My Boyfriend Does Not Have A 'Disability Fetish' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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ALEX and Noah matched on Bumble and fell in love, but despite their happiness, the couple have experienced lots of negativity surrounding their relationship. Alex has a rare disease called spinal muscular atrophy type two and some people accuse Noah of having a disability fetish. Alex explained: "The assumption there is that disabled people aren't sexually appealing." Since falling pregnant with their first baby, Alex and Noah have been subjected to trolls calling the pregnancy "fake" and that it "should be illegal." Refusing to let the haters ruin their joy, the pair are focusing on their new arrival. Alex said: "We're very caring, loving people and we have the resources and love in our hearts to be able to raise a baby. We're very confident in that."
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[@lisabinet7631]

I’m a disabled woman in an interabled relationship. We have been married 18 yrs and have two kids. It’s hard going out and having people stare, especially now that my kids are old enough to notice it happening. I’m so happy for them and they’re going to be great parents.

[@lathafalls7675]

GodBless you and your husdband and your kids I’m one of them to but I’m not married I have Cp and epilepsy I’m 28 and I live with my dad and stepmom

[@hanawolfgang]

Okay

[@MiaMia-px5xo]

Just dont give a f*ck to them, maybe they are just too jealous of such a wonderful lady like you Lisa!

[@SpongeB00b_is_a_savage]

don’t worry about them i have cp too

[@KrisArnold-x3h]

Dude. Im pretty normal and I get stared at. Laughed at. Picked on. Theres no escaping it no matter who you are. People suck. Specially today. I litterally see nore evil people than I see good

[@theinterabledcouple4328]

Thank you for the support, we’re now 27 weeks & so excited!

[@Liddlesel]

So happy for you two!! I remember watching you on TikTok!! Girl you CAN DRINK.🤧🤣😩🤞🏽✨🤍 But sending much love and positive vibrations to you guys!! Can’t wait to see the little one!🥺

[@nicole2613]

Aww 🥰❤️❤️

[@truly-channel]

❤️🙌

[@shaverse8626]

Congratulations you Three ❤🙏🏽

[@felicitys8673]

I’m so happy for you guys and this amazing journey. Forget the haters you’ve got this! ❤

[@l.a.raustadt518]

Our son Neal who had MD was asked "what do you want?". He said to fall in love, get married and have children. At 22 he passed. Good luck and love to those who achieve their goal, not all do.

[@VoiceAndPianoByChristaFord]

I pray in Jesus's Name for you to have comfort and strength until you see him again! John 3:16

[@NocturnalWolf83]

😢

[@resilientgal872]

So sorry for your loss

[@Mrs.ParkerMrs.Parker]

❤❤❤❤

[@camiba6773]

I don't see an issue with the disability aspect of the relationship however the fact that he is a three time recovering addict is concerning. I worked with addicts before and they struggle for a long time. Stress is a major trigger. A baby and a disabled partner on top of the time line of the relationship can really be difficult. He will really need to vigilant on his recovery and have laser focus. I wish them well but indeed I hope he his his sponsor on hand

[@brensherlock]

Oh he already relapsed and had to go to rehab.

[@namjoons_saxophone_]

​@@brensherlockthat was quick

[@calebrice5707]

Where did you see he relapsed?

[@mj1925]

The thing is a mother is supposed to nurture and provide for the children and husband she can’t do that. Amanda is supposed to be a pastor protector and provider. He doesn’t have a job. He can’t provide himself how he could provide for his family.

[@annatribe4244]

Scary​@@mj1925

[@jamesbrandon8570]

60 days sober? Lmao that’s not shit. Tf. This is not a good combination smh sadly but all the best

[@shellydavis855]

Update: He's back in rehab and missing the birth of his child

[@loridori]

@@shellydavis855Wow really. Smh😢

[@Nami43391]

​@@shellydavis855 smh

[@calebrice5707]

​@shellydavis855 woah he can't do that to her

[@MummyDiaries024]

😂😂😂😂best comment made my day

[@bethphillips1276]

The scariest part is the fact that he said “yea I definitely think I have it under control my third time” (or however he worded it) cuz to me , that tells me he’s not 100% all in and can say without a doubt he’s changing his life. Just a thought from another sober since 2017 , recovering addict.

[@hehehahas4514]

They also didn’t mention that when they met he was in a sober living facility and got kicked out because he was sneaking out to see her. Neither of them are taking his recovery serious

[@hehehahas4514]

@@jjadexo8409 I think they are all wheelchair_rapunzel

[@hehehahas4514]

@@loncho5079 he just got out of rehab again to though so obviously this person was right… he also admitted that alcohol was a big part of the reason he relapsed and he and Alex are already going out to clubs and drinking

[@Edward.Rippett.]

Addiction is a mf bro. You can't say that you will never use again as an addict. Just take it a day at a time

[@---CASEY--K---]

I did worry when I heard that. Sobriety is hard work. I'm hoping that if he happens to have a slip up that he has the tools to get back on track asap. Sending them positive thoughts

[@barbywhittaker8762]

7 months?! That's still early. I hope they make it. And I hope that baby comes out 100% healthy!! And of course she will need help if he leaves but it's still nothing her and her family wouldn't be able to handle.

[@mtsddideriksen]

I totally understand that it's very quick to get pregnant. Here's my short story 😂😂 I got pregnant within 5 days of me dating my now husband. We are married, and have a 4,5 year old and a 2 year old. But we were also not that young. I was 31 and he was 39 at the time we started dating. I definitely don't recommend others just jumping for the kids. But it worked out well for us 😍😍

[@yourstruly9088]

@@mtsddideriksen five days is crazyyy but I’m glad it worked out lol

[@mtsddideriksen]

@@yourstruly9088 definitely extreme and crazy😂. I always knew once I met the right one things would be speedy. But not five days speedy 😂

[@JednaJedinaJa85]

@@mtsddideriksen soooo happy to hear! God bless you and your family! ❤❤❤ 😊

[@MiaMia-px5xo]

You are just a very negative person. Period! How can you be like that? THEY WILL make it with the help of God. I know ''normal'' people who divorced after one year, so your comment doesn't make sense in that perspective.

[@Br0th3r7]

I’m really happy for them! What I think might be risky it’s that they’ve known each other for only a few months

[@tazril1]

I noticed it but we can't judge that . they’re going to be parents .we wish them a good life

[@hanawolfgang]

Few months is not enough huh?

[@Liztoofly]

Less then a few months together. Think about this shes 30 weeks pregnant as of today feb18,2023. So factor in when this was filmed. Maybe they was together for about a month total and got knocked up!

[@summermorelli2520]

And he doesn’t have a fetish lol lies

[@Jazz_Lovess]

​​@@summermorelli2520re you saying he does bc he likes a disabled person? That's f*cked up😢

[@melopsicodelia]

7 months dating? And he has been sober for only 2 months, and she is pregnant already? Wow! I wish them the best, specially the baby, but take your time to so things.

[@jasminefleary3786]

Ikr

[@virtualtism]

He gives controlling vibes tbh.

[@yubullyme3855]

@@virtualtism lets pray it doesnt end up like that 💀

[@lastditch727]

They gotta pump out this creepy content.

[@USIscreaminEagles]

Poor lady. This dude is a loser “thinks he has it under control”. The stress on this lady body with already heavy complications.

[@MamaRobynR]

Im happy for them. Disabled people are still human. And they desire everything that you and I do. But society puts extreme limitations on them even beyond there disability. I pray everything works out perfectly health wise for her and her baby. I had 2 emergency c-sections and it’s very difficult as a non-disabled person. And I had major rare complications from the anesthesia. I was told 1% of women have the outcome I had. And I was extremely healthy 21 year old at that time. I’m fine I recovered thankfully and it was almost 18 years ago. So I know medicine advanced since then. Wish them all the best. And I pray he is able to handle everything and remain sober. I’m a sober person also. It is extremely hard to fight addiction and it’s a life long battle.

[@ronalddeeble9938]

"disabled people are still human" seems really insane to have to state......

[@lathafalls7675]

Thank u GodBless u I’m one of the i was sup to not make it when I was born and if I did I was sup to be in a wheelchair but I’m not I can walk the only things I have is CP and epilepsy

[@MJ-hd9qr]

Thank you 😊 💓

[@justincook8329]

Tysm for this comment it is very nice thanks

[@hanawolfgang]

Bro just wrote a book

[@loidarosa1266]

I think the fact they are interabled couple is totally fine. More concerned they got pregnant and only been together for 7 months. But hey stuff happens. I'm glad they are both happy and he seems super supportive.

[@mariap.2567]

Alex got pregnant 3mths into them dating. At that time Noah was doing well with addiction recovery 6mths sober. Unfortunately Alex threw Noah a bday party and they had liquor everywhere and that is what caused Noah to relapse and doing hard drugs again.

[@catalinaortoljo2821]

@@mariap.2567 She doesn't appear to be especially sensitive to his needs.

[@_help_me_reach_1k]

oof. i’ve followed alex for a long time but this is worrisome. i hope it turns out okay but he was barely sober and apparently according to socials he recently relapsed. that on top of her being pregnant and immobile i think is why ppl are concerned. but i really wish them the best though.

[@catapillargirl2021]

How recently?

[@MamaRobynR]

That’s very worrisome!!! Having a baby while in recovery can either make or brake you. I have been sober from a life long battle w/ opiates after being drugged heavily as a child and teen by my adoptive parent. I thankfully was never a partier and I was a “functioning” addict for near 25 years. And I am 39 now. I quit for the final time a few years ago. But it’s a absolutely life long battle and once your brain experiences heavy opiate use for an extended period of time it’s never the same. I am feel it worse as I was started so young and I’m sure it effected the brain developing. I absolutely would never be ok or have an successful abstinence from drugs if I didn’t get proper medication to even out my brain inbalance. Also I take medication that blocks my body from even being capable of getting high, which helps my brain from even considering relapsing knowing it’s not even going to work on me. It’s hard to explain but as much as my logical reasoning absolutely never wants to go back, addicts have to fight their own unconscious thoughts/desires that trick an addict into thinking o just one more time is ok etc. fighting internally w/ your own mind is absolutely exhausting and takes years to stabilize. He is less than a year sober. and the evidence shows addicts should remain single and not even date for the first year sober/or directly after they relapse. Relapse is a part of recovery and 90% experience at least one. Just don’t let it send you spiraling back to the daily use. And forgive yourself and get straight back to the strict program/treatment! This is all way too much for a newly sober person. I am a mother and have 2 healthy teen children who are wonderful but still especially my 17 yr old daughter can say/do things that send me to dark places where I want to use. I don’t obviously but still that took years of work to figure out. I can’t not imagine having a new baby now. And I’m over 2 years clean from my last relapse. And I still work a Daily outpatient rehab center 6 days a week!’I am so concerned for this family. I wish them the best. And sober addicts deserve happiness and family etc. just has to be done in a very strict planned out way. And this isn’t. But I hope it works out!!! And I hope he is going to meetings or outpatient for at minim a year or two. Raising kids is very hard and newborns are a lot of work. Wonderful work but still. And when the mother is not physically able to do a lot and also needs your help. It will be super overwhelming. Praying for all 3 of them but especially for the unborn innocent baby.

[@intensepassion3382]

Disturbing

[@daynalynnxo]

What’s her KZbin channel

[@PGA1992]

@Tina Tijerina it is when they put it on the internet!!

[@lisatheboywonder6744]

Okay this whole relationship has so many red flags waving in it. And not because it's an inter abled relationship cuz disabled people have every right to be with somebody. But they have only been together 7 months and she is already pregnant and this guy can't stay sober. I heard he recently relapsed and in this video he has barely recovered. Everything is moving too fast here and she doesn't really know him and what happens when she's immoblile and he relapses yet again and now there's a baby involved? On her part she should have taken this slow cause in the long run this may bite her in the ass cause she doesn't really know him and he is not a place where he can honestly say he beat his addiction when he hasn't.

[@Sarah_Vanesa-Sophie]

Dating for 7 months and already been pregnant thats scary.

[@IXcircle]

Shes a female with SMA, so there's an increased risk that the child will also have SMA. If so I hope they do not have a severe type. My friend's baby passed away at 3 years old because of it. I'm happy for them but I wonder if it's fair or ethical to get pregnant knowing that child is at an increased risk for life suffering ahead. There's a different between knowing and not knowing. If I unexpectedly had a child with SMA, I'd love them so very much. But if I knew that I likely would before conceiving, I would not. SMA is very similar to ALS (but with MUCH earlier onset). Muscles deteriorate eventually reducing your ability to breathe on your own.

[@candygirl9923]

@@crystalortega2156 that’s the most evil thing you can do kill your own child if you fear having a child with a disability don’t get pregnant again …. You’ll be totally depressed the rest of your life killing your own kid adopt a healthy kid then you’ll avoid the trauma of killing your own child

[@crystal18180]

The baby won’t have SMA he doesn’t have the gene he got tested for it so it won’t be passed down even though she has SMA.

[@lucylucy2171]

Crystal, so, just because you find out a child will have a disability, that gives you enough reason to kill it?

[@juliagrund816]

She had the fetus tested it’s fine she mentioned this in another video

[@chelscidpfighter5980]

I’m disabled and I don’t want to bring a child into this world knowing I can’t care for them in the way I feel that a child deserves and I also would never want to have a child that might suffer like I have. I am happy for her and I hope they are both happy and healthy. In the end it’s her decision.

[@plan4life]

I don’t see any problem with their relationship - what does it matter if she is disabled? The only concern I would have is the short time they have been together for them to already be bringing a baby into the world. I know love can blossom quickly, I was engaged to my now husband after just 6 months and we have been a couple for more than 22 years. But in every relationship there are challenging times ahead and I hope they have the love and commitment to stay together no matter what. Otherwise I anticipate bringing up a baby alone would be more difficult for her than an abled bodied person and worse case scenario I just wonder how she would cope alone.

[@milkchan202]

the problem is theyve only been together for 3 months and he's a 23yo drug addict.

[@plan4life]

@@milkchan202 They said they were together 7 months, and if I understood it right he is a recovering addict. It doesn’t automatically doom their relationship for failure.

[@lilacalosa]

@@milkchan202 AND that they are having a baby when she has a genetic condition with a high chance to pass it on to her offspring...

[@ascrabtree7639]

@@lilacalosa They had testing done to determine whether or not the baby would have the condition. The baby won't have the condition, she will just be a carrier, but even if she did, she would have been put onto a specific medication to massively reduce/ completely take away any symptoms. They have planned for every possibility.

[@aubreyfasano9814]

@@plan4life true

[@MB-gb2zp]

The only risk I see is that yall haveonlt been together for under a year before getting pregnant. A relationship needs more time to develop especially for a recovery addict and that's coming from one myself. Best of luck

[@ChocoBabiChan]

How does she know he doesn't have a fetish? Because he told her he didnt?didn't?! 🤣

[@mattlawson714]

My girlfriend happens to be very petite. Does that mean I have a fetish for small women? You are basically saying that she should only date disabled men, because there is a possibility that a man who is not disabled has a fetish? You’re basically putting down a grown woman for her own choices by insinuating that she is incapable of making those choices for herself due to her disability. By your logic, if I say that I’m not a drug dealer, or a rapist, that should be investigated, because “of course he is just saying that”. Well, I said it. Maybe I’m “just saying it”. I think you should report me to the police immediately if this is how your brain works. Sounds like you have been burned by men and are jealous that she has found happiness with someone that accepts her for her disability. Maybe men in your life didn’t exactly accept your hateful, intolerant view of others. Most men would rather spend time with a disabled woman with a great personality, or frankly, a giant mound of cow shit, over you. Talk about being ablest. So she can’t be happy just because you are miserable? Get the hell out of here with that shit. My girlfriend is a human with a need to urinate throughout the day, does that mean I have a piss fetish? Jesus Christ. I’m sorry the men in your life have just ended up being baby daddies. Don’t blame this young woman for your horrible choices that have lead you to have this horrible inexcusable attitude regarding a disabled woman. Just judging by your ridiculous name and profile picture I bet you weigh about 300 pounds. And so I guess it’s OK for you to talk shit as you are technically also disabled. Please leave the motorized carts alone. There are elderly people who need to use them at Walmart.

[@houseofsolomon2440]

She has become convinced he has no fetish. We need to accept that we'll probably never know her reasoning for this conviction. Proving a negative is impossible... It [disability fetish] must be one of those things people wonder about, looking in from the outside of their relationship.

[@Jesus-777-g1j]

So disrespectful. Jesus will judge you for judging. Laugh now, when you're spending time with the devil. Let me know how that works out 😢

[@TimBong-sb6qp]

​@@houseofsolomon2440 Hi, not to be pedantic, but proving a negative is not impossible. Take the statement "My father is not younger than me." To prove this negative statement, you only have to look at the ID card of your father and compare it with yours. Of course, there are different types of knowledge. Proving the above statement is way easier and the proof is convincing compared to proving that someone does not have a fetish. But again, it is not impossible.

[@devpal4718]

I’m happy for them. They found love and that’s what we’re all searching for

[@alessandrodonizete4757]

Ten gente gosta de ter que cuidar ou gosta ou se sente atraido pelo diferente

[@daphnepierre1038]

Wow but she is beautiful

[@Freedomrings4433]

I agree !❤

[@NIkki-ox1ej]

How did they have sex

[@thatbaboon5344]

Speak for yourself

[@scratchy1704]

He's got a lot of hard work ahead of him.Looking after her and the baby.Hope he gets help because he will need it 🙏

[@Patriciaking-j3q]

Definitely need help with her.

[@marka.2715]

An addict and a disabled person hook up and have a child out of wedlock. What could possibly go wrong?

[@erebostd]

What’s always surprising for me: people putt their entire private lives on the internet, with everything they have and do, and wonder that they get bad reaction…seriously people, do you know humans?

[@mj1925]

Just because it’s happening, doesn’t mean this is right

[@highflybirdy851]

I mean she's able to have sex isn't she? 😂

[@rachelwhite3286]

He's been sober for 2 months and theyve been together 7 months and are having a kid that only he will be able to take care of while also having to full time take care of her... I wish him luck cuz that's gonna be rough

[@drewmatthew3]

Yikes! They haven't known each other for very long. I saw on another video that the guy was an addict and already relapsed. If he leaves, who will take care of her and the baby? I hope it works out, but I see major problems ahead.

[@lauracaldwell5640]

I've only ever seen "negative" posts from HER. I've never seen anyone actually say anything negative on social media from anyone else.

[@specialagentorange4329]

They block them

[@xheidix1974]

Disabled doesn't mean undeserving of love. People are always screaming that it's what's on the inside that counts yet don't practice it when it comes to relationships such as this.

[@mipassionanime]

@Dahliastea tell me cash app to send you money

[@mipassionanime]

That's why I'm offering you money because I have a job

[@mipassionanime]

$abramgg request me money

[@mipassionanime]

@Dahliastea loser you stop fighting

[@mipassionanime]

@Dahliastea do that loser

[@FlowerChild65]

I think she has since said they have broken up. I'm not sure why they split, but the amount of hatred they received for choosing to be parents was out of line. I am a disabled person and she is one of the few examples of disabled motherhood I have seen. Would I choose to have a child in these circumstances as a disabled woman? No. I think being a disabled woman in a relationship with someone you hardly know who is also a recovering addict and then adding into that unplanned pregnancy has the potential for too much instability and I would not choose that. BUT and this is a really important but, disabled people have the right to make choices and determine our own lives (including choices other people might not like). I can't believe I have to state that in 2023, but I feel like a lot of the hate she gets is essentially paternalism and people being big mad at her for making these kinds of choices. It's still her right.

[@nancyp4337]

First, your Halloween costumes are the best!!! Second, I’m really sad that there are so many mean people out there!

[@walkietalkietraveller2932]

you are spot on, Nancy P.

[@peachycinnamon5786]

Hats off to him I personally could not deal w the work of having a baby and having to look after a disabled partner too he's a very strong person people like him are saints more people need to be like him you can tell he really loves her it's so cute

[@Jarvis_Mari]

I know you're coming from the right place, but calling someone a saint for this is... How do I put this? 🤔 It basically feels like a slap to the face of the disabled person in an interabled relationship. It raises the able bodied partner as someone who is selfless and sacrifices everything for their partner while the disabled person is looked at as a burden to them, so it comes off as an ableist term. I myself am disabled, rely on a wheelchair and other mobility devices, and yes, also rely on my partner to help me with the things that I cannot do. If someone called him a saint for loving and choosing to date me, that would hurt a lot. It does not take a Saint to love someone despite their differences. Yes, there are a new set of challenges that come with interabled dating that you wouldn't normally have, but every relationship is challenging in its own way, even for "normal" couples. While my partner doesn't have to help me with ALL aspects of caring for me, there is still a lot that I cannot do that he helps me with, and often does so without me even having to ask. It's almost like he can read my mind at this point. I asked him his thoughts on the subject of hypothetically being called a Saint for loving me and he said, basically, that he doesn't see it as something to be praised as saintly. That I'm still a human being worthy of love just as anyone else is. Even when we first started dating nearly 13 years ago at the age of 16, he knew that none of my limitations mattered to him in the long run, because at any point in a person's life, they could encounter an accident and become disabled. He took into account my physical limitations, my autism, my PTSD, anxiety, depression... all of the things that come with those differences and decided that he wanted to be with me no matter what, even if I don't live to an "average" lifespan, since, again, anyone could die at any time for any reason. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to explain why calling someone a saint in this instance can be emotionally harmful to disabled individuals. It's not limited to dating either. People get called a Saint for raising a disabled person, being friends with one, for having a career in caretaking, etc. I've heard that word my whole life and it made me feel like a burden to my family and friends until he walked into my life and taught me that I am not a burden. That I am not useless. That I am deserving of romantic love. That there is SO much that I can do, so many things that I am talented at, and that my life is worth so much more than I grew up thinking it was worth. He is not a saint. Everyone has their flaws. He is, however, a really amazing, funny, caring and understanding person who doesn't want me to be anything apart from my true self and I'm lucky to have someone like him. Though he sees it as he is the lucky one to have me, and often jokes that he is surprised that I put up with his shenanigans after all these years, to which I respond, "Now why on Earth would I return a free service animal"? (That joke cracks him up to no end. 🤣)

[@4wayStopEnforcement]

People who love disabled people are not saints. They just choose to show up for their partners, even when it’s hard. Disabled partners are not burdens.

[@peachycinnamon5786]

@@Jarvis_Mari im so sorry to offend u I guess I put that wrong I should have really said she's very lucky to have someone who l9ves her that much I would be honored to have that kind of love I'm so sorry to hear about your disabilities I have knee problems bit nothing bag enough for a wheelchair

[@abor1males]

Big deal women do this daily for incompetent men

[@funnymusicfreak]

The most confusing thing: summer clothes while snow outside.

[@dustindircks6647]

I sure do wish you 2 the best and hope all things work together. Dude, you got a child on the way and a girl that needs your help. Don’t ever let the addiction back in your life. Drugs lead to pain and suffering and eventually homelessness and abandonment of family.

[@louise8752]

Looking at her instagram, she's had a beautiful baby!! Best wishes to them for both their continued health and happiness.

[@tammywill1843]

What is her IG???

[@MrTigerlore]

Couldn’t you say someone has a “fetish” for anyone they date?

[@Mila808g]

Ignorant people seem to have a big issue with Noah being her caregiver... but I don't see it as any different than my relationship with my (also) able-bodied partner. He put a scarf on her before they went outside; I get my partner's shoes and water bottle by the door before we leave. He helps feed her; I pack a lunch every day. Very little difference. When you truly love someone... helping them isn't a chore.

[@nurseward]

I think this is so sweet. Congrats to you guys. We all deserve love no matter what

[@irenetusiime5255]

I am disabled too but people really judge harshly but we are also humans and we do have feelings. Am so happy for her and I also pray that I find someone who will appreciate me the way I am.

[@birungiilouna3680]

❤❤❤❤

[@birungiilouna3680]

Don’t worry

[@kindredmalise6633]

Haters going to always be jealous. You two look so happy together. Grins from ear to ear when you look at each other. I hope your path ends with more happiness.

[@nadeemdanish1701]

I'm a doctor and I know spinal muscular dystrophy SMA .... A rare genetic disease causes metabolic abnormalities It takes your muscles and your strength may be but Take my word..... believe me, it never touches your internal strength to love and to feel the life.. Be happy ❤❤❤ From New York City

[@debo7320]

I wish you all the blessings in life, and I pray that all goes well with your delivery with baby. I think you will be wonderful loving parents. I, too, had a mother who was disabled, but she did a wonderful job raising six children with my father beside her. Take care, sweet family. 💕

[@JB-ol1ib]

Don’t judge them negatively! He’s a real man stepping up!

[@hogcaller]

She deserves to be happy just like everyone else. The hell with the haters !! I wish you two the best !!

[@patsyvictoriousdelvecchioi4837]

Aw she has such cute ears, I like when ears stick out like that. She’s like a cute elf. Such a great couple, you can see the love.

[@Lina00]

Everybody deserves to be happy, and they are no different. This is beautiful ❤

[@normanhowell3994]

Love stories like this... just goes to show ,Love's all about hearts.congratulations , many likes.

[@anniejayy9559]

I’m sure getting pregnant by a recently recovering addict was the smart thing to do 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@thatElene]

She doesn't have a ton of guys to choose from

[@violettecooley]

Hush karen

[@lislenz670]

How rude. People make mistakes in life but that doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t have a chance at life and love. He is trying to be a better person. Show me one person that is perfect and I will show you 100000 that are not. Are you perfect? No, so, shush

[@kenyarawatson5502]

STFU 🙄 like who are you?? 👏🤣🚫🧢

[@prohjjhhgfdfhj]

Agree actually

[@ZOCCOK]

Their house is marvelous! From the color palette of warm colors to the sofa being dark brown with burnt orange pillows 💗. They definitely hit the bullseye with their choice ❤‍🔥

[@Nameanduser]

Personally I don't see an issue if he did have a disability fetish. To me it's no different from People have preferences

[@houseofsolomon2440]

It's their business & theirs only.

[@jodyariewitz7349]

So much love to you both!❤❤❤ May your growing family be blessed with all the love and happiness you deserve!!

[@lindamarie6574]

To the person who said “no offense” I am 25 years clean and no family of mine got “caught up” in anything. Things can go wrong for sober people too! To the couple, congratulations I think you’ll make great parents. There are other couples on youtube who are in interabled relationships who are very happy and are not “fetish” people. Don’t even respond to imbeciles that say stupid things. God bless the 3 of you!😊

[@jamie-r2034]

No one is perfect. It blows my mind that 2 different people in love can piss so many people off. Just love another

[@madicurrier9739]

I love these two! I hope nothing but the best for these lovely expecting parents.

[@transmanari]

I remember seeing videos about her! So glad she met someone great.

[@Biosafetylevel4]

He’s an abusive drug addict.

[@Clydekid]

Man its hard to find a family who are 100% accepting sometimes its just time to cut ties and create your own. I'm happy for them.

[@ninana143]

If you can not independently take care of yourself, I do not believe you should be responsible for another person, in this case a baby.

[@mariannesharp7467]

Can't wait to see the wee one!!! Every human being is deserving of all great things!!! I am happy for the two of you to have found ❤️ Beautiful people!

[@alisamodin9032]

I wish them the absolute best!!! I am so happy his family accepted her 🥰 I hope he can stay clean because having a family and being there for them is so much more rewarding. Praying for a happy, healthy baby!!

[@harryjohnson8605]

What you 2 have is magical. In so many ways people can learn that real love conquer all obstacles.

[@michaelbarnhart2593]

Judging someone is the absolute laziest thing to do... learning and understanding others takes effort and courage to grow in your thinking.

[@Devils-advocate78]

No words? I don't get it. She's severely disabled and she's put her life online so why does she have no words for someone asking if she will b able to care for the baby herself? It's a valid question. She can't care for herself so it's going to be impossible to care for a newborn. What's she gonna do when the baby becomes a toddler? I hope they do stay together Cz there's no way she will b able to look after a child on her own

[@tenshimoon]

Cry harder. You're obsessed enough to be commenting on several of these videos, clearly you're so bitter about not being loved that you hate on other people's love 🤡

[@tamiko_8369]

I don’t have a problem with her disability. I just pray 🙏🏽 he stays sober. They haven’t been together long. I wish them the best!

[@Drusilla.dsquishmallows]

This gives me hope of having a baby as well. I'm not disabled but due to certain health conditions I feel like I am since I have to be very careful. Congratulations to you all. Such a lovely and sweet couple. Don't let the trolls get to you because what matters is the wonderful life you're about to bring into the world as you continue to love each other and the baby.

[@montananerd8244]

Chronic illness can be considered a disability.

[@bunnylacy2097]

Chronic illnesses are a disability. You can be able to walk and still be disabled. There’s so many ways you can be disabled. For example, I can walk but I can’t drive because of how extreme my fatigue is. I can’t stay awake behind the wheel. That’s a disability.

[@bunnylacy2097]

Or I can’t have too many really busy days in a row or my illness will flare up and I’ll be unable to function. That’s a disability on its own too.

[@fyali1632]

I am concerned only becase of short time period.For someone who has relapsed in less than 1 year will have a big responsibility now.He has to care for his girlfriend as well as a newborn.This will indeed be stressful and he will also need help,support.

[@deeethier1544]

I'm happy that they found eachother but I can't help but worry as he is an ex drug addict and drug addicts cave under stress sometimes and result back to getting high... hes now officially committing himself to take care of her and any children they have all by himself for the rest of his life because she is not fully able to do everything that it takes to raise a child, as well as work to be able to afford to take care of the family.. can't help but get a really funny feeling the stress of taking all that on will send him back to his addiction.. its not far fetched to assume

[@ab-jc8nv]

Hi how r u

[@thisisanaussiegal3590]

Can't wait for an update when the baby's born!

[@jeanqueen8401]

I remember she said I’m a hot disabled booty lol and now she is expecting her first child I really wish her the best 😩my god I feel left out still happy for her

[@Zee-ob1pe]

I wanted to vomit when she said that

[@tizodd6]

Truth-be-told...most of us really just want someone who appreciates us. Physical attraction is a plus, but if you're with a person who appreciates you, there's a lot you can look past.

[@leslielamont2737]

I wish you both all the best! Praying for a safe delivery and a healthy baby ❤️

[@morrisonscott702]

Hello how are you doing?

[@Nolanoyayo]

Them being together isnt a problem but bringing a child into the world is hard work, caring for them is hard work. I hope this child is well looked after because it will be him caring for the baby mostly

[@leandracasas8836]

I’m glad she’s having a baby every human being deserves to be loved n be happy 🥰🥰🥰

[@alanaaites8292]

My family is very judgemental too. You can choose your friends, but not your family. Ignore the hate.

[@rachelcurtis749]

I'm fully body able and am a mom of a now 2 yr old and it's sooo hard so I feel like he's going to be taken care of the brunt of the work with the baby which can be very scary for first time parents and very overwhelming/frustrating so I really hope they have family that will be there to support them... Basically hold their hands..

[@lindaturner9806]

I think the reason people stare is because most of us don't understand how a person with no disabilities could be attracted to someone who does have disabilities. Each to their own. I would not want the extra work of being with someone with disabilities but that's just me. Good luck to this couple and others like them.

[@mipassionanime]

@Dahliastea you don't even know me you loser to show hate

[@proper.role.model.819]

Honestly, I see nothing but love and care in his eyes. I could be wrong and could be right but he does look like he cares for her.

[@morrisonscott702]

Hello how're you doing?

[@unicornmadness6286]

To Alex and Noah, if you guy's are truly in love and are happy with each other, then just dust the haters off and keep loving one another. Congratulations on your pregnancy hope it's a healthy human.❤

[@josie0317]

Congratulations I’m so happy for you two ❤ being a parent is a wonderful gift ♥️♥️

[@jasonkortink4785]

I'm disgusted what nasty comments this lovely couple has had ,good on them for living their lives happy and just going for it .much love to you both ,Jason from new Zealand xx

[@928studiosinc06]

I used to date a girl in a wheelchair. It's shocking people look at interabled relationships and judge. I personally look for the personality of a person (unfortunately, we did break up because of toxicity), but I felt a spark at first, and tried to light a fire. "Like so many things it is not on the outside, but what is inside that counts." - Robin Williams as the Genie in Aladdin.

[@griswald7156]

You have to work through the toxicity….all relationships get toxic..

[@928studiosinc06]

@@griswald7156 It’s a long story about the toxicity, but I can assure you I tried to work through it, but couldn’t.

[@griswald7156]

@@928studiosinc06 well done for trying….

[@928studiosinc06]

@@griswald7156 Thanks man.

[@Mewthree_]

The relationship isn’t wrong. It’s just having a baby I am concerned about. That baby could get the mothers disability and have to suffer.

[@existentialcrisis4884]

Its cute how she is pretending to be a nice person in this video. We've seen the other videos tho girl, we see you.

[@Stoopudjurcee1]

Together 7 months??? PFF, good luck.. wow. And only 60 days sober? This poor kid...

[@leeleentony]

Well it's cool to see she finally found someone who loves her n cares about her. I remember when there was videos of her being single and she was having a hard time finding a man who was genuine and jus finding a good man in general who truly cares for her so this is actually really cool. I'm super happy for her, everyone who's a decent person deserves to have and experience love. 💖 He seems like a caring and kind man too, congratulations to u both on the baby as well u guys. ❤🙏👑🙌✝️🥰

[@soniariveramorales107]

Wow God is in control, For He is the creator🤞🤞. Of us all,😇😇😇

[@Anythinggoes923]

Beautiful couple! ❤️ Blessings to you two and your baby!

[@bobcatthekittykat1075]

No offence but he is a recovering addict. I can imagine a lot of ways this can go wrong and also how the child can get caught up in thus

[@Glitchedoutditz]

As a recovering addict I was thinking the same thing.

[@joshuamuth9871]

Are you saying addict's can't change there life's 🤷

[@musagamingchick1386]

That man is sober you can easily tell when someone isn’t doing good and he looks healthy but either way this can happen to anyone no matter disabled or not all you can do is take this video as next time I see a couple with someone disabled treat them the same respect and be kind🤍

[@vixianas8827]

Understandable. Always a possibility. I'm 5 years sober and to me, that's pretty early in sobriety to be having kids. Only 7 months together and at some point in that time, celebrating his 60 days sober. Their life though, not judging! Just think you should be focusing on yourself and recovery for a while!

[@justthatgirl-ct4jo]

RECOVERING No longer in active addiction. Is he never supposed to have a family or a life because of his past?

[@elderkenya4488]

It's a shame people will bash what's normal and accept abnormality.Theyll accept two men or two women in a relationship,but they won't accept a normal relationship between a man and a woman.Sad day we're living in.

[@kimstewart11]

I totally agree.

[@sofiajung3276]

You guys are a beautiful couple and about to be a beautiful family, congratulations and I hope to see more happy moments, you both deserve it!!❤️❤️

[@tanyagarner9015]

I’m happy that you guys are in a relationship and love each other. I’m always happy to see that for other people. Although I would ask the question, why are you asking people for money or gifts for ur baby? If u are so upset or worried of what others think. I’m also wondering why put yourselves on blast constantly for these comments to be made and will probably continue to be made? It seems like this is such a intimate thing to put on the internet.

[@VanLifeVoyages]

Love watching you guys on Instagram & now over here on YT. Congrats 👏 We are an interabled couple as well and have raised 4 amazing humans, who are now adults creating their own families 🤗

[@frozencowboy6552]

I totally get how people could feel this is inappropriate. For me it's admittedly not something I would feel comfortable getting involved in. However being someone who's job Field revolves around disabilities, I'd ask you to consider how you'd feel if you had a physical (not mental) disability, and wanted love or a relationship. People fall in love with people. Being able to look past the physical entity of human is a great gift.

[@elderkenya4488]

You're a beautiful couple and may God bless your beautiful, sweet, healthy child.Ignore haters and concentrate on the three of you.Again congratulations!I'm so happy for you guys!

[@suearmstrong3404]

I wish you all the best. As they say, haters gonna hate but ignore them as best you can because this is your lives, not theirs! They have the right to make decisions for themselves as you two have the right to make your own decisions! Good luck with the baby, I hope all goes well!!!

[@morrisonscott702]

Hello how're you doing?

[@crystalrusmisel1832]

This coming from a recovering addict. He won’t stay sober unless he gets into and stays in some kind of recovery program and some kind of counseling to address the issues that made him want to use to begin with. I hope for their sake and sake of that baby all goes well for them!

[@carpenter5575]

Having to care for her and now a baby on the way and he's trying to stay sober and going to have to deal with all of that....i hope her or his parents are ready because that's probably who will be raising this child

[@LeagueofLegendsPreRelease]

She’s so pretty! I remember watching her TikTok awhile back! I’m so happy for them :)

[@marciebigley1820]

It's just so soon after meeting. Too soon, you haven't been together even a year. Good luck tho.

[@cmiro3069]

The fact that people would assume her pregnancy is fake is evidence of her claim that people with disabilities aren't seen as 'sexy.' I would say they are also not seen as sexual; as if they are incapable of desire. People living with disabilities are STILL PEOPLE! People all have dreams , desires, disasters, hope, fear, ambition, obstacles, etc. Nobody has the right to decide or design the happiness of another.

[@angeleyes2941]

What a beautiful couple! I wish them nothing but love, peace and huge blessings. Congratulations to you both on the baby! Don't worry about the haters, they're just unhappy people. Misery loves company!!

[@jonconrad666]

This is great to hear. I wish you guys best of luck

[@TheChronicExplorer]

Congrats guys!! Please keep sharing the story more people need to see how amazing of parents disabled people can be - Alex you will be a fantastic mom! Can't wait to meet the little one!

[@alcirasilveraferraz9029]

I'm happy for her, she's a warrior, despite everything she gets ahead! A big hug

[@DS-yz4ro]

i saw this girl on a blind date video on this channel, she was so likeable, so I was excited to see this especially when she said she's pregnant. good for her. I've been watching squirmy and grubs since they started and they get the same ridiculous judgements. anyway, I'm 2 seconds into this video and I want to hear the story from this couple. update: I hope the pregnancy is smooth and there no medical drama for the mum. I also hope the hate stops. it won't but she deserves to be happy