My Entitled Brother Said I Spoiled My Wife Too Much by Backing Up with His Wife, Saying She Was a...

[@hwimystic7691]

Story 3: OP’s wife is an absolute sweetheart. Making bento boxes has more of a deeper and personal meaning to it. Made with love. That’s just absolutely sweet. I hope OP and his wife have a great life and future together.

[@morganleanderblake678]

came here to say this. if someone shows that kind of daily devotion, you want to give them the moon. (source: I have a wife who gives me backrubs every day)

[@hwimystic7691]

@@morganleanderblake678 I hope you and your wife have a great future together😊

[@azuredystopia3751]

I don't understand all the negative replies to that story. He's obviously happy why do they assume his wife must be neglectful??

[@hwimystic7691]

@@azuredystopia3751 Even I’m confused. Personally, I like a homemade bento more than any expensive item. When your partner, friend, etc makes something for you, there’s more love to it.

[@reflex9238]

For the love of god, Story one I'm so pissed at the father for taking that long to hear out his daughter's concerns. I'm glad that he listened in the end, but Jesus Christ the fact that it almost got the deadline date to where the OP almost was kidnapped by her mother is beyond infuriating, given how uncomfortable OP was with the "holiday" and it was going to be in a cabin in the middle of nowhere, they could've potentially been killed and he should've put his daughter's word first over his ex and remembered that there's a reason why she's an ex. Honestly the entire situation seems like it could've already gone to police if the father wasn't so much of a coward to get police involved, christ glad OP made it out fine in the end.

[@boatthere867]

last story about the wife makeing bento boxes means more than just buying stuff it shows she does care and uses her time to make it than just buy from the shops.

[@ARcinder]

Story 3: That one commenter is jealous of strangers on the internet. I express love the same way OP does, not only to lovers but for friends, I'm a gift giver. Women often express jealosy of the way I treat the women in my life.

[@tawanaellsworth8534]

Story 1. OMG! Op's mother and step father are disgusting human being man! They would have hurt op if let to go on vacation with them. Mom cared more about step dad than op. Sick POS! Second story sounds like Op is a good woman. She helped this man find happiness again after losing the love of his life. That's such a lovely story.

[@erosagape514]

YESSSS PREACH

[@jorijoestar4998]

s3- I spoil my wife Reddit- YTA Reddit is wild, yo

[@krazykrazy8513]

they said nta

[@virtualatheist]

@@krazykrazy8513 Nope! A commenter said YTA and suggested stopping "spoiling" his wife. Clearly the comment was from brother or SiL.

[@krazykrazy8513]

@@virtualatheist all the other ones were nta so the majority I mean

[@artemislove2941]

3rd op is a high quality husband. theres nothing bad about spoiling your wife. his love language is giving gifts, so is my dads, they do it because its how they show love

[@rowan5335]

Step dad's reaction sounds suspicious. There are mothers who willingly give their daughter to their man to keep him around

[@cameron765]

Story 3 that commenter at 23:45 You can tell they never had a healthy relationship

[@fangselite1627]

Probably some more incel

[@ARcinder]

​@@fangselite1627can women be incels? Because I wouldn't be surprised if the commenter is a jealous woman.

[@abstractrose2673]

@@ARcinderincel is being involuntarily celibate so i would assume that it can apply to both men and women.

[@lyraflow9154]

​@@ARcinder they call themselves femcels and apparently incels and femcels don't like one another. Where the guys say that woman can't be incels and the woman say that they can (like it's something anyone thives to be) . So basically instead of just being with one another they just beef each other. But I guess they just don't find each other attractive enough to be with, those people are just shallow, crazy, full of hate and anger.

[@ARcinder]

@@abstractrose2673 at one point yes, but it now means something else

[@Esther-lm6pm]

I hope OP has family to go live with. She's in a world of hurt if she doesn't.

[@momoangel9243]

Story 1, I hope op made clear with her father, that her dna sharer was 100% aware of what her scum husband was doing to op, And refused to do anything for her own convenience, and if he was told the truth she would be forced to do something about it, And that if he hadn't picked op up like he did now, something bad was going to happen in the cabin, since her husband was already started to hit op too but made sure he did it in away not to leave marks yet but he's starting to do it harder, Seriously op's dad needs to bite the bullet and put op in a different school especially when his ex is acting shady., Last story, Nta he should shut the hell up, what op does with his money and, especially his healthy marriage is not his brother's and his brother's wife business from the get go, And outsider? Gurl pls the last time we checked you are the sil, so your the Last person who should open your mouth about that in general, And after the update op's brother is hurt? Sir you and your racist wife were nothing but aholes from the sounds of it drunk or not, I'm glad op's mom and sister is shunning her after that she doesn't deserve to be comfortable after that behavior.

[@RepellentJeff]

That YTA comment on story 3 was tripping. 😂

[@azuredystopia3751]

3rd story everyone assumes his wife is selfish and undeserving cos of course they do. Reddit is such trash.

[@artemislove2941]

3rd op. drunk words are sober thoughts.

[@66DoodleGal]

I GUARANTEE you the mom would’ve blamed OP if stepcreep did anything to her

[@rachaeladams61]

Isn't the brother's wife an outsider aswell in story 3

[@wednesdayschildfullofwoe]

No not according to her, she's White.

[@austinfowler2707]

You think people who have these views think about them rationally? While pulling the Race card can be annoying, when you mix old money with highly ingrained identity politics, and OPs wife has some very clear differences, it becomes almost cliche.

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

story1) you are rude to you for no reason despite your effort of trying to defuse the situation and didnt lie or spread rumours, go NC with your family and be with your dad story2) you are a good person OP and im glad you helped someone in their lowest moment and your choice are a example on how to lead, (not the becoming a trophy girl) but being kind and wanting thing outside of money and objects story3) NTA your wife is amaizng and your brother and his wife are just jealous

[@jeanniemaycrawford4466]

I don't understand why people are mad at the step dad in story 1 Dude was accused of being a creep, he is afraid of the step daughter

[@vincentcleaver1925]

That was an AH move on the part of the brother and sil

[@dumbidea1007]

Ok after a while with first op she was just being a moron and paranoid and Reddit was pushing her n the paranoia side.

[@gtc9966]

So…did he leave anything to his son?

[@leningradcowboy2953]

Story two is fake no one but an incel uses the term high value man

[@ARcinder]

The term has slowly seeped into many different communities. Men and women across the board. I wouldn't be surprised if future generations use it as everyday speech.

[@austinfowler2707]

If this is your only evidence that this was an incel, you need to be off the internet more.

[@goddessrick8734]

Story 2 is BS. No 60 plus year old man is keeping a 20 year old around to just cuddle. She was either a sugar baby and is lying to look better or this story is beyond fake (likley fake).

[@krazykrazy8513]

that makes no sense wouldnt a sugar baby move in with him

[@Kris-wo4pj]

​@@krazykrazy8513 no they dont. Thats gold diggers. Sugar babies usually have multiple men or an actual boyfriend. They do trips and take gifts in exchange for sex and making the dude look good. They all have a going rate ya have to pay per month/per outing if ya want them to give ya the time of day.

[@MCWon212]

Not all sugar babies love with the man...

[@marthajackson1388]

I was dating aka I was a sugar baby.

[@MCWon212]

Exactly

[@marthajackson1388]

@@MCWon212 Also yeah she never "SLEPT" with him. I knew a gal that told me the exact same thing. Her married supervisor gave her 10 thousands dollars behind his wife back to catch up on bills because they are just good friends! 😏

[@nikkihorn3852]

I knew someone who had that kind of "friendship" with their landlord.

[@lisaclark7810]

1st. S. Pray with God, ask him to help with your anxiety while breathing in and out closing your eyes, get into a space where you feel safe, and let the anxiety go. It helps me. Two, start recording them. Have your phone charged and on you at all times. When your mom is trying to manipulate you. Say, nice try mom not today. If she starts fake crying say, nope not happening. If he says about the dogs or you lying, say really then why do you talk to me if I am supposedly lying to you, that makes no sense. Be crafty. And remember she wants you there for the $, and she's manipulating you badly. Play her game right back. When she's manipulating you, start the "fake", crying. Mom, why would you say that, make the sniffles you know I am doing my best, as for the vacation just ask your dad to let you stay there. When mom says no, fake crying, mom don't you care about my education at all. But, use the manipulation for good purposes only

[@lisachatman5299]

Why would his family think he is over compensating because she's black?????