My Entitled Brother tries to PROPOSE to Girlfriend at MY WEDDING - Reddit Podcast

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0:00 My Entitled brother demands that I allow him to propose to his Girlfriend at MY WEDDING! (u/Soon-to-Wed-Throway)
7:32 I have been lying to my boyfriend about my education, and I don’t know how to fix this situation. (u/insecure_1765)
10:07 My parents have given me an ultimatum, threatening to disown me if I move in with my girlfriend for college. (u/Decent-Ad-9617)
13:24 My wife and I were planning on living in Europe for 3 months, but my wife changed her mind a week before we were supposed to go, and now I don’t know what to do. (u/PianoCharged)
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[@silentscorpio2286]

Why do people think it’s okay to propose at someone else’s wedding? The day is supposed to be about the new married couple and only them. People can make your own events to do this.?And also if the brother thought his girlfriend was gonna leave him soon why would he think she was gonna say yes to the proposal. It’s sickening to see how humanity is these days.

[@magic69blue16]

Na how do you have the guts to do

[@dizzy_dino9052]

@Virgil Cristurean in America it can be like that but you have to get permission from the couple. And if they say no, that's it. I'm sure it's like that in other countries too. I mean, those kinda proposals are obviously planned by the couple and the person proposing, so I'm sure the proposing person has to ask permission.

[@goombapizza6335]

Duh, he wanted to propose at the wedding BECAUSE he knew his girlfriend was planning to leave him, and that was the only way to coerce her to say yes. Can't believe no one has brought this up. Normally proposals are done in private or around strangers at some restaurant/park/whatever, so the proposee has freedom to say "no thanks". But if you do it somewhere where there's a bunch of family and friends, and it's a formal meaningful event, you're basically forced to say yes or else you ruin the event for everyone and publicly shame the other person. So OP's brother was just plotting to propose somewhere where his girlfriend would feel socially forced to say yes. This is rapey AF considering he knew his GF didn't even want to be with him. Brother's plan to force his unwilling girlfriend into an engagement, and surely ruin the wedding if she said no, is a WAY bigger problem than the idea that he tried to hijack the wedding to get his moment in the spotlight.

[@dizzy_dino9052]

@@goombapizza6335 Your logic really does check out, so I bet you're right. That's a really fucked up thing for the brother to do, and I'm just glad the girlfriend found out so she could end things before the brother could even try such a crappy thing.

[@theorangeeyepodscp1318]

@@dizzy_dino9052 yea like if the girlfriend loves him and wants to be proposed to that isn’t to bad atleast it’s better then forcing them to marry him even at the wedding

[@carlrood4457]

It's weird, because I don't know anyone who'd think this was OK. Also, a proposal to prevent a break up is just turning the break up onto a divorce. You should only get married if both parties actually want to; not due to threats or ultimatum.

[@dizzy_dino9052]

Exactly. Like, it's not the 17th century anymore.

[@Nathan_Bookwurm]

He'll probably talk her into a stay at home wife too so she can't leave him, and probably talks her into having kids together too. Yuk!

[@bloodsoakedmoon]

this is my opinion I'm just going to say there's one acceptable way to propose at a wedding and you have to be BFFs with the bride and the groom for it to be acceptable obviously ask about the permission only really works if that girl isn't one proposing if they say yes then you can do this the bride coef pretend to throw the flower boksy and then hand it to the person getting proposeed to and wonse agen this only is acceptable if you are really close BFFs with the bride and groom and they say yes but this is just what I think is acceptable and the only acceptable way to do it once again my opinion.thank you for understanding and please keep your opinions to yourself you will not change my mind and I would only allow this with my best best friends forever

[@DigitalCowboy000]

@@Nathan_Bookwurm except that the OP's brother's girlfriend made it crystal clear that no matter where he purposed, that she was going to say no. It sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders.

[@Tea_laBlue]

Proposing at a big public event puts pressure on her to accept it. Or at least the perception of pressure.

[@sayatdegefu6322]

The fact that he's in his thirties and acts this childish is beyond me

[@EnvyVGrimm]

Don't take this wrong but of course it's beyond you. Your parents are not crappie and didn't raise you to expect every one to bow down to you and give you what you want just because you want it. You are not spoiled or think that the world is only there to serve you.

[@Glitchtraptherabbit]

@@EnvyVGrimmI cant tell if you are saying this in a good or bad way I'm so confused

[@TomDeTank]

@@EnvyVGrimm SHUT UP

[@EnvyVGrimm]

@@Glitchtraptherabbit sorry I was trying to say that Sayat Degefu had good parents that did a good job raising them. That's why they don't understand that someone in their 30s could act like a child. I was trying to compliment guess I didn't use the right words... sorry

[@Nathan_Bookwurm]

He's in his thirties and his little brother is paying for his study degree? Depsite him having a job himself (and not paying his parents for living costs with that job?) Wut?

[@1987MartinT]

There are certain things you, as a wedding guest, DO NOT DO at a wedding. You do not: 1. Wear white or anything even remotely bridal. 2. Propose. 3. Come out as anything. 4. Announce a pregnancy. 5. Announce a divorce. 6. Talk shit about ANYTHING concerning the wedding. 7. Make a scene.

[@smasher3261]

And Yes heart attacks, passing out due to either illness, allergic reactions or food poisoning, suffering a huge accident, being attacked, receiving the worst possible news (your pet died or a family member is on the hospital) during the wedding will be a exception due to not being on your control and/or that no wedding should also be the day of your death.

[@mckitty2628]

With that last call with the grandmother I would have immediately revoked her invitation LOL 2 strikes and you're out

[@Nuclear746]

If you want to propose consult the people first and if they say yes do it. One way I saw is the bride giving the boquet to the girl and then the man proposing vise versa.

[@joshuaward692]

Or have a funeral at a wedding. I've seen it.

[@1987MartinT]

@@joshuaward692 What the fuck happened there?!

[@ahaanaggarwal8790]

In the first story he pissed three generations of his family💀💀💀

[@i-am-a-lie...]

By three do you include the grandmother?

[@FurryFlox]

Must have hurt to piss your whole family at once 💀

[@nurulafiqah4903]

@@i-am-a-lie... yup. His grandmother, his parents and his brother

[@i-am-a-lie...]

@@nurulafiqah4903 i may have misunderstood the story ... But didn't the grandmother treat the brother as a golden child?

[@The_British_Queen]

@@i-am-a-lie... Yeah? What does that have to anything?

[@JackieSkellington]

I've seen a proposal at a wedding reception, and at another a pregnancy announcement. Both brides upset, crying, and told by stupid people that "they are over-reacting and what's the big deal?!" Sigh

[@OddOtter707]

Its like someone taking your cake at YOUR BIRTHDAY and them wondering why you're upset. 😂

[@dizzy_dino9052]

Yeah if someone tried that at my wedding or something I would definitely be pissed off unless I gave them permission. And unless it's a really good friend or something like that I wouldn't give permission. And even if it was a really good friend it would still depend on certain things.

[@dizzy_dino9052]

@@OddOtter707 Someone tried to do that to me once. I almost broke their nose. Nobody takes my cake... They can have a slice, but they can't take my slice or the whole cake.

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

They ARE over reacting. The average female attitude at weddings is disgusting. It's not "your day", it's a party with family and friends to celebrate the commitment of a couple, not a stroll on a fashion show. Grow up.

[@dizzy_dino9052]

@@dyr_glpsn4209 Your logic is hilarious. Social convention states that it is literally the special day for the couple getting married. Also the OP is a guy I think :)

[@kunfussed213]

The parents changed their tune when OP said he'd cut that $500 off. 🤣😭🤭

[@sougotokiwa8439]

Golddigger family

[@IIGrayfoxII]

Well today $500 is a fair amount on a mortgage. With inflation and rising intrest rates.

[@M_xX_Xx]

@@IIGrayfoxIIand the parents considerably putting the op’s value more only when he mentioned money .. yea

[@roboto8084]

@@M_xX_Xx just put in the music you didn't have to CUT ME OFF

[@calico_queen8976]

Imagine picking the guy who basically mooched off you over the guy who's literally helping you pay for your house

[@silverblaze46]

I truthfully feel that grandmother honestly could care less about OP and just shower the brother with affection and love because I have the feeling that if it was up to the grandmother that it would be a surprise wedding for the brother and just toss OP out and basically make it all about him.

[@thebucketheadgaming]

You mean *couldn't* care less, right?

[@silverblaze46]

@@thebucketheadgaming yes thank you for correcting my grammar, I was using the microphone and ranting

[@BCoombs0906]

He just wants to make it about him

[@Kousnowflakes]

@@silverblaze46 I’ve never heard anyone say this but it sounds a lot faster then typing.

[@drako8343]

Wife who suddenly doesn’t want to go on vacation is having an affair. It’s that simple.

[@FireDancerProduction]

Time to hire a private investigator

[@crazy922blade]

Just imagine, ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking and this vacation seems quite expensive, time consuming and inconvenient, could we postpone it for a while?’ ‘WELL LEAVE ME AND GO TO HIM IF HE’S SO PERFECT!’

[@drako8343]

@@crazy922blade just imagine, adding details from the ether that completely change a story to justify your BS

[@crazy922blade]

@@drako8343 it was a joke, chill

[@drako8343]

@@crazy922blade not the way you wrote it.

[@ashleyt6840]

Not allowing him the opportunity? He has every opportunity to propose to her any other day. He wants to do it at op’s wedding specifically bc he wants to take the spotlight like he has his whole life as the golden child. He probably was very shocked he couldn’t get his parents behind him. He almost did tho. They’re kinda disgusting too.

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

"Taking the spotlight". "My day". Damn the average female attitude towards weddings is beyond narcissistic. It's just a party, get over it.

[@ashleyt6840]

@@dyr_glpsn4209 you’d be ok with your mom and brother just thinking it’s ok to propose at your wedding and continually show who their favorite was? Also it’s just an opinion. Get over it. 😊

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

@@ashleyt6840 already married, and if my brother or even a very close friend wanted to do something like that I would allow it, yes. And thank God I married someone who isn't self obsessed so I doubt I would find any resistence there. I would be ok with my sister in law doing it too. Then again I am not an attention sponge, all I wanted from my wedding was having a nice day with the people close to us, and sharing good news from people close to you helps with that.

[@ashleyt6840]

@@dyr_glpsn4209 well good for you. Some ppl aren’t. Everyone is different. The world is full of many different ppl.

[@thevalorousdong7675]

​@@dyr_glpsn4209 it's "my day" if it's my wedding seeing as "MY invites" were the invites sent out.

[@JustSaiyan9k]

The story about the couple going to live abroad, she's clearly cheating on him and she wanted him to go so she can spend 3 months with whoever she's cheating on him with.. because honestly what else could it be since she's not being upfront about why she doesn't want to go..

[@mr.worldturner]

Last story- break up. Cultural differences is one thing, not liking your in laws is one thing, but the kids thing is a whole other issue all together. Ive seen this same issue break up so many of my friends relationships it is a time bomb. They are saying they dont care right now because they think you will change your mind eventually. And when that doesnt happen they will grow to resent you. And then boom

[@Orion40000]

#4 - She's possibly having an affair. Without condemning her offhand, look for other clues.

[@henrylopez7245]

For the college student girlfriend story the best thing you can do is label yourself as an independent and have your girlfriend as a dependent for financial aid, work study and working on campus can help. I don't have all the answers but when my mom couldn't have me as her dependent anymore because the job I had paid me too much our accountant labeled me as independent and then I was eligible for grants.

[@tanguman2]

Sounds more like they are in a foreign country with different rules and requirements for students

[@sarahhapka3647]

I worked in college admissions and financial aid for 11 years. And that is not how financial aid works. If a student is under 24 and they are not married, in the military, don't have a child of their own, or considered homeless, the government automatically considered you a dependent student and their parents have to provide tax/income info on the FAFSA form in order for them to get federal loans and grants. You can't just say "well, I'm over 18 so I'm independent". I know it's stupid but that's how it works. However, the OP's parents can't just take away the grants as they are not the one giving them the money, the government is.

[@dwong98]

​​@@sarahhapka3647 I think that they are trying to disown the kid as a way to try to make it so they are not legally their kid and thus do not get the grant. Idk what disowning a kid means legally so correct me if I'm wrong

[@sarahhapka3647]

@@dwong98 In my experience, if a parent refused to put their info on the FAFSA forms, then the student would have to talk to the director of financial aid and see if they could talk the parent into putting their info in. If they still refuse, then they would help the student come up with a plan. When the parent puts their info down, the student loans are not in their name, they are in the students name and are the students responsibility to pay back when they are done with school. I don't know what disowning their kid would do, but I would think there is something in place to deal with that situation. Although I am not sure, as I had never encountered that before.

[@smartgirl022090]

Parents can’t make you lose a grant you might get more money without them

[@sweetluvgurl]

If someone is going to leave someone, proposing won’t ultimately change that. I’m saying that because the brother gave that as a reason for proposing. Even if it somehow postpones a split up, it’s most likely only putting off the inevitable.

[@dizzy_dino9052]

Yeah like unless the person is questioning whether or not they want to remain with that person, there is absolutely no way proposing could help. And even in the situation I said, I've only ever seen that work in The Big Bang Theory. And Howard didn't even know Bernadette was thinking of leaving him! He just wanted to propose because he loved her, not just to make her stay.

[@kensosaramos]

That title has a little error that makes the whole situation so much more worrying 😂😂😂😂 Also, repost...

[@danoobgorge7326]

Ye

[@Versilius]

Only the ogs know that this is a repost

[@winterninja7019]

yeah lol

[@sanddagger36]

wait, OP was not living with the parents and was paying $500 while the brother was paying only $300?

[@threecheeseburrito]

The story where the wife wants to stay home made me think that she's definitely hiding something. I don't know what it is, but if this is anything like any of the other reddit stories with similar situations, she's either having an affair, trying to surprise him with something (could be good or bad), or she wants to leave him. Or maybe she just got cold feet about it and doesn't know how to explain it without sounding like an idiot, hence the bs excuses. But I don't think OP will find out unless he hires a PI.

[@MarsJenkar]

While I'm hoping it's just a case of cold feet regarding the trip, I do agree this is worth looking further into.

[@joosyjulie]

I think he should go, but get an investigator to check up on her.

[@drippy1710]

That's a very disrespectful for him to even think to propose at his brother's wedding because he thought it was a "great way" to propose

[@SquishBurger]

Story 3: I haven’t even LISTENED to it yet. And it ALREADY sounds terrible. I mean, literally DISOWNING your son for goin to college with his girlfriend? What kind of fricked up parent would do that?! 😤

[@TheRealCamden]

I know to deal with all of these: Don't have a brother Don't lie Don't get disowned Don't spend a bunch of money on something Don't not like your boyfriend's dad

[@teleiosdawyz4044]

I heard a similar story, the couple delt with it by putting a friend up to being a side piece and causing a scene. Glorious story to tell the grandkids

[@CputtockDthomson]

The wife in story 4 clearly got herself a side piece 🤣

[@DCGamingNetwork]

The fact that the grandmother sides with the brother shows how much she babies him. To propose at someone else's wedding is disrespectful. Plain and simple.

[@forrestwoods2557]

I dont think it is disrespectful if both bride(s) and groom(s) support it, since then it is basically permission to

[@lizziethoj139]

That first story reminded me of a malicious compliance of a different redditor. Basically, Op was having a wedding & Op's sister decided to announce that she was pregnant at the wedding. All the focus went onto the sister & Op was pissed that her special day was ruined by her sister. Fast forward to the sister's baby shower, everyone was catering to the sister & then Op got everyone's attention & made the announcement that she's pregnant. Like the wedding, now all the focus went onto Op instead of Op's sister & the sister was pissed that her day was ruined by Op.

[@goombapizza6335]

Duh, he wanted to propose at the wedding BECAUSE he knew his girlfriend was planning to leave him, and that was the only way to coerce her to say yes. Can't believe no one has brought this up. Normally proposals are done in private or around strangers at some restaurant/park/whatever, so the proposee has freedom to say "no thanks". But if you do it somewhere where there's a bunch of family and friends, and it's a formal meaningful event, you're basically forced to say yes or else you ruin the event for everyone and publicly shame the other person. So OP's brother was just plotting to propose somewhere where his girlfriend would feel socially forced to say yes. This is rapey AF considering he knew his GF didn't even want to be with him. Brother's plan to force his unwilling girlfriend into an engagement, and surely ruin the wedding if she said no, is a WAY bigger problem than the idea that he tried to hijack the wedding to get his moment in the spotlight.

[@forrestwoods2557]

Omg 1000Iq

[@11rahimis1234]

Story 3 Forget the place your parents have. If they cut you off then screw them. They are toxic people and you do not need those kind of people in your life. Help your girlfriend find a place to move in together and then leave the place you are in now. Tell your parents if you are going to be horrible to me and be against me and my girlfriend then I want nothing to do with you. Plus I am sure your can get grant coming to you specifically in your own account that the parents can't do anything about. Tell them to buzz off. I would

[@Devillin]

I have the same general reaction, but coming from the other direction. It sounds like the money for college is coming from his parents, and they have put stipulations on it. If he doesn't want to follow the stipulations, then they don't have to give him the money. If he is so hard up to shack up with his girlfriend, he will need to pay for it himself. If he wants to do things as an adult, then he needs to pay for it as an adult. There is no need for animosity between the two parties.

[@jellycanto8304]

I hope the brothers ex GF was still invited to the wedding, she seemed really nice and it would be a big fu to the brother lol

[@Atomic_Aegis45]

I love how in the first story the brother causes the very thing he is afraid of, his girl leaving him

[@darksaw0]

I find really funny that the guy still live with his parents and wanted to propose. I couldn't take a propose seriously from a guy that cannot take care from himself alone.

[@skylerlightning4620]

He even had job as well.

[@dwong98]

Apparently that is common in Hispanic families where the kids live with the parents usually until marriage

[@jamielarsen3749]

I graduated with my Bachelor's when I was 29. School is hard and so is getting into your career of choice. Good on you OP for going to school and going so far as to get a Master's even if your first degree didn't pan out like you had hoped.

[@arcstar8337]

Brother: you're financially blackmailing our parents!! OP: oh love the ring to that

[@mineiro2377]

So... the girlfriend might leave the brother soon and he thinks the best ideia is to propose at someone else's wedding? WTH

[@mavis4801]

If the girlfriend was ready to leave the entitled brother, she would have definitely left him once he embarrasses her by proposing at someone else's big day instead of him making a special day for the two of them.

[@KasaJiso]

I was like “phew” when I learned the parents didn’t side him through it all

[@Angelderbat]

So, for the third story, I understand where the parents are coming from. The OP is 19 and going to their first year of college. People change A LOT during their first year of college, and if OP and their girlfriend move in with each other and grow apart over that first year, they would be stuck living together and it would be a lot more difficult to find accommodations to move away from each other. There is also the risk of the girlfriend or OP getting into the party scene or otherwise being a big distraction to each other during that first year, and messing up each others’ academics for years. Every parent and expert I talked to going into college told me: Don’t choose a college just to follow your SO or your friends, and don’t move in with your friends or SO the first year of college. Use that first year to spread your wings and figure out who you are before staying your whole future on a high school relationship. I think the parents are just trying to protect OP from making a potentially huge (and very common) mistake.

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

I agree,

[@MarsJenkar]

Perhaps, but threatening to _disown_ OP? That's an extreme measure. And if this was what they were trying to do for the OP, then why didn't they _say_ it?

[@Suisuihoz]

Yeahhh sure but who the fuck is an expert on highschool relationships

[@dylanwickund9109]

Good im glad his parents are on his side like he can make a day just for him to propose how stupid is he

[@Oliviakhouk]

For the proposal one- if he is worried she might leave him, proposing at his brothers wedding AGAINST their wishes is NOT going to help

[@mr.yogurto9920]

Small Story: We moved into our new house not that long ago (about 1 1/2 years). So far, nothing too intresting has happened. However, one day we found out one of our neighbors was not the nicest. Our dog had somehow escaped that morning and our neighbor had happened to witness (Don't worry, our dog came back). Later that afternoon, while I was refueling our mower when I heard her yell, "hey! you!" I turned around and saw her standing at the edge of her fence. I replied with a simple "yes ma'am?" I always try to be kind and polite. She said, "Your Dog was out this morning!" We're all supposed to keep our dogs on their leash. I Look back at my fence and realize It was open due to our chickens. I said, "I'm sorry, It must have been a mistake!" Apparently, she didn't hear me and went on. "You're supposed to have it on a leash!" Again, I told her, "I'm sorry, It must have been a mistake! It won't happen again!" She STILL didn't hear me and said, " You know I could call pest patrol!" At this point, I was shocked. I told her two times it was an accident and she DIDN'T CARE! Again, I told her, "I'm sorry, It must have been a mistake! It won't happen again!" As I was doing so, I had spilled gas on my hands and had to go inside. Ever since then, there hasn't been any further interaction, though I have made sure to always have the dog on the leash.

[@asgardian6638]

Thats insane that the whole family was siding with the brother trying to propose at his own brothers wedding. What is wrong with these people? that is not your day to take the spotlight. Also the brother said his GF would leave if he didnt propose...if thats the case hes in the wrong relationship anyway. Dont get married out of fear of losing someone.

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

There's no "your day" or "spotlight". It's a party with family and friends to celebrate a couple's commitment.

[@asgardian6638]

@@dyr_glpsn4209 Its the husband and wifes day

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

@@asgardian6638 imagine being that self absorbed that a close family member sharing good news upsets you "because it is my day". That's what you would expect at the 10th Birthday of a spoiled girl, not from two grown up adults supposedly mature enough to commit for life.

[@asgardian6638]

@@dyr_glpsn4209 Its not self absorbed. You have no clue what you're on about. It is literally their day...that they are sharing with others in their happiness. Its not a selfish thing, but it is 1 day that is about them (then they can go to others weddings and that is their day). Its just 1 day lol

[@dyr_glpsn4209]

@@asgardian6638 happily married here, and I do know one thing: marry someone who thinks that, and instead of having a nice, fun and relaxed day like I did you will have months of stressing over insignificant bullshit and drama if someone dares doing something off script like I saw at a friend's wedding. Your call.

[@thatpolskadude]

I am watching this as I'm gonna go to a wedding

[@cypher1o1]

I think the 3rd story the parents are worried by living with his girlfriend he'd get distracted and loose his scholarship (which might mean he has no other means to pay for college and have to drop out) if that's the case I can see them not wanting him to jeopardize his future for a high school relationship that might not last.

[@sushimcd5751]

7:54 the unicorn Finally got the treasure chest.

[@miraculoustextingstories9300]

The only time its okay to propose at a wedding is if its completely okay with the bride and groom, otherwise dont even try. If they cleary dont want you to propose at their wedding then just drop it and find another time to ask

[@allysonchen4286]

Second story: Keep trying to keep that lie and someone else will find out and tell. You need to be in control of the narrative

[@med_kill.s]

Congratulations on 1 million subscribers

[@OddOtter707]

Tbh. I'd have had the GF of the Brother go with the charade of the Brother proposing, once I learned that she WAS looking to break up with him. 😂 That'd be icing on the cake to have at your wedding, for someone who WANTED to propose at tour wedding. 😂

[@scorchx3000]

If that was my brother turning up like that to scream at me in my own home, he'd be leaving with police or in an ambulance.

[@bobbiec2829]

Glad the entitled brother got what was coming to him...dude needs to grow up. And I'm sure this is part of the reason why his GF had been ready to leave him for a while. I know I would want to be with a man child that can't take care of himself 🙄

[@joybernard7359]

He just wanted to propose at the wedding so she’d be too embarrassed to say no.

[@Bennys_team]

I hope their wedding was good :)

[@Decaying_bacon]

When she randomly said she didnt want to go i immediately thought "yeah shes cheating"

[@mordraxterboy1521]

When girl lies to boyfriend about a important thing (story 2) The narrator: [ACTIVATES SIMP MODE 🤜🥵👌] Is not late to tell him the truth, you will feel good after telling the truth, you should do it. When it happens the same situation but the genders are reversed The narrator: You are a jerk, you should've not lie in the first place, you don't deserve you dirty liar 🤬

[@gotenblack2542]

lol true is seems he really sides with girls more even if their in the wrong in the story

[@schizophrenicmelancholy2706]

I’ve been seeing his videos and it seems to be an on and off for both genders, honestly. One of the more recent videos, a girl, he laid thick when even I said “just tell the truth”. That or I’m mixing different people by accident. Two of them sound very similar.

[@bradpawelkiewicz7450]

So wait the OP in the 1st story actually paid more rent than the brother and he didn't even live there?? Wow.

[@cypher1o1]

For the 4th story it would definitely a "we go together or we get a divorce" unless she can give a good reason.

[@coolcup3758]

Story 3 advice: Tell the school, as the school has programs in place for things like this.

[@Valast]

I would request a massive ammount of money for him to propose there. Like, maybe 50% of all costs at the wedding?

[@jackpayne451]

For that first story it’s just like there’s audacity and then there’s whatever brother was on

[@jeremiah4446]

The second story he’s not a jerk. The brother is for trying to take his day is special day.

[@sharkieio]

It's always the older siblings that are so annoying and they are the golden child

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

Serves OP's parents and brother right

[@Andrey-rc6wp]

If someone can’t “understand” a simple concept of “this is our day, little bro can propose on the other 364 days available to him this year” then they don’t deserve to be at a wedding. “No” is a complete answer. It does not need to be justified or discussed further.

[@BattlefieldNPC]

7:09 I'll be drunk in the corner "proposing" I don't fall over, bro coulda done that lol

[@gamergoat-fl7tq]

Damn op in the first story was just like “your girl boutta leave u damn well that’s a u problem”

[@jrp7808]

Who the heck thinks it's a good idea to propose at a wedding!?!?!?

[@tom6230]

The one with the controlling parents is gross. The one with the brother is disgusting

[@maxorsum]

3:18 What I love from my grandparents is that they always try to find the best answer! Not Instant punishment! They try to help me and my sister to get along! I love my grandparents :)

[@208getalife]

>saying $300 for the room like it's unreasonable Honestly that's what the market for a room SHOULD be, but yeah he should have been on the hook to help with food and ut.

[@NJM1564]

Easy fix for this. Threaten that if he does propose at your wedding that you will announce at his that your wife is pregnant. Even if it isn't true.

[@Batman-lg2zj]

Dude in the last story having different goals isn’t that bad.

[@chillboi1476]

Boycott? Nah, you weren’t even invited.

[@tomeu9872]

In my culture, it's called "double happiness arrives at door". Something everyone would be crazy happy! Don't believe me? Ask your Chinese friends. Means the newly-weds and the unborn baby raises each other's luck by a lot!

[@RobertWilson-no7iu]

What game is the background? Cant help but urging the little fellas on to the treasure chest

[@logangrandstaff7129]

For the last story I don’t think she was asking for him to never see his family or only love her, I think you definitely misinterpreted what she said. I think she just wants to be able to spend more time with him and to not be treated so poorly by his family.

[@Hk135M]

Exactly, when she did the surgery he should have spent more time with her to help since her movements were restricted while his sister stayed with their father, it seemed like he didn't care enough. The channel did the gf wrong.

[@LUVALAB]

At least his brother told him he was going to propose. My brother did proposed to his girlfriend and only my mother knew about it. He kind of ruined it for us because the DJ was supposed to play a special song for our dance and he play my brother's so he can propose. I stopped his speech midway and he end up crying in the back room. We did not speak for years but I end up calling him and apologize. I tried to be the bigger person, even though I still thing he was wrong. He never has say sorry. He's my only brother and this happened 21 years ago.

[@user-mw8oo1sl6t]

Sorry that happened to you sometimes being the bigger person sucks but it's good that you put a stop to it if he would have gotten away with that who knows what else he would have done down the line

[@rayaee]

Good you stopped it. If I may ask, did the girl he proposed to even stay with him?

[@LUVALAB]

@@rayaee yes, they got married and have 2 kids. Good thing right 😄

[@rayaee]

@@LUVALAB You were well within right to be angry. That's tacky af! As a woman I'd be mad if my partner pulled some ish like that. It's like taking away from my/our special moment & that of the actual newlyweds.

[@dinaashford-more1172]

Don’t invite his grandmother, his brother to OP’s wedding.

[@chewonlee-oz3le]

Imagine being 30 and living in your parents house.

[@CreatingArt3185]

Story 4 she’s definitely cheating and doesn’t want to leave her but on the side

[@BEELZEBABE69]

Saw a video where someone set up a specific girl to catch the bouquet, and when she did her bf came up to her n proposed It was adorable. I'd love to do that ;;

[@Just_a_commenter]

How on Earth could someone be so entitled to think they're justified in proposing at someone else's wedding? Yeesh.

[@imnothere394]

Pov i only see the first part: My brother wants to propose to My.... ( i thought he wants to propose to the OP's Girlfriend

[@meepdoesedits5631]

Story #1: if I ever even have a wedding, and my sister’s partner wanted to propose, I would check with my partner and if they say it’s ok, then I’m ok with it, me and my sister have a really good relationship and we’re both willing to trade our lives for the other, but, basically everyone knows that my sister is most likely the only one getting married and having kids while I’ll be the cool, successful aunt who also helps her sister, if we had a different relationship, then it would probably go differently

[@semiolddude2745]

Thats actually not too smart

[@JoltaeAndwae]

Same. I personally wouldn't get caught up with it because I'm bleeergh about weddings in general but I definitely wouldn't expect the same from someone elae

[@a-wing]

Story 1: some times it is fine but you have to be aloud to

[@thewrathfullloner]

I have seen a video where during the bouquet tos part of the wedding the bride turns around and walks towards one of her friends and then that friends partner comes out with a ring .that was so sweet .in my mind this is the only way that it is okay ,planned together with the bride and groom making it extra special

[@armincagoodwin367]

A NO IS A NO!!! A proposal is supposed to be a one-on-one occasion. Older brother, grow the hell up!!! Grandmother is backing the wrong horse.

[@Your_munjigae]

Isn't the older one to be the one who isn't spoiled, it's so stupid how a 30 year old acts like a 3 year old.

[@michellecoleman5577]

Let alone the fat that you should never be taking away from someone else's special day with trying to upstage them or some crap... if I was the one being proposed to at someone else's wedding I'd feel disgusting and insulted and immediately dump that person forever.

[@LivxLaughxLove]

It feels like she's got somebody else and she doesn't wanna leave them alone for 3 months...

[@dylanwickund9109]

How does je not have the oppertunity to propose? Dude is actually pissing me off like all because he thinks his gf will break up with him soon maybe you should break up then

[@Danielson1818]

Story 2: Who cares to interview people about their education before going on a date? It's not a job interview, and shouldn't be so scrutinized at the beginning.

[@forrestwoods2557]

To be fair, some people just love asking questions about others since they are genuinely curious, some people just have that trait :/

[@IIGrayfoxII]

Why was the brother so instant on proposing at a wedding? He could've made the effort to propose at the beach during sunset.

[@Foxyerik13]

I was mad how they could not get past 8x

[@dizzy_dino9052]

If you want a future with your s/o, either make sure y'all want the same things or come to a fair and equal compromise that will ensure less issues in your future together. If you don't want the same things, and can't find a way to compromise, I'm sorry but if you have any future together it's gonna be rockier than a freaking mountain

[@darknessking2859]

I have seen videos where someone proposed at someone else wedding. The bride and groom let them. They even worked together with the person who proposed. During the throwing the bouquet the bride turned around and gave it to the woman would be proposed to.

[@ViolencelsTheAnswer]

For story 3 you sue your parents!

[@user-nw2hf1pc5i]

Story 4: the OP is very controlling of his girlfriend who lives her OWN life and can make her OWN decisions without telling him or sharing HER reasons and its HER choice if YOU are told. It should not be expected.

[@ViolentKetchup]

I'm not gonna lie I was dancing when his gf broke up with him 6:28

[@lin-huaou7230]

I seen something that happened like this but the people who were gonna get married let her friend have permission to get married at her wedding

[@necromancerx]

Bloody Hell!! I’ve watched shorter tennis matches.....I lost count after 3 - Love 😂🤣

[@bearsong8486]

Okay, for the college story with a kid that’s 19 and wants to move in with the girlfriend. The kid can do whatever he likes but only if he pays his own bills. Yes he is an adult so he should,pay for his own self is he wants to make his own decision. That works both ways my friend. If you want my money, there an conditions. Act like an adult when you pay your own way I say.

[@kazan9918]

So true. The parents don't have that choice to decide who the son loves.

[@joshbras9400]

In nothing else, proposing at someone's wedding is tacky at best and downright disrespectful at worst. Another thing that rubs me the wrong way is that the brother wants to use said proposal as a means to save his relationship. I never got why people in a failing relationship think that marriage will fix all the issues. I've personally seen people prepose out of desperation and it rarely ends well and to be frank it's pathetic.