We've Been Experiencing Some Very Tough Times | Life Update ❤️

[@BriBooth]

I’m autistic. I just wanted to mention that autism is not considered an intellectual disability rather a developmental disability. However someone with autism may also have a intellectual disability. Annes behavior “kicking the seat” was likely her stimming and her reaction to the “evil stare” was more so her inability to recognize social cues. She didn’t pick up on the fact that the woman was showing disapproval of her behavior. Nothing to do with her intelligence. I know it must be stressful worrying about her future and wanting her to hit certain milestones. Just remember that Anne is unique and she will hit those milestones in her own due time and there’s nothing wrong with that. 😊 Take the pressure off yourself and continue to love her as she is! You’re amazing mom! I love your content.

[@jvickers67]

Well said

[@anbonner17]

Beautiful response And schooling us! 🥰❤️

[@anbonner17]

Oh, would you consider “developmental disability” more like developmental delay or different timing, in the sense that one with autism IS able to do something but maybe at a different pace and with more/less support in accomplishing a certain milestone?

[@BriBooth]

@@anbonner17 right! We may learn differently or we may be extremely intelligent or have mastery over one subject than the other. Like math for instance. Our social deficits and sensory issues are what really highlight us as “different”

[@BriBooth]

@@anbonner17 thanks

[@BdewithShlinda]

Ann has so many aunties that will handle anyone who has a problem with our Annie!!!!

[@feleciaa1]

Shilinda took the words out of my mouth. They don’t want this smoke. 🤛🏾 Regardless of her having autism she’s still a kid. Vaughn I applaud you for taking the high road. You are an amazing Mom and Anne is blessed way beyond to have you as her Mom. Take the time you need always and we appreciate you. Praying for your husband safety and We thank him for his service to the communities.

[@ResilientBeauty22]

@@feleciaa1 you ladies better say it again, homegirl don’t want no clap, clap she can catch one. When did people start treating children like adults?

[@jerrilynpapilon9611]

@@feleciaa1 Bingo sis she dont want to deal with us internet aunties it won't be nice

[@marieb9490]

Flat out🤜🏾🤜🏾🤜🏾

[@hatticetaylor7483]

Puuuuerrrrr!! What she said!

[@businessredzonebusinessred8203]

Vaughn, YOU & ANTHONY are always throwing parties, barbeques, dinners & everything else for friends, relatives and...supporting so MANY associates/friends! All these things cost. I think YALL are 'simply PHENOMENAL PEOPLE! Vaughn, YOU are kindhearted, empathetic, would give your VERY SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK FOR SO MANY PEOPLE! I draw so much inspiration from you, Vaughn...girl if you only knew! You are 'A SUPER MOM' , BEAUTIFUL, STRONG & STRONG WILLED! YOU move mountains ALL THE TIME! VAUGHN...KEEP ON BEING THE BEAUTIFUL PERSON YOU ARE. God BLESSED YOU WITH THIS SPECIAL GIFT...YOU! LOVE YOU, VAUGHN! DIANN

[@SashieETV]

Lmbooo let em know you’ll fight for Annie Booski. All her internet aunties will, too. I’m excited for vlogmas and I can’t wait to see what Anthony will be doing. 😂😂😂

[@elaineyd2133]

First of all….people need to learn to address parents first and not the minors they are with when there’s a problem. I am not confrontational but I will break it down real slow for people who mess with my kids! You are a great mom! Your channel has made me soooo much more aware of children around me…people in general! Hang in there mama!!! You look awesome by the way. Also, all the way with you regarding being good at home first. If you take care of that…everything else falls in place ❤️

[@megmeg1686]

This is the one! 💯

[@NaturallyFearless]

Special need mom here and I completely understand with those situations. My daughter is five and Autistic. To keep my sanity and avoid those situations I got a Autism emergency band that goes on the strap of her stroller (she isn’t walking yet) just to let people know about her intellectual disability. Cause baby these ppl were testing me with the attitudes and I wanted to protect my daughter at all cost. I also put one on the straps of her car seat in the event of an emergency. People believe if the disability isn’t visible it doesn’t exist. So happy to have you back hun 💜💜

[@rainthomps694]

Autism decisions are so stressful. It seems like every single choice is crucial. My son will be 5 soon, it is exhausting.

[@barbarajacob85]

I felt that in my soul. It's so hard. Prayers for you mama🙏

[@Martinique757]

As a military wife; I can fully understand. Time without your spouse on top of other things takes a toll. My husband was deployed for a year a month after we got married. When he came back, we were faced with another deployment for a year. Now he’s back but now there’s ptsd. On top of it all, my dad has had a stroke, is dealing with kidney failure and had his leg amputated in June of this year. I’ve been doing KZbin since 2009 and although I’m not nearly as big as you, these moments haven’t made me want to create. I FEEL YOU SIS! Take all the breaks you need! So glad you’re back though!

[@deltablue4369]

I was just telling my nephew yesterday, "there's this lady I follow who I haven't seen in a while", and this morning I see you channel! The world is a cruel place, but GOD will help you and Anne navigate this journey, just lean on HIM. There is always a spiritual reason why we as humans may show up here different than the majority. It's not bad or cruel........just different....and that is just fine!!

[@natashabrown2535]

Autism mom of a two year old daughter. I came across your channel a couple months ago when she was first diagnosed with ASD. It’s very challenging being I’m a FTM as well. Your blogs have helped me incredibly & you’re doing a fantastic job with Anne ❤️

[@reneerenee5073]

Ohh I needed this on my little lonely island. I will resist the urge to share my “me too” story about parenting and autism…Just know your transparency is MUCH needed and appreciated

[@matriarchsmatter]

I pray that all the 10’s of thousands of people who watch this video will consider offering empathy to all mothers and children and not just their favorite KZbinr. This is how we can destigmatize parenting in public. Whether the child is autistic, tired, sad, frustrated, unruly whatever a loving tone and a smiling face can usually serve the situation better than a grimace and condescending tone. 🙏🏾 Blessings to Ann’s journey.

[@gentlestormwyatt]

Girl you don’t even understand how much you inspire us. The fact that you have such a busy life, having a child who has autism, and then you bring us Vlogmas (I’ve watched most of them), I’m honestly amazed. Much success to you and your family. Here I am complaining and I don’t even have kids yet, thank you for the reality check. Love you girl 💋 Oh and you still manage to stay so beautiful and in shape, I checked out your vlogs and girl you look GOODDDDD 😍😍😍😍 Go ahead gf. We’re here for you. Anytime you need a break, we totally understand.

[@AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO]

You are so right! Life really does happen. Having a Family First Philosophy is always important. I pray your strength during this journey. You Got This! Love and Prayers, Cathryn

[@kharyzma4u]

I know it's exhausting. I work with children with Autism from Pre-K all the way to adulthood. It can be frustrating, however in my experience, you can still discipline them and prepare them for behavioral situations inside and outside of the home. You have to be firm though. It also has to be constant. Not saying you're not doing that. There needs to be a system in place where there is a lot of positive reinforcement for when her behavior is positive. Also, there needs to be a system in place that discourages the unwanted negative behavior. Again, it has to be consistent. You're doing a great job. Be patient, but still have those systems in place as you're learning, so that when she gets older she will have a solid foundation. Along with all that pray as well 🙏🏽 Wishing you all the best 💗

[@thatsjones466]

This!!

[@anbonner17]

❤️

[@soblessed2176]

I will give you a ❤️~ for your heartfelt message. *Discipline is the KEY! Yes she has Autism; BUT YOU MUST DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD & NOT MAKE AN EXCUSE EVERY TIME SHE/HE DOES SOMETHING WRONG!~. *As a HEALTHCARE PROVIDER Im Sure They Have Disclosed this to the parents ~🙏🏽. You got no response because your opinion was CORRECT!~. As~Salaam~Alaikum ~🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@thatsjones466]

@@soblessed2176 yes so true because the world will not care sad truth

[@kharyzma4u]

@@soblessed2176 Thanks. Children with Autism are some of the brightest and most talented children! Don't sleep on them. I work with them, so I know from experience. They just speak a different language so to speak. Once you learn the language, the way that they communicate and interpret things you can create a solid foundation for them to learn and grow. They are aware, alert and very detail oriented in my experience. They also like routine. So when doing something out of their normal routine we usually prep the children a week or two in advance. Like when going on trips and stuff. We do role play, we script things out, we show them pictures and video of where we're going. This way when the "big day" comes, they are informed, prepped and expecting the experience. It takes patience. With the proper systems in place, the children develop very well.

[@apaul2304]

You are a great mom, Vaughn! I too am a autism mom to a 18yo, Jalen. You spoke of the unknown and navigating all the new stages…there’s no manual and you just have to pivot. BUT…in that pivoting just be confident that you are doing what’s best for Anne and then MAKE time for yourself. Even if you just ask your mom to watch her for a couple hours and you go for a run or a massage or just driving around doing nothing. Give yourself and your mind a chance to release, refresh and come back to Anne. We don’t realize it (I definitely do) but sometimes being an autism mom, we get overstimulated just like our kids. When we as the parent is overwhelmed, that energy transfers to our child. Take care of you and Anne and have those conversations of venting, as needed. You’re doing a great job! Ashley❤️

[@journeyg7505]

My heart goes out to you. I work with autistic and down syndrome kids everyday, they are so amazing. People are going to be ignorant no matter how we advocate for our kids. Just inform and keep it moving is all we can do. I had a blast watching the cruise. I can hardly wait for the next one!

[@brittneyk0158]

Part of “real life” is stepping away to nurture yourself. It’s understandable. It’s not remiss to say that your followers are mature enough to understand that your being away for a while means that you are prioritizing. Trying to protect our kids and loved ones can be an ongoing “challenge,” in the face of all the “ills” of the world. Unfortunately, we are not going to always be able to. The best we can do is to try to navigate thru life with the things that we have been taught and learned about the very basics of being a “decent” human being. That a grown “*ss” person would think that it’s ok to respond to and address A CHILD, instead of the child’s parent(s), who’s obviously in their presence and reach, is baffling. Nonetheless, so glad to see you looking refreshed and renewed, and look forward to whatever you choose to share with us! 🙏🏼

[@evelynbonner3908]

I retired in 2016 after 30 years as a special ed teacher. I taught many children with autism with varying degrees of severity, and I so feel for you. Because I would typically have students, at least on a part time basis, for multiple years and I always felt that I had families not just the student. I viewed it as my responsibility to be as supportive of the family as possible, and I sincerely hope you will find resources like this for Ann and you and your family. Also, I have a son (grown now) who is 6 ft 4 in tall. He was always tall for his age, and this was a continuing challenge with folks always expecting more than he could deliver, even without any special challenges. I was always amazed (and annoyed!) when we were out somewhere and some random busy body would tell me how he "ought" to be behaving at "his age". I was also a 1st time Mom. So I really feel you on many levels. You are doing an amazing job, dear. Take time for yourself!❤❤

[@anbonner17]

Oh, Ms. Bonner, we have so many similarities!!!! Are you my Kin? 👀😆 My son is 6 years old and 50 inches tall. I've learned that since he is a tall black boy that people will treat him older or not as a child at all. And I think boys are less independent than girls, but I just try to live for now because babies/children don't keep. They truly grow so fast!!! I am also a teacher/educator and a first-time mom. I learn from my son and apply it to my walk and teaching. Mom-lifestyle channels like Ms. Vaughn help me to be a better mom and teacher, to really emphasize that each child--all be it, may have similarities, but--is Different! Children are on the spectrum of multi-Abilities! 🥰❤️

[@oneflowerlover]

Ms. Bonner, because you are a professional I feel you can answer my question. How do you discipline a special needs child? How do you determine whether a child is acting out or autism is the issue?

[@HotNewLooksSusanJepson]

As a mom of two daughters, the way you put your feelings into everything you said in this video really touched the deepest core of my heart. You are a very sweet and strong woman, even though we are not by your side or out there with you, but l want you to know that you are not alone. You will always have our internet support ❤ ♥

[@sheilacooks6677]

Hi Vaughn, I'm a 60 year old mother of 2 adult children and a 10 year old granddaughter. I admire you as a mom and a wife. I've been following you since Anne was about a year old or so. She have made so much progress. I've shared your story with so many people. My nephew has autism, he's 45 now. I understand. People will be people no matter what. Yes protect your child. You are doing an awesome job. I loved, loved Anne's 5th birthday party. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to keep you and your family. Happy Holidays!!!

[@MrsQueenBossLady]

As a single mom of 4yr old twins, one with Autism, I feel your pain! I am a strong advocate for my son, just like you are for Anne. This is a journey, we got this! I am often overwhelmed and have to continue to speak life over the situation. Sending love your way!

[@Ais4Anomaly]

I've had the same experience on a plane with my autistic daughter...it's hard not to take it to level 10 with people sometimes. I have the same fears, so the transparency is greatly appreciated.

[@neeshespieces]

Omg I remember you had the puppies last vlogmas. Man time FLEW by!

[@primeunique477]

Mother hens do not play babi! We gotta protect what's ours, and thanks for sharing with us. We love you guys!

[@TiffanyTianaLifestyle]

Why is the dad side always the turnt side! 🤣 Definitely the same for me. Vaughn, as moms, we always question if we are doing the right thing and we constantly worry about our children. You handled the airplane situation very well. We can’t block our children from all negativity and shitty people. It hurts to know that but it’s the reality. All we can do is be present, be ready, and teach them coping skills. It’s difficult and it ain’t easy. As a mom and avid traveler, I always remind people to give grace. You don’t know what a parent or child may be going through when they are crying on a plane or doing something else that you may not like. Often times the parent is trying their best to keep things under control. Grace goes a long way!

[@HabitsofaHomemaker]

Oh Vaughn….I can relate to this SO much!! (I made a response video to one of your autism mom vlogs a few years back😊). I am a fellow autism mama and we go through the exact same thing! My son is 8 years old now, and I’ve been through everything you are going through, and we are very much still navigating through it. This was a big part in us choosing to homeschool, but even homeschooling (we have 4 kids) has its challenges, but I feel much more comfortable knowing my son is safe and free to be himself at home without having to apologize to others for his behavior in the classroom. ❤️ Stay encouraged mama, and know that you are doing an awesome job and you are NOT alone! Our son was diagnosed at 2.5 years old and it still feels very fresh! We face new challenges and victories every season. Grace yourself and keep loving on your beautiful baby girl unapologetically 🥰.

[@ijeoma6774]

Aw man. The way I’m crying right now for you. You’re so strong and I pray for God to give you wisdom and joy through this motherhood process. You’ve got this!!

[@MisGlitznGlamour]

Vaughn, I don't normally post on videos but I've been watching you since fa-eva hunty and let me tell you..whew chile you made me cry today. I just appreciate how genuine you've always been. The struggle is real trying to balance life/work in private let alone in the public eye. I'm also the wife on an officer, I have 2 boys and manage a home and career it's not easy; the stress! OMG! I'm glad you take mental breaks when it's necessary for you and your family. You give other moms permission to do the same for themselves.

[@karaumbenhauer2049]

My husband was always a workaholic, 50-60 hours a week. It was on me to take care of everything else......one day a time is how I did it, we all need a mental break. Yourself and family are more important ❤️🙏

[@zenettabroadnax6494]

The “I will though” is sending me. 😭 and I’m here for it! You have every right to protect & defend your cub. So glad you’re back. 💗

[@JenLizette]

Devils advocate a bit here. I’ve experienced a flight with a Child kicking my seat and it was NOT fun. So uncomfortable and I was PISSED! Thankfully, the guy next to me was kind enough to switch seats and he endured the torture for me. However, as pissed as I was and despite how over that child I was…. I addressed the issue with the flight attendant. I don’t think it’s ever someone’s place to address another person’s child. Especially a grown behind adult! I would have apologized, but I also would have told don’t speak another breath to my child as long as you live

[@TheNenaBrown]

I was literally about to comment the same thing! That woman had every right to be pissed about her seat being kicked, but don't ever address a stranger's child!!

[@NancysNibblesofLife]

Yay, girlfriend is back and she is looking fabulous! Things with Ms. Anne will unfold as they should. She has a wonderful tribe around her. Looking forward to Vlogmas!

[@curlsncoils.]

I use to work for a company called The Charles Lea center before I became a nurse. We used to take care of clients with intellectual disabilities. Whenever I would take my clients out in public I would have the same look that you did. In my mind I would be thinking “I wish you would” to the people giving stares or whispering. I’ll pray for your strength as you go through this transition.

[@ambersmith1866]

“I don’t want to have to fight *I will though*” 🤣🤣 yesssss Vaughn I love you and my internet niece Annie Boo 🖤🖤 ready for the new content!!!

[@alisonthompson1796]

"Mom, you doing a good job!!" Keep advocating for your baby! Also, because you have to pour so much into her, be sure you are doing things that pour back into you!

[@bethanyreed7145]

I am so glad that you feel free to take a mental break when you need one. Never worry about doing that is best for you. I’ll be praying that you and Anthony come up with a great school plan for Anne. ❤️

[@foxylaidy08]

Am praying for you and your family…I share in this as my 15 yr old is on the spectrum…it’s very stressful but Anne will grow out of these behaviors, it will get better 🙏🏽❤️

[@lovealwaysbibi3336]

As a mom of a warrior, I know exactly what you mean. But I'm a special education teacher so I know autism doesn't have my baby, my baby has autism. We walk in that everyday! If someone doesn't understand/know, they can absolutely kiss my grits! Lol you're doing just fine Vaughn!

[@amandatrotter8974]

I needed this! The struggle is real being an autism mom to two boys 3 and 4. I love watching your family.

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

I totally understand what you're going through. Our 8-year-old son has autism. You're doing an amazing job.

[@donybtv]

I completely understand. My son has autism and I get starred at when I try to put him in a shopping cart when we go shopping because he is initially scared. The stares I get were hurtful at first but now I don’t care. You inspire me and I thank you

[@t.mariegreen4846]

As a mother with a special needs child I can’t tell you it gets easier it doesn’t. Sending hugs your way. We need lots of support

[@johnniewaters3726]

You're very strong, God only gives it those that can handle it, Many blessings to you and your husband, and Thank God for the support of a loving family. Look and see if Holly Robinson Pete has a book out, she has been an awesome mother dealing with that, her son is an adult now and employed.

[@kiaramurray832]

I have 2 autistic kids and I appreciate your content. My kids are 7 and 9 and I have learned a lot from you. So amazing to see a family like myself just living and navigating through these same issues as well. ✋🏽Prayers and love. 👏🏽♥️👌🏽

[@kpsuggs]

The Internet Auntie Delegation is in formation! On ready set! Ready to lay them hands when it comes to Annie Booski. Ya dig!

[@shanetiaavinger1422]

You are doing a great job! My son is almost 17 years old and he has high functioning autism. 💕

[@SimplyClassicT]

I’m glad your back! I appreciate the transparency and sometimes honestly I saw the stress you were dealing with. I have no idea what’s it’s like to have a child with special needs but I know it’s hard when you have a child and dealing with transitional changes. Excited to see future content!!! You’re really the only reason I watch KZbin now…lol

[@Petalsandpups122]

This was the realest, most honest video I’ve ever seen on KZbin. You stepping back to be there for your family is so admirable!

[@keishas3869]

Gurl! From one AUsome mom to another we get it! It's so frustrating at times. It is hard. My son is 16 and and we still struggle. I used the PECS when he was younger. I'm considering a medical bracelet for now as he is getting older. He is fully verbal but behaviors can still arise. I found it can help to tell people that he had autism when he was younger and behaviors would increase or even as a heads up when we would travel. But sometimes I just addressed it as it occurred. There is no right or wrong way. We are all doing the best we can sis!! Take care of you and your first!

[@candidacox998]

I know what those stares feel like..... and my son is 12... I no longer announce to everyone what he may or may not have... Annie is so beautiful and her kicking was probably relieving stress.

[@stephanielee370]

That's tough. I'm sorry that it's been so stressful but I commend you for setting a great example and taking the time away that you needed. Praying for wisdom and grace as you figure out how to navigate the continuous challenges of parenting your wonderfully unique and precious daughter. Also praying for your hubby's safety.

[@charris2850]

That's tough, but you handled it well. I think I would have had some other choice words for that woman. I probably wouldn't have said anything about autism when I squared her up so you've taught me something. Love the fam!

[@KiKiCarr]

Sometimes it’s good to be transparent.. it’s not “unloading” on “us”

[@cdionejones]

I’m a former teacher that has worked in partnership with many families with autistic little ones. You’re doing a great job, and Anne is an amazing child! It’s so obvious to us how much you both love her and are working to make sure she has everything she needs! Please remember on the difficult days that you have a community of folks here cheering you on! Thanks for sharing your family with us. It’s a pleasure to witness Anne grow!

[@newmomma1017]

Mental health is so important, so happy that you took the break that you needed and was able to regroup.

[@FallonMyers]

Vaughn!!! I’m so glad you’re back! You and your family were in my thoughts while you took your break. Listen, I get it. I don’t have a child with autism but my 4 year old is speech delayed so I am always translating and trying to mediate between him and others. It can be very difficult and stressful but one thing I will always do is advocate for my children. You are an inspiration to me as a mom, wife and creative. 💗

[@jerrilynpapilon9611]

My son was speech delayed aphasia it's called I worried a lot he is grown up now I can't get him to shut up lol

[@KiKiCarr]

I believe the strategy should be to begin relinquishing control .. we can’t control everything .. everyone gets nasty looks .. that’s life .. she will be fine .. she is fine .. try not to overthink

[@krates1913]

Honey! Im with you on advocating for your child. My nephew has autism and I will fight anyone who comes at him wrong. He is almost 4 and is nonverbal. I have the same concerns you have about what the plan is for when he gets older. This world can be scary enough without another layer of difficulty being added. I so appreciate your honesty and transparency. Sending prayers and Love to the fam! 💜

[@LiLi_Liv17]

I worked with special needs kids at an elementary school, many kids with autism, and I can almost all but assure you that school will help Anne SO much. It will teach many skills including how to navigate living in this world with other people. Teaching social skills is a huge part of school and also just the structure of school will help. School will also help you learn a lot about autism and how you can help Anne to navigate the world and teach her more and more independence. You will also have a larger community to learn from with the other families who are going through the same thing. So keep your head up and just know it won’t be like this forever.

[@SimplyNikki2]

I’ve been there. My baby is 18 now and it is very scary and frustrating. Keep taking her out keep reinforcing positively the right behaviors when in certain places. Maintain patience with her and check the ignoramuses when necessary. I’m a single mother and had to do it alone. Anthony seems like he is good support. Continue therapy and stay prayed up. Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@SimplyNikki2]

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[@professionalfoodie2014]

Anne is going to be ok. God protects his people. We love you guys. Keep doing what you do.

[@ShequiraMoves]

Mental breaks are important!! Glad you’re back!

[@lovelipsticklaundry3586]

All love and respect for you Vaughn! No apologies/explanations needed when it comes to taking care of yourself and your family. We’re all here thinking and praying for you and the family. Virtual hugs! 🤗

[@jetaunjoyner2267]

So proud of your transparency. I know it’s not easy but you are doing a great job raising Anne. More people need to hear your story. It really helps and keeps us aware of what others may be going through. Thanks for sharing and stay encouraged.

[@birdervaughn5435]

I have been watching you for a while and I have so much respect for you. Your realness shines through every video you make. As a retired educator, mother, and grandma I applaud how you advocate for Ann tirelessly. You will be ok. Thanks for having the good sense to take care of yourself. God is going to continue to strengthen you. Much love and respect to Ms Vaughn from Mrs Vaughn.

[@joib8447]

Welcome back! Mental and physical health always comes first. Your a great mother.

[@Pianopraiser]

Welcome back. You definitely have to advocate. Don’t stress out, God has you. One day at a time. You have more patience than you know. I recommended your channel to a young lady who son has just be diagnosed.

[@MsNaturalevolution]

Vaughn, I was in tears. Not because your video is sad, only because I felt like I was listening to my sister and my heart felt what she (you) was going through. I know that you are an influencer but you are also like a celebrity AND A SISTER! You are so real and true to us, the community and THAT is what keeps us supporting you! May God bless Anthony on his new assignment. I pray that God will continue to strengthen him, give him wisdom and cover him when he's away from you and Anne. Take all the breaks you need. We'd rather have you true and whole rather than fake and broken. I love you Vaughn and your family. Peace and blessings!

[@cj4127]

I just came across your channel and I was so intrigued when you said you have a daughter with Autism. My grandson has Autism. I started working with him intensely when he was in the 2nd grade and now he's an honor roll student in 7th grade. He's not in Special Education. He's in 504. I heard you say that Autism is an "intellectual disability." Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a "developmental disability." Children with autism can have "intellectual" issues, but it depends on their place/level on the spectrum. I just wanted to respectfully share that with you and to tell you to how proud I am when I see parents advocating for their children with disabilities. I'm a licensed Educational Diagnostician and too often I see children with disabilities not being supported by parents and even schools. So sad!! Be blessed.

[@simplysherri]

So glad that you are back. Appreciate you sharing all aspects of your life.

[@Alicia0983]

You and your husband and family are doing a great job with Anne. I truly understand about taking a mental break. We all need a break at times. But baby you and your mom was about to let all of the southside of Chicago out on that lady. But just know you are doing a amazing job as a mother. It get tough at times but know Anne is not only loved by her family but the internet family loves her to. I love to watch to see what she doing next and how far she grown and what she learning to next. You’re amazing!! Also I need a full tutorial on your make up you did in this video!!

[@AFROdisiac1740]

I appreciate your transparency. I’m a BCBA who exclusively works with children with ASD. I do weekly parent trainings with my clients and I know the stress can be overwhelming. You got this! ❤️

[@MsVaughnTV]

I admire the work that you do hun. My daughter’s BCBA has changed our lives in many ways because of her dedication to our family. You ROCK!

[@AFROdisiac1740]

@@MsVaughnTV ❤️❤️❤️

[@nic0298]

Vaughn, you are doing a great job. Thanks for the transparency. We all need a break at sometime. Sending positive vibes. 🤗

[@Bossladylj]

I missed your calm cool videos Vaughn. But I certainly understand. I am not a mother but I will say that I admire your patience and the love you show for your daughter. And I so admire how you keep social media in the proper perspective when it comes to your personal life. Your family is a priority and that decision is well respected by me. You look beautiful by the way. Continue to take care of you and your family.

[@kenishah.2041]

Thank you for being open and transparent. It's really sad when people are unaware/ lack the knowledge when it comes to these beautiful souls with various disabilities. I'm currently completing my masters in Birth-2nd/ Special Education & it's simple AMAZING to observe students with different disabilities ranging my from speech & language delays, ADHD, Autism, so on & so forth. Anne will absolutely be AMAZING & you are doing a fantastic job as a mom.

[@thelambs3344]

Thank you for your transparency. I too am a first time special needs parent and trying to navigate every developmental stage can be stressful. I commend you for your dedication and devotion to your family. It’s not easy, but it is rewarding.

[@kejanamosley-oliven3682]

I can relate to you in so many ways. I have a 15-year-old son that has autism .I feel like I have to protect him and be his voice all the time. Stay strong and keep your head up you’re doing all the right things.

[@rbcal82]

“But I will” PERIOD! I hate that people do that and are ignorant to the possibilities of everyone not being able to live up to the neurotypical expectations. I can only imagine how stress that can be. I’m so happy to see you back on here but please continue to take care of you and yours! I’ve enjoyed being able to see you all on IG in the meantime too. Much love! P.S. I always think in the back of my mind that ONE DAY I hope to be able to just so happen to run into you out in these Chicago/South Suburban streets lol!!!!

[@hausofrlateish]

Having worked in a special services section for 11 years. I can understand your stress and frustration. It may not affect me directly. But working with the kids and parents, I know you need breaks. I'm glad you're back, but chal... When you need that "timeout" take it.

[@TheStar3131]

Having to experience the same situations with my 13 year old tall, autistic niece, I fully understand. When you have an opportunity to educate please do. It's been a saving grace, even when you want to bust some heads. You're doing an amazing job. We appreciate your transparency and look forward to you and your family adventures. Thank you!

[@LunaYvecooking]

I applaud you for being such a great mom, and exposing your child to all of these experiences instead of confining her to the house because of her autism, it is not easy, and the world can be cruel and ignorant when it comes to autism. Your interaction with Anne is so sweet and beautiful, I appreciate the realness you always bring to your channel, and hopefully it will inspire more parents to do the same for their kids.

[@lisajackson8917]

Glad you're back. Sending positive vibes & prayers. Bring it Anthony.

[@jiselleanderson6943]

You did the best thing by taking the time you need to destress.. I'm a mom of 18 year old twin boys on both end of the autism spectrum and it isn't easy trying to balance life, love life and autism motherhood. Take it one day at a time..

[@charro028]

You look so beautiful in these dusky/mauve tones! Glad you are back and understand the need for breaks!!

[@thekeylieswithin]

I love how blunt you are and how you aim to make as much of a normal life for Anne without making her an outcast + know when it is time to tap out … I love your honesty and willingness to share your journey to begin reducing the stigma people with autism have against them especially among our community where ‘abnormal’ is hidden

[@CharmagneHoskins]

Whew, sis this had me so emotional. Thank you so much advocating for your daughter and showing us your experiences. It’s so needed!

[@myoshiaharding3685]

So glad you took some time for yourself and your family,my grandson just turned 4 and is Autistic so I understand those challenges. He is doing much better with therapy and we are learning to navigate through discipline and reward. Hugs and prayers you’re doing great mom!

[@creativelyanalytic]

I have coined the term - “Life is lifeing” but we keep it pushing! You are doing a fabulous job! Thank you for being authentic & most of all doing what is best for you & your fam!

[@T.O.OBrittanyB]

We got your back.. I’ve been watching you for yrs off and on but hear recently I’ve been tuned in. My niece has autism and my sister goes through similar situations and emotions. Thank you for sharing,..we love you 😍

[@LifeWithDree]

I graduate with my masters in two weeks in special education and I love hearing you talk about Ann. Can’t wait to get back to working with my babies just like Ann🥰🥰

[@prissymcc]

Welcome Back❤‼ Glad to hear the Family is doing well👍‼ Congrats to your Hubby on Making Moves & Prayers for his safety. Glad to hear Ann is doing well, and I hope that you will have the Support Network you need for Ann and the entire Family to Thrive & Be Stress Free💜

[@BeautifulSoul801]

You deserve a break even without everything you have going on. Sharing that much of yourself all the time has to be draining. I’m glad you were able to take a moment to just be with your family and focus on yourself.

[@MsGH91]

We're her friends (of the internet)😭🥰 love that!. I've been watching you since your very first video. Always take whatever time you need for yourself and your family to reset and regroup. You are human too and you need that!We will be here. Sending you good vibes and peace💕.

[@LivingLifeWithNette]

Autism mom here too! My son is now 7 and we actually met in NOLA for the autism moms retreat. Every age comes with challenges and we are currently dealing school challenges.

[@shonmajette3452]

We totally understand and support you taking breaks. I mean, what job do any of us work and not take some time off. Do what you gotta do - fo YOU!

[@AmmaMama]

Welcome back sis! You look good AF. Def 2 months 😩 but whose counting?😩Lemme continue watching. Your health is what matters most!

[@BigFineDoll]

Vaughn we love you and the fam, we support you and have your back...these people need to know we will STEP behind our sis, bro and niece.....PERIODDDD

[@ms.angiesworld8696]

Glad to have you back sis! We totally understand. Being a parent is no joke and we know family is your top priority ❤️

[@shemeekacurlin4205]

You really brought me back to when my son was Anne’s age and he use to have certain behaviours where people just didn’t understand and I got a lot of looks and whispers. So I applaud you advocating for Anne but also being so vocal about this.

[@tenickagibson9372]

Thank you for being so transparency about your life. I enjoy all your content. Continue to teach, advocate, and protect your beautiful daughter. Abundance blessing to you and your family.