My Date is a MURDERER: Murder on the Internet the FULL Documentary

My Date is a MURDERER: Murder on the Internet the FULL Documentary | A True Story

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Interviews with the family and friends of victims, police, lawyers and psychologists tell the stories of some of the most shocking crimes committed by people using online dating. Produced by Spun Gold for Channel 5 and licenced for A True Story by Nine Lives Media.
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@sheilaboston7051 2 ай бұрын

The number of times they called Kayleigh a 'young woman' - _she was a 15 year-old CHILD!_

@amygillespie9404 2 ай бұрын

Yes 100 percent agreed

@SBCatRescuer 2 ай бұрын

I agreed too, she's a child

@gillianstapleton8566 Ай бұрын

If it was a boy he would be called a child but different rules apply to girl children by men .. go figure 🙄 makes me 🤢🤮 too.

@martinoduor5321 Ай бұрын

Sometimes, I just wonder about some humans. Parents too, my 15year old daughter!!! For real 😳!!?

@jennifermaddy2442 Ай бұрын

Exactly

@easternkiwiz 2 ай бұрын

Stephanie, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Kayleigh. Thank you for allowing her story to be shared with other young people as a heads up to the evil that lurks in our society.

@clairehorsfall1674 8 күн бұрын

They go.fishing anywhere..online is a quicker way thought I guess.

@sheribrougham4863 Ай бұрын

When criminals lie about knowing where the body is it should be an automatic 10 year sentence on top of the sentence they get.

@tagrid9644 28 күн бұрын

Only 35 and 15 years in prison for imprisoning, rapping, kidnapping, torturing, and killing this poor little girl? What the fuck is wrong with those judges?

@alessandraferrari2191 5 күн бұрын

In italy it's the same. 😢

@Francis-xl2gu 2 ай бұрын

I've NEVER met anyone of facebook, twitter,Instagram or whatever, NEVER WILL !!

@sheilaboston7051 2 ай бұрын

I've never even felt the need to join those sites. Yes, there's some really good things about them, but I prefer to meet people in friends' groups or whatever - gives you time to suss them out. Can't imagine telling anybody whom I've never actually met, "I love you!"

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

I have and men are no less dangerous from online than men I've known for years in person.

@Emma0990 29 күн бұрын

Good for you FRANCIS !!

@ALUCARDSOULJA 15 күн бұрын

You've just gotta be safe about it a 15 year old girl meeting a grown male adult isn't safe

@SamThompson-o2f 4 күн бұрын

Ok?

@thomasnewton8997 2 ай бұрын

This is why when you first meet someone you have never met meet them in a cafe or restaurant

@Laurax-v2n 2 ай бұрын

And if they say to keep it a secret that you're talking to them. That's a massive red flag. That's when you absolutely must tell someone. They are 10 times more likely not to be who you think they are. Ie, a predator

@rage707 2 ай бұрын

@@Laurax-v2nLaura are you under 35 and single?

@Laurax-v2n 2 ай бұрын

@rage707 why are you asking me how old I am? That's not at all relevant, and I don't even know you.

@Lynn0000 2 ай бұрын

He trolling. Under someone else's comment. Weirdo@@Laurax-v2n

@leneo1731 Ай бұрын

Are aware of all the people being killed by their PARTNERS? Also, you can meet dangerous people everywhere! Look at Bundy, Manson and orher people LONG before anyone knew there would be internet!

@denisedean8749 Ай бұрын

There were a lot of red flags with his messages. He had conversations skill levels of about a 13-year-old boy.

@Laurax-v2n 2 ай бұрын

They plied her with alcohol so she wouldnt be able to defend herself when they attacked her.

@thobilebooysen1999 28 күн бұрын

There are alot of people going around looking for victims for different reasons. The internet certainly isn't safe!

@karyannfontaine8757 2 ай бұрын

Monsters go fishing on line. Be very cautious with whom you meet, where, when, always tell someone before meeting them.

@rage707 2 ай бұрын

Kary are you single and under 35??

@leneo1731 Ай бұрын

Monsters, as you call them, are everywhere. They're at bars, restaurants, the store, the mall, out in nature, everywhere!

@tangaz5819 Ай бұрын

True but you can be who you want to be online. In person... you have to have the actual gift of the gab, money and looks to some extent.

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

@@tangaz5819The gift of gab has to happen online too or people will quickly lose interest.

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

@@leneo1731People think these monsters don't leave the house or when they do, they become someone nice.🙄🙄🙄

@antsy8994 Ай бұрын

I feel the need to pass on my mother‘s favorite saying because it has served me well for the past 59 years. ‘Don’t believe ANYTHING you hear and only half of what you see.’ Because of technology, I need to add that seeing means live, in person. Pictures, videos and words on a screen can all be manipulated so it doesn’t count as seeing. Matter of fact, nobody should believe anything on the internet/social media or even over the phone, especially texting. That cute and sweet 20yr old college girl with the long, wavy hair that loves to fish and watch football is probably a 58yr old man and he’s a recruiter whose job it is to lure young men and convince them to meet in person so his thugs can snatch them and turn them over to someone like Diddy. Oh - and that gorgeous guy that’s super shy and amazingly doesn’t have a gf is only single because he’s too afraid to talk to girls. But hey, you’re breaking him out of his shell and it will be perfect when y’all finally meet. It’ll be wonderful for the depraved men overseas whom you’ll soon meet because you were really talking to an expert sex trafficker and you and 10 or 20 other young ladies will be lucky to survive a month. People hide on the internet and can create any identity they choose, so please remember that and TRUST NO ONE!!!

@Maruzzela-l1u Ай бұрын

Solid advice. It took me a lifetime to realise words are like air and way too many ppl take them for granted .words are responsible for most of the delusion in today's world .ppl automatically assume each word has the validity of what it describes And all the rest you mentioned, true and most ppl don't know nothing abt

@bwhite8651 16 күн бұрын

I was given the self same advice. It has served me well.

@bayliedwards6806 Ай бұрын

Why are these animals only getting 35, and 12 yrs?!!☹️🙁😔

@daisystanley4301 2 ай бұрын

a concurrent sentence means nothing, does nothing and is a disgrace to justice

@TheMasterblaster32 2 ай бұрын

Only one justice that this monster could understand.

@daisystanley4301 2 ай бұрын

@@rage707 hahahahahaha no im old and demented

@Maruzzela-l1u Ай бұрын

@@daisystanley4301😂😂

@ironix1 15 күн бұрын

Can my monthly gas bill run concurrently with my electric one?

@daisystanley4301 14 күн бұрын

@@ironix1 hahahahahaha

@zaraparadise 2 ай бұрын

There’s a big problem in this generation of young ladies lacking good fathers and role models that’s why they go online to fulfil an absent void of being wanted loved and needed I truly believe fathers who don’t get involved with there daughters is a main problem and all these online dating apps should be banned

@rage707 2 ай бұрын

Zara are you under 35 and single?

@HereInWales Ай бұрын

Some are just desperate for someone

@karyannfontaine8757 2 ай бұрын

Horrible, never go to a person's home with them. They may be of the ilk of Kaylee's murderer. Stay in a public place with other people.

@marleyhill34 Ай бұрын

Not even the Gay middle-aged officer knew this and he was cheating 🤦🏾‍♀️. I think some people are just enthralled by the high risk nature of certain things.

@Maruzzela-l1u Ай бұрын

But that's what I don't understand....a guy talks with a girl for 4years , puts a trojan on her pc she cuts him off he takes the plane from US to UK tries to kill her with a knife but her bro hears her screaming intervenes and she survives. He gets life The other guy kidnaps a half dressed 15yrs old along with his friend ,they hold her for hours rape her, she s beaten beyond recognisable then killed .one guy gets 35yrs the other 12 35??? For kidnap rape and murder? Vrs life for attempted murder???

@philhunter1894 Ай бұрын

@@Maruzzela-l1u murder carries a life sentence with a MINIMUM ( he will serve the minimum ) prior to being put before a parole broad who will decide whether he is safe enough to be released. If deemed not he will remain in jail until they they see fit

@Littlemouse884 Ай бұрын

The highly disturbing thing is there are ao many guys who think just like these two men walking around out there. There are so many seriously messed up males out there 😬

@therealrantroom 2 ай бұрын

Why is he allowed sunglasses in court and police interview

@peggysue3655 2 ай бұрын

Im 75 yrs old and have had enough relationship problems over the years x a few years back imread a story of a young girl going to meet a young man x didnt tell her parents x he didnt exist and was raped and murdered by a lot older man x i was horrified x i feel sorry for young people today x some isolated by some parents x they want to be liked and loved x but facebook etc is oh so dangerous x i was watching something on my i pad asking if i was 18 x i pressed yes x how many young people press yes at 13 or 14 x thats crazy x more needs to be done x some parents now put an i pad in a toddlers hand and they are getting addicted and learn very quickly x until you are 16 parents are responsible but some dont moniter what there children are doing thats is just waiting for evil to happen x i started school with a slate and chalk thank goodness x i watch movies read and comment on stories but im safe x these young boys and girls are not x my dad threatened me about getting pregnant beforeci knew what pregnant was x my best friend didnt know either x its to late now i think to change things and more horrors will happen x children get to an age where they dont want to tell parents anything x its not cool x well neither is murder x

@ellenentwisle5489 Ай бұрын

He looked totally mental..,..I m now 65 but even in my teens,I would never have gone to meet him.......poor sweet girl,...

@Mws556 Ай бұрын

I suspect you're a serial killer phishing on this site😮 get gone

@charisse234 2 ай бұрын

I really don't know how to say this but look at the guy that young girl fell for.i could of understood it more if he looked like Brad Pitt but he didn't! He got her because he knew that that beautiful young girl was vulnerable.but dear god even the things he was saying to her should of stuck some kind of a cord but sadly it didn't 😔 .rest in peace ❤🌹

@canmckenna2556 2 ай бұрын

Shudda wudda cudda

@bumblebee330 Ай бұрын

That’s why they target such young girls. Most adult women wound be repulsed by the sheer thought of that man flirting with them.

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

Love is blind.

@ferraroannie4058 2 ай бұрын

Emma Kenny has a marvellous grasp of the obvious. 🙄

@TheMasterblaster32 2 ай бұрын

This thing should never be released.

@pnklady3788 2 ай бұрын

Stephen Beadman died in prison in 2022... Not sure where Luke is now...

@Faizasmith-pj4dz 2 ай бұрын

@@pnklady3788Luke, has been released

@katemissfilanpurrmcdevitt 2 ай бұрын

I met my best friend through Facebook then we met in person and we became best friends right away but it’s very dangerous too many people fall victim to all sorts of crimes rest in peace Kayleigh Haywood Xx 😢😢😢

@peacelove7437 Ай бұрын

Lucky you. I met my best friends in high school. We’re 49 now.

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

Many people meet amazing people online and many people meet murderous psychos in person. This is an issue of people needing to end rape culture and be better people.

@missfluffydiva2120 Ай бұрын

I could never allow my 15-year-old child to spend the night away from home without checking and confirming first as much as I may love and trust her. Kaley's mom trusted her and she wasn't honest with her probably because she knew mom would not have allowed her to meet let alone stay overnight with that disgusting POS! The sentences were not long enough for what they did. I really hope the film they made will save other children from this kind of predatory behaviour. Poor Kaley and poor poor mum.

@sm-qd2bd 20 күн бұрын

There's some seriously scary people in the world..terrifying

@maryuk07 Ай бұрын

"Mummy's unwell" That made my heart sink.

@thomasnewton8997 2 ай бұрын

This is why I only have friends on my Facebook and Instagram that I atcherlly know and have met

@llinosjarvis2754 2 ай бұрын

Actually

@AmandaBromfield 2 ай бұрын

Same here!

@jennyjackman9996 Ай бұрын

that doesn't make you safer...most people are harmed by those they already know sadly...

@maryuk07 Ай бұрын

@@jennyjackman9996 Your statement has me wondering then, who the hell do you trust?

@Littlemouse884 Ай бұрын

...even then you can't be certain when men are involved

@leneo1731 Ай бұрын

The odds of this happening to a person is almost not there. Being killed by your partner however, much more likely.

@mikemccormick9667 Ай бұрын

@@leneo1731 Yeah almost. 🙄🙄

@Sluetch90 2 ай бұрын

As much as he’s only human , surely as a police officer you’d think he’d have known better as such.

@marleyhill34 Ай бұрын

Some people no matter the professional outward appearance battle with deep inner demons that make them do high risk and evil things.

@ellenentwisle5489 Ай бұрын

Poor girl..,.didn t she see he looked totally mental???I m now 65 but even as a teenager,I certainly would NEVER have arranged to meet a bloke that looked like that.....

@Maruzzela-l1u Ай бұрын

Yes he looked mental

@lyndaalbrecht7006 2 ай бұрын

Kids and parents need to wake up to what’s going on. It’s obvious and yet continues. Make it a priority not to be victimized.

@LadyNyght 2 ай бұрын

What a stupid comment.

@LadyNyght 2 ай бұрын

Not only are these people good at manipulating you're expecting a fking child to think rationally as an adult, shame on you.

@peggysue3655 2 ай бұрын

Oh kaleigh my ❤ breaks for you and all others who have gone through similar horrors x i wasnt allowed to stay over at friends all night x parents now should phone the parents of the child your child says they are staying at x trouble is parents believe in trust and doesnt want to be seen as spying x

@llinosjarvis2754 2 ай бұрын

I am 50 and my mum would only let me sleep out if my mum spoke to there mum. She didn’t drive and would walk me over and make sure it’s ok ❤

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

Parents have BEEN doing that and my sons are not allowed to do sleepovers.

@lisamorton5719 15 күн бұрын

It wasn't the guy she met. It was a guy that took advantage of a young drunken girl that her neighbour invited round. So sad. Poor girl. Remember this story

@thomasnewton8997 2 ай бұрын

There is monsters online

@perrieargent9997 Ай бұрын

is - *are

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

And in person.

@bedihadogru8019 13 күн бұрын

It made me so sad 😢, poor young girl 😞 it's horrible ,she just didn't know the evil monster too much young,to know 😭😔

@Pink-Flames2025 2 ай бұрын

A bear would never.

@Maruzzela-l1u Ай бұрын

Obstruction of the coroner???? Never heard that before...how abt: defilement of a corpse

@daisystanley4301 2 ай бұрын

re Kayleigh........trouble is...those two will get out sometime.....that is wrong.

@pnklady3788 2 ай бұрын

Stephen Beadman died in prison in 2022. Not sure about how long Harlow served but I assume he is out given his sentence and this happened 9 years ago...

@MrPaultopp 2 ай бұрын

It keeps happening because people keep doing it

@dicey8928 2 ай бұрын

15yr olds Are not Women She's A Child Growing young lady Not A WOMAN 😮

@sheribrougham4863 Ай бұрын

She must have been desperate for male attention if she went to meet a creep like him. Poor girl.

@Fallen_Venus 2 ай бұрын

Kids are educated these days of the dangers of the Internet. So why do they do this? Why fall for the nonsense of strangers?

@Laurax-v2n 2 ай бұрын

@Fallen_Venus she's a child. Children by nature, are trusting and naive. She built a relationship up with this person. That was obviously built on lies. But again, she was a child. She wouldn't gave seen it that way unfortunately.

@flowerchildd423 Ай бұрын

because theyre naive children with no fully formed frontal lobe. stop victim blaming a child.

@Laurax-v2n Ай бұрын

@@flowerchildd423 that makes anyone under the age of 25 (when the frontal lobe f the brain is fully formed) quite impulsive and means they will often take risks without acknowledging the consequences.

@flowerchildd423 Ай бұрын

@@Laurax-v2n yes exactly.

@ellieantar809 Ай бұрын

These programmes really do not need the resident psychologist to explain every word from the narrator, very irritating , think we can work out quite alot by the story itself..tuning out now too annoying!

@anakhan9466 2 ай бұрын

Ery upsetting case..poor child..

@Veronica705 15 күн бұрын

I don't understand why a 15 year old girl would have anything to do with that creepy-looking little toad who was messaging her. People, when you are going to meet someone for the first time, meet them in a PUBLIC PLACE like a cafe, during the DAYTIME, for the first few dates and do not accept a lift from them to get home. Don't even tell them where you live until you know them well. NEVER go back to theirs. There are too many weirdos in this world. Keep yourself safe. Do not become another statistic.

@pennybeacham6461 Ай бұрын

Always teach your children never to keep secrets from an early age from parents because one day this sort of thing will happen,the problem here was the poor girl was naive and lonely and looking for attention regardless what kind and unfortunately she paid the price.If lessons can be learnt from this tragedy then the poor girl has sacrificed her life for those vunerable girls in the future.😢

@jennifermaddy2442 Ай бұрын

Didn't the neighbours hear anything.Like screams etc

@rosesmilth5466 2 ай бұрын

So sad 😢

@ChantelleMoore-o7c 21 күн бұрын

Our sentencing system is disguising poor girl may she rest in peace 😢

@janethughes9541 2 ай бұрын

This is why we don’t realise that just because we are able to contact as many people on line that we need to,just like for example there are bakeries up and down the country, but we don’t feel the need to go to the bakery everyday and just to add we wouldn’t eat something from said bakery if we didn’t know or trust how or what was used to produce it. A simple suggestion I realise, but you don’t need to have hundreds or thousands of people on platforms to meet people, you really don’t, they are total strangers. Keep it simple stupid, ie kiss is a good way to move through your life without dipping into a black hole of nothing you know about, no matter what is typed onto a screen. It’s unfortunate.

@thedustysocietycrimes Ай бұрын

Huh?

@dupingdelight Ай бұрын

I recently met someone at a local village working men’s club gave them my number they wouldn’t text only call then when I blocked them after they blew up my phone brought a stranger to my door along with sharing my phone number with the person they allowed that person to send me a nasty message I got my number changed immediately by ee for free I’ll never give it out again. I met my now ex also in 2010 online and suffered 10 years of domestic abuse. Now enjoying time on my own

@DeAnna_Im_Not Ай бұрын

What is the movie called that is shown to kids in schools? Is it available on KZbin

@kerrylee4549 Ай бұрын

That's what I would like to know!

@Maxy_9090 Ай бұрын

Does anyone know What the name of the video they showed in the schools about kaleigh? I was looking for a link for it under the description but i dont see one..I would like to watch it with my 13 yr old, I know kids think things like this wont happen to them and im constantly talking to her about online friendships etc so much that she says im nagging her so maybe watching a true story will get through to her on a different level since shes a teenager also😞

@fionabryant7923 2 ай бұрын

Theyre none too bright are they..

@Masud_S_Hoghughi Ай бұрын

Au contraire - they're jeniuses

@Laurax-v2n 4 күн бұрын

She didnt necessarily go looking for a date online. He targetted her, knowing full well she was underage. You can tell that from simply looking at her. I dont buy the BS that he thought she was 19 initially.

@sharonletchford9375 2 ай бұрын

I'm sorry but from the off that guy looked iffy.

@EJDJ24X Ай бұрын

Yeah he is iffy it's marv of home alone

@lisamorton5719 15 күн бұрын

This story is not that far from me, heartbreaking. Maybe an insecure young girl looking for affection in the wrong places. There are very mean people preying on the vulnerable. R.I.P lovely girl

@jennifermaddy2442 Ай бұрын

Wtheck he's murdered a cop for crying out loud.

@Littlemouse884 Ай бұрын

Men cause so much suffering in this world

@gacha.life.with.crystal9359 2 ай бұрын

Bloody i stare the obvious emma kenny

@moonchild66 Ай бұрын

She was given a script

@michellewinn1917 21 күн бұрын

They didn't get long enough in prison 😢

@Laurax-v2n 4 күн бұрын

I think they were working together to get an underage girl back to his home. They knew of each others paedophilic interests. Because he was comfortable and the other man didnt hesistate to go round at all.

@meterman3000 2 ай бұрын

What is with the overbearing music? Cannot watch it

@Littlemouse884 Ай бұрын

You need to turn your hearing aud down 📢📣🔊

@Masud_S_Hoghughi Ай бұрын

Donnelly's assault on Usha could be rayciss

@ellieantar809 Ай бұрын

Poor Kaileigh..very naive. Unfortuntaly there will be more deaths this way...young people never think it will happen to them and parents cannot always control usage of social media platforms. Since the inet etc is here to stay it is going to sadly occur again!!1