My child is very stubborn: | URDU | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Parenting skills: The child must have the ability and strength to listen and understand , " NO ".
This skill has to be taught from very early childhood.
#parenting #acceptingtheNO
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

[@Yousafmadnihost]

ڈاکٹر صاحب بہت بڑے انسان ہیں الله پاک لمبی زندگی دے۔

[@4224S]

Aamin

[@qariliaqat2546]

معزرت سےاگرآپ خالص اردومیں بات کریں توزیادہ بہتر ہوگا

[@sunshinevlogs8642]

*رَبَّنَآ اٰتِنَا فِى الـدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَّّفِى الْاٰخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَّّقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ* اے ہمــارے رب ہمیــں دنیــا میں نیڪی دے اور آخرتـــ میں بھی بھـلائـی عطـاء فـرمـامـا. اور ہمیــں عذابــــ جہنّـم سے نجـاتــــ دے. 🔥 🌿🌷آمیـــن یـــا ربّـــــــ کــــریـــــم 🌿🌷 🤲🏻

[@attiamir5720]

Video to buat zabardast hain,but problem is here ke parents ki 1 baat ho,jo meray gahr me nahi hain

[@rabiazeeshan08]

Why ka answer ziada yahi ata hay kay kisi or kay pass hay ais liya chiya my son is 13 year old and want Bicke because his cousin have and he drive but I didn't like he is too young

[@mhanan2107]

Plzzz mera bacha pardny k naam sy rony lgta Hy kuch btaen plzz

[@sarfrazmahr1419]

السلام علیکم۔ سر یہ مسئلہ صرف دس فیصد لوگوں کے لیے ہے باقی جو ان۔پڑھ ہیں انکو اس بات کا اثر کیسے ہو گا

[@science...8516]

Bs parent aapne aap pr thoda control kr le...to bachcho k sath itni mehnat nhi krni padegi...🇮🇳

[@dawatotabligh5462]

*❤❤❤A very Capable Personality ..محترم ڈاکٹر جاوید اقبال ..💖💖💖* *☝Allah Ap ko Salamat Rakhy...* خوش رہیں آباد رہیں

[@priyadarshani1680]

God bless javed sir..love from India.

[@dreamworld-vy5qe]

ماشاءاللہ جزاک اللہ خیراً کثیرا

[@madihajaved3291]

Sir problem ya hy k joint family system ma bcha sirf parents k under nahe hota. Khas tor py agr maa kisi galt kam sy mana b kry to ghar ka dusry fard support krty hain bcho ko or favour krty hain. Itny ma he bcha parents sy baghta hy

[@good-el6bj]

سر میں کافی سنتا ہوں اور بہت فائدہ بھی ہوتا ہے مجھے اور آپکا اپنی بات پیش کرنے کا انداز مجھے کافی پسند ❤️👍✅

[@palaksharma6540]

Sir please do one book recommendation video...🙏🇮🇳

[@cookingclasswithhamna]

Please read The Holy Quran book of Allah

[@glamupstudio4186]

QURAN is the best book in the 🌎

[@ibraheemmughal9817]

سر اس موضوع پر ایک لیکچر کم ہے اور لیکچر دیں آج کا سب سے بڑا مثلہ یہی ہے

[@travelandlearning4254]

Thank you for sharing such videos. These are training guidelines for Parents s how can they better raise their kids.

[@maryr23]

absolutely love your parenting vids sir, would love more parenting vids on "desi issues" too, Parents sometimes neglect their own kids for other kids from the family please kindly include it in your lectures thank you

[@buttyboops5436]

Thanks me as well.

[@sidrarani8551]

Same my prblm plz help me.

[@sidrarani8551]

May apny betay ko hr bar peechy krti hu jb join fmly ho to kia kry sb osy he point out krty hain sirf is waja se k osy koi tang kry to defence may Marta hy bjaiy mjhy bolnay k ya wese he bat krny k.

[@mskhan2847]

bachon ko izzat denay say maa baap k dil ko kuch hota hai.. inko sirf hukmarani krni hai.. is chakkar mein say sab khatam ho jata hai

[@mriaz9805]

Bilkul

[@ayaanali4660]

Mashallah ap ny buht achi bate btai hain Allah ap ko sehto tandrusti wali lambi zindge ataa kare ameen God bless you. Specially

[@nosheenali7980]

Es main mama daddy k sath baki ghr walon Ka b bohat hadd tak hath hota hai chahe wo nani ho ya dadi ya Phupho

[@shahzaibrehman171]

Sir how can I contact you or send my problem in written form?

[@mohammadhasan235]

ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے

[@sanamalik4349]

Parents bnny sy phly hmy zaroor classes Leni chahye... Cooking k Liye makeup k Liye hr cheez k Liye rehnumai tareeka zaruri ha to why not for parenting....

[@abuzakwan8234]

Assalamoalaikum sir mujhy ap sy molaqaat karni hy.... Mujhy apny bety k silsily my ap sy milna hy.... My susral my rheti hon lekin mery susral walo k rawaye or mahol ki waja sy mera bety ki kuch zheni kaifiyat ajeeb ho gai hy..... Or mujhy ye dekh ker boht ziada dukh or tension hoti hy..... Plzzz sir mujhy milna hy ap sy lazmi

[@ammarameer7570]

keep posting videos regarding good parenting.and how to raise and increase the intelligence from childhood

[@memoonaumer2868]

My daughter is always understanding towards no....

[@zareenzafar180]

Meri beti ki to bht hi ajeeb ajeeb khawhish hoti hn fr.exampl:iron sy khelna hy,jharo lagani hy,dasting krni hy.mble me cartoon dekhny hn,mjy Sona hy Khana nhi Khana is ka Hal Bata dn.

[@nazishahtisham7335]

Mera questions ye h k jaha pasy ki farwani na ho to bachy farmish krn MAA baap no Kar dain or Bacha agy s accept na kry or khy k mjy apk Ans Ka pta ta ESI ly MN ny ap s koi bat ni ki JB b Kuch framish krn to no hi milta h eska kya solutions hppz guide?

[@fatimalifestylevlogs786]

Plz mjy batay gy k yah rule kitny saal k bachay py apply hoga ???? Meri beti 4 year ki hai kya us k sath be aesa he karna hoga ??? Agr wo koi toy mangy to ??????

[@uzmayasmeensiddiqui2712]

Assalam alaikum I hve 3 daughters they 7,5 n 3 yrs .7 yrs old she is jealous n irritated with 5 yrs because the 5 yrs old daughter is very systematic and good In all works so we have to appreciate her .if both r fighting or doing anything I have to scold 7 yrs daughter but she is angry as i have not scold to 5 yrs .but sometimes without reason for 7 yrs daughter i have to scold both of them and that is not good for the 5 yrs old .so what should I do if both of them r doing anything or fighting?

[@sultan_periyar_alamsha]

Your advice is good for 10% ruling class Pakistanis. Of course, you don't care about the rest.

[@waqasgul4538]

Mera bcha 2.5 year ka hy lkin smjdar bht Hy mgr koi b lfz ni Bolta usko jb gusa ata Hy to vo bht rota Hy loudly

[@_RajenderSharma075]

Thanks sir your voice so sweet

[@mariamwaheed421]

Can u plz guide me how to raise single parent daughter ( i am mother and finding it too hard to raise a daughter being a single parent)

[@zh3156]

Do you mean financially, or parenting wise? Physically emotionally?

[@afrozabatool8441]

Kya bimar bachon ko no kehna chye as my daughter after hypocalcemia fits is not as healthy as others child she is 3 years old and extremely stubborn jitna b pyr sy smjao wo srf apni hi Marzi krti hy

[@zeshanaslam3992]

Dr. Sab last mai boht important issue pe baat start hi hui keh video khatm ho gai plz isko reupload kar dain puri ... Jzk khair... Wo boht major issue hai grand parents wala us pe aa kar parents be bas ho jaty hain ... Kese handle karna hai plz

[@rakshandakashif918]

If a child demand,what,how,why , threshold kam h bachy ki bat many k ly,ager hr zid puri ki jy to khrab hta,girlz zayda par jati hn,no bardast krny ki adat ho jati h

[@asifaazmi3957]

MashAllah, jazakallah khair sir

[@mursaleenmuhammad7167]

Mere hubby apne sb bácho(mere steps daughters and son) ki khuwahish isi liye pori krte hn take unk Bache degrade feel na kre Bácho ka jawab yhi hota h unk sb frnds k pas h tu chahiye bs wrna hmari insult hoti h Lkn ab bt ati h mere bete ki wahan uski zidd p maar parti h qk wo abi 3 sal ka h or wo ghr k environment ko dekh kr Jo seekhta h wo nazar nai ata bs maar kr trbiyat sikhani h jb k bare baccho p hath b nai uthate Thora dant Lia or chez ink samne

[@hammadsheikh55]

سلامتی ھو

[@nafeesasufyan2426]

Excellent video, just love listening to your talks. Always so much logic to everything shared

[@ayesharafiq3460]

I think it's ever best video that every parents should watch. You extrcted fantastic abstract of child behavior and parents reactions on that one. Apny buhy hi zabardast tricks share ki hn jo k hm smj nai paaty.

[@garimaraj6505]

How to handle 11 month old stubborn baby? We tried our best not to loose our temper..but sometimes situation gets out of control..!!

[@Falak786-z5r]

Hum tu bachhy ki her cheez jiski usy zaruret h aur hamen bhi pata h k ye cheez bachhy ki zaruret h wo bhi ni leky de sakty tu khuhishaat keha se puri krengy 😢 i feel very dipres k hum bachhy ko kuchh leky ni de sakty Allah hamari madad kry

[@MinaFatima-g9k]

Mera beta 17 year ka hai our wo par nhi par nhi Pa rha pls Mujy kuch btayee es k baba sy mere divorce ho chuki hai 10 Sal pehly bacha mere bat nhi sunta

[@misfriends3472]

Asalam o alikum sir hm joint family me rehty hn tu bachy aksar mil kr khelty hn larty bhi hn.larai hoti hi cheezon py.kuch bachon ki aadat hoti hy tang krny ki jaan bhuj kr jis se mera bacha hyper ho jata hy .jesy koi mar kr chala gaya ,ya kuch ly kr bhaag gaya aesy me apny bachy ko kesy smjhaya jae or roka jae .reply plz

[@basiratsiddiqui6467]

Sir mera bacha abhi 2.5 sal ka hai main signal mother hon income krne k liye mujh kam pe tawaja dayni hoti hai so mere bachy k pass sirf main hoti hon or koi nai hai to mujh majboran us ko mobile dayna pardta hai tk wo mujh kam krne day but is se ek problem aa rahi hai k wo mobile k liye phr zid krta hai mujh kia krna chaye wo khilone wagra chord k mere kam main interfere kr k kharab krta hai mobile dayne se wo mobile pe laga rahta hai or mujh ya cheez nai chaye k wo bus mobile ka adi ho jaye main kia kron ap plz mujh kuch guide krain main buht pershan hon is bat se

[@nekbaten2569]

Sir min ek working women hun or mera bachcha 1.5 yr ka hai. Mera bachcha 5 month ka tha tabse min apne bachche ko apni behen ke ghar chod ke office jati hun 9 to 5 job hai isme bachche per kya asar pdta hai please ap is bare me mujhe batayen

[@nusrathjabeen6232]

Assalamualaikum Aap ka samjhane ka tarika bahut achha hai . Masha Allah.👍🏻

[@healingfeeling7108]

ڈاکٹر صاحب آپکی گفتگو بہت ہی اچھی ہے لیکن میری ایک گزارش ہے کہ صرف ساده اور آسان اردو ہی میں بات ہو تو زیادہ لوگ سمجھ سکتے ہیں ۔ شکریہ

[@mursaleenmuhammad7167]

Axha mere miyan k 2 bete hn ak Mera Jo 3 saal ka b nai or 2ra 11 saal ka Jo inka pehli wife ka hy or iski mama ki death hogyi hy ab hota ye hy mere hubby iski hr jaiz najaiz khuwahish uski mamma ki life se pori krte

[@HafsaChoughule]

Mai to aapk videos se sikhi asal parenting hoti kya h or shukr h Allah ka bohot sahi wakt pe mile warna Hama jaha rehte h waha baccho ko pitna hi tarbiyat samjha jata h jo k ham bhi krre the

[@eynnahaffo1414]

Joint family system bchon to tabah kr deta.. Dada dadi laad main bchon ko khrab kr dete. Maaon ki saari mehnat zaya ho jati. Aur end par bdnaam b maa hoti k maa zimadar hy

[@mursaleenmuhammad7167]

Ab mere bete ki tarbiyat me mujhe bht problem horahi hy qk is k liye mere miyan k pas sirf naa h or us k liye hr waqt haa Mera beta complex me askta hy Ab is ne b Bhai ko dekh kr copy krna start krdia tu ab khane ki chez p is ki zid b pori hojati h lkn toys p nai hoti 4 behno k bad hua phir maa ki death hogyi tu isko naa nai kehte Mob rat din use krta h bike chalana isko sikhadi Ab kbi wo Bhai hi mere bete ko cheez diladeta h qk isko paise chahiye hote hm tu nam mere bete ka lekr baba se paise lete hn

[@sahargull7556]

Mjhy apsy apni beti k liye guideline chahy apsy kis trha contact ho skta h

[@huraibiahashim4066]

First comment

[@afaanahad955]

Maa bap mnah kren Kisi pe to Dadi dada oth Jain to phr kia kren yahi Hal hmry ghr ma hai ma bachy ki zid pori ni krti usi time ghr waly kehty hen khr hai de do wahn phr Meri bs ho jati hai k kahin bhag k chli jau is bary ma plz btain

[@iraAbdul-b8g]

Ma signal parent hu Jo apny bacho ko sambhal Rai hu maray husband abroad hain mjy bohat parshni ha

[@maryamwithmama1547]

Well said but what can we do agr parents mana krden n grand parents wo wish demand poori krden.

[@sultan_periyar_alamsha]

Why most nations hate Pakistan? How can you make Pakistan as a lovable nation!?

[@saimali1664]

Ma baat karna chhtae hou ap sa muja apna baby ka lia kuch tips chhya ma bht pershan hou ma ksa us ke pervarish keru usa kesa gusha jazbati hona sa rok sakou.. Plzrep me 😢

[@ZorainkhanAnees]

Masha Allah bilkul AP ki BT pr Amal krni ki koshis krnegy

[@imanzara5577]

Joint famliy main kuch log negtiv oty hain or waldain ki mjboori oti hy wo mna ni kr skty bchy ko koi dant dy

[@sidrarani8551]

Sir bed wars game bht khailta hy meta beta kindly guide kry kese avoid kru.

[@kiranshahzadi3350]

Mara bachaa 1&half year ka hai lakin abhi se hi wo bht zidi hai...wo abhi Bolta b nae lakin phir b apni bat manwany k lea rota rehta hai

[@GreenBirdsPK]

Ye kis sal k bucho ki bat hrai. 2.5 years k buche ki zid ko pora krna chahye ya no kehna chahye

[@abidanawaz2459]

But choty bachy agr stubborn hjae you kya Kya jae. Means 2 years

[@zainabfatima6747]

Dr sahab a.o.a ma ap ki baton ko boht acxpet krti hon dr sahab mri beti 7 saal ki h wo har kahna manti h jab ma akile hon jab koi b ghr ka fard ata h tab tang krti h rokon tab b phir zid krti h is ma mjy kia khrna chay

[@nekbaten2569]

Sir as salamo alykum

[@nailaabrar6818]

Meri beti 5 sal ki ha mjy 5 mnth sy bht gusa ata ha ma usy uski glti pa bht Mar dti hn ab wo mj sy drti ha r us time bt man lti ha pr bd ma phr waisa hi krti ha jis sy mana krti hn

[@eagledristys8866]

Shukriya Dr sahab . Aap ne badi kimti baat batai.

[@purvakhatri7210]

Meri ladki hi bht stubborn huski class mamm kheti h

[@Thatssswhatithought]

Aur agar bacha why ka jawab sahi dae lekin jhoot bol raha ho

[@sairaamin2140]

Laad to nae tang aker, irritated ho k or stress ki wja se yield kr jati hein mothers mostly.

[@shifashifarazzaq1895]

Sir meri 2 Sal ke beti ha bohat zidi ho gae ha jo b cheez mangy jub tk usy da no do rote rehte ha

[@trqjvd4847]

Dr Javaid aoa. You are doing a gr8 job. Jazak Allah Khair.

[@shaistaperween8986]

Very well explained sir Looking forward to watch more such explanatory videos. I m a doctor and a mother too. Your videos are really very helpful.

[@rabiafawadkhemani9344]

Sir meri bachi meri bat nai sunti hai but bht zid karti hai or har bat Mai roti hai

[@mursaleenmuhammad7167]

Lkn bacha 10 sal ka hy or use mob sirf game khelne k liye chahiye ho

[@basiratsiddiqui6467]

AoA Sir mujh ap se zarori sawal pochna hai

[@AliHassan-pz4sm]

aoa ..dctr sb mra bcha 3 sal ka h ..bhttt zidi h .bt n mnta r khata b bhtttttt e kam h . kabi kbi to sara din n khata

[@ishfaqaltaf4328]

Mri beti 3 saal ki hy bht tang krti hy her bt m zid r rona hy uskoooo

[@allah5859]

Mashallah Zabardast

[@MaizahMohibVlogs]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@armanali6127]

Sir mera bacha 2 sal ka hai..kabhi bhi kisi bat ko nahi manta…ghusa ma aa k bht maara user..

[@muqadasmuqadasnawaz2263]

Dr hmara bacha hmari bat nhi manta woh same ap jesy bta rhy ha wesy krty ha

[@mlaikanoor4542]

Sir mera bacha sab ko Marta h baron ko bhi mn yeh kesy thk karo

[@reallifeasma4528]

Or ager begar jae esa he hojae to bhir us bache ko kse sahi raste pr lain

[@AhmedAhmed-vy7ym]

Mera beta Meri bt ni manta plz help karain Kia Karu ma

[@AsifKhan-mg9vl]

Thank you sir for this really awesome and helpful video.

[@saimali1664]

Mera baby abi 2 years ka hai ma usa kesa ek sai path pa la ka aou plz rep me

[@fahadfahad-xx9ne]

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[@udgamer2860]

Sir ap sy contact kesy ho skta hy??

[@indiarajsthan9152]

Kya ye ho sakta h bache thik ho jaye abhi

[@mdabdulakbar8746]

5:30

[@RimshaNadeemRimmibhatti]

Mera bacha 2 sal ka hai meri bat nhi manta

[@Raffay-m5z]

Mashallah

[@rajtourism4179]

Sir how can I meet you

[@S.N.ZaryabDua]

Love from India sir....

[@shaukatali_77]

اسلام وعلیکم سر آ پکی بات 💯 فیصد ٹھیک ہے پر ایک رہنمائی کر دیں ماشاءاللہ اگر بچہ بڑا ہو گیا ہے تقریباً 14 یا 15 سال کا ہو گیا ہے تو ہم اسکو کیسے راہ راست پر لا سکتے ہیں میں اس لئے پوچھ رہا ہوں کہ بچہ بگڑ چکا ہے اور آپکی اس اسپیچ سے باہر نکل چکا ہے جواب ضرور دیں کئی بچوں کے مستقبل کا سوال ہے جزاک اللہ خیرا

[@nikishiki103]

Mujy b jawab chye is question ka

[@naziarazzaq6758]

Im 14 year old and I agree about this but I'm not stubborn my few friends are like that . As I think you should think about there mental health because at this age there is various reasons I'm also sometimes get aggressive and stubborn but there is a reason always and know one want to know behind my behavior sometimes i get really lonely I feel I born for no reason there is no need of me . As a teenager I suggest you to know about the mental health of you child is the best way and also try to make a bond between you and your child. Thank you if you read it complete🤗 Byee byee🙋