back brick and up to wallplate in Stourbridge if you fella’s want a something meaningful to go at in the new year. Been done as a drop on / off project for my lads up until now. Needs new roof on extension & full re-roof, full internals doing etc. Appreciate KZbin isn’t the place for this but wanted to send a quick message as I’m guessing you’re not checking emails on Christmas Day. Hope you’re having a great Christmas. 🎄

[@johnshaw4140]

Single skin brick retaining wall , yeah , that'll work fine . Walkway down the side of the house ending in a space 3 inches wide at the corner of the extension...great access and chop half of a wall away from the neighbours shed...sure it won't collapse , hahahahahahaha , some customers are far better left alone. Best of all was NO planning permission for the 1st storey of the extension , great architect . Far better off that you walk away from that job . All the best for a great 2024 . And I have just subscribed , so you've gained an extra viewer

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Cheers John! Hopefully you'll like our other videos and stick around! Take care mate.

[@ICanSeeClearlyNow]

Agree with you 100%, it could have been turned into a feature somehow. I am not a builder but have had several retaining walls built on properties, I learnt the hard way on the first wall built for me (taking the builders advise), it lasted about 18 months before the water and ice had it falling over. Had to pay all over again to get it re-built properly. There's a lot of mass behind a wall of that height.

[@JohnPT123]

To be fair guys, I think it's a blessing in disguise, because instead of possibly spending 18-24 months(if things go bad) on one job, you could do i don't know, multiple floor rebuilding jobs like Richard, or many extensions,etc. In a nutshell it's a blessing in disguise because you guys could do multiple projects in the period of time you'd spend on this one project. Plus, you guys would most likely end up with fatter pockets.Merry Christmas and I sincerely hope that 2024 is the biggest year for the channel yet! #getMrABuildersto100k Cheers!

[@matthewnichols6687]

I think you did the correct thing for what it's worth. I would put money on it that you've had a lucky escape. You would have got half way through that job and wished you hadn't. Count your blessings and move swiftly on to better things m8. Happy new year 🎉🎉👍

[@ballybansel6186]

Unfortunate situation, was looking forward to the series, but never mind. Keep up the good work, I have learnt alot from your videos and can see you do proper work. Looking forward to the next project you will share with us.

[@regbarnard2866]

I had an extension built in 2001, I wanted at the time for it to go nearer to a tree not on my land but went with the recommendation of the builder of leaving a larger gap. Now 22 years later the tree has grown considerably and is bumping my guttering and causing a problem it would have been much worse if I had been built any nearer.

[@chrisjie2127]

You dodged a bullet here. I wish I could find such a thoughtful practical builder as you.

[@peterm1555]

I believe you are lucky to be out of it. Always going to be a wrong 'un, the customer and new "builder" will now get the hassle you won't. 👍🎄

[@kirkb40]

Good on you Adam. A professional through and through is all I can see from you and your team every time. It seems like the owners don’t understand building regs and what is needed for safety. Gutted won’t be seeing this next year but you have done the right thing to cut ties with someone who dosnt want a professional job Marry Christmas and have a great new year you your wonderful home

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Ah mate that's a lovely thing to say. Thank you very much. Merry Christmas to you too mate, take care.

[@mikenicholls4861]

Sometimes it’s best to walk away. Projects like this can become increasingly unpleasant and the joy of building something you’ve proud of is lost!

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Very true mate. Merry Christmas.

[@LeeRestoration1275]

a case of others thinking they know best - i admire that you knowing what was right and walked away with a clear conscience - top man

[@jsdecorating5090]

Excellent video sir I used to do new builds with my dad and his crew Trees cause a lot more problems than people think if you get it wrong at a later date some ones indemnity insurance is in trouble Or the builder gets it in the neck Very professional stuck to your professional experience ✅✅✅

[@nigelhaines7900]

You done good Adam stuck to your gut feeling on this one, people who dont know always think they know better! Happy xmas

[@Mr_A_Builders]

I've had it before Nigel but never like this. Such a shame but there you go. All the best mate, Merry Christmas.

[@Mike-hx7yn]

Hi Adam From what I’ve seen of you and your videos you’ve always had the customer at the top of your list which is very commendable in this day and age You are obviously a very talented guy and I wish you luck in the future and I would like to see more videos from you 👍

[@bertjabulani]

Great video, reality isn't always a polished grand designs show, I think trades people with high standards and morals are a rare quality nowadays. Well done for sticking by them. Looking forward to your future videos.

[@StickyBrickit]

Re the trees: one option could have been for the client to talk to the neighbour about just cutting the trees down. Some level of compensation (£) would have being in order but at least it would have allowed the wall to be built closer to the boundary without worrying about the trees. Other than that I think you did the right thing by walking away as what the client wanted wouldn't have been safe / practical, given the site constraints.

[@Rossi593]

Interesting video and appreciate your frustrations. You’ve been honest and open and a far cry from many. Good luck with the next one!

[@sirRoyM]

Good morning from the wilds of Andalucía Spain. I, for my sins, head up a team of architects and technical architects. I have enjoyed watching your vlogs and have formed the opinion that your companies operation is extremely professionaly exemplary and any customer should feel secure in your teams abilities. In my opinion, the project has been mired by a substandard and wholly unprofessional 'design team,' which would appear to have deceived the client with smoke and mirrors. The Architect appears to be disgracefully unprofessional, and the so-called structural engineer would appear to reside within a fantasy world. Here, as in the UK, professional and trustworthy building contractors such as yours are as rare as rocking horse poo. Your decision to walk away is, in my view, the totally correct one. It is my opinion that this particular project, with your departure, is going to descend down a slippery slope into disaster after disaster. It's a big world, and a company such as yours will go from strength to strength. I wish you a happy new year and am looking forward to enjoying many more of your projects.

[@joewood9943]

100% agree with you Adam handled it top class as you lads always done seems especially strange from the customer point of view after you did a stunning job on the garden room!

[@seanlewis9980]

Totally agree with you mate sounds like you had a lucky escape. You can't please some people , no matter how hard you try

[@wildwill1970]

You obviously put in a lot of thought and the craftsmanship is great. I can see how you've got the strength in the corners there and with the water management and taking into account the tree. Very good job. And you were good with the customer too. You will find better work and you'll be glad you got out of this one when you did. Thankfully it didn't turn into a bigger nightmare as dealing with those customers often does.

[@daleflaherty]

Well done mate for your video. Its unusual to find a video like this but its great to see transparency. As a fellow UK builder i know first hand what some of these customers are like. I can imagine that this is alot worse in person with this customer but all the best for this new year

[@neilsmith1007]

Keep up the good work gents, hope you all are enjoying Christmas and have a great new year. Here’s to 2024 I’m sure you won’t be short of work. 👍🏻

[@leonhammond5046]

Well I would absolutely take a builders advice as I know very little about best building practice. But I think you done the right thing, better to keep your reputation. And I'm sure you'll still get plenty of jobs just by ppl knowing you won't compromise. Merry Xmas to all the team. I'm staying subscribed. See you in 2024

[@Jim-fw4rx]

They should have spoken to their neighbours beforehand to see if they would be willing to have the trees removed. Keep up the good work guys.

[@reggiedixon2]

Assuming there is no TPO, almost everything in my garden is covered in a big blob of TPO regardless of notability.

[@therealdojj]

There's a tree in a school with a tpo on it But it's also causing issues with the wall of the plant room it's next too because it's got a massive crack running through it But the tree stays....

[@Jim-fw4rx]

@therealdojj either way with this issue, the local council will be footing the bill. Surely you'd think that cutting it down and planting more to replace it would be a better solution.

[@ge2719]

that outer corner of the extension basically becomes a basement with how deep its taken into the ground. My parents had a building built at the end of their garden and there was problems with damp in one corner. So i got down the side, dug out all the weeds that had grown and found out that the ground on one corner was just slightly above the damp course. So i had to dig it out about 8 inches, doing so meant all the ground higher than that new low point would drain water into that corner, so i had to make sure there was a drain for any water to channel away from that corner. Haven't had any damp problems since. that was a tiny problem compared to what would happen here if they just built that extension right up to that exposed earth. they absolutely would need some form of retaining wall to keep the earth from falling in around their extension within a few years, and even if it didn't, if that soil magically stayed up, the gap is too small for water to evaporate away, and they will get a ton of water seeping out of that soil and pooling around the foundation. So it will always be wet. thy would have had to treat it like a basement construction, reinforced with rebar, concrete filled, damp proofed, with a proper drain solution.

[@andrewneil9684]

Very professional attitude from you, 100% agree with decision. This customer will regret the decisions they have made.

[@Mr_A_Builders]

Thank you, Andrew. Appreciate that mate. Hope you're well.

[@siaddersl2936]

Well, a bit disappointed that we won't see the footage of completion, but, gotta say you are 100% correct with what you're doing. Having watched your previous videos I can see that your work cuts no corners (apart from that bloody sink😅) and you go over and above with your projects. Their loss not yours. Merry Christmas by the way...

[@slord9981]

well done if only there were more builders with the same high standards. To have found another builder and have them on site in 5 days speaks volumes. keep up the good work and the videos. They are great to watch. As has been said already you have dodged a bullet.

[@smoggydrones5664]

Wow wow wow. Firstly I love your video,s and you come across as a top bloke and top builder. I think the incident with that wall that crumbled proved that. You did not run and hide. Although there are 2 sides to this I am 100% happy with your explanation. They just wanted you out. You should get a drone to see what happens to the walls to see if they are rebuilt. You may have had a lucky escape. I am sure you will back fill the missing work in your diary. Good builders are hard to find and you are definetly a good builder. I do not wish harm on anyone. I am sure the walls won’t be knocked down. The new builder is brave to take this on. I’m sure your 2024 will be a good one despite this set back. Turn it around and call it a lucky escape.

[@shazbo42]

Mate, feel your pain. You’ve gone above and beyond on all accounts. I’ve been self employed for 31 years and had firms go bust on me, non payers and dealing with the general public, trying to make everyone happy. People don’t understand what it’s like to run your own business. Unpaid holidays, working weekends, no sick pay and giving your time to people who sometimes don’t deserve it. I had some great jobs even through covid, some beautiful jobs , met some lovely people but then a fair share of muppets who you have to bite your tongue with. I hit 50 and realised ide had enough of trying to make 100 percent of people 100 percent happy all the time so decided to sack it all off and take a maintenance job within healthcare. Been there a year and don’t regret it at all. No way near the same money but Monday through Friday 8-30 till 4-30 and let them pay my NI, pension, sick pay and 35 days off paid a year. I ❤love you videos and think your professionalism is brilliant. People are people and you’ll not change that. Good luck to you in future jobs and keep posting the videos. Rich from Chesterfield

[@edappi8172]

Hello Shazbot, I retired after 55 years full time as a builder in Australia, last 22 years I was doing pre purchase inspections ( a bit like your building surveys I think ) agree 110%, I thought it started to get worse about 15 years ago, and the " worseness " just accelerated year by year. At 71 I had had enough and was about 5 minutes from telling the next woman, and yes all but one whinger was a woman ( he was most likely gay ) to go !@#$ themselves. You can only put up with stupidity for so long.

[@markbullen5989]

Fellow brickie of 30 years nothing wrong with that wall and your approach. I have had one or two difficult customers in my time. 58 now and have moved over to decorating. I think you have dodged a bullet with that one. It’s so hard to let go. Been there.