Jay Hill Reacts to His Big Sexy Interview | Straight Men Being Uncomfortable Around Gay Men

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[@antoneharrison1905]

This is so weird . If you are actually a real straight man , another men’s sexuality should never make you uncomfortable period !

[@dashawnstallings3169]

I know this really didn’t make any sense and people like that. You gotta be careful when it comes to big sexy, big sexy. You should adjust kept it short because now it’s like gay men is not comfortable, saying whatever they want to say to a straight person, and not their story, it’s not like a gay person’s telling a story and then you become gay that don’t make any sense. How are you uncomfortable

[@thetruthsideswiththeoppressed]

Especially if said person isn’t directing unwanted sexual attention towards you. Hello!

[@pyscez93]

@@dashawnstallings3169huh???

[@kammore6209]

Ngl this was a bit disappointing tbh. Straight men treat gay men like we're subhuman and lower than them but us just existing makes y'all uncomfortable. Ain't that some shit lol

[@Dylan-uq8gp]

Yall stop looking for approval from straight men. We can be respectful but keep it there. I hope we as a community 🏳️‍🌈 learn from this.

[@Vinetailch]

@@Dylan-uq8gp We weren’t looking for approval in the slightest, we just thought he was cool. We see now that this is not a safe space for us, so we’re dipping. 🤷🏾‍♂️ When you live in intersections of sexuality and race, you tend to have different types of people that you are in community with. For many black queer people that includes black cisgendered heterosexual black people. The brother would’ve been fine if he was being authentic, but he wasn’t. He doesn’t set the precedent for all straight black men.

[@Tit4Tat2024]

All I hear out of you two is CONTRADICTIONS. 🤓

[@SteveThePisces]

Wow! That's so fake. I'm going to un subscribe.

[@ny228]

This conversation is uncomfortable.

[@J.leeHoliday]

😮It's interesting because I watched his show with Big Sexy the other day. He managed to mask his discomfort quite well. However, it is not safe for gay Black men to attempt forming alliances with straight Black men who have not yet reached a certain level of maturity and acceptance; such alliances can be risky. Out of my 14 siblings, I have 6 straight brothers; they are the only straight Black men I trust entirely.

[@MrJayHill]

Huh? Y’all be weird in these comments …

[@J.leeHoliday]

No ​@MrJayHill, you're a weirdo. I grew up tell people how I felt. I never stayed in uncomfortable situation without letting it be known. I been a day 1 of your podcast but didn't know how homophobic you were until I watched this episode of your show. If your were uncomfortable you should have a side conversation with him to tone it down but to do that whole show and then do another show to discuss how "uncomfortable" you were with those anti LGBTQIA talking points is scandalous.

[@Vinetailch]

@@MrJayHill”Huh?” is what I was saying the entire video. That’s some bitch shit you’ve pulled. You got all that engagement from the queer community (more views than what you mostly average) because YOU KNOW the people that Big Sexy brings; yet you turn around and post some stuff like this? And have the audacity to be perplexed as to why we might feel a way about that?

[@SO-sb5sf]

@@MrJayHillnobody being weird we just stating the obvious that it seems like you was faking the funk you can't say you don't care with being an openly gay man and say some hypocritical homophobic stuff you aren't comfortable with gay people your homophobic and shouldn't fake the funk to not seem anything otherwise and you a Gemini makes it more valid

[@SO-sb5sf]

@@MrJayHillI really wish you just bring big sexy for a part two and say this to his face because you never had this energy during the interview and also as a straight man if you really tryin to learn to be better as a human deleting my comment because I acknowledged what you we're saying and doing is not ok I wasn't disrespecting you just trying to help you learn and what you made yourself look like you can't be upset with the truth and instead of taking it as backlash actually read and take it as a learning lesson

[@taegrayy]

Wow. As soon as he got back in front of a straight man, he’s uncomfortable. Wow. Unsubscribing.

[@tonyhill108]

SAYING HE UNCOMFORTABLE FOR VIEWING PURPOSES…

[@beethetrucker2340]

This is wild I actually thought he was an ally

[@Vinetailch]

Me too! You can never fully support straight black men 🤦🏾‍♂️…they will pull something like this with the quickness

[@SO-sb5sf]

He catdished yall

[@QuanTripp]

You're speaking out of both sides of your face with this interview. It's giving subtle remnants of toxic masculinity.

[@Dylan-uq8gp]

It got weird tbh

[@kmarie7051]

Gay men need to respect straight mens boundaries. If straight men don't want them hitting on them or talking abut gay sex then they need to respect that. Gay men are way too over sexualised and can be very sexually aggressive hitting on straight men.

[@SADtv_]

bro you ain’t nobody to be comfortable

[@melvinwilliams3224]

This is so very sad how fake people can be. I would rather have a true live enemy any day than a false friend.

[@dashawnstallings3169]

My guy, how are you uncomfortable with this dude sexuality when you said the DL man is worse than the gay man you should be worried about the DL man right? This is so bias. he said it on the interview with big sexy

[@sterlingharris1812]

Didn't even think about this point. You so right. 👌🏿

[@dashawnstallings3169]

@@sterlingharris1812 I mean this is crazy and if you’re so uncomfortable, this is him. Why did he have them on the platform uncomfortable really but there’s people that he talked about that he said about Dl men he said I will never respect the men. you don’t know who’s on the low that sleeping with men that’s with women but as long as you don’t know who sleeping with who it’s OK just don’t make any sense

[@dayday618]

I hope big sexy seeing this shit right now I'm so I don't have any straight friends male or female

[@Kirbi4eva]

I couldn’t even finish the video. Did you talk to the gay man you interviewed about how he made you feel? Also, when dude made the comment about sexy red being over sexual, I feel that comment was deflected. ALSO, it’s not gay men being too comfortable it’s men in general. It’s being discussed more frequently now that men are afraid of being treated like how they treat women (harassment, etc)

[@Vinetailch]

@@Kirbi4eva I’m so glad y’all all came through in these comments, because I was fuming last night watching this 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@SADtv_]

you a solid 2✌🏾. don’t worry

[@J.leeHoliday]

It is imperative to advocate for a dedicated mental health awareness month for all black men but specifically for Black heterosexual men. Historically, from the era of slavery to the present day, Black men have been confined within restrictive boundaries, compelled to conform to narrow and often toxic notions of masculinity. These expectations demand that they present themselves in ways that may not align with their authentic selves, coupled with a persistent pressure to defend their sexuality. Such conditions are undoubtedly exhausting and contribute significantly to mental health challenges within this demographic. Addressing these issues through focused mental health awareness and support is crucial for their well-being.

[@Im1pm_]

Gay men got too comfortable? 😂 wow

[@MAJYMINAJ]

Unsubscribed lmaoo cause this contradicted everything you said in the video

[@gr8ful2011]

I’m finding it quite hard to digest the meaning of true friendship these days. Respectfully, I’ll be damned if you interview me, and hype me up, and then do another interview regarding me saying (without saying), “Oh yea I fuck with him! But leave that gay shit over there”. Sir, that’s the whole reason I’m here. I feel like it’s a complete slap to the face in my opinion. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@gr8ful2011]

On another note: he mentioned that “My side is the norm” so in other words, water down your conversation to make me feel comfortable. You were never his friend. A friend should be able to come to you about anything, and not feel like he has to walk on egg shells. Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Starr_888]

This mostly go on with black straight men. It's an ego thing. I have straight white male friends and they're nothing like this. None of them ‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@Broj96_]

Contradiction like a mug

[@lyriclamoore]

I liked the Big Sexy episode but after hearing this it messed up the vibe. Everybody has their feelings and etc. It was just surprising to hear.

[@user-rc2tm9kv3m]

To assert that someone is getting too comfortable is to implicity suggest that they ought to be ok with living in secret and shame. This is in direct contradiction to when you said, "DL men are the worst." This post interview is poorly thought out, too emotional, and does not compute much logic or compassion. What a disappointment.

[@krestal0]

Like he said a lot of yall are extremely uncomfortable around queer people. On the other hand men who get violent when other men make a pass at you, should consider how women feel with the unwanted attention men give us.

[@kiddharris5637]

Gotta agree with the weird contradiction. There is no such thing as "too comfortable" that mentality is why so many of gay brothers get hurt, why the rooms are still going to be uncomfortable for them, and the question is, who are they hurting? But another question is, who are they making happy? Children come out all different kind of shapes, sizes, genders, talents, dreams, deformities, and personalities. I just hope you will be able to love people for how they treat you, because you'll never know how yours will come. Your opinion is yours; we're just commenting on your opinion that you put out now! He is somewhat of a rarity because he has such a big platform and has been able to maintain him being himself. Hopefully soon, there will be more of Big Sexy, speaking the truth, and their facts.

[@KnewYawkPapi]

What’s actually being discussed here???

[@maxwellbrown737]

Jay contradicted himself with the Sexy Red response. He picks and chooses when to give people passes to exist as they are. Sounds like he tolerates gay men but he really not rocking with them. But he panders to gay audiences by having gay content creators on his platform. The guy with the locs understands what’s going on and his opinion is respectful and inclusive. I liked Jay’s content but I’m not really feeling his perspective.

[@tonyhill108]

SO MUCH CONTRADICTIONS FOR VIEWING PURPOSES….SMH.. NOW YOU CAN’T TRUST ANYTHING HE SAY IN ANY OF HIS PODCAST CONVERSATIONS….SMH!!….DON’T GO TO PRISON FOR SURE YOUNG FELLA!

[@jackjackson4412]

This is interesting... you seem totally different from the interview with the gay guy B sexy😮

[@manoftmrrw]

Well, maybe you shoulda said you were uncomfortable in the conversation with Big Sexy.. and it could've been a conversation around it. Rather than sitting there in agreement. Now you just seem like a flip-flopper instead. Just being honest.

[@SO-sb5sf]

@MrJayhillNetwork ‼️‼️‼️

[@Vinetailch]

@@manoftmrrw he wanted our support, likes, and views smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ and I regret giving it to him

[@Bahatixx]

THIS WAS UNCOMFORTABLE!

[@thetruthsideswiththeoppressed]

I’m sorry, but this post-interview is totally contradictory of his interview with BS. I checked Jay's page to see if he had done any other post-interview discussions after having a guest, and unless I'm mistaken (for which I would gladly apologize), I couldn't find any. However, I don't regularly follow his content. Perhaps his mother noticed something about him as a child that scared her, causing him to further suppress his attraction to other men. Not to mention, it was probably his mother who put her gay friend up to making a pass at Jay just to see how he would respond. A mother always has a gut instinct concerning her child’s sexual preference. I have gay friends who am comfortable around because they are genuinely good-hearted people.

[@CWhitt707]

The contradictions & the homophobic undertones in this video is crazy lol if you felt this way about the community and that we’re “too comfortable” (which is crazy) why even bring him on your platform?

[@zombomjembu7957]

DL…mark my words.

[@newbengraham4775]

there exists a sea of people who have never had an accurate mental evaluation and have never been told their true measure of mental and emotional intelligence.

[@tavariswalters9376]

Well this went left !

[@derricklucas6909]

It’s okay to be uncomfortable but if you are comfortable in who you are that shouldn’t effect you in anyway seems like toxic masculinity to me trying to prove you are straight

[@critiks_5045]

Disrespect.. and this why I said what I said in the other video

[@MrJayHill]

Disrespect how ?

[@critiks_5045]

@@MrJayHill very bias , badgering , no respect for the community a complete hypocrite Argue with the other comments - 🤡

[@SO-sb5sf]

@@MrJayHillwhat you said during the was very fake it seemed like that in the interview and this confirmed it you have internalized homophobia

[@carmstr2]

Like the arc There is one of everything in every family Humans Then preferences and perspectives based on life experiences and the journey being lived/traveled

[@charisleon0716]

In 2024 , 6 years away from 2030, this type of conversations shouldn’t even happening anymore. It’s so old , being afraid of Gay men is so odd . So 1980s

[@charisleon0716]

What ??

[@terraceblack]

I guess one gay friend doesnt undo years of homophobic conditioning. Cause after having a friend like Big Sexy shedding so much light on lgbtq folks and our humanity and still get in a podcast once he’s gone and still say things like “gay men are getting too comfortable” is… disappointing to say the least. To say read the room cause gay folks are taking up space is wild.

[@terraceblack]

Also you cant say “I dont have problems with gay people” and then go and express how you dont want us to showcase any aspect of our identity and humanity. Straight folks dont have to police any aspect of their gender and sexual identity they are never asked to “be mindful” or “be respectful” but gay folks have to tip toe around everybody?

[@sterlingharris1812]

EXACTLY. This gotta be the fakest friend ever to invite him to your platform to educate you on different views and then you go and have this conversation a few days later. That's wild.

[@MrJayHill]

Why is It gay people can have their opinion but the moment a straight man have a different opinion it’s offensive ? We all should read the room that we’re in period .. you clearly listen to have an issue and not understand

[@J.leeHoliday]

​ @MrJayHill Because our conversations aren't toxic when discussing heterosexual black people, who seem to be the only group of people still ignorant and homophobic, we talk about the toxic behaviors you all hold dear to you all chests.

[@terraceblack]

@@MrJayHillnah bro I understand it may feel like an attack but this an objective truth. The things you saying not only hypocritical but violent. Tbh though if you want dont want to expand your consciousness and idea of lgbtq right to exist as fully just like straight folks thats your right. But you contradicting yourself from one video to the next.

[@LifeOnCoach]

✌🏾

[@sterlingharris1812]

And finally for reference Mr. Hill. This is what a real friend looks like. kzbin.info/www/bejne/q2rXkHptjrd1rtk

[@MarcusMartn]

Very close minded