My boyfriend wants to know my bodycount! Can I say no??

This viewer asks if its ok to tell her boyfriend no when he brings up her body count? How should I go about this?
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[@onward-fp2fz]

Great advice and I agree the question won't go away If it's important to him what you say isn't going to change that. He has a right to ask just as much as you have a right not to answer. Personally I always ask. I want full transparency. If she doesn't want to answer that's fine no hard feelings she's just not for me

[@CoachMacMcCarthy]

Yes! You create your own expectations and morals in your own relationships. You can say no to answering, but there isn't a need to be offended by the question, that just breeds more curiosity. Stay Strong!

[@AnAussieinNorway]

She thinks she doesn't need to answer because of modern culture

[@jifeak]

Bad advice. Body count is private information that will be used against you no matter the number. The real questions should be: 1. Are you sexually responsible? 2. When were you last tested? 3. May I see a print out of those results? 4. Are you currently sexually involved with others? 5. Are you willing to get tested if/before we become sexually involved? Anything outside of these types of questions is low-vibrational and juvenile.

[@CoachMacMcCarthy]

Thank you for your detailed take. I always respect if someone isn't going to agree with something, that they have an alternative. Those are fair questions.

[@michaelmitchel3471]

Or you can ask one question that might answer all of that. If your getting in a relationship but also worried about privacy, good luck. If it were something super difficult like a parent passing, I would understand not talking about it for the first few months, but by asking this question, the guy just doesn't want to waste time.

[@ArGenTina_562]

@jifeak I agree with you 💯 💯💯 nowadays people ask questions like these because they want something to use against the other person when they are angry which is very immature and unloving. To be truly honest, if a woman or a man doesn't have a serious diagnosis of a disease or infection or virus if she/he is healthy then all the extra doesn't matter. If you're afraid of your lover having a large body count then marry you a virgin who will be untouched completely. Because if someone isn't a virgin, then they have some form of history with someone else sexually which the numbers can be high or low. But the same way that this woman or man wants a low body count then they themselves need to be what they want... Which is low body count for the two. No one is obligated to answer questions about their past that won't directly affect your life so if you're worried that they might give you something, have them checked out..and if they're fine proceed but if you're concerned about their past simply to judge them, then you were never the one for that man or woman anyway.