My Car Broke Down + Second Guessing, Regrets?

[@simplynifer]

April, you can not go down the rabbit hole of what ifs! They will eat you alive. My husband passed away, it will be 2 years Dec 14th. I only allow myself to do the what ifs for 20 min. thats it. When I start I set my timer. Because bottom line you can not change what has already happened. Remember the good times and continue to make them proud.

[@leishagreenleaf833]

Darling April, please save yourself from thinking of if you could or , should off, would off. Hindsight can do your head in . We can’t change the way things happened . Be kind to yourself and know you were a wonderful and loving daughter xxxx

[@kathleenjbazan5563]

Sweet April, you are such a good daughter, your mother and dad are so proud of you. During the holidays it’s always hard missing loved ones, and I’m sure the move was a good decision but it takes a while to adjust. Never question yourself about not spending enough time with your parents, I think we will all feel that way when we’ve lost those we love so much. You lived at home longer than most young girls. Love your vlogs!

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you soo much!

[@deewaipio]

April, when you showed your dinning table and the rug, my first thought was it's too small, however, if you love it and you're happy with it, that is the main thing right? Losing your parents comes with many regrets and lots more happy memories, it's life. Take it easy and see you soon...~dee~

[@AprilAthena7]

Hi Dee! Thank you! I asked my designer cause I was wondering if it was too small but she said it was good. She said it being too large could swallow up a room and make it look smaller. I'm happy with it. So happy with the way it looks hehehe! Thanks soo soo much!

[@morales5412]

April sending you lots of virtual hugs and good vibes!!! I think you thinking about not giving your parents enough time is part of grieving. It comes in waves. Thank you for sharing 🫶

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you sweet friend!

[@krystalmatthews9885]

I am so loving watching you and your family adjust to a colder climate. Honestly I just love having your vlogs back PERIOD‼️❤️❤️❤️

[@ElenaVG]

Love the vulnerability and sharing parts of your story. It’s encouraging and inspiring. Oh April, I got emotional with you when you questioned yourself…prayers. Bless. Yes, count those blessings girl. Get that rest. Have a beautiful week.🙏🏼🥹✝️🧎🏽‍♀️

[@user-uo2fn4kk2t]

I've been watching since you all were in rentals/apartments in CA. Congrats on the move. I've done multiple cross country moves myself. You all seem very happy and at peace. Wishing you all the best this holiday season.

[@GellieMorris]

Everything you've done and decided on in life, were all meant for a reason! You wouldnt be you today, if it wasnt for those decisions youve made in the past. Youre doing amazing friend! Thanks for always sharing your life with us❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thank you so much friend!

[@isagoldfield7393]

Happy Sunday April & fam!! Stay warm🪅🎄🎁

[@AprilAthena7]

Happy Sunday my friend!

[@jlw61]

Hi April, I love you guys! I’ve been watching your videos for over a decade, before the kiddos, when you were still in Southern Cal. I’m an Asian lady living in the Sacramento area - miss you guys in Northern Cal! I was always hoping to run into you somewhere. My bf for 11 years was from Minnesota. He, his family and friends were the nicest people I’ve ever met. I always loved visiting Minnesota, but the first time I visited at Christmastime the cold shocked me! I don’t think it got that cold whenever I went to Tahoe! I’m so happy that you found your dream home and that you’re surrounded by family. Looking forward to all your Minnesota videos! Wishing all of you the happiest wishes ever!

[@BrittyGirl95]

April, you are soo funny. I love watching/listening to you. Haven’t watched in awhile, but every time I do, I wonder why I ever stopped. Keeping being so authentic ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thank you my friend!

[@lindadrewes2527]

I miss my mom extra during holidays too. You’re an amazing mom April. You’re home looks beautiful!❤ and the nails look cute too.

[@Yeahthatshowifeel]

When you said Vitameatavegamin as you were taking your natural remedy 😂 I love watching the I love Lucy reruns ever since I was a little kid they are so comforting to watch. Hopefully Justin didn’t get sick and you feel better.

[@catmama54]

I’m glad you’re feeling better and you look so pretty. The headband with your gorgeous hair is really a beautiful look. Talk about your mom and dad all you want because I talk about my husband constantly and my cats. I might sound crazy, but I think when we talk about them, they hear us. That was one of my favorite I love Lucy episodes.

[@rosemariemello6675]

I was so happy when I came home from work, and so you posted a long vlog. You're precious ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Awwww thanks friend!

[@priyakumar128]

April, please show us how you do your makeup in the bathroom or organize your makeup vanity while getting ready. We just moved to a new house kinda looks like yours but I’m looking to some inspiration from you ❤❤

[@with_mee]

Girl you are even funnier in Minnesota. I’m so glad you remembered that you spent a good amount of time with your parents. That is literally one of my battles rn. I moved across the country from my parents and I miss them and my family so much. Life is short and idk if we made the right choice moving away.

[@AprilAthena7]

lol I think the cold weather got me acting crazy haahahaha

[@123cochic]

April I love the vision board idea!!! I’ve always wanted to do that. Thank you for the inspiration!!! And you talk about your momma as much as you want!!! ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

You are so welcome!

[@katiebv]

Hi April, been loving your vlogs and contagious laughter ❤! You are so funny and bestest mother. Looking forward to seeing your new contents. ◡̈

[@kkSH2023]

Love you April ❤ I felt like we were on a FT call. You can see and feel all the warmth of your heart through the screen ❤

[@Kischa07]

“Ah gulay sitaw” LOL You are the BEST! I just LOVE watching and am so happy you’re uploading regularly! I lost my dad unexpectedly during my freshman year in college. I remember having that same conversation! My dad never got to meet my kiddos and that’s hard for me. He would have been the BEST PAPA! I’m just SO SO thankful that my husband’s dad and step dad are still with us. Sorry about your car! But, yes thankful that Justin was home to help. Sending you lotsa love! 🤍✨🌺

[@haydeeramirez5920]

Thanks for sharing! Loving the longer vlog!! 💕💕

[@lillyr.558]

I enjoy watching your videos, because you seem like a genuine and authentic person💕💕

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you! I appreciate you!

[@jenaflor]

Hopefully your car gets fixed soon! I’ve been feeling the same way about my parents.. but at the end of the day, no matter what, they are always with us. We will reunite with them once again, but right now, we still have a lot of life to live for them 🤍 Love you sweet cousin! Giving you the biggest virtual hugs!

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you! My car is fixed! I got it back yesterday thank goodness! Awww your mama is always with you too my friend!

[@MzMineFind]

I love me some I love Lucy! Thanks for the Orange tip. Going to give that a try. Putting salt on fruits is an Asian thing. Growing up we did that with watermelon that lacked flavor and it made it really tasty. My husband thinks it’s weird too. Your mom and dad are smiling at you from up above and are grateful to have a wonderful caring daughter like you. You should have no regrets.

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you sooo much!

[@Sunflower-s2j]

Yes love the longer vlogs😊✨

[@isagoldfield7393]

Yes please 😊

[@Adrienne064]

Hello my Loved Ones! April, you are so selfless and caring and you always put others first!! I know God is pleased with how you cared for your Mom, as well as family as a whole!! I believe your Mom is always watching over you!! 🤗🙏💞

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you soo much friend! I appreciate you!

[@AshaniaVassell]

Sending u lots of love and warm hugs April, everything will b ok. Happy to have comments again. Ur the best❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you! Everything is gonna be a-ok!

[@paulatristan8189]

I have a squatty potty too and I'm 4'11 😃🤷‍♀️. I wanna say the squatty potty does come in handy. It moves things along.

[@AprilAthena7]

LOL I know right?!

[@sarahrose1454]

Oregano oil…..great for preventing illness. MN I think sees more illness because you’re indoors more. And Teslas don’t do as well in the cold, my son has one and it uses way more battery to heat the car.😊 glad your enjoying MN….. I lived there for 40 years before moving to AZ, but we come back in the summer….we are in Minnetonka, west metro is the best❤

[@anitaquinn9565]

Please keep talking about your precious mom 💕

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thank you soo much Anita!

[@mariacasella6474]

Hi April!!Girl,your hair and makeup is and you are gorgeous

[@LafamiliaBarajas-6]

April, I always enjoy watching your vlogs but when there a little longer, even better 😊 I understand you miss your parents. I know what it feels like. My father passed away over 15 years ago. It does get easier over time. I’ll be praying for you. April, you are so brave to live in Minnesota, I don't like the cold at all. I'm from California and when we go to Lake Tahoe I feel so cold ❄️ but seeing you in Minnesota with the snow 😬 makes me colder 🥶 Take care April, Justin, Liam, & Jacob ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Hehehehe thank you! We are adjusting to the cold.

[@victoriagrullon2620]

I look up to you so much April! You are amazing, I love watching your videos

[@AprilAthena7]

You're the best Victoria! Thank you so much for watching!

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

Love the headband and curls❤😊

[@mrsnatebe4]

April, i hope it’s you and not an assistant who replies to these i wanted to tell you i’m so thankful i found your youtube account again. i remember watching when both liam and jacob were born. now i’m a mum with two little ones myself, your vlogs were such a comfort to me in past hard times. it’s nice seeing you still being you after all these years! 🥺🥺🥺 congrats to the fam on your recent big move

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thanks sooo much for watching sweet friend! I don't have an assistant it's just me myself and I lol. 😂🩷🫶🏼 I'm sending you Soo much love! Happiest holidays!🩷🩷🩷

[@mrsnatebe4]

@ i’m glad it’s really you because i wanted you to know just how much your vlogs have gotten me thru 🥰

[@Jgiu8909]

Im not sure if your schools do it but our schools take donated jackets and hang them on a rack for kids in need to go through and take. It might be worth looking into :)

[@MsAmy105]

Hi April! Where is your Chandelier from?

[@AprilAthena7]

Hey friend! All the lights are came with the house we haven't changed the lighting yet. I don't know where any of the lighting is from.

[@Andreadeener1031]

April, I feel for you. I’ve been there done that. My family and I lived in Michigan for 3 years. There’s so many things I wished I had known before moving to a cold climate place. Message me if you need tips or tricks. You’re going to learn so much as the years come. It’s totally different from California.

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you soo much! Please share all the things!

[@Protected777]

You can only do what’s best for you in the present moment. We have no way of knowing exactly how life will go. ❤️ Extend yourself some grace and forgiveness when you’re ready to. Also… April, I’m sure your mom spoke so very proudly and fondly of you to other people. It’s certainly ok to continue to do the same for her. Memories are to be cherished and they help with coping ❤️ I truly enjoy hearing about your mom. It reminds me of how I speak about the memories I have of my grandmother. Blessing to you and your sweet family ❤️

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thank you so much. Your words are so kind, I really needed to hear that! Thank you thank you🫶🏼🩷🩷

[@saltycat662]

This was really sweet.

[@CapriceSoulsister67]

If it’s your Tesla, electric cars aren’t great in super cold weather. I gave mine up before the winter because it impacts the battery. Good luck!

[@AprilAthena7]

I didn't know unfortunately. Had I known I probably would have sold my Tesla in California hehehe!

[@CapriceSoulsister67]

Still watching the vlog… I like your kitchen rug under the table.

[@AnnaRvlogs]

I am not sure but ask about cars in cold weather. I hear no one gets tesla in snowy cold weather

[@michellesunshinestar]

You don't want to have to replace your engine. So always get an oil check or whatever. Engines cost a lot (that happened to me), my dad paid for it. I'm in Central OH. It's kind of spooky out there tonight. It's raining/misty out there. In the 40s, so a little warm. I don't know, just spooky.

[@AprilAthena7]

Ohh noo if you feel it's spooky please be aware and keep safe my friend!

[@phamtruc]

The small rug shrink the room a little bit. I would say go bigger! ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Really? The designer said it's a good size. I'm really happy with it to be honest.

[@phamtruc]

@@AprilAthena7 As long as you like it! You can always do it for the next season.

[@michellesunshinestar]

Ms. April, you are younger than me right? And you've lost both your parents? I don't even want to think about losing my parents. My uncle is in a nursing home/rehabilitation place. I worry about losing him, I love him so much. My cousin would miss him too. I'm not getting him wine this year (heart problems), so I'm giving him a box of chocolates.

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww you're soo sweet to get your uncle chocolates! I lost my mom at 36 I'm 39 now but the thing that makes me even more sad is my sister lost our same parents in her 20s. That's soo soo sad!

[@michellesunshinestar]

@@AprilAthena7 I'm 45 so I'm a little older. But I have longevity genes on both side of my family. My dad's side has heart problems, but my grandma on my mom's side died of bone cancer. So, I don't want either.

[@michellesunshinestar]

Cats know when it's Christmas. They see us opening gifts, and they want something too. We always got Neko and Cami gifts.

[@AprilAthena7]

I always get my kitties gifts too!

[@elizabethr2303]

My car did not turn on when I came out from the gym . I’m likely my hubby was close by . We found out battery die and need a new one

[@Eureka21567]

I love your rug. It’s beautiful….but it does need to be bigger 😬. Sorry, I had to say it.

[@AprilAthena7]

lol

[@wajihahroslan6471]

Love your vlogs and vibe. Like my long distant gf giving me updates abt her life😅. Your energy hype me sometimes. Haha

[@AprilAthena7]

lol thank you!

[@jacquettabanana]

Those boots give me spice girl era vibes 😆 you do you & enjoy every second of it hehe 😘💚

[@fionaribic9984]

That rug is small but everything else is super!!!

[@AprilAthena7]

Hehehehe thanks! I like the rug! the designer said it's a good size and I trust her judgement on the size of the rug.

[@fionaribic9984]

@ that’s nice. I own a rug business company and can tell you for a dining set like that a 8x11 is the right size. Please tell me she didn’t take your money

[@debwhite5281]

Marriage is 50/50. Justin gave you time.

[@nirosh2277]

Honey the will always and forever there spirit will be around you and watch over you and your kid's my sweetheart. ❤

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you!

[@HeyJules]

at 13:12, did you say "ay gulay sitaw!"? hahahah

[@AprilAthena7]

Hahahah sure did!

[@HeyJules]

@@AprilAthena7 I usually say, "oh my gulay!" hahaha.

[@vickiemurph]

The boots are cute. 😊

[@AprilAthena7]

Thanks soo much!

[@elizabethr2303]

Good morning ❤

[@NaturalJam22]

The shoes are cute

[@AprilAthena7]

Awww thank you

[@elizabethr2303]

You are beautiful and kind and sweet person

[@BigAl77777]

What happened to April’s brother I feel like he Shopper coming around

[@AprilAthena7]

My brother is doing well! He didn't go to Hawaii with us when we went and doesn't visit as much as my sister because of his job. We all good here.

[@aqua2889]

Cool shoes.

[@NaturalJam22]

💛💛😊

[@betyourbottomdollar7]

❤

[@brendarobinson76]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@elizabethr2303]

😢😢😢

[@mariasoledadbalague845]

Love longer vlogsss ❤

[@debwhite5281]

Get a little plastic step.

[@priyakumar128]

April, please show us how you do your makeup in the bathroom or organize your makeup vanity while getting ready. We just moved to a new house kinda looks like yours but I’m looking to some inspiration from you ❤❤

[@Kischa07]

“Ah gulay sitaw” LOL You are the BEST! I just LOVE watching and am so happy you’re uploading regularly! I lost my dad unexpectedly during my freshman year in college. I remember having that same conversation! My dad never got to meet my kiddos and that’s hard for me. He would have been the BEST PAPA! I’m just SO SO thankful that my husband’s dad and step dad are still with us. Sorry about your car! But, yes thankful that Justin was home to help. Sending you lotsa love! 🤍✨🌺

[@AprilAthena7]

Thank you soo much for your sweet words and I'm soo soo sorry for your loss!