you don't just date the girl in Thailand or the Philippines, you date her whole family too (and pay for them as well if you are gullible enough). this is not exclusive for Thailand, but please don't leave your drink alone, not even for a second and don't ask a stranger to look after it. I'm from the Faroe Islands, a very small and quiet country and being drugged while out drinking happens here too. they drug you and they take everything from you, it is really really nasty. if you go to the bathroom, take your beer with you, unless your friend takes care of it at the table.
@smoothmicra5 ай бұрын
Nothing says true romance like a financial transaction to get a bar girl away from the bar.🙄
@fazbell5 ай бұрын
No bargirls for me. Unfortunately, the bank clerk or the cashier at Seven-Eleven can be just as duplicitous. I have dated a number of women who had no connection to bars and I did not see any difference in their demeanor and the bargirls. They need money and they will do anything and tell any lie to get it.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Not according to that schmuck that left a comment up above...
@davidb22065 ай бұрын
Same with my virgin student wife from a major Bangkok university. She had never even been inside a bar. Just as damned dark evil soul and tried to steal all of my bank account one Sunday, taking my ATM card out of my wallet while I was asleep. After I had paid the marriage dowry and respected all of their traditions and culture back at her parents' home in the village, making them suddenly rich. The ruse wore off fast with her. No sincerity or honesty.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 Maybe you should consider visiting another country... and frequenting another channel on yt...
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 No reason to get upset. It's just my opinion that anyone who is not happy to be in some place might try leaving. If you're happy, go for it!
@L-Nino5 ай бұрын
To the guy in the first story, it wasn’t her brother who burglarized your apartment. It was her husband/boyfriend. None of his girls have brothers just keep that in mind. And the scam started when she asked you to pay 30,000 baht to get her out of the bar. That was just a test to see how gullible you are. There’s no contract these girls sign to work in a bar! They either show up for work or they don’t.
@allangreenley99015 ай бұрын
Good point u made. Yes I agree with you. No mamasan bar fine 30000 Bhatt they can leave I suppose anytime just a way of getting money for as u say thai boyfriend , who probably took all the items in the apartment, while they were away. Definitely was set up proper by the bar girl
@L-Nino5 ай бұрын
@@allangreenley9901 I’ve even seen a guy who married a bar girl and when the guy and bar girl came back to Thailand for a visit, years later they went by the old bar, and the mama-san demanded some sort of compensation! And his "wife” didn’t say a word because she was it on the scam! Just wait till he meets her "boyfriend-brother” up in Esan that guy is going to want money every day of their visit!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lendlalfred78704 ай бұрын
Do you remember as a child, your parents would take you to an amusement park? You have so much fun with the different rides and activities. You eventually go home. You can't take the rides with you, only the memories. It's the same thing when it comes to Pattaya. Now you are in an adult playground. Enjoy the rides and the memories, you can't bring the rides back to your own country. In other words, put an end to your experience with the girls in Pattaya.
@ThailandBound4 ай бұрын
I couldn't have put it better myself
@centurione64895 ай бұрын
A fool and his money are easily parted. 🤣
@Steven-hk2wb3 ай бұрын
First mistake: falling for the mamasan scam. These girls can quit anytime they want. Second: Not checking the security cameras. Lobbies usually have them. Third: Not using your phone to record her phone conversations in Thai while standing next to her.
@Realist133 ай бұрын
The only attraction is the money 💰 not the man. Purely a set up
@billclarke37545 ай бұрын
Paying 30k to the Mamasan to leave the bar is a scam- that was the poor guys first red flag
@ramzysulaiman14285 ай бұрын
It's stupidity find a woman who has nothing only her body
@guzzijack9714Ай бұрын
An ATM walks into a bar...............gee, they took all his money.
@jonhobson35925 ай бұрын
Story one .. I have known my gf 2 yrs , one year in person , rarely asked for money , she contributes to buying food , veg , fruit etc , recently though she has assumed I would pay her dental bill , cover wages while on holiday, I reiterated again I’m not a money machine , and she has now turned a bit cool 😅.. money is the only thing at the end of the day they think of ..not just bar girls who can be like this either ..
@tinacollins92135 ай бұрын
Once your money has gone so will you it’s not love
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1l go with woman because l spend less money they are good looking l know woman don't love me in pattaya but it feels real
@Bxconnect5 ай бұрын
@@paulmcfarlane3250even the women you meet in Pattaya outside of bars that claim they're not freelancers have six sponsors in their phone.
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
l hope lam wrong but your thail girl friend could be playing the long game with you
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
@@tinacollins9213 we have a saying in Scotland when there's no money love go's out the window
@mh87574 ай бұрын
Every Western guy that's new to SEA needs to read the book "Private Dancer".
@Jay...7775 ай бұрын
Never, ever, ever, try to find a bargirl with a heart. It's all about the money.
@wezza605 ай бұрын
In the over 11 years I have been married to my wife she has never asked me for money and either has her family, there a good ones out there.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
I guess the canonical question that arises is whether you asked her for money...
@mikebrant98365 ай бұрын
He who goes to bed with dogs is likely to wake up with fleas
@janeynget30595 ай бұрын
Very good analogy
@bj-hc9cq2 ай бұрын
she stayed with the guy for weeks, took just 40000 baht, a good deal for him
@andrewwhiting11455 ай бұрын
Wow, that first story was a real eye opener. "Oh my Buddha."
@Crooked_Clown5 ай бұрын
If the guy is looking for a serious relationship, then a bar is not the place to go. Also, find a woman near your age. Not a young one.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Yah... I'm also into ballbusters...
@thaotruong68535 ай бұрын
❤❤❤😂😂😂
@qwenqwen14765 ай бұрын
Finally, an intellectual! Stop blaming gold diggers! Do you think Hugh Hefner’s many girlfriends slept with him because they like dirty old fart touching them? So please remember…you are NOT Hugh Hefner!!!
@user-uv3we5kb4v5 ай бұрын
BAR GIRL?What do you expect?An ANGEL????????
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
They're all angels in Thailand 😂
@davetherave17295 ай бұрын
He made the mistake of buying and buying for her. Furniture, tv, etc? Some of these bar girls are incredibly evil and ruthless. She milked the guy. But he will learn from this.
@voertsek84045 ай бұрын
This is what happens when small head rules big head .
@Bringmeoneofthosechickens5 ай бұрын
great stories! Thanks Peter
@maxhung695 ай бұрын
story 1 - red flags: (1) she's not the prettiest so her earnings potential is relatively limited (a big score is needed); (2) asks for a high monthly allowance (20k thb) beyond her average monthly income - this indicates money is the motivating factor, not feelings; (3) 30k thb to leave the bar (is this common practice?) - probably she's getting a big cut of the 30k, if not all of it; (4) new furniture n appliances (for a rental apt?); (5) extended trip. btw, doesn't his condo have security n CCTV? he didn't ask his neighbors? collect evidence not solely for the money but justice. if he can afford, hire a private investigator
@damon34876 ай бұрын
Great stories as always and always well read out.thank you guys for sending and sharing them to us all .👍🏼
@ThailandBound6 ай бұрын
Cheers Mr D 🙏
@user-oi9to7ux7k5 ай бұрын
To the guy in the first story he could have been sending the money home to HIS family and kids in Australia. Instead his peace and quiet was ruined by bringing a random stranger, a woman from a bar, into his living space. And he's paying for it! Overlooking how he magically obtained a Thai permanent residency visa. If the guy was so desperate for companionship he should have got a cat or dog and saved himself huge aggravation and cost. The streets are full of stray cats and dogs. How desperate would you have to be?! Guys are great at complicating their lives and trying to justify why they did it. He bought himself a so-called girlfriend from Issan and then writes "I didn't see any red flags". There's one born every minute.
@sheanlee20895 ай бұрын
ya can take the girl out of the bar but ya cant take the bar out of the girl 💯
@intunewithcars94845 ай бұрын
guys be careful, this is not just thai girls, i got scammed by a romanian girl i met in uk, had me believe she was single mum etc, she was quite atrractive and very convincing, had me for about 2k over a few months
@RealSerie265 ай бұрын
Why on earth would you be with a single mom? Are you that desperate? Being a stepfather is a thankless job.
@intunewithcars94845 ай бұрын
@RealSerie26 so single mums should not date?? Not desperate at all I liked her, you are a funny guy
@intunewithcars94845 ай бұрын
@President_Joe_Biden a single mother ?? Who should single mothers date then, this is a ridiculous conversion honestly, who should I date date? Only women with no kids?? Why they not have kids yet? That rings alarm bells on its own!!!
@MarcelGesang-id2hi5 ай бұрын
That's standard. Every FARANG MUST KNOW. I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE TRUST. DO NOT TRUST, PAY, GO...FINISHED.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
You don't pay them for aerobics... you pay them to leave...
@deeinissan99666 ай бұрын
Hi Peter, I also got spiked in a bar back in 2003 and was room bound for 3 days, I was not a pretty sight 😢
@Gerdevriesse4 ай бұрын
They all want your money so watch out!
@TriggerTravels5 ай бұрын
If you have to pay her... She ain't your girlfriend 😂
@eric03804 ай бұрын
Uhm you have to pay one way or another
@garyreimer67915 ай бұрын
Great stories, A#1 was a real eye opener. Those bar girls are dangerous
@stevenjustice82585 ай бұрын
10:07 he doesnt want to pay bar fine and doesnt like her going off with other customers....the moment he needed to end it.
@lislee26455 ай бұрын
Proverbs 6:24-26 "Your heart wont be enticed by her flatteries or lust over her beauty -- nor will her suggestive ways conquer you. Prostitutes reduce a man to poverty, and the adulturess steals your soul -- she may even cost you your life".
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Sounds like somebody's goin' to heaven... and it ain't yours truly...
@Oldfogey20146 ай бұрын
Great stories again Peter….losing TH$40,000 is a small amount. I know someone who lost £40,000 …..but he won’t be too chuffed if people find out.
@googleuser26095 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 Your poignant words and overall assessment of the entire picture (bar girl / farang), are valuable.
@Chris-dw6cu5 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1can you tell me more about the term "buffallo" as applied to foreigners in Thailand? I've heard it's a derogatory term thais may use but don't fully understand it
@Serg_R5 ай бұрын
Great stories Peter, & the background video of the city walk 👌
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
I always take motion sickness pills before tuning in...
@CORLEONESPORTS9728 күн бұрын
i have no sympathy these people, so desperate for love... i was philippines 2 years military i never ever ever gave access or allowed any woman to move in with me etc..... so desperate to be loved my god sad
@ThailandBound28 күн бұрын
"These people"?
@power4things4 ай бұрын
I love how when he thinks he's been robbed, he covers every scenario EXCEPT the girlfriend being involved. Then, he blames the police for not knowing anything ...
@jqight7404 ай бұрын
Story one. This is being robbed and hustled without violence. Unlike Colombian working girls in Medellin.
@kevincunningham95895 ай бұрын
Hard to believe guys are still so naive when it comes to bar girls. What does it take to get through to people for goodness sake.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
It's understandable that you feel frustrated seeing others repeat patterns of behavior that lead to disappointment or exploitation. Sometimes, people need to experience things firsthand to truly understand the complexities of certain situations. It might take patience and gentle guidance to help them see things from a different perspective. Sharing your own experiences and offering support without judgment can sometimes make a difference.
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
bewere the thail smile
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 even woman in soi 6 have told me one girl one night only
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 money means nothing to me but l won't pay more than l have to ex pats and other tourists are just as bad as bar girls or worst
@paulmcfarlane32505 ай бұрын
@@Rodderz1 l know what my lady do l don't care and she knows l don't care l know and understand pattaya very well
@Dutch-Buddha6 ай бұрын
Thanks For Creating And Sharing i lovet the movieng backgroudt at movie 1 story 1
@AhnayDiary5 ай бұрын
It would be the same kind of stories, these guys never learn.
@Caroline-up8nl5 ай бұрын
These guys get to Thailand and start using there other head. Come on men … do better !!!
@BillyTheKid-l5j4 ай бұрын
AKA thinking with their C**k's 🤣🤣
@johnnyel5 ай бұрын
20K to 30K baht for a new fridge, sofa, appliances, and bed? That's about $850 USD, which does not even buy a decent fridge. I'm guessing he's understating the fleecing, but he still got away from her, so cheaper in the long run.
@StefanKecskes-to2zk5 ай бұрын
Sir , I listen to this video, and let me tell you. I ben in Thailand. In Bangkok. For 2 month I stay. Was my best 2 month in my life . Thailand is beautiful. People is amazing. I ben in pattaya only one day . I don't like . More expensive and a lots of prostitute. Of course everywhere in the world if you dill with prostitute that's what you get . But a normal thai people it's amazing people, of hospitality welcoming 🙏 respect and everything. Luckily I don't drink or smoke or do any drugs . So I was not go never any bar or prostitute place . I have friendship with normal women, who don't want my money. So I have very good experience in Thailand 2022 . And I can't wait to go back , for the sunshine, the amazing food , the Thai massage , and for everything else !
@c2cstopsforeclosures5 ай бұрын
When I was stationed at Clark AB, Phillipines, back in the '90s, i befreinded an expat bar owner. He married a local Filipino girl years ago, bought a huge house, bar and restaurant. It was all in her name because foreigners cant own property. One day he was arrested and thrown in jail for spousal abuse (made up charge). He spent several months jail and when released, she sold everything and cleaned out their bank accounts and disappeared. He found out later, it was planned, fake charges left to jail giving her time to liquidate everything and never to be seen again. This wiped him out, over a million dollars. Just like the first story, but on a higher level. Its all about the money. Never trust asian women....
@qwenqwen14765 ай бұрын
He should thank the stars he didn’t get killed for his wealth! Stop reaching above your level! Find a girl way below your standards for love and appreciations! Ask yourself in your own country, would a girl this young and pretty give you the time of day?
@anokhamalaysia511728 күн бұрын
I am a handsome man fr Malaysia. Thailand is our neighbour and the country we frequent for entertainment. I hv never fallen in love with Thai girls.
@nathanthebeeman4895 ай бұрын
My guy put himself in the Punk Position and got treated like a punk. 🤷♂️ it never ceases to amaze me how dumb people can be
@johncandido22415 ай бұрын
Hey Peter! Love your Utube Channel. Look forward to it every Saturday.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
🙏😍
@jimbojet872819 күн бұрын
The oldest story in the book in Thailand, U.K., or anywhere? It’s always the same with women, ‘when money stops coming in the door, love goes out the window ‘. You ain’t got it, they’ll find someone who has.
@ilionatroya71296 күн бұрын
NEVER play house! In any country. The only reason to live with a woman is if you have kids with her. Keep your space and you will keep your dignity!
@chess4thestupid98213 сағат бұрын
I live in Thailand... first in Phuket and now Hua Hin. My girlfriend of 2 years was a bar girl in Bangkok. I broke the 3 day rule and we've been together ever since. Easiest and smoothest relationship I've ever had. Perhaps I'll submit my story one day. They do exist but they are for sure like unicorns. I believe the only chance is to meet them in the first month or 2 of being a bar girl... and they have to actually be a fundamentally good person on the inside as well. She treats me like gold and is much more appreciative than a western girl.
@MrMegan19625 ай бұрын
Been going to Pattaya for 24 years now . Was there in 2023 and carnt help thinking it’s played out and well to expensive now. Gona go back to the Caribbean this year or the Gambia.
@gezeers5 ай бұрын
The first story was an eye opener, 30,000 bahts to pay off the mama San, and then a few weeks later, she wanted new furniture and white goods red flag straight away. I would have said let me take a screenshot of her ID, and if she was not having any of that, then you got to think outside the box why would she not let you have her ID card photo. I would say you got taken for at least around 70 to 80 thousand bahts, and yes, you have learned a lesson, and now you are on your guard. I always say there are plenty more fish in the sea if she's playing move to the next one.😊😊
@simonlee66885 ай бұрын
"Genuinely enjoy my company"
@solarguy17024 ай бұрын
Sean here in the Philippines woke up in Thailand and his wife long gone. Left the young daughter with him. They live in the Philippines now and the little girl has to renew her tourist visa every two months.
@nigel47765 ай бұрын
A fool and his money are soon parted
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Is that from Proverbs?...
@waynevosper34075 ай бұрын
Very interesting stories. Thank you.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@richardbroad28485 ай бұрын
In the words of Michael Bolton - "If she is playing him for a fool, hes the last one to know - loving eyes can never see".
@VENEMPASTOR5 ай бұрын
Treat them with a smile like they treat you and show respect. But, close your wallet and your heart for self preservation. A foreigner is an outsider and an outsider is a prey = opportunity= lick = target = problem solver = solution = talking walking ATM! Anybody who tells you differently is biased.
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
You're too smart to be on this channel, dude...
@jiyushugi10855 ай бұрын
Love is the dirty trick nature plays on men to ensure continuation of the species.
@santiniketa788317 күн бұрын
Any foreign person may pretend to be a true lover and dupe the vulnerable. Nothing new.
@user-dj6hu9gq4t5 ай бұрын
And they follow Buddhism. This manipulation of another’s emotions is probably one of the major no-no’s in the quest for enlightenment or even a better reincarnation. Buddha weeps.
@Chris-dw6cu5 ай бұрын
The thing is they don't actually follow it, it's just part of the culture, like Christianity in the west. Few people in the west actually practice Christian virtues. No different with Buddhism in the East
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
yah... but he smiles when the mongers get what they want...
@pisabkk91395 ай бұрын
Of course, you enjoyed your first visit to Pattaya and you wanted to go back to living there 😅❤️ but I wonder how a 49-year-old man, can act like a child, so naive.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
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@LiveLife.8885 ай бұрын
Not just Bar girls that this can happened from, its also ordinary workings girls too...when it gets tough, knew a fellow from UK befriended a Nurse working ia hospital...things happened exactly the same.
@lynette89184 ай бұрын
It’s better to just pay for the passy as you go
@F.C.775 ай бұрын
If you want to date a bargirl stay with a orphan with no relatives. It would be cheaper.
@michaelbevan10813 ай бұрын
For me a pretty girl isn’t worth it . Keep up the good work
@accadacastkr4912Ай бұрын
recently , lost 8 yrs and property in the philippines gf of 8 yrs she just flipped on me dont invest in them at all
@stevend87855 ай бұрын
This guy is so lucky all it cost him was furniture. She could have played the long game on him and got much more.
@theflyingdutchman_015 ай бұрын
ok - 1st story - I feel sorry for what happened to you, BUT: you’re not 16 years old, you should have understood it’s a give and take - she gives her body and her youth, you give your money and your money - win-win for all… I mean, would YOU go for a 50+ thai woman without ANY attractive body features, looking her age or even worse? just be honest and realistic about this whole experience, hope you at least enjoyed the ride while it lasted.. there is no such thing as a free lunch, as they say in the land down under…
@stanvincent71065 ай бұрын
My brother was very aware of thai culture havibg lived in bkk for several years yet twice he was drugged and had his possessions stolen. No matter how clued up you may be dont stay out on your own.
@ianblokes49265 ай бұрын
Great video yet again! We weren't able to join you live as had far too many Tiger beers after we bumped in to last night! Many thanks for coming over to speak to us! Glad we could get you a beer after all you've done on the channel! Keep up the good work and hope our paths can cross again! Regards Ian and Roz from Bournemouth.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
The pleasure was all mine. Thanks for the beer again. It was great meeting you guys and I wish you a safe trip back to Blighty.
@brianstreet73776 ай бұрын
Can we ever trust any girl/lady over there again 😢
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Sure... just listen to Mr. Happy and you're good to go...
@tonystark82015 ай бұрын
What a story... scammed by the whole fam. I think you even should be careful with ladies which have regular jobs, you will pay or support her financially one way or the other soon or later
@jqight7404 ай бұрын
Story one. The long game nice and clean style. Colombian 🇨🇴 working girls should take some notes. That method doesn’t have to use any violence or the scope.
@Chalky295 ай бұрын
If only she knew all she had to do was write a ransom note for another payday 🤦♂️
@Bruski68.5 ай бұрын
Nope, you gave her the opportunity, and she took that opportunity, and ran with it, she could not have done anything, if you had not given her that opportunity, I am not condoning what she did, merely pointing out your mistake, as well as your complicity in the situation, it could not have happened, if you, had been more careful.
@georgemanson41965 ай бұрын
First story - Similar to a guy that dated his housekeeper in the Philippines...
@user-sw4ip7oq9c5 ай бұрын
It was obvious the guy in first story was gonna go down , just seemed so clueless about bar girls and life in general
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
He did say in his story that he was naive back then
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
Ever heard of Charles Darwin?...
@user-sw4ip7oq9c5 ай бұрын
no excuses , weak dude
@moonjumper6627 күн бұрын
That's the way it goes...you knew it.!!
@mikedezo4245 ай бұрын
How is he only down 40k? The bar fine to the manasan alone was 30k. Then another 20 or so in furniture. Whatever else he bought her etc etc.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
That wasn't that much detail about financial transactions in the story
@RealSerie265 ай бұрын
You gotta love the first guy. "I'm tired of paying for s3x. Let me pay to just one woman." Huh? He's also naive. Many bar girls make over 100,000/month between salary, tips, drinks and sponsors. Yet he thought she was going to abandon all that in exchange for 12,500/month. Dude, come on now.
@Tugela605 ай бұрын
That is because he lives in Kansas and made the story up.
@garyzies34865 ай бұрын
100,000 baht/month is a conservative estimate if she's working in Bangkok.
@Tugela605 ай бұрын
@garyzies3486 Assuming she gets a client every night, which is somewhat doubtful considering how many bar girls there are. Some might get that, most will not.
@garyzies34865 ай бұрын
@@Tugela60 Think about the Freelancer activity....5000 baht a pop in BKK.
@garyzies34865 ай бұрын
@@Tugela60 many of the bargirls and freelancers also have several "sponsors"
@ricardovelazquez7412 күн бұрын
Wow, I didn't expect her to be that smart. took him out for a few days and make her contacts to clean the place out. unbelievable.
@arthurdevrome89253 ай бұрын
Well, well, well, looks like we've stumbled upon the classic case of "A Fool and His Money Will Soon Be Parted," with a spicy Thai twist! It's like watching a real-life drama unfold, where the stage is set in the bustling streets of Thailand, and the leading roles are played by unsuspecting Western gentlemen and the charming femme fatales who have a knack for separating them from their hard-earned cash. Ah, the allure of love and the allure of lucre, often a dangerous dance indeed! But hey, at least it's providing some entertainment value on KZbin, right? Just remember, folks, always keep your wits about you, because in the game of love and money, the stakes can be higher than you think.
@glennpearce70935 ай бұрын
I knew what was coming before he told me man you need to wake up
@raymondwebb20294 ай бұрын
I had a mate of mine who went on a golf weekend when he came back same same everything gone he asked his mate next door he said the truck came and was loading up he thought it was strange but just thought you were moving although he had not said anything never got it back
@justinehayward25535 ай бұрын
Why make women central to your life, especially dusky maidens in townships of sin? Why not enjoy the rest of the country, food and culture, and focus on your work? Australia time is the same or leads only by a few hours, no? I really do not see the draw of it.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
That's probably why you're not here and I am
@jsgdk5 ай бұрын
Women are my favorite thing and has been since I hit puberty, its not really that complicated.
@justinehayward25535 ай бұрын
@ThailandBound I'm not averse to meeting nice women, just not dodgy old tarts in places like Pattaya.
@justinehayward25535 ай бұрын
@jsgdk of course it's not complicated. I'm saying that there are other things to focus on, especially in context to this story. For example, the many nice/normal women one can meet in foreign countries when living there and not 'bar girls' for lifelong companionship.
@jsgdk5 ай бұрын
@@justinehayward2553 I agree obviously, but I am careful not to look down on bar girls, many of them are amazing women, and many of the nice/normal women are less than amazing. I am a bit of an outlier personality wise I think, I spent alot of time and energy as a young man obsessed with the mechanics of seducing women, the mystery is long gone, no regrets though.
@teresap1172Ай бұрын
If you have to pay someone to be with you at all. You will be in trouble. This man just wasn't thinking with his brain.
@cj900145 ай бұрын
Peter, you sound great. Happy you are healthy.
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
Thanks I appreciate that
@michaelmullins33965 ай бұрын
You can take the bargirl out of the Bar ,but you can never take the Bar out of the bargirl.
@Pfit1115 ай бұрын
I know that these stories make it seem like all of the girls from the bars are bad. I know that is the case with some of them, but I have Thai friends that have worked in bars and met Westerners and married them and everything has been happy. I also first met my girlfriend in 2018 when she was working in a bar. She was older, but honest and never tried to scam me in any way. It's been 6 years now and all is still good. Please remember that although there are horror stories that are very true, there are also very happy stories where all has worked out well. Cheers Peter for the interessting stories!
@soulvibration59655 ай бұрын
Well said 👏 👏.
@Thedoorwayhome5 ай бұрын
Thinking with the little head??
@user-bf5fi4ss2q5 ай бұрын
The first story shocking.I was told by this old guy in Pattaya that he had £80,000 stolen from his secret hidey hole in the false ceiling.He couldn't work out how it was stolen because his girlfriend was the only person that new about his secret hidey hole.
@fruitloops37185 ай бұрын
Shocking
@Tugela605 ай бұрын
He was old though, probably had altzheimers and forgot that he himself removed the 80k to pay for bargirls 😂
@jeffbarta62765 ай бұрын
Great Peter...👍
@joseo.57215 ай бұрын
The reason people get ripped off is they don't think and get wasted !!!!!!!
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
I've known several people who are non-drinkers who have been ripped off
@joseo.57215 ай бұрын
@@ThailandBound go back to my comment, people don't use their cabeza, use your head man, use common sense, maybe it's my 20 years in the Navy or the fact that was born and raised in Chicago before I joined the military.
@jacquelinegrayden47063 ай бұрын
What a smart guy, he was out of there, saved his own life. Blessed
@jamesaldwin70805 ай бұрын
Im curious as to where his apartment was as he could have requested security cam footage to identify the intruders. Also most apartments use key card access to the complex, so random strangers can't access
@ThailandBound5 ай бұрын
Some of the oldest smaller buildings don't have CCTV and you can basically walk up the communal stairs and knock on somebody's front door
@jamesaldwin70805 ай бұрын
Yes that's true Peter - all the more reason to find a place with at least security cameras! 😂@@ThailandBound
@Tugela605 ай бұрын
His apartment was in fantasyland, hence no cctv footage.
@tubewatcher31005 ай бұрын
Always a bad sign when women at a bar (freelance or otherwise) suggest going to another bar. Why would they be fishing for suckers to bring to another place?
@mikeh87865 ай бұрын
Morning Pete. I enjoyed these two longer stories that both had lots of detail. Unbelievable what some of these bar girls are capable off - clearly some are encouraged by family and friends but I guess rhay you would have to be rather unlucky for this to happen to you. Great videos. Thanks for posting. Cheers. 🍻
@The-Merry-Monger-of-Pattaya5 ай бұрын
I hear the dentists in Thailand do good work and are cheap...