My Dad’s Cancer Journey | His last moments | Pt 2 of Q & A

[@Tassshi]

It’s takes a sheer amount of bravery to share a story of such magnitude. Lots of power to you girl, sometimes nothing is in our hand despite the advance medical science. I am sure he is at peace. Blessings to you and your family. Time to reflect and move on with positivity.

[@kellybhutia]

Yes the feeling of helplessness not being able to heal or help our loved one despite of all the medical advancements nothing eats you up and kills you from within more. Thank you for blessings Tashi🙏🏻

[@tshongpalmoo1244]

Dear Acha, It takes immense courage to share the story with the viewers, made us cry, my heart ached and I can definitely say all the viewers must have felt the same. Pala must be proud seeing you stay this strong and happy. Couldn’t stop myself from commenting after watching this. You’ve won hearts 💕

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you Palmoo for your comment. We’re trying our best to stay strong. I hope he is in a more blissful and happy place. Hopefully I can make him proud one day🙆‍♀️🙏🏻 Sending you hugs🫰🏻

[@bhakthuk]

The final moment with your Pala was heartbreaking yet so inspiring. His acceptance in the face of such challenges leaves a lasting impression, highlighting a perspective on embracing suffering and death that very few of us can practice. I believe as a daughter, you fulfilled your role admirably. May his teachings and memories continue to guide you, bringing joy to your heart. Om Mane Padme Hum. 🙏🏽

[@kellybhutia]

Om Mani Padme Hum🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@KesangChodenBhutia]

You are such a brave daughter.. Even though you don’t show the pain of losing your dear Pala infront of the camera.. I could feel the pain you felt while narrating your Pala’s cancer journey.. Still I feel it’s okay to cry it out sometimes and let the heaviness in your heart out..even though the emptiness of losing a parent will always be there..and it’s not as easy as it sounds.. Even i lost my Pala to cancer.. & it’s been 2 years since he has left this mundane world…I pray for him everyday of my life & I miss him every day & when it becomes too heavy for me sometimes.. I cry when my husband and kid is not there.. when nobody is there..because I don’t want my husband and kid to be sad seeing me cry. We feel helpless when our loved ones are in pain.. but always remember your Pala is in much better place.. he is free from this mundane worldly sufferings.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Much much love to you….❤️❤️❤️

[@kellybhutia]

Yes the pain and sorrow of losing someone dear is immense but this is the way of life. The only thing that could give you a slightest relief is to think that at least they’re free of that pain now and hopefully in a better and peaceful state. 🙏🏻🤍

[@jejevlogs04]

Despite so much you have gone through, I love how you stay calm, talk about it, and remind yourself to be happy. There is so much to learn from you.❤

[@kellybhutia]

Being calm putting on a strong face and acknowledging and living alongside the emptiness he has left and all the bittersweet memories is the only way forward. We gotta live for the living. Thank you for your kind words🙏🏻🫰🏻

[@sonamdhargyal3143]

Don’t worry courage lady! Nothing is permanent in this world. Your family are very fortunate as you all did best . I left home when I was 13 years old and never able to return home again even after 36 years . In the meantime my grandma passed away without me . Just few days back my uncle passed away because of cancer in Tibet . Now whatever good work you done such as helping other or donating something then dedicate the result of that action towards your father it definitely helps him in his journey to next life!

[@kellybhutia]

Absolutely🙏🏻🫰🏻

[@Sumangurung2108]

You've been holding so much of emotions behind your smile for so long. Let it all out my dear and move on. You deserve all the happiness. You're a strong girl❤

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I’ll be strong🙏🏻✊🏻

[@karmasonam07]

The feeling of losing someone so dear to your heart is unrepairable. I can understand how it feels. I had choking feeling in my heart when you explained his last moments😢

[@kellybhutia]

So sorry I didn’t intend to make anybody go through that feeling. I tried my best to control my emotions🙏🏻

[@tashi9538]

Sorry to hear that. Lots of prayer for him. From Toronto

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you for your prayers 🙏🏻

[@youngdoungtenzin5991]

I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family. I know how hard it was to lose your father. But you and your family members did every possible thing to make him alive. You are right that life is impermanent. Death and birth is part of life. For sure, your dad will rebirth Soon. Be strong and happy. Your dad is always there with you ❤ ❤.

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Shelifestylenima]

Dear Kelly, condolences to you and your entire family for huge loss 🙏 I know it takes lot of courage to talk about something very personal and dear in public platform but please know that I was able to empathise with you and your family very dearly. We have seen you and your mom taking such good care of your demised pala. Prayers for his rebirth soon 🙏

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you for your prayers🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Justchill878]

You had been the best daughter during his stay that we can see in your previous videos. So be a power to your mom and stay happily with her. I can say she is in need. Of emotional support at this time. Stay. Happy both of you. Om mani pedme hum ❤❤

[@kellybhutia]

Yes dear i try my best to be with mom in every way I can. If I’ve lost a loving dad than she has lost her life long partner🙏🏻

[@Laphing891]

I cried rivers listening to your dad's last few days with you all, thank you for sharing and always stay happy!

[@kellybhutia]

😭😪sorry for making you cry. It was tough for me . I tried my best to control my emotions so that it won’t come out🙏🏻

[@karmachokey1084]

Sorry to hear that you guys gone through a lot 😪😭😭.It is very hard to deal with your loved ones sometimes.But we always have hopes as well. What can we do our live is uncertain for sure. Be strong and be kind to your mother.

[@kellybhutia]

Yes life is uncertain so it’s better we cherish every moment of life and our loved ones. Thank you for your encouragement karma🙏🏻🫰🏻

[@tenzinlhasa2007]

May the sorrow you feel in your heart lighten by the love that surrounds you 🍀💫⭐️⭐️⭐️ Still Life is beautiful Kelly ⏰☀️

[@kellybhutia]

Yes Tenzin life is beautiful and I hope my father’s reborn in a much more beautiful and blessed life than what he had🙏🏻

[@ritapradhan6923]

Iwill pray for your dad

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙆‍♀️

[@pudmed]

Be strong. Keep your mom and yourself happy!

[@kellybhutia]

Certainly 🙏🏻

[@lobten2376]

It's hard when near dear passed away. I think you have no regret that you lived good and happily with the dad and the family till the end. That is really matters. Your father I am sure he wishes you and mom live joyfully and strong. Take a good care of yourself and the family.

[@kellybhutia]

Regrets….well a little bit I do have. May be of being helpless and not being able to save him. Every moment during the later stages felt like fighting a losing battle. I pray and hope he is in a much much better and blessed place now. I wish and pray that our paths come across in a wonderful way in many next lives as well.

[@TsheringDenkitLepchaSA]

Aiela, you're such a strong person ❤felt each of your words 😢😭 Stay happy more power to you, aiela.

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you for the strength and encouragement lil sis🙏🏻

[@lotusborn7819]

Its so sad to hear the hardship you have gone through.😢😢😢 But its also very appreciable for your sacrifice and ❤ towards your Dad. Please be strong❤

[@kellybhutia]

Sorrows are a part of life as much as happiness is for everyone. The only thing we can do is keep ourself strong move forward and live for the ones who are in our life🙏🤍

[@namastesikkim9217]

Such A good , genuine & kind heart he was , had good memories working together for couple of year with him Aku is always in our prayer n In our memories

[@kellybhutia]

He indeed was a very good human. Thank you for keeping him in your prayers🙏🏻

[@tsepadhondup7610]

Due to this difficulty situation, keep strong and god will always with your family.

[@kellybhutia]

Try my best to mentally and emotionally strong 🙏🏻

[@Vocals_D]

Keep growing😇 God bless you 🪽🪽🌸

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you for the blessing 🙏🏻

[@tseringpaldon8360]

May God grant you and your loving mother the strength to move on in life and be at peace knowing very well how well you took care of him while still alive,I feel your pain coz I went through this extremely difficult journey with both my parents some time ago.You are a beautiful soul ,please know that your father is no longer in pain and at peace in heaven,Om mani padme hung

[@kellybhutia]

Yes that thought is the only thing that somewhere gives me the slightest relief that my father is atleast free of that pain😪🙏🏻

[@kalsanggyatsang9203]

I feel sad when I first heard this news .bcos I like to watch ur video when ur both parent are in the video special ur father nature is so gentle and kind human being .we always keep ur father in our prayers… may he born again in human realm until the dispel his suffering 🌼🌼🌼🙏🏻

[@kellybhutia]

Yes it is big loss and extremely disheartening to lose a kind human like my father. Thank you for keeping him in your prayers🙏🏻

[@ChungChung-mc9jc]

Prayers...

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@OM-PeaceE]

Stay Strong & Happy,

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@jetsunpamu2555]

Will remember your pala in my prayers🙏bdw your younger sister was my childhood friend where is she?

[@kellybhutia]

Thank you….. She is in Dubai currently🫰🏻

[@KURUKULLE_]

U have got shear amount of guts and patience..may his soul rest in peace 🙏u take care of urself.. 🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔🪔om mane padme hoon

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@tsenam7751]

1 in 3 people will have cancer in their lifetime. Preventive care should become a norm in your life. People must get educated about hospice care.

[@lovetibet949]

I pray to your father 🌱🌱🌱👍I see you Buddha gaya you help Your mouther good girl 👍👍👍👍👍

[@kellybhutia]

😊🙏🏻

[@tsetenladolkar8238]

Stay strong ❤❤

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻✊🏻

[@tenzinsonam2358]

🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️

[@kellybhutia]

🙆‍♀️🫰🏻

[@tashdoma9063]

❤❤❤🥺

[@kellybhutia]

🙆‍♀️🤍💖😘

[@kalsanggyatso4375]

Tashi delek 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@YesheWangyel]

Hospitals in Delhi are money making machine. I had a very similar experience loosing my dad same age as your dad. Om mani padme hum.

[@kellybhutia]

They are indeed. 🙏🏻

[@phigubhutia3276]

om Ah Hung Beza Guru Pedma Siddi Hung

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@nanunonie6729]

What cancer stomach cancer he had?

[@kellybhutia]

Yes stomach cancer at its late stage.

[@Justchill878]

60 yr means 61 in lunar calendar.that means its kak

[@kellybhutia]

Right

[@pemawangyal6959]

ཤ་ཚ་བུ་མོ་ཡག་པོ་ ❤❤❤

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@summerglow22]

Don't say aaaaaa aaaaaa aaaa aaa aaa again n again while talking 😅 it's annoying 😒

[@jetsunpamu2555]

It really needs so much courage to just talk about such sad incidents.Atleast she is talking.Most of the people won't be able to talk even.Obviously she will fumble a little bit.She won't be able to talk like as if she is talking about her happy moments right?

[@kellybhutia]

Thanx Jetsun really kind of you to speak up for me…..girlpower 🙆‍♀️😊🫰🏻

[@kellybhutia]

@summerglow22 aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thank you………… aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa for your opinion…..

[@summerglow22]

@@jetsunpamu2555 wow

[@LazyLad-qy5vp]

​@@summerglow22we hope & pray, you be blessed by God and suddenly be changed into a kind, considerate and loving creature. Much love to you.❤

[@gurungsanjok3854]

Stay strong ❤❤❤

[@kellybhutia]

🙏🏻✊🏻