Males are more emotional reactive (violence, aggression, controlling etc.)and women are more emotionally expressive (communication, crying, nagging, complaining, etc.). One can cause others to lose their life or suffer all types of abuse, while the other side is mostly just extremely annoying to males as they have the capacity of a cup to identify, communicate, express and process emotions. I am happy when a woman can find a good man, but most will not be so fortunate. Ladies stay safe.
@mrsamirza439211 ай бұрын
I like how u discuss topics that r touchy and may b controversial but make them so light and agree to disagree in a loving manner Mashallah
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
What a lovely comment 🥰💗
@themom225011 ай бұрын
Suf was more triggered. Amara was speaking her truth about men and he was speaking her down. Everything she said was valid. And playing devils advocate to someone's pet peeve is sort of unfair. Loved the back and forth.
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Hahahaha he can play devil's advocate all day long 🤣 I can take it, don't worry. It forces me to consider other perspectives tbh.. but YES, I STAND BY EVERYTHING I SAID. 😈😂😂 I wish I gave better examples in retrospect (I'm bad on the spot, but I had them!) I'M GLAD YOU AGREE 👍 I play devil's advocate with him too but mine is usually more delayed 👀🤣 I'll get better on the spot iA and get it in the vid instead of while we're eating dinner later 😂😂 xx
@abua232911 ай бұрын
Sufyaan was very good at eloquently explaining a males natural disposition and how its our test from Allah, when it comes to the opposite sex. I think alot of the questions when it comes to the opposite sex is subjective and based on personal experiences, because boyyyyyyyy my answers were so different to you guys!
@anikaabida601911 ай бұрын
MashaAllah, may Allah protect your beautiful marriage❤ I really love listening to both of you speaking to each other and the understanding between both of you is precious.
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Ameen 🤲❤️
@hxk970011 ай бұрын
I love your sit down podcast videos better ! Keep them coming frequently please ❤ may allah bless your marriage
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Ameen. Many more to come, in shaa Allah. Really happy you’re enjoying them ❤️❤️
@summaiyav11 ай бұрын
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@ibnfulan571611 ай бұрын
yeah I agree@@TheXs.Official
@somayajoseph11 ай бұрын
wallahi this podcast is so very good. you can tell that you both really mentally stimulate each other and that is cool to watch 🙃 Allahumabarik. Both of you are generally good listeners and good at articulating your thoughts which is what makes this so interesting. Sufyan is generally good at being fair Allahumabarik. I can see how him playing "the devil's advocate" really helps you both to come to a fair conclusion. He gets his point across quite precisely without diminishing Amaarah's experiences/opinions. 100/10 content. You guys have been holding the title of my favourite couple on youtube for a while now. I genuinely find myself thinking about your conversations throughout my day. Also, seeing the lovely 7 year (i think) gap you have between yourselves has really opened my mind to the possibility of marrying a man who is that many years older than me. It honestly seems to be going swimmingly for you two Allahumabarik. Tbh it surprised me when i found out that you both weren't the same age because of how well you complement one another (that just tells you about the way western society influences my mindset smh). Because of the two of you, I'm really starting to see the wisdom in not being too fixated on marrying someone that's exactly your age (as modern western society prefers). May Allah guide us all and put barakah in all our endeavours. Ameen.
@zubeensyed385511 ай бұрын
Asalamoalikum the X’s, i really enjoy your podcats, especially discussing taboos subjects. So thanks for that. I would like to mention though in your opinions for who has it easier men or women, in Islam (for those who practice true Islam) i think Allah created a balance between the roles of men and women. Although men go out and earn the money as the provider and they are the protector a woman is expected to manage the household, provide a good upbringing to the children, and support her husband. Yes a woman does not get paid for her ‘job’ as a housewife and mother however, that does not mean her efforts/duties are not equal to men. I feel Islam brings a balance and equality for men and women, that takes into account their biological strengths and capabilities. No hate, much love, i would just like to give my perspective. 😊
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Beautifully put ❤️
@kenrickgordone9.gggbgjgfv29111 ай бұрын
The general real like wow ……you guys were meant to be its a blessings 👊🏼keep up the good works.
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
👊🏽✊🏽❤️
@A.Servidor11 ай бұрын
I appreciate your efforts in articulating the haq, Allahumma barik lahum
@95afaf11 ай бұрын
I always look forward to your podcasts, I could literally listen to you guys for hours. May Allah bless you.
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
🥹❤️
@SaraJames-ic8lb11 ай бұрын
@ brother Sufyan a very nice reminder about our differences in weaknesses between men and women and how we are meant to go against them when society these days do everything for both women and men to follow them
@SaraJames-ic8lb11 ай бұрын
and @ Amara very good counter, men also have emotions (ego) other than so its definitely not black and white
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
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@joanugwu187511 ай бұрын
I agree with all the things Amara said... she is right
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏😏❤️❤️❤️
@marciawynter515511 ай бұрын
Very interesting !!. I love your sit downs .
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
☺️🤍
@movieoks472611 ай бұрын
Whenever I watching you guys i really feel so happy ❤😊
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@ahmedmashhour191211 ай бұрын
Allahumma Barik, May Allah protect my sister Amara and My brother Sufyan and their beautiful daughter and their loved ones and bless them with perfect health and happy life and keep the Evil eye away from them❤❤ Always remember when admiring something of yours or each other don't forget to say "Mashallah" and "Allahumma Barik " so you keep any Hassad or evil eye away from you.💕💕
@OfficialMNIB11 ай бұрын
- "Ok chubs". - 😅 😂 🤣 😹
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
@1DrkVixen11 ай бұрын
How about the women in predominantly muslim countries where girls/women can’t get an education and are suffering, i.e. afghanistan. Trust me I recognize just like in every religion there are those who are flourishing but there is also those who are suffering at the hands of males and the systems and laws they are in place. When you have 2 containers, one is a cup and the other is pool. If you fill both and ask which one has it harder, the cup is right if it feels it has it harder. It can only handle a cup of water and can never know what its like to be a pool. Women are like the pool, we have so much more capacity to to think and feel in this life than males. We can imagine what it would be like to just be the cup, thus we can have empathy for males. And it’s unfortunate that males can’t grasp this while women we have compassion and understanding how hard it is for males, given that they have testosterone and the small containers that they are limited to. Males needs the woman but very few will ever really love and appreciate how amazing a quality woman is.
@robinbalaochieng530311 ай бұрын
Was hard not to be triggered by this one...great watch still though even if I don't agree with all of it💯
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
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@ss-ox1re11 ай бұрын
video idea : 40:35 (a guy will bro with her but but will he date her ? ) how does a guy knows she's the one?
@zaidaabrahams970311 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum.. Im proud to say I'm a chocoholic 😂😂.. Its my drug, so i understand the chocolate thing. May your marriage go from strength to strength, Ameen ❤
@eyesusgetanew434611 ай бұрын
God bless you 🙏🏻
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
God bless you too ❣️
@itizwhatitiz426511 ай бұрын
Viewers don’t forget to also like the video 😅💕
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
☺️💗
@zahraasu656611 ай бұрын
❤,🇰🇪
@hamidaalhassan924211 ай бұрын
Yeaaah yeaaah on our way to 4k
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
🙏❤️👀
@Al-Aswad78911 ай бұрын
Assalam aleikum The X’s, ❤️
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Wa alaikum assalaam, Al-Aswad ❤️
@ribenariri776411 ай бұрын
Sufyan answer to the first thing he would as a woman is look at his boobs reminded of this anime film called your name- the lead guy woke and switched to a female body and first thing he did was touched his boobs... Such a dude answer- do yall think this is a universal guy answer😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
Omg we've watched this anime!! I remember that scene 🤣🤣 didn't he keep doing it everytime he switched into her body?? 😂😂😂😂😂 it is such a dude answer. I can't relate as I never have the desire to do that. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 - Amara xx
@ribenariri776411 ай бұрын
@@TheXs.Official I think he did 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what an anime defs recommends list if peeps havent watched it. Yeah me neither i dont think chicks just sit around and feeling up their boobs unless for a breast examination but yeah such a dude answer I mean I guess dudes or more curious with what they dont have? Perhaps? But otherwise yeah wouldnt be surprised if all dudes first priority being in a womens body is touch the boobs 🤣🤣
@S4FX11 ай бұрын
All points are valid ❤ All I'm gonna say is May Allah swt make it easy for everyone Ameen 🤲❤️
@SSTR8711 ай бұрын
It’s interesting to listen to another point of view but my brother is way too jaded by feminism. There’s a reason for everything. And your stance on divorce, right now men are desperate for marriage and taking divorced women at a greater number than ever before in the west.
@robertwill169411 ай бұрын
Eyelashes I don’t like
@TheXs.Official11 ай бұрын
🙋🏽♂️👀
@ss-ox1re11 ай бұрын
Whenever you guys put a x's pod, It's truly incredible how you have this gift of speaking our minds and thoughts. it's like you can read my thoughts and express them with such clarity and eloquence mashallah. *love that's its unfiltered, your mechanism together and flow of conversations and appreciate sufyan giving us the male perspective of things*