My daughters only loves her dad.No one's on my side in my family[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.09.10]

[@8ri1]

The fact that she knew to start clinging to him for her safety at 3 means that his violent streaks and their arguments must be terrible. Way worse than what they are saying. Poor kid...

[@jazzyjezzy3016]

Yeah... she grew up too fast...

[@maymayy1208]

Exactly.thats what made me cry, cause she's sideing with him causes she's terrified of him. She rather be with him than against

[@anushka1223]

ikr toxic male toxic masculinity is never good ik there r men who hv this male ego but i hope they dont use it in a bad way to dominate themselves on the weaker ones . ( n ofc this doesnt go for all men )

[@kathybear5818]

I find it odd though how she wouldn’t want him to leave why? She should be happy that the person she fears most is out of sight.

[@KaotikBOOO]

@@kathybear5818 she fears him when he's angry so she tries to do thing that won't make him angry, that makes sense She's not "terrified" or anything like this, that's just the comments over reading things that haven't been said like usual Parents fight, they yell, the kid is scared of both but chose to side with the strongest because he's scarier

[@betinaaksoz6246]

I cried when it is revealed that the girl is actually scared of her dad.

[@bekahrogers4831]

Berna Aksoz me too! Bawled my eyes out.

[@127inch]

Same, this hit me hard

[@fadilahmohdnor3188]

Me tooo... 😭😭😭😭

[@Jakikikan]

Who cuts the onion?!

[@BirdsofParis]

I think it's just to emphasize​ how much they're crying involuntarily

[@baakojernigan7095]

That twist was heartbreaking :(

[@yoojihoon97]

Baako Jernigan yeah I cried the moment she say she act cute so that her dad won’t get angry

[@BriChuhime-sama]

I know, I almost bawled like I got hit

[@DedexxxArthur]

i cried

[@armym.c3031]

Baako Jernigan ikr! That was painful to hear! Never cried so hard.

[@music.chatte2573]

@@yoojihoon97 Same!!! I really felt that because it reminded me of my past :((

[@AmethystKaianna]

Probably one of the most heartbreaking concerns I've watched in a while. Imagine she was doing that out of fear. It colours the whole concern differently.

[@murendenin4697]

What I like about this comment is how you spelled colour because I haven't seen anyone else spell it that way so thank you

[@AmethystKaianna]

:D You're welcome! I refuse to spell it any other way

[@miri4963]

@@murendenin4697 I'm on your side😂

[@illegalhunter7]

wait, Doesn't everyone outside of the US spell it as colour? I learnt to spell it as colour and not color...

[@AmethystKaianna]

illegalhunter7 I thought it was just the UK

[@yannicutie]

The way the little girl reacted to her dad is the same way most women that are in abusive relationships act. They do what ever they can to please their man and make him happy so that he wont get angry and hurt them. It's sad that she had to learn to adapt like that at a young age. No little girl or women should ever fell this way. I hope hey really fix their relationship or get a divorce.

[@Matagu1]

You forgot Abused man. Many many man are abused, bullied, manipulated and raped by their girlfriend or wife.

[@abigails.9841]

GhiraLink Men are biologically stronger than women and culturally the 'head of the household' because of it; far more women end up being the ones heavily abused in the relationship when it goes wrong. There are cases where men are abused by their wives/girlfriends, but they are not 'many many'. It's much less common, but it isn't any less depressing. Abusive relationships like these rarely get better; the best way is to walk out when you get the chance. Children are a strong reason to be tied down, find yourself trapped. I hope this one finds its way. The children here are my greatest concern, as they are likely to struggle from this experience. The toll of being raised from broken homes takes on children is never a good one.

[@abigails.9841]

Peachypink짜니 I'm sorry you had to go through that. You and your mother must've gone through hell because of it. I had a good father, he never abused me in any way, shape or form. I feel very lucky because it. Having a loving relationship with your parents throughout childhood and adulthood is such an important bond, it saddens me seeing the people in the comment section, like you, talking about their own experiences with abuse in their own homes. Best wishes to you and your family.

[@twiceboo5601]

Peachypink짜니 I can lowkey relate to that ;( just about a month ago I was in a very bad mood so I went outside my house and I just wanted a walk so my parents especially my dad, he pulled me in took me upstairs my mother came running in I tried to espcape but they were pulled me my mother pulled me by my hair and she was trying to choke me, I screamed for help so my family helped me get out and also my dad broke the door when I tried to keep it shut. After all that happen my family blamed everything on me, they said I was possessed by the devil and they kept insulting me. The next day I was forced to hug my parents when I really didn’t want to. they called me weird because I wouldn’t hug my parents, if only they understood how people who’ve gone through this felt. I’m really sorry for what happened to you I really hope your relationship with your dad he’s better.

[@rayychill1306]

chaeyoung myoui I’m so sorry for you to go through this..

[@sshdontdisturb]

Their daughter saying that she does all those things because she was scared of her own dad.... I died. I literally cried so much my mom stared at me. That would be really heartbreaking for both the mom and dad. I hope they can work things out. Its never okay to fight in front of the kids, that could really be traumatic depending on how they fight. That’ll leave a scar on their kids heart. :(

[@margarita2go]

The husband has a dark side that the children see thats why theyre nicer to him so he wouldnt turn on them

[@APerson-ui5zq]

or simply they assume that the mum deserves to be treated like this and thus they are not nice to her like the father they follow his example, if he was nice to his wife the children would follow too

[@MarokoJin]

Every single person on this planet has a dark side. The kids suffered because he wasn't aware of it, he doesn't seem to do it on purpose.

[@rachelnepumoceno5953]

@@APerson-ui5zq they did not assume that mom deserves to be treated like this it is just that they are scared that the dad might turn on them that is why they show their love to their father.......wait......did you even finish the video? or atleast get to 22:00 ?

[@ghxsty_]

A Person did you not watch the video? The little girl confirmed she was afraid of her dad

[@maymayy1208]

@@APerson-ui5zq bruh. Watch the whole thing 😑

[@Nik-pr7ox]

i thought it was "interesting" when they figured out she was actually scared of her dad and that's why she acts like this. i wouldn't have guessed tbh and i think it's a huge concern, i hope everything works out for their family

[@KnotApps]

I'm not really sure about this though. She is just a small six year old and those particular questions in that order were probably leading her on tbh. Kids generally try to hide from people they are scared off not wait up all night for them so I'm still a little skeptical about this.

[@Nik-pr7ox]

@@KnotApps I was really scared of my mother when i was about her age and would do anything to keep her "my friend". Even if that meant staying up late to greet her, since i was scared something would happen if i ignored her. I get your opinion though, I'm just less skeptical about it since I've had something similar happen to me

[@KnotApps]

@@Nik-pr7ox ah no I don't mean in all cases. I'm sorry it happened to you, but looking at this kid and the way she throws really loud tantrums when her father leaves for work, that's not what you'd do if you were scared of someone right, especially since that could get them mad.

[@Nik-pr7ox]

@@KnotApps True, and im not saying I completely believe everything that was going on but i think the kid knows that her dad likes it when she shows she "cares" (even if that means throwing tantrums apparently) because he didn't think it was a problem, which could be a reason why she's doing it. It's just that from my experience I know you kinda learn what that person likes and dislikes, even though you're very young

[@KnotApps]

@@Nik-pr7ox could be, yeah that makes sense. I Hope they sort it out too.

[@sea20906]

Me: marriage is a blessing Hello counselor: Aha so is divorce 😂😂😂😂

[@sea20906]

@Ri'AikaCröw most of the time on this show, these kid&adult marriges are hopeless 😂

[@iskotayo1]

when there is too much stress, and couple fights alot especially in front of their kids. Divorce indeed a blessing...

[@tacha363]

I have literally never heard them suggest a divorce even when they really really need to.

[@jaywalker6728]

1001th like!

[@adventuresociety588]

omfg

[@ncha1414]

When there's an issue with a child, I never blame them. I believe no one should. People are the way they are because of their environment. Kids mostly learn from what they see rather than what they are told, so I'm not surprised the mom is getting disrespected since their dad doesn't show her respect. I hope they learned from this and provide a healthier environment for their children to grow up in.

[@karuamai]

The plot twist is just too heartbreaking... He pushed his pregnant wife in the stomach, I don't think anyone can ever forget that. Hope she get treated better after this.

[@michellep3374]

HOLY SHIT. I read the comments before watching the video, so I knew what the true concern was but WOW.... I still burst into tears and my heart broke from the way they phrased it - that her daughter chose the "strongest to survive" my goddddd...

[@rapmongodofdestruction6089]

michelle p same here and it hits to close to home my parents just got a divorce from a abusive relationship

[@ellenphilpotts-troy2098]

I dont understand that part where you say she choose the strongest to survive.

[@sierramobley8962]

@@ellenphilpotts-troy2098 the daughter chose to be close to her dad because he's the strong, scary one. If she's on his good side, she doesn't have to be scared. That's what that means

[@madyhurd7215]

So you're saying this little girl does not love her mom?

[@mxeyachae]

@@madyhurd7215 michlle p doesn't mean the girl doesn't love her mother.She said,she always see her parents fight. And her father abusive to her mother so she chose her father because she afraid she will be hit or yelled by her father.

[@kalamarriii]

Wtf just happened?! The biggest plot twist in history

[@captainlevi7188]

after k.will mv

[@anushasan9452]

@@captainlevi7188 Yes. That will always be on the 1st position 😂

[@bottlegod4995]

I honestly thought this one was just an act

[@k-lovers8400]

When children see parents fighting they some time chose strong to survive with .. this is the thing which even I do cause my parents don't live together..

[@harunakdczy7376]

That's just a kid .she don't know what is she sayin

[@lunyx8147]

....i am never getting married.

[@unikitty2199]

You're the first to comment!

[@lunyx8147]

ho yay? :D

[@dreamerlady1633]

l u n y x ,if you are not ready to commit and sacrifice better not get married like me too😂😂

[@lunyx8147]

@@dreamerlady1633 i'll probably never be ready. :/

[@madrinsx8770]

Thinking the same too😂😉😂

[@shjns_]

Am I the only one who literally cried when they revealed the reason why she’s so attached to his dad?

[@ansrutachatterjee37]

Nope

[@yoojihoon97]

Syuhadah Anuar I cried heaps too

[@bangtanssecretcatboy5128]

No :(

[@patv8028]

I remember when i was a kid i always talk nonsense to my father to avoid him getting into fight with my mom and when i can sense that there argument will lead in that way i will do stupid things. I prefer to get disciplined by my father instead of seeing them fight.

[@exoticme4760]

I used to do that too... But this one time I caused such a big chaos that they talk nicely infront of me but there on extremely bad terms... it makes me so sad that our family is nowhere near happy :'(

[@xXxNeonPrincessxXx]

I was the same as I child because when you witness violence from your parent early on especially as a toddler you tend to split them into two different people the good one and the bad one as you grow you'll realize they're the same person but you also learn what to do and how to act to not let that bad person emerge. I grew up with my first words being "dada" I was called a daddies girl I got spoiled everyone in surface know my dad loves me but my first memories were of my dads violence towards my mother and him being drunk. At first I was such a good child but then when the violence did not stop I became violent as well as a coping mechanism. At 16 I was diagnosed with Clinical depression and PTSD I was in treatment when the strongest of drugs used to treat adults because I also had really bad sleeping problems such as night terrors and insomnia and at 18 was diagnosed with Boderline Personality Disorder and Bipolar 2. Children soak up experiences and childhood trauma like a sponge and it's those that shape them as a person but they'd end up blaming themselves anyways.

[@itzroseswifeu3421]

Sometimes I feel so scared when my parents fought in front of me, and Everytime they fight I just don't know what to do so I just put on my earphones and pretend to look at my phone reading while I'm tearing up. I really want to say stop to them but I'm scared

[@sunillarahmudin8108]

Kim jennie nah...u can step up and stop them...its not bad...I used to do the same thing as u...and now I regret and blame myself for not stepping up as a member of family and let my dad abuse my mom...therefore do what u can do now, so u don't regret later on.

[@sunillarahmudin8108]

@@itzroseswifeu3421 ...just try and make them talk and listen to both..so they can tell what they want...talking and listening is the only way to solve the problem

[@belstar4455]

kim jennie don't worry everything gets better trust me I went through it and I want to say one thing try to talk to them and tell them how you feel about what's happening because that may help them see the damage that is making on you I wish I would of done that when I was younger but I can't change the past and now I just move on one day at a time

[@AyAReI00]

Guys sometimes are so scary, why on Earth they think they are better than woman that treat them like shit.... Why marry if you hate woman, you only want a free maid

[@paulele8220]

I’m 22 now, and I still remember my parents fighting a lot when I was a kid. My dad was really verbally abusive, and when he was angry, he yelled and screamed at my mom. My dad was the nicest guy until you pissed him off. My mom tried so hard to hide that from us as kids, but there are a few instances when we would see stuff. I have younger sisters and a brother, and there were occasions where I would take care of them and send them to play outside or on the other side of the house because of the arguments. I was only 10 or 11, but I was seriously protective of them, to the point where my mom started to get worried about me. When I was 15, she told my dad to fix himself or never come back home. And I swear, he did a complete 180. I have never seen him argue with my mom since then, and he spends every day trying to make up for all the stuff he did before. I also feel bad that he feels like he needs to spend every day repenting, but it’s just how he feels he needs to be. I’ve never seen my parents happier than they are now. It takes confrontation and realizing that there are consequences to your actions, but change is possible for this dad. He realized it early on, at least.

[@ninii711]

i have the same story as you but my dad hasn't changed yet :(

[@bekahbabie]

Ah, this made me cry like a baby. As someone who comes from a household with an abusive father, this absolutely broke my heart. The little girl really was just trying to survive, even though children should never have to “survive” anything. Nothing like this should ever happen to anybody and the fact that it does, all the time in fact, hurts me so fucking much. I hope the mother and her children are able to get away from that clearly abusive man and that they are able to heal. The effects abuse has on a person, especially a child, will never truly go away, but I pray with everything in me that it at least gets a little bit better for them. God bless them.

[@MelBell-kw1uv]

15:03 can we just appreciate how this audience member was already pushing the button, even though it wasn’t time yet?

[@mikeybeanie9775]

Mhm

[@blackwidow4376]

I would rather be lonely than be miserable...

[@jiminsgotjams5891]

Black Widow i think this too

[@mybtsarmyculture9623]

Same thoughts here

[@Matagu1]

MGTOW exist not for no reason.

[@teresc3181]

Rather than lonely, I think "alone" is a better word to use for your statement. Afterall, one could be "alone but not lonely" ;) Eitherway, I hope that you're neither lonely nor miserable :D

[@lilypad6092]

Unfortunately it’s not that easy when u r a kid

[@kathybear5818]

When it was revealed how the little girl truly felt that was the punch in the face he needed to hear. He thought it was all fun and games till he won his dumb prize. We don’t need to do anything y’all this moment will forever haunt him till the day he dies. The fact she even admitted that next to her dad meant she knew in that environment (the set not at home) she wouldn’t be yelled at is really sad because she knows when to say certain things.

[@TheSimbulanss]

I remember being young and my parents always fighting. I remember putting my money in my moms purse and saying dad gave it to her so she’d be happy with him. Kids shouldn’t have to witness their parents fighting all the time. It really changes you.

[@bluebubblecosplay50]

Man I started to cry when she told her true feelings on why she’s scared of her dad, it breaks my heart because I can relate to her problem. No parent should ever hear their child say this 💔

[@Ahonya666]

Me too...I can relate but I ended hating my father because of his behaviour to my mother, my brother and me

[@strawberrymilk2440]

As soon as he said “if she doesn’t mess with me first...” I literally wanted to scream. Even if she does stress him out, he shouldn’t be intimidating her or the kids because the kids will be scared of him for the rest of their life.

[@ummmhyeahhh3090]

Hello counsellor has changed my views about so many things lmao

[@soulsearcher7077]

Like what? Just curious

[@melissaivy8860]

@@soulsearcher7077 Yeah no shit. Lol. I wanna too.

[@amidreaming333]

Shin Dongyeob always knows just the right questions to ask... That plot twist was so devastating!

[@whitemusk7411]

Shin Dongyeob very clever

[@LOVEELY28VERO]

the problem with hello conselor is that alot of couples come here with really bad problems and then they get the just communicate and everything will be fine when a lot of these couples should go to counseling and some should leave their partner. I think when people write letters they forget that none of these people are liscensed therapist and really cant' help you mend a bad relationship. This is so sad. Who knows what the hell happens in that house and what kind of stress the child has to live under.

[@sasuneuzumaki2186]

You can't judge a shoot that lasts for six hours that is cut short to an hour . I know a person who has been there as audience . Apparently they have professionals behind the scenes and the often send them there and they only air the interesting part of the whole thing . So it's kinda not nice to judge what you see here .

[@letswinwin9950]

sadly mental health is sort of a taboo in korea :((

[@divikaramie5176]

@@sasuneuzumaki2186 seriously? :o and wow i did not know that the show was this longer :o

[@tingle2323]

Well just bcoz u r looking it as bad relationship.. How can u say if it isnt going to be managed or not.. Many ppl dont realize their mistakes but when they do.. There r chances to change it or try to manage relationship.. I know as a modern.. we only see divorce or break up as options.. But relationship dont manage like that.. If mother really wanted to end relation.. she would have already. But she wanted to manage it.. So there's nothing wrong to try.. And this show is good.. At least their wrong side comes.. So they cant take wrong steps and try to be good.. As many already saw them o show

[@florentinag1712]

@@letswinwin9950 really? 🥺

[@ShinNeulAh]

I hope they'll change so that all will be loved equally.. She scared to get on her father bad side so she act cute, spoilt just because to ease the tension & his nerve & let him have her attention... Its just plain heart breaking to see kid medled with parents relationship..

[@Lyn-rv3vl]

She love him...because she's afraid of him :o No I'm not cryiiiing ToT

[@Matagu1]

Yeah. Seeing his broken face and hiding the tears was very heartbroken. There he realised, he messed up. Aaaaah, why it is so hard, seeing a crying man? T___T

[@hsnrb9959]

@@Matagu1 It took him being on camera from him to realise. He lacks common sense. How did he find a wife.

[@denali2412]

I don’t understand why they want the wife to be the one to say “Good job” first instead of him. I’m glad she asked when should she say it first and not him.

[@gemini1225]

why couldn't she? I mean yes, the husband is a the wrong here but communication is what they need. They need to communicate. No matter who start it first.

[@annejia5382]

I always love when there are adult mom guests on the show sitting next to the guest since they understand and voice out their opinions naturally for the guests 💕💕💕

[@takeoutthetrash6235]

My dad cheated on my mom had kids on the side and I always defended him which broke my mom heart to this day she still talks about how I defended him and in the end he choose his other family over us and I haven't spoken to him or seen him in 3 years , I will always regret defending him! This just made me think about how sick some dad's are.

[@leialim3437]

I Am The Boss my Gosh why did you defend him in the first place :/

[@taehyungsreflections4804]

I hope you're not blaming yourself, because it's not always easy to know who's in your corner and even if it is, sometimes you just grab onto something in fear of losing it. We all do things we regret, but in order to move on we need to forgive ourselves and remember that you aren't the one who should feel bad, your "dad" should. This probably didn't do much for you, but regardless of that I still wish you the best of luck in the future♡

[@sunnydays6144]

No offence, but if he literally cheated on her you should have known it was wrong? Cheating is wrong? Why would you defend him for cheating?

[@saori5808]

Watch superman grief. It's a rally sweet episode with really sweet dad. It'll make u feel better after watching this

[@saori5808]

@@leialim3437 why did the girl in the video defend the dad in the first place? She did it for a reason

[@kimlee3062]

The fact that she's doing good towards her dad bcs of fear hurts the most. She must be traumatized

[@triciamercadejas7184]

I feel sorry for the kid. I grew up seeing my parents fighting in front of me and my siblings and it is not good. I had a trauma and I'm scared of people fighting in front of me. I used to keep our knives in our house bc i thought if i will not keep that thing my mom or my dad will kill each other. P. S *the dad should really respect her wife and be a good example to his kids.*

[@Fabiejin]

I am sorry you had to go through that and that it left a trauma:( No child should witness their parents fighting to such an extend.. I really hope you are doing well now!

[@triciamercadejas7184]

@@Fabiejin Thank you so much. I am fine now tho I am still scared of people fighting but I always pretend that I am not because people around me would tease me. And now I am not keeping our knives anymore bc i feel embarrassed whenever our knife get lost and they would ask me and tease me. Thank you so much

[@triciamercadejas7184]

@@Fabiejin yes. i agree!! parents should be a good example to their children.

[@triciamercadejas7184]

@@natbebe ohmygosh that was so sad. i hope you're fine now, keep on fighting! all the looooove!!! 💚

[@natbebe]

@@triciamercadejas7184 thanksss, hope the best for u too ❤❤

[@anniesumacot2365]

You're a strong woman, but kinda don't like the way your husband acts as a partner to you. It should be like - both of you vs whatever problems you have not like somehow seeing you as a rival.

[@MHello_]

That twist actually shocked me. Poor baby! But at the end it seems like things will turn around. Because Dad loves his daughter a lot and he sees (hopefully) the error of his ways, I think they will work towards being more communicative towards each other. Also, Jo Ahye is literally the best name ever, so pretty.

[@thegreatt.o.p6857]

... Tbh something about the dad still throws me way off... I hope I'm wrong

[@leialim3437]

Tee Jay exactly he seems strange

[@GINGERBREADWHY]

I definitely feel there's some sexual abuse going on...

[@fuki_slam]

Kandgoods Yeah, the whole naked part didn't help

[@saori5808]

When he said all those things to the wife about not being able to take care of children in front of everyone and he didn't even think it was wrong , that's when I knew he was more fucked up than he seemed

[@jellybean8622]

Omg I thought it was just me He's just really strange. And I agree, the fact that the kid ran up to him naked... Idk he just has a bad aura

[@bhuntulii16]

“The most precious inheritance that parents can give their children is their own happiness. Our parents may be able to leave us money, houses, and land, but they may not be happy people. If we have happy parents, we have received the richest inheritance of all.” Couldn’t be more true.

[@krimtopkuku1241]

From what I saw in korean shows, drama, etc. The parents always asking their child in a young age to pick who's the best "mom" or "dad" maybe that's why a lot of Koreans kids prefer one of the parents that loving both.

[@madyhurd7215]

I watch that a lot in Superman Shows and i always wondered why these parents are asking that of a child. I thought it was a cute thing they would do just to see.

[@CK-dz8vt]

Whenever my mom see me become even closer to her, she tried her best to make me spend more time with my dad and communicate more with him... That is why i really hate the question that makes me choose between them... I love them both and thats the truth...

[@EloiseInParis]

My parents never did that (probably partially because it was no question I was a huge momma's girl, lol), but my aunts used to do it all the time. They would ask me who I liked best, and I would panic and cry.

[@CK-dz8vt]

Instead of asking children to choose between mom or dad... I think it is better for them to ask 'Do you love us???' because parents complete each other in order to raise us and care for us....

[@pygmipuff_]

From this episode i realize that my father is the best father

[@colaincancoke8529]

i want to have my family...but in reality I'm scared... coming from a broken family and a society when violence is somehow a norm it really is scary having a family...

[@ayshas288]

Marriage is really a gamble, and it's unfortunate that it is that way.

[@sassyNot4u]

Date longer than 6 months; these people were not very smart there. I think two years is a good time frame to shoot for. Have ACTUAL long conversations about the tough things, like finances, how to handle disagreements, and how to raise kids. You'll do fine, as long as you find someone equally dedicated and willing to work at it. Marriage is not easy. I tell my daughter be willing to walk away before or during an engagement period if you find someone is not compatible with your beliefs. Even if you think you love them. There are others you can find that you'll love that will be a better match for marriage and raising children. To be honest, I think the more respect you have for other people; the better marriage material you are, and the same is true in your potential spouse.

[@tijanamarkovic2495]

Same i'm scared that when i get married that my husband will get abusive and if we would get divorced my family would hate me bc it's a no go for them

[@GeethaNaido]

brave girl..i hope she never changes...be this brave forever..the father seems genuinely shocked...i hope he will learn from this and not take revenge...

[@anonofDeath]

Dongyoeb is practically the same as a certified psychologist. He literally pinpointed the family's whole problem with all that vague information that he only heard about in that small 20 minutes. He may be funny and a pervert, but you can't deny he's a great guy with a great sense of wisdom.

[@sasuneuzumaki2186]

Umm the shoot is like 6 hours . Each concern is at least 2 .5 hours . They just air the interesting parts. So I'm sure he figured out later on. But he still great.

[@AyAReI00]

Divorce is also an option IF A GUY PUSH YOU WHILE PREGNANT un sure he hits her or throw things at her in "fights" ... Plus abusive guys ARE NICE TO EVERYONE ELSE so that when woman look for help people dont believe them

[@pravalikaannimalla5057]

27:42 what a great man👏🏻 Throughout the vedio he was just very wise.... i see no one appreciating him. He knew that they shouldn't let the kid think that her parents aren't good parents or uncool so he appreciated both the parents infront of her so that she could see them as equal👍🏻

[@Izumi70V3Naruto]

21:03 Im so shockedd and got goosebumpssss 😱😱😱

[@AA-fd4qf]

I thought that this would be a regular concern, but it sure took a hard turn. The husband is obviously more than verbally abusive.....

[@Putri-ani]

That's true. Parents's fight will never be forgotten

[@rachelkwon9518]

Am I the only one who wishes there was a show like Hello Counselor in America? Something where you can resolve some issues with the family all while not having it be as heavy as Dr. Phil, so that way people don't feel as pressured?

[@Dingo7423]

"Jerry Springer" LOL

[@ZombehPanda]

The mom's face when she realizes her daughter's bias was a form of self protection is really heartbreaking.

[@kyuu2]

"...it makes me happier seeing my parents love each other, rather than being good to me." Wow, I felt that.

[@noelleloomis590]

This episode is so important. I believe it is something every parent must see so that they can truly understand their children and how severely their actions actually affect them. It is so important for a child to have a positive environment to grow in.

[@rikarosalina1990]

I could not help crying when she talked about her husband who hit her stomach when she was pregnant, and when her child said she preferred her father because she was afraid ... like someone pressing my chest felt very tight to hear it ..

[@belstar4455]

Poor kid I know how that feels I also grew up seeing my parents fighing I would cry every time they fought, I became a really shy person that had hard time in making friends and one thing I wish I would of done was talk to my parents about how I felt maybe they would of saw the damage they made on me and my siblings I will not lie it affected us a lot

[@rapmongodofdestruction6089]

Isabel Star same this episode just hit to close to home

[@chuuyasan28]

Same..

[@TweSunshine]

I can relate

[@nurulshaqina6677]

Wow, if I’m the wife, I might cry every day in my sleep huhu

[@gabbmalabor4919]

Im never marrying a man like him.

[@decalcomani1169]

You won't know.

[@user-uw6xh6dw2g]

I'm crying since Chaewon said she was scared of her dad. I wish they're doing ok now and they're happy, especially the daughters

[@wanishuk6489]

At first I thought this is a simple concern,but then..... it's more complicated than I thought it would be. The kid is really smart,she knows that she need to take advantage on her father to protect herself.

[@itsryumin]

My father and my mother. They fought alot. One day, we went to SEOUL to participate a bts fansigh event When my mother and father fought at public, i will always go somewhere far away and left them be. I cried the most so i chose my father to survive When they divorce, i had to live with my mother, we move to malaysia, and i was crying in my room. My mother will compared my brother and sister to me I will cry Im my relatives eyes, they look at my mother as an angel Im my eyes, i look at my mother as a devil

[@kookiesandcream1925]

I feel sorry for you

[@aetherdemigod]

Jimin's mochi cheeks and cute eyes Sweetheart, plz don't feel down. God will give u blessings if u persevere thru this. I pray that u can get away from ur mother and that u can live a peaceful life. Stay nice and cool oki? Have a great day sweetie.

[@rubalasuresh04]

I have been through a lot too. It causes so much pain. I wish you get peace. Do what makes you happy. And one day you will be out of their problems. Dont hold a grudge on anyone.

[@rhistine.3092]

She loves her dad because she is scared of him. 아, it breaks my heart. 진짜 it’s sad seeing their child suffers because of her parents are always fighting. 😭☹️

[@annadaagrawal2005]

That little girl is so smart, she knew what she had to do to stay safe It broke my heart

[@sarasvensson6026]

Chaewon is so brave for being so honest even though she is sitting next to her dad. If me and my dad had been put in the same situation when I was Chaewon's age I don't know if I would have been able to be so brave.

[@heiwaitsumo1450]

That little angel is simply amazing 😭💖 God bless their family XX

[@GeorgiaCantDance]

This made me cry so hard. I could slightly relate to the little girl since I grew up seeing my grandparents argue in front of me. It's because of my grandad that I'm terrified of people, especially men, when they start yelling. No child should have to see any adults regularly arguing, it can be very traumatic.

[@HarunaMaurer]

i'm glad all saw it as a concern. i've seen worse cases in the past that they just dodged and said it wasn't a concern and they only needed to talk

[@mirelasemanjaku]

Can i just say my respect for the panel. They fragmented the situation very well and in a considerate manner. The real issue was elsewhere and would never think of it if not the hosts had pointed it out! I hope this episode opens some other's eyes that may be facing the same situation but didn't know it yet.

[@blackprince7585]

I am crying when I got to know that the kid got closer to her dad not because she loves him but cause she didn't want to get hurt. ☹😢

[@anonymous-zf1qm]

I feel bad for the mother. When you gets older, i want you to imagine how your mother did everything for you, she did take care of you inside of her womb with 9 months.

[@tanayai6884]

i love kang hyungwook. that man is just so straight with literally anyone.

[@dania7124]

I don't think these types of stories should be aired. This video will follow the mother and the child for the rest of their life, and they don't deserve that. It's also dangerous for the mother in situations like these, as with the secret out, his abuse might escalate.

[@Cyhcg5uhgb]

I understand what you mean, but I also think that it is important that more stories like this are shown especially in Korea where abuse isnt really talked about that much.

[@liliyaah]

nah but the hurt in his face when Chaewon said she did it because she was scared of him 😭

[@jinggalee6378]

Note : married people must say nice words to each other..

[@whitemusk7411]

Yup n respect each other

[@honneylenevangelista7072]

“Like the whole universe!” I loved that

[@zalp3357]

after reading the comments I really don't want to watch this episode because I know It's going to put me in a bad mood but.... here we go :/

[@ezraloraine4993]

I'm bawling my eyes, I hope they live happily now.

[@kiki.k5684]

Am I the only one who think he looks like Yang Hyun Seok especially when he’s smiling ? 😂

[@reginadilangee7968]

Out of all episodes, these were one of the most heart-breaking episode I’ve watched.

[@lifeislong2154]

This is other thing entirely.. but kahi is still so beautiful

[@루인-t6u]

풀영상이라 너무좋네요 다른것도볼려니 3년전꺼라 찾기가힘드네요

[@lisaa4876]

They need to comunicate more, talk heart to heart with cold headed manner.. it’s sad to know that the daughter takes his dad side bcs she’s scared of him

[@ellenphilpotts-troy2098]

I think that is hard to talk for her, cuz husband is hot temper.

[@parkgimmy4225]

I really cried when they revealed that they fight in front of their kids and that she's scared of her father. I can understand what that kid feels because I myself went through similar situations... many times I even thought about taking my life just to make them regret ... It's just sad to see that a small kid is doing all that because she wants to stay on her father's good side

[@laa_dyy_0620]

I had never related so much to an episode of HC like this. I'm glad they were open to talk about this but the parents and the little girl need therapy asap, things can cool down for a moment but they aren't aiming the actual issues, misscomunication, intrafamiliar violence, anger management and other possible issues that were not spoken here.

[@minominmina5672]

It is nice to see her daughter smiled when dad gave message to her mom.

[@anonymous-zf1qm]

I regretted going on comment section. It's full of spoilers huhu

[@tacocrunch4512]

I know right >:[

[@ellie7646]

what else is the comments going to be? irrelevant topics?

[@cheetah.dances]

It broke my heart to see a small child admit being closer to dad so as she doesn't have to experience his wrath. Poor child... Moments like this make me appreciate my supportive family

[@jiminsgotjams5891]

I usually watch my Mom and dad having an argument. they always fight each other since I'm 6 years old and know I'm 15 years can yalls imagine that? my siblings we are not close so I'm often alone at my room by myself. I also have a problem with my sch which is I'm being a victim of bully. One day I want to commit suicide but I still think abt my dream. I found bts and bts just save me from my worst life. they giving me hope they like a light in my life. and now even my parents still fight and often didn't see my siblings also still getting bully. I choose to stay I will fight them. this is my life and I'm used to protect myself. no one can handle me

[@wucin9631]

지샤전 You choosing to fight and keep going because of your dream... also gives me some strength... I’m glad I saw your comment and if you keep trying hard, I think I can too...

[@jiminsgotjams5891]

Cindy Windy there's nothing impossible let's fight for our life. thiis our life no one can handle it just ourselves

[@alimatormusa7435]

👏👏👏💖💖

[@alimatormusa7435]

I hope one day you'll meet them and get to tell them your story

[@jiminsgotjams5891]

Alima Tormusa who is.them? bts or hello counselor hahaha

[@MissesWitch]

I love the reenactment they do at the start, And sometimes kids have a favourite parent and switch from one to the other. It's just something you have to get used to.

[@Bubblyluvee]

Wow if I married a man like this I would totally hate myself ugh

[@raynwhite1287]

I actually cried when she revealed it was all because she was scared. It makes total sense. Kids seem to get closer to and do nicer things to the “bigger and meaner” people to avoid the same treatment. I really hope everything goes well. 😭

[@jescalimbu8526]

This is just so heartbreaking to watch 💔was I the only one who break my eyes out😭

[@beepbeep9424]

20:51 honestly i don't think she meant it she is still super young and i think seeing people talking about it made her say yes, it doesn't seem like she really meant it when she talked about how she's scared of her mum she started to cry bec she could remember it, but when talking about her dad if she was really scared of him, she would've cried idk but that's what i think

[@brooke4729]

I’m literally trying not to cry I relate to that 6 year old so much. She said she was closer to her dad because he was scary, have I been doing that also omg. My dad is the same way and he is so mean but yet I still gravitate towards him I’m so shook rn

[@tadikata]

heartbreaking. this is one and only episode have a twist result. its important how parents love each other effect their children grow. happy family forever.

[@unikitty2199]

Okay, so.... Jo Ahye's husband doesn't care if her wife is not feeling loved? Like the heck, everyone wants to be loved....IS IT JUST ME OR...? (going back to the corner of shame🕊) BTW, I'M THE 6th COMMENT! 🕊

[@rachelw1483]

That plot twist tho at 21:09, I felt like crying already 😭

[@amarnathghosh1512]

This is very common in all rich Indian families

[@amealja9074]

I love this show every episode feels like a whole drama series...

[@henloworld514]

lmao I’m Korean American and my parents and I were in a really similar situation. (tw: abuse) My dad would never give me rides to school and barely spent any time with me while my mom did everything despite her also having a full time job. Since they were immigrants, they had extra stress out on them as well. Whenever they fought, I was scared one of them might even kill the other. My mom would provoke my dad endlessly over the most useless things and my dad would get angry very quickly and break stuff around the house to vent out his anger. Sometimes he would push her if she annoyed him too much. I would be in my room or the bathroom, hearing my parents fight. I was terrified, and even if I wanted to jump in to stop my dad from hurting my mom, I couldn’t. I don’t understand why they didn’t divorce. What use is it keeping up a family if it’s just a facade? Why put children through such unnecessary turmoil? My mom was really hard on me and forced me to take extra lessons and go to tutoring nearly every day. She would hit and scold me all the time, to the point where I couldn’t stop crying because I was so afraid. There were so many times with her that I thought she would actually live up to her words and kill me, or herself. She dragged me by my hair, punched my stomache/rib area, suffocated me, etc.This went on for my entire life, but it’s gotten a bit better since my little brother was born. I despise that they had me during such a tumultuous time and that they never considered going to therapy at all. When she left marks on my arm, my mom would make me cover them up in long sleeves and make me promise not to tell anyone. I would get scolded whenever I cried because my parents were afraid of getting the police called on them. Similar to the couple in this video, we would always pretend to be the perfect little family on the outside. I hated when my parents put on their fake outside voices and I always hated when my parents sounded happy for some odd reason. Even when my mom was scolding me the previous second, I felt pressured to pretend nothing had happened in front of other people because that’s what I’d learned to do. When I was younger, my mom and I would fight nearly everyday, and I remember most of my home life as crying in my room. She would comfort me after a bit, promise not to do that again, and then go on to abuse me the next day, over and over. If they knew what they were doing was so wrong, why didn’t they actively try to fix themselves and go to family therapy? Why did they never stop when I cried out of desperation and fear for them to do so?? I constantly question why they didn’t do things differently if I’m as precious to them as they say I am.

[@sha78962]

Sounds like your parents were physically present but never mentally or emotionally and that might be the reason they fought the most.I feel sorry for you it must have affected you badly.

[@alyssanovilla630]

Hello counselor never fails to make me cry😭