My Boyfriend Texted His Ex During Sex w/ Gugulethu Nyatsumba & Nana | Sex Education |

[@olorato.mod.]

this conversation is so important. people don't know about sex like they should. No one teaches you the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of sex in school, only biological, until you find out for yourself. It's a hard thing to navigate while also discovering yourself and a lot of people could benefit from this conversation. Alsoooo, love that HBD & Gugu said "safe sex is the best sex" and "your yes should enthusiastic". These are the things people need to hear more of! Love this channel tlhe bathong!! such wholesome content always!!😍❤️

[@rhulanimasia4822]

"Also it's not your birthday anymore, so we can fight." LEADERSHIP 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@DEFINING]

Nana stays ready 😂😂😂

[@beeunderscore]

That’s facts 😂

[@masharamokumo7356]

How did I know that Nana was the one who said this before watching😂😂💀

[@khayakaziyullaaugust8161]

Loved it ! 😂😂♥️

[@UncomfortableGrowth]

Thank you so much for having us ❤️ I always have a blast recording with you guys. Thank you for creating a safe space

[@DEFINING]

You're welcome Gugulethu! Thanks for availing yourself for this conversation ❤️

[@TheNdlovusUncut]

The Defining team never disappoints!!! As we start watching Sex Ed from S1 ;) Waiting for Part 2!!

[@dennisngango3527]

Thank you so much Hungani & Stephanie! Enjoy the show🥺🙌🏿

[@DEFINING]

Thanks for always supporting us 🥰

[@Bongani_RSA]

🙌🙌

[@DEFINING]

Notification Gang where you at?

[@atleemadiba1811]

Nana is so gorgeous 😭

[@DEFINING]

Very🔥🔥

[@DEFINING]

We're finally back with new episodes of #AskingForAFriend 🤩🤩! A Big thank you to Netflix for sponsoring this video as well as Gugulethu & Nana for being our first guests! Send us your scenarios, our advice is free: forms.gle/AEcSTCgBrxrsv4QCA

[@Zama_Nzi]

Bongani is a happy married gent, love that for him

[@DEFINING]

Same! He is in such a good place!

[@yasmeenphiri4729]

Noma is speaking facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m here for it

[@DEFINING]

You know the vibes🔥🔥🤌🏿

[@Tam974eva]

Beautiful group of ppl with empathetic advise. As a sexual assault survivor this advice is so considerate n refreshing. ❤

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@tumiseerane]

Please invite naledi mallela on one of these 😭

[@DEFINING]

🔥🔥🤌🏿🤌🏿

[@nonhlanhlakhambule9375]

@@DEFINING and Miss XO , that combo is 🔥

[@DEFINING]

@@nonhlanhlakhambule9375 we were thinking the same thing 🔥🔥

[@DEFINING]

#AskingForAFriend is Back with Gugulethu Nyatsumba & Nana Aikins🥂

[@thandiwe4971]

Yay🔥🔥🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@UncomfortableGrowth]

🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@modelnattalie3192]

Its good to see upenyu on camera😂 he was my high school crush

[@Bongani_RSA]

Listen Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected people should learn to communicate with their partner. I love how sex education was showing all relevant use-cases

[@dennisngango3527]

Exactly!

[@reamokoele9021]

It’s the ring on Bongani’s finger for me 🔥🔥🔥. I hope the team is taking notes 🌚

[@DEFINING]

Bathong💀💀

[@reamokoele9021]

@@DEFINING 😂😂😂 Bongani also wants to attend a wedding 🌚

[@DEFINING]

@@reamokoele9021 aowa!

[@dimples4915]

😹😹😹😹😹

[@TiisetsoPhalatse]

Loved, loved, loved this episode! There's so much to learn from this & I think my biggest take away is that people shouldn't be afraid to have conversations around intimacy, just as they would about the relationship holistically, because what appeals to me might not appeal to my partner (& vice versa) and you could be making your partner feel uncomfortable without knowing it. I can't wait for part 2! ❤️🥂

[@nkaisengmphomela]

Gugu, Dennis and Noma are just dropping gems💎✨🙌🏽

[@DEFINING]

We got you❤

[@Kutlwano_IVY]

These Conversations matter & are important!!! Definitely want a part 2!! Unpacking it soo well & having consensus 🙏🏾 truly definitive

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥺

[@lizziemur961]

For the third scenario I'd say place emphasis on healing.... To have a different experience that won't trigger and get comfortable to talk and wrap your head around healing process allows you to go through the process of building trust and confidence and taking back your power....... Take the journey of healing and your experience changes

[@DEFINING]

Thank you for this🥺❤

[@ntsakisingobeni]

Loved this episode, this type of conversations are very important.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Ntsakisi🥺🔥

[@TiisetsoPhalatse]

Stuck in a meeting so I currently can't watch but Notification gang, wassss' good?! Can't wait to watch this

[@DEFINING]

Good luck with the meeting, we'll see you soon 🥰

[@dennisngango3527]

Hope you're doing okay Tiisetso🥺❤

[@TiisetsoPhalatse]

@@dennisngango3527 I'm in a great place, an even better one now that you guys have graced me with your presence 😁❤️ I hope you're doing well, thanks xx

[@mnenentsele783]

Nana is so beautiful omg😭

[@DEFINING]

Right 🥺

[@shuliehasiciimbwe7540]

This was such journey. It was funny, informative, building and relatable. Love it.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Shulie! We're glad you loved it!

[@iamsimimsez146]

Bathong I’ve missed asking for a friend!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 best way to start it off with Gugu and Nana ❤️

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥺. Glad you enjoyed it🔥🔥

[@charmainesayi]

Noma is so well spoken❤️

[@DEFINING]

Very🥺🥺🥺

[@MonaeunderscoreZa]

Yaaaaaaas! Finally! You guys are back! Pupupuuuuuuu!!!!! Please invite More mpanza ( Sibu and hlehle)

[@DEFINING]

We got you🥺🔥🤌🏿🤌🏿

[@charlenedhlodhlo6109]

No man, Noma must open a 24hr hotline and talk to the nation. These gems 🔥 the wisdom 🙌🏽

[@DEFINING]

She really gives great advice 🙌🏾🥳

[@ongeziwevuyiswa7856]

Sex education outdid themselves with season 3... I missed u guys 😭, loved the episode 😊❤

[@DEFINING]

Honestly!!! Sex Ed is a top show. We missed you too❤

[@qnd_20]

:i am sooooooooo excited for this 🥺💓 thiiiiiissssss content is tooo liiit🔥🔥🔥🔥 Nomaaaaaaa mntase... urghhh, everything you said was just IT. Can't wait for part 2

[@DEFINING]

We're so excited for you to see it❤

[@itsnomacles]

I am very glad you enjoyed it 💕

[@olorato.mod.]

I ship Upenyu & Gugu plis abeg😍 I feel like they would have such a beautiful relationship ❤️

[@natashatee1942]

Gugu is so pretty 😭😍❤️

[@DEFINING]

Right🥺

[@lihlemngunyana3851]

HBD its so good to see you after so long,

[@DEFINING]

It's good to be back🥺❤

[@mookgomolisalife]

was literally thinking about y'all just the other day , welcome back hleng

[@dennisngango3527]

Thank you Mookgo🥺🤗

[@asavelamavika1591]

Welcome back Team🔥 this was so informative and yet entertaining!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Asavela 🥺🙏🏿

[@DEFINING]

With regards to scenario 1, Is it grounds for a breakup?

[@pride1178]

Absolutely

[@karabokgaswane21]

Definitely

[@atleemadiba1811]

Absolutely

[@zuks.n]

Again absolutely

[@thandokazijingisa6377]

Absolutely, no doubts!

[@elungi.r]

Love love love to see that the team is baaackkk🥺🥺♥️♥️

[@DEFINING]

It's good to be back Elungi 🥺🥺

[@EverHopeful555]

Crucial content!

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺🙏🏿

[@DK1original]

That first girl was most def disrespected there is no excuse for that type of behavior. doesnt even matter who was on the phone. Such a necessary conversation. cant wait for part 2.

[@DEFINING]

Exactly! Disrespect is disrespect! Can't wait for you to see it❤

[@sinathithembela3182]

WELCOME BACK!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you🥺🥺🔥

[@Soulcare_chats]

Yoooooo I’m so excited 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾just opened the video. I’m so happy to see you guys 🥺

[@DEFINING]

Hope you enjoy it🥺❤

[@DEFINING]

Have you watched Sex Education on Netflix before?

[@naledimbili1416]

Loved this conversation and how it was handled.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Naledi! Good to see you back ❤

[@Lanterns09]

Welcome back guys... we've missed you so😭💕. Can't wait for more uploads and my most favorite segment: Defining Love!!!

[@DEFINING]

Soon soon😅🤞🏿

[@lindiwekubu8846]

Look,You Guy's are just so Awesome...Like Literally ❤️🔥. Thank you D and Team.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Lindiwe🥺🥺

[@Sino_Williams]

Love love this...sooo much of the unspoken stuff which are sooo important. Defs the content I signed up for 👌🏾🌟❤️

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Sino❤🥺

[@mpoomzadube1429]

🙌🏽🙌🏽 you guys never dissapoint

[@DEFINING]

Thank you🥺🔥

[@nkaisengmphomela]

Bongani trying to justify this guy's nonsense of being on his phone while being intimate is genuinely upsetting. 😕

[@phiwelove]

Yoooh you can't let that upset you

[@blackwoman_015]

@@phiwelove I mean sometimes we just say things for argument’s sakes right🤷🏾‍♀️

[@mbonjiee3634]

Loveee😍😍😍Noma's sweater, the detailing is amazing.

[@skholiwezondi986]

Bongani's always playing the devil's advocate 😂

[@DEFINING]

Always😭

[@sihlesixaso985]

This was really interesting to watch. Thank you guys❤️!

[@DEFINING]

You're welcome🥺🤗

[@yotvlaaand]

i am so happy to be watching defining again! 😭😭😭❤️

[@DEFINING]

It's good to be back❤

[@ofentsemdk]

Great video. Important conversation around coercion and the trauma dealing with that. Keep up the great work!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Ofentse🥺❤🔥

[@asiamakhalima9230]

This was so good. Loved it. Waiting for part 2

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Asia!

[@sibabalodayimani7920]

I missed these episodes

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@annitam]

Welcome back guys!!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Annita🥺❤

[@ma_ncube]

Loved this video! Great vibes from the squad 🔥

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Dee🔥🙌🏿

[@athimapapu4367]

Loved the squad

[@DEFINING]

Danko🥺❤

[@akudzwemhangami]

SUPER EXCITED TO HAVE YOU GUYS BACK 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 as for “Hot Boy Denny” yes pleasseee😂😂😂🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥I know THATS right !!!

[@DEFINING]

Happy to have you back Akudzwe ❤️❤️

[@ashleysaunyama2972]

Love you guys. ❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@beeunderscore]

04:42 Bongani PLEAAAAAAAAASE. Nna, I’m biting you. You clearly don’t see me. It warrants a breakup, if you ask me. That is insulting. Your ex brooo? 💀 No ways

[@DEFINING]

Bongani will also find a way to out do himself Boipelo😭😭😂

[@lifeasitunfolds1847]

🥺kasemhle la bhuti weCap😭😭

[@DEFINING]

Panel details in the description box ;)

[@sinesiphosingata2104]

Bongani's intro is my fav😂🔥🔥

[@DEFINING]

It's fire fire fire😂🤞🏿

[@tamicamharapara3078]

Who else has finished Season 3 already>>>>okkrrrrr

[@dennisngango3527]

I wish I could watch the show for the first time again🥺😭. Did you enjoy it?

[@tamicamharapara3078]

@@dennisngango3527 Yes yes I definitely enjoyed every episode

[@DEFINING]

Loved it!

[@lungilehlubi]

enjoyed this episode, important conversations!! 🔥👏👏

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Lungile🥺🥺❤

[@lifebeingwendii2712]

Bongani always pulling through with the controversy 😂👏🏽 whoa sir. Missed it

[@busisiweab9123]

When she said he was on his phone i thought myb hes taking her a video without her knowing haibo texting his ex what a disrespectful man he is 🚮

[@DEFINING]

We didn't even think it was going this way😲😲

[@rosemsomi3771]

No way! This intro is absolute fire!!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you🥺🥺🥺

[@zonkenomnganga3140]

Yho I FULLY enjoyed this❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Zonke❤

[@siphiwengcebo8818]

Love the segment but there was some echo, only people in the front row were audible.

[@nonhlanhlatlhogi5204]

Yoh how I missed you guys shoooooo😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@DEFINING]

We're back 💓💓

[@reneilwemndawe7423]

Same sis, same🤒

[@kim121ful]

Valuable content ❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@thejourneywithPham]

This was fun to watch😊🙏🏽 also me running to Netflix rn to go watch this 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

[@DEFINING]

Enjoy😆🔥

[@thandokazimjaliswa4603]

I enjoyed this episode❤❤❤😍😍part 2 please

[@DEFINING]

Glad you enjoyed it🔥🤌🏿❤

[@Sino_Williams]

Also Defining should bring back Muchi for the babies 😍😍😍😍

[@DEFINING]

11:11

[@kyannaclaro4439]

Such a great idea wow!

[@DEFINING]

Thank you

[@simphiwengwenya4337]

haiiiiibooo kanjalo nje ?? ...24 minutes finished so fast ...!! as i wait for part 2 to drop :) :( ...

[@DEFINING]

😂 we're glad you enjoyed it🔥

[@eruditeebullient6388]

Please do this "asking for a friend" more often please.

[@DEFINING]

That's the plan🥺🔥🙌🏿

[@eruditeebullient6388]

Thank you so much because its really helpful🙏

[@princessbanana8048]

I can't wait for part 2 😊💫

[@DEFINING]

Thanks Princess

[@thixunamingcobo9820]

Love what you guys said about safe sex💐❤️

[@DEFINING]

Safe sex is great sex🔥

[@somahlekimberlymasumpa7070]

Hi, where is part 2 of this video, I cant seem to find it

[@TemosoChiloane]

Bongani is a whole mood, his energy is contiguous 😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Very!

[@charlenedhlodhlo6109]

Sanithandi ♥️🔥

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ceeceezvikaramba6983]

I'm with Noma & Gugu!! 🤣🤣 ndingayiluma inye lanto! 🙂

[@paballo3562]

Scenario 2 is one of the few times Bongani was not being controversial 👏

[@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297]

Sex is like a game of crazy 8. We all know the basic rules of the game but there are a few people who use J as jikeleza, Q for qhubeka, and Ace as checkmate or any card. Bottom line, for the game to be fun for everyone involved, respect me and what I bring to the table, let's make our own rules that work for our own game and safety, and for the love of all that is pure and pleasurable in this world, SWITCH OFF YOUR DAMN PHONE, MATE! Looking forward to part 2.

[@reneilwemndawe7423]

😩Bari "teach him" yho bathong, jwanong ke lesson plan for my gr.11's plus him 🤕. Tense😭.

[@motshabikgatitswe5293]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thapelo_x_tp]

This title had me before even pressing play😭😭😂😂

[@DEFINING]

😂😂😂

[@dennisngango3527]

Thanks for helping with the scenarios 🥺🤗

[@riazoliphant3493]

if we're keeping it A BUCK!!!!...Bongani has been a red-flag through this channel's entirety.

[@dennisngango3527]

"What if now the guy was already on the phone" 🤣😂🤣

[@DEFINING]

🤣🤣

[@molokoises]

Put your phone down

[@molokoises]

🤣😂😂😂😂

[@benjaminkemiso341]

Nana definitely looks like Angel from bbnaija shine ya eye🙆

[@dennisngango3527]

This was a dream collaboration with Netflix! I love Sex Education and it's honest portrayal of sex and relationships🤌🏿

[@naledimbili1416]

NOMA 🗣️🗣️

[@nothandongwenya9584]

Finally😍🥳🥳

[@dennisngango3527]

🥳🥳🥳

[@luluss1321]

Yho I missed this! 😭

[@DEFINING]

Welcome back Lulu❤

[@IamJoshDylan]

Can we talk about how he was texting his ex with in first question 🤣

[@DEFINING]

Thats the problem Josh😭😭🤣

[@wewemhlaba7593]

HBD...😂Hot boy Danny....We missed you

[@DEFINING]

Missed yall too🤣🤞🏿

[@mickyshila9945]

Guys where is couples phela???

[@rhulanimasia4822]

Signing in Quick fast 🔥🔥🔥😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Welcome!

[@liindela_]

Bongani choosing violence as always😂

[@DEFINING]

Always😭😭

[@cindymakete7223]

Bongani wampolaya waits😂😂