‘My Ex-Fiance Surgeon Turned Out To Be A Monster’ | This Morning

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6 ай бұрын

We bring you the shocking story of surgeon Paolo Macchiarini, who lied not only to his fiance, journalist Benita Alexander, but to the whole world - and nearly got away with it… Here to discuss this unbelievable story turned Netflix documentary, is Benita herself, who joins us live from New York, to tell us how she unravelled a web of lies that not only ruined lives, but ended them too.
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@2_thumbs_up_baby
@2_thumbs_up_baby 6 ай бұрын
Trouble is we don't always believe the badness in people when we ourselves wouldn't behave that way.
@Babesinthewood97
@Babesinthewood97 5 ай бұрын
Exactly. You don’t think it’s possible.
@janetanstis4236
@janetanstis4236 5 ай бұрын
Could I please beg for a better and at least articulate presenter.......like....kina like ... kina go .... dear God . ...
@oliviachetcuti225
@oliviachetcuti225 5 ай бұрын
@@janetanstis4236I wish I knew what your comment meant.
@janetanstis4236
@janetanstis4236 5 ай бұрын
@@oliviachetcuti225 it means.........leave out the word... like ...(.inappropriately ). Not ...... Like I think like it must be difficult like . Instead say ... I think it must be difficult ....to ....or I beleive it is difficult ....... or how difficult it must have been to ...... LIKE has become a sloppy repetitive downgrade of precise description .
@starlingswallow
@starlingswallow 5 ай бұрын
Spot on.
@Anubissia
@Anubissia 5 ай бұрын
She said there were no big red flags before the wedding…but him saying the Pope was going to attend wasnt one of those?? 😅😂
@naotholomi
@naotholomi 4 ай бұрын
I listened to her explain it all on a podcast and it did make sense. She thought it was insane too but he really did convince her it was real, on paper it sounds ridiculous but when she tells the whole story you do understand how he managed to trick her. Its so crazy
@tommyluke5952
@tommyluke5952 Ай бұрын
For me it was the mention of Putin that sent me. Don’t think a doctor is important enough for Putin that he would want to attend their wedding ..
@user-mg2kf7dt9g
@user-mg2kf7dt9g 5 ай бұрын
I worked in the OR as a surgical nurse. I’m used to spending twelve hours or more every day with psychopaths, narcissistic and bipolar surgeons. They all congregate in the surgical rooms…it’s sick! I won’t go into details but believe me…they really so abusive that only certain kind of people can endure working in the OR.
@beckymondi4397
@beckymondi4397 5 ай бұрын
Ive been there i have done it gor 7 year and since last year i call it Quit
@user-mg2kf7dt9g
@user-mg2kf7dt9g 5 ай бұрын
@@beckymondi4397 yup! They bring the money to the hospitals so they know they’re untouchable!
@ads13924
@ads13924 5 ай бұрын
I also work in surgical theatres. I think there are some absolutely fantastic surgeons and we have a lot to be grateful for. But yes, it takes a certain person to make it in the operating room. Very unique environment
@jromeo8247
@jromeo8247 5 ай бұрын
Narcissists are rampant as surgeons
@supremlyfoxylass
@supremlyfoxylass 5 ай бұрын
True enough as a psychiatrist nurse of 40 years I’ve lost count at the narcissistic doctors I’ve encountered!
@unHingedOYT
@unHingedOYT 5 ай бұрын
But I think him telling her the pope was marrying them, all the presidents and other dignitaries of the world were going to be in attendance, that would have been a major red flag.
@switch1237
@switch1237 5 ай бұрын
😂
@Hey_its_just_me_to
@Hey_its_just_me_to 5 ай бұрын
Not just that the pope was attending but officiating the wedding, since when has a pope ever did that? Ridiculous she believed that! The only time all of those dignitaries and presidents get together is when royalty is getting married!
@DolceAnz
@DolceAnz 5 ай бұрын
He invited one of the patient's family after he killed him 😮
@keturaequalizer
@keturaequalizer 5 ай бұрын
I know, right?! I have visited the vatican. You feel and understand how huge and important the pope is once you visit the vatican. Once he mentioned the pope, I knew it was a lie. Presidents, queens, kings and high dignitaries have a difficult time meeting the pope. It takes years to get an appointment with the pope. Leave alone getting him to agree to marry you. And then you are not even catholic. And then you just managed to arrange all that with the pope in a matter of hours?! Common now! 🤔🥴
@ads13924
@ads13924 5 ай бұрын
Celebrities have doctors, so it isnt far fetched that they might have a cutting edge surgeon.
@emilia8620
@emilia8620 6 ай бұрын
There's a series of documentaries about him. He's clearly a psychopath
@elinaselene
@elinaselene 5 ай бұрын
He so definitely is. Check out Sam Vaknin here on KZbin he's an expert on Narcissists/Psychopaths/Borderlines. He has helped to change my life after being involved with a lying, cheating, future faking Narcissist.
@gemmaariss5609
@gemmaariss5609 5 ай бұрын
Just watched the documentary on Netflix. He knew what he was doing the entire time. He deserves to rot in a cell for the rest of his life. Pure evil
@jinka6171
@jinka6171 5 ай бұрын
Fortunately she didn’t give him a lot of money …. Hopefully
@lupitaortizcouoh3464
@lupitaortizcouoh3464 5 ай бұрын
What’s is the documentary name ? Thanks
@NoOne-wt3sv
@NoOne-wt3sv 3 ай бұрын
@@lupitaortizcouoh3464bad surgeon: love under the knife on Netflix
@Tommy-xy1eh
@Tommy-xy1eh Ай бұрын
@@lupitaortizcouoh3464 Bad surgeon - Love under the knife 😢
@supremlyfoxylass
@supremlyfoxylass Ай бұрын
And she loved his way of life and all the trips and gifts and wanted the attention.
@irawilliams343
@irawilliams343 5 ай бұрын
When something looks good to be true, it has the most red flags. I hope this creep gets thrown in jail soon.
@beckymondi4397
@beckymondi4397 5 ай бұрын
Im in medical field. You cant believe how many Psycopathic Surgeons exist. With patience they put smiles on there faces but to there employees they are more than Devils. Ive seen it in different hospitals ive worked in and now i ve quite my job which i did love but because of Psycopaths i ve let it go😢
@Serendipity-gj2me
@Serendipity-gj2me 5 ай бұрын
They say one of the professions that psychopaths are attracted to is ... A "surgeon”
@Babesinthewood97
@Babesinthewood97 5 ай бұрын
I wonder why this is. Maybe they enjoy the power they have over life/death? I know. My close relative is one of those psychopaths you are talking about. I must say he’s a very good doctor though. A paradox.
@savykoshy4511
@savykoshy4511 5 ай бұрын
Hi Becky, sad to hear that, quitting for a physcho, hopefully you will find some other way to keep your profession.
@mariaseidi4023
@mariaseidi4023 5 ай бұрын
Yes you are very rigth i have This experience with a surgeons i meet online ,yes surgeons is the profession with more narcissist,militar,,actores , managers...they are 👹 in human flesh.
@cammbello
@cammbello 5 ай бұрын
Your 1000% right I do also and have noticed the same thing
@sarahs5340
@sarahs5340 4 ай бұрын
I can’t believe this beautiful woman has been through so much. I went through something similar on a much smaller scale. It makes me feel stronger seeing such a well rounded woman come through with her head held high.
@supremlyfoxylass
@supremlyfoxylass Ай бұрын
Oh please. She didn’t even look into his life because if she did she would have seen he was still married. She didn’t do any homework because she enjoyed his lifestyle and all the trips and she believed what she wanted. It takes no skill to realize the pope doesn’t married non Catholics especially one that’s been divorced twice. She’s crazy.
@thiapriestly2903
@thiapriestly2903 4 ай бұрын
I worked in surgery for 30 years. In Australia and NZ. I never ever saw such behavior. If there was a hint of such behavior it would be dealt with by the manager. Everyone was respectful of each other. Concentration was on the patient on the table. the table.
@Landing5
@Landing5 5 ай бұрын
She seemed to set aside her common sense and got really caught up in a story she would have normally recognized as a con
@rosejacobs8529
@rosejacobs8529 5 ай бұрын
If he wasn't a big deal she wouldn't have given him a second glance, she wanted what she thought he could offer, prestige and money.
@NancyGonzalez-kv5mm
@NancyGonzalez-kv5mm 5 ай бұрын
Not initially. He was a renowned surgeon.
@jinka6171
@jinka6171 5 ай бұрын
Sadly she shoulda thought he was out of her league…..when someone falls in love too quickly--- be careful.
@freshangel1
@freshangel1 5 ай бұрын
I agree he told some very outrageous lies as well the red flags were there
@klaudiam8396
@klaudiam8396 5 ай бұрын
totally agree @@rosejacobs8529
@ALanLovesJesus
@ALanLovesJesus 5 ай бұрын
No one should ever be compared to God. NOT EVER!
@brianswathey
@brianswathey 4 ай бұрын
God is a work of fiction
@ALanLovesJesus
@ALanLovesJesus 4 ай бұрын
@@brianswathey In your mind. Don’t expect to get into Heaven if you believe this nonsense. Good Luck to you. Yikes
@HUYI1
@HUYI1 6 ай бұрын
Red flags everywhere, typical signs of a narcissist, they will say anything to get their way and what they want and clearly he took advantage of that, I hope she can learn from this mistake 🤔
@CatsandJP
@CatsandJP 6 ай бұрын
He has all the traits of Machiavellianism….not just narcissistic traits…which is all encompassing in personality psychology..🇦🇺🇦🇺
@jc-246
@jc-246 5 ай бұрын
I've been there too but unless you know what a narc or psychopath is you don't have a clue about the lies, manipulation and lack or no guilt etc.
@Enufalready771
@Enufalready771 5 ай бұрын
"I was intrigued by him...I think everybody was..." but not everyone quit their job, yanked their young child, who had lost her dad, out of school, and believed the Pope was going to perform her wedding...The lack of maturity and intelligence and common sense in this woman is astounding...
@chilloften
@chilloften 5 ай бұрын
Well here we have Mr. Perfect. Knows IT ALL. Yea. I’m sorry sir, you are a human being. Get over self asap.
@lupitaortizcouoh3464
@lupitaortizcouoh3464 5 ай бұрын
When you are in love … this can happen!
@amygarcia8857
@amygarcia8857 5 ай бұрын
That happens when you’re being manipulated and love bombed. Your reality is distorted. She’s really not the one to blame here.
@LG-33
@LG-33 5 ай бұрын
She’s desperate and gullible
@adjoahossou454
@adjoahossou454 4 ай бұрын
sometimes you just want it to work so bad!
@suzannebraham5138
@suzannebraham5138 6 ай бұрын
I went out with a man who told me that he was a docter,I soon found out that he lied he took a friend of mine out as well since I got older experience taught me what these con merchants are really like.
@CatsandJP
@CatsandJP 6 ай бұрын
This was covered on the podcast Dr Death which covers 2 other doctors and their malpractice pursuits….The podcast has been turned into this tv series…I’ve watched and also listened to both series 1 and 2…and it is just absolutely unbelievable and scary when doctors egos are more important than their patients lives…it is well worth watching just to serve as a warning 🇦🇺🇦🇺
@adamsparrow3476
@adamsparrow3476 6 ай бұрын
Thanks. I didn’t know about this. Just watched the trailers. Definitely going to watch this
@CatsandJP
@CatsandJP 6 ай бұрын
@@adamsparrow3476It is scary stuff but unbelievable what some doctors get away with.
@erincollins3803
@erincollins3803 5 ай бұрын
First thought that came to my mind were the Nazi's that were doctors and who conducted experiments on people in the concentration camps. Everyone thinks that only those type of people could do such horrendous things. Turns out not the case. So scary.
@naomie_simplelife79
@naomie_simplelife79 5 ай бұрын
At least she is alive , what about the patients who’ve already died and their families ???
@neilomalley9089
@neilomalley9089 6 ай бұрын
Watched this, and he is one evil sick man. To let his patient suffer how they did was evil and so sick. God live the victims.
@lydiakelly8862
@lydiakelly8862 6 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience..typical Narcissist…you’ve had a lucky escape lady!
@starsigngirl9789
@starsigngirl9789 6 ай бұрын
He’s a typical psychopath
@zmoregalado6152
@zmoregalado6152 19 күн бұрын
She was crazy desperate. How is she a journalist. Cmon she couldn’t even confirm the reservation 🙄👎 Since when does the Pope marry someone divorced . Hasn’t she heard of Henry Tudor. She’s so absurd.
@maidmarion2976
@maidmarion2976 6 ай бұрын
Sounds like the majority of Narcissists. The only difference is the scale of influence that they are able to engender. Lucky escape.
@HiLoveLeighs
@HiLoveLeighs 5 ай бұрын
Doctors have always creeped me out. I would certainly never marry one.
@sethusubramanian9408
@sethusubramanian9408 4 ай бұрын
Doctors think there is no end of themselves and a vast majority of them are inflated with arrogance!perhaps one in a million is service minded and a lot are money minded!
@brianswathey
@brianswathey 4 ай бұрын
But they have lots of money and prestige, which is what women are attracted to
@laurynrose1111
@laurynrose1111 5 ай бұрын
It’s actually called Vulnerable Narcissist
@Sonali11
@Sonali11 6 ай бұрын
Some surgeons esp orthopedic surgeons are so arrogant because they think they're the best.
@brotheramartey777
@brotheramartey777 5 ай бұрын
There are pathological liars and they appear so nice and deceive lots of people, especially, women.
@patrickmcdonagh539
@patrickmcdonagh539 5 ай бұрын
Investigate journalist.. Take away her credentials
@viviennepastor3188
@viviennepastor3188 6 ай бұрын
People believe in experts way too much.
@slevinlindsay3624
@slevinlindsay3624 5 ай бұрын
'Experts'... Expert narcissists.
@janz3627
@janz3627 3 ай бұрын
He thought Benita would be too embarrassed to say anything. He was SO wrong! Great for you Benita! She’s a beautiful woman inside and out. Bless your heart Benita.
@Beautreillis17
@Beautreillis17 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, they always have a quick answer to everything. He's an extreme case but such monsters are everywhere now.
@LoveHealsAndProtects
@LoveHealsAndProtects 5 ай бұрын
Statistically surgeons are known to be psychopaths. Who else could cut a human being without freaking out?
@garryharriman7349
@garryharriman7349 5 ай бұрын
People who hold a medical degree who then crosd trained as surgeons and are, unlike the person in question, are decent, caring, and highly skilled and intelligent people who utilize their attriubutes in the service to average people like you and me!
@LoveHealsAndProtects
@LoveHealsAndProtects 5 ай бұрын
@@garryharriman7349 A study done in 2017 found that medical professionals in general rate higher on the psychopathic traits: "exhibited higher PPI-R total score, self-centered impulsivity (SCI) factor score, Machiavellian egocentricity, social influence, and fearlessness content scale scores. Logistic regression showed that SCI score was a significant predictor for the likelihood of expressing interest toward a surgical career". I am not biased, just stating the facts reported over the years
@garryharriman7349
@garryharriman7349 5 ай бұрын
@@LoveHealsAndProtects Wow! That is exteremy facinating and alarming at the same time!
@LoveHealsAndProtects
@LoveHealsAndProtects 5 ай бұрын
@@garryharriman7349 I know several medical professionals personally and have observed those traits in them. Like I wrote in the original comment, dealing with blood and death on a regular basis must take a certain natural level of callousness. I wonder how pathologists score 🤔 they must be off the charts. And yes, it is scary and we must be very careful trusting our health providers. In my life I met 1 (!) good sensitive doctor who was patient and listened attentively. Most have a "I am a doctor and you will listen to what I tell you to do" stance and give you half-educated advice. Not to mention that many doctors go into the field for money and prestige, which is also a fact
@garryharriman7349
@garryharriman7349 5 ай бұрын
@@LoveHealsAndProtects Indeed, we are subservient to such people and the unequal power dynamics at play. Most make better scientists than they do empathic medical practitioners.
@nilgiridreaming
@nilgiridreaming 7 күн бұрын
"Flirted with both women and men..." Big red flag that most people would dismiss. If you see it, don't dismiss it as the person charming & 'nice'. It is the sign of a highly manipulative individual who has no conscience.
@throe68
@throe68 5 ай бұрын
She got played by a fellow narcissist. Feel sorry for the people that died, and their families - not her Super Ego.
@amygarcia8857
@amygarcia8857 5 ай бұрын
Her ego….and not the narcissistic psychopath who killed people…
@darlateegarden7595
@darlateegarden7595 4 ай бұрын
What an awesome woman with so much character to come forth and tell her story, as heartbreaking and I'm sure embarrassing as it was! she'll come back so much stronger now!
@okokgooglereddin3431
@okokgooglereddin3431 5 ай бұрын
She needs to get over it
@cristinaaristizabal9882
@cristinaaristizabal9882 5 ай бұрын
Why? She will do it when she has nothing else to say and not more money to get from this. Who are you to tell anybody to get over it. Is not your life and is not your story.
@claudiacorral4559
@claudiacorral4559 5 ай бұрын
They are called narcissist, when everything is perfect at the beginning, love bombing, etc
@outoforbit00
@outoforbit00 4 ай бұрын
But the people who are taken in by love bombing have to be either deluded or a narcissist themselves. I mean nobody is that special. I would never take a man seriously who played all his cards at once, he too is either deluded or out for everything he can get.
@beckymondi4397
@beckymondi4397 4 ай бұрын
You are very right. I can say i met really good Surgeons. Very competent and very human and what i noticed were most of the Psychopaths were insecure and not good Surgeon. We would say that they were gifted in books but not in the Operation Field.
@davidcaldwell4953
@davidcaldwell4953 5 ай бұрын
There cannot be many really good plastic surgeons about . You only have to look at the faces of the celebrities who pay top dollar and look how they end up looking. Its not a good advertisement. Plastic Is a good term for them .
@London719
@London719 5 ай бұрын
She probably doesn't know the interviewer, lisa snowdon actually dated George Clooney!
@dalehoward3704
@dalehoward3704 6 ай бұрын
She pulled her daughter out of school for him.........🙁
@dontatme289
@dontatme289 Ай бұрын
Yes because she was lied to
@KNByam
@KNByam 4 ай бұрын
She knew, but she tolerated it for as long as she could because of money.
@dontatme289
@dontatme289 Ай бұрын
I don’t think so darling
@Magical_Makeup_UK
@Magical_Makeup_UK 6 ай бұрын
Didn’t Lisa date George clooney ? Off topic I know
@doribells2290
@doribells2290 5 ай бұрын
The man is a serial killer
@dorino9057
@dorino9057 6 ай бұрын
So sad to hear
@FlowerM735
@FlowerM735 5 ай бұрын
Biggest mistake is that women don’t want to bother to get to know the man very well. At first the look so nice! Slowly they start the true colors!
@reisschancellor9753
@reisschancellor9753 6 ай бұрын
Watched it on Netflix. Chilling. Crazy!!
@Nushka23
@Nushka23 6 ай бұрын
A lot of surgeons are monsters. Women’s obs & gynae is the worst.
@usernameheda
@usernameheda 6 ай бұрын
you do have to question the interest male surgeons would have in gynae, it is kinda weird
@marylynch951
@marylynch951 6 ай бұрын
​@@usernameheda Yes I didn't think of it like this
@aka44441
@aka44441 6 ай бұрын
It is frightening. Sometimes you have to work through these things the hard way
@Nushka23
@Nushka23 6 ай бұрын
Ironically, when you even begin mention of a female alternative, you're seen as sexist@@usernameheda
@Babesinthewood97
@Babesinthewood97 5 ай бұрын
@@usernamehedait’s not weird. But since there’s a risk, only allowing female obgyns would be safer.
@scarlettspear7447
@scarlettspear7447 6 ай бұрын
Classic psychopath.
@mazzieod4982
@mazzieod4982 5 ай бұрын
There are no "Super Human's" .. your language is a give away .. Vanity , duped, flirt, teenager? Nope .. not the whole world.
@darlene9154
@darlene9154 5 ай бұрын
If something seems too good to be true, it is. I know, I had a man for 5 years and he was not who he made out he was.
@jinka6171
@jinka6171 5 ай бұрын
Bingo…..too good to be true.
@ak-47intelligence75
@ak-47intelligence75 5 ай бұрын
This seems to be a common theme.
@LuzDoSol-yr5bv
@LuzDoSol-yr5bv 5 ай бұрын
That was wild!
@angelwings3128
@angelwings3128 5 ай бұрын
Sadly, humanity these days, has gone out the window for some. It’s not the 1950’s anymore. Honesty & integrity is a challenge to find, you can almost count those who have it, on your one hand.
@sethusubramanian9408
@sethusubramanian9408 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@lilylovesitaly3932
@lilylovesitaly3932 22 сағат бұрын
Well said 👏👏👏
@bcent5758
@bcent5758 6 ай бұрын
I wonder if she knows that her interviewer dated George Clooney!
@monicaduncan7109
@monicaduncan7109 6 ай бұрын
Yes…good point
@frenchtoast7742
@frenchtoast7742 6 ай бұрын
Why does it matter?
@user-xb2ql3mp4k
@user-xb2ql3mp4k 6 ай бұрын
Haha facts!!!! Id say lisa probably smirked inside lisa dated him for a long time
@user-yy3zq4kn7n
@user-yy3zq4kn7n 6 ай бұрын
@@frenchtoast7742it’s a light hearted comment. What are the chances she’s saying all this about George Clooney to his ex gf!?
@proudmganda1159
@proudmganda1159 6 ай бұрын
So what?
@tracemagace8434
@tracemagace8434 5 ай бұрын
Every picture she took with him she looked prideful and smug. I dont feel a bit sorry for her and have no doubt she knew he was married.
@Marita940
@Marita940 5 ай бұрын
Funny how the real people look nothing what you imagine 😢
@JaQuym
@JaQuym 4 ай бұрын
You pull your daughter that was dying from brain cancer out of difficult to get into private school. There are many holes in your story lady
@bethaminkhan4951
@bethaminkhan4951 5 ай бұрын
Sounds like my story... How do I contact " This Morning"?
@MyAssefa
@MyAssefa 6 ай бұрын
Wow 😮
@cathycupcake6849
@cathycupcake6849 5 ай бұрын
People don't change into a monster they've always been like that some people are poor judge of character and make poor life choices
@alisong2328
@alisong2328 4 ай бұрын
So many of these "groundbreaking" surgeons let their egos run wild. Surgeons in general can be arrogant, and "super surgeons" often believe they're gods.
@florenceknight420
@florenceknight420 5 ай бұрын
This is one of the best Docu i ever watched on Netflix..Unfortunately the con man never spent time in jail..most of this innocent is used as a lab rat😢😢😢
@LibbyRal
@LibbyRal 26 күн бұрын
I heard the story on , I think it was Wondery - a podcast. Fascinating. Looks like another doctor convinced her to mess with her face.
@Steve-hs5le
@Steve-hs5le 4 ай бұрын
I think Dr Frankenstein worked on this ladies face gezzzzz what happened 😂
@julieannesimms981
@julieannesimms981 6 ай бұрын
Gosh I thought the 2 idiots I married were bad😮😮😮😮
@2_thumbs_up_baby
@2_thumbs_up_baby 6 ай бұрын
No there are plenty out there for everyone a million times over!
@switch1237
@switch1237 5 ай бұрын
😂
@Nkimmature
@Nkimmature 5 ай бұрын
😅
@ThePossumone
@ThePossumone 4 ай бұрын
Think of ALL the people who he fooled - other doctors and patients and the whole medical establishment - educated and scientific people This poor woman was caught in a web and she was NOT alone and he should definitely be locked up
@merle-wq9ir
@merle-wq9ir 4 ай бұрын
That's a true pyschopath! They believe their narrative. Hence they sooo 'believable'. Been there lost everything had to rebuild my life . When you close up you don't see what others see.
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 5 ай бұрын
What did he want from her....... she got world trips.
@numbernine3436
@numbernine3436 5 ай бұрын
I believe Gabor Mate' talks about great % of actors, politicians & doctors who are narcissist &/or bipolar. These occupations provide the platform to be anyone they want. Although they have this grandiose view of themselves while coming across as humble. The rest of us dont behave this way so we cant fathom that a person would go to such great lengths to manipulate another person. We hv a hard time lying about the tinest detail. How could someone lie about their entire life?
@HH-kg4fq
@HH-kg4fq 5 ай бұрын
Why actors? I can see politicians, lawyers, physicians, psychologists, surgeons, clergy, and basically people in positions that require them to be in high control positions. But, an actor merely reads and acts out a script.
@FaithImani-qj1ci
@FaithImani-qj1ci 5 ай бұрын
I think it's because they're on the limelight and attract public recognition .
@farradinahsofiana9660
@farradinahsofiana9660 4 ай бұрын
When something too good to be true, it's not true at all.
@pn4640
@pn4640 4 ай бұрын
This woman, fell for a con artist when her husband was dying from cancer. She would not even spend final days with the father of her daughter…what can I say…karma
@mingqiyou252
@mingqiyou252 4 ай бұрын
She date this con artist few months after her second marriage 😢! Now she said she is the victim 😂. That is what happens to the greedy woman. Only thing we all felt bad about those poor families whose had die.
@jenniferlopez3554
@jenniferlopez3554 Ай бұрын
This man certainly is very dangerous and I hope he will never be allowed to practice again!!!
@johannaliceaga5936
@johannaliceaga5936 4 ай бұрын
Im glad she fixed her eyebrows she looks a lot better, also ladies put their standards way too high and daydream too much on fairy tale type of fantasies, instead of just focusing on a good hearted guy.
@keezjordan1619
@keezjordan1619 4 ай бұрын
We have all been duped. We learn.
@snsn7251
@snsn7251 6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately surgeons tend to think they are gods due to the jobs they do. Not surprised.
@buzzypeterson1147
@buzzypeterson1147 5 ай бұрын
I’m kinda picking up that she was the trophy wife and when things went south she turned on him.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 5 ай бұрын
What was she supposed to do?
@jacquelinefoote8081
@jacquelinefoote8081 6 ай бұрын
Narc
@faras5426
@faras5426 5 ай бұрын
The trouble is these women want money because they can not earn it. So they knowingly go into these relationships knowing that the end is lined with gold regardless of the outcome. And Ofcourse we know that most of these loser women are broke and this is a way to get money because there is no other way . Why has this report not mentioned how much money she received after all was said and done and what was her net worth when she met the guy??!!!
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 5 ай бұрын
Are you broke? You sound very bitter.
@leticiadelgadillo
@leticiadelgadillo Ай бұрын
The "ONLY" individuals taking any risk were the Patients!
@kristinej.4182
@kristinej.4182 2 ай бұрын
He’s a true definition of a narcissist!
@saltlifegull4091
@saltlifegull4091 5 ай бұрын
Who are the real victims here? The patients, doctors who tried to stop Paola, his wife and children, her trusting friends who lost thousands on the b/s fairy tale. Benita jumped at that shiny bait and swallowed it hook, line and sinker! She knowingly jeopardized and traded her integrity, career and reputation for the glitter of gold; violated terms of her contract with an employer who trusted her; left her daughter with whomever while jet-setting all over the world and thoroughly enjoying thousands of dollars being spent on her by Paola. Benita is continuing to line her pockets and boost her new-found "celebrity" status via her con man, thru interviews, tv shows, etc, that stem from her bad decisions and basic stupidity.
@supremlyfoxylass
@supremlyfoxylass 5 ай бұрын
Well said,she makes me sick . 10 years later she’s still making money off the relationship
@keturaequalizer
@keturaequalizer 5 ай бұрын
@@supremlyfoxylass Rightfully so! Remember, she quit her job for this monster. She has to get an income somehow to support herself and her daughter. She deserves every single cent. Bravo to her for exposing this monster and getting him disgraced. She sparked the investigation which led to the end of his career. Otherwise, he would have continued killing people. Let him get a taste of his own medicine now not having a job. 🤷🏽‍♂
@supremlyfoxylass
@supremlyfoxylass 5 ай бұрын
@@keturaequalizer it wasn’t because of her that he’s been stopped. It’s because of the investigation done by the reporter in Sweden and the 4 doctors that worked with him at the institute in Sweden. Her daughter gets SS from her father . Paolo didn’t tell her to quit her job . Who would move to another country without speaking a word of the language knowing he’d be traveling much less allow a boyfriend to enroll your child in a school you know nothing about.? 7 years later she’s still cashing in on her stupidity..
@keturaequalizer
@keturaequalizer 5 ай бұрын
@@supremlyfoxylass You are right. Karolinska Institute had already started an investigation on him prior to her coming out with the story. But her story re-enforced his deceit which made the world look. When you get engaged to a man and the wedding is being planned, he tells you that he has bought a house for you to live in, in this case Barcelona, its just common sense to quit your job since you know you are re-locating. I did the same. I met my husband in my country when he was an expatriate there. We got married and when his contract ended, I quit my job and we moved to his country. I knew nobody there, and I couldn`t speak the language. I learned all this in time. Its called taking a leap of faith. People from different backgrounds meet everyday all across the world and they get married. She trusted the wrong person. What he did was cruel considering he knew she had a daughter. He now can feel how she felt as he lost his job. Its even worse for him coz no one will ever hire him ever again as everyone knows what he did. Let her cash in whatever she can. Everybody cashes in on whatever they can nowadays. I know she opened the eyes of alot of women to be vigilant.
@suzanbeverlyhills2310
@suzanbeverlyhills2310 5 ай бұрын
She’s a gold digger
@FBICPS
@FBICPS 5 ай бұрын
Fell for the successful man with very high status, extremely powerful and a lifestyle. She wanted to see the house first, men always want to see the girlfriends house first also right?! - Another woman looking to marry the lifestyle.
@amygarcia8857
@amygarcia8857 5 ай бұрын
He literally had a whole family at that house😭 her intuition was right at that moment but he derailed her.
@timmywitty1432
@timmywitty1432 4 ай бұрын
She was successful herself…good gawd, let’s not victim shame let’s instead hold the abuser accountable.
@nonmeeyenruedee1647
@nonmeeyenruedee1647 3 ай бұрын
Red flags for me since he treats her so nicely and smoothly but still available 😂
@user-xn8mj5qm6q
@user-xn8mj5qm6q 4 ай бұрын
What happened to her daughter through this
@natashaj9169
@natashaj9169 5 ай бұрын
How did she get into the house???
@TruckieLooks4Aliens
@TruckieLooks4Aliens 5 ай бұрын
Oh please. Where is her accountability? She just ignored everything. She was a journalist too? This is the example of a woman ignoring red flags who then cries victim.
@dontatme289
@dontatme289 Ай бұрын
You’re victim blaming
@reneemac111
@reneemac111 4 ай бұрын
I have met a few doctors, and I feel sorry for their wives, they have got such an inflated ego.
@Silversoon78910
@Silversoon78910 5 ай бұрын
He knew how to use people
@hinaz85
@hinaz85 6 ай бұрын
This lady!! Really feel for her
@Unborn-Stillborn
@Unborn-Stillborn 5 ай бұрын
Gold diggers and social climbers akways ignore the obvious. Why would a hugly successful surgen want a below average looking divorced mother. They wouldnt. He had many options ...
@davidc4408
@davidc4408 4 ай бұрын
Exactly she has a giant mouth and he probably wanted quiet
@reneemac111
@reneemac111 4 ай бұрын
She is beautiful
@raya74
@raya74 4 ай бұрын
Question the first word that came to mind was narcissist and i see it used a lot in the comments but was he also a psychopath? Are they synonymous?
@jeannineterese1037
@jeannineterese1037 5 ай бұрын
Did he give her that horrible plastic surgery?
@jinka6171
@jinka6171 5 ай бұрын
She looks pretty good to me…..not too artificial….
@elleydoll
@elleydoll 6 ай бұрын
Poor women.
@sophiamcnamara9851
@sophiamcnamara9851 4 ай бұрын
There was lots off con man alerts people get blown away with money and Luxury
@aidankelly840
@aidankelly840 5 ай бұрын
She had lucky escape 😅
@id8978
@id8978 5 ай бұрын
Sorry, but after seeing BAD SURGEON” even I saw the red flags from get!
@sylviarosario6503
@sylviarosario6503 4 ай бұрын
She reaped the benefits of his luxurious lifestyle and now she’s 😢 crying. Girl, please.
@dontatme289
@dontatme289 Ай бұрын
Victim blaming
@emiliavelitch7775
@emiliavelitch7775 6 ай бұрын
There are many cone artists fishing for their next victim. Some people are blinded more easily than others, it's a human nature.
@TrueWalker88
@TrueWalker88 4 ай бұрын
This was a 20/20 episode back in 2021, not a new story.
@davidc4408
@davidc4408 4 ай бұрын
Another gold digger not getting her way. 😂
@BigDaddy-xl3uf
@BigDaddy-xl3uf Ай бұрын
Benita the bop
@FredNewsome
@FredNewsome 10 күн бұрын
She targeted him from day one.
@unconditionallove2689
@unconditionallove2689 5 ай бұрын
you have to be a pscychopath to be a good surgeon very calm under high pressured,he is statistik
@Tommy-xy1eh
@Tommy-xy1eh Ай бұрын
A killer ! Will he be sued ? 😢
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