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[@ginaandseason2774]

Birth trauma isn't talked about enough. Reach out foe help if you guys need help working through this. I hemmoraged with my first. It was terrifying. So glad you guys are all okay! Your video made me cry..which is so rare for me. Thank you for sharing such a tough story

[@danireads5647]

Hearing Sam talk about feeling like you're going to die is exactly how I felt when I was in the ER miscarrying my son. I had lost a lot of blood, I was white as a ghost, and the feeling just hits you. Thank you so much for sharing your story 💛 sending tons of love & healing your way 💕

[@shirleydietsch1279]

So glad you’re okay too.

[@nikkis7375]

Sending so much love your way!❤

[@abigailsbooked]

Im so glad Sam is okay! her birth story sounds SO MUCH like Abbie Ensigns.

[@loveinahopelessplace]

I was just thinking the same thing!!

[@lisass1969]

I don't know you guys...Just a fan of your vidoes for several years, but I think the "mom" in me kicked in. You are the age of my daughter, so when you were talling the story, I just wanted to hug you both. My heart goes out to you Sam...and Alyssa. I could not imagine watching something like this happening to "my person"! Wilder getting stuck must of been tramatic enough, but OMG! So glad you are doing well now Sam. Wilder is a beutiful baby! Oh, and Sam, when my daughter was old enough to know what I meant, I used to call her my little "hemorrhoid" because she was being a pain in my as which started before she was born. She rolls her eyes, so it doesn't work. LOL. Wishing you all good health! Sending love!

[@shirleydietsch1279]

When you said complications, you meant complications! Holy cow! I’m even more impressed with how you guys reacted. Your sharing this story is such a good thing. It helps you guys and us too. So glad I can say everything is good. Much love to you and yours 💖

[@nikkireiss3074]

Watching this tore my soul to pieces. I'm so thankful you are ok Samalama. This just kills me. I love you so much.

[@jillb9545]

That is unbelievably scary and I worked a long time as an ICU nurse. Wilder has a wild birth story that’s for sure. So so so glad that you are okay Sam. Hugs to you both as you heal and recover. Thanks for sharing.

[@ucheevans4673]

I'm glad Sam is alive to tell the story , my sister had the same experience and there was nothing the doctors didn't do to keep her alive but she bled to death. Honestly I thank God for your life. All the best guys.

[@shirleydietsch1279]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[@70spoem]

when sam started crying 🥺💔 i'm so glad both of you as well as your baby boy are okay!

[@hollyfloyd7024]

When I delivered my second surrogate baby, I had this exact experience during an unmedicated birth at 35 weeks. Ptsd is real from birth trauma. It took months of therapy for me to feel ok. I still sometimes panic now when menstruating and see the blood. Baby boy is nearly a year old and my husband and i still deal with the effects of such a traumatic experience. I wish more people talked about birth trauma and the supports available. I'm in Canada but it was difficult to find the support right away. I suffered far to long before getting the help I needed. Bless you both for sharing your story ❤️ and continue to take care of one another.

[@sam.hart.]

I’m so sorry you both had to go through that. That’s so terrifying. So glad everyone is healthy 🤍

[@KP29694]

You did great, especially keeping your eyes open. That's the hardest part. My experience with blood loss (not in childbirth) was the same. All the senses get fuzzy and you have a choice to stay alive or not and you decided to stay. As you know, birth is an experience of extremes in each stage, and especially in dynamics. But like I said, you all, clinicians, family and you two made it turn out perfectly. Pain feels different for everyone so don't worry about comparisons.

[@S.t.ephanie]

Oh Sam…can‘t see you cry 😢 so happy you are still „here“ 🙏

[@kenzie9200]

God he is such a beautiful baby boy!! Oh my whole heart just broke watching Sam cry that had to have been the most traumatic experience on such a wonderful day 😔

[@alistairrae9807]

He really is

[@crystalandlloyddurston9148]

So happy that you are ok. And now talking about it to help others.

[@sarahdoggett4046]

When Sam started crying I lost it. I'm so glad you are okay and didn't close your eyes dear. Alyssa you being HER VOICE was the best thing you could have done. If it weren't for you being persistent with Sam and the help of Ally it could have been a terrible tragedy. So so so glad you ALL are okay and healing. Sending our love Sarah and Alyssa 💛

[@jennifermorley6487]

I am so glad that you are ok Sam, and that you are all at home together as a family. Your experience sounds absolutely terrifying for you both and I can only imagine how scary that must have been.

[@kristyford7375]

I've never seen Alyssa look so at peace and content!... their fam is complete x

[@Hiwatari94]

Thank you for giving us such a private insight. I am so glad you two were together and Ali was there and that all of you are okay now

[@karloditomasso]

yes really wonderful 😻😻😻family my friend yes ALyssa and made for Sam he loves himself very much

[@Somemadeupurl]

I am so sorry you both had such a traumatic experience . I am so glad everyone is okay now . I’m wishing you all the very best .

[@loraleepooley3669]

So glad everyone is ok. 💙

[@erniesandoval1529]

Loved hearing your pregnancy story Sam,I'm glad you're okay.

[@jadyn_sage]

That is so incredibly scary! I'm so glad that both Sam & Wilder are safe & healthy. Don't be afraid to seek out help processing this if you need it ❤️

[@AdeleMoravcov]

I’m so glad everyone’s okay! This is very scary and it’s horrible that those who give birth are not taken seriously. This really needs to change!

[@katielouise210]

what an awful experience for you both. so glad to hear you're all happy, healthy and well now. i can't imagine what it must've been like for either of you or for Ally. so glad you all have one another

[@mimimi9687]

Who is Ally? I didn’t get it

[@ashleyelizabeth90]

This made me cry, I'm so glad Sam and wilder are okay

[@dorothycooper1027]

U gals r so special, the both of u. Your love got u thru this & always will ( That's why u have so many followers.) I'm happy this story has a good ending & thanks for sharin it w us.

[@momadelakho302]

We can't lose you Sam, iam so glad to see you fine and healthy

[@musiimentapamellah7802]

Am so happy you pulled it off Sam. Lots of love from Uganda 🇺🇬✌️ wish you the best, those tears are what make a mother. Wish u the boy. Yo lucky u have a gorgeous sis

[@taylormccarthy3310]

Feel this so hard! We had a traumatic birth with a cord prolapse for our baby and as soon as he came out, I almost felt like "I don't care about this baby, I need to focus on my wife". Definitely not what I was expecting to feel when my baby finally arrived but 100% feel ya

[@kaziamacey4804]

OMG! What a harrowing experience you two went through. Alyssa you made the right choice being with Sam. You knew the baby was safe so you needed to be there for Sam. I think that’s enough drama to last the rest of your lives. So glad your family of four can now be home and can start the healing begin. Enjoy your videos and hardly wait from week to week for new ones. 🤗

[@hanalyzing]

We’re so so sorry this happened to you ❤️❤️❤️And that you had to keep telling the medical staff what’s going on. Glad you’re better now ❤️❤️❤️

[@harperleighx]

god alyssa, that sounds terrifying to have to witness. i am so glad you're both okay and that sweet wilder's home with you and avery! sam, you're such a champ, we already knew that but you pull off new levels of badassery every day! wilder and avery are incredibly lucky kiddos to have such wonderful parents who care for each other so much. sending you so much love and light today and everyday!! it's such a privilege to be in your lives and i appreciate you both for taking the time to tell such a scary story and to relive it all - it's people like you who speak openly about things intense like this who give peace and comfort to those who don't feel as compelled to share. could not adore you both more. also, when sam started to cry i absolutely lost it, and sam that hat is so cute it suits you!!

[@aumone9526]

I think your family is now stronger than ever!!!!

[@gertaze1781]

I gave birth in August 10 and after a 3 day long failed induction they finally decided for a c-section wich is what I wanted, it saved my life. I had placenta accretta and i lost more than 3 liters of blood. I don't remember much but never the less, it scares the hell out of me the idea of a second pregnancy, it is traumatic. It is a near death experience. The weird thing is that doctors were secretive, like they minimized it everytime. Still healing. Wish you the best, we are strong mamas 💪

[@star172able]

im sorry you went through this and I was crying hearing your story.

[@karloditomasso]

yes we are all afraid for Sam yes really to cry 😿😿😿poor Sam

[@marty64532]

This had me crying bad. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You girls are very strong, I wish you the happiest life with your beautiful family ❤️❤️

[@amandaantista5012]

I work in a hospital. I felt like I was there😪. How horrible. I am soo glad you are ok.❤️

[@courtney203]

thats so scary ! im so happy everything worked out for your beautiful little family

[@rebekaherr8630]

hearing your story of what happened surely was traumatic im glad Sam is okay , im glad wilder is okay

[@liliane4228]

Congratulations to your little family!💕I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Sending a lot of healing.

[@theresab.7020]

I'm so glad Sam's good now. What testing an experience. God bless the Doctors and Ally. ❤

[@anonymous-bb2dw]

I was so uncomfortable during the whole video because I know how it feels to watch someone you love in extreme pain, so glad you're okay sam 😢

[@cathrineokei1549]

From someone who works in the medical field, at the lab, with assigning people the correct blood, ten minutes from call-in to delivery is quick(depending of the closeness of the bloodsupply and the person needing it). I don't know the differences between here in Norway and there, but making sure you ain't giving the wrong blood-type to a patient, can be a matter of life or death, so taking the one extra minute to make sure everything is correct at the lab(correct ID, blood-type, a bag that's of good quality and correctly packed for transport), is crucial. My record for getting the call until the blood is picked up is 7 min(+2 min for the blood to get to the room where it was required and another minute to start the drip). In my professional opinion, only based on your side of the story here, they probably should have asked for the blood earlier, but it taking ten minutes, is not long at all.

[@erin6614]

I’m a medical assistant and I’m so surprised they didn’t give her o neg when her bp reached 60/40

[@Oneness298]

I broke down crying when Sam started crying 😭🥺I’m so sorry you all went through that.

[@foteinikulu]

I'm glad you are OK Sam!! And baby Wilder!! And Alyssa and Avery! Have a good recovery and enjoy your family!!

[@juliawarren847]

I'm sorry both of you had to go through all of that, but I'm glad everything turned out okay, and that you're healthy and well now... I'm also very happy for your family, and I wish the best for everyone! Greetings from Chile! ❤

[@adrianmritchievideo]

holy shit you are all warriors. so proud of you both. i had the dramatic water breaking too - felt like the movies. but then went “back to bed” for about 6 hours before going to hospital. cheersing you birth sister 🍻

[@annstrachan6197]

So so glad that everything worked out okay in the end but soo dramatic I feel for you lots of love X X

[@sims4u422]

Thank you for this, glad to see Sam, Wilder ,Alyssa and Avery are all fine.

[@amandafishburn9223]

So glad Ur both okay and Ur family is now complete. Ur family is beautiful xxxx

[@slowride2425]

Glad that Sam is in a good place now. Praise God!!! May all of you be healthy and blessed. God Speed,

[@suedodd5920]

So happy your ok now,and hes so precious 💙💙

[@kristinclark3304]

Oh wow, what a scary experience! I'm so glad that you're alright now Sam! I started crying hearing your story ❤

[@adriannathekitteh2189]

So glad Sam is okay and doing well now. That was such a insane experience for both of you. Thank you for sharing your story and Congratulations on Wilder! You both are amazing ❤️

[@barbarasummo1170]

I just love your beautiful family! So much peace and love! Thank you for sharing your love with us! 🦋❤️Barb

[@Jmw1979.]

Ty for sharing that story that must been hard. I had similar experience lil over year ago with a delivery. It's scary af to not know if ur gonna make it. I'm glad the end result was both of u healthy

[@ashbear2107]

😭😭😭 omg! sending love & hugs to Darling's family

[@TheOriginalHippieChick]

God Bless You All!❣️💯☮️

[@Vardagsvegan1]

Oh. I gave birth june 28th here in Sweden. My story is not like yours but I feel for you so much. Started crying as soon as you were, Sam. I feel for you so much. JUST giving birth is fucking traumatic. My contraction didn't stop, I didn't get any break. They just continued for hours and hours and I felt such panic for how much it was hurting. When he came out he didn't breathe, but everything went fine. After I got post pardon depression and had to be in the psychward for a couple of days. I had such strong suicidal thought, I've never experienced anything like it. It was the worst thing I've even been through. Im telling this because you both need to go to a theraphist ect and talk about what was happening. Also contact the doctor ect that was there to help you. It helped me so much to talk to the person that were in the room from start to end, go through everything and understand more. Being able to see it from "the other side". You both went through something really really traumatic and you really really should talk about it with someone professional BEFORE it affects you even more. Please take care of each other. Biggest of hugs from Sweden. /Erica and my little Knut baby.

[@karloditomasso]

ouch poor you at least you're okay today health is all that matters❤🙏🙏🤕

[@Hiwatari94]

That sounds horrible. I'm glad you got help immediately and hope you feel better now. Sending love to you and your family ❤️

[@Vardagsvegan1]

@@Hiwatari94 Thank you

[@Vardagsvegan1]

@@karloditomasso thank you

[@karloditomasso]

@@Vardagsvegan1 you're welcome take care of yourself

[@christinawaldorf1023]

So glad everything turned out okay. And speaking as a child whose mother had the same hemorrhaging issue while having me, eventually youre able to look back on it and not be terrified. Im almost 32 and my mom now jokes ive been her problem child literally since birth. She can remember the doctor throwing me like a football to a nurse and thats about it. But all was good in the end. Now its time to enjoy your family of 4( 5 if you count moose)

[@avina872]

I admire you and the process that Sam went through was not easy at all, I compare myself to her when I had my miscarriage they had me monitored until they scraped my uterus but I had to receive 3 pints of blood transfusion, thank God everything turned out well for you guys, now to take care of yoursel and no more babies already have the little couple.🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@gemmalittle6206]

Sending so much love and healing to you both.That must have been so overwhelming and scary💙💙 your love and deep care for eachother is so beautiful and you can hear it in the way you support one another. I’m so glad you are ok Sam and I’m grateful to you Alyssa for the strength to keep advocating for your beautiful wife. Your beautiful babies are so lucky to have you as their Mums 💙💙much love and happiness being sent to you always 💙

[@kristypaul8067]

So glad you are ok now it's scary for you both to go through

[@SamA-sr1bp]

Glad to see everyone is healthy!! ❤️

[@leahstumm9662]

Glad you and Wilder are doing well Sam.💜💜💜💜

[@amandamalenfant1629]

They are great parents and I love watching their videos I hope they have another child after this too

[@AeryisaTargaryen]

I JUST CRY, LOOK SO BEAUTIFULL COUPLE

[@amalalsharef6522]

I'm glad that all of you are fine and healthy.

[@PRISB3]

Glad You Are Doing Better Sam

[@louisethomas2123]

Wow, so sorry you had this traumatic experience and glad that you are okay now. Xx

[@terri3978]

Virtual hugs Thank the heavens it worked out

[@alistairrae9807]

I am so sorry that you went through this I happy you are all doing good

[@karloditomasso]

yes we are all reassured that everyone is correct super nice of you my friend 😻😻😻

[@karloditomasso]

thank you for having us to hear from you Sam and that all and correct with your grat family 👩‍👩‍👧‍👦🌈 we love you very much 💗

[@janefortenberry2892]

I am glad you are doing well. Love you guys. Welcome to the world Wilder ❤️

[@karloditomasso]

yes wonderful little angel 👼👼💞

[@robynmccreary8091]

A beautiful amazing couple,I’m so happy it turned out okay,your children are adorable,congratulations mums,love from Australia 🇦🇺 xx

[@Adoptivemomx2]

I just found your channel and just want to say you guys are great! I’m so so glad Sam is ok. I’m a former OB nurse and I’m just wondering why they didn’t take her to the OR to do a D&C considering that amount of blood clots were there and the amount of blood you lost. Either way I’m just so so glad everyone is ok! Congrats to your adorable family!

[@MiguelSantos-vf5yn]

Bless you all. 🙏🙏🙏🙏👩‍👩‍👧‍👦

[@karloditomasso]

yes you too may gods protect you my friend super comment🙏🙏🙏👍super words

[@cyndykated358]

That was scary and amazing! Women rock..and that’s why we love them❤️❤️

[@learningenglish9592]

Just glad that everything are good now 🥰❣💙

[@Jacob-dj7ue]

I am so glad you are okay Sam and that Wilder is okay and That you are okay to Alyssa Bc on both sides that is hard to go thorough I can not even Imagine I don’t even know you all personally I am just a fan of you all and have watched your videos for years and you all had me crying watching this video I really do love and care about you all and you all have let me know that if is okay for me to me my self though the years and I am happy you all are being your selfs Bc love is love ❤️❤️❤️

[@loupelizzo2399]

Got to agree with another person that this sounded it a little bit like Abbie Ensign but so glad you’re okay now and so glad Alyssa knows Sam so well. So glad Alyssa advocated for Sam and so glad Allie was there as well, and it must of been so scary for you Alyssa and again so glad everything is okay now. So glad the nursing staff and medical staff were there as well and supported you both so much. Thank you so much for sharing this video and you have two beautiful children and you’re great mums as well

[@mjlove6574]

So happy You are ok now ❤

[@jasonyaws9498]

Hey guys my name is Jason and I am a fan of your videos and I am glad to see Sam and the baby doing well and I 42 years old I lost my girlfriend and baby when I was 18 years old and I never entered into any other relationship because of what I had lost

[@julieharrison5772]

Aww Wilder William! Sooo adorable!!!!!

[@breamartucci1565]

I am happy all of your guys are okay!

[@mcelliotdawson7700]

Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful son . Gosh Sam.. so sorry to hear your after birthing experience was so traumatic , dangerous and painful but happy to hear your you are doing ok now , Alyssa you are an awesome wife . Wilder William is adorable and oblivious to it all bless his little heart. I’m so so happy for you both and little Avery Hugs and best wishes to you beautiful Darling family, from the land of Oz (Australia) 🦘🇲🇸🦘

[@karloditomasso]

wow super my friend you comment super words 👍👍👍👶🧑‍🍼

[@juliewileman307]

So glad your ok it is terrifying wat ya both wen through so happy you both ok xxxxx❤️❤️❤️

[@luckygardeniasdashboardcon9214]

So so terrifying! What a beautiful family!

[@joelpayne1193]

I am glad you survived the difficult childbirth and please enjoy your valuable baby boy, oh wait congratulations 👏💙

[@luzmdiaz4194]

Thank God everything is good now and I hope everything keep going well he’s a cutie God bless y’all 💕🙏🏻💕🌈

[@oluvaschneegas5037]

Well glad that Sam is ok and glad she is good

[@lianacorrales4853]

You are amazing ❤❤❤

[@cindyphelps4567]

Sam I know how you feel my water broke and it was alot of amniotic fluid and then I went down hill from there once I got to hospital I went to seizing and went out completely and they kept trying to get me to stay awake but I couldn't and I didn't know anything at all until I came to in icu they had lost me three times In labor and delivery and brought back and my blood pressure had went way off the charts they had to wait for it to come back to normal b4 they could take my son by c-section then spent 3 days after in icu they didn't think I was gonna make it so I know how you feel Sam God bless you and your family and wilder is so cute

[@Nanuladadul]

Once again Congrats!! Your newborn baby boy is a Tiger according to my cultural beliefs/ Zodiac sign and where I come from!! Even my newborn nephew is a Tiger!! 2022 is a Tiger Year...I'm so happy for you guys and heaps of ❤️ to Miss Avery. Sam, you're a strong Mom/ person, so proud of you!!

[@beamurciar6000]

that was so traumatic... I'm sorry you went through this postpartum experience, I think it's good for your mental recovery to tell the story. Luckly now everything is fine, Sam is healthy and you are a great couple and family 😘😘

[@clare7535]

Congratulations to you both glad everyone is ok I also haemorrhaged on my third birth when my daughter was born with her hand beside her face very scary 😞

[@nanstaten9973]

Congrats again so very scary for the both of you. So glad you are doung doing well. Wilder so cute

[@sammyfischer1844]

AMAZING NAME!!! LOve it!!

[@karloditomasso]

yes 😉😉😉👍👍✌

[@mercyt2828]

Glad all turned out good. 🙏🏻👶🏻