Our Autism Re-Evaluation Experience (Parent Perspective) | Autism Mom VLOG

Today I'm sharing my experience being present for my 4-year-old's autism re-evaluation at her pediatric neurologist's office. She was initially diagnosed with ASD at 18-months-old and has since been involved in full-time Speech, OT and ABA therapy with a great team. She's made a TON of progress over the years and we are so grateful for that. A child who once could not utter a single word is now responding to her name, singing songs, communicating wants and needs and making some eye contact with family and friends. She has come a long way but our journey has just begun. We're so proud of you Annie Boo Boo! If you'd like to learn more about the caregiver perspective of mothering autism, check out more of my videos here: bit.ly/2NwJEkj
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[@daphnechristopher7397]

When your MOM arrived, the weight was totally lifted. A loving, caring mother is a Blessing. Ann is alright...God has a plan for her life.

[@paulinephilyaw7599]

Your transparency is helping so many... keep going! You were hand picked by God for Anne. I pray for your strength when you feel weak.

[@keekeefnay2010]

Such a beautiful comment.

[@jhenfresh]

I agree

[@rse432]

@Pauline Philyaw Agreed....antidote to fear, anxiety, pain, sickness, sadness, etc....is that he promised never will he leave us or forsake us.

[@thisismebea]

My youngest son is Anne’s age and his autism re-evaluation is coming up. It can be stressful but it’s all for the better like you were saying. I have an older son (almost 12 years old) that has Autism and therapy really helped him. So I know the benefits of it all. He has thrived in school and he even does public speaking. God is so good!!

[@youaintneverlied]

God is so good all the time! Amen

[@ciardenning7674]

Amazing 🙏💪🖤

[@Mzdimples72]

Awesome!

[@Jazzhollo88]

Wonderful ❤️

[@10GenaBena]

Same with me, my son is the same age and we are on the waitlist for his re-evaluation. It’s hard knowing the numbers are growing but I agree that the help that we give them now will definitely benefit them and our dreams of a great life for them. God sure is so good !!

[@heartscorpio2922]

He gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers ❤️ You’re doing amazing Vaughn

[@yinka321]

This comment made me cry but I will remember this 🙏🏾❤️

[@stronggiftfromgod]

This! ❤️

[@Plushdiva75]

Vaughn is doing a great job! Keep pressing mama Vaughn You Got This!!!

[@doreaner]

Amen!

[@nanad9048]

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@petrinajones583]

My daughter is on the spectrum and is now 23 years old. I thank God for her progress and some things have gotten easier but she still has challenges. Within the last 5 years, it's almost like a light switch was turned on and she is reasoning and articulating her feelings. It's a daily walk. thanks for sharing and praying for your strength.❤️

[@Telletell]

I’m a school psychologist who does 3 year reevaluations for a living (not ADOS at this time). I’m also a mother to a son whose been identified with a disability. I know how difficult this is for you on both ends. I see you, I respect you, and I get it!

[@meganokuesa6433]

My twins were diagnosed at university of Chicago last month, I understand exactly how those emotions felt. I was in tears when they were formally diagnosed because I’m a single parent and it’s so overwhelming knowing the long road we have ahead. I actually didn’t know they have to be reevaluated every 3 years so I’m glad I clicked the video!

[@ciardenning7674]

You got this. Stay Strong QUEEN 👸🙏🙌🙏

[@rse432]

@Megan Okuesa May God grant you the strength and endurance you need to overcome.

[@LifewithBreanna_]

@@rse432 your words of encouragement, in the LORD (that you share w/ others) are beautiful. Continue to speak life, God bless you

[@LifewithBreanna_]

praying for you and your two children! God will see you through this, remember HE will never forsake you or your children.

[@rse432]

@@LifewithBreanna_ You as well. That is all we can do in this time we are in, encourage each other in Christ.

[@jenherring]

I know the feeling. I have two little girls on the spectrum. One is high functioning and my 4 year old is non-verbal. It’s always emotional but you are doing an amazing job. 💙

[@janetgarrett249]

Vaughn I just want to say it takes courage to share this part of your reality. When we have children so much of our worth can be tied to our children. We get excited with all of the accomplishments. It’s the same when we feel like they are not “measuring up” to what we would like. However, you removing yourself and living in the moment helps. You allowing yourself to feel those feet and release the anxiety of it all is 100% kudos to you! Scream, cry and yell if you have to but release and keep trucking. Which you are. You have an awesome support system and you are a GREAT mom!! Keep ya head up! Anne is advancing wonderfully!💕💕

[@chanelchanel8466]

I love love love ur post.....thank you🙏🏾

[@erikarichardson4065]

Grandmothers are the absolute best.

[@candithecosmo]

I get emotional everytime that I have to fill out a questionnaire. It makes you realize what your child "doesn't do" by the book.

[@mthompson5383]

Yes, that's how I felt reading my child's IEP assessment

[@jaaxyjackie]

Yes that’s the key, and when you have own the challenges on the re-evaluation day or the IEP it is so painful as a mother, because it send you down memory road and a in your feelings moments for a couple of days. We all experience the same emotions, and Only you...! can identify. We have to continue to walk the journey GOD choose us to lead. Love Yourself 😘🤟🏽

[@desiraedoingthemost5339]

This video took me back to where my emotions were 20 years ago. My daughter was evaluated at UIC and TUH THIS DAY I still don't want to drive by that area. My husband was with me for the evaluation, but I was by myself when they gave me the diagnosis so I knew exactly what you meant!. But believe me, you are blessing somebody with this content!

[@marychapman3252]

Hi Vaughn, I am an RBT, try not to worry too much about some of the behaviors you saw in clinic. Everyone is trained to manage behaviors and we all know that our kiddos get tired as the day goes on and we may see new behaviors when introducing something new or increasing demands. It is hard but you and Anthony are doing a good job.

[@sugarspiceandeverythingnic4803]

My son is 11 and was diagnosed when he was 5. I didn't qualify for alot if programs because he was older. I feel you on everything you've said. Luckily with God's direction I am able to get him some help and therapy outside of what they do in his school. You got this Vaughn! God bless you all.

[@jazzydebhall5017]

Yayyyyyy Glam Ma! To the Rescue!! I just Love your Mom!!! I always remind my daughter of 5 foster/adopted kiddos what a Wonderful Grandma I AM!!!! *wink*wink*

[@IAmTanefaWallace]

My son went undiagnosed until two years ago this year. He is now 14. He has a really high IQ so it really covered up all of the issues and he was being labeled with so many behavioral issues that didn’t fit him in the meantime. I am praying for you Vaughn. You are on the right track and doing what’s needed early! Sending love & light. To all of you in this endeavor to get her what she needs.

[@lisafulton3288]

Depending on what state you live in, you can go through your county for services. In PA we have what they call as wrap around services. You provide a script with your child's diagnosis and apply for benefits only. With that I was able to pick an Agency and that agency provided me services based on the evaluation/assessment that they did. You may want to talk to the Department of Human Services as well.

[@VondessaJ]

Vaughn you are one outstanding Mother. I have a son that is deaf and the appointments use to be so much and I was a single parent. God has blessed me for him to grad from high school and college. Ann is just so pretty. How I wish we was living closer to each other. I was also a Special Service teacher in South Carolina for over 6 years til I moved to Georgia. My mom taught Special Services for 33 years. I just love their personality. Awesome Mom!!!

[@pamelaprescott4498]

U are a very loving, patient , good moma, I’m so glad I found your channel , my grandson has Austim too, and it is very hard on my daughter, but I told her about your channel and now she watches u too, u really give her strength!!😘😘 I just want to say u are doing very good!

[@snewo]

If she is on IG or tik Tok she can follow Living with Lilac. Lilac is older than Anne but the mom gives many tips and shares her experiences.

[@ladysoloist]

Wow, i didn’t know it was this much. Thank you for this video as it’s so educational for us parents (whether or not we have a child with autism). This is a lot and overwhelming for you Vaughn. She’s such a beautiful little girl and so full of love and life. Prayers for your continued strength, mama.

[@halomathomas4638]

You are extremely blessed to have your mom's support. She's the best kind of mother and grandmother.

[@frenchy988]

You are most certainly not the only one who feels this way during re-evals, lol. The entire process is extremely daunting and incredibly anxious. My son is going on 11 and he was diagnosed right after his 3rd birthday so we’ve been in the autism game for a minute. But I remember having to do this a lot when he was younger (around Ann’s age), some times alone, crying in the car just so that I could be strong when I was with him or in front of therapists and doctors. I also work with other children on the spectrum so I encounter a lot of families going through similar obstacles. One thing for sure that I can say is, having a strong community to help in those challenging moments means a world of a difference. My husband at the time did not take our sons diagnosis well (as most dads are with their sons) and I am so overly grateful for my mom. Just as your mom did, she would step in at times to be that strong backbone I needed to help get us through - even though she’d be trying so hard to fight back her own feelings/emotions. Thank you Vaughn for being one of very very very few black families to show real life struggles, day-to-day realities of being a special needs family. That representation truly does matter.

[@Iamrahcole]

My sister is in the early stages of diagnosis for my niece. This blog series has been very helpful and showing me how I can better support her. Thx!

[@IamBrianaMcCarthy]

I TOTALLY get it. I used to cry every time we'd have evaluations for my son. I still leave pretty sad when we have our quarterly IEP meetings because its a reminder of how far behind he is. He has made A LOT of progress so I just choose to focus on that.

[@mthompson5383]

Thanks for sharing that. I got so sad and scared when I read my daughter's IEP. I didn't know how to process it and felt so alone.

[@IamBrianaMcCarthy]

M Thompson having a child with special needs can make you feel isolated. There’s a lot of moms like you, so please know that you are not alone! 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@deenavann9939]

Be encouraged, Vaughn, you’re doing a great job. You’re so blessed to still have your Mama to help out when necessary.

[@MalkiaNzinga]

Sis! Over here sending you hugs and wishing I was there to hold your hand and help. Thank you for sharing your real life experience. Sooooooooo eye opening and touching....my eyes are leaking...🤗

[@nbm436]

Hi Vaughn! I’m a fellow autism mom and I just want to send you some encouragement to stand on. You are a special woman that God trusted for the position your in. Anne will be the miracle to break the stigma behind autism.

[@YT4Me57]

Thank you for sharing your experiences as an Autism Mom. It is helpful to others going through the process of evaluations and therapy. As a speech language pathologist I worked 34 years in the public school system in my city. I've provided services for many children on the Spectrum and understand the stress on both sides of the table. You are doing a great job with Anne. I love how you expose her to new things and give her multiple attempts to incorporate old things into her regimen. And as a language person, the way you model talking about her world is on point. Anne is soaking all that in. Keep it up. Looking forward to future videos on this channel! As a final observation, consider re-evaluating your thoughts on Anne getting her get her own way. I know where your heart is, but in the long run, that won't be beneficial. Of course there must be modifications in expectations due to her diagnosis, but following directions and socially appropriate behaviors within one's capacity are developmental skills all children must learn, and it's an ongoing process for us all. Start small like you do with introducing new foods.

[@kittyskid1]

What good advice you are giving Vaughn. It must not be easy to tell a parent to "consider re-evaluating your thoughts"; but it is true. At one IEP for my son, the evaluator told me this differently: She said I was my son's biggest handicap by giving him his own way, by "spoiling him."

[@Sarod2023]

I applaud you for documenting this even though it’s a tough moment for you. I can only imagine all the moms who are feeling frantic after a diagnosis finding you and your content and feeling hopeful because they have a resource in you. You do such a good job!

[@hargrovehouse_]

Paused to say, you’re absolutely right. We ALL feel this way when our kids aren’t able to quite “meet” a milestone. We all feel those joys when they do too. It’s the transparency that really just hits home. You’re giving Anne the ABSOLUTE BEST CHANCE at life and autism isn’t who she is, just a part of her. She is so intelligent and she’ll do incredible things in this world. Thank you so much for sharing, Vaugh. You’re such a great mother. You inspire me so much in many ways. Love your family. 🖤🥺🥺🙌🏾

[@latiyfaj]

I just stumbled across your page and I'm glad I did....... my son just turned 2 yrs old and he has alot of the signs of autism........ my son is getting evaluated soon to be actually diagnosed but there's no doubt in my mind that he is autistic.......... its very refreshing to see to another parent going through the same thing as me.......... I thankyou for your transparency cuz alot of time I feel alone and it gets overwhelming and frustrating at time especially because I have other children I have to care 4 also......... so thankyou for your reassurances I needed this❤

[@BigFineDoll]

Anne is growing up sooo fastttt.....her dancing with grandma made me realize how TALL she is getting ❤ We love you and your family thank you for always being so transparent ❤

[@4LADYSWEET]

VAUGHN YOU GOT THIS!!!! I HAVE NEVER SEEN A MOTHER LOVE ON HER CHILD LIKE YOU DO, CONTINUE TO BE A GREAT ROLE MODEL FOR OTHERS AND KNOW THAT THIS PATH FOR YOU IS ALL MENT FOR GOOD. IM TRULY INSPIRED 👏🏼👏🏼💕💕

[@kanon1964]

This video brought back so many memories. My son was first diagnosed with ADHD at 4.5 years old. He was diagnosed with autism at 5.5. Because he was so high functioning and very intelligent, we didn’t notice much, other than hyperactivity. He had a lot of behavioral problems when his sister was born, and we chalked it up to jealousy. But as my daughter grew older, his behavior grew worse, so it was more than sibling jealousy. We embarked on a journey of special education, special schools, and advocating (and fighting) for services. I, along with his father, also advocated for academics that were appropriate for his abilities, and encouraged the development of his talent for drawing. Thankfully, today my son is calmer, functions better and is making his way through college. His social interactions are much better. The ADHD symptoms are more prominent at this point, so the executive functioning is still a work in progress although much improved. I will say this: you celebrate the progress and keep pushing through the setbacks. And you cherish your support system. I think you are doing great!

[@tanishamincey1439]

I have been fighting to get my daughter diagnosed. I think she has high functioning autism and she is 4. I keep getting the runaround and it’s so frustrating. Everyone keeps throwing around ADD, ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and ODD! I can’t tell you how upsetting and overwhelmed I get! Now she’s going to be put in a EBD classroom for kindergarten. As a school counselor, I never know the parents side and now I do! And seeing your video and how strong you are gives me the motivation to keep going! Thanks!

[@msjayeparker]

Hey sis im here!! Watching!! LOVE YOU MY ANNE!! 💜💜💜💜💜God is awesome!! Look at that growing girl!! Man I had to come back and type this! I wish I was here to give yall big HUGS!! Champion NATION! You got this!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Dominique Derveaux ON POINT!!🙌🏾

[@nursett08]

Thanks for sharing this piece of your life. It's such a selfless thing to do. I appreciate you❤

[@shalettewoods3942]

I applaud you for seeking services for Anne at an early age. Congratulations on Anne’s progress! My daughter was diagnosed at age 3 ASD, she is now 5 soon to be 6! The evaluation is emotional… I had tears of joy when she was diagnosed because everyone told me she was not autistic but just a slow developing 😳. Autism is a beautiful gift. These individuals mind works on another level that is our duty to try and understand and adapt to their world. Continue to stay strong and be the mother the wonderful mother you are.

[@selmaaldn]

My son is getting evaluated soon, he is almost 4. It is so tough already, especially his meltdowns. It breaks my heart, but I know we will get there. We gotta stay positive and make the best out of it! I am reading everything about ASD and all other mental conditions just to be ahead. Thank you for sharing your story and making me not feel alone. I know there are a lot of mums out there who struggle. We only want the best for our children! Sending you all a lot of love! ❤

[@sharonjohnson6014]

Vaughn...I’m sorry ..parenting is not easy..even if they don’t have “precious needs”. God is using you in soo many ways..just think HE chose you!! Your mother is such a blessing ..you never out grow a loving parent. Thank you and Anthony for being such loving and caring parents...you guys are making a difference just know that..be encouraged 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@hopeinajar77]

MOM came in the building and the burden lifted. I love it. I've enjoyed watching baby girl grow up . I do not have children so I don't know how I ended up so into babygirl . I felt your anxiety girl, I started crying. I'm a empath so I felt your concern. You got this because this is your miracle baby and you were especially assigned to be this baby mommy for a very special reason. You both need one another and I love it.

[@iamshe3275]

All any of us can do is BE day to day. From where I stand, You rock, even when having a melt down! You ROCK!

[@Kawaii_Rockie]

My son was diagnosed last year and this video gives me hope ♥️ stay strong mama bear

[@karenwhite1619]

Ms. V and Mr. A, the blessing is Anne has you both and family, and all of us. We have experience this warmeth of love each time you come on your video's. I pray each day you all are strengthen, and God's grace continues to rest on you. Because your patience has been a virture. I don't no your break downs but you are full love, kindness, and grace. I send my love and hugs to you today. Hi to your mother she is so loving. Anne we love you God's little Angel. 🌸💐🙏💫💕💝🙏God masters all things He gives Grace. 💐🌸💕💝

[@sierradenise76]

Your mom is so supportive! Y’all remind me of me and my mom. I know she’ll be super supportive when my babies come. I love to see it!

[@itsahether]

I just found out that re-evaluations were a thing. My daughter got her diagnosis at 2.5. She's 6 next month and struggling in kindergarten. Thank you for sharing your experience. You're doing a great job mama!

[@samantham9056]

The process is very painstaking. My boy has come sooo far since then, but still has a ways to go, but you are doing all the right things, you are an awesome mother! I don’t know you personally but your vlogs are helping people and I am so proud to be a supporter of you well before Ann was here, but now more than ever.

[@westcoastcali703]

Ooooo my 💗 was hurting for u when I saw the tears in ur eyes behind the sunglasses..HUGS...and PS. Grandmothers are the BESTESTTT!👈🙏💗

[@danadowdell6461]

I got you, Vaughn. You're stronger than you know, even in your weakest moments. 💪🏿🙏🏾

[@athomewithshushana]

My 15 year old has Down Syndrome and it is hard, I look at you and see me because if you don't have a child with a disability, you will never be able to understand the challenges, the mental frustration and so on. You are amazing and you are doing great. Ann is so beautiful and such a light and you and your village is doing so great to be a support system for baby girl. I wish I had my family and friends with me but we live 4 hours away from our loved ones and so uts just me, my husband and our 3 kiddos, so ut is rough, but God is so good and so faithful. Thank you for your transparency and for giving us moms a voice. I will lift you guys up in prayers continually and be encouraged.

[@ConsciousWithConner]

Omg I love that your mom being there!!! My mom is the same, rarely showing a “grandma” side 😂 she just moms everyone at all times. So much care in this video 🥰

[@nhanceurbeauty]

I see a strong woman in you and even a strong woman needs to be checked on.. I pray that you’re good Vaughn. I will continue to pray for your strength and health. You seem to have a very tight support system so I pray for them too. Anne is awesome and what I see from your videos is an awesome family!!!💕💕

[@mrsmcason]

Watching this vlog made me want to drive 3 hours to see my mom and just hug her. I never realized what she could be going through or was going through with my brother’s autism. This definitely left me in tears. Will be praying for you and your family ❤️

[@CallMeTink]

ANNE LOVES MUSIC AND SEEMS TO VIBE WHEN HEARING GUITARS RIPPING💛..I JUST LOVE HER

[@AimeeBeeluvz]

You’re an amazing mom and Anne is sooooo blessed to have you! Thank you for sharing with us, I’m sure you’re helping SO many families with similar experiences 💕🌻

[@keekeefnay2010]

I know about this all too well because my now 23 year old is on the spectrum. Seems like it was just yesterday going through the process of it all. It is definitely very hard to deal with. Love and light to you, Vaughn.

[@pumpkin826]

How is he doing now?

[@keekeefnay2010]

@@pumpkin826 He’s doing great! Still working for the same company since h.s. graduation in the field of computers. And has his drivers license. He’s on the high end of the spectrum and mainly has issues socially. Thank you for asking💗

[@pumpkin826]

@@keekeefnay2010 that’s awesome. Such a blessing. I pray he continues to be successful both at work and socially! You’re an awesome mom!

[@keekeefnay2010]

@@pumpkin826 awww thank you so much for this🥰 I really appreciate it.

[@Ryan-yw8iz]

@@keekeefnay2010 Thanks for this information. While I know everyone on the spectrum is different, I wonder how things go for adults with Autism. My daughter is 8 on the spectrum. I just want her to be as independent as possible. I’m glad to hear your son works and has a driver’s license.

[@stacybee154]

Crying along with you. I remember this path, still on this path. Trust me it gets a little easier. Cry if you feel like it. God has got you and your family. She is a really lovely little girl.

[@1meilee]

Girl! This Vlog gave me anxiety for real! Man! I've soooo been there and still going thru it, with all the therapies, and testings! It's so not easy and I know that I will never accept the Autism diagnosis. I treat autism as symptoms and I work on each symptom as we go! Also by me not accepting the diagnosis. (By all means... I'm not suggesting that you do not accept the diagnosis. I'm just sharing what has worked for me mentally) It has helped me put myself in a different mindset and that has really helped me with my son and his progress (jr is 7). They are Ms. Vaughn...You're doing your best and Ann see's it and knows her mama has her! You and your family GO HARD FOR HER!. Ann has made so much strides because of you, your family and her support team! She is soaring high! Thank you for being so transparent and honesty! It's so Raw and Real! God Bless.. #YouGotThis

[@momandwifelife916]

Can I say what a beautiful mommy & daughter duo! Love your channel!

[@ShaeLaird]

I am a 7th grade special education teacher and I have students on the spectrum. Thank you for posting this video. It is helpful to see autism from a parent’s perspective.

[@NYMahogany]

Hey Vaughn! Hugs to you. Im sure that can be a stressful process. You guys are awesome parents & grandparents. Watching Anne enjoy the music. & dancing w/her Gma was so heart warming.

[@thandialiya]

Anne has great taste in music 😂❤️

[@kcgirl03]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I am a Autism Mom of a 2 yr old boy. He is our third child and it was quite a shock! It was difficult for me and my husband to accept at first and truth be told we still struggle. During his first initial test, I cried at the results even though I knew in my heart something was off with my child. You are not alone and I'm thankful to have found another relatable black family who faces similar challenges. You have help me with acceptance and not trying to cure my child. We love you and Anne! 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

[@Sassytat27]

Hey I’m a new subscriber I was referred to your channel because earlier this year my daughter was diagnosed with autism and I honestly responded the same way and I connected with you here stay strong your an amazing mom and she’s beautiful thank you for sharing your journey so moms like me in the same situation don’t feel completely lost ❤️

[@kiaraangeles5859]

You are not the only one who freaks out lol I do too! This is so educational and definitely makes us who go through this not feel alone. Thank you for sharing your experience❤️ You got this!!! ❤️

[@Tootsie26]

You are AMAZING. I am always in awe of how you, hubby and your Mom interact with Anne. She is so Precious

[@Ebby1019]

❤️❤️❤️ I'm having a tough mommy week (out of many} too so I totally understand. I could relate to a lot of what you said about trying your best with your kids and then being very nervous when they're being evaluated for this or for that. I've been and am still there. Thank you for sharing your experience 🤗

[@nspencer77]

Yes. I'm very curious about how you discipline Anne. I imagine you have to decipher which behavior is typical and which is related to her condition before you discipline. 🤔

[@missmaraable]

Thank you for your transparency. Anne has a wonderful support system behind her and I’m glad to see that you do too. You’re doing amazing, above and beyond and it shows

[@jessicajaid4205]

You’re doing a damn good job, I know that much. Stressed out and all, I could tell you’re doing your best.

[@sylviajackson8920]

Thank goodness for a mom! Your mom is amazing-such a supportive woman!

[@neshastephenson290]

Thank you so much for your courage and for sharing your journey as a black mom. As a first time mom with a 4 year old that has Autism its rough. Evaluations can definitely be rough and stressful. My family is all new to the idea of Autism and although I am also a special educator more times than not I have felt like I am failing him. Your story gives me inspiration and reminds me that I am not alone. Thank you so much for doing what you do. I will continue to follow you and Ann's journey. Much love.

[@mthompson5383]

Hugs to U. I can understand where you are coming from. My daughter aged out of our state early intervention program this year and is now in special education pre-k with the school district. Reading the evaluations, IEP reports, therapy notes etc. have really been a struggle as a first time parent. I'm nervous about her upcoming specialist appointment. I said all that to say, thank you for sharing because I don't personally have friendships with other parents that I feel can relate.

[@PreciousBB18]

You are such a great mom Vaughn! I seriously wanted to just hug you, watching you in that waiting room. I’ve had a few students who are on the spectrum and their parents are always the most understanding, patient, most amazing parents I’ve ever met. You are no different!

[@scrubbingoffinternet5221]

Her and grandma are precious together

[@tetedansby5503]

I really need this my daughter is about to be 5 and she is autistic . looking at this video remind me of how my daughter act always singing covering her ears running off it so hard I felt so alone and people can't understand I have try to teach my daughter every but nothing works . I really needed this to show me I am not alone it's hard being a mom to a autistic child ...I have two ...both of my youngest kids ...4 and 3 is autistic it so hard I feel like am about to lose my mind but I pray and cry.. wipe my tears and keep it moving because my kids need me . So I definitely need this be blessed

[@Melisblessed]

Listen...your doing everything your suppose to be doing. Keep up with the therapy. I’m a ABA therapist and I have a son who was diagnosed with moderate autism. With therapy and the preschool I placed him in he moved to mild autism.

[@TigerzLionzPistonzWingz]

I don't know what's more beautiful, your home, your daughter, your spirit or you.

[@user-bk8of8mo1n]

God bless ❤️. My son has an IEP and it does make me sad, anxious, and self doubting when the instructors tell me what marks he hasn’t met. But, he has come along way!! Thank you for your transparency Vaughn❤️❤️❤️

[@zedianqueen]

Stay encouraged beautiful mommy! I (personally) feel you are doing an amazing job and deserve all the handclaps ( 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾) I can give. Parenting is stressful, autism (or any other challenge) makes it that much more stressful. If I can provide any encouragement it is to say, keep on doing what you're doing...self-care, utilizing your village (support), loving on your angel, and being aware of her milestones. YOU ARE A M A Z I N G!!

[@jbf4129]

I have a very close family member who has special needs. All I can say is, go with your feelings and don’t feel guilty. If you feel like crying, cry. If you feel like screaming, go outside and scream. You Are such a great mother, and I know you couldn’t do it without your mother. One day at a time. Stay safe.

[@sheenabeena82]

Hugs! I can totally relate to you feeling overwhelmed. I’m a single mother to a soon to be 5 year old autistic daughter. I have my moments where I feel completely overwhelmed. So again…. Sending you a virtual hug as i watch this.

[@vlogher]

Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us. I continue to learn so much from you. Your an amazing mother to Anne, she is so blessed and God has placed her right where she’s loved so much. Praying for the continued strength of you & Anthony in this journey. Always rooting for y’all!!

[@JenniferKristin888]

Sending you a virtual hug! Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your life with us Vaughn. We love you so much! You’re the best... ☺️❤️

[@ososandi]

bless you all. its been such a joy watching anne grow.

[@takishajohnson7145]

Not an Autism mom but I watch all your videos. You are just an amazing person. I love you dedication to your family and yourself. I pray this process becomes easier but you are doing such a wonderful job! I often forget Anne is autistic. Prayers to you and your family. And good job to Grandma too. What a blessing to have her support you all in this process. ❤

[@KeishaBeeeCooks]

WE LOVE YOU QUEEN VAUGHN!!! Thank you for your transparency. This is service work you are doing. We collectively claim continued great energies of strength, patience, support and favor❤️

[@95KyBoo]

Vaughn with the tan❤ Your mom is great! Stay blessed family😊

[@vaultconversationspodcast8785]

Thank you for being transparent and showing your true emotions. It’s ok to be overwhelmed, frustrated, sad, etc. Plenty of mothers would’ve folded under these circumstances but it’s refreshing to see you give yourself grace as a mother. Obviously nobody wants to see their child go through this but ppl often write off the mother like we aren’t going through a whole situation ourselves. You’re doing AMAZING and we love to see it! Especially in the black community.

[@conniewilder6576]

Please know that your courage in being transparent and sharing this part of your life is invaluable and you are a BLESSING to us. Grace and Mercy to you, your husband and mother. You guys are soooo amazing!!!!! Be Blessed

[@NaturallyNelly612]

It really is a joy to see so much support the whole family has especially for Anne. It’s so great.

[@kandiwhite7972]

Thank you for sharing your journey! We all love and support You and Anne. From one autism mom to another; testing day is definitely overwhelming. Continue to be kind to yourself.

[@naturalcourage7070]

I am so proud of Anne and of you for sharing your journey with us. These moments are very intimate and your feeling over-whelmed is completely understandable. Thank you for being so vulnerable and helpful to others!

[@twill1007]

Grandma looks too cute in this video 🥰 and so supportive

[@maiahh7294]

Hearing her talk for the first time was awesome!!!! Congrats Ann ❤️💕

[@Indiestroll]

Thank You for sharing! It warms my heart to see all the time your Mom gets to devote to Ann AND you!

[@bkbjorn3487]

This was soooo sobering and real to watch. I’m a new subbie. I am humbled by your reality. I am so thankful your mom was there to assist. I’m praying for your continued strength. 🙏🏾🖤

[@ShakiraKGardner]

Your patience is so encouraging. Thank you for sharing! Praying for more resources and avenues to help Little Miss Anne💕💕🙏🏾

[@laurenrook3687]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I enjoy watching all of your content, but your Autism vlogs are so special to me as I'm beginning a similar journey with my 4 yr old.

[@aishagreen5638]

Hi Vaughn. I immediately started praying for you as I was watching the vlog. God's got you! Thank you for educating us also. You are a STRONG Woman!

[@NundiV]

Anne eyes and personality is everything! She’s perfect 🥰

[@RioTrini77]

Vaughn, you are stronger that you feel at times. Thank you for sharing Anne's journey, it's helping so many other parents who can relate with your day to day life...may God continue to bless your beautiful family....

[@ronekatankard39]

You are definitely an awesome mom and it is such a pleasure watching Anne grow. You are doing a great job

[@LadyBDavis]

Grandma’s are angels on earth! I loved this vlog!