Reacting to YOUR Coming Out Stories!

Reacting to YOUR coming out stories!
Hey besties! I decided it was time to film another video reacting to your coming out stories and this is how it went!! If you shared your coming out story with me for this video thanks a mill! I loved reading all of them! And if you want your coming out story to feature in one of my next videos, don't forget to follow me on instagram :D Can't wait to chat in the comments xxx
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[@MsDickerz]

Happy pride month everyone! I hope you’re all doing well & staying safe 🌈🥰❤️‍🔥

[@pierced_veil]

hey dutchy! i just came out as lesbian to my mother!! she was supportive!! i also told everyone i was bi but i’ve finally figured out i’m a lesbian so i have to re-tell everyone 😭😅. have a great night/day and i love your vids!!

[@Doge_Studios]

Love your vids Dutchy!

[@laradebecker4099]

Hii im a kinda queer person ! So i dont know if im lesbian or bi! Do u have tips to come out?

[@Alexis-lj6ry]

Hey dutchy I just came out to my mother as lesbian and she doesn't accept me but ur videos always make me smile so its okay

[@hope-fo5cs]

@@Alexis-lj6ry Maybe for now, your mother can't. But give her some time. She will understand that nothing is important than your happiness. :) please cheer up. Remember there's always someone ready to support and accept you as you are

[@brettcarruthers8838]

Glad everyone felt comfortable sharing.

[@MsDickerz]

Yesssss

[@ceciliekirketerp4275]

I really love to see, other people come out. Both the happy ones , and the sad ones - It´s really weird, but I actually watch comig out videos. When I feel down, because I really don´t know my sexuality. But is just made me happy, to see other people know their true self. Fun fact, for a year ago when I really begun to questioning my sexsuality, yours vidoes was the first videos I watched to figure out my sexsuality. That time I came to terms to I was bisexual, but now it make me really uncomfortable. Plus I have a really hard time, to figure out if I'm really into guys, or is just the comphet. By the I really love your videos, and always make me feel good and it´s a safe place for me

[@MsDickerz]

So much love for you! 💗

[@bernerdtherat5332]

me too thats exactly how i feel to

[@CerealcerealcerealDays]

Omg I really relate your experience because mine is really similar. I remember watching Dutchy videos about it being bi at like 10pm on my computer. I’m still trying to come to terms with my sexuality and I’m happy to see others are similar to me! 🙌

[@urlocalbylershipper]

I remember when I followed you last year because I thought I was a lesbian but now I realized I'm a boy I'm so much happier now I feel more like me I'm out as a trans man. Lmao this comment is random but yeah lmao btw love your channel :-)

[@sophiem7141]

Omg I’m so so proud of you good job that takes allot of guts, you deserve a cake 🎂

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so proud of you!! Thank you 🥰🥰

[@robertp181]

I’m so proud of you!!!

[@tristannastransgendertrend697]

Dutchy. As a father I just came out to my daughter told her i am bisexual and that I crossdress. I finally did after 2 years as she was telling me how she thought people should not be judged on sexuality and said clothes should not have gender. She was very accepting of both. I was so relieved that she didn't judge me crossdressing to look as a woman . Now feeling more comfortable and want to come out to more people. I am doing in a subtle manner at work. I now have my work keys on a pride lanyard. I have no problem coming out to people if they ask about my lanyard. New journey in life beginning thanks to the encouragement of my daughter

[@tristannastransgendertrend697]

Dutchu, you inspire us all. I love watching your channel. It makes me feel so good as my soon to be ex-wife is so degrading about all this. I have a very close bisexual friend and she said when we worked together at a previous job before I came out she knew I was bisexual. Now she says she sees more joy in me dressed as a woman and has had me explore my feelings. I figured out I am transgender and bisexual. Going to start the steps to transition. I will keep you updated on the progress. I will start my channel and post videos. I will definitely send a shout out to you on there .

[@Tiedye6336]

I want a part 2! I really enjoy everyone’s coming out stories

[@carternistler9249]

I'm not out to everyone yet, but I did come as gay to my two best friends who I knew would be understanding because they're both LGBTQ like me, except they were already out.

[@savannaerickson9583]

my mom is still coming to terms with me being gay, but she is getting there. :)) my younger sister however, immediately accepted me, and she constantly bugs me abt girls i find cute lmao happy pride to everyone, whether you are out or not, you are so so valid lovely people❤❤

[@bubba283]

I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy it's depressing

[@savannaerickson9583]

@@bubba283 it will get better i promise, im always here if u wanna talk

[@bubba283]

@@savannaerickson9583 oh thanks, I'm just glad I can watch gay guys on here when my mother's asleep like now

[@lassam333]

So beautiful listenng to these coming out stories. Even if some didn't go so well, I'm so happy for everybody who took the courage to come out.

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗💗

[@ilovephoebebridgers3]

Hey Dutchy!

[@MsDickerz]

Hey Rosie!!

[@ilovephoebebridgers3]

@@MsDickerz I’m honored

[@bombasticsideeye06]

9:38 That's me! Thank you so much for this💕

[@MsDickerz]

You’re so welcome 💗

[@hannalorincz5875]

When I came out to my friend, she was like "I knew iit!! And she said to me" im so proud of you no matter what". She is still my bestie 💕

[@Haleync]

I've never been so early! I just subscribed because I dont give two craps about what my parents say if they see that I'm subbed. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! NEVER FORGET TO NOT BE ASHAMED OF WHO YOU ARE!!😁😁🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@MsDickerz]

YAYAYAY PROUD OF YOU 💗💗

[@Haleync]

@@MsDickerz Thank you!🌈

[@no_nopee]

How my friend came out as bi: She’s a fan of Melanie Martinez, who is bi. She said to her parents, “Melanie Martinez is is bisexual. That’s the only thing we have in common :D”

[@mathilde5928]

I love the coming out video’s they gave me a lot of inspiration for my coming out🌈

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so glad 🥰🏳️‍🌈

[@robertp181]

We NEED a part 2, Dutchy! We need a part 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7 too. Just keep them coming!

[@becca3645]

Hey Dutchy! I absolutely love your content and thank you so much for being so inspiring I came out to my best friend and it’s all because of you xx

[@animals4ife48]

This is me 😄 4:50, can't believe mine got added, love u dutchy and your content you inspired me to come out. Keep inspiring others xx

[@izzymusgrave]

I've been subscribed and was wondering why u weren't posting but then I realised I forgot to put notifications on

[@MsDickerz]

Ooop- are they on now?

[@izzymusgrave]

@@MsDickerz yes

[@lexTS89]

Apparently my mom knew I was bi for a while, and she finally asked me about it. She says I’m too young to know and I’m confused. She says it’s a trend, and I won’t truly know until I’m twenty five because my brain isn’t fully developed. (I’m almost fifteen.) She said that when I am twenty five, if I still think I’m bi she’ll love me no matter what. I know that so many people have it worse, but I still can’t help but feel a little sad.

[@leahsanimalchannel6117]

I’m so sorry!

[@prideyay8115]

I love your background, btw!!!

[@MsDickerz]

Thank you 🥰

[@dankflyingv6345]

Mine was underwhelming, I had two panic attacks the day leading up to it for absolutely no reason 😂

[@robertp181]

I love hearing coming out stories.

[@mrstadmes520]

So, I wanna make a question. But first I wanna say some things: 1. thanks for your videos, you're soooo charismatic 2. sorry about my english, it's not my mother language so I'm really trying here 3. I don't know too much about sexuality, so I apologize if I get to tell any bullshit Ok, now the question. I've been questioning about sexuality for some time. I've passed all the last years thinking that I was assexual, or not really interested about people. Than, I started to make some treatments for anxiety and depression for the last two years, and now I can feel, and that's great, and at the same time so confusing. I don't know when I lost control of things haha but I think it was before teenage, and I think I didn't really learn about complex feelings, like attraction or romantic love. I don't know when I'm feeling attraction, or feeling love, or things differently from friendship admiration. What's like when we feel things like that? How can we identify those feelings?

[@nusagrace]

I told my dad I am from now on vegetarian. Then he said that I only create problems and that each day, I tell him something new (in a bad way). Then he asked me if I am going to tell him that I am a lesbian tomorrow. And I said:” Well, actually, I tell you that now.”.

[@snowii_]

Hey, I came out to my mom today and she accepts me and doesn’t really care that I’m Omni lol, but she that when I have my (girl) friends over she has to know their sexuality and we can’t go in my room for too long, what do I do?😩

[@gracie5463]

Keep the door open so it doesn’t look like you’re hiding anything.

[@Emily-io2sp]

Hey Dutchy a part 2 would be great!!

[@casvirgile]

I came out to my mom last year, after a really long time of questioning (Catholic raising so even though my family was supportive, I was still kinda freaked and confused about myself), I texted her a whole paragraph and she was extremely supportive and loving and then said she could have guessed cuz of how I cut my hair lololol

[@casvirgile]

Oh lol, I’m a lesbian

[@Sidralovescrows]

These were so funny

[@maggieo1683]

I love these videos! Not that anybody will read this at this point, but here's my coming out story anyway lol. I don't have one specific time I came out to everyone really, it's kind of been different for everyone I've told, like for my aunt she asked me if there was anybody I liked at work and I said all the girls and boys were taken at my work and she didn't even react, just said it sucked I couldn't find anybody. The two hardest moments were coming out to my sister and my mom. My sister was really difficult because she's Christian and although she doesn't hate the LGBTQ+ community, she doesn't think it's real. She thinks it's the devil messing with our heads. So I tried to tell her I was bi but wound up staying up all night with her as she went on and on about how God intends girls to be with boys and vice versa. It sucked and our relationship has been awkward since. She still loves me I know, but I can't talk to her about it, it's just sort of this elephant in the room we avoid discussing whenever we hang out, because I'm not going to change, so it's not worth arguing with her. A bit of a happier coming out for me was my mom. I was extremely nervous but knew I wanted to tell her. I came out as bi to a friend of mine earlier that day and she was super accepting and I told her I wanted to come out to my mom after school (this was during lunch one day in high school), but that I was extremely nervous. My friend was awesome and talked me into it, and that night was texting me before and after cheering me on. I told my mom and she is very straight and doesn't understand the LGBTQ+ community so it was awkward as hell, but in the end she accepted me. She gave me a hug and told me as long as I'm happy, she's happy. It's still to this day something we don't talk about much, but she knows it about me and loves me anyway, so that's all that matters. Anyway sorry for the long comment, I just felt like typing this out so thanks to anyone who bothered reading all this.

[@lacey5006]

My story: i made a tiktok saying that i was bi and my "FrIeND" said that i was lying and that i wasn't bi, so she told my mother and my mother spoke to me about it and she said i was a bit young to be with a girl i agreed and she said that she loves me no matter what choice i make with my sexuality so yeah! My mum supports ❤💕

[@WritingPirate]

My school is super open and supportive about the lgbtq+ community, we have murals with the different pride flags and there’s also a mural with hands doing the peace and rock on sign. In the mural the wrist have bracelets with the different pride flags. Some of teachers have stickers on their class door that say “love is love” People are openly gay and I’m not sure why I’m still nervous to come out. Even tho I know I’m in a safe place and everybody will be kind and supportive.

[@chancereed1088]

Do a part 2 bc u didn't use mine

[@MsDickerz]

Will do!!

[@FlyingStickProd]

Everyone in my grade level just makes a bunch of gay "jokes", so if they tell me I'm gay, I'll just say: *"Actually, I'm Bi, but thanks for noticing!"*

[@jazquartz]

You know how I realised? I kissed a guy I thought I liked and felt absolutely nothing. And my heart races when a girl asks me to hang out 💀 you do the math (Im scared to even share this but eh yolo)

[@onedirectionfan9451]

OMG I JUST THOUGHT OF THIS AND ROSES ARE RED VIOLETS ARE BLUE I AM GAY AND HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU OMFG I LOVE THIS

[@sparkee.]

Oml I'm sooo early!!

[@MsDickerz]

Hi hi hi

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Love this ❤🤘🏳️‍🌈 thanks bestie loved all these stories

[@Hamzakhan-dt3gv]

Interesting video

[@jakecarroll-harris5561]

I got outed by one of my classmates as bi I was sad 😢

[@4ever624]

I came out to my mother as a non-binary pansexual and she didn’t care that I was pansexual but she said I can’t be nb cause I’m her kid and she said I’ll get over it and realize I’m a girl- it hurt but I’m better now (this was my 2nd time coming out to her cause the 1st time she just ignored it)

[@sammieshoe2354]

My plan was to get a lesbian flag and rap it around myself and then go in my closet after my parents are in the room play “I’m coming out” and they come out of my closet. But I haven’t done it yet

[@moonstar5832]

October 11th is apparently some sort of national coming out day, so I am planning on making little pride flags a week or two before then and on the 11th come out to my mom. Hopefully it goes well, I will share what happened once I do come out.

[@kelly2868]

your so beautiful 💗💗

[@cheesyfingers6535]

Straight but here :)

[@berserkmoon3695]

My friend accidentally outed me to another one of my friends sister. She asked me which class my crush was in(I go to an all girls school) thank goodness my friends sister was chill and didnt make a big deal. Im still not out to anyone other than my closest friends and that girl… Lol coming out to my friend group was very similar to the story at about 11:00. My friend group was playing truth or dare, one girl came out, then another then I came out. My crush was in that group sitting opposite me

[@silcosa1623]

Part two 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 please

[@skz_143_iloveyou]

Do you still have TikTok, Dutchy? If so, can someone send me the link since I saw one of yours in a bisexual tiktok complication and thought you were great

[@MsDickerz]

Yesss ofc!! Just search dutchy on tiktok:)

[@cathalreilly6579]

Only come out to see you then again and it's usually after a row with some of them in the house

[@howcouldyounotbegayforalyc150]

I came out a few months ago to my mom as bi because I knew she would be supportive because she is a lesbian but I haven't grown up with her so if I did I probably would have came out around two years ago when I first figured it out and told my friends at 10 now I'm twelve and will be thirteen in November and don't have any plans to come out to anyone other part of my family because none of them reacted great to my mom coming out at 23 (I think but idk I was only 4) but they are all pretty homophobic and are especially transphobic and I'm going through a gender crisis right now but think I've settled on demigirl But I basically came out by telling her that we needed to talk when she came to visit then we sat in the car while my other mom and every one else were inside and basically told her that before I told her my celebrity crush we had to get one thing straight that I'm not then told her my celeb crush was Alycia Debnam Carey and that I was a 90/10 f:m and nbs bi and she said she knew but we had a good conversation after that so it went well and both my moms are super supportive

[@sfhvsthnxgkcn7036]

Your an amazing KZbinr and I come to your channel when I find it hard to deal with homophobia thanks for being an amazing content creator.

[@miokono]

OMG LAST TIME INWATCHED YOU IT WAS LIKE A YEAR AGO WHEN YOU FILMED ON YOUR BED AND I THOUGHT I WAS BI ( I’m a non-binary lesbian lol )

[@Koi_the_boi]

So my first come out story I have two of them because the first one I came out and I was happy and for about a week I was out and about of the closet but then my mom was disappointed and started crying and I was thinking of my really religious aunt and I just didn't want to disappoint anyone okay like 4 to 5 years later I come out again because I told one of my friends that I was bi she told me she was pan and somehow her mom found out threaten to help me to the church so I came out to everyone before before she had a chance to help me herself I wish I could have done it in a cute way but that opportunity was stolen from me

[@cathalreilly6579]

I actually went through a lot of them things you are talking about duchy so I did

[@Sad_Moth]

Am i the only one who's sad that it's not pride month anymore -ᄒᴥᄒ-

[@hayleymurphy7606]

i haven’t come out yet :(

[@bubba283]

Me either, I've always known I'm a gay guy it's depressing

[@AiMusic9232]

Okay so this is embarrassing, basically I didn’t know i was bi at the time but whenever I hung out with my best friends (who are the same gender as me) I’d say to my self “if they’ve really gay I’d date them, I bet that would be fun” and thought nothing of it at the time. but now it is so painfully obvious that I was no even then I was bi I just didn’t know it

[@williamoconnell1233]

I actually outed myself as bisexual, just because I have Down syndrome, and I already have ignorant people to judge me because of it. Now the floodgates are open for homophobic people to join with disability ignoranters. Not sure I could remain alive, but I will try.

[@MsDickerz]

We love & accept you always!

[@williamoconnell1233]

Catra thanks catra

[@williamoconnell1233]

Dutchy thanks Dutchy!

[@starberri6477]

I came out- this year. #REGRETS I regret it so muchhhhhhh because I hate myself

[@patriciamactavish3864]

I came out to my bestfriend/crush as bi over text and then the next day I told my other two best friends and it turned out my crush was pansexual my other friend was trans and my other friend was also pansexual

[@julijastropnik847]

A year ago I came out to my family as bi. But I don't think I am bi. Just bi-curious maybe. I don't know what to do now. I'm still confused and would love some advice. Happy pride month

[@gracie5463]

Zendaya Emma watson Suni Lee Katie Ledecky Yelena from black widow Still sure that you’re straight?

[@lucasnolan3771]

My brother has a lot of bi friends and he's a supporter of the lgbtq+ community and he still doesn't know I'm bi and I asked him if he was and he hesitated for a while and said no 😂

[@lucasnolan3771]

I mean I asked him if he was part of the lgbtq+community

[@marquisdelafayette3333]

I know I’m by but I’m always questioning if I really am any advise (btw 100% can’t come out I live in texas)

[@collinmckee3335]

So am I coming out story it's kind of weird it was my birthday of 2020 and it was yeah my birthday so like everyone was all happy and stuff and my parents are divorced so I had to come out twice and I wrote a extremely long now like 10 pages long and left it for her to find while I was at school later that day she runs up to me and hugs me and says how did you know and I explained how I knew in the note so I was like well we read the note okay well I accept you but like I'm going to have some questions

[@KatDeFish]

I think I am gay so I am thinking about telling my bestie first

[@Nik_2905]

i nkinda wanna get a giant bi pride flag and tie it around me like a cape , hide in my closet and call my family into my room and when they get there jump out of the closet and scream " SURPRISE BITCHES " and see how they react. but i would die if i swore in my household sooo , ill pass

[@Idiot5nat]

next halloween im going to be a frying pan to come out as pansexual

[@sadboyno.7990b]

Hey Dutchy, any advise on coming out to my trans-phobic parents? I already tried and they didn't take it well so I feel like I should just leave it at that but it makes me feel super uncomfortable when they use she/her pronouns for me. Love ur vids. xx

[@e.t9403]

My father was transphobic but my mom wasn't so she was always between us trying to make him understand and it helped a lot. Do you have someone in the family that supports you?

[@alexlight1759]

I know that feeling (the story from 11:59-13:XY is mine)... It's very uncomfortable, but friends using the right words helps me a lot. In case you don't have such friends, I will very gladly be that friend :)

[@MsDickerz]

I’m so sorry to hear that. I think you have two options! You can have another sit down chat and really tell them how that makes you super uncomfortable and you’d love for them to make an effort. Maybe start correcting them every time they do it? Or you could leave it for a bit and revisit it later? And yeah we all love and accept you and will never mis-pronoun you.

[@cathalreilly6579]

When I was young duchy this priest used to come around to the house visiting and one day he did something to me and I hit him with a shoe and a head six months later he got a heart attack and date

[@jojoplayz8424]

Hii! So most of my life I have been attracted to my opposite gender only. Until 4 months ago I started getting thoughts like, that girl is hit, I wish I could kiss her. But I just thought it was a phase. But a week later I started crushing on girls really badly. That’s when I realised I was bi. Unfortunately, everyone I know doesn’t support LGBTQ+ so I can’t come out to them. I’m too scared to come out to my mum because she said that she would be very sad if I came out and I’d ont want to upset her (I love her so much). I want to try to drop hints but I don’t know how. Any tips or advice would help since I am kinda new to the LGBTQ+ community. I hope I can be accepted by you guys and everyone! Have an amazing day/night

[@qupid_gatcha3193]

I just recently come out as gay and my parents realy souport me

[@Spartan-ng6sx]

Love being gay

[@cathalreilly6579]

Does he have a great joke for you now corner of the field with a horse fall in in tell me in the next tape if you know the answer

[@neonelf-ish]

love the pride flags! hru megan?

[@jasmeenbagga9358]

partttt 2 of cominggg out storiesss bestieeeeeee . theseeeeeeeee wereee so wholesomeeeeeeee . check my dm if you get time tho its jasmeenbagga

[@BobbyB_HBO]

🏳️‍🌈

[@kelsie5024]

How to know that you like girls?

[@bubba283]

I wish I knew how to come out that I like guys, I keep it to myself. I've always known I'm a gay guy it's depressing.

[@Ihrtstarbucks]

how i came out to 1 person on accident then lost a friend: ok so me and my gf had a gc with my friend. i always called my gf babe or beb which is just a cute joke version of babe but out of the gc, once i called her babe on accident in the gc and i didnt realize it in till the other friend said " ew your gay wtf im not your friend anymore im straight- :/ " then i realized- So yea thats it my friend dumped me and my and my gf went to the beach because we were sad.

[@bosstotoroki3223]

I really can’t come out rn because my family is REALLY transphobic

[@Buriedashe]

If non-binary instead of partner your a enbyfriend

[@stacygirard647]

hi there i know its long time ago you posted this video i jsut saw it . im genderfliud andpan sexual i did for wile didnt knew bout gendrefluid.(that i consider also part of non binary cause im not fully man or fully woman(even now legaly changed sex mention to x and a neutral name . first i tought i was transvestite cause i didnt felt all the time girl . and all iknew about non cis was transgender, transvestite , drag queen , cross dresser. from waht i was understanding back then cross dresser was moresexual thatn other thing ( and they usuly felt still guy) (wish didnt fit me) drag was for show biznies (wish didnt fit me either) trangender was fulltime the gender oposed to body at birth and transvestite was dressing like a girl parttime and felt girl when dressed like girl when i did came out to my mom it was when i tough i was transvestite, and bi sexual(Cause didnt knew much about pan sxual(its been stil l over nearly 15 years ago ). first i came out to my mon overe a verbal arguing ( she was allways to protecther himage i ahd to be carfull what iddi caue of what peopel might say about her ) i was so i got feed up and i told her you talk tos much about others and you fear so much of people find somthing to tell about you that i have to be carefull waht i do cause what woudl they say about you cause of you i cant have a boy frien even if m bisexual i must force myself to date only girls and i like to dress like a girl cause im transvestite but i cant shsop for cloth cause of what people swill say about you . then whent to my room ( i was still living wiht her cause of financialhardtime (didnt worked for that periode of time(was searching for a job) i my room ot old my self she wll kick meout im sure nowand shewould take me out of her will. but after a wile she came to me and told me " *deadname) you said somthing earlier i woudl liek to talk about it do you want come talk calmly about it i agreed to my surprise she check if i knew i was bi or if i tough i was bi i told her i know i had sex wiht boht boy and girls already she was fine with it for the girl cloths she wasnt ready to see me in them jstu cause i likedit. btu she allowed me to get my own cloths and since i was doing my laudry i could now not hid to clean them and she told em put your girl stuf in the hamper wiht the rest if i have some example pink brass and i dont have alot ill check and if you anve some ill clean wiht mine so she was still accepting me jsut didnt felt ready to see me a few month later she showed me wile shopping a dress she asked me waht it ough of it i said its not your style she said no for you i was so excitd to see she was think of clothign for me like that . but sadly that outfit didnt was my style either . so i told her its pretty but not my style . when i came out as bi to my best firen and transvestite too she surprised me with her reply ( i came out to her before to my mom i was just barely admiting to myseslf ( so in around 1999 or 2000 , when i told ehr she simplly answer i have known for a long time . and we kept talking like if there wqas nothigt a few time at her house she lets me wear one of her rap around skirt( pareo) and tanktop that was streching enough and it was her who sugest me to wear it . :) she was the first who saw me as a girl after i admit mhseslf but i had picture of me as young as 7 inmy cousin cloths nighty or dress. and on a few on october 12 2021 (day after the intrnational comming out day) icame out openlyl on facebok (aftter a fw days of delema i wore a lgbtq pride kilt to the end of season ofmy summer job ) and when they asked me about the tartan i said its lgbtq i wear it cause my cousins is lez and i want to show my supprot to lgbtq, but in me i felt bad to have to lie about myself so after a few days i came out dn afew days later i came wiht the name i choose to use (Stacy(wish was already in my birth certificat so if i didnt chagne gender it woudl be easeir to chagne to a neutral name since it already in my names.) and every one show alot of support even on facebook every one started to use stacy instead of my dead name alot of peope when posted a picture of me as woman they said i seems shiniest (glowing of joy) one year latter i thanks them for the year o support a few posted still more suppor that the important was to be happy for me , and that they will always support me .

[@kodzuken2046]

I didn’t end well I’m just 5 days ago my parents accidentally found out and told me I was going to hell. They said I was a disgrace to my family name and said it would look bad compared to other family members. They said I was an embarrassment and that the brother of my family carry the last name so they mattered more. Yeah🥲

[@Anna-lu8od]

Hey dutchy I love you and please give me your Instagram