My birth story...

Hey friends x
Long time? Here is my very requested 'birthing story'
I hope you enjoy watching this video but please remember
not everyone's experience differ but this is just my story and what
happened to me.

[@shirsu8079]

May Allah grant you recovery, peace and a strong bond with your baby Ameen. Please speak to GP to speak to midwives about your birth experience when you are ready, it helps to give closure and understand what happened. Speak to GP if you suspect depression, it is really common. I was very traumatised after my first birth and never got over it as I didn't seek help I think I struggled unnecessary. May Allah help and heal all mums that are struggling Ameen

[@summaiyarobi4915]

I'm traumatised by my second hd vomiting throughout allday couldn't even drink water without vomitn full 8 months

[@gulnazkhan8520]

Let's take a minute to applaud this beautiful young lady on her efforts looks beautiful dne up has a beautiful baby good husband Masha Allah nice hme dnt put urself down when everything you have done has turned out well you have navigated through the tough times and I'm sure you will soldier on you dnt owe anyone an apology for being human you do you congratulations Masha Allah

[@user-qb2lv8uo4x]

Beautiful? Are you blind? Botox and fillers mate.

[@maroofkahn3089]

Intersection of diverse information gains new information creates a greater intelligent forms a greater consciousness and thank you for sharing your brilliant content thoughts and wisdumb

[@user-qb2lv8uo4x]

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[@sfmla4670]

salaam sister ,, i feel this so much i had 3 emergency sections. been very traumatised and still get flash backs but Alhumdulilah they healthy 8,5, and almost 3😍 may Allah reward you for your sacrifice and Allah saved you and Your little princess xx mabrook keep strong and surround urself with happy memories and all the people you love .. never feel alone .. welcome to motherhood 😍😍

[@Luella-xu3kg]

I had a similar but different birth to you. My waters broke 3 weeks early and I went into labour. I was in the operating room, they gave me one last chance to push with forceps otherwise it would be a c section. Baby came out with forceps but ended up in NICU. I was in hospital for 4 nights after too. I remember feeling violated by the birth. I was paralysed and I had random men dragging my naked body from one bed to the next. The complete lack of control was traumatising. I also felt so guilty that I didn’t give birth myself without forceps, without pain killers. I thought I had failed as a Mum and I was a weaker woman than the next. Then baby wouldn’t latch, and to get him out of NICU his glucose had to go up so I agreed to bottle feed him. After he got used to the bottle he never latched. I remember being so ashamed that I formula fed. I would feel embarrassed preparing the milk in front of people, feel like I had to explain why I failed at breast feeding. Now my baby is 11 months and when I look back all I can see is how crazy I was. We women go through hell to get our babies out and safe, vaginally, with forceps or a c section. It makes no difference. I’m pregnant with my second baby now and I’m actually opting to formula feed as I realised it went so well with my first son, and gave me independence and my body back to heal after such a traumatic experience. Please know it does get better and easier. You will feel at peace with your birth story and how you are keeping your daughter alive through giving formula. You are doing an insane job. Baby Amelia will sleep through the night before you know it, feeds will become more regular and predictable and you’ll begin to feel like yourself again. Sending so much love ❤️ allahummabarik

[@noreenbi9079]

Wow ur brave mashallah. I had a traumatic birth. Waited 5 years 2 have another baby. But opted 4 c section

[@rimhmandi1281]

congraaaaaaaaats dear.wish you both health and peace. be careful of postpartum depression. surround yourself with positivity and the people who love you.

[@MissEgyptian12]

I had an emergency csection with my 3rd baby. I completely understand everything you went through and thank you for being so brave and sharing your story so women now they are not alone. If you need to get counselling look into it, birth trauma is real and everything your going through is completely understandable. MashaAllaah for your beautiful baby girl and your supportive husband. Your in my thoughts and prayers ❤❤❤

[@bangladeshigirlinuk2895]

same thing happened to me with both of my kids i had emergency c-section and i was crying because i had no one in this country only my husband was there and with my first born i was only 21 but alhamdulillah i'm happy with my sons.lots of dua for u and ur baby girl xx

[@teecee1664]

I had a similar experience to you a few months ago Amina. Believe it or not, I found breastfeeding more painful than the labour and emergency c section. I tried to breastfeed for 7 weeks but couldn’t do any more than that due to the pain. I ended up expressing as I wanted baby to still obtain benefits of it, and combo fed. Please don’t think it’s too late to breastfeed. Milk takes a while to come in, especially after a c section. If you still want to, latch your baby as often as possible and it will stimulate your milk flow. People definitely don’t talk enough about how awful labour, breastfeeding and the 4th trimester is. It’s glamourised way too much and is just the hardest thing ever

[@Hannah-go3xo]

SubhanAllah I just wrote a similar comment and now I'm seeing yours. I feel like we are not told that actually if you keep latching milk can fully come in even weeks after birth. If we didnt know that we would easily give up if that makes sense. Thanks for your comment.

[@Fgl17]

Congratulations Amena. Big well done to you. Remember you will be rewarded for all the hardship you have endured to bring your daughter into this world. May she be the coolness of your eyes and grow up to be a strong woman. Ameen

[@aklimab1235]

This was literally me in 2018... baby girl was in fetal distress. 7 doctors running in... sign... get changed... husband in scrubs... theatre... epidural... baby out... then all the pain exhaustion hits. I showered alone... made to walk alone... wasn't allowed anyone to stay with me overnight. It was horrible.

[@jamilay5679]

Masha’Allah Amina and Adil congratulations on your baby girl Amelia 👶🏽👑💕 May Allah make your recovery easy for you Insha’Allah 🤲🏾

[@Faranasajidkarim]

Huge congrats amina and adil on the birth of your beautiful baby girl amelia. May Allah always keep you guys healthy and happy Ameen. So sorry to here about your birthing experience, I also went through an emergency c section with my second child. It was very scary know how you feel hun. But alhumdulillah had 3 normal births after. The main thing is you are ok and so os your baby alhumdulillah. 👶

[@sanaakhadija4704]

Amina sis u have every right to be emotional I was literally crying for you it must of been soo overwhelming and scary but alhamdulilah it’s all over now and u get to enjoy your little bundle of joy may allah give you and your little family a safe and happy life ❤

[@hannaaili2969]

I had severe preeclampsia at 24 weeks and had to give birth at 24 weeks 5 days. It’s the most traumatic journey going through an emergency Caesarian, but Allah will heal you and having baby at home makes it worthwhile 💛

[@salmaahmed2333]

You are such a brave and strong woman Amina … watching this video made me so emotional really felt like giving you a tight hug.. I also had c -section and it wasn’t smooth for me.. so I felt you strong.. but look at that little moon so adorable .. baby is healthy alhamdulilah … may she becomes coolness of your eyes Aameen ❤😊 🤗

[@cookiejam3812]

MashaAllah so happy to hear you & baby are ok. What courage Allah gave you, I pray from the heart you heal quickly & you will be a great mother to your beautiful daughter. I’m happy for you. Take it easy & lots of love.

[@Sabiha-30]

Many congratulations Amina and Adil

[@salimanorat3901]

Insalah you get better soon

[@aliyaabbas980]

Salaamualaykum Amina ...Alf Mabrook on having ur little Princess Amelia 🥰💖 MashaAllah you r a very brave woman ..May Allah swt grant you shifaa Ameen❤

[@shabanakauser1513]

Congrats on the birth of ur beautiful daughter. Hope u recover soon and enjoy motherhood ❤

[@yasminchowdhury100]

I think it depends on hospital because my husband got to stay with me through the whole 11 days i stayed Allhumdullilah. I had a c section so i know the feeling of the pain mine was too.

[@zaynabdaniyal]

Please don't feel bad about not being able to breastfeed, bottle feeding is great too. I know how it feels because I tried to breastfeed both of my 2 children but because I lost so much blood during both births my milk just never came in properly and I ended up giving up because it just wasn't happening for me,I still felt guilty even years after and kept thinking what if I would have tried more, but these things happen and however we feed our babies it's fine and they are healthy that's all that matters. I am pregnant with my third and last baby now and I will try to breastfeed again but I know from my past 2 experiences it's unlikely going to happen for me but if it does great if it doesn't I won't feel guilty anymore either. Just be proud of yourself for everything you've gone through and know everything you've done is the right thing for you and baby! Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!!

[@shaidasadiq959]

Congratulations Amina and brother Adil 🎉 May Allah swt be with you every step of the way, may He make your journey into parenthood easy ameen 🤲🏼 ps i’ve had three C-sections you’ll be absolutely fine XXX

[@AR-fb1nw]

Subhanallah congratulations to you and your husband ❤

[@321SalmaR]

Girl it will get better. Your labour sounds awful and scary but day by day it will heal and your csection will heal and you will go back to busy Amina again. Trust me Ive been in that boat and now Im a year on Alhamdulilah xxx

[@HannahBanana-qm9me]

Congratulations! So happy for you both. ❤

[@shaistahaq4050]

Congratulations Amina

[@S_maya89]

Congratulations, worst is over Alhamdulilah . May Allah swt grant your beautiful a long life filled with health wealth love happiness & imaan only Aameen. May she be the coolness of yours and Aadils eyes Aameen. Look after yourself and tc love & duas 😘❤️

[@clare1971]

Wonderful to see you again

[@sabina1303]

Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl. Anything after 37 weeks is full term

[@rozaadam79]

Mabrook may Allah bless you and your family❤

[@nicetry492]

You are my rock mashaAllah May Allah swt make it easier for you Ameen summah Ameen A huge congratulations to both of yous mashaAllah 😍👌🇬🇧❤😊💕

[@ayeshatabassum_x]

I cried as you told us about all the doctors came rushing in telling you that you need an emergency c section. I had the same except my son's heartbeat was way under. I cried and said I want to give birth naturally like other mothers and don't want the easy way out 😢 it was no way the easy way out and the recovery is something else

[@321SalmaR]

Stretch marks are genetic for any girlies with loads. Molly mae used everything under the sun and it didnt help so dont beat yourself up if you get em x

[@AliKhan-oy6sf]

Same thing happened with me I just visit a hospital and doctor did my C-section without even trying for labor and no other reason they tell me for C-section just said your baby heartbeat is low and It was a terrible experience and after that I was in depression for almost 3 years

[@farhiyaabdi3232]

الف مبروك حبيبتي

[@hayaa4628]

Awww I just want to give you hug🥹😭 the things mothers go through to have their babies🤍 I pray Allah gives us ALL women the highest jannah. Allahu Ameen!

[@Xyznnnnnnnn38]

Wow that’s emotional, just for reference I’ve had 3 children and couldn’t breastfeed any of them, and I tried each time but I guess it just wasn’t a part of my journey, you are no less off a mother my kids are absolutely fine Allhumdulillah fed is best full stop !

[@Hannah-go3xo]

Salam sis. I'm really sorry for your struggles in really hope that you are getting help around the house. I went thru a similar thing a few months ago so I totally know what you mean. I think due to c section milk comes in really late. I also had to bottle feed even tho I wanted to breastfeed . I know it doesnt matter as long as your child is getting fed that's the most important thing. But I really wanted to breastfeed regardless so I just kept putting her on. And inknow that's long and difficult especially after c section but if you really want to then try it alongside the bottle. Your milk will come in iA. And then they go off the bottle sometimes and only want the breast. But totally up to you. You have to want to do it becusse I know mentally it's not easy. So the point of my message is that if you want to breastfeed keep putting her on even now. I think mine took like 3 weeks or 4 xxx Allah is with you cc

[@Hannah-go3xo]

Congratulations 💜💜

[@321SalmaR]

Also the 4-6 weeks is a minimum girl it takes a while but you will get there dont rush xxx

[@chantellemobey8490]

Congratulations to you all Mashallah love your channel and your sisters channels, We’ll done to you sister I had c sections with both my boys it does get easier but just try and take it a bit easy.. mashallah you look amazing!! Bottle feeding is fine we all do what’s right for you and your child at the time.. enjoy this time may Allah make it easy for you and protect you all 🤲🧡

[@clare1971]

Same here 20 years ago when we had the only son

[@angel26121991]

Why no pics for the creams u used for stretch marks

[@affy861]

I had a emergency c section I never new nothing about c section I was in shock and I couldnt even move my legs after and my face was grey I was drained

[@shadowxx1342]

Alhamdulilah ❤❤❤

[@mrscouturebeauty1193]

Alhamdulillah I had my baby 5 months ago, similar yet different experience im noy sure why everyone iknow have had c section aside from molly mea. Is this yo reduce families etc 😳 makes u think. I also felt the same it was awful then I had a lot going on about 40 days etc where women has to take care of her self etc But on the bright side congratulations aminah and Adil. We are both girl mamas

[@clare1971]

Most people poo and the midwives are not going to laugh or tell you, just move on unless you directly want to ask !

[@SDMOVIES1.0]

Don't know how to react to this video.🤔

[@Hannah-go3xo]

Maybe you can congratulate her!!??

[@mrscouturebeauty1193]

Please keep your negative comments yo your self we do not needed such ugly comments

[@user-qb2lv8uo4x]

I agree, it's moan, moan, moan, We've just witnessed an earthquake in Turkey and this is just 'oh so traumatic' What a load of baloney.

[@jamilay5679]

This made me emotional** A lot of C-sections have been happening lately, especially over COVID-19 and to tie the women up after giving birth, so they can’t have anymore children or births.

[@Hannah-go3xo]

What do you mean by tying women up?

[@shirsu8079]

Fallopian tubes tied up. I think some women are offered it if they have had too many c-section and the next would be risky or for some other reason it may be offered

[@jamilay5679]

They’re wanting to degrees the population on birthing, so women don’t have anymore babies

[@jamilay5679]

Literally that.