I had a normal delivery five years back .Now i am planning and the next one i will go with c section.Because i went through a hard time and I struggled with the pain for two days and its a nightmare for me now.The fact is true normal delivery is natural but my mental health is very important during pregnancy rather than impressing others with my pain bearing talent.And people are talking about the pain after c section but no body is talking about the pain of normal delivery which is 1000 more than c section pain.I am not promoting c section just writing my experience .Because i already experienced vaginal delivery with epidural and don’t want to experience it again.The final thing is we want healthy baby thats it.And again with normal delivery vaginal stitch pain was horrible i couldn’t sit properly for 2 weeks.So im thinking of c section for the next one.Even my husband and mother is also supporting me since they were with me during my first delivery and the saw howmuch is struggled.And one fact nobody knows howmuch pain I experienced and nobody can compare their pain with anyone’s else.
@simmiishaikh593 жыл бұрын
I had same experience
@jyotisharma-er5hh2 жыл бұрын
Will doctors agree easily for planned c section
@85bano2 жыл бұрын
@@jyotisharma-er5hh they try to council u but if you don't want it than they do it, in Pakistan government hospitals don't do elective c-section even they don't give epidural, but same doctors can do elective c-section in private practice and they don't force you for vgnl delivery..... This is what my doctor told me....
@ahmadkureshi9776 Жыл бұрын
Apki dilivery ho gai kya
@ahmadkureshi9776 Жыл бұрын
Ho gai kya apki dilivery
@foodglobber Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am 35 weeks pregnant today and going for c section. Feeling anxious and overthinking a lot. This video made me calm and better 😊
@aemanfarooq67253 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for making this video. Its so damn relatable with my experience, I was unable to deliver normally and so opted for C-section but till I get to hear abt y u went for c-section. Uptil now I was lyk there must be some problem with me as all are able to deliver naturally except me. It just so good to hear that it is okay to feel scared of natural birth ❤️❤️
@kyipasbeautyminati41723 жыл бұрын
I went for c section too....people are torturing me with this question why i didnt go for natural birth....
@PriyaDharshini-xt1qp2 жыл бұрын
Same prblm for mee
@sarmi19932 жыл бұрын
Always beat the person who ask this question
@tanvichopra76752 жыл бұрын
Oh.. Don't you worry girl. I am also on same boat. And experience was super.
@meerar59512 жыл бұрын
Jaimy, i went for an elective c section 20 days before. I was also scared about normal delivry and yeah, its not the best, and after learing about the possible risk factors for both Normal and C section deliveries, i requested for c section to my doctor and had the same. Trust me, i consider it as the best decision, i was stress free, it took 15 mins, to see my baby, all went well, the after pains was bearable and it went in 3 days, in my case. Time had changed and a surgery is not a nightmare.. And i watched ur video before my delivery, and felt confident. Thats why i came back here to say this.. thank you 😊
@ambreenmugal80302 жыл бұрын
Are you serious 😐😒😑😳
@roseyle9923 Жыл бұрын
R u serious, if u can giv virginal delivery then why c section......today's girls are so weak thy even not try ........tavi to rape karte he kuch long
@abhipsahota12282 жыл бұрын
Omg. I am feeling like u r reading my mind. I too did the same and there was a mixed feelings of guilt and regret in my head all these days and finally i found ur video. And i am relaxed now.. thank u 💓 💗 💖 💛
@bandbajaweddings2 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of love ❤️
@priyankasahu47842 жыл бұрын
I m having same problem
@Maitreeeedas3 жыл бұрын
This video helped me a lot. I was soooo stressed. Thank you so much. Pray for me. I wish I too can have a smooth delivery 🧿🙏❤️
@Dey27.3 жыл бұрын
Please tell me is there unbearable pain after delivery in C - section???
@parvathyp41523 жыл бұрын
I had a c- section, and has no pain at all. I'm afraid of normal delivery.
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
You didnt feel any pain at stiches?
@parvathyp41523 жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings yes stich has pain and discomfort.but that is tolerable
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@parvathyp4152 will spinal injection hurt
@parvathyp41523 жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings no.
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@parvathyp4152 do u have any patch on u after surgery means did they put any patch at ur shoulder after surgery I heard from someone
@megansampson54453 жыл бұрын
I'm a c-section mom and I have a fear of both c-sections and natural delivery ahahah I just want the baby. I'm on my third baby and still scared preparing for my planned c-section. I have c-sections because the first baby was emergency c-section so the following births I did planned c-sections. BUT forever either option is scary :*( ahaha
@jyotilakshmi44432 жыл бұрын
how are you ? do you have any bowel movemrnt problem or pain ?
@satinderkaur22912 жыл бұрын
C section long run mein disturb krta hai kya pls tell ?
@javeriayounas Жыл бұрын
If you have a fear, how did u manage to plan kids?
@safiyas.25463 жыл бұрын
Girl you’re right, our society can’t mind their own business. Everyone has some shitty comment, good on you for making a choice that you were happy with! It’s your body, I had an emergency c section as my water broke and they give only 24 hours to dilate. Epidurals are mostly safe and doctors in Canada are amazing! No scars for life or anything, I can’t even see my scar lol The next one I’m thinking of planned, not vbac. Let’s see! Who knows hun? Thanks for sharing! And you do you!
@nathanialsherveen13103 жыл бұрын
Even I had c section how there is no scar
@safiyas.25463 жыл бұрын
@@nathanialsherveen1310 the scar is there obviously but it’s barely noticeable, my doctor did an amazing job of stitching me up really nicely. I can’t even tell where it is!
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@nathanialsherveen1310 whats ur experience ?is it painfull pls reply
@ayeshaahmed4845 жыл бұрын
People don't talk about these things on air but You are educating women I really appreciate your effort😃
@bandbajaweddings5 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much Ayesha.. yea..I took some time for me also to let it out...that's u I wanted to talk abt this
@bandbajaweddings5 жыл бұрын
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@mostofask66792 жыл бұрын
@Raji Radhakrishna didi believe me surgical delivery may sometime become more complicated than normal.
@aditisrivastava8325 жыл бұрын
Its perfectly normal to have such thoughts, love. Have an amazing parental life. I am glad that you take all the major decisions by thinking about them yourself and dont follow the norms. Please, make a video on how you gather the strength to make a decision and stand by it. Much love!
@bandbajaweddings5 жыл бұрын
Hi Aditi... thank u soo much😘...that means a lot🤗
@duzhefuq4 жыл бұрын
I fell I love with your mindset. I really was going through a tough time about this and thank you for clearing my doubt.
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much ananya..M really happy i was able to be of atleast one bit help to you:)..I knew how i felt back then..It was a big emotional turmoil..And i really felt it was important to put this feeling out there ...U take care:)..Lots of love:)
@Remaz_r54 жыл бұрын
I was scared ..but my c.section was not pain full🙏
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
At stiches you didn't feel pain plss tell me
@Remaz_r53 жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings well I didn't know that would happen coz I did expect pain ... that's unexplainable
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Sorry I wont understand what u are saying.u feel pain in stiches or not
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@Remaz_r5 sorry I wont understand what u are saying u feel pain or not
@Remaz_r53 жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings I did not feel pain at the stiches
@keyurengineer Жыл бұрын
Meri behena, aapko full support and respect, thanks for sharing the information with us.
@bandbajaweddings Жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much
@thenityasworld18044 жыл бұрын
Wow....very motivating n honest video...m too goin thru d same....i have elective c section day after tomorrow...it ws my decision coz i too am scared of the normal delivery pain...so planned for c sec...hope its gonna b ok....luved ur video ❤
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much jyoti....hope you and baby are keeping well.lots of love😘
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Whats ur experience ?is it painfull pls reply
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@bandbajaweddings Hi jaimi .You didnt feel any pain at stiches after anesthesia?Is there any pain when we try to sit first time and walk pls tell I have same phobia like u
@ArchanaSingh-hc5cw2 жыл бұрын
I had face the same problem, but opted c- section. Now I am happy.
@supriyasaha89962 жыл бұрын
I am not married yet, and for the fact I know , I will marry after 6,7 year ( because of graduation and post graduation 4+2). And I am so scared of having a baby after marrage. I have seen some videos on the internet how baby born normally , and its so scary. And in normal process also, there are a cut done near the vagina. So I am totally mentally prepared for a C section.
@nazneenkhan43982 жыл бұрын
Same😂
@desidelicacy4452 жыл бұрын
No go for normal, after c-section delivery pain is immense.🙄
@itsmyworld1052 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@nehusharma34602 жыл бұрын
I wanted to have a natural birth but instead I ended up having a c section two months ago , everything went well but because I delivered a daughter , it shook my inlaws and I had to go through a lot of mental and physical stress but I believe this hard phase will soon end in my life and yes I too believe if mother is happy , satisfied with c section birth then she will heal quicker unlike me who had to go through a lot of mental stress 😭
@dipsy241 Жыл бұрын
First of all you have married in the wrong family. Love should not be gender based. It’s your child. Your love for the kid is divine. Don’t give a damn to you in laws, they should have gotten married their son to a man instead of a girl if they never liked girl in the first place. Also a woman only gives birth, but the sex is determined by the man who transfers the X or Y chromosome into the woman. They don’t seem to be educated hence better educate them or just leave those illiterate foolish people and enjoy your phase and live your life to the fullest and be happy. Your happy should be based solely on yourself which you would be getting from your kid. Your happiness should not be based on their happiness.
@nehusharma3460 Жыл бұрын
@@dipsy241 Now everything is Ok . My husband supports me but he wasn't present at the delivery time due to his job My mother in law made a blunder mistake and now she realized that how wrong was she .
@bindubindu11493 жыл бұрын
I used to cry because I got c sec,but after seeing this video....Iam feeling happy,thanku mam
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Why u cried mam.Is it painfull?
@juthikamallick2 жыл бұрын
Even i cried for days after c section
@manisha785642 жыл бұрын
Pls dont get motivated by such videos normal delivery is painfull but it is way safer dan the cesarean. My doctor made a forceful c section made me and my husband scared after 3 hours of me going into labour pain told us babys heart beat has gone low so v had to give him permission for c section. He just did it for money because my husband was suppose to get claim from his company. While cutting my belly and utrus they cut my urinary bladder and they dint know where i was bleeding from. It took 2 nd half hour to call the senior most doctor to find that cut all this time i was bleeding they dint even tell us after dis wat was the matter they kept me on bed sleeping position only with saline and no food for 6 days my veins of both hand had become hard, they put catheter and a half foot drain pipe into my stomach while taking out the drain pipe it was so horrible dat i cannot explain u'll doctor just pulled the drain pipe from the hole which they made in my tummy and i was screaming. Dan i had no feeling of passing urine at the time of discharge and dis continued for almost 2 years. Dan i was constipated because i dint eat for 6 days, gas dis dat it was hopeless situation for me. Constipation gave me piles problem which im suffering till today. So ladies think twice before going for cesarean if u dont have a choice dan only go for cesarean.
@guriaguria334 Жыл бұрын
But after Norma delivery I also faced severe constipation and piles issue along with stitches healing issue, my stitches were opened my verginal cut was opened again I suffered from constipation, piles and stitches issues after a long hours labour pain
@naziakhan81444 жыл бұрын
You are so honest and ur reviews gave me more confidence THANKYOU❤
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you nazia...lots of love♥️
@laurentozer98452 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. I am 5 weeks and ALREADY terrified of natural birth. My mom and husband didn't understand. I did think I was alone!
@anonymous-yq4wc Жыл бұрын
Every doctor or research will say that a natural delivery is better for both the mother and the baby if everything is ok. Do you even know that because the baby goes through vagina it gets coated with microbes which provide immunity to the baby. Mothers like you are really a shame
@ashveenkauranand89544 жыл бұрын
Thank you yes even i could not manage normal delivery. I had this fobia after c section that my entire body will face issues. Lets see its been 2 days . I hope everything goes well. Thank you for making this vedio. Waheguru jee sab theek kar de.
@radhekrishna91043 жыл бұрын
How do you feel now
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
How u feel after c section?
@Aksha-r7t3 ай бұрын
@@TheSaggiGirlsTarot Normal delivery or c section
@Thakuraain_Saumya3 жыл бұрын
I am pregnant n this is how i feel all the tym n i am planning for a c section.
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
When is ur due date?
@musicmantra65743 жыл бұрын
Who was your doctor? Which hospital and city?? He or she gave you a painless experience. That in itself is a Miracle.
@nrajaaa3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the vedio, yes as you said there are many people out there wanting to know if it is ok to make a choice, particularly in India where women often do not have a birth plan unlike in Foreign countries, and where Doctors refuse to do it stating it to be risky. Making an informed Choice is essential irrespective of the mode of delivery.
@mysmallworld61032 жыл бұрын
For more information u can have a look on this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/a17WqaGlhrp0nqM
@divyats18183 жыл бұрын
Same feeling I am having ..even I am feeling as you....I can't prepare mentally for normal delivery...So am deciding to go for c section delivery.
@PriyaDharshini-xt1qp2 жыл бұрын
Meee aslo dr...
@mysmallworld61032 жыл бұрын
For more information about c section watch this video here kzbin.info/www/bejne/a17WqaGlhrp0nqM
@mysteryman56312 жыл бұрын
This vedio in soo mind relaxing ..bcz I'm due in Dec but cannot mentally prepare for normal delivery
@mysmallworld61032 жыл бұрын
Dear you can watch this video here kzbin.info/www/bejne/a17WqaGlhrp0nqM It would help more for taking mental preparation of your delivery. Have a nice day 😊
@nishayadav56522 жыл бұрын
Normally or c section
@mysteryman56312 жыл бұрын
Normal delivery but very bad experience.. suffering a lot after delivery .my pelvic muscles become weak and have severe pain ..hope to become well soon 😔😔
@Aksha-r7t3 ай бұрын
Congratulations sis Mine 2 also c section emergency im feeling guilty that c section done .but so many people normal people bcom normal how is ur health now
@shamiyahussain37764 жыл бұрын
Am an expecting mother, I too want a c section, am really scared of normal delivery
@Shakibask54 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ankitasomanbhavsarvlogs93464 жыл бұрын
Me too
@shamiyahussain37764 жыл бұрын
Ankita Soman don’t worry I had a c section 44 days ago.. now am absolutely fine.. my decision was right...🤩
@Shakibask54 жыл бұрын
@@shamiyahussain3776 and how many days it will take for recovery. I m 4 months pregnant. Normal delivery ka sun Kar dar jati h. It's my first baby
@shamiyahussain37764 жыл бұрын
s sheikh actually recovery rate according to each person.. for me very next day of surgery I started walking and capable to do my own activities.. for me the pain of incision was bearable. Soreness of incision will remain upto 2 weeks
@abii1973 жыл бұрын
All this happened with me..I scared from normal delivery.so I decided for C-section...now my baby 6 month old..but after c section I have back pain problem 🙂🙂🙂🙂
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Do u feel any pain after anesthesia at stiches pls reply
@sawantsawant96153 жыл бұрын
Its coz of ur sitting posture post birth
@sarmi19932 жыл бұрын
Simply kill your partner
@sarmi19932 жыл бұрын
If he objects
@itsmyworld1052 Жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings no pain at all
@georginamaria2031 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I've got so much anxiety about giving birth. It's nice to hear of someone having a pain free birth after hearing so many horror stories.
@hannahb703811 ай бұрын
...She may not have had to go through a painful labor and vaginal delivery, but do you really think getting 7 layers of fat on your abdomen cut through would be painless once the pain meds wear off? Come on...
@arlenekallah93013 жыл бұрын
Ladies I had two kids - 1) c section and 2) normal delivery. Both options are correct - as a mother we have to make a choice to bring the baby. Both options are right.in India, lot of people encourage against c section and force you to do natural. Please do what’s right for you … I was so scared of normal delivery first - luckily my doctor was supportive and understood my fear of pain…. Be happy and do what’s best for you and please understand everybody has different pain tolerance … I had my normal with epidural.. I did not feel anything but stitches later was irritating …
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Dont you feel pain at stiches after anesthesia?
@arlenekallah93013 жыл бұрын
@@crazyatthings so there was pain both times - both time manageable with medicines . With normal you recover faster and c section it took around 5 days -
@kyipasbeautyminati41723 жыл бұрын
Hello! Some people are saying that if you choose to have c section even if you had the ability to give birth normally next time you will not be able to give birth nornally ,is,this,true?! And what is epidural?! Please reply
@yourgutfriend2 жыл бұрын
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 if it’s your first time c section, then going in for a normal after that is possible. Please don’t listen to others, speak to a doctor and find out. Epidural is given to reduce pain during normal delivery.
@Aksha-r7t3 ай бұрын
Ur so lucky 1 c and 2nd normal in mine case 1c 2nd time i try not normally pain is not start so induced internal swolling on scar so emergency c section everyday im regreating my self 😢😢but every one is dominating bcz c section
@zamankhalid6874 Жыл бұрын
Literally i am facing same situation…. Its my 8 month about to end… now i will go for c section
@smitagokhale1125472 жыл бұрын
Yes true. Normal delivery is much better than c section. Bt no pain in c section. You said it all true things. I also had c section 3 mnths ago.and its quite normal.everything is good with me .except my belle is still fluffy thats the only part i dont like it. I also had suppose to birth by normal,bt pain was unbearable 😫.and my baby goes up. God bless you girl.All mothers are brave 🙏 More power to girls 💕
@letssee23842 жыл бұрын
In our side there is a very common misconception that if a girl had c section,it means she is not strong enough for normal delivery. People never support you. I'm in my 38 week and don't know what will happen at delivery but I'm ready for both.
@anwitaroy4227 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you. And one important thing - The guilt feeling shouldn't exist. It's YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE. You are carrying a new life, you are gonna breastfeed, you are ensuring the continuation of an entire species. No one else's bogus lectures should matter. Whether c-section or vaginal birth, the choice should be entirely the mother's. And coming to the point of 'natural-unnatural', it's again a baseless argument. Our entire civilization is itself an institution of diverting from the natural way. We aren't born with clothes yet wear them, we no longer live in jungles/caves but inside protective houses, we don't chew leaves to cure a disease but take proper meds. Everything's is technically unnatural. So, a woman shouldn't definitely bother what society says.
@rimasoni31314 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing.... m having my elecctive c-sec within 2 weeks..
@PriyankaSharma-ii1cq3 жыл бұрын
How’s ur experience after c sec ?
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Whats u r experience
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@PriyankaSharma-ii1cq what was ur experience after c section please tell there was a pain after anesthesia
@mehreenahtesham27873 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video M also very scared, will definitely go for a c section
@mysmallworld61032 жыл бұрын
For more information about c section u can watch this video here kzbin.info/www/bejne/a17WqaGlhrp0nqM Hope it helps ☺️
@jayshreemantri17793 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this video:)Even i have such great phobia of having a normal delivery..I have very less threshold to pain. This video really helped.
@RaniyahAnwar3 жыл бұрын
Same
@unveilinglostlibrary89013 жыл бұрын
You didn't lack Confidence ...you have fear of Pain.....but now you are a Mom ....wishing you a happy life ahead
@prajaktamukherjee78433 жыл бұрын
Hey that was really nice and informative video. But please do make one more video regarding the scar and stretch mark topic after c section. Do share your experience.
@debaratiroybarman90273 жыл бұрын
Most relaxing video.. Thank you for making it.. ❤️ My time is coming on next month and this video is soooo good 👍.. Because i feel in the same way..
@swatityagi5653 жыл бұрын
Maine b 21 Dec ko meri choice se c section kraya h believe me mujhe b normal delivery se bhot darr lgta tha. And after c section mujhe b koi pain nhi hua same meri medicine b 5 days around chli thi lovely experience ❤️❤️
@kyipasbeautyminati41723 жыл бұрын
Hello abi aap,kesi,ho......mera b c secfion 20 days pehle hua...mujhe b pain se darr lagta hai
@jyotisharma-er5hh2 жыл бұрын
Which city and hospital?
@lexxzus2 жыл бұрын
🤦🏽♂️listening to her speak English brings the movie "SHORT CIRCUIT" to mind. 🤭 she so beautiful. Wish God blessed me with an Indian/Bangladeshi wife like her.
@shivangisingh16092 жыл бұрын
But normal delivery better than c section.. Doctor also suggested normal delivery ..or aap logo ko normal delivery k bare me or dara rahe ho
@yamunakumar81923 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ur experience because I suffered lot ofmy delivery, I have noraml delivery but I can't control the pain so I go to c section , evry one told y c section by that time suffered and thinking
@NehaKumari-uj7gx4 жыл бұрын
Very thanks for this video... I was very afraid of normal and c section also... But now I'm not afraid of c section.. Thank you so much 😊
@Aksha-r7t3 ай бұрын
Normal or c section
@imauna3790 Жыл бұрын
Duniya ka sbse Ganda kaam hai normal delivery...meri saas ne meri jbrdsti normal delivery krwai thi
@tanujadhoulakhandi77902 ай бұрын
very well explained ❤
@Parentingtips0073 ай бұрын
I had previously normal delivery and all was don with artificial pains whicg was unbearable. Now i want to have C section but my family will not support me i think😢
@superfood65708 күн бұрын
How many hours pain was there
@rani0503844 жыл бұрын
In epidural body is not numb you just don't feel pain. Instead of pain u feel pressure. I had epidural assited normal delivery. I was walking around, doing squat in my delivery room to speed up the process post my epidural injection.
@sonalalice63944 жыл бұрын
From which city
@rani0503844 жыл бұрын
@@sonalalice6394 Chandigarh
@javeriayounas Жыл бұрын
How painful is epidural?
@rani050384 Жыл бұрын
@@javeriayounas it is not painful at all. The needle used is thin as normal sewing thread. The only variable factor is skill level of anesthesiologist. if they are putting it in the exact place no pain will ever occur.
@javeriayounas Жыл бұрын
@@rani050384 same for spinal anesthesia?
@BarbieSchool774 жыл бұрын
Yes.. All this things happens to me.. And 😂 me too decide to go through c-section... Delivery
@abii1973 жыл бұрын
Me toooo😂
@PriyankaSharma-ii1cq3 жыл бұрын
How’s ur experience after c sec
@abii1973 жыл бұрын
@@PriyankaSharma-ii1cq after c section experience to yahi hai dear ki back pain ki problem jyda rhti hai baki Sab ok hai.yaha back pe injection lgte hai waha se drd thoda jyda hota hai..Sunna tha ek injection lgta hai peeth pe but mere to 2 lge the☺️☺️
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@abii197 do u feel pain at stiches after anesthesia?Is there any pain when we sit and walk pls tell me Im very afraid of all these process
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@abii197what was ur experience after c section does stiches cause pain after anesthesia? Please tell
@parvathy15904 жыл бұрын
Wow this video ll help the moms to be having this kinda war in their mind. have you done something on the stretch marks after c section
@BarnaChowdhurylove3 жыл бұрын
I'm also getting this phobea... Comin April 15th I have taken decission to go for C section ❤️ I'm very much tensed 🙄
@purnimasharma36883 жыл бұрын
And I am afraid of c section but my doc . Told me that there is no chance for normal delivery because my pelvic area is not open yet🙄
@BarnaChowdhurylove3 жыл бұрын
@@purnimasharma3688 my doc is pushing me for normal as I’m fit for it..but I’m way too afraid about the vaginal cut and stitches.. thats y I have opted for C section
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@purnimasharma3688 have u undergone c section whats ur experience pls tell me
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Whats ur experience mam?
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
@@BarnaChowdhurylove What was ur c section experience?Do u get pain at stiches after anesthesia pls tell I too afraid of both normal and c section
@shifamurthasa4245 жыл бұрын
Me first Before watching I put ☺🤗
@bandbajaweddings5 жыл бұрын
Hi Shifa....this means a lot to me❤️... thanks a ton...hope u have a great dayyy🤗🤗
@shifamurthasa4245 жыл бұрын
😍
@HUSTLEwithAHMADA2 жыл бұрын
@@shifamurthasa424 : assalamualaikum. Can I connect you
@guddi46352 жыл бұрын
very well explained ..am also scared for normal delivery n go for c section
@swethanandyala4 жыл бұрын
Did u feel any pressure while the c section was going on. Which anesthesia did you take??.. please reply I'm due in 2 weeks
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Whats ur experience?
@alkaghildiyal16953 жыл бұрын
You just speak up my mind dear....thankyu so much for bringing up this topic..❤️
@Alishakhan-tj7ce4 жыл бұрын
I got really scared after I saw your thumbnail 😂
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Ooops...dint mean to scare 🙈🙈
@Alishakhan-tj7ce4 жыл бұрын
😅😁
@Christina-fp2js3 жыл бұрын
I realize that this video was posted a while ago but you do realize that you are just scaring other women into having c sections. Labor is a normal natural thing that has happened to women since forever. You made a decision based on fear and are advising others to do the same. If you were afraid of the pain why didn’t you just get an epidural? Statistically you put yourself and your baby in a more compromising situation than just trying to give birth naturally. To all the women out there wondering if you should just get a c section I had a natural birth without any pain meds and it was amazing. It is possible to have a wonderful birth of you don’t fill yourself with fear.
@swatisucharita6743 жыл бұрын
She just shared her experience and mindset and clearly said she doesn't promote c section and do what di you think is best for you. So stop criticizing her.
@Christina-fp2js3 жыл бұрын
@@swatisucharita674 she’s promoting a mindset of fear. Birth isn’t something to be afraid of but she literally just pushed that onto multiple women. An elective C section always has more risks for mom and baby.
@swatisucharita6743 жыл бұрын
@@Christina-fp2js there is no point in explaining you. Ur mindset is more toxic than anyone. Stop stereotyping your idea.
@Christina-fp2js3 жыл бұрын
@@swatisucharita674 it’s not toxic to point out straight up facts. C sections should only be performed in a life or death situation. Also honey it’s not my idea ask any doctor and they will tell you same as me.
@swatisucharita6743 жыл бұрын
@@Christina-fp2js well you are a respectful woman i admire your patience. We all have different opinions and i respect yours. Have a great day
@hemaharsh2381 Жыл бұрын
Natural delivery is good for long term . its choice ! there is no good or bad
@beautifulu61712 жыл бұрын
U r so positive 👍..thankss c section ka darr bhgane k liye
@parvathyammu4 жыл бұрын
Jaimi... i accidently hit your channel... good one dear.. keep going..
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️😘😘😘 😘
@jaythakkar21292 жыл бұрын
This video is demotivating for those who thinks of normal delivery
@priyankajaiswal37824 жыл бұрын
I too have this fear of normal delivery
@mayuripanchal38733 жыл бұрын
This is helping new moms make decision. I m expecting n i m so scared
@truthordare61342 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, don't take her advice... She is not a medical expert
@bandbajaweddings2 жыл бұрын
I never said I am…I was just sharing my experience…not giving any advice
@valentinaharry56823 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Am going through the same mental struggle.
@K.Selina3 жыл бұрын
Your baby is boy or girl? You are so clear in your thoughts, I really appreciate your attitude of thinking and focusing on yoyr self
@harpeetkaur88424 жыл бұрын
Mai b c section ka soch rhi hu apni family k against jaa kr per mere husband mere saath h.. but ab mooghe kisi ne btaya ki c section k baad wo dabba dabba kr check krte h stomach 😥😥 wo bhut painful hota h
@Asmaan06014 жыл бұрын
Yes they do in order to check whether ur womb is contracting or not.. But it won't pain much bcoz u r under anesthesia but yes only 2 times u will feel it when the affect of anesthesia is over and and they check 4-5 times within a course of time
@SufiKingdom2 жыл бұрын
I had c section. Super easy experience. After surgery you might feel some pain, but medications does help a lot. I had dissolvable stitches, so they did not have to do anything after surgery.
@aasthaD144 жыл бұрын
Hi, can you please tell how many days after the delivery did you start wearing pants/pajamas. I had my c section 4 weeks back and still wearing gowns.
@aasthaD144 жыл бұрын
Please reply
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
What was u r c section experience does stiches cause pain after anesthesia pls reply
@mannu43195 жыл бұрын
Mam i m also scared of normal delivery but my doctr n family is not ready for that..
@bandbajaweddings5 жыл бұрын
Hi Monica...I know it's difficult ☹️...which month are u in now
@PriyaDharshini-xt1qp2 жыл бұрын
😘
@cutiebaby93614 жыл бұрын
Due date is 11 nov still very scared of c sec and catheter very tense
@ashishindia2140 Жыл бұрын
You are discouraging other women in doubts about delivery. You should give a neutral outlook not give them wrong ideas about normal childbirth. Just because you were afraid, you are convincing others in doubt to go for C section only. 👎
@bandbajaweddings Жыл бұрын
Talking about my experience is not discouraging .Its just talking about my experience.thats it
@jinshjinshanajinsh84133 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much i thougt im the only one !
@perfectlyimperfectfamily22173 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🤗
@ritikalehar29473 жыл бұрын
Hi.. I m scared the same way like u were n have planned a surgery but at 37th week.. Let me know when did u have your c sec n is it safe to have it at 37th week? Babys weight is 2.8 kg as on 36th week in usg.. Some people are saying weight is not accurate in usg and actual weight comes out to be less than usg weight. Pls guide
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
Whats ur experience mam?
@aakankshasingh56004 жыл бұрын
i m on the same boat.... i m choosing c sec deliberately
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
What was ur experience please tell?
@meetchaudhary68982 жыл бұрын
Wow ...love you dear .... Dil khush ho gya
@kdjoshi7264 жыл бұрын
Given a cut & stitched up in normal delivery too?? H-How?
@niharikasabnani42233 жыл бұрын
Episiotomy and/or 2nd, 3rd, 4th degree tear. Which is extremely painful for months.
@lesliebonilla83302 жыл бұрын
How Ayurvedic recommend to take care after a c-section?
@yamunakumar81923 жыл бұрын
Ur experience and my experience both are same
@sonamarora29764 жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for sharing your experiences..can you pls share the name of your hospital/ doctor. I’m interested
@guriaguria334 Жыл бұрын
I faced a dreadful normal delivery after long labour pain , I got verginal cut which was very pain full for several months My natural delivery was worse experience for me I m again pregnant after 4 years but very very scared
@vilearninglife4723 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you are having to explain yourself so much for being scared of vaginal birth. But I must tell you one thing, similar dilemmas cross our mind when we WANT to have a vaginal delivery and people say tumse nahi ho paayega, ya Aaj kal kisi ka normal nahi hota etc etc. Society ka judgement kisi ke liye nahi rukta. Let's be open and confident about what we want. High time!!
@nathanialsherveen13103 жыл бұрын
What is painless c section I had c section but it was painful after c section for 1 week
@ayeshasayyad70553 жыл бұрын
Pain bearable tha
@mannu43195 жыл бұрын
Mam my gynaec is not giving me the date... she is just saying lets see .. what should i do m tensed
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Hey Monica....how many weeks now?
@mannu43194 жыл бұрын
Now 9th mnth runin mam ... how many days it take to heal fully mam .. because m afraid
@aafymirza60772 жыл бұрын
Ok....i agreed to what you said about making your choice...but the way you explained is not how normal delivery happens....your water doesn't broke so easily so it's a misinformation...you just start with your contractions..first they are tolerable and less frequent than the frequency and intensity increases its when you rush to the hospital there the intensify the contractions more with helps in dilation and after all these the doc broke your water bag mostly.... Tbh the contractions and pushing part wasn't hard for me but the most difficult part was when the doc insert their hands during contractions to check how much you've dilated....
@bandbajaweddings2 жыл бұрын
I think I mostly spoke about c section and very less about normal delivery…may I know the time line where you felt it’s a misinformation
@soniahassan68304 жыл бұрын
Nice message but please stop moving so much, I got a headache from your focus/out of focus footage 😂
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
Hahah...sorry dear..used to shoot in phone back then ..now it's a lot better🙈🙈🙈
@payelbhattacharjee84422 жыл бұрын
Will the doctors allow to choose elective c section ? Is that possible in every city of India ? Some doctors start arguing with patients on this and they don’t agree
@RIYA-ph9kc3 ай бұрын
My doctor is not agreeing for c section and telling its always doctor decision
@sonaldas49289 күн бұрын
@@RIYA-ph9kc I opted for a voluntary C section... It's allowed in india it's called CDMR Casesran Delivery on maternal request. I am having an operation in 15 days...
@dmathew00773 жыл бұрын
Iam watching your video for the first time I couldn't ignore your smile...similar to Preity Zinta ❤️😍 thanks for sharing your journey.
@preetyrk77302 жыл бұрын
those scars or stretch mark is everything for a mother ☺️❤️
@raziabegum50294 жыл бұрын
I am scared...m in 35 th week now.. I heard there is zip technology which z completely painless surgical method...I don't find in Hyderabad..... anyways I m opting C-section...
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
My c section was also painless...u stay strong dear... don't be scared...we women are made of rock😘😘😘..we are stronger than this,❤️..don't worry.. everything will happen well...just relax and takecare😘😘😘😘😘
@raziabegum50294 жыл бұрын
@@bandbajaweddings thxx a lot for encouraging words.....shukriya....
@raziabegum50294 жыл бұрын
@@bandbajaweddings hey m blessed with baby boy . Zarra two days pain tha..later recovered.. overall no issues......
@bandbajaweddings4 жыл бұрын
@@raziabegum5029 congratulations dear❤️
@raziabegum50294 жыл бұрын
@@bandbajaweddings thanks a lot...
@crazyatthings3 жыл бұрын
You did n't feel pain at stiches pls tell me I m very very afraid of delivery process both normal and c section
@ayeshasayyad70553 жыл бұрын
Stiches pain bearable rehta h
@PriyaDharshini-xt1qp2 жыл бұрын
👍
@guriaguria334 Жыл бұрын
Verginal stitches healing is more time taking and painful
@bhumi_19943 жыл бұрын
Thanks for clearing my doubt thank you so much 👍
@Vikashkunal20113 жыл бұрын
It’s scientific proven that with normal delivery child gets better immunity and Lungs., Rest it’s individual choice. Now a day c section is very common we are moving out of natural way anyways 😊
@dr.manishakhimsuriya399710 ай бұрын
motivating...thanx
@shreyamahajan36742 жыл бұрын
Hello dear ,which hospital and doctor you are referring.
@shivangisingh16092 жыл бұрын
U r continuously talking about c- section is this and that...u should tell the pregnant ladies that eithr it is normal or c- section u should scared at that time.. everything will gone b fine...u r distraction people about the normal delivery....jo pehle k log bolte the sahi bolte the...aapko pehle k loge k bare me kya pta h...ku hoti thi normal delivery or it is very true ki normal delivery is painful but far better than c- section dude... So dont let the people think that they should go for c- section
@bandbajaweddings2 жыл бұрын
I am talking about my experience…how I felt…not telling anyone what to do or what not to do…every one is free to voice their opinion…you told urs in the comment…I told mine in the video
@SufiKingdom2 жыл бұрын
Every women should have choice to make her own medical decisions, because it’s their body. No one is forcing c-section and no one should be forced for vaginal birth either. 😊