My Cousin Is Ruining My Marriage! | KARAMO

[@Cali90210-n]

I feel so bad for him. Holding trauma in your body can manifest into an illness. You have to let it out. I wish him so much healing and love. That cousin still needs to mind her business

[@terrijackson4594]

Well said I agree

[@2ndedition766]

If it's not the cousin he runs to, it will be someone else. _______ (⬅insert name) will be his comfort and confidant.

[@penelopeb1370]

Aww! The husband is hanging with the cousin to escape the pain at home while remaining loyal. She's his connection that he wants with his husband.

[@opulence_prime]

I love how Karamo hypes his guest for looking fresh.

[@Samanthas1]

It helps them to relax and feel confident

[@iMsOiNsO]

It’s refreshing…something so small can make someone feel good inside tho

[@THE326JORDAN]

yeah he didn’t do that with the girl who exposed the pink sauce tho…

[@NinJahBaeServicesLLC]

Yesss he be giving the vibes every time!!! 💜

[@lungienxumalo3244]

Such a great host!

[@chademonique228]

Awww this was such a sweet episode. I’m so glad the husband has the cousin and he’s not stepping out on his marriage. I’m so glad the husband is as there when he started to break down So so sweet ❤❤

[@laderricksimpson2530]

Thanks

[@Indigal]

​@@laderricksimpson2530 ❤

[@garrica2534]

She's not the issue but she's an added on issue. She needs to back off so they can repair their union. Sending positive vibes and healing to him.

[@fountainmedia4683]

OMG, 17 yrs together loving one another! I wish you both 17 more years of love and beyond! You guys are AMAZING! ❣🔥🔥

[@amanilewis6892]

Thanks love

[@teetawn9454]

Poor guy.He is hurting so much. He CANT share. It's just too intense for him. I hope he finds his voice somehow and heals.

[@amanilewis6892]

I hope he does it.

[@TheJellybeanforever]

He just needs to find that vulnerability with his partner, sometimes black men aren’t taught how to be vulnerable. So escapism is the only trigger response out of fear, I hope he finds the peace to open up and heal. They are a lovely family!

[@nick74195]

Partner. That is the word.

[@amanilewis6892]

Thank you

[@ebbyf294]

I'm so over this excuse. Yet they run around acting like Black women were granted that space.

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

​@@ebbyf294 I know I wasnt

[@Oh_No_1]

@@ebbyf294If I’m being honest, in the black community vulnerability is something every person needs to be taught, which a lot of black men AND women are not

[@midlifeblessings4671]

The cousin is a big part of the problem PERIODTTTT, When he said what if I hung with your husband she was like naw. She also hesitated when the question came up about wanting revenge.

[@prettygirltee8]

I SAY THAT TOO! How can he vent when he’s always with her Beth teeth azz? I could never have a married person with me as much. That’s disrespectful to their marriage and his husband has no respect for his marriage.

[@smmythcrtr]

I feel like the cousin is just an outlet for the husband. All the cousin is doing is trying to mediate and give the husband someone to talk to

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

@@smmythcrtr That's fine but she needs to stop back chatting and commenting in a conversation that she needs to stay out of.

[@truthtorpedo4068]

​@@bohlalenchabeleng1370Lol! Yawdie.

[@opulence_prime]

I wish this couple the best. I love how he hugged him when he said he was beyond repair. They love each other despite the pain. They gone make it. ❤

[@nick74195]

Lol

[@laderricksimpson2530]

Thanks so much for the positive response and kind gesture....

[@photogenic305]

🫶🏽

[@amanilewis6892]

I do love him

[@amanilewis6892]

Thanks keep us in your prayers 🙏

[@NashvilleBraids]

The cousin needs to find something else to do while they repair their relationship. She is super invasive.

[@FinDom1]

When he said “You think so” it broke my heart.

[@j9carson]

Me too

[@misslady9286]

Mine too!

[@micheleadamson9867]

I am praying for Laderrick's healing so that he can repair not only him but his marriage as well.

[@shameanthomas2019]

Karamos voice is Sooo Soothing and there is Content and peace within it. He brings solutions to peoples lives, and gets to the root of problems in such an excuting and skillful way. Im hooked! ❤

[@Myshelleallen]

Karamo be really giving out beautiful advice !!! You can tell it’s sincere she coming from his heart!

[@jawnydru2264]

Broken crayons still color is the most beautiful thing ive ever heard in my life

[@AnitaDoIt]

Karamo gave great advice, as always. But I do think the cousin has a little fault 5:52. She kinda teased Laderek when Amani walked in. I also feel like she’s going to keep her current behavior. Her face never confirmed that she will abide by Karamo’s advice. 13:12. Hope I’m wrong. Good luck to all 3❤

[@amanilewis6892]

Thank u love

[@DesignedByMilah]

Laderrick has to work on himself if he wants to be the family man he wishes to be. The love and care is there between all 3 of them.

[@jans_ascension]

I ALWAYS LOVE TO HEAR..."YALL GONE BE OK " . ...💚💚💚

[@ME-iq2qo]

The cousin still needs to mind her business. I would definitely draw a hard line with my husband. I HATE when family members don't know how to stay in their place.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

It shocks me that people aren't talking about this, she needs to keep quiet.

[@VONiiE8]

Well, they’re inviting her in.

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Lmaooo “I’m not an alcoholic” couple minutes later “Yes I had drink at 6 and ask for a cocktail for my nerves”

[@vicktoryscreech]

its really hard for people to admit they have a problem

[@jadeacampbell5206]

@@vicktoryscreech I know it was just a little funny

[@Introverted_Genuine]

​@@jadeacampbell5206 to u

[@LilT2o00]

@@vicktoryscreech I mean I admit I abuse alcohol, but I don't see it as a problem. That said, I don't act an ass when I drink and my drinking is self contained (By myself in my bedroom). I don't care about the health aspect of it. When I die, I die, oh well, and other than health, it doesn't negatively impact my life in any way. I make it to work on time, i don't break any promises. I do everything I need to do and then and only then will I pull out the bottle, at home, alone, bothering nobody

[@michellewildswilds3507]

I like that Saying…Broken Crayons Still Color…Ameen

[@kyrajohnson6522]

She needs to fall back and worry about her own relationship! Girl mind the business that pays you!! She’s way too involved and shouldn’t be….. straight up annoying and loud.

[@sheritamosley7391]

Karamo your words and honesty is so beautiful

[@goodvibesonly6949]

I have a cooler in my trunk because they might get thirsty 😂

[@Kylie.Cap88]

Lol

[@elisemanuel7740]

Karamo, I am steady on your episodes daily and never have been so moved to comment like today. The way you see trauma, solution and have confidence in resolution is an amazing blessing. You were so sweet when you added in the “I love you guys” at the end was so genuine ❤ sending you love, cause “I see you!”

[@poohchi6205]

Lord I’m in tears. He has an amazing husband. 17 years come on papi I believe in you

[@nick74195]

Lol. The lord is not in this.

[@KnewYawkPapi]

@@nick74195 some people might say the lord is in YOUR imagination, mind your business!

[@Sarah-rs1bz]

@@nick74195 Right, sholl ain’t

[@amanilewis6892]

Thanks love

[@coachannmuriithi1588]

Happy marriage???

[@dollskull86]

I empathize with the cousin, he feels he's damaged beyond repair. I feel that so deep and it's my moment now

[@Probity100]

I am guessing he was abused horribly as a child poor man 😢

[@dollskull86]

@@Probity100 most homosexual men that I personally know have endured that, even some heterosexual that literally tremble with fear when they revisit it, I believe that's his case as well 😥

[@J_The_Word]

This was a good episode. It seems as though they were really taking heed to Karamo’s words.

[@phawnedwards9799]

Anger affects the liver the liver is directly affected by alcohol think about it rage often comes when someone is under the influence of alcohol it's a vicious cycle

[@thehoneyeffect]

I fear what he's got bottled up, bless him 17yrs and he hasn't told him? damn. He needs some deep therapy and healing

[@chelleave]

Your partner or anyone for that matter can't be there for u how'd you'd like if you don't open up to them about the situation. Vulnerability is strength & we as blk ppl were taught the opposite

[@anthonyryot7381]

I needed this. I was going through the same situation. You lose who you are in a bottle or in a can. Know that storms soon pass, and its okay to be vulnerable... especially with your husband, we can tell that man loves you!

[@julz7753]

these guys love each other, the cousin is good peeps. do what you have to to keep all this together.

[@raindrops4284]

The girlfriend isn't the problem she's the escape because he's unhappy at home and wants to get away for a while. Laderrick needs concealing by himself and with his husband.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

@gerardchambers768 All I'm saying is when the two husbands are having a conversation, she needs to stay out of it.

[@celestecruthird7842]

She Needs To Mind Her Business! And Get A Life! Jealousy Is Real! 😏😏

[@Hephzibah_n_beulah]

Sounds like he needs to have a talk with HIS partner..why’s the blame on his cousin? Whatever is being done is by free will

[@standupbcounted2420]

People have to learn to set boundaries, and those boundaries should be enforced and maintained.

[@abbeyhenderson3549]

KARAMO! WE THANK GOD FOR YOU. YOU'RE CONTINUING THE LEGACY OF IYANLA AND SOME OF WHAT OPRAH HAS DONE.

[@Probity100]

No Iyanla here, no Oprah, no drama. Just calm Karamo

[@nomzimasinyalela5080]

I like your advice Karamo,so therapeutic

[@Lynette_Shine]

That Karamo know he can make you cry - where the tissues for me 🧻😭😭😭

[@Miiiingtheebaddie]

Kara o be giving flowers where they do, I love his Karamo digs deep & finds the root to the problems

[@buttercupj6208]

I understand how Derrick feels as far as feeling being damaged beyond repair I'm still a work in progress praying for him and his family 🙏

[@niyahsimone5104]

This was such a beautiful episode 😍🥹

[@kennethjohnson6433]

Kurama you bust it up with that black suit red pin and red handkerchief for sure 😳😳😳

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Broken crayons still color I never heard of that this is deep

[@tawanachristian3396]

Armani is so ADORABLE!

[@sabriyahsmith346]

THE COUSIN NEEDS TO MIND HER BUSINESS!!!!!!!!!!!! PERIODT

[@amanilewis6892]

She only knows what I tell her

[@brendaroath]

I love the show at watch 10 hours while I'm at work and his advice helps me with my callers. Let's keep talking and growing!❤💖❤

[@niicole_tv03]

I would be annoyed if she was in my relationship too .. what we got going on has nothing to do with her it’s our business

[@ashadesuza4237]

I don't understand why everyone is talking about the cousin! The only person in this throuple that has an obligation is Armani to his husband

[@missricarose8248]

Karamo that ending was beautiful ❤

[@truthtorpedo4068]

2:13 -------- Poor duck lips. 😂

[@NC-wf4ki]

The cousin is one of the problems her body language says it all!!! I had to rewatch the video!!! She wants to be apart of their marriage. My guess is she’s jealous of their love.

[@amanilewis6892]

Naw she's not jealous she loves to see us happy together

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

@@amanilewis6892 That's understandable sir and she has done a great job supporting you. When you're having a conversation with your husband she doesn't have to invade or insert herself unless her opinion is solicited. She needs to respect your husband and your marriage but she will not do that until you set that boundary.

[@gooneybaby9439]

I love Karamo! 😭💯🥳

[@kpatterson72570]

I can see his hurt… he’s afraid to be vulnerable

[@tawannaanderson7059]

Its refreshing to not hear a whole bunch of booing coming from a audience

[@baligeyahawah9097]

Karamo don't defend the cousin

[@bellahawkins2011]

He don't drink waterrr 😫

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Clear your throat or something

[@marvinsmith1652]

I don't know what the trauma is sometimes people will use this as an excuse to justify there behavior so the husband is the sponge that has to absorb the verbal, mental abuse

[@sabriyahsmith346]

The husbands need time to heal and be together without the cousin involved!!!! They are married!!

[@taytriggs9065]

She not willing to do that. See her face when he said tell him to go talk to his husband? Anyway the cousin may not be the problem but she’s part of the problem. Alcohol is a habit I’m happy I never started.

[@misslady9286]

Karamo is wise!

[@kareemcooper3996]

I LOVE KARAMO PERIOD HES BOSS VERY VERY INTELLIGENT MAN

[@planetsoverpeople]

This got so deep wow

[@venomswrath43]

No disrespect...but I think this was a low key secret intervention....the cousin and the husband probably set this up with karamo b4 the original dude did...it was a well played move....glad it was used to help their loved one

[@laderricksimpson2530]

Well I'm glad you don't get paid for thinking! Mind your business please and thank you hypocrite

[@amanilewis6892]

well I'm sorry to tell u this was never played out my husband called the show and I knew nothing about it.. but thanks for the comment

[@kiishasings]

Love and light to this beautiful couple

[@VONiiE8]

It’s weird that there’s so many ppl blaming the cousin like he’s not a verbally abusive drunk. The cousin is only involved bc she was invited in.

[@Jojo-zy5zd]

What a beautiful couple, you can see the love they have for each other. I hope whatever is hurting him he can overcome. Alcohol doesn't love you but you can see ya husband does💯Don't hold it in king, reach out and let ya husband help you thru it. You deserve happiness and to be at peace. Wish y'all the best❤️

[@mrs.newyork4090]

SHREVEPORT, LA STAND UP!!! MY HUSBAND FAM!!

[@Femititi100]

Karomo Be On Point.

[@sigh_youboreme8359]

KAMARO IS SOOOO DOPE!!

[@josephinenthoki6659]

This cousin needs to back off and out. She's enjoying the situation - malicious and fueling things. Girl, go take care of your man

[@gammawammajamma]

Lmaoo Armani and Laderrick in the comments 🤣

[@nancybthescratcher6327]

He need therapy asap 😢🎉

[@CShannon1991]

That cousin really needs to mind her own business. In my opinion really, she’s for the streets.

[@believeme9211]

He needs to clear his throat 😂 lol

[@hakimkiseeka]

🤣🤣

[@sidneyatkins6678]

They've been together longer than she been getting her period

[@tylerferguson1689]

Pink sauce 2.0 🤣

[@nomzimasinyalela5080]

Grey sauce

[@mariadominguez927]

I understand the broken vrayon because I feel like broken toy from Christmas in the land of misfit toys thank u

[@addicted2love57]

Laderek kinda looks like Malcom Jamal Warner

[@copperamerindian050]

Yup.. a more handsome version too 😍

[@tylerferguson1689]

Btw your blowing up on Twitter and tiktok again 🤣

[@jojoversus1100]

For all the wrong reasons

[@amanilewis6892]

W what to look for on there

[@shelocsher2396]

Cousin needs to stay in her lane, but his Husband is willingly spending time with her. Set boundaries with your spouse, the rest will follow. Edit: 😩 Sis don’t know how to be quiet, aggravating!

[@poliverphillips]

Sending love guys! Praying for u both. Stay strong in ur love. Hope to see u guys soon! Xoxox!!!

[@truthtorpedo4068]

😂 What??!?!!

[@Miss_Understood00]

Awwn Amani is so handsome!

[@prettygirltee8]

She’s not the problem but she’s contributing to the problem and not being respectful of her cousin’s marriage. My husband could never be with our friends all the time or my family member as much. She need to keep her big teeth in place though.

[@barbaracodner2504]

Laderrick was obviously sexually abused/assaulted and he keeps reliving it. The drinking helps to relax him. He needs therapy.

[@makahiafleming1717]

this is really how i fell right now

[@malumageo]

I need that outfit Amani have on

[@amanilewis6892]

I'll tell u where I got it from

[@4djinn]

Absolutely not. If you want to act single then do so. If you spending more time outside the house than in it or just with your partner then BE SINGLE!! He moving like he is anyway.

[@cocochanel2118]

He might have to write it down first

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

Great idea.

[@GangstaBoo7]

Yeah the cousin is annoying, I felt somewhat she was lowkey in her feelings seeing them work things out. Now she's gonna be the 3rd wheel

[@amanilewis6892]

No she's not

[@drkevinsmithFRCPath]

3.7k dislikes, 925 likes, what a ratio been downhill since pink sauce lady.

[@drip2hard306]

Love this cpl n the cousin ❤️🙌🙌🙌

[@trebiensouth652]

Like What Was So Traumatic You Can’t Tell Your Own Husband Sheesh.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

That's not up to you to decide.

[@Djdreamstudios]

Hold up! Y'all have been together for 17 years and y'all never had a deep conversation 🙁 that doesn't look good!

[@amanilewis6892]

Who you telling and still haven't had it ..

[@Djdreamstudios]

@@amanilewis6892 yeah that’s a major red flag because that means he hasn’t made you feel comfortable enough to tell him 😕

[@amanilewis6892]

I'm still waiting don't know what I gotta do but I'm definitely not gonna beat myself up about it

[@Djdreamstudios]

@@amanilewis6892 period!

[@IqraMohamed-r1j]

I love this show but he needs to give everyone a hug but not only the sisters ❤❤❤ but give the bros a hug too they might be going through shit too This is love from London 🇬🇧🇬🇧 but I would love to see that hug from everyone I LOVE THIS SHIT and I would love him to help me too to ❤❤💔💔

[@onlychas]

He needs therapy!!!! It's deeeeeppp

[@dspence1902]

Yes

[@marciamoore5539]

The cousin isn't the big issue but she definitely talks way too much and needs to tell her cousin's husband to stay home

[@shavondavis-ku6yu]

I love this show