Help Me Leave My Toxic Boyfriend! | KARAMO

[@ShaaBoss]

I wanna say thank you to all the positive comments & yes I did leave him that same day ♥️ they didn’t show when I went back stage to him & told him I was done. Trust me I know my worth & I will never allow another man to come into my life and treat me this way ..

[@cindyhenry688]

Good for you ❤

[@jesussaves222]

Did you get your books?

[@linealjr07]

Good job

[@ally6661]

I am so happy that you walked away. Wishing you the best!

[@LeeTheLee]

Yes sis. He is a walking red flag. Use his behavior to remind yourself what to look for in ppl.

[@emmas9928]

Cheating aside, in 5 minutes Felix displayed that he is aggressive, dishonest, emotional, loud and manipulative. Leave that man alone.

[@savannahblackhawk-mccormic4259]

I'm going through same , I'm finally letting him go, moving on, ifs been hard but worth it.

[@Pattybaby]

@@savannahblackhawk-mccormic4259I hope you’re well

[@jeanp1323]

if anything, Karamo will give out compliments to the guests, i love how he hypes them up when they arrive

[@jehxjdjdbabhens2809]

Because he knows it builds they’re self esteem and makes them feel more worthy and I love him for that!

[@natashanjf7177]

She is a beautiful woman. She doesn't deserve this

[@geovoniejohnson4853]

Not if she keeps simping and sticking around so she wont be alone in life

[@gelleh.5456]

We deserve what we settle for.

[@ShaaBoss]

Thank you ❤

[@shorts26]

She's doing exactly what she wants and being with who she wants and getting treated the way she wants...she deserves whatever she wants

[@geovoniejohnson4853]

@@shorts26 yeah because instead of leaving with some courage and no excuses, she allows him to have his way with her thats a fact.

[@celestineallen5148]

This guy is controlling, manipulator, narcissistic. My sister there is no love, love yourself first. You are beautiful. Move on. This is like my ex husband. I am relieved after moving away from him. I am ok and love my life

[@ShaaBoss]

Thank you & I did move on ♥️

[@luxuryblackgirl2.0]

Yuppppp you said what I was thinking

[@luxuryblackgirl2.0]

@@ShaaBoss I’m glad you move on ,cause you’re beauty is with in and out❤❤❤

[@DreamofJerine]

I pray she learns to love herself enough to actually move on.

[@geovoniejohnson4853]

My whole life ive been single and i tried to love myself, but somewhere along the way, it doesnt change anything. To me honestly its futile.

[@ShaaBoss]

Thank you ♥️ & I did leave him the same day on the show & I wasn’t emotionally involved anymore

[@niveahiett6051]

@@ShaaBoss proud of you!! He ain’t shit 🤣

[@ShaaBoss]

@@niveahiett6051 thanks you ♥️

[@jlnailsfamily]

Yes totally agree

[@donnaperry6134]

narcissists and toxic people will accuse you of what they are actually guilty of

[@shanteli5970]

I don't like the tone in which he talks to her 😭🥺. It gives me narcissist, controlling and abusive vibes. She deserves so much better. 🤧 I just came across this show today and I've been binge watching ever since👩🏾‍💻. Lowkey addicted this show is so good 😭😩. I love the host he gives the real 🙌🏾.

[@noomigilljam4641]

For a girl whos been there myself, I will never blame any woman for going back. Its so so hard to leave even if you can see the truth standing in front of you. Especially if you love him with all your heart. Eventually it comes a time when you can find strength leave and love yourself enough to do it.

[@sorayaleblanc588]

Same....I was in 10 year toxic relationship ND I said enough is enough...a woman knows when she is ready

[@iamjesse9398]

glad you both were able to leave 🙏🏽

[@ExceptionalLex]

I was always the supportive friend to their face then judgy in my head about how they couldn't leave the person. Now I'm sorry because it's currently my turn 😭

[@natashavictor4946]

@@sorayaleblanc588I’m sorry to hear that 😞💯💯

[@QueenAlonaaa]

no its not hard to leave tf

[@kdavila012]

I use to be w a narcissistic ex as well. It’s tuff breaking that cycle but once your actually done and cut all ties. It’s the most freeing thing ever

[@1cosmicdebris]

It's called self-esteem. Love yourself WAY more than someone's terrible behavior. And scene!

[@msblessedIAM]

Doing a Woman wrong will cause her to become numb to the man's feelings

[@thehoneyeffect]

It’s so easy to slip into distrusting them all

[@ashleywatkins1380]

Absolutely

[@goldsugar-bn8lq]

Preach honey!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@foodieinvb6317]

Ya'll!! This was such a great episode!! I was in the audience and listening to her bf reminds me of so many people sheesh!! I absolutely love this show bc a lot of women just stay in the relationship because they are too afraid to step out of their comfort zone. They have been in such a toxic, dysfunctional relationship for so long, that they accept it as normal. It is NEVER OK for a partner to gaslight, manipulate, or constantly lie to you, you deserve better and she does too! Keep your head up Queen!!

[@janesays1278]

How was the trip to Connecticut?

[@ShaaBoss]

Yes it was but more stuff happen I just wished everything was in the episode & thank you 😊

[@monkeylibra9226]

Did you get your books back?

[@dayYdream2k]

Many of us are blinded by love....but...eventually, we will get tired and say enough is enough. I sure as hell did.

[@ayandafree4354]

YOU'RE Right! There's a Limit to what a person can take!

[@pinkclouds8291]

Many of you are blinded by the *illusion of love. When you know what the real Thing is you’d never allow Someone to feed you this mess nevertheless feed it to yourself…. Just because you take your clothes off & have sex sometimes doesn’t make y’all partners if more young woman understood this we”d have less of these!

[@crystalc820]

Men like this prey on women like her who have super low self esteem...this is why it's very important for men to raise their daughter's & be active in their lives...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@thehoneyeffect]

Misogynoir plus colourism makes it even harder to move on from this level of toxicity and abuse into the unknown. She’s stunning but she can’t see it and does not know her worth. I hope she can find the strength to leave him for real

[@rae2050]

This!!

[@ashleywatkins1380]

Hey, can you explain the colorism part? I just started watching this episode .

[@nialarie]

@@ashleywatkins1380 a lot of men AND women (NOT ALL) don't like dark skinned women/men and its honestly sad. so I think what she means is, she was stuck on him because there's not many people without that weird "preference." I don't know if I worded this correctly but yeah

[@soniaharrison1016]

You hit the nail on the head. Know your worth girl, he ain't all the that, go to therapy, get your career goals on point and go live your beautiful melanated life. I don't know what you see about this controlling idiot, so I know there are self worth issues. Girl RUN.

[@brandyherman6780]

Projecting much?

[@Vibewithkeara]

The cute white couple in the audience face expressions is so funny 😂

[@aic0809]

I love how animated they are! 😂

[@elvishhudson2402]

😂😂😂😂🤣 facts

[@Asli1717]

I was looking for this comment 😂

[@mercy6549]

@@Asli1717 same haha

[@kyrajohnson6522]

Yup that lady in the beginning sitting w her boyfriend face was like I wish my bf would try that mess lol I was dying laughing 🤣

[@blondeds]

shanice is such a great sister, she don’t deserve that. LOVE U BIG SIS❤❤

[@ShaaBoss]

I love you more baby & thank you ♥️♥️

[@SableDevon]

Karamo hit it right on the head for both of them. When he say your addicted to drama I felt that.. people in my life are on that same thing and get mad when you don’t want to talk about the same thing over and over the person who did it dead and gone and your still bringing up negative stuff. Then saying well they did this or that, it’s if you understand forget if they get it or not.

[@opulence_prime]

He was preaching and was absolutely right. I thought I was crazy when I realized that’s why I couldn’t get along w/someone. Then be mad at myself later for going along with it 😅

[@iloveterianna]

my anger issues could never

[@opulence_prime]

He almost had me wit the story about her ignoring him wanted to be consoled.

[@rh8608]

that was so nice for him to offer to pay for her books

[@ExceptionalLex]

My bf does the same exact thing during an argument. He unnecessarily escalates the situation then starts demanding to know whether or not I want to stay together. I can't with these man children 😐

[@Armelleee]

Leave.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

Manipulation.

[@sandras.9312]

Please ruuunnn it’ll get worse

[@lolololololollol4793]

i hope you left. i left mine and feel so free.

[@browniebun]

Y'all still together?

[@isabelwren]

Host’s advice was A1 all throughout 🔥🔥 real ass nigga offerin school books as well. He’s a complete stranger PROVING there was absolutely nothin left in that relationship fa her. Let’s go queen👸🏿! #teamkaramo

[@wadilotus]

Karamo is the gay best friend we all wish we had. ❤

[@latashahickman674]

baby love don’t hurt NEVER LET a man tell you twice he DONT WANT YOU HE TOLD YOU SO MANY TIMES .sis level up and leave that dog for a man ❤

[@mateobanda6808]

Her Best Friend Came Through With The Words

[@fabric706]

She’s so beautiful she don’t deserve this😢

[@peacefreedom4930]

Young ladies: Some of y’all are out here falling for the getcha gotcha. These men have y’all auditioning, accepting situationships, confused, depressed, stressed, and anxious. Please hear me: you can not win a man over by allowing him to use and abuse you. If you’re in a situation with a man who cheats on you, doesn’t claim you, doesn’t show up for you, hurts you, lies to you, degrades you, uses your resources, has you stressed out…. walk away. Don’t announce it. Just leave. Then focus on building your love for yourself, your self value, and your boundaries. It makes a difference in how people treat you and what you will accept. A toxic relationship will not become healthy unless both of the people become healthy. You can’t control the other person. You can only control yourself. So, get healthy and meet a man who has also done the work or was raised to be healthy. Don’t waste you life or sentence your future children to a childhood with a toxic father. ❤

[@tracyjosey7164]

Please love your self... The same energy you are giving to him give it to yourself BabyGirl

[@fdgd9998]

Felix the sneaky cat.

[@jessicamichelle1025]

Okay Karamo, this advice was on point! 💯

[@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED]

DESPERATE !!!!!! GIRL .. RUN !

[@kiara198923]

I have sickle cell disease and have a lot to say. How can I get in touch w/ Karamo??? I'd love to be on his show. I just got out of the hospital not even 2 days or so and one of my friends passed from it as well. I've lost a lot to this disease, friends with it is just the tip of the ice berg. I love how Karamo is straight forward and blunt with his guests, in a good way. I'm currently studying medical billing and coding. I'm supposed to graduate on the 31st. When I tell ya'll I'm in so much pain right now, it's unreal. The doc knew I needed a blood transfusion when he sent me home on Sunday plus said for me not to come back. I don't even know what to do anymore. I just want to complete my assignments/exams because I've come so far. My lowest grade is a C. I'm just in so much freakin pain and it's no way I can go to work in this crazy weather. Sickle cell disease has also ruined my teeth yet I haven't saved enough for oral surgery. My bad this post is so long.

[@ribbonate4472]

I think you could try texting him in instagram or facebook

[@nomzimasinyalela5080]

Hang in there

[@Chinagalaxina]

I hope you feel better and it gets better for you beauty! I cannot imagine how you feel and the toll it has taken on you and your body, please keep going and stay strong! But also don't overwork yourself.. I hope that you graduated

[@AmiyaKali]

- I Have Sickle Cell Also . If You Ever Need To Talk Just Message Me . ❤

[@rnbsteenstar]

Yes, I've noticed that about him too. Blunt and compassionate all at once.

[@shirleybrown8823]

She don't seem serious enough to let him go, after the show she will be back to him

[@odessajohnson7515]

I love this dude in the audience he told him right . ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@domoniqueborden2894]

He's insecure but she'd needs to love herself first

[@geovoniejohnson4853]

What difference does it make if someone loves themselves before anyone else? That sounds selfish to me honestly.

[@BriLaDivina98]

You’re less likely to tolerate anything or anyone that disturbs your peace of mind

[@boyeoshinaga6230]

@@BriLaDivina98 not tolerating at all and putting yourself first all the time is selfish though.

[@BriLaDivina98]

@@boyeoshinaga6230 Let’s be real, we all have to put ourselves first majority of the time, even when it comes to our children. When you’re on a plane, during the safety briefings they tell you to put the oxygen mask on YOURSELF FIRST and then proceed to help your child or whoever else. You can’t pour from an empty cup. In order to help anyone, you must first help yourself. You’re thinking of it in a toxic way, but that’s CLEARLY not what I’m referring to. Especially in THIS situation

[@kandylandtarot142]

Sometimes your big heart is just a lack of boundaries. I'm hoping she means it. These things can last for decades. Breaking up for 10+ years.

[@sierraatkins629]

She took him to the show but in reality she only put a big red flag on her own self esteem. She needs to work on self love and boundaries and cut off points in relationships. Validate yourself like your bestie just did for you ❤

[@rosieb9]

I don’t believe that she will end it. Look how she looks at him when he says he didn’t come on the show to end it. 😩

[@sabrina21clark]

Yeah she's definitely addicted to drama. She's addicted to him too! And he's a narcissist!

[@starloced]

televised couples therapy. who knew i’d needed it till now

[@dreaminbronze9189]

She doesn't wanna take accountability & looks to him to "correct" it.

[@eugeniaboone5602]

First of all, a man calling his woman " bro" is a sign of disrespect. That's how he address his homies. His conversation is very controlling and manipulative. She's insecure because she's overweight. She's an attractive woman, in my opinion ( lose the eyelashes,weave and heavy makeup). She can exercise,eat healthy and lose weight. She'll gain self confidence and lose that self esteem when she loves herself. And lose that other toxic baggage...him. He's narcissistic.

[@trizahmacharia2939]

Well put!

[@tee7954]

the realest comment on here!!!

[@Mayenie]

You hit all the spots 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mightyb8318]

Overweight or not! He would’ve still cheated. Losing weight wouldn’t stop him or make him any better for her. She is an attractive women but let’s take away this and that to make her more appealing for who? Then suggest she lose weight and eats heathy? Who says she doesn’t. Gaining self confidence doesn’t have sh*t to do with going to the gym baby. It comes from within. I’m pretty sure she’ll appreciate the tips she’s already gotten though.

[@swagamaia2540]

@@mightyb8318 EXACTLY!!

[@Viva__XO]

Staying with a cheating "boyfriend" is not love. It's not so worth it. Know your worth and move on!! You can do better

[@showandawinkfield4714]

It’s sad but first she need to be honest and love herself and believe she’s worthy of love. She’s not ready to let go. I hope she see her worth

[@gamayasworld]

i get what he means by addiction bc i was addicted to being invalidated and silenced bc that’s all i knew since a child and it was a known feeling and i had to love myself and realize how bad it was hurting me it was scary but it freed me.

[@angeldiannah8306]

Now this time Karamo hit the nail on the head

[@erinjensen8851]

I love at the very end when he goes “where you going”. To click on another one of your videos, I ain’t going no where

[@isaidwhatisaid..]

Oh I'm so glad she left 2 minutes in he showed us who he is And when Karamo asked him a question he turned it around to blame her but Karamo was not having it and redirected the question back to him 👏🏾

[@omaril.3827]

i feel like she’ll still go back

[@natashanjf7177]

For sure. She isn't ready

[@wjsnflop]

her lil sis make sure she ain’t gonna💀

[@deejai1173]

@@wjsnflop 😂😂🤣😂😂 going to hell

[@c_note313]

Women’s addiction to toxic cheating men is crazy bro!! 😵‍💫

[@christintucker6604]

Karamo messy in the best way...if you watch him, you can tell when he doesnt bang with someone because he won't stand up to shake or hug. He thinks we don't peep. I love him 😂

[@juicedupgenie]

Narcissistic people always want someone to console them. Console your damn self.

[@msblessedIAM]

My ex was a manipulative narcissist.

[@biabia9181]

It used to make me upset when men still expect intimacy and love after their infidelity but now it’s just laughable. How can you expect a woman to love on you after betraying her trust over and over and over again? Why would I compromise my sexual health because you’re broken and can’t control yourself ?

[@theincognitochannel5542]

He looks like he is very Controlling.

[@God0ickney]

Karamo looking loverly as usual loving the outfits

[@NakissiD]

Addiction to drama is wild

[@QueenL0011]

fr😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sunshine_80]

It's all about mind control that's why he thought or thinks she'll never leave, he thinks she won't find anyone better when she will. He's the problem not her, she has to be strong enough to walk away and once she leaves be strong enough to stay away from him.

[@Isrealbeauty]

Dang this video spoke to me I didn’t realize I’m addicted to toxic behavior smh but I want a good man doesn’t make sense

[@tabithamcrae147]

There aint nothing she should have to explain to him at all. Let him run off and keep running 😂

[@jenniferwillis7408]

Hold your head high dear you deserved better we women need to take a stand

[@lindawilliams429]

They feed off of each other.

[@can_you_guess_my_new_username]

He is definitely not the problem. She is definitely the problem because she is the one allowing this abusive behavior to be done to her.

[@itsurgirlcharlene]

Nah he’s the problem babe. He been the problem. Yes she needs to leave him but she isn’t the cause of his actions.

[@liyah7783]

They both are

[@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024]

@@itsurgirlcharlenePeriod.

[@Shawnda46]

Never allow a person to tell you more than once he doesn't want you for the life of me i wil not understand how can you fight for someone that's showing he doesn't want you learn to love yourself before loving anyone a person can only do what you allow them to do

[@donnachinapoo1348]

A narcissist never sees their wrong doing because it's all about them and what they want to do or say to the other person they always want to be in control of other people's lives.

[@bhadsxht]

7:27 “you need to go be with her” 😂😂😂 this what I’m sayinggg

[@lesley5380]

The introduction was wowser! Let me watch the rest...

[@MiSzBitterSw3et]

She's such a beautiful woman AND she's EDUCATED ❗️🙌🏽 Lil dude KNOW her worth and know she's going to do great things with or WITHOUT and he's threatened. With his clown ass and her best friend LOVE HER and want her to see her worth so bad!

[@tamerunrob6510]

I am so happy you walked away . You are a beautiful sista and deserve to be treated with love and respect . God Bless you.

[@BellJ213]

I need a best friend like hers. I ❤ when New Yorkers say, 'Are you DUMB?!' 😂😂🤣😅

[@shynbryt11]

He’s narcissistic, and he wants to control her, and is!!

[@anavalentinaleonllamozas5870]

he's literally a walking red flag, holy crap

[@TheSpiceAndRice]

“We can only the show to fix this or end this?” Reverts right back to the manipulation 😂

[@royaldavis640]

That was the weakest “I’m single!” I ever heard 😂

[@Labbelle]

She’s so beautiful ❤

[@taliahali9827]

She ain’t going no where, he waiting for her back stage 😂

[@hildawambui4213]

😂 you shouting girl

[@AirShay]

This is one of the best episodes I’ve seen. As someone who has tolerated sooo much abuse in romantic relationships, he hit the nail on the head. Some of the things her man was saying and doing seemed so normal to me until Karamo pointed them out as abusive. This was super eye opening for me.

[@lifeofab2410]

I like how he said I did your project for you I want you to succeed. My whole thing is that’s the whole trap. Ofc you can’t do bad the whole time then it’s going to be obvious that you’re shitty. They bring you up and throw you back down. That’s the game.

[@charmaineblake5020]

I like that Karamo put the responsibility with her to put an end to the toxicity because if she's not going to do anything about it shouldn't be a problem. I hope she means it when she says that she siiiiiiiiiingle. 🎵🎵🎵

[@sosobeautiful7]

I'm only at the beginning but even if he wasn't cheating him holding her books hostage is a BIG RED FLAG

[@sharifsalaam3385]

He acts as if admitting THAT he is 100% wrong for cheating is supposed to just be ok. Admitting to your own wrong doing is an honest thing to do but it doesn't at all justify WHAT you did wrong ❗❗❗

[@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024]

Him not being Black and having a whole Blaccent was the very first red flag.

[@3LWSTAN]

No because her facial expressions chewed at 1:34 😭

[@FalconsFanForever]

Shes very Beautiful and she doesnt need him hes toxic as hell man she can do better.

[@Snowflakz]

I know everybody's judging her so harshly but you kno what the reality is when you in relationship it is hard to move on everything takes time she's heartbroken but I believe she will get there and heal her heart good luck Shanice and everything you do 🙏🙏

[@ShaaBoss]

Thank you so much. I appreciate that it’s like going through these comments. It’s like you’re only see what they showed on the show it was more to it. A lot of people are saying that can’t be them but you never know until you’re in the situation like that and that’s why I don’t judge people.

[@LeeTheLee]

She in a bad habit. Ask questions go through his phone, find something he did. Argue about it. Pretend to forgive him. Rinse repeat! Some of us been there and done that. She'll get tired. And when she does. Its nothing he will say or do that makes her fall back.

[@theincognitochannel5542]

Once a Cheater always a Cheater

[@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED]

FACTS !!!!

[@missjackie7983]

It ain't over. And the host is a lot more sweeter than I remember

[@Tatyana342]

He's openly gay

[@designsbydivas2014]

This episode had Karamo hot under the collar. He was ready to kick some butt and take some names.

[@heathab...._-_]

This girl keeps blaming him instead of seeing he's only there because she wants him to be, this relationship started in mess and will end in mess

[@ShaaBoss]

No one said I ever was blaming him I know trust me I know my faults in a relationship and I tried to leave plenty of times and he would do the manipulation and that’s how I would end up back because he knows that I have a good heart and try to see the best in everyone

[@braidedbybri_4971]

The crowd never knows when to clap Lmfaooo

[@soniaharrison1016]

Felix ain't all that girl. Go find yourself A KING when you are ready. Clearly there is lack of self love, worth and value on her part. Girl what are you doing, look how he is talking to her, girl RUN RUN, if you go back it's on YOU.

[@cg5841]

She don’t even believe the “I’m single” comment

[@nikkiwilson9581]

Lord have mercy. I know someone like this. I just never seen it in real time. Prayers to anyone experiencing this .

[@Elizabeth-ef2mm]

Damn, I’ve been depressed and lonely since my ex dumped me 2 months ago…I’m bingeing Karamo episodes rn and feel like the Universe is telling me that I’m good. Wipe off the tears and keep it moving. At least now I don’t worry about his phone, how much porn he’s watching, and dealing with his bad moods. Staying single, it’s just not worth the heartache. This lady is beautiful and intelligent….why do we allow men to treat us this way? Also putting her health at risk by possibly getting an STI. 😢😢😢😢

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

You are going to just fine, Beautiful! 🫶🏿💚🫶🏿💚🫶🏿

[@victoriaaa4865]

i hope you’re feeling better nowadays sweetheart

[@tabithamcrae147]

She just needed to get her strength up to leave. This guy is a manipulative person but does not own..what he has done and never will. Then he comes to play victim to keep her there. Holding on to a video just to keep mess going is toxic behavior. Let that joker go play in the the street. People love using the word love as a copout.

[@katherinepenn6441]

Give her the books. Girl leave his Ass alone. Kaysweet from the Bronx.

[@paulettephilips9789]

QUIT PLAYING WITH MR.KARAMO ❤❤❤❤❤, ALWAYS DROPPING WISDOM

[@kailasheniya2194]

I love how he greets his guests