My Dad Has Passed Away Today - How to Deal with Death and Mourning & Grieving

In the morning of 13 of April 2020 my dad passed away. He did not suffer. He left on his own terms, I guess. I thought it would be a good time to reflect on paeople's passing - our approach to death.

[@michaelconnolly7681]

I'm so sorry to hear about your father, Kamil.

[@KamilsView]

Big thanks, Michael. Who would have thought!?!

[@ElephantPatronus]

I'm very sorry for your loss. You're helping so many others with your videos. Sending love, light, and warm thoughts to you and your loved ones.

[@Leonardo-da-Vinci-Artist]

Thank you for being so open, courageous and pragmatic about your fathers passing. This video really helped me, coincidently my father passed 10 days before yours did. May they both Rest In Peace brother. Love to you! x

[@KamilsView]

Hi Steve. Thanks for that comment. Long time no see. Those that passed are definitely resting in peace - it's us that still need to fight :-)

[@andrewfuller9156]

Very sorry to hear this sad news, Kamil. It's good that you're memories are such positive ones.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, Andrew. Yeah, I train myself to focus only on what feels good.

[@adrenalinewill]

Hey, I found your channel by your video you made 8 years ago about you talking about how to get bad thoughts out of your head. It helped me out a lot so I subscribed, I’m so sorry for your dads loss, my grandparents are really old there not very healthy anymore, they only have a few years left sadly.

[@KamilsView]

Hey, thanks for a great comment. I don't believe in death - we all go into the spirit and live forever. I hope you get to enjoy a lot of good moments with your grandparents.

[@AlineGiampietroTrifonov]

Thank you for sharing this. I just lost my dad 3 weeks ago. My dad had a very similar approach to life and death to your father as well, always loving life and joking around with a great sense of humor. Your words have encouraged me a lot. Warmest regards

[@KamilsView]

Hi Aline. Thank you for your comment - I am really happy that I could connect with you and contribute to your wellbeing. You take care.

[@vivellaz]

Kamil, I am sorry you have to deal with such sad news today. I have found in my experience that we grieve over time, not really immediately. Sometimes out of the blue something will trigger a memory of those that are gone and I feel overwhelming sadness, but at the same time, death is part of life and we learn to live with the losses, even if they affect us from time to time. My brother died in his thirties and it was a big shock, and it made me see life differently, nothing is guaranteed and we have to live our truth now, not wait for later. From that experience I learned that we never really get over a loss, we learn to live with it though! I wish your family strength in the days ahead, and hope you feel support from us all.

[@KamilsView]

Hi Vivella. Really great comment. I think it will be emotional quite a few more times. When I go through photos, some of them trigger me, so when I speak to some people, what they say triggers me. Emotions make us human - they make us richer. Shame that your brother left us so early. That is always difficult when a young person passes. Thaks again. Big hug.

[@jenimoshelova]

Kamil dear , I watched the video till the end! Thanks for sharing your view how to deal with death as I lost my grandmother little bit more then a year ago and I still struggling to deal with that as she was more then a grandma to me! She was like a mum to me! Anyway after your video I really thought about it and I can see your point! I am glad you can be strong about this especially people who are so close to you! I admire you for who you are and R.I.P. for your dad! X

[@johnb8854]

A perspective from One who was Pronounced DOA (Dead On Arrival) at a medical clinic in 1973, and after 30 minutes my heart started beating once again... I rediscovered the Difference between "LIFE (The Real Self)" and the human body... I have, and do understand, the grieving of those left behind in the Earth experience which is very brief...

[@KamilsView]

That must have been a very valuable experience.

[@nasseryousif1222]

Stay strong sir ❤

[@KamilsView]

Thank you. I will.

[@DiyEcoProjects]

Dear Kamil, really sad news... May his soul find his way to the hill of dreams and rest happy in the sun. Big love to you bro. Its ok youre not supposed to get over it. Memories will come in waves... but the distance between these waves get longer over time... filled with other things. Wishing you all the best, his love continues in you x /// In a druid way, everything has cycles... up downs its all waves. Life is not meant to be forever, everything has its time and then folds back into the void until its expressed again. The lessons from Samhain are that life returns in a different form after the death of winter. Thats its OK to let go. Pain only happens in relationships because we try and hold on to it and dont accept situations as they are. Cycles within cycles, everything has purpose.

[@KamilsView]

My dear friend, it's great to have you as a friend. You have a very special soul - not many like you on this planet. I hope to visit you again soon.

[@DiyEcoProjects]

@@KamilsView hi mate, hope youre doing ok. Yes you would be welcome to come to glasty again at some point, just let me know, couple of days. Wondered if you were pissed at me for sending you an email about the omnia, hope not, the intent was pure. Im ok - - - stopping is good, need time to connect with nature, im more positive than ever before. Lets chat soon. All the best my friend, I can see that you have a big heart... just be open to what comes your way

[@KamilsView]

@@DiyEcoProjects Hey. I hope you got my email. All is great here ;-)

[@kylem5135]

Sorry for you’re loss kamil. It’s hard when a loved one passes, here for you,

[@KamilsView]

Hey. Big thanks. I'm actually ok. I prepared myself well for this.

[@SnoopyandMilo]

Very sorry for your sad loss Kamil

[@brent6518]

Kamil, i just started watching your wonderful videos...i am so sorry you lost your Dad...i hope time has helped with the grief of losing a loved one...be well kind spirit!

[@Abcded11]

You are a good son...he is definitely proud of you....you can cry...no problem

[@rorotakesthecake]

I’m so sorry Kamil, You have helped me a lot, just know that your dad is looking upon you thinking that your a very good person, sharing your knowledge and spreading happy thoughts and being caring. You are somebody many people don’t have that is a shoulder to lean on, that understand’s your thoughts and feelings that won’t judge you. That has anything for your mind and you open up for them, let them in make the feel understood. We hope for the best and I pray your dad is happier in heaven.

[@lancecarter6837]

Thank you for sharing bro. A very real conversation.

[@denisevargas437]

I’m sorry Kamil... my thoughts and well wishes go out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing this with us.. 🖤🖤

[@SaHiL-kg8wm]

iTz sad to hear this brother... Stay strong... God bless.....

[@komrad36]

I'm sorry for your loss, Kamil.

[@SaliBina]

I am very sorry Kamil!!! my thoughts are with you. big hug

[@CallMeLilly1]

So sorry to hear. He's with you.

[@themoelester8027]

Sorry for your loss 🙏🏻

[@TriumphantStranger]

First of all, I'm sorry for your loss and I'm sorry you can't get there because of this crappy virus situation. I lost my dad when I was 18, different situation I guess. It was quite fast and unexpected, he made dinner one night, got sick a few hours later, died less than 24 hours after. I took it really bad. I started eating too much, got obese. I was even about to leave school. I didn't cause I thought "what would he say if you leave it?". As much as 2 years later I did declare war to my obesity because I realized I was kinda slowly killing myself, a choice my father didn't have. I think I kinda died that day too. I was naive, ambitionless, compliant, maybe even pathetic and loser sometimes. I believed even in God. I guess I lost all of it through my tears on the month after his death, becoming a totally different person. Sometimes it's hard and painful thinking that my father's death made me a better person (if I really am a better person). I didn't find my dad in other people like you said. However, a few years ago, I looked back at my life and I realized that my "path" became quite similar to my dad's. And the more I thought about that, the more I noticed I made choices he would have made. And I've never asked myself "what would he do in my shoes?", so it was quite shocking. So here's my final thought: when loved ones die, it just sucks. You cannot prepare yourself, that's just a mask. But only when they're gone you realize how much they influenced your life, your brain, your heart, your thinking (sometimes it doesn't happen tho). That's how my dad somehow "lives forever". So I wish you this Kamil, that from now on you can notice how much of your dad there is in the depth of your soul, where he will be for the rest of your life. Hugs man.

[@annaberg1200]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@Abcded11]

I lost my dad on 14 December 2016....my dad was my best friend.... Loved me alot....i still can't feel normal...still have dreams about him many times....i miss him.

[@KamilsView]

Hey, Liam. I hope you will find peace soon. Maybe there is already someone else who is a father figure for you in your life. Recognizing it is a good way of honouring your dad, I think.

[@Abcded11]

@@KamilsView i wish i can find someone as my father figure..but father,mother and siblings... Family...these are blood...blood for blood...no one cam replaced it...you family can do anything for you... Family is life...make your family happy then you will never be in trouble....

[@moggie]

Dont worry.. my nanny died a few weeks ago.. It is ok. We are with you..

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, guys. I appreciate all the support.

[@RuMiJP]

I know that your Dad is in good hands, "All come from dust, and all return to dust" we as human beings knew how sad it can be but I guess your Dad enjoyed his journey, and the health issues the pain is not worth living :) he is well resting now, i will include him in my prayers, we will see him at the end of the line :) ❤️ i don't have headache today (this is always the reason why i go to your channel to releave my pain, but i saw this i knew why I'm scrolling around.. i felt you in my brainwave) bless us all

[@adiaphorous9]

Sorry for your loss🙏

[@familiasarria3938]

My most sincere condolences to the family. May God bring peace and strength to your hearts during this sad time and find comfort in his promise to bring back to life those you love who have fallen asleep in death. (1 Thessalonians 4:13,14)

[@KamilsView]

Many thanks for that.

[@chrusherx9]

Sorry for your loss :(

[@KamilsView]

I appreciate it.

[@JackOsborneFilm]

Be well Kamil - sorry for your loss.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, Jack. I am well.

[@onceuponatimetherewasalong7593]

I lost my dad couple months ago, he was 72, wasn't sudden but he got really sick and stayed in intensive care for two weeks, his sickness was the shock, as he had never been to a doctor. Even during that time I didn't think too much that he'd pass away for real, I don't know why I thought that but I think it's because I didn't have enough of him, you could say that I have only known him when he was already old, not that we didn't live together, we did, but I mean the moment I felt I'm old enough to actually have more thoughts on things, he was in his 60s. What I mean is that I think I didn't fully experience a dad-son relationship as my older siblings. I envy them for that [not in a bad manner]. He lived for them enough to marry and have kids and families and here I am in early 20s all alone. His absence has been present to me. Same for the regrets I have for behaving angrily many times to him. Somehow, I always thought he'd live forever, while at the same time fully realizing that death is inevitable.

[@KamilsView]

If you're in your 20's, then you still have a lot to learn and should forgive yourself for all your mistakes - your dad would want you to be burden-free. Some other father figure will show up to take place of your dad. It's normal. When the right person shows up, accept it.

[@hopespringseternal7038]

oh i am so sorry. after doctors killed my sister i was never so distraught. the most helpful thing i heard was that you never get over with but you learn to live with it. ♥️ i know for certain there is an afterlife.

[@mandyt5162]

Sorry to hear that.

[@jacebeleren9679]

Condolences 🏛💎🏛💎🏛💎

[@paull286]

so sorry for your loss

[@AmanSingh019]

Sorry for your loss

[@elifilsantony9222]

Dear kamil I Know how it feels I would like to say to you this is how life going . I know you are sad no one would like to see their dad passed away. This is how life going. Stay strong healthy 😬☹️

[@KamilsView]

Hey. I am actually not sad at all. I don't believe in death. My dad is now with me any time I want him to be, so it's very cool. Big thanks.

[@sharafudheenc.t987]

My condolences Kamil.

[@tedj9290]

Sorry for your loss.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, Ted.

[@vrushankkamble7862]

Don't worry . We are with you ❤️

[@KamilsView]

Hey. I'm totally fine now. Thanks!

[@ummehaider4558]

So sorry

[@Tooty10Fruity]

I'm sorry for your lose My dad died 5 years ago and i did not Still complete about that

[@KamilsView]

Thank you. And I hope you find a way to find completion quickly. It's very important.

[@gabeutsecks723]

I’m so sorry 😞

[@adrenalinewill]

Hi Kamil, I recently had a EF1 tornado hit my house I’ve been scared of storms since if you have any advice on how I can overcome this fear please reply.

[@FIREGHOST195]

We are all with you. 🍁🌻

[@Rom974]

Pls stay strong kamil’s we are with you

[@filltheprankster8853]

Sorry about that, stay strong

[@KamilsView]

Thank you. I will.

[@fionamcloughlinable]

Much love to you Kamil, you are doing really well...and helping others :) its good to talk and release emotions this way too. Crying too much literally hurts ones heart so its best to remind ourselves of this and like you say not be selfish, honour the departed person. Life on earth plane is such a treasure..I lost my Dad and brother very suddenly so it was shock which is hard..but I learnt to live my life in every moment and tried much harder not to have bad feeling with people, exactly these happenings can teach us so much. You are kind and your Dad would be very proud of you. Yes you can still communicate with them of course. Thank you for sharing..and take very good care of yourself now. And have a little cry if you have too don't hold it in it's OK...walk in nature, meditate, talk with friends...maybe make a follow on to let us know how you are going in a little while :)

[@KamilsView]

Hi Fiona. I very much appreciate your support and kind and wise words. Yes, I talk to my dad occasionally - I can feel his presence or his joyous commentary :-). I am glad you managed to overcome the shock and now you are fine. Let's speak soon.

[@fionamcloughlinable]

Kamil's View how are you going there bro? Its still fresh and i know its such a cliche but time does help heal and so does vision and purpose which I know you have. Send news thx and love

[@KamilsView]

@@fionamcloughlinable Hey. Things are going really well. And I am happy for my father who is now in the spirit and I call him anytime I'd like to speak with him, so it's a great experience for me. Also, my business started going really well, so all super good :-)

[@mattymobbs5125]

When and if your ready please do a video on how you can talk to love ones I'll love to learn to talk to my dad aswell

[@KamilsView]

Can you tell me more? What exactly is the challenge? Why can't you talk to your loved ones?

[@mattymobbs5125]

@@KamilsView hi sorry I mean in heaven like you said

[@lewl284]

God bless❤️

[@tanya8940]

💙

[@KamilsView]

Thank you, Tanya.

[@muhamamdsulaimankhel4458]

Kamil is a great guy he kamil helps everyone

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, buddy. It's great to have great people around.

[@rahujjkkmnair3903]

RIP

[@Abyss_Slayor]

I have my biggest sympathy to you.

[@mohdmurtaza8057]

Ina lilahi wa inailahi rajeeon.

[@leruemartin9377]

so sorry for your lose

[@KamilsView]

Thank you. Very kind of you.

[@sunnyd1928]

Sending love ❤

[@the_pampered1thepamperedpr504]

🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@SnoopyandMilo]

Very sorry for your sad loss Kamil

[@alenasantana6095]

I watched it to the end sorry cant agree with you on dealing with death everyone deals with it different some cry just dealing with a memory I see you kamil you have alot of crying to do looks like memories help you deal with sadness

[@KamilsView]

Thanks for watching. As I said, we all have a way of dealing with it, and no way is right or wrong. I'll see how it goes.

[@LauzaAndMichael]

Kamil, we love you! Our condolences to your family. Very touching video. Really appreciate your vulnerability and your view. Thank you for sharing 🙏

[@musicandcookiepl3171]

Dear Kamil. I send sincere condolences. My parents are also dead. Dad played the accordion, but he died when I was 10 months old. Mom died 5 years ago. It will always remain in my memory and in my heart. Now I play with my son Bartek. You are always a welcome guest on our channel. Greetings from Poland! Mirek

[@alenasantana6095]

Kamil my condolences to you..I've lost both my parents mom 2011 she was diagnosed in April passed in June 2011 I cried my eyes out I could not deal with it until time passed now I talk about the good times and it helps alot and dad was diagnosed in 2012 with cancer and passed 2017 totally different then mom we talked ,laughed and he told us what he wanted when the time came now we talk my brothers and I and smile we had the best parents that loved us and gave us the best they could...RIP TO YOUR DAD

[@KamilsView]

Hey. I appreciate your words. You always say such great things to me. I am kind of of, and my dad is happy for sure. I am glad you managed to have great momemnt with your parents, and especially your dad. This is so important to be complete with parents.

[@eliottrodriguez7425]

I watched and I thank you

[@LookAlikescollection]

Condolences

[@denizhanbasaran1830]

Stay strong man. We love you. Lots of love from Turkey!

[@KamilsView]

Thanks. All support is highly appreciated. We all need it.

[@ernestovicencio6103]

Kamil where are you?

[@KamilsView]

North London, Enfield.

[@ernestovicencio6103]

@@KamilsView miss your videos bud. Hope you are doing well.

[@jaydg1802]

Kamil he’s still here with us he’s proud of you he will watch over you until you will meet him up there,Stay strong ❤️🙏

[@ninjapanda123andy]

Hey man I understand what your going through, pls stay strong. Just know your not alone, we can all get though it.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, Andy. So far, so good. I am ok. My dad would want me to be cool about that.

[@mokshitmehtatutorials-conc4423]

so sorry

[@mhesh23]

Sorry to hear that. Stay strong brother.

[@pettyjo318]

Im having a hard time

[@lewl284]

❤️❤️❤️

[@acedszn1682]

I’m so sorry for you loss keep up your good work make him proud he will be watching you from above and just remeber that you have been loved from above for a long time keep your head up king 👑

[@KamilsView]

Hey. Thanks for that. I'm actually perfectly ok with that. I don't believe in death. All people just make a transition to the spirit and are always with us ;-)

[@agelikh5853]

I'm so sorry! I'm sure he was a great man cause he raised a great man! Recently lost my mother, I'm ok. Lots of love from Greece!

[@KamilsView]

Hi Agelikh. I hope your mum is always with you when you think of her. Lots of love from London.

[@osnatazoulay3178]

My dad also died before seven years and until today im sad not as well as the moment he die but when im sad and i want to talk with him i just write him and his spirit comming .i wish you to be strong !

[@KamilsView]

I am titattly fine. I do not believe in death. You can find someone else who reminds you of your dad and talk to him. It will help.

[@nightwingvlog]

Awww, rest in peace Mann, my dad passed away two years ago, I hope you get better man

[@pettyjo318]

Im having a hard time

[@KamilsView]

Be strong.

[@Somemaa]

I'm sorry to hear that mr.Kamil stay strong and we are with you ♥

[@jameswoodmancy5856]

I'm so sorry for your loss Kamil.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks, James.

[@pinkblo]

I’m sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself and your family during this time but don’t forget yourself first! You’ll miss him alot.

[@KamilsView]

Thanks. Yeah, I am taking care of myself. I appreciate your support.

[@pinkblo]

Kamil's View I’m glad to hear that, I hope you keep it up. A month ago my grandfather passed away and I thought I was okay so I completely focused on my family and forgot myself. That drained me alot. It made me realize how important it is to put yourself first. Grief doesn’t go away you’ll have good days and bad ones with weird emotions but you’ll be fine. One is always stronger than they think. Stay safe.

[@benlee7113]

Thank you so much for the amazing videos you have provided us with , i still remember a few years back when i was suffering from chronic migraines and i found your video and it really helped ! Stay strong my guy and dont forget that your dad is proud of you for doing such good deeds to everyone

[@jennifox3664]

Kamil, I went to leave a comment and I saw someone else who said they found your channel years ago because of the debilitating headaches they had. I too found it is amazing. And I look forward to your voice because I know you're going to bring comfort. It does work, I think it's putting the an edge on the headache and pushing it out of existence almost. So for that, I want to thank you. It's's made a huge difference in my life. Today it was so beautiful what you shared. My parents are 75 and 85 and my dad has always been a jokester and very intelligent and loves life, doesn't want to go anywhere, says he hasn't done living his life yet. He's never wanted to talk about death and the way I deal with it is very much like your father, I think it's a part of life but it's one of the tougher parts because we don't have all the answers but for me I believe it's a doorway. He is now sliding into dementia which is heartbreaking, but we still laugh and have are amazing conversations that we've always had and have the meaningful moments when we see each other. I just wanted to tell you what a beautiful person you are and how you really touched me personally. God bless you and I look forward to seeing you soon. All my love and peaceful wishes to you and your family, Kamil

[@KamilsView]

Oh, dear Jennifer. I don't know what to say. What an incredible surprise to see a message (comment) like yours. I am touched by the impact I have had on you and others - thank you for acknowledging me. I can see that you have found a powerful way of honouring your parents. As long as you have a great relationship with them you are on the right path. As you said, we don't have all the answers, but maybe we don't need them. Maybe the answers we have are the best for us right now. I hope you continue enjoying the time with your parents and find the strength and wisdom to ignore their current state and look beyond it to their greatness only. BTW, where are in the world? I am in London.

[@jennifox3664]

I'm in Pennsylvania in the U.S.. I thought of you, and your family in Poland. The despair that each of the families are suffering with because of Putin makes me sad and angry. Disbelief that he can treat so many citizens in the Ukraine and in his own country as if they aren't fellow humans. Anyways, I am hoping that your family is safe, and praying this assault on humanity ends before they would be affected directly. I'm thinking of you, and just wanted to send you prayers and support from "across the pond" as they say. Take care and keep bettering the lives of so many. jennifer

[@KamilsView]

@@jennifox3664 You're a true angle. Thank you so very much for your love and support. Poland is now ok - the war is unlikely go cross the NATO border. All my family members are safe and sound. I trust you are well too. I think Pennsylvania is a beautiful state. I hope to visit some day. In the meantime, I'll keep bettering the lives of countless people. Many thanks for the inspiration too. Stay happy!

[@mattymobbs5125]

Remember he still there with you sorry hear this news

[@elinan.1498]

❤❤❤ Rest In Peace the good soul! & after watching the video, I have similar thoughts about honoring the passed member. Thankful for validating my emotiins here, And you showed me more ways to do this. Much Love to your mom & the family.

[@KamilsView]

Hi Elina. Thank you for an amazing comment and all the love. I'm glad I could contribute to you too. Hope to hear from you soon.

[@DamonDaddario]

R.I.P.