My CRAZY EXPERIENCE With an IGBO Man From ANAMBRA STATE NIGERIA 🇳🇬!

[@akhibiossie9692]

I am from Edo state but I love the Ibo ppl so much. They are the heartbeat of Nigeria economy

[@AmoseaInvestment]

On point, you are right

[@dermotwallace5533]

@@akhibiossie9692 Edo and Igbos are often best of friends as it seems.

[@KossyMoses]

I am from Anambra, and my girlfriend Is from Edo, I love Edo people soo much ❤❤

[@TheLocalStandard]

I am not even Igbo but I know this is *NOT* a general representation of all Igbos. That man is not well mentally!

[@rockjames2086]

I am Igbo man live in Australia 🇦🇺 Thst man do not represent Igbo people

[@ugochukwujoseph1528]

I'm an igbo man wishing from SA that man was crazy it never been igbo culture

[@daveugwuanya965]

I am an Igbo man living in Nigeria. I’m happily married with three wonderful children. As your fan I want to correct the erroneous impression created by this my Igbo brother in question. Igbo men love, cherish and respect their wives even to the point of adoring them. We do not subjugate our wives or relegate them to the background. Those negative characteristics exhibited by the man are peculiar to him, they are not a general Igbo thing. Yes, we are jealous and very protective of our wives and children but at the same time our wives are free to express themselves and free to grow and develop to their full potentials in their chosen fields of endeavor. We encourage and support our wives to achieve the highest level of success possible.

[@citygatetv376]

Thank you o.

[@user-ck1fq5kk2x]

You are right bro

[@VikingPremier]

You basically agreed with Chioma, because you didn't disprove her claim

[@FrazierGistTV]

Where u be one leave before

[@MyronJnr]

Chioma actually means " Good God ". " God is Good " is Chidimma in Igbo

[@mrmanus490]

Am​ an​ igbo​ man,​the​ richest​ tribe​ in​ africa,​i​ love​ ur​ tv​ show.🎉🎉🎉

[@efemzyekun900]

How are you the richest tribe? So because you guys sell second hand stuff all over the place with Oraimo chord chargers, that makes you richer? Yes, most Ibos are commercially oriented, but it doesn't make you any more richer. Stop hyping yourself, it exposes your inferiority complexes and that is not good for you people. The biggest industries in your region are hotels, club houses and beer parlours, and even at that, the Hero beer factory in Anambra state, is still a loss making venture. Stop bragging all over the place.

[@straightshooter8751]

Richest tribe without a single billionaire and the second lowest igr rate of any geopolitical region in Nigeria, keep fooling yourself

[@ChiEbere-y7p]

Stop bragging nwanne maka ndi ntaji anya

[@JustinClark-r4z]

@@ChiEbere-y7p he is not an igbo, he is using igbo name to cause argument, he is a Yoruba boy

[@blessingokpu2489]

I'm a Nigerian you don't need that kind of man he is possessive so run. Dear, do you want to be a second wife though????

[@KossyChukwudum]

You look like an igbo lady, I mean it ❤

[@bestekezie1793]

I am an igbo lady from imo state Nigeria. We respect every tribe of our igbo speacking states even the ones in Delta state Agbo, Ukwani, Asaba all known as Ika-Igbo. Yes, igbo men are a true difinition of what family looks like, loving, caring, romantic, possessive, and adorable even the illitrate amongst them. This is because they already see their parents do the same to their mothers and sisters, also to extended family hence you see igbos are closely knitted you handly can tell the difference between cousins, uncles, and aunties. That being said, i will now address your experience. But I love love all my Nigeria brothers because of their unique love for their women. My Nigeria brothers from all the states in the house, I hail you

[@NiogziChukwudebelue]

Don't judge a nation or a whole tribe by one man's character or even ten people characters. My uncle married a woman from Bamenda, she is here with us living happily with her children. So I'm in-law to Bamenda people

[@ikayibe]

Generally, Igbo men are very romantic and thoughtful. They are good men and take marriage seriously. In this man's case he must have experienced some sort of trauma which may have caused him to react the way he did. He doesn't need a second wife he needs Io heal from his trauma. Don't use this experience to judge all Igbo men

[@adekunleyussuf4259]

So, Igbos are polygamous too?

[@christiangideon7966]

not all igbo men are like that, that guy no know wetin dey worry am

[@casmirifeanyi7788]

Your out-stretched hand posture of taking picture made me laugh so hand😂😂😂😂

[@EmmyBlack07]

That Man na MuMu 😂😂

[@Daniel-gj2dh]

Nne you are really an Igbo woman! God will surely Bless you!!! I'm in Manchester. I'm from Anambra. Are you from the English part of Cameroon? Do you know English Cameroon are Nigerians? Honestly. It's the French that took you away.

[@princejonas6960]

Sister I will advise you not to generalize one man's thought to judge a tribe. Am an Igbo man happily married to a Costa Rican woman for over 12 years now. What the man was telling you is what he does and not the Igbos. Please

[@chemistryabcxyz2763]

Story for the gods. Pure content

[@Pleasant_Media1]

He is an Igbo man, it could be anybody, so it's not only about Igbo men. You get to know that money intoxicates, rich people feel on top of the world, they feel they could do anything. Thank God you ran for your life. Such men could be very dangerous, not because they wanna be but there are some powers(power of money) controlling them unaware.

[@nkupmenyir4646]

Before watching the video the title got me cracked 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Igbo men go whine you but don't panic 😂😂

[@emmanuelonyesoh125]

Chi chi,you will see another igbo good man Sorry about that

[@EmmyBlack07]

Must she go for Igbo man😂😂 any tribe is good to go

[@ashantiaishat193]

Am a Nigerian lady darling that was my exact experience with them

[@bestekezie1793]

So which Nigeria man does not show jealousy pls i want to know

[@qinglingzhu5815]

do you know how many Igbos live in cameroon ,i do have two kid there

[@mcdonald1821]

You are one of the unfortunate ones then.

[@user-ck1fq5kk2x]

50million Igbos around the world , even 50 of this kind of man cant be a yardstick .

[@henrychidi392]

A typical igbo man loves and cherish her wife however your experience with one person can't be generalised likewise with any other tribes. Many igbos sponsored their wives and wives to universities without monitoring them. This particular is on is own

[@kingsleyonoteh6858]

One thing u need to understand is that men who are deeply rooted in culture are possessive of their women they know the implementation of women cheating, but then you need a man who trust you and understand that you are in the entertainment industry which may not be an easy thing to do

[@johnmmaduka312]

As an igbo man n an Anambrarian i refuse in totality to adopt that mam's behaviour as a representation of igbo people nor anambra people but that's not to say we're all round good. He only showcased his true self which is dangerous for any woman. Good a thing u left at d right time. One more thing pls search for a true companion n not an odogwu because in my opinion what made u play along all d while was his CV as in ur own words. If u want to get ur soul mate money should be least in ur list. Bedt of luck chichi.

[@casmirifeanyi7788]

Exactly, she fell for his money and personality. If you want a real dude, see him for who he is and not what he has

[@Calvinjeffery-d5w]

The way you appreciate Igbo men eh make sure you gallant because we go whine you reach your maternal grandfathers ancestoral lands 😂😂😂😂😂 and we are blunt,no time to waste,are you in or out,ige adiro nne😂😂

[@yim8000]

Love story nitori olohun!

[@casmirifeanyi7788]

😂😂😂

[@PrettyAngel-b4o]

For a man to want a second wife tells a lot about his Character

[@emmanueldominic6219]

You are welcome to The Nigerian family.We love you!

[@valentinedickson2231]

Don't mind the fooooool he was just full of himself

[@chikeagbo3531]

My sister, the signs are obvious and you are a very smart lady, so make a wise decision…You must avoid this man.. I am an Igbo man based in United States and I can assure that man is not a real Igbo man….Don’t even waste your time….

[@gregovie6552]

Run for your dear life because this is a red flag as you said.

[@noblechris4669]

The fool is lying nah his life not igbo culture biko

[@samsonadekoya7618]

My sister run oooo for that man😂

[@osakweog]

There's a reason igbo men are sort after worldwide, that's bcos they're sweet, kind and protective of their women. That guy i am not sure what kind of Igbo man he is. I am shocked you're using the experience you got from a pure narcissist to judge Igbos. You need to do better. Besides what exactly are you doing with a man that says he already has a wife and children? You Darlyn Nyonga wants to be a second wife? What for? I am disappointed that you even accepted to give this man a chance. For the records, igbo men are not "lord of the home". Not like that at all. Of course like most men worldwide, igbo men cherise respect, but never demand you to be a slave. Hell No !!! Never what this guy described. As for not marrying a Nigerian. Pls feel free to marry anywhere you find happiness.👍🏾

[@citygatetv376]

THANK YOU, Man for speaking my ind.

[@FredNaija]

All Igbos cannot be good neither can they all be bad. The same goes for anyone from any ethnic group. Judge a man based on the content of his character and not where he's from, religion etc

[@albertimbufe16]

Hi Sweetie Darling! Thanks a zillion for sharing dis deeply personal n bad experience with ur global audience n fans! I'm one of them, but a huge one at dat, as I find ur unique videos n mannerisms very endearing n interesting to watch. Not to mention ur sweet next-door-girl personality n beauty! To say d least. I'm not an Ibo man, but, from CRS, just next door to ur country. Sweeping all Ibo men with d same brush, as you did, was not only unfair, but wrong. You gave dat man far more time n respect dan he deserved!!! You should have cut n run sooner, but I kinder understand why you stayed dat long. You deserve better, n I believe you're smart enough to know dat richness does not equal good behaviour in men, with only very few exception. As you continue to navigate d dating scene in Nigeria n beyond, I hope you end up with one of my brothers or self, one who is perfect for you! You deserve nothing less dan d best of d cream!!! Much Love! to you from across d big pond, Canada. 🇨🇦🇨🇦🌹🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏👍👍

[@samuelwilliams8099]

That man in question loves you so much and he wouldn’t want to see any other man around you.

[@victorokechukwu8629]

Another Igbo man here

[@teegeedavid5085]

You met the wrong igbo man, otherwise, Igbos are what every men are every woman's dream.

[@dera_ng]

Sounds like you let a narcissist, a very insecure one at that. These people are everywhere. Even if the narcissist looks like a god moulded by the angels, I will take piece of mind, everyday, every time. Thank God you love yourself o. There are so many ladies that will think the drama, abusive, controlling, degrading and jealous behaviour from these people [these narcissists] is kind of "romantic" or is "proof" that the man [the narcissist] loves them. It's not in the culture of the Igbos to be disrespectful or condescending to their wives or any family member for that matter; not to talk of strangers/outsiders. And that pipe dream that he has of being "king" in the house only stops at being the man of the house and not a tyrant. Being the man of the house also doesn't automatically mean you're the breadwinner or you're the decision maker or the tie breaker. Sadly you met a narcissist. They target kind and empathetic people who they feel they can control and subjugate. Please stay safe. I won't be surprised if you've met more than one already.

[@dera_ng]

Cheers 💫

[@obio1003]

Chi, this is my first time of watching your video, and I really like your flow! I am sorry for your bad experience. You are such a pretty lady! As an Igbo man, I can say vividly that not all Igbo men are like that. I am married with two kids, and you actually resembled my wife as well. To be frank, if I were to be single, I would do everything within my power to get to know you and prove to you that some Igbo men are best husband's, and happens to be the real odogwu that understands what it means to be in a relationship or union, which I believe being in a cage isn't one of them. Chi, I have got one piece of advice for you, Please, do not shut your door on Igbo men just because you met the wrong person. You know ur worth, and equally understands the important of setting boundaries. Kudos to you, and I look forward to watching your videos moving forward!

[@basseyedetokon4226]

Darling Lyonga, Igbo men are loving and caring people. Though there are few exception of course. So don't use one brush to paint the entire tribe, there are bad people everywhere.Therefore, avoid sweeping generalisation . Since you love Nigerians, surely the Lord will lead you to a Nigerian man who will truly love and care for you. I am not going to lie, as a Nigerian, I want you to marry a Nigerian guy. However, be vigilant.Women are gifted with deep inner sensing, so use it to choose your life partner. But do not allow desperation or materialism make you settle for a married man. I am old enough to be your father, just listen to my advice. I thank you for all the nice things you are saying about my country. Nigeria is peopled by great and versatile minds.The country is strategically located at the centre of the globe and it is the hope of the black race.

[@henrychidi392]

I know one yoruba will come with nonsense. You don't need to tell her she knows. A tribe is know for something despite you can't say 100% of the tribe. Igbos are good in business and technolgy compared to yorubas is statement of fact. Yorubas are better than igbos for propaganda and envy is a statement of fact also.

[@mcdonald1821]

Every story has got 2 sides. We just heard one. Can't draw any conclusions now. The question is why are Igbo men the most sought after Nigerians worldwide? This got me thinking though and please Cameroon got men too. Help yourself with one. You are not getting any younger o.

[@chemistryabcxyz2763]

Most sought after? Empty pride

[@mcdonald1821]

Hug the nearest transformer if you don't like what I said.

[@chukwukakennedy]

You're 100% at least to an extent, we're the most sought after amongst the black race anywhere in the world, take it or leave it but it's axiomatic ​@mcdonald1821

[@AfricanStoriesbyDamani]

The fact that u indulged him in the conversation and everything despite him saying he wants u to be his 2nd wife is crazy. U were defiantly considering it and thats wild

[@KossyChukwudum]

We the igbos are not like that, believe me. Every tribe in the world has men like that, you can't use one man's mistake or should I call it stupidity to judge others. Thank ma'm I do enjoy every one of your shows.❤ Happy Christmas 🎉

[@smithobuus5433]

But why do you want to be a second wife?

[@AfricanStoriesbyDamani]

🤣 the fact that she was entertaining it despite him saying he wants her to make her a second wife . That's crazy

[@buzfinda276]

You no hear say d man is smelling money

[@casmirifeanyi7788]

Thats nit how we are ooo😂😂😂😂

[@carmandostudio]

The experience you had with him is isolated to him. Everything he told you about the igbo culture is wrong. Stop sending wrong impression about igno people. Igbos don't denigrate women. You are also a red flag too

[@AmoseaInvestment]

❤❤❤❤❤ from ebonyi state Nigeria!

[@ifeanyifrank-sv1rd]

contents & contents ,

[@EbukaOledibe-u4c]

Story for the God's

[@ujuosimiri8181]

Igbo men smile 😂🇹🇭🇹🇭

[@austinchinwe7968]

10 minutes into your video….Better run,he is nuts. He may have the money but he certainly doesn’t represent the Igbo culture…He is a sick man,playing with your emotions. We love our wives and our moms,but we respect women and don’t treat them like the way he wants to treat you.

[@ZionFanz-e9r]

Interesting 🤔 thanks for uploading... Igbo are the best

[@KossyMoses]

I love your shows ❤

[@augustineokorie3348]

I'm igbo man that man is crazy

[@walealma]

Nnà.. Thats too much to say to a man you don't even know from anywhere. You don't know where the man is coming from.. You don't know what he's faced in the hands of women all in the name of love.. Every scar have its scary story. Don't judge people base on the narration of one person. You clearly show here that you're not better off. Cos if he can assumed all those without hearing from CHICHI, you just did the same. Be respectful to people.. Anything aside that only show you true colour

[@MissComfort-b1l]

THAT MAN DEY CRAZ FIR HEAD

[@obidikea.c2145]

All those claims are in his own world. It's so irritating to hear this. Please he is a bloody liar.

[@yim8000]

😂 Am watching ooooooo

[@emmanueldominic6219]

God bless you!

[@remi1-zg6ol]

You asked for it!!!!!

[@adekunleyussuf4259]

Dating on social media should be a no no for you. There are lots of bad and dangerous people out there and knowing who they are would be impossible. Stick to your own kind; a Cameronian rather than other Africans or Nigerians you hardly know their background. Be careful and work hard, you will surely get to the top.

[@tonyodukwe]

He is an insecured man, it does not have anything to do with Igbo's I'm From Anambra state living in Germany 😅😅😅😅

[@nonsookoli6049]

That's extreme........ You where not married to him..... And you can't judge by 1 experience

[@divine2005]

But alot of Igbo married women and sleeping around, is there any other Igbo we don't know apart from the one we see on social media?

[@yim8000]

Lord Chappyron

[@fidelixosara7102]

It’s important to be mindful of the kind of man you choose to date. Take your time to get to know them well and pay attention to how he treats you and others. You deserve someone who respects you, supports your growth, and values you for who you truly are. Don’t settle for anything less. And when you find the good one,we ,I will be happy for you. The man you spoke about is not a representation of who we are or what we do.

[@obidikea.c2145]

Pls this particular igbo man is his own person. All igbo men are not like that. And igbo women are not what he is says they are so don't mind him. Make your research very well.

[@NicholasGodday]

U can say it again 🫶🫶🫶

[@ikeojibi1080]

Runoooo runooooo

[@FredNaija]

There is no doubt that he's in love with you, but unfortunately he is over possessive, arrogant, bossy and temperamental. These are red flags

[@yim8000]

Kindly try d Yoruba demon man✓✓✓✓™

[@AbrahamBello-qs3mj]

Red Flag.

[@ambrosegregory6617]

Darling this is December already, you promised to come to Lagos for Detty December and yet we've not seen you... When are you coming because you're running out of the detty December already 🤷

[@cruxifixo]

The fact that you are dating or want to date a married man says a lot about you.

[@carmandostudio]

Why do you think she's still single. She's a red flag herself. She's materialistic. For the fact that she always place premium on money and frivolous things. In all of these stories now...she has refused to tell the part where she slept with him. But na her life Sha. She brought it up on the internet...if shoe doesn't no one will know about this...and now that she has brought it up..she has no control on how people react to it.

[@cruxifixo]

@@carmandostudio Exactly. For the man to be that controlling means that both have gone far in the relationship if her story is true and not fiction.

[@dermotwallace5533]

Very jobless and unreasonable people.

[@johnmmaduka312]

​@carmandostudio so all ur sisters r married ,u sound so bitter like u know chichi from anywhere. Guess u r angry because maybe u so love but angry that someone not u got her attention n admiration this much.

[@isoryte201]

Do not jump into conclusions. Polygamy is an African culture. Women outnumber us men by far and we also have the added advantage that they can be with women decades younger than them. Our ancestors that instituted that were not fools. They understood life. Here in America, they outlawed it but still date/marry multiple women, one at a time. But it's also coming back now in different forms - poly this and poly that.

[@ericg7781]

We must hear from the other person before saying anything.

[@acropolis6816]

It is a pity for your bad feelings. That's not Igbo culture. It also depends on level of his education, background and exposure. Igbo people adore their wives not punish them. The so called Nigerian men are good, Igbo men contributed over fifty percent of that success. Perhaps it is not meant to be. Is Ned nwoko maltreating his wives? They are six beautiful happy wives. It is a pity but he may be preparing another business for you not media one. Not all men call withstand the sight of seeing their wives in the media profession even not Nigerians.

[@udochukwunwagboso7384]

❤

[@usmansuffy8278]

Please becareful ok

[@user-ck1fq5kk2x]

Now this is for you the prodcaster, certain situation should be left untouched and not made public , bringing your interactions with a certain Igbo guy for ua to consume is totally disrespectful and we demand an apology .....rather than prototyping a whole tribe that twice the population of cameroon you find another topic to broadcast. I dont dig this one.

[@onomeoniovosa8473]

...must have been really desperate to get a second wife since the first must have been tired of his behaviour based on your story. Shine your eyes next time ,the red flag must have turned to a big banner.😂😂😂

[@johnsonm2499]

You have to Change And Adopt a Benin Name Give Benin Man a Try. Story Time..

[@jafarudatche8512]

epaa lol

[@jjeme1092]

I'm an igbo I want to knw if you will marry me. I will take you to the promise land. My name is omengbeogi.

[@lawman4272]

Darling you know you’re my girl, I am one of your fans but this story sounds believable because na you naa, but Darling sorry, if this is a true story it is a little exaggerated. I don’t wanna say it is not true but for the fact that this man has not met you in person, has not been with you in any date how much less knacking and he is behaving the way you described haba, I am not Igbo but this does not make Nigerian sense to me especially you said he is married with kids, common now, are you a Mami-water? Abi you Cham’m? Mbaa!

[@isdorechukwunonso6527]

You want to be a second wife?

[@adekunleyussuf4259]

The Igbos behaviours are too domineering and that is why no tribes wanted them around them. That is Ibos for you. You just learnt about the Igbos in a hard way. You are lucky. The guy just want to used you as a side chic, that's all.

[@qinglingzhu5815]

do you know how many Igbos live in cameroon ,i do have two kid there

[@user-ck1fq5kk2x]

Mumu I was enjoying this prpdcast until you carried your ugry black yoruba face to this arena .. ....we did not make you poor ,lazy and jealous ,only God made us Rich and intelligent and if we are domineering abeg bear with me okay . Now hear this because you are extremely blind. Every rich Yoruba man want an Igbo woman as wife or as friend .....just name them .....may be they possess juju of beauty and they are looking for beautiful kids that carry our intelligents and business acumen ... .days for producing ugry looking goons like you are far gone .

[@mcdonald1821]

Dey play. Majority of your women getting married to igbos on a regular.

[@fran6david114]

You have brought this slanderous Ronu spirit on an international platform. That is how some of you wicked hearted Yorubas go about trying to tarnish the Igbo nation image with lies. But Guess what, you dirty evil games have been defeated. Igbos are absolutely very good people.

[@bestekezie1793]

I am sorry you brought this to a public space to stereotype a whole tribe and to me it is very disrespectful of you. That man's conversation with you telling you whatever he feels operates in an igbo man's life, I do believe it came in a place of your talking points of you even telling him your culture. Sorry, i want to say i kind of have a little problem with your truth bcos its one sided we hav not heard from the the man. But your story right now is all about lust. The man was just flirting with you, and you were ready to be a second wife? Be careful, so Nigerians here dont drag you anyhow otherwise, i will see honestly even here in America, that is one reason we don't respect or regard Cameroonians because they enjoy life and not marriage typical of all French speaking countries of Africa. That is why when people were busy calling out Equatorial Guinea man it was not surprising to me. Please stay to your craft all men are jealous being even God himself. But possessive man or woman is dangerous. Don't be materialistic

[@FredNaija]

How did she generalize? She shared her experience with "and Igbo man" not all Igbo men

[@PrettyAngel-b4o]

Chi, Chi, I like you very much! If you agree to be someone second wife, I am disappointed

[@isoryte201]

Darling Lyonga, am very sorry for your experience. I am an Igbo man. That man does not rep us. Yes family means a lot to us, it's our pride, so it's our culture to nurture and protect it. That guy is over-possessive, overbearing and very crazy. Don't use this experience to judge the rest of us Igbo men. We are good as boyfriends and husbands. The testimonies of women across the world is proof of that. I also want to note that I have seen some very rude comments here in this CS, specifically people calling you names for going for a married man. Polygamy is our African culture and I think it a natural course. Cuz here in America, where they outlawed it, you still see men having multiple wives/girlfriends, only one at a time. Do not give such comments any thoughts. If it works out between you and the Edo guy, wonderful; if another guy, great. You deserve it, and a blissful. I respect and appreciate our African women that hustle legit jobs, not so-called slay queens. You're doing great; I can see intelligence. skill and hardwork in your works. I wish you well.

[@christopherokei-achamba3820]

You chat rubbish sometimes.

[@MissComfort-b1l]

THAT MAN DEY CRAZ FIR HEAD