Arranged Marriage vs Love Marriage | Mutfi Menk

[@BitterBetterBM]

You are the first Muslim who’s sermon I listened to the day before Ramadan 2023. I took Shahada 19 March 2024 🤲🏾🫶🏾

[@salman55855]

❤

[@AnnieBunnie08]

MashaAllah sister !!!!

[@farheen2603]

Mashallah

[@thefoodicon7919]

Allahumma barik aameen

[@innersoul-jk9eu]

MashaAllah sister

[@sidikatisa-yusuf7442]

Either 'arranged introduction' or 'love marriages' ,May Allah grant our youths grace to marry the right person who will help them in their deen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

[@kehfilwara1692]

Aameen

[@anwarsadat-wc8dg]

Ameen thumma Ameen 🤲🙏

[@anwarsadat-wc8dg]

May Allah grant us the righteous and pious spouse 🤲🙏❤

[@sultanparvejaminkhan2809]

Aameen 🤲🏻

[@ibtehaljabeen01]

Aameen

[@zayana6398]

I’m super stressed right now walahi 😢😂as a lady it’s super hard to make decisions without being judged for it My family wants me to marry a guy that I don’t like, I don’t know why I don’t like him 😢😢I can’t see Myself marrying him walahi If you come across this comment pls make dua for me I really do it prayers 😊

[@adhilmuhammad5421]

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

[@Ilovemd-p3f]

Tell them , you have to want to marry him, make Dua and Istikhara, ask Allah to guide you, Istikhara is done not before sleep, no need to dream, shaytan comes in dreams, trust your instinct it never lies!!

[@adam4025]

listen for your heart !

[@somebody_55]

​@@Ilovemd-p3fwell said brother Ma sha Allah

[@zayana6398]

@@Ilovemd-p3f thank you

[@shalizamohammed868]

Daily Dhikr Reminder 💚,💚.🌹.Bismillah 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

[@fatimasbello433]

I think we should have a community/group that we can sit and discuss all this. Ppl are really going through forced marriage and it hurts

[@_Kashmir_313_]

Light on the Tongue, Heavy on the Scale (Dhikr) Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) Said: The One Who Say سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ العَظِيم “Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim” 100 Times No One Will Be Better Than Him On The Day of Judgement Except Someone Who Said It More Than Him' [Sahih al Bukhari 6682] Also in [Sahih Muslim] Say It At Least 100 Times During The Day While You'Re Fasting Also Share With Others

[@rhidzqa777]

May The Almighty Allah(swt) make it easy for us and grant to us to get married in a good/righteous spouses and to have offsprings who will be the coolness of our eyes,heart and soul. Ya Mujib accept our dua’s. Aameen🤲♥️♥️

[@MdIbrahim-fs5iy]

Love From Bangladesh ❤🇧🇩🇵🇸

[@sumiah-tm2dl]

assalamualaikum sumi ramadon

[@Enkei6_]

🇧🇩 Represent

[@Sulthxnaahh._]

Whatever the marriage it is! Stay happily with that partner. But i always prefer love marriage because of both know each other is a great thing. But the parents is not agreed to marry the person whome loves you most we cant do anything. But dont lose the hope in 'Allah'. Pray, cry to him for the person whose love you. Allah will give you oneday. In sha allah🙂

[@kehfilwara1692]

Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata aayun wa ja’alna lil muttaqeena imama. Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer.

[@Finefella]

Keep making duas for all oppressed

[@corneewols8542]

A arranged meeting/marriage sounds really interesting and appealing for me. For whom meeting and dating woman is really difficult.

[@expertsgeek]

I love a girl, please keep me in your prayers. I want a Hilal relationship. But her parents are not interested in me 😢😢😢😢. Please remember in your prayers. As it's stated if you like a woman marry her. But due to sect 😢😢😢😢😢

[@fatimaadams8121]

Allah will surely give you what's best for just keep on praying to Allah

[@AmjadAli-vx4pt]

Agree , pray and stay strong!!

[@ashiinaeem786]

Dear brother/sister 😢may ALLAH blessed you Ameen don't worry

[@sultanparvejaminkhan2809]

Aameen 🤲🏻

[@travelwithfazah]

May Allah protect our kids d From saitan and give them Hidayat to be always on Right path 🤲

[@ashuus946]

Yes ,they have to be satisfied each other,its long journey

[@WarishaMondal]

MY FAVOURITE SPEAKER ❤ MUFTI MENK 🎉

[@AbcDef-jh7rw]

Regarding marriage I feel like I am in such a horribly awkward situation. I am so confused on this topic man

[@razamughal4582]

Write your question here

[@userkhaic]

Love marriage is always better.

[@ibrahimzahoor601]

May Allah increase my happiness and tranquility. May Allah fulfill my wishes. InshaAllah 🤲❣️

[@ariyankhan8200]

Love from BANGLADESH 🇧🇩❤❤❤❤❤

[@haytoxs]

Love from morocco brother ❤‍🩹❤‍🩹🤝🤝

[@farhanaanis8382]

Aameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻 MASHA ALLAH well done speech 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 LAA HAWLA WALAA KUWATHA ILLAA BILLAA whatever it is , we have to accept our QADR which is pre-written by HIM ALLAH SWT... MAY ALLAH SWT make it easy for our children and ease our affairs and grant peace. Aameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

[@GhGh-js3el]

ربنا هب لنا من ازوجنا و ذريتنا قرة أعين و جعلنا للمتقينا اماما

[@fatimakhan3067]

Some time I relate everything Mufti menk say is according to my situation

[@habibasangari4260]

I have long wanted to hear something like this. ❤

[@kauserunnisabegum6565]

Greatly said and beautifully explained 😊

[@Gabru_di_Gaddi]

I never met and chatted with her and had arranged marriage based on positive comments from relatives but now I advise every single youth please don't do this the mistake I did May Allah bless you guide and protect you

[@mhizzraihan3486]

I was going to get married to a guy who already paid my dowry but unfortunately his parents arranged a family marriage for with another girl and he was forced to marry her and since then which is 3yrs now I haven’t found a man yet and I don’t know why but Allah knows everything hmmm

[@fridawsbamba1641]

Insha Allah very soon Allah will bless you with a pious husband

[@mhizzraihan3486]

Thanks dear I have hope in Allah

[@fridawsbamba1641]

@@mhizzraihan3486 Masha Allah

[@sabeensadaf1795]

Its so bad that i cant even share this video with them

[@FarhanLifts]

May Allah Azzawajal bless you sir with immense goodness and mercy. JazakAllah❤

[@WarishaMondal]

Your words touched my heart 💜❤🎉

[@Raha4848]

Subhanaallah❤❤❤❤ live long mufti shekhi

[@sahalhabib6361]

I agree family should listen to their children but what if the family is right, are the children ready to listen?....

[@mdrumaan9123]

Sir you mistakenly wrote mutfi in title

[@whysthat123]

Didn't you hear him talking about Palestine?

[@mdrumaan9123]

​@@whysthat123yes I did so what

[@rayyanshobowale7110]

😒there was no need for what you said.

[@aa-fw2pw]

Focusing on the content of the video should be the main aim. Not nitpicking spelling errors

[@whysthat123]

@@mdrumaan9123 manners, or get lost.

[@Asad-2166]

Just follow the Qur'an and sunnah you can't go wrong 👍 now free Palestine

[@mdhasanali4707]

I think arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Thanks!

[@abubakarkoroma8770]

Alhamdulila I'm greatful ❤

[@mohammedaqial2270]

He never married her but has a daughter from my ex- wife I’m lucky to be alive he was in love with her I’m in a wheelchair because of his actions…

[@sarahman-q4t]

Finest video on marriage.

[@ibrahimbabaadams8682]

May Allah help me marry this girl. Please pray for me if you come accross this

[@durranaybachey4555]

Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage.. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal.

[@candicecole19]

So remember me; I will remember you 🤍 ▫️Subhanallahi wa Bihamdihi ▫️Astaghfirullah wa atubu ilaih ▫️La hawla wala quwwata illa billah

[@Rajaas_Reading_Corner]

Mashallah so well spoken!

[@asmauadri]

Would love to view the full episode

[@Mm2playermayahh]

Asalaamu aleykum sometimes don’t say no to your parents without knowing the person he can be the one give a chance

[@kinsiismail-jv1pj]

Sheikh mufti menk masha Allah ❤️❤️❤️

[@iamraine3933]

I let my man to marry and still accepting him as a friend.. Still caring about him.. He wasn't happy and faced depression due to this marriage that we are dreaming and went on the other way and what he planned is to marry me out of the knowledge of his parents. I don't know what to do. I want to see him happy. It's hurting me my man was choke of all this cultural norms. His decision not matters😢

[@samarsaa6757]

May Allah Almighty gives us steadfast in our Deen.Aameen.may Allah Almighty bless mufti Menk sahib with health,happiness and may Allah Almighty protects mufti Menk sahib from evil eyes and from jeolous people.Aameen.

[@iamraine3933]

I love the man for 8yrs and then was fixed for his cousin. Family doesn't like me. That's the thing we didn't able to settle down until he was tired and accepted the marriage since the mom telling she was old need somebody to take care of them and seeing his son married

[@nawazthezaifre8870]

But in most of the cases family takes a good decision. Bcz our family member have a good experience and knows our qualities and weakneses. So, they try to findOne by whom our qualities matches. In Arranges Marriage both bride and groom respect each others rather than love Marriage couple. And especially these days you cant find a true love. So chill guys family matters alot dont loose your family just bcz of the person you met few days ago.

[@zuzanna3823]

Masha Allah. True. Alhamdulilah

[@Top._10_Editz]

Love from Kashmir ❤❤❤❤

[@HappyKylr]

GOD bless y'all 🤲🏽 🥰

[@munawaranoor9635]

Parents choose for us and if we deny they tell us we know nothing they dont allow us to choose what we want only them can choose for us plz I need to know if this is right. And why if we try to choose for ourself they are wishing us bad thing abt our choices.

[@aminaqamar3997]

I have a question:If someone's marriage is fixed with someone in a few months(by the will of parents) can she message the person to get to know about him??

[@aminaqamar3997]

Like it does come in totally halal courtship right?

[@aminaqamar3997]

Because if it is completely arranged(forced) it will be a problem

[@aminaqamar3997]

@mufti menk please reply

[@serventofAllah01]

Sister it's better to avoid speaking with each other before marriage

[@linah.939]

You can meet and talk in person WITH the attendance of a Mahram. It’s better to avoid messaging because that would be khalwa and shaitan will be the third of you

[@shafqatiqbal3115]

Plz pray for me that i get a guy who is made for me ,and it should be gud for me,

[@Paheliyan001]

Please upload it in urdu my parents don't understand english😭

[@Candymuslim]

This is Real Islam ,this is Shariaa❤❤

[@Techrewind584]

Arrange or love it doesn't matter for women they need money only, My wife had prayed all prayers, completed Qur'an last ramdhan and never skipped Burka but she ran away with some one, this is true Muslims where leading, even i take care of her like small baby and giving her and provide daily needs and gives pocket money for saving and taking her for her mother home daily and all where she wanted I loved her 16years but she not have fear of Allah and I had gone islamic court I have seen my self 150 khulas per months and majority of girls is only demanding money which Mufti Sab told they only marry for money , prostitutes are better than them at least have loyalty for the money ( but it's haram) just for example but still many do like this but women who no non Muslim converted to Islam are very Truth and loyal to there husbands...but isn Muslims mom's they're daughters are destroying marriages , if honey have money she will go there even how many time she married without qula or talak haram relationships A boy can marry uneducated girl or poor girl but can a girl marry poor boy or deen boy or uneducated boy prove me wrong .....if you can..

[@Asad-2166]

This is all emotional, this is your test in life so take it like a man! Can't blame every woman or man for this , my marriage isn't perfect it is what it is !!! Hasbi Allah Wa Ni-Am Al Wakil

[@Asad-2166]

You should be more worried about what the Hindutwas are doing

[@Ilovemd-p3f]

Better be single and happy than married and miserable!!!

[@durranaybachey4555]

In Pakistan Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage girlsor boy run away from homes get married. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love run away from home anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal. 4 years a go i was traveling to Pakistan in the Airport of Pakistan I saw the ugliest man he was quite wealthy rich he was with beautiful women she was yonge..I was like on what on earth she accepted him to marry him. Ofcourse she had no option to marry him becuase of money.

[@araiskhan5852]

Can someone give me calculation of this video please because my English is not so mugh fluent ❤❤

[@elvirawidyatiofficial6247]

Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Bismillah Subhanallah Glory be to Allah Alhamdulillah All praise is due to Allah Laaillahaillalah None to worship but Allah Allahu Akbar Allah is the Greatest Astaghfirullah O Allah forgives us

[@MahiraKhan-qz2rj]

O Allah except our good deeds ameen

[@WonderWoman-pf6nq]

How to send this to my parents without sending .🙂

[@universeandbeyond3576]

Send the video to them but say it was sent in error😅

[@aminaqamar3997]

​@@universeandbeyond3576will they see it then or ignore it?

[@WonderWoman-pf6nq]

@@universeandbeyond3576 great idea JazakAllah

[@imranshaik9228]

Save your freind's number in your parents phone and tell your freind to keep a status so that your parents can watch it.

[@Eynann]

Saallaallhu alehi wasalam Saallaallhu alehi wasalam ❤❤

[@azidbarbhuiya7689]

Assalamualaikum Mufti ... Can you please explain this in Hindi I wanna share this with my relatives and friends their parents and all they are doing soo wrong 😢

[@aishasultan03]

But the problem is a girl can't like someone and can't propose him and can't able to tell her family members.

[@iamraine3933]

He should be happy on his wedding but didn't care and not excited. What he faced is depression over. Like a marriage for him is changing clothes after used. No excitement on his face and even sick😢😢😢I felt really bad seeing him in this condition but he has to follow the family rules and culture. Whenever he wanted to comeback and wanted to talk. I'm still giving my shoulder to cry on but I'm stress coz I don't like him to cheat the other girl. I couldn't leave him also the way he is not happy. Now he is planning to marry me as a second wife but I'm not sure about it anymore. Love still here but knowing my man sleep with another lady for me is no no situation. Can feel me by care but not physically attach. 😢😢😢And begging me to hold him and don't leave him😢😢😢

[@pinkmorning8056]

Then marry him. Why?? U already said he is not happy with his first marriage it means you two love each other. Ifeel bad for him because of that marriage that he didnt ask. He just wanted you so please ❤

[@sameehaImaad-v7v]

I'm in love with a men from age 14...ikw it's haram but still i love him truly.... He means everything to me... his is also loving me truly.. But the fact is my parents hate him they want me to marry the boy by there choice.. I don't want to hurt mu parents but yet i can't give up on him also... I wish to change this haram relationship to halal relationship idk os that possible or not... Pls pray for me

[@JMI786]

Arranged marriage is indeed a favorable option when considering the many benefits it brings. However, it is important to acknowledge that there may be challenges to overcome in the process

[@shorifulislam8619]

Arrange marriage better

[@Fatima74178]

I wanna discuss marriage problem, but dont know how can i connect you Mufti sb? I wish i can discuss with you for your suggestion for my satisfaction. Please response so that i can connect you

[@adibkhan8782]

Mufti i've a question regarding the status of Kabah and Grave of the prophet Muhammad which has higher status do clear please.. and i've also read that the Grave of the prophet is even better than Arsh Kf Allah ...please clear me ?

[@serventofAllah01]

Bro it's really such a vegue n absurd question. However the holy KABA is house of Allah SWT then how the grave of prophet Mohammed(PBUH) can have a higher status

[@sodiqafolabi3093]

Mashallah tabarakallah

[@MDAlom-rs9qe]

Mashallah ❤❤❤❤

[@saminafardosejuthi6218]

ALLAH bless us all

[@lll7183]

What if they say they have fallen for a girl from out of the religion. And our children know which non Muslims they can married to. So do you say ok for that

[@l.d769]

Assalaamu alaykoum wa rahmati Allah wa barakatuh love marriage is preferred the most the most women wouldn't marry a man that they don't want or love for several reasons they don't agree of what family presents for them they emotionally shuts down or have eating disorder staying in their rooms/ homes all day or walks away to other places but when she does love she is flourishing she is happy all day talks more and takes most of her mother and have an attitude of responsibility at start even for some men in different situations it depends on their background or culture but this is a beautiful dua's for the one whom want to marry in the night prayer tadharo'an/in supplications with pure intentions 1. inni li ma anzalta ilaya min khairin faqeer 2. Allahoumma Hablana min azwadjina wa dourriyatina qurat ayoun wa dja'alna li muttaqeena imama these supplications are in the quran ameen ameen ameen ya Rabb Al'Alameen and by the way in the dua connect e-book pdf. of mufti menk from muslim central i recommended it very much ma sha Allah tabaaraka Allah Arrahmaan so many dua over there top and many more love it Alhamdoullilah wa soukroulillah

[@Mohammedsufiyanalic7]

What is that small screen pop on to the screen??

[@GulMohammad43]

This is for deaf people's because they cant listen mufti so this person is helping deaf so they can also understand what mufti has spoking.😊

[@Mohammedsufiyanalic7]

​@@GulMohammad43 MASHALLAH WoW 👏

[@ArbitraryZer0101]

It's a silly question, always "it depends".

[@mohammedwaheeduddinafsar9482]

Bismillah subhanallah Alhamdulillah La ilaha illallah Allah Hu Akbar

[@thefoodicon7919]

SubhanAllah SubhanAllah SubhanAllah

[@syedachubby]

But as a pushtun we marry a guy we never met and see him on day of nikkah or after going to his house (ruqsati)

[@ayezashadaz3113]

During my Nani and dadi times this used to happen

[@iamraine3933]

How do u feel this way. It feels good to marry like this?

[@SamtheShazam]

How do you married someone who don't know well. even i'm to also a muslim 😅😂

[@BatMan-hv7xr]

So while my friend was ,in her hostel her family back home fixed her marriage without ,her knowledge witout asking her ,without letting her know , and when she came to know about this after months after completing her studies when she went back to her home, she was told by her father that he has already promised and can't backtrack. And the worst part for her is that already likes someone else and this someone also likes her and both wanted to get married. But now her family is forcing her to get married to the person her father promised , in the name of family honour.

[@iamraine3933]

The same my situation. 8yrs we've known each other and working hard to build our future together somewhere. Then going back home on EID we didn't know yet he is about to marry soon and can't say no coz of family decision since parents are both involved

[@Fatima74178]

AOA, I am from Pakistan living in America for job. Dear Mufti SB, Its my innermost desire to discuss my marriage problem with you. Your suggestion will be helpful for me. I know a person whom I find best upto now in every matter of dealing with me. I wanna marry him. His father is Shia, he said " I am not Shia but sunni". I never saw any activity as he is forgeiner. He said you can bring me to anyone for your satisfaction for bait like stuff. He is also living in abroad but his family is living in Pakistan. I even saw him during offering prayer and listen his Quran. He said I can do what you want regarding every matter by religion point if I am wrong you can suggest me the right direction. Please suggest me what is the best possibility for getting marry to convince my parents. Is it fine to get marry to that person? I offered istikhara and my heart is even satisfied for him. However, I wanna know your point. Please respond me. I am in extreme tension.

[@Fatima74178]

Please for God sake, don't ignore my comment. Many prayers for you.

[@iamraine3933]

I'm even in relationship with Pakistani guy that was set for fixed marriage back at home. And we thought our relationship would lead to marriage. His family didn't agree of me, and now he wanted to marry for the sake of his family names and have to comeback here and move to EUROPE me and him as a escape for all this😢😢😢

[@numan_bd_lover]

No marriage!!!

[@SunlessShang]

Subhan Allah

[@muhammednabeel7884]

Done ✅

[@عمرالمشهري-و5ه]

That's exactly what happened to me After years my ex said to me I only married you just for my father, to make him happy 😢

[@dawaashukri6104]

Oh I'm sorry. I hope you moved on.

[@SayadaBano-uq9ko]

Don't make any girl life hell for you father happinesse How nonsense or selfish he is ??😢

[@fridawsbamba1641]

​@@SayadaBano-uq9koexactly

[@razamughal4582]

They say that anyway. It means nothing. Anyone can say anything even made up.

[@Nusra718]

My parents also force me to arrange marriage

[@SlayGangster-pj9rs]

I’m so sorry...

[@tamannanasrin1131]

Forcing someone to get married against there will is haraam in Islam. I know we live in a judged society where some parents follow culture instead of religion. You must tell them whether you would like to get married or not. I would suggest you to say it now to avoid any future problems!

[@directionergirl1]

Run away if you're old enough and are independent

[@mohammadnazeer661]

❤❤❤

[@lusitn9thc760]

Indian family don't allow love marriages at all😢

[@amiduumor6002]

Ameen 🤲

[@Alhuda-vm8sj]

Best marriage=No marriage

[@arefinachowdhury2484]

In the case of jihad or war even pork is hallal n some months ago all of u planned us secrecy n elope just joking

[@ahhasib9439]

❤️🌺

[@jawadulkarim8877]

Maybe or maybe not, both ways can lead to end of staying together. I would suggest to skip it, rather travel the world or do anything that you find peace in.

[@ImbeingHAUNTED101]

Not interested I’m being mobbed by cults Dtfl you called him out on a mistake Oops I cursed got to goooo

[@nazishansari07]

Arrange marriage is better ❤

[@aamiralmanzo8150]

No they suck

[@sani_sumon]

I am watching from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇵🇸

[@ISLAMICKIDSFUNCTION]

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