My Coming Out Story Ep 1 - Being Gay 🏳️‍🌈 In a Religious Nigerian 🇳🇬 Home

#comingoutstory #growth #selflove #acceptance #movingon
Hey Loves,
Welcome to #vlogmas day 7. Today's video gets a little bit personal. I will be telling a little bit of what it was like realizing I was Gay in a very religious African home.
Please watch, like, and share to anyone who needs this.
Thank you ❤️
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[@_derekbuchi]

People are not listening because they are to self-involved in their own pain that they don’t have the strength and energy to pay attention to your (kind of) pain.

[@precioustheedon]

Love how you told your story proudly. Don’t ever stop being you for anything or anybody. You are unique. Sending you love✨🌈🤍

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you so much baby ❤❤

[@JustSiphosami]

Sending love to you my honey ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Super proud of you 🌈

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you baby ❤❤

[@pppmanly]

Great video essay, young man!! May God / The Universe bless you. 🌈💙 It's interesting how so many Africans and people of African descent continue to cling to Christianity even though it was imposed unto us by European oppressors / enslavers. One can be spiritual without following organized religion and all its evil / questionable dogma, but many people are afraid or seemingly incapable of critical thought.

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

I find that very funny too lol

[@derrickhypolite3250]

My Brother thinks you For your beautiful short God loves his children you are blessed and loved by God please love your life be happy I am living in Brooklyn NYC but I am from the Caribbean your veido is so beautiful with joy love and happiness in your life please take care be safe love to you and your family my friend.💞💙💞💙💞☀🌈☀💝👑💝

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤

[@RihanneMaya]

Your choice of words is just lit 💕

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you ❤️

[@UdegbunamChuks]

Growing up gay is a fiercely religious home has got to be the worst. Glad you're in a better place ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you ❤❤❤

[@BusiJane]

Your choice of words. You use them so well. The way you’re telling this🥺 I love this. Angles my love, angles! ❤ 4:15 I love you so much B. You are Gods child and it’s only for God to speak; not us. Well done on this. Beautiful. 5:24 😢💔 This was difficult baby. I’m so sorry you had to endure all that. Mahn, the values as to what a child needs are proper, “money, good education” Grownups know Jack my love, fokol. They’re just doing life. 😂😂😂😂 of course you’re a celebrity This winter looks beautiful. Oooh yes, plants! 😂😂😂Let the man go. Lmao, I can’t believe that he did that.

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you so much baby ❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

Don’t mind that man 😂

[@XAntzArt]

Wow!!! This video just brought up so many old feelings and emotions. I went trough the same. Hidden in a closet until i came to China. I also promised myself that i will never step back into the church. I believe in God but the people in church are the ones who can’t accept gays. Anyway so proud that you finally posted this and i hope all the right people will find some encouragement in this video to be them selfs❤

[@_derekbuchi]

You get it!!!!!!!🎉

[@_derekbuchi]

It just got to a point where I realized that these people I am trying to hide from are no better at all. They haven’t even figured out their own lives out and here I am killing myself for them.

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you love ❤❤❤❤

[@lopezishvlogs7716]

It’s a big deal to be your authentic self anywhere, especially in Africa wow, Congratulations, I’m proud of you

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you 😅❤️

[@marlonmalcolm1738]

You're God's creation he knew you before you were born and he loves you ❤

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you ❤️

[@kelvinmorris4119]

The courage!! God loves you, they ain’t God

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you ❤️

[@KANTV1]

Much love from here... Everyone deserves love..

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you ❤️

[@Luckieijay]

❤️❤️❤️

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jceenchima]

❤❤❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@learleanatrimmer2892]

As A Pansexual Female Who Also Grew Up In The Church, I Was Raised Christian, Baptist, I Was Baptized 3 Times, And I Was On My Church Choir For About 5 Years, I Understand Exactly Where You're Coming From, When I First Came Out, There Were Only 2 People, My Grandma And My Best Friend Were The Only People Who Didn't Have An Issue With Me Being Pansexual, It's Crazy How The Ones Who Are Supposed To Be The Most Loving Can Be The Most Hateful! 😑😑😑😑😑😑

[@_derekbuchi]

I know!!!!🎉🎉

[@_derekbuchi]

They preach the most love and yet dish out the greatest hatred mankind has ever seen! 😂

[@_derekbuchi]

I am proud of you for living your truth❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

Thank you 🎉❤

[@lucasgehres]

Could you please make a video about being gay in China?

[@_derekbuchi]

Alright! Haha

[@jasongreen2443]

This is pitful....he doesn't represent us real Nigerian

[@_derekbuchi]

Awww, that must be so hard on you. How about you represent your country yourself instead?

[@esplansiambewe5146]

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[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jamilahajifa]

❤❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️

[@k1i1i1]

❤❤❤

[@_derekbuchi]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@k1i1i1]

Thank you for sharing this. A little boy somewhere is going through what you went through, and I hope that he will find this video.

[@_derekbuchi]

@@k1i1i1 ❤️