My Breast Reduction Surgery and Recovery Vlog - Answering All Of Your Questions!

[@Margaretcs0103]

You are doing women everywhere a great service. There are many reasons to decide to undergo plastic surgery of any type. Women need information and shared experiences. I had reduction on one breast because I had a huge chunk taken out of the other one due to cancer. I waited 13 years to do it….but I got tired of clothes fitting so poorly over my lopsided boobs. I’ve never had any regrets.

[@KivaBrent]

Margaret, I’m so glad that you made the right decision for you!!! Did you instantly feel better mentally after having the surgery? It’s so important that we share.

[@Margaretcs0103]

@@KivaBrent well….full disclosure…..I had a lower face lift at the same time…..so my face in all its bruised glory was more stressing than my one breast. And it wasn’t my first go around with breast surgery…at 38 I had a huge chunk of tissue removed and 17 lymph nodes. This was 1992 and now they don’t even do that! I was also older than you and my experiences in general made me less anxious. I had had a cesarean delivery of my daughter and the whole scarring thing was a non issue for me. You broke my heart when you were crying! But you made it out to the other side. And if I may say….you look marvelous!

[@marilynbrown4173]

It’s ok to ask for or need help You are making me cry. I pray you are doing well💕🙏🏾

[@nasevedodge]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤my girlfriend did this due to the strain she was feeling in her back Mind you she is slim person but her breast where way out of portion and causing so much pain She never looked back Hats off to you to make this decision and the love and support you are getting from your better half 🇨🇦💕👏🏾

[@vikkicholas729]

Kiva, I have been a huge fan of yours for awhile now. You are one of the most uplifting and gracious people on this earth in my opinion. I cannot stress how happy I am to see you beaming with joy. You go, girl!!

[@eamcbmsc]

I know this sounds crazy, but this will truly change your life. My breast reduction changed my entire opinion of my body. As soon as I recovered, I felt like a brand new woman. I could wear things I’ve always wanted, I could do things I’ve always wanted, I didn’t have crippling back pain! I wish I got it sooner! I wish you good health as you continue to recover!

[@arymhansie]

What size were you before and then after? Any pain after the surgery? How long did it take you to recover?

[@bellagreenbean]

eeeek i'm so excited it get mine in 2 months 🤭🤭🤭

[@Imani_Aaliyah__]

I’ve wanted a breast reduction surgery for a very long time. Reading your story is so inspiring and helpful. I’ve been told over the years by both family members (my mom/sisters) and by partners that my breasts are “fine” and that I should leave them natural. And I’m higher than a 36DDD. As much as I love the fullness of my breasts, over the years I’ve had to “keep up” with them constantly and it’s been quite hindering to my self esteem, confidence and overall outlook of my body. At the end of the day, as much advice as people can give they’ll never change what WE see in the mirrors. I’m finally buckling down and working on getting surgery.

[@arymhansie]

@@Imani_Aaliyah__ It is your body and you know the level of your discomfort, get your procedure done without worrying about what others say.

[@jaiahicks4918]

Factual I agree

[@BdaBarbie]

I got my breast reduction done June 2023 and it is by far the BEST thing I could’ve ever done. No more back or neck pain. I can wear cute bras. And My insurance approved and paid for mine in full.. my mommy and sweet man took care of me. Truly a blessing. 🙏🏾

[@mindy1898]

How did you get insurance to cover it???

[@arymhansie]

Lucky you, in the UK the insurance does not cover this.

[@pamelabrown5675]

I just Did my Reduction 6/24/24 and I’m feeling great pain is minimal #No drainage#My Insurance paid In full and my Dearest husband take care of me🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@pamelabrown5675]

Wish I could do a flog how great my surgery went with minimal pain😊

[@Mylifeisabookfunnyvidoes]

Mine is 10/3/24 I have no support and autistic 4 yr old I'm fn terrified but needed this my whole life I need this

[@Ashanitilli]

I’ve gone through this journey almost 9 years ago, going from a G to a C. I remember the first thing I did when I woke up: to assess if the surgery actually happened. When bandages and noticeably smaller breasts were located, I felt peace. The helplessness after the procedure drove me nuts, unable to help at the house, unable to go grocery shopping. My bras, with the zipper at the front, were so itchy. That was actually the most uncomfortable element I still remember clearly. In spite of all that, best decision ever. Just one regret, not having done it sooner.

[@KivaBrent]

This is the best summary of the experience. I couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m so glad I’m not alone in it and im elated that the surgery was transformative for you!

[@Ashanitilli]

@@KivaBrent You are not alone, and your feelings are completely valid. It is overwhelming. You fight with your brain when it tells you something is off when you look in the mirror (yeah well, that was the point…). You want to do all the things and try all the clothes but you can’t lift your arms, and anyway you get tired in no time. I get your meltdown. So much is happening but recovery is so slow and painful at times.

[@DsCurlsB]

I’m a G and want to be a C

[@Meikana_83]

I’m 44G and it’s almost impossible to wear a bra and go in public with my weight and my big boobs. I’ve been really thinking about this lately and really upset. I want to lose weight, but I can’t move without my boobs being in my goddamn way! I also want to look better and see my curvy waist when wearing clothes instead of being naked and pushes my boobs up and imagine what I’d look like. 😭

[@arymhansie]

Were you in any pain after the surgery? How many days did you take off work and when did you start getting better?

[@gingerhopkins5168]

So proud of you!!! As a physical therapist, I support this 100%. Women with large breast often have posture, back and neck issues caused by large breast. Regardless of those concerns, you should always feel empowered to do what makes you feel amazing! You have provided a platform for discussion. Keep the conversation good!

[@Imani_Aaliyah__]

Thank you for this!!

[@juliagriego7693]

My daughter had her breast reduction surgery a year ago. From day one she declared that it is the BEST DECISION she ever made!!! EVER!!! She’s so happy, her clothes fit so nicely. This is a great video and thank you so much for sharing your experience. 🎉❤

[@dboutier5636]

I wish someone had told you that for many people between three and five days after surgery a depression hits. It’s an after effect of the anesthetic for a lot of people. Just knowing that it’s going to go away is really helpful. (voice of experience here ) I am so glad that you did this for yourself. I always wanted to do it, but I didn’t think I should spend the money on myself. When I hit 70 I said yes I should do it, but then it was really kind of too late for medical reasons. People need to understand women don’t do this to look better, but to feel better.

[@haleyhefley2370]

I am almost 3 weeks post op and still going through derealization and depression :( When did that feeling go away for you??

[@marionandrews176]

Oh sweetie, you went through the whole emotional roller coaster with this one, which is totally normal. I’m so glad you got through it physically. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience.

[@nickisix2006]

This is the most raw authentic post-breast reduction surgery video I have ever seen. Your meltdown is more common than you realize so please don’t feel any kind of way. Thank you for your transparency and openness. It is greatly appreciated. Keep up the great work. Looking forward to more content from you.

[@Loud2013]

I'm so proud of you for making the right choice for yourself and fighting the stigma!! Your Body Your Choice 💯💯💯💯💯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!!

[@Sooz1234]

It takes a lot of bravery to come forward on KZbin and to speak about real life instead of superficial things. Thank you for the thousands of women who will be helped by your video, and for your continued strength with your health challenges.

[@galecrisci5569]

I had my surgery four days ago, at age 65, after procrastinating for about 30 years. This morning I saw your video and I burst into tears. It was like watching and listening to myself. Thank you for sharing, from Queensland, Australia.

[@pamelabrown5675]

I’m doing mines in a month and I’m worried any suggestions especially at your age ..That sounds great

[@jazzifashionsmore6699]

How are you feeling?

[@jazzifashionsmore6699]

@@pamelabrown5675me too June 13th

[@galecrisci5569]

@jazzifashionsmore6699 I feel pretty good and not in any pain. A little discomfort sometimes and that us when I take a paracetamol. I only had an overnight stay in hospital. They were fabulous.

[@galecrisci5569]

@pamelabrown5675 Just do it, especially if it's "functional" and not cosmetic. I haven't had any real pain to speak of, just a little discomfort. I have heard so many times women saying their only regret was not doing it years ago.

[@Aretha1963]

I want to leave a comment before I watch the meat of this video because I can’t believe the miracle gift it will be. I am one day away from my own surgery and I’ve not heard from anyone that’s been through this. Thank you.🙏🏾

[@anastasia10017]

there are a ton of YT videos done by women who have had breast reduction. Also on Facebook.

[@queenr.2586]

I’m 5 days away from my surgery! I’m so afraid that I want to cancel it! This video Kind of push to have it done! And reading all the comments gives me so much confidence! But I’m not lying I’m so afraid! I’ve 11 month baby!

[@alicewillscratchyou3371]

how is everything? I hope you’re happy with the results. If you don’t mind sharing the before and after size, I’m getting one too.

[@karlagomez-ui5ey]

Awww kiva 😢😭😭 you had me crying when you broke down 😭😭 I pray for a fast healing 🙏 😘

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you for your prayers! I feel so much better now.

[@kimdoughman5859]

The nipple pain and itching is no joke and can last for a few months after, i did not kno that. A year ago this month i had my procedure and i still get ocassional nipple pain and itching that seems to be more internal itching than actual external itching but what it has done for my confidence having my boobs sit up where they’re supposed to has elongated my torso, and I have a short torso and just made me feel better about myself and in my clothes and that is the wonderful feeling that you are able to experience and I am so happy for you👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤

[@KivaBrent]

Oh wow! A year? That’s good to know. Thanks for sharing that with me. I’m so glad you feel so much better about yourself! There is nothing better than that!

[@lirael423]

Same here. Some days it feels itchy under some of the incisions, almost a year after my surgery. Occasionally it hurts a bit. Still worth it.

[@striderstache99]

Thought I was the only one with that type of itch! Right at the incision. It's annoying but lessens over time. They are way less frequent for me and I got mine done in 2002. But they still happen every once in a blue moon.

[@shylo-jean]

Had it done, reduction and lift, going on 6 years now. Scars are barely visible and best decision I made for my body. Insurance paid and went thru a plastic surgeon. Was 36DD, NOW 34 B/C so happy!!!

[@denisegasparini64]

How much did they take out? I’m 36 DD/E and my insurance requires 500grams from each.

[@shylo-jean]

@denisegasparini64 1 1/2 lbs. EACH side 3 lbs total. Went from 36 DD to 34 B then increased over couple years to 34c and been that size for a very long time now

[@janhill3689]

I watched and cried with you as you related your feelings on day 5. I am surrounded by people my age having knee, hip, shoulder replacements, back surgery, etc. I think the medical staffs do not adequately prepare patients for the impact all the pain killers, antibiotics, anti-inflammatory drugs have on your emotions on top of the discomfort one feels. You were brave enough to take this on. I hope you feel better and better and better.

[@Snoopy-qe7kt]

I had this procedure about 14 years ago. Hands down the BEST decision I’ve ever made. Recovery was easy. I never needed any pain medication other than a few Tylenol the next day or so. Mostly I was tired. I took the week off from work and stayed at my sisters house so she could pamper me. I’ve always been a good healer but the end result’s surpassed my expectations. I have little to know scaring. The scars I have are pencil thin white lines. I was 51 when I did it. As long as you’re in good health it’s never to late to do it. You’ll never regret it.

[@ManipuraCentreCo]

I'm so proud of you, Sis, for taking care of yourself. I had a breast reduction 20 years ago and I don't regret it one bit. Your Day 5 tears reminded me of myself when I did the same. I was like "WTF did I just do to myself!!!" I was in so much pain at that point, but after that, it was smooth sailing and no looking back. Best decision I've made for myself & my body!

[@melissaf8332]

I was laughing and crying with you in all of the ups and downs. Having Lupus and having to stop meds for medical reasons is so hard to begin with. Sending all of the healing love and vibes. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all.

[@KivaBrent]

It was quite the roller coaster!! I totally understand. Do you get infusions too? Life without them is just so much more trying and uncomfortable. I hope all is well with you 💕.

[@melissaf8332]

@@KivaBrent I did Benlysta. I had to switch away from biologics due to side affects tho. Take the best care of yourself during this time as you can. Our Lupie bodies take longer than some others to heal, so also give yourself grace on needing help. ❤

[@newdawn7586]

Kiva, I'm so happy you are sharing. I've had a family member do this procedure...let me tell you she was so much happier. Good for you! Be well.

[@KivaBrent]

I’m so glad this was transformative for your family member! I really appreciate your support and kindness.

[@porscheamartin]

I had one at 19 and it was the best decision I’ve ever made regarding my body. I think it changed the trajectory of my life.

[@bellagreenbean]

im currently 19 and getting mine in a few months 😁😁 this makes me so excited

[@harparneetdhaliwal6222]

How much does it cost. ?

[@DakotaParker-cn3xg]

@@bellagreenbeanhow much is it, i might get one next year!!

[@bellagreenbean]

@@DakotaParker-cn3xg i live in canada so many ppl try to get it covered with the government but because i wanted liposuction it was more - around 9k

[@yvettejohnson-parker5291]

I know exactly what you are experiencing. I just had breast reduction surgery as well. I was advised for years to have a reduction. But had many fears. The back and neck pain got worse and worse every year. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore! I am now six weeks post op. I experienced all of your pain, emotions and thoughts. I had an excellent surgeon and my aftercare team is outstanding. I am so happy, I cannot express how the shame and anxiety has been lifted. Not to mention the immediate relief of my back pain. I thank you so much for sharing! 😊❤

[@divakingsley9020]

You’re going to get a ton of people saying that you should’ve get your breasts the way they were, or you shouldn’t be crying, that you should be thankful for your wife there to support YOU, it could be worse, etc…I am here to say that YOU have the right and freedom to feel whatever way that you’re feeling..sadness, fear, pain, etc…this is what makes you very transparent..showing us the true meaning of Your breast reduction journey. BTW the both of your Nails are Beautiful. I’m so happy that you are together and Max (I think that’s his name) is so cute. THANKS for answering the questions. THANKS for sharing your journey. ❤

[@PaulaCrisp]

I had a reduction a few years ago and it was the best thing I ever did. I jumped through the hoops to have insurance cover it. My PCP was amazing and knew the drill to get things documented so insurance accepted it! And you said this was elective ... I don't think it should be. It did so much for my back and mental health. I will say mine arent as perky as they were the first year after surgery...but I also put on a bit of weight. I went from an H to a DD....and now I'm back to a DDD...but I'm still happy. I told my surgeon I wanted a B and she said that want possible ... We were shooting for a D and hoping for a DD ...so that worked out. Even at a DDD I still feel small compared to what I was. Thank you for sharing! I bet you feel great! Oh... And the tears could have been coming off the medications after surgery.... That happened to me after my 2nd back surgery. I feel like tears are just part of the recovery process!

[@lindajames4922]

Oh Kiva, day 5 was so heart wrenching! As a mom I just wanted to give you a big hug and console you. So, so relieved day 6 was better! Thank you so much for being so transparent about the whole process of your surgery. You are absolutely glowing! ❤

[@robinsabo6932]

Thank you for sharing your journey and being so open and willing to share your emotional ups and downs. I cried with you. My surgery is scheduled for April 17. I wanted to get it done last year but chickened out. But now I am so ready to have relief from my back, neck pain and the discomfort of bras digging into my shoulders and under my boobs. I’m 70 yrs old ready for relief. You helped me feel like I’m making the best decision. ❤

[@scarlettehaynes4819]

You are such a remarkable woman! Putting yourself out there about such a sensitive subject, just wow! I know you have helped so many by sharing your journey! Thank you! (I was crying with you)

[@TGSHomeandGarden]

So proud of you for persevering. You have such a beautiful relationship with your wife. She loves you so, never think she feels any type of way about taking care of you.... SHE LOVES YOU.

[@ahainjay]

Your candor is so appreciated! All the physical ups and downs and results aside, I'm glad you allowed yourself the experience of letting others take care of you. I know you shared this was super hard and frustrating and that you felt like a burden because of your physical limitations during recovery, but I hope that releasing the mental and emotional weight of getting shit done and being a caregiver for a short time so that you could pour into your own care showed that accepting support for your long-term health and happiness is a gift to you and your support system because they love you! (I say this all as someone who at age 35 has only in recent years become somewhat OK with accepting help! ♥)

[@ros8986]

thank you for this update especially saying that you are ok (which is what really matters). Maybe consider sharing some of your health journey as that is very helpful to people.

[@KivaBrent]

I have an unlisted video on it! I can share it with you, if that would be helpful!

[@gerryberg5466]

I had a breast reduction 20 years ago. Small frame with DD breasts that caused 1” depressions in my shoulders and a lot of pain. I did this with the encouragement of my two daughters who had breast reductions for the same issues. Best decision I ever made for my health and wellbeing.

[@kathy8428]

Girl after all the swelling went down your face is GLOWING, glad everything went well and I hope your journey going forward that you will always have have that glow and the beautiful smile.

[@alisongardener4654]

It's like swapping from the family wagon to the sports car ! It was a courageous decision that you won't regret. You go girl 🥰

[@suescott5797]

OMG, I just wanted to give you a hug! Your DAY 5 made me cry with you but also made me laugh so hard! You talking about being isolated, even though you work at home alone, your breast size/stomach size dilemma, and the nipple pain scream. You are so funny! And then the big happy face on the opening of DAY 6, lol! I'm so happy for you. You are adorable!

[@annanderson2047]

My mother-in-law waited until she began to loose feeling in her arms (yes, that happens due to the weight of the breasts). Afterwords she said it was the best thing she had ever done for herself. Her one regret was not having the reduction sooner. You are going to love your body!

[@KivaBrent]

Oh wow! I’m glad she eventually took the plunge and got a much needed surgery!

[@arymhansie]

How old was she when she had the surgery?

[@jbridges9574]

I did it 15 years ago and I haven’t regretted it for a single second!! I’m so happy for you!!!

[@julieg4359]

I'm so happy for you. I had the same surgery last year and it's the best thing I've ever done. The freedom to wear things that fit and look good makes is all worth it.

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you! I’m happy for you, too! It feels so good to not have to buy a 2X shirt just because of my breasts.

[@londastreeter7269]

Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing. Don’t be ashamed of the meltdown. Your emotions are so raw after such an intense procedure. You look so happy.

[@srshaw11872]

I know how you feel. I got my surgery Feb 22nd. I'm at week 3. I had my breakdown on day 7😢. We can do it!!!

[@nanas._-_.]

Hope u ok❤

[@DakotaParker-cn3xg]

how much is it

[@kimdoughman5859]

So happy for u! Thank you for trusting us to share ur journey. Im proud of ya and i did the opposite of you and it was the best thing i did for myself. Thats the point, make decisions for your personal happiness, comfort & mental health. My niece had the same journey as yours and is soo happy😊❤

[@KivaBrent]

Yes!!! I love that you said that we should do what feels right for us. I’m glad your surgery was transformative for you, Kim! Thank you for your support!

[@carolewarrenrealtor]

Kiva, you are stronger than you know and PLEASE give yourself grace. Also, allow your spouse (an angel) to lovingly care for you, it's a gift, so accept and submit in the most loving way. YOU are truly an inspiration and took this moment to inspire, educate others ... taking it to the next level for sure. Finally, you my lady are never alone as "we" your followers always walk and make your lifes journeys with you. Never judgement ... just love❤. Stay blessed and oh yeah, pup-pup is cute too 😅

[@Goodworkstwo]

I just want to thank you, as a health care provider, as a fellow human in the struggle, and as a person that will be having that done this year for being so vulnerable and honest. I know that you don't know me and we've never met. But I am very proud of you for going forth and doing something for yourself and something to make yourself feel better in the long run.❤

[@fionamaclure6727]

Hi. I'm not one to post comments, but I just need to say Thank You so so much for posting about your breast reduction surgery. I have my first consult set for up this coming Monday. I've waited years to finally be ready to go for surgery to reduce my breast size (currently a 36K). My build is very similar to yours and I'm excited and nervous at the same time. Finding your video today is just what I needed!!

[@brunymoravcik4166]

I'm so happy for your decision - you are the most important person to take care of! Hugs to you!

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you ☺️

[@lauribrantley5658]

A procedure you’ll never regret. Way to go Kiva!!!❤

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!! 💕

[@dmgrosas]

Thank you for being vulnerable and brave. Not an easy journey.

[@thekawaiialien9810]

Loved the transparency! I'm glad surgery went well and that you're happy and healthy ❤❤❤ also, I think it makes you look even slimmer! Keep us updated please

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much! I will ☺️.

[@debbyalder4089]

That is so fantastic sweetie … my sister-in-law had the same surgery 20 years ago! It so helped her neck and back pain. Also buying clothes became so much easier for her as well. Hope your recovery continues to go really well! Lots of hugs ( gentle ones!!) 🤗🤗

[@virginiamoreland9059]

Oh, honey. I have been through this emotional roller coaster myself, so I was laughing and crying right along with you. I went from an I to a D cup three years ago. I had the random nipple shocks too! That was certainly a weird feeling when you're in the middle of the store. I didn't have drains, and then I had an issue with one section of my incision below my right breast not closing up and then one morning a huge amount of fluid gushed out. I had to go in and have the wound packed. Fortunately, it did then heal up ok. I also noticed that my smaller chest then made my menopause belly look way bigger. UGH! In the end, I am very happy and I wish I'd done it years ago! My insurance did cover it. I only paid about $3,000 out of pocket for the whole thing. So I do recommend folks check into that before self-pay. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@AngelaMashelle]

I had breast reduction about 10 years ago (and they're still sitting perky at 53years old ) and it was the BEST GIFT I could have ever given myself! I'm a size 4 and I was wearing a large top and size 4 bottoms. I HATED the way I looked in clothes and I would do it all over again in a second. I too had a day where I was in so much discomfort that I cried all day but it was still worth it. Congratulations and It' going to be fun shopping for new bras!

[@barbaracallwood9220]

Thank you for putting yourself out there with this beautiful, candid video. I helped my son when they had top surgery during their transition, so I have a pretty good idea what you went through. I wish our health care system would recognize that these “elective” procedures are as necessary for the emotional health of patients as other procedures can be for our physical health. Thank you again and good luck.

[@lindabaresich1934]

Had this surgery 2.5 years ago and I’m thrilled! The “zingers” will lessen and disappear shortly. Stay strong!

[@KivaBrent]

They’ve dissipated already, thankfully! Thanks for your kindness, Linda!

[@Justjadeeee]

I just recently got a breast reduction 2 days ago, and although I am in pain I just know this is a decision that’s going to make me EXTREMELY happy with my results once I heal

[@maginsberg9465]

I have upmost respect for you, sharing such a personal journey. You are helping countless others to have courage. Love ya kiva. You look fantastic!

[@Karen-DeMars]

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and letting us see everything you went through. That was amazingly generous of you and so incredibly helpful. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mztronnie1975]

I was Crying my eyes out. I'm so happy u feel better, you look amazing 👏🏿

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much 🥹💕

[@anncourter7079]

Good for you!! I've known several women who have had this done and they've all been very happy with it. No matter how you feel about your breasts, a change to your body like this can be a very scary thing to consider - I applaud your bravery. You look really good and it helps show off the hard work you've put in to lose weight.

[@user-EinsteinSarge]

Good for you!! So happy you are sharing your experience, there will surely be many that can relate & you will inspire.

[@shelleycoleman1760]

I had this surgery 20 years ago and it was the best decision. It is not just cosmetic surgery, it improves your health. The pain, discomfort and other side effects from having large breasts is real. I do not recall pain or too much discomfort from this procedure. the drains were the biggest hassle. Congratulations on making this decision to improve your health. You will not regret this!

[@estherstephens1858]

Wow, Kiva, I am so proud of you for making this decision AND for sharing something so personal with us. Of course we noticed/would have noticed but it’s not something most ppl would ask. I laughed and cried with you. I know exactly what you mean as far as being completely independent. Not only was that surgery important to you for your overall feeling about yourself but also for future physical aches and pains. The pain you felt PRIOR to your surgery is nothing compared to what you would have felt later in life. God bless you! Praying for a speedy recovery. You’re doing amazing!!!

[@gailfenander223]

KB, you are amazing!! You look great!!!! I've known 3 gals who had this done, and what you're going thru is normal. When you come thru the other side, you'll find yourself wondering why you didn't do it sooner! Keep up the positive attitude and happy shopping!! God bless. ❤❤❤

[@katherinekelly5380]

A friend of mine decided to have breast reduction surgery aright after high school - she was pretty slim but she was extremely well endowed and found doing any sports very difficult, even wearing multiple sport bras. Finding clothing that fit was also a major challenge. 40 years later and she is still so happy she did it. Good for you!

[@02270626]

no judgment! Had it done years ago and the relief was instantaneous. I can also relate to your breakdown, but I hope you continue to recover quickly (it takes time). Also, I hope this makes you realize how okay it is to rely on others who love you just like they rely on you. Take care!

[@shondab3177]

Kiva, thank you for sharing such a personal story with your viewers! I have to admit when you were crying, you made me cry. I am such a wimp when I see other people in pain but I'm glad you made it through the surgery, the recovery and the postop. You look much happier and I couldn't be more proud of you following your heart and doing the darn thang. 😄Take care! 💞

[@inhairitancestudio6108]

You are so strong. Thank you for being so vulnerable. I’m so glad I watched and I’m so proud of you. Thank you for being transparent.

[@aishaanderson04]

I got mine done 4/19/24 reduction and lift. I didn’t need drains. Went from G cup to C cup. My husband and children is everything helping me out. I’ll have a home care nurse come twice a week and occupational therapy once a week. Awwww I feel for you. ❤❤

[@WomanRoaring]

I had a breast reduction in October 2022. I am so glad I did it. I was a 46J cup, I was smaller when I was younger but I was still very large but every time I took medication that made me gain weight it went straight to my chest. I was a C cup at 20 and over time kept growing. Even when I lost weight they didn't get smaller. They were so big that i couldn't put my arms down. I looked like those guys who want to look super buff and walk with their arms out, thats what i looked like. I am now a D cup and wow it's so much better. The first thing I realized when I woke up was i was breathing and I didn't feel it. The doc took 6lbs off my chest! So it's been just over a year and I still am so happy I did it. I don't feel weighed down, they were so painful when they were natural, my back is also not hurting like before, my chiropractor was like, i'm totally for you getting a reduction! About 6 months later is when I was the size I am now, I was still swollen for a long time but the initial swelling went down after like 4 weeks. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made. My hubby was totally supportive as well, when we were dating he said, oh they're a little big, lol, men usually don't say things like that haha. It was nice that I had his support, i would have done it anyway but it's still nice. I recommend it to everyone who's thinking about it. I waited until I did because I wanted to have a baby and breastfeed and I did and after I stopped breastfeeding they got bigger! so I was like, ok it's time. 0 regrets! 100% happy with having a smaller chest!

[@63Lsp]

Congratulations - you look fabulous🎉Your reflections about accepting help were so so good. We're all going to rely on others for help now or in the future. I've found that others want to help - and some learn new things along the way😊Asking for (and graciously accepting) help honors their abilities to support you and honors your acceptance that you matter and are uniquely important regardless of physical ability. You're awesome - thanks for sharing the journey💜air hugs from Oregon

[@msaijay1153]

Not me crying with you... You're so brave 🥹 and your spouse is so supportive. You are doing beautifully.

[@beckstheimpatient4135]

Oh gods now I'm crying, you sweet sweet person. Thank you for sharing this. The guilt of not being able to do what you usually do, the guilt for making your partner just FULLY take care of you, I get it. I think it's one of the things nobody ever really talks about with post-op treatment, with changing medications all that shit. You're doing amazingly and trust me that sharing this helps so many of us who are struggling with healing, recovery, or chronic illness. Stay safe 🌈

[@AlfieDog4]

Oh my gosh I felt that meltdown- you have really been on a roller coaster of a journey but you look amazing and you rocked that recovery! ❤

[@Magalie-ei4ri]

Congratulations! You look great! I will agree that being full breasted takes a toll on your self-esteem, in addition to the back and shoulder pain. My heart broken seeing your sadness and feeling alone. But look how far you've come. Congratulations again! I am going on 3-weeks pos-breast reduction surgery. I think every state is different. My insurance covered 100% of my treatment. I had just under 5 lbs of bread tissue removed. It is interesting how different surgeons recommended different recovery practices. I cannot lift more than 5 lbs for 4-6 weeks but take it easy for a good 2-6 months, listen to my body. No ice or heating packs. Only wash wounds with finger tips, no loofahs or wash cloths. Massage wounds and breast 2-weeks post surgery with vitamin e or lotions/oils of choice.

[@corina6772]

The post surgical breakdowns are so real! I cried after every surgery I’ve had 😂 do lymphatic massages to get rid of hard areas under arms

[@karenrapoport7852]

Congratulations you look radiant! You are clearly such a giving person in your profesional life, on your channel (seriously I’m addicted to your videos right now) and in your personal life. So it makes me happy that you decided to do something for YOU to make YOU happy. You look beautiful❤

[@MmeO]

You broke my heart crying....it's going to take time...Babe loves you - she understands!!!! Thank you for sharing this very honest experience - so many women will be impacted by your discussion.

[@TamarLitvot]

Many years ago, a colleague of mine did this. She had chronic back pain because of her breasts and the breast reduction surgery made a huge difference in her life. You shouldn't be embarrassed about doing this -- you did what was right for you and it is already enhancing your life. Bravo for talking about it here -- other people may find the courage to do this or take a similar step because of you.

[@my3sneezes]

I haven’t even watched your video yet but it’s on my watch list. I have my BRS in 2003. It was THE BEST THING I ever did for myself. Congrats and wishing you all the best in your healing. I have never regretted it a day.

[@spacelunacorn]

Thank you so much for this. I am 8 days out from my own reduction, and seeing the full spectrum of your emotions during recovery has actually made me feel less nervous for this. You look so light and happy.

[@PlantmomjoyMD]

Keva, my heart dropped and I literally came to a standstill mentally on my couch watching Day 5 OMG. I teared up with every word you said. You truly set aside the content creator and let us into so much of your personal space. Brave and Strong were my greatest impressions. AMEN this episode of your life ended with big smiles and so much happiness for you. Loved your Q & A as well. Continued healing prayers for you. You are truly something else 🌹. God bless 😉.

[@georgemohr7532]

Wow! What a wonderful thing you have done for so many others. Yes, I am a male and I don't have to worry about super sized breast. Although I do have man boobs after being on hormone therapy for prostate cancer. It takes a lot to emotionally adjust to changes in your body appearance after these life events. You are a very brave woman. Also, it is great that your partner is supportive of you being so vulnerable on You Tube. Heroines!

[@Aretha1963]

I watched this video a few days before my surgery. Thank you. I don’t have anyone helping me out so it helped to watch you go through the emotional waves. I gave myself permission to sit around. It’s only been 6 days. I don’t regret doing it. In fact it’s the first time it was suggested to me after one back surgery that didn’t help. So blessed to have my insurance cover it. But I can’t deny the pain! Seeing you cry is helping me adjust. It gets better.

[@amytaylor4209]

I am post-op reduction day 5, I have decided not to take any pain meds (Oxy/Tylenol) due my adverse reactions. Watching your video and your journey made me decide to schedule my surgery. I have wanted this done for 10+ years. All I can say is WOW! Shoulder and neck pain was completely gone upon waking up and anesthesia wearing off. Major bruising as expected and discomfort under breasts. 415cc taken out (insurance said at least 370cc had to come out for them to cover the whole thing). I am 5'3", 135lbs. Was 36E, wonder what they will look like a month from now. THANK YOU for being so open about your healing process, it has helped me emotionally and physically! OH... I can see my feet and belly button!!!

[@wendydaniels8618]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and transparent Kiva. You didn't have to make this video, but I know that you have encouraged many by sharing your experience. I'm happy you're healing quickly and you're happy with your new body. I hope your recovery continues to go well and that you will be painless as soon as possible.

[@vegrunner6688]

I normally don't approve of crying on the internet, but you were right to show the whole journey....your emotions run all over the place, particularly when it's an elective surgery. I am so happy for you that you were able to add this little bit of quality to your life. I really enjoy your presence on youtube....best wishes for your continued health journey.

[@adrianaberkley7982]

Thank you so much, Kiva, for sharing. I am 2 weeks away from my surgery, and just by watching your video, I am less anxious and more at ease with what's to come. Thank you for all the tips and pointers and recommendations. I much appreciate your candor. I pray you heal well and continue on your health journey.

[@samanthaleigh805]

I had this surgery and it was one of the best decisions I have ever made! You are incredible!! Love your vulnerability in this video ❤

[@KivaBrent]

I’m so glad!

[@r-anne7375]

It broke my heart to see you cry. After watching until the end, I'm sorry that you had to go thru the surgery but in the end , Im so happy for you that you are happy and feel better about yourself. Go girl !

[@meepmeep5223]

Thank you so much for posting such a vulnerable time in your life, it couldnt have been easy and I appreciate your honesty more than I could ever convey. I'm getting the procedure done in the next few months and I'm honestly really afraid of the entire ordeal. My surgery isnt until July but the build up is already intense and I just want to cry and back out sometimes. I definitely wont but Ive never had a surgery involving stitches and the recovery, going under, being cut up and stitched back together, and possibility of infection is honestly so scary to me that I can even feel the lump in my throat as I type this. Its crazy to me that you posted this only two days before I went in for my own consultation, have almost exactly the same body type, had the same chest shaoe and size as me preop and your initials are also KB. I dont personally believe in fate but its almost like something is telling me that this will go okay but I do wonder what you did to eleviate some of the jitters and anxiety if you felt any at all. I'm honestly so so scared.

[@michele5948]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I am having mine done next month, and I am excited but terrified at the same time. I have had neck issues for several years now, but was just never brave enough to even consider this! But now that the neck issues have turned into constant pain every day, I just knew it was time. You're video has helped me tremendously!!! Thank you!

[@alicemichaelis9468]

My surgery is in a couple of days and I have absolutely no one to support me through this process. I’m so happy yet envious that so many do have someone. I don’t have money to hire anyone either and my insurance won’t cover an inpatient stay. I can’t wait till this is all over. I wish I weren’t cursed with these in the first place.

[@tiffanyb6420]

Oh Kiva! I bawled when you broke down, but I’m so happy you are recovering well. Sharing this process will inspire many women. Blessings to you 🙏🏽🤗

[@MizzBeng]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey! Here's a hug that I wanted to give you on Day 5: 💞 My surgery is in two weeks, so wish me luck!

[@nancyevans1278]

You were beautiful before surgery, and you are even more beautiful now. Congratulations for making such a monumental decision which will be a game changer for your back health and for your self esteem. You and your wife are so very lucky to have each other, and it's wonderful that you were able to force yourself to accept her assistance and support.

[@megibug]

I’m SOOO HAPPY for you!!!🎉 I did the same thing (no drains tho) and it changed my life. I just could t be more thrilled for you❤️

[@KivaBrent]

No drains?! I’m so jealous. I’m glad it changed your life!!! That’s wonderful!

[@megibug]

@@KivaBrent It will change your life too, Kiva, and you deserve it💕 Such an amazing feeling of freedom!🥲 (Yes, my surgeon doesn’t believe in drains… I was so grateful🥹)

[@sissyco8256]

Kiva, I love this for you and I'm glad your feeling yourself! Keep loving on you✨

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!!

[@DebraNorman-22]

So Proud of you❣️ I’m about to take this journey and I’m 63. That’s why I searched KZbin for breast reduction. I haven’t seen your other videos but already know you are a bright and wonderful person! I was on the emotional roller coaster with you, Maybe you are a bit in morning because of the loss of part of your body. Even though it causes us pain and other issues The boobs are still a part of us and we’re letting some of that go, I’m older and have had mine longer and it could be quite the adjustment. But that could be just a bit of your emotion.

[@rosech0senOne]

Yay Kiva!!!! So so so so happy for you! Im one year post-reduction and I’ve never been happier!!!! I was so tired of having large, heavy sandbags lol. I went from an E to a full B, small C. And im soooooooooo happy. Less back pain and shoulder pain, shirts and sweaters fit. Thank you for sharing your journey❤

[@lyzzacruz]

I am going for my surgery next month. I just woke up in the middle of the night because I was suddenly anxious so I decided to look up some videos. Thank you for filming your experience and answering so many questions, I am feeling so much more calm now.

[@niecee2196]

You look wonderful, Kiva!!! You're rockin' it... congratulations!!!🎉❤😊

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!!