My Coming Out Story

[@booniekjohnson9182]

Thanks for sharing..I knew I was gay at age 7..but got involved and married out of Guilt..I had children..so when I came OUT at 36, many lives were hurt..BUT I felt immediately relieved and stopped living the lie..it took a few missteps, but I happily married a man and have lived an awesome gay Life. Now I an age 69..and my biggest regret was NOT coming out at 16..but Life gets better when we live an authentic and totally Honest Life. Have a great journey..Love Deeply. Hugs, Boonie Johnson LeBlanc in Arizona

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you so much! I will try my best to live my most authentic life

[@ronsmith2365]

Same here.... married right after college..... 2 wonderful kids..... at 40 met a college freshman, 18 years old....... 31 years later..... a wonderful life, and amazing kids and grandkids..... can't go back..... it's the way it is...... and coming out, as you say, sure gives one a new life..... so much less gravity to carry... and nothing like being honest with oneself and ours....... sure it was a rough time at first, but......we only get one life.

[@mark29682]

@@ronsmith2365 There's a whole bunch of us that sometimes at parties watch selected videos from youtube and other sources and read the comments. We need to get the bio info in your comment clear. Right after college (that would be 22-23) you married a woman and had 2 kids. At 40, you met an 18-yr old male student with whom you have now been living 31 years with a good relationship with the kids from your prior marriage. Are we reading your comment correctly? If so, how was it possible to maintain a longterm relationship with an 18 yr old when boys at that age are far from being capable of settling down, esp with someone twice their age and the age of the lover's 2 kids? No disrespect is meant here, just curiosity. Also another question: what factor did looks play in your relationship?

[@dragonwing4449]

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[@Mr_tank1]

I knew I was gay at 11 but I had a lot of confusion I was fully investigating my sexuality and stuff because they're for a little bit I thought I was bisexual but I had suspicions of it at the age of eight like I was still somewhat investigating my sexuality but like the feelings really started coming as like when I was like 10.

[@twanohguy]

Thank you Cameron. Good job. I didnt come out till 23 and I hurt people along the way, which I regret. You have so much to look forward to. I am 76 now and wish I had another chance.

[@c0t0d0s7]

I appreciate you sharing your story. You had the courage to tell your girlfriend and you have the courage to tell us. Props for both. 🤗

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you so much:)

[@alessandro9240]

@@cameronfilipowicz7308 I'm Italian. Greetings from Italy

[@nicholasanderson7316]

Had a similar experience when I was 19; had dated a girl for a little over a year. But she dumped me a year before coming out. It was sad; but it was the most freeing thing for myself. Dating people your sexually attracted to and being authentically yourself especially with things concerning love and relationships is so great for any human. So, welcome to gay world? lol Thanks for sharing; it’s nice to see younger people just accept their homosexuality. Even though we live in a totally different world than 13 years ago when I went through everything, it’s still a lot to process for anyone and takes a lot of courage to be the person you’re meant to be. It’s hard at first, but you’ve saved yourself a lot of regret. I see with a lot of older gay people I know who wish they had done it sooner and actually had to divorce their spouse. Wish you nothing but happiness, one gay guy to another. ❤

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww thank you, I really appreciate the kind comment

[@flgardener1155]

Hi. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm 62. I wish KZbin had been around when I was growing up. You sharing your coming out story will make it so much easier for those who come out after you. Best wishes for a long and happy life.

[@flyjet787]

A really heartfelt description of the past couple years of your life. It's NOT easy. It's also NOT your fault. Your bravery spared your girlfriend from a "fake" prom and possibly a fake marriage and fake family. If our culture refrained from insisting on heteronormativity from everyone (esp. as they're growing up), we could all comfortably come of age authentically. I was very much like you at 19. That was the year I came out to my family. I was still so uncomfortable talking about being gay. Then, slowly, in college I began taking little healthy risks (telling friends, dating guys, joining a LGBT group on campus, working on a hotline to help folks struggling with these issues, joining my college's "speaker's bureau" going into area H.S. classrooms to discuss what being gay was all about - terrifying- , etc.). It all began my journey to self-acceptance. BTW, I'm 53 now and have had an awesome, fascinating life so far. Thanks for sharing your vulnerability - it is good for you - and can be immeasurably helpful to others. I look forward to updates on how you're doing, Cameron!

[@hotincocoa]

Congratulations for being completely honest with yourself. That my dear friend is the biggest and hardest first step, the rest gets easier as time moves on.

[@michaelmetcalf2715]

No worries brother. It's all good. I'm 51 and just came out 2 years ago. Lived my life in denial for a long time. Have a beautiful boyfriend now. Keep your chin up!!💪💪😎😎👑👑🌎♾️❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@jnluc5350]

You give me hope. Still struggling here. Thank you for sharing.

[@michaelmetcalf2715]

@@jnluc5350 YW bro. Hang in there. This too shall pass 👑👑

[@juvenallombera4435]

Thanks for sharing! I came out as gay when I was 15 in 2019. It was so scary but very relieving. I’m 18 now and I’m very happy to be living more independently and authentically. Very happy for you ❤

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww thank you for the comment :)

[@marcos-ll2yr]

Hi, I'm from Brazil. You video appear to me. So brave of you, sending many hugs for you.😉

[@jetlagrob]

I'm going to São Paolo in April✈️ can we meet??😍

[@dalus8073]

I really enjoyed listening to your story. You seem like a really sweet and sensitive guy, and I hope you continue to flourish in your life.

[@raycrean40]

Hey Cameron. I don't know you personally. But I am Proud of You Dude. Congratulations on finally becoming who you were meant to be. XX

[@Michael-dg6ep]

It takes allot of guts to 'stand up as the person you are' and be honest. Like several of your previous commenters, I knew I was different when I was 5 - I just didn't know that there was a name for it (btw - I turned 70 in late August). Fortunately, I never married a woman (though I got close). My upbringing was complicated as I was 2nd generation American (from Czechoslovakia), and having been raised in a very Catholic family. Without going into "writing my own dialogue for a video", after a rather interesting life, I found my now, Husband on my 44th Birthday (after dating several potential partners, over the years). We've been together for more than 26 years (and Married for more than 5 years). I can absolutely tell you that, "LIFE DOES GET BETTER!" Be patient with yourself; explore your options' BE SAFE!!!; and allow yourself "to grow into the person you were meant to BE!" Thank you for sharing this post!

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you, that really means a lot to me. I feel hopeful for my future:)

[@franciscopagan3255]

Thanks for telling us your story. I congratulate you because you have been honest with yourself and in the end with your girlfriend. You are not cheating. You thought at first that you were bisexual and finally came to the conclusion that you were gay. That's being honest. Good luck 🍀!

[@sgiovangelo47]

Cameron, your story was honest and straightforward; sometimes the unscripted and simple is the best. I wish I was able to have been out at 19 but I was 19 in 1966 so you know how old I am; gay men my age remember well how we had to hide who we are, the repression of society was severe. I knew who I was when I was probably 9 or 10 although I couldn't explain it until I was in my teens. Being out is liberating and if anyone has a problem with your integrity and identity, remember--it's their problem. I hope you find as caring and loving a man in your life as you seem to be; he will be fortunate to find you too. Thank you for your sharing.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww this means so much to be, I really appreciate your kind words

[@theoandriessen514]

It can be such a journey........telling your girlfriend was hard but it also set her free.....thanks for sharing and live life happy !

[@garygjl9036]

Honest, raw. You knew you had to face the truth. That's knowing self respect and one's value. You're a good looking man. Seek respect, not attention, it lasts longer. Hope you are doing well, get your career sorted.

[@michealsmith28]

That's something that you should never forget you are loved you're my strangers you don't even know

[@brygram]

Congrats, enjoy the Gay Club! Insightful video, and your strength shows through. Not many years ago, people like yourself (boy/girl dating) may have "unhappily" got pregnant, married and made a family. You already know that is not your life, your story. You are an inspiration to others.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you I appreciate that!

[@rjcarter2904]

Cameron, that was a beautiful story, and you told it beautifully. You brought tears to my eyes, and I wanted to give you a hug. You're a lovely guy--both literally and figuratively. You managed that all very well, in my opinion. As a man who lived a lie for many years, I can say with certainty that what you did was excellent. While I am fairly certain that bisexuality exists, the "bi belief" commonly is a transition from denial of homosexuality and coming out as gay--a bridge. Anyway, you're adorable, and I wish only wonderful things for you.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you so much you are too kind!

[@markw1685]

Been so long since I've watched a coming out story. It's 5am in my part of the world and it's very peaceful and I'm taking eveyword in. Your life journey will go on and on! Make it the best, Never go back And thank you for sharing God Bless

[@BillMerchantVideo]

Be brave, my friend. You have shared a very traumatic decision and experience. Thank you for your honesty. I wish the best for you going forward. You must be who you are.

[@MisterKelisi]

Not sure how this appeared on my youtube, but your story has really given me a boost of much needed encouragement. We have similar stories and yesterday I actually came out to my co-workers and it shook me. It shook me because it shocked them that I appear so "straight" but I'm not, and thus, scared me that they wouldn't accept me. I am still coming to terms with my sexuality and learning to be more open about it. Gives me comfort to know that there's plenty of guys like you and me (straight acting) who are still on our journeys with ourselves.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

I also had a similar experience when I came out to my coworkers. They just have to understand that there isn’t one way to be gay. Sexuality isn’t necessarily something you can just see in a person. It doesn’t define who you are.

[@MisterKelisi]

@@cameronfilipowicz7308 I didn't expect a reply. Thank you for your words :)

[@Leftatalbuquerque]

From someone who was also once 19: Do not settle; do not be settled for. Be honest, even if it means telling someone "no, thank you". Do not play with people or use them in any way - they too, have hearts, just as you do, just as you would want someone to spare yours, no matter how casual or free with love and sex (usually, just sex) they may pretend to be. Listen to your body: it will tell you when the hand you are holding is the right one, when the kiss you are sharing is the one you want to experience over and over again. Stand on your own two feet and resist the temptation to ride coattails. Show up with a bottle of wine and a bouquet of flowers, send a card that says thank you (NOT an email or a text!!). Have class and think before you act. Be strong, even when the tears are pouring out and you are sobbing in pain. Breathe, dance, smile and laugh. My generation did its best to build a world where you could stand without fear, whether of a disapproving society or a virus. Live in it. Embrace it. Be kind. PS - please consider bringing back Disco. Today's music is so depressing...! Henna and peroxide can be your friends...! My best - make us proud. C

[@rjb1730]

I hope you read the comments and how much love is behind you. Coming out is never easy but freeing. 😀

[@danielenot2093]

Thank you for sharing, that was beautiful and raw. As a happily married, old-enough-to-be-your-father gay man, I want to tell you that you did the right thing, both for you and the people around you. I know it was tough, but the truth has freed you, and now you are free to live with honesty. Don't be scared: you will find love and will be happy, because you're a beautiful human being. Your journey has just began.

[@robbriner9575]

Your story is a great start to self-awareness and acceptance at an early age (17-19). The subjects will change as you grow older but the process will be the same. People dealing with each other is a lifetime thing, and you should do well after this experience (calm, measured, honest, modest).

[@leflairon]

Thanks for sharing your story. I came out to most of my love ones (family and friends) at the start of this year and I'm feeling so much better! There's still some "complexity" with my father but it's nothing too bad, I can still live freely and happy :)

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

I’m so proud of you! You deserve to be happy

[@grahamrankin5557]

Hi Cameron, I so really appreciated your story and I empathise with your feelings. The best thing you can do is be true to yourself. I'm much further down Life's Lane than you but your story rang so many bells for me. I struggled with my sexuality through my teen years, tried to be 'normal' through my 20's, dated 3 girls (not simultaneously) and finally came to terms with who I was in my early 30's and came out as gay. I felt I wasted my 20's but it was a learning experience which I now appreciate. Then after so many false starts and experiences with men, I finally found my male Life Partner when I was 50 and we've been happily together now for 27years, and yes, I'm 77 now and glad that I persevered. So, I'm happy for you that you've discovered and accepted your natural sexuality at your age and can only encourage you to stay hopeful that you'll find someone to share your life with, time is on your side. Cheers and best wishes for a good life.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you so much for the kind words, I really appreciate it:)

[@kjd0902]

Just wanted to send you words of support, it seems you did what was best for you but in reality it was best for her. While she doesn’t realize it right now she will come to understand, respect you and respect your decisions. Coming out is not like flipping a switch. It’s a process and you will “come out” many times in the future. But each time is easier. Trust me. As far as relationships. You will know innately ….remember when things don’t go the way you planned, as the song says pick yourself up dust yourself off and start over again. Tomorrow’s another day and it’s going to be full of good surprises for you. Love is out there. I met my partner in a catholic college in 1980 and it’s 42 years and counting. I wish the same for you

[@TheUpHighGuy]

Greetings from Colorado 💙✌🏻🙌🏻 Glad you shared your story! I randomly saw your video and I almost didn't bother watching; I'm glad I did. You said your 19. I went through the same at 19 but didn't have that courage and got married to hide it or "fix it." 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️ 7yrs later I was divorced with a daughter (whom I adore) but was out. Have been ever since and it is quite liberating! The hurt is real but would have been worse had you made the cowardly decision that I did. So I'm proud of you. It was the right thing to do for you AND for her. Marrying out of guilt does not work. You have a wonderful life ahead and I wish you the very best!

[@lovemoviesful2]

You did the right thing. It's worse waiting until you marry and then come out, it will hurt both of you more. Time will heal.

[@patrickburke7929]

Your coming out video is my 1st I've watched. Thank you so much. I'm trying to get the courage to do my own. Good luck on your next phase of your life.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awwww I love that! I wish you the best of luck when you feel comfortable enough to do that:)

[@guilianadibernardo9328]

I knew I was bi in middle school. I just watched your video and i'm so happy for you, definitely rooting for you

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you! You too!

[@constantineangelgutierrez1851]

I am so glad I didn't have to go through all that. I've always been Gay and eew no gurls. anyways wishing you the best of luck. Be careful dating be safe and just don't have a boyfriend quick just to have one. date a while and get to know people before commitment I only had 2 relationships and am married now for life. But have fun.

[@KingDomfaithlifecoaching]

Good for you Baby! The coming out never stops. Job intervies, meeting new people, etc. But good on you for being honest and trying to make things right. 💚

[@okimlistening2u]

Cameron, I just found you and subbed. This was very brave and difficult for you. You are a noble young man with strong moral principles and you have nothing to fear. You have shown your maturity and character in this video.......I am so proud of you and young gay people like you. Thank you bro for your courage and principles.............Ray

[@tonythach11]

Thanks for your sharing. It takes time to heal and love yourself as who you are. Keep moving forward and take breaks when needed would definitely get you to where you belong to, finally

[@AMJDG]

It is always a wonderful life - if you make it so. You seem to have come to terms with who you are and that's the first step. Not sure about your religion but despite what the "Bertha better than you" type people think, God loves everyone - including you. I wish you a happy and successful life...

[@OLDS98]

It is a journey and you can and you will work through many things. It is journey and take your time. Be true to who you are. Do not be too hard on yourself. Posting the video not only helps you, it will help someone else as well. It took courage to come out and you did it. It took courage to do this video. You did it.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww thank you that really means a lot to me

[@OLDS98]

@@cameronfilipowicz7308 I am glad to hear that it does. I am being honest. You have so much life to live and time to learn about others and yourself too. This is just the beginning.

[@ronsmith2241]

Well done for coming out. So imp to be authentic. I am gay but I was married to my wife for 51 years and I cared for her with MS for 26 years. When I was younger being gay was illegal. I came out to my 2 kids when I was 63. My wife and my family were very accepting. She has since passed. To see you come at at your age was amazing.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

That is an incredible story. I wish you nothing but the best!

[@MegaPageOne]

Thanks for sharing. You've found the strength to be honest with yourself and those around you. I admire that so very much. Some guys never find that strength and courage. I wish you the best, my friend.

[@JayArgentBooks]

Thanks for sharing your story. So proud of you. ❤

[@emile7336]

Cameron, lad. I really feel for you. It was for me also a very tough time in my life. It will take a while, but I promise you I will get better. E

[@abrahamkalulu1396]

I feel you, we had similar experience. Came out last year and now am 18. Came to my 2 close friends and they were supportive.

[@trevordixon1427]

I told my mother first in a restaurant.she was just worried what my friends were like....x

[@freddyherrera1723]

You are The Man Dude!. Hopefully someone’s man as well. Enjoy your life, be clean, be beautiful always..

[@Mcfreddo]

You're a lovely young guy. Don't worry about it. Society puts the pressure on you and you feel the guilts, but they own the closet you know? Helped by family to put you in there? Your a good man. Tell yourself so when looking in the mirror if you're doubtful. Find someone to give you a hug when you're low?

[@themagickalmermaid]

courageous to accept and love yourself.

[@patrickbarry6335]

Thanks Cameron, really nice to meet you, .

[@stefan0ni]

Hello Cameron, It was easy to see from your demeanour just what an impact that story has had upon your life. It’s clear too that you’ve realised that coming out is an ongoing process, and I can tell you that it’s one which can often last a lifetime. You haven’t mentioned who else you have opened up to: family, friends etc. I can tell you this though: it does get better. Look to your future as, with your attitude, it’s easy to see that it will be bright and happy. Best wishes from Ireland, Stefan

[@franklinshouse8719]

Congratulations on coming out and on telling us your story. The more you tell it, the easier it will be. Keep a good attitude and keep smiling. I waited til I was 26, and it was the best thing I did. Enjoy your life!

[@AapkaArunendra]

Thanks for coming up with your story. I came out after being married and having kid, so it's never late to realize and accept who you are!

[@williamharding4260]

Take heart that through the pickle to understand yourself you made the right moves. You were honest in a situation where there might not have been empathy from those closest to you. And you did it in a very short timeframe. Best wishes for the rest of your story that now unfolds. Good friends are so important.

[@golai89]

You are loved! Thanks for being you and creating your own happiness!

[@russellmurphy3678]

I appreciate you sharing your story. Very well spoken and put together. Best wishes on your journey into reality.

[@IdBertParks]

I’m so proud of you! The best is ahead!

[@carltwidle9046]

It's good that you are being true to yourself. It could have been different.

[@bateschildress]

Hang in there! It is hard to hurt people you care about, but it is harder for everyone to try to be someone you are not. Better to realize that now than to take yourself and others down a road they want to go but is not the right road. You are on the right path. Speaking from experience!

[@echo3347]

Thanks for sharing! These kinds of stories can really help other people in these situations not feel alone. Coming out is so so challenging and complex.

[@jefferypolston3741]

You did good guy. I loved that this was from the heart and not scripted. You find yourself . Love to you and welcome to the tribe.

[@alex8pearl]

Hello from Canada.Thank You for the truth and honesty.Much Love

[@davidwatson9489]

I give you great credit for you have done to live well and strongly and state who you are in reality. I am 65 and have been out since I was very young . I stand here and watch this and I am amazed how well you have chosen to do this. Good on you . Be strong and be safe and enjoy who you are.,

[@Chris-od8si]

Thank you for sharing your story. Best wishes for a wonderful future, full of love.

[@kirstenvanrensburg811]

Thanks for sharing your story you have such an amazing soul. I had a similar experience it brought back some memories. Good luck on your new adventure 😌

[@stevekrause5931]

Cameron, thanks for sharing your story. You're courageous. I'm glad you found peace with who you are. That's a significant accomplishment. I realized I was gay when I was about 22, but it took many years after that to feel comfortable with everything due to religious conflicts, etc. But, I'm happy now and at peace with it. I'm glad you were able to come out at such a young age. Now, with that behind, you you have a full, wonderful life full of love ahead of you. All the best!

[@julius7206]

So much bravery you have, proud of you, wanna now what you have been through since you came out.

[@erick7895]

welcome to the family bb

[@richardbernard6845]

Things get better. You have taken the first step and it gets easier as time goes on. I hope one day you find true love. My husband and I are going into our 46th year and our lives are fulfilling. Good luck:-)

[@cloudyKim.]

Watching this in a time where I'm trying so hard to convince myself that I'm bisexual not lesbian just so I can still have a glimpse of hope that maybe, one day, I will have a chance to live a normal life in a country where being LGBTQ is illegal. The honesty, hesitation and tone of your voice all moved me so much and got me thinking all over again. I'm happy for you, Your kindness and humanity reached to me and from someone who is struggling immensely to be true to my feelings, I wish you a lifetime of authenticity and true love 💚

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

This means so much to me. I also wish for you nothing but happiness for yourself because you are beautiful for who you truly are.

[@craigwilson5080]

I also came out at before my 20th birthday and it was difficult for me, as well!, my mother wasn’t very receptive too that news, and I didn’t get a good response from many, but I was still the best thing that I ever did, and now I can finally begin living my true life now!!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

It's a wonderful feeling

[@ChristopherBoisvert]

Thank you for being yourself and sharing your story with us. You should be proud of yourself, despite the fact that it was so hard. I wish you all the best. There is a whole new world that is at your feet to explore. I'm sure there is a wonderful guy in you future.

[@johnmoya383]

You're beautiful Cameron , always be yours and be safe. Live ya man

[@alberdehaas9858]

I am proud of you Cameron. One day at the time hugs!!!!!!

[@myboibill]

Glad you came out young. 18 or 19 is a very good place to start. You will have a good life. Best of luck.

[@brixmoore9871]

Thank you for sharing your story. Hopefully, life treats you well. Best of luck!

[@Robert-ho4xk]

Wow Cameron, what an authentic post. All the best on your way!

[@apsarasgaming1663]

Wow ur so brave man I'm proud of u and btw ur handsome and cute as well 😀

[@richarddavis2107]

Well done guys I wish I had your courage. I came out at 40 years old. Never regretted it since. I met my partner early on although it started out as friend then developed into something more. We have been together for 25 years.

[@tuck4511]

I watched your video today. I must say that I'm surprised how you young people react so strongly to your sexuality. I knew I was gay at about 10. I did the usual hiding it thing. I had a GF al through high school. I never told anyone I was gay (close family/friends). I let them figure it out for themselves. Some took it well some not, but, I told them this is MY life not yours, get over it! I'm pretty old now and have no regrets and genuine friends. Just live the best life you possibly can.

[@Guide-Tu]

Thanks for sharing a good coming out process.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you for watching!

[@KiwikimNZ]

Good on you man! So proud of you having the courage to do this video and to be truthful with yourself. Sharing your story will help others that are in that confusing situation that it’s important to be honest with yourself and those you love. I am not gay but I can imagine how difficult it must be to go through this process and the implications of coming out will have on your life, it must be extremely hard. Good for you. We have to live a full life, a life in which makes us for filled and happy. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter what others think, we need to live our best lives possible. Your awesome ! Xxx

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww thank you so much! If I just helped one person with this video I hit my goal. I'm so shocked about how many kind comments I got from people.

[@samadams219]

Hi Cameron. Hope you are doing well and wishing you well.

[@grillztheelf5384]

Idk how this came up on my recommendation but glad it did, I went through this same thing sorta ,ik I like guys for sure but told my ex I like guys before we got together kinda backfired tho but kudos to you keep your head up 🤘🏾

[@cloudyKim.]

You deserve the world ♥️♥️♥️

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Awww thank you!

[@jacobvie]

Wow! Such an amazing video. You can be very proud of yourself.

[@BrianStewart-jh5hm]

You are amazing and have totally done the right thing. Enjoy life.

[@robbieanson1218]

God loves you as a person and he will always will be there for you. Just keep your mind on him and that will be saying something about that. God loves you and he does not hate you for being who you are just come as you are to him God loves you, no matter who and what you are, God does not care if you’re gay or not and I want you to know that the truth is the reason why I know that that you should think better about yourself as a person and your own visuality because no one can tell you any different who you are inside as you are from the outside , as long as you know who you are, God will meet you there just come as you are and want to hear things like this that is uplifting to you then may your prayers be answered through that God loves you for who you are and he does not care if you’re straight or gay to whatever as long as you’re comfortable with yourself physically and mentally as long as you know who you are and people will meet you and be friends, God will meet you where you are

[@karlminehart6246]

Thanks for sharing this. It is usually a very emotional time and memory. You didn't mention how your family took it but it looks like it wasn't too rough. Being honest with yourself is a difficult thing for most but not all of the LGBT+ family. Hugs from a old gay man.

[@paulj6138]

For a minute I thought you were Luke that's cuz I'm watching in a half dark room Best of luck to you 😎

[@paulj6138]

Just work on one day at a time I basically knew my situation by age 14 but I moved around a lot and eventually I figured I'm also on the autism spectrum which is like trying to ride a bike with a wrench in the spokes So long relationships didn't happen. We just have to keep healthy friendships and get as much outside exercise fresh air as possible my watch pedometer is very helpful and the best I've done walked 70 miles in June I've slacked off abit since but promise myself to get better since No matter what I know for me walking in nature gives me peace of mind along with honest conversation with someone I consider trustworthy helps to clear my brain clutter✌❤

[@HM-iv1wb]

I am so proud of you ❤️❤️

[@that1monk]

I'm so proud of you for your courage. You did the right thing. I am looking forward to hearing the joy in your voice for being an honest person. That day is coming. I hope you find a great boyfriend. I hope you can surround yourself with supportive people to help you on your way. 🙏❤🏳‍🌈

[@stevejones5303]

Awesome, thanks for sharing!

[@davidoran123]

I knew early, but came out to friends at 18 that was 1972. I am still friends with my girlfriend then, and married for 28 years now to my husband. A long trip, but worth the journey. I only wish it had gotten easier for the young gays now. And the repression being fomented by the MAGA now is totally unwarranted and disgusting.

[@causesofwellbeing-pablodas2120]

Hey. Wishing you well. Thanks for your story

[@lindab8791]

Female perspective. You were honest with her and yourself. That takes courage. She can move on. I hope you remain friends. Gay men have enriched my life in more ways than I can imagine. Friendship was at your base with your ex and that's what men and women should strive for.

[@cameronfilipowicz7308]

Thank you so much. This means so much to me:)

[@VoidUnderTheSun]

I am proud of you, Cody Ko.

[@ianshooter7847]

You very nice and handsome guy and understand how hard it is for you in a different way

[@davidridings4011]

Welcome to the family!

[@frankmarter6845]

Being gay or being straight shouldn’t be a problem to anyone. If you are you are. You had nothing to do with it so it shouldn’t be held against you. Unfortunately because of religion it is a problem. Forget religion. Any religion that pigeon holes people or divides them is not worth your time. If it weren’t for religion being gay wouldn’t be any more important than your hair color. If you are religious then just take heart that you were created the way you are on purpose. It wasn’t a mistake. Just go with it and live. Don’t worry about short sighted people and their attitudes.