- BAD RELATIONSHIP ADVICE - Don't marry her, she's your 1st girlfriend, you're still in high school, you've got so much of life left to live . . . 20 years later, still committed to weathering the storms together - APIDTA - 🖤
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
MVP moment! Tabarakallah! May Allah always give you good and bless your marriage! 🤲🤲🤲
@rsm562710 ай бұрын
Sufyan seems like a sensible guy. High levels of social and emotional intelligence. You both seem like a great couple. May Allah bless you both.
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah. Very kind words. May Allah return the reward you tenfold. 🤲
@nadia.c510 ай бұрын
damn, I actually learned so much. Love how you guys spoke on advice that seems to be a common thing in our society and most people agree on yet you guys disagreed and spoke on how it was wrong. Mind-boggling and so enlightening.
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
So happy you enjoyed it! ❤️❤️
@pamelashehu10 ай бұрын
Loveee to see these conversations from a muslim perspective. The pressure to compromise into marriage is SO real and I’m so glad you guys touched on that topic. I’m glad you didn’t settle, it’s inspiring!
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
The pressure IS REAL!! We have sisters going through this so glad we got the chance to mention it. Alhamdulillah ❤️
@everydaytales603110 ай бұрын
Love love love to see you guys having conversations, I always want to here each others points of view, sounds like a healthy couple conversation to me New subscriber, I love you guys
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
So happy you have subscribed and what a lovely comment! Hope you enjoy everything we have coming up! 💗
@Kiimii_10 ай бұрын
Amazing video .. no words . Just subhanallah. 👌 keep doing what you're doing brother
@ashlylouis991110 ай бұрын
Please do a part 2 !! Bad relationship advice- you can change them and their bad habits😬
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
We nearly did this one! It was on our original list. We’ll do another soon! 👀
@pandapanda-tn3zt10 ай бұрын
Best relationship advice
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
☺️❤️
@nabilaxo915710 ай бұрын
this was so good can you do more similar segments? ☺️
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Yes, in shaa Allah. Really glad you enjoyed it! ☺️
@PowerGurhl10 ай бұрын
I’m happy you all do these types of talks! It’s really great ❤ hope Allah keeps blessing you
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
🥹☺️💗
@hassansaid389410 ай бұрын
Love this episode
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Yaaay! ☺️
@faiqabadreldin375310 ай бұрын
bless you guys
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
🤲🥰
@aj__love591910 ай бұрын
The way she says Feeling personally attacked right now Sufyan 🤣
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
It’s one of her favourite lines 🤦🏽♂️😂😅
@aj__love591910 ай бұрын
@@TheXs.Official 🤣🤣♥️ I love her! Masha’Allah I love both of your videos especially the advice ones about marriage.if you have any more advices regarding how to carry relationships after one gets married throw in more tips😁
@Sara-qi2ut6 ай бұрын
Thanks guys for this beautiful talk. Also I wonder what accent is this? I just came across ur channel and I’m curious. All love❤
@TheXs.Official5 ай бұрын
I'm Scottish and Sufyan has an English accent ☺️
@Dingalingafication10 ай бұрын
Love these videos, so interesting to hear your viewpoints.
@Mr.Liam.10 ай бұрын
Top tier editing guys love it 😂❤
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Mr Liam! 😅❤️
@S4FX10 ай бұрын
Love these podcasts ❤
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@cdcsamira10 ай бұрын
Great video ❤
@hamidaalhassan924210 ай бұрын
Love you guys may Allah bless and make you the coolness for each other eyes ❤❤❤
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Ameen 🥰❤️
@atinukeolowe526310 ай бұрын
when the wife is totally dependent on the husband financially due to economic downturn of the Country they are, the truth is she stays in the marriage because she has nowhere else to go.
@zoesummer36465 ай бұрын
I agree with most of your points great session. Your wife is very beautiful and u are a knockout, meaning overly handsome. Enjoy watching you guys.
@Al-Aswad78910 ай бұрын
Assalam aleikum The X’s,❤
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Wa alaikum assalaam ❤️
@annasingankutti583210 ай бұрын
💚💚💚
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
🤍❤️🤍
@anisahkhan326810 ай бұрын
Omg proper 100% true Pakistani control drama hate it ❤
@iNikkah10 ай бұрын
Be careful who you take marriage advise from, some people have agendas but most are just clueless, esp when we go to friends, they have the same level of wisdom as you do being the same age- look for people who have interest in keeping your marriage alive
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
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@ahabarhossain77310 ай бұрын
With all due respect, the polygyny rule still applies today. The Qur'an is very clear that a man is allowed to marry up to 4 wives if he is financially and physically capable. If you are a true Muslim, then you must believe that the Qur'an is the word of Allah and it is the last message to mankind before the Day of Judgement.
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
There are actually multiple viewpoints on this. There is a clear condition set in the Quran in the preceding line. I personally think it MAY not be applicable today as the condition set regarding orphans is not applicable. I am not condemning marriage to multiple wives. It happens to be something that is not applicable to me regardless. I just think that the debate as to the existing conditions is a definite point of interest. Also, whilst permitting polygyny under specific circumstances, the Quran also states that monogamy is always preferable and that a man will never be able to treat multiple wives justly.
@ahabarhossain77310 ай бұрын
@TheXs.Official I agree that monogamy is preferable. However, we must say that polygyny is allowed if a man is financially and physically capable. All the 4 madhabs agree that polygyny is allowed but I believe Hanbali and Shafi say that monogamy is preferable. The issue you are referring to is the Qur'anic verse on polygyny, while it is true that it is talking about orphans, the general principle of a man having multiple wives is permissible according to the hadith of the Prophet SAW where men had multiple wives even if they weren't orphans during wartime and peacetime and he allowed it. Many of the Sahaba also practiced polygyny like this also. So the polygyny verse is not specified to orphans as the general principle of polygynous marriages still applies. The verse you cited where Allah says you will never be able to be completely fair to all your wives is true; however, the other part of the verse Allah says that if you don't leave the other hanging (meaning you attend to thw other wives to the best of your ability) He will forgive you. As such, polygyny is halal and we should not be making something that Allah has made permissible impermissible. I agree with you that monogamy is preferable according to the Qur'an and Sunnah and for a multitude of reasons but cannot make something that is allowed in Islam unallowed simply because the "times have changed." The Qur'an is the legislation for all of mankind till the end of times. Surah Maidah (5:3) "This day have I perfected for you your religion and completed My favor on you."
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
My dear brother, I do not deny the Quran and Sunnah. There are, however, rulings in the Quran and Sunnah which were brought for specific situations at that time, and are not applicable in all settings today. Context is crucial. I am not of the viewpoint that the “times have changed” and so something that was decreed halal is now haram. Not at all. If it was decreed halal, it will always be halal. I do believe that if there is context, this should always be considered. I have never declared polygyny haram. I have only ever put emphasis on then conditions which make it permissible. There is clear emphasis on Allah SWT preferring monogamy, yet we run towards polygyny despite being told that we will never be just. Such is the nature of man. This is most definitely a point of reflection. Although halal, it reminds of a something I read which stated that the Muslim today asks if something is mukrooh so that he can practise it, whereas the Muslim before asks what is mukrooh so that he can avoid it. Subhanallah. I know this one is not mukrooh, but the sentiment remains. In shaa Allah, we will speak about it in a video and we can discuss some more. Also, feel free to email or dm so we can speak at length. You speak very beautifully, maa shaa Allah. May Allah shower you with blessings and increase us all. 🤲
@ahabarhossain77310 ай бұрын
@TheXs.Official Thank you for your clarification. I must have misunderstood you. With regards to polygyny, I believe that among the things that Islam considers permissible (ok if you do ok/if you don't) polygyny is on the verge of being makrooh. 2 of the madhabs said that polygyny is on the lowest level of permissibility in Islam. In reality, we must understand that men getting multiple wives is completely optional if they meet the requirements, never is it encouraged and I don't like it when people encourage it. Muslims must realize however that polygyny is HARAM if a man is NOT financially or physically capable. Too many men go into these relationships thinking they are when they actually aren't and they end up ruining families, and it makes people see Islam in a bad light when it shouldn't. Polygyny should be reserved to the men who meet the requirements and actually have the level of taqwa to be faithful to all their wives.
@Dingalingafication10 ай бұрын
@@TheXs.OfficialYes please do a video on this topic and other "controversial" topics regarding Islamic views and practices, such as LGBTQ, hijab etc. It's so interesting to get your and your wife's viewpoint on these things.
@ahmedmashhour191210 ай бұрын
sorry couldn't see the video until today, missed you guys. If I could ask something from you is to make a video about what's happening to our brother and sisters in Palestine and the amount of fabrication in the western media. If you can understand Arabic you would see a whole different narrative of what's actually happening on the ground, it's basically a genocide and don't forget them in your dua'a of course and may Allah protect you and your beautiful family and our entire Ummah💕💕
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
Most definitely. We are filming this video today in shaa Allah. 🤍
@Sho-M3-Hear10 ай бұрын
I watched this yesterday and loving all the podcasts so far 🫶🏼 - Would like to know however, was there anything wrong with the last video title (personally think it suit the video more) - or maybe just keep it as “Bad Relationship Advice”. Hope it was just a creative change and not anything controversial in affect, keeping you in duā in staying safe & well so we can receive more wisdom/insights from both your experiences 😊.
@TheXs.Official10 ай бұрын
It was just a creative change. We tend to change the title and thumbnails from time to time as insights are providing constant data on audience response. We also didn’t want a certain someone’s face on the thumbnail after recent events. 😒 Really appreciate the feedback, though. Titles and thumbnails are so tricky! 😩😅