My Ex- husband would beat me with a 'Nyahunyu.' Why did he hate me that much?!- Catherine W

In the Anglican ministry, Catherine Wambui holds the title of a Captain.
She also a trained evangelist. Her marriage broke only after a few years.
Married to man that she terms as extremely violent. He would beat her with a 'nyahunyu' and would beat her in broad daylight with an intention of attracting the neighbours and demeaning her.
Her divorce not only destroyed her relationship with her child but also hindered her dreams of being a church minister. She was never ordained as a reverend despite graduating with a bachelor's in Theology.

[@peninahwambui2390]

Catherine is a woman wounded and deserted by 'men of the cloth' and husband. She is beautiful both inside and out. May 2021 be a brand new beginning Catherine.

[@estherwanjiku614]

There is a God in heaven, judgment will start in the house of the Lord.

[@lizsarah4580]

This is so common in the mainstream churches. I wonder which God they serve?

[@peninahwambui2390]

@@lizsarah4580 true

[@shishmurage9519]

We worship God not man. Anytime you begin to worship a man it becomes a snare.

[@lizsarah4580]

@@shishmurage9519 Well said. There is a lot of 'marriage worship' and 'man worship' and placing making 'getting married' an idol so much so that people are enduring so much abuse in the name of marriage.

[@Sarahirara]

Monicah Kagoni wi mundu wa mwanya your media personality is a real calling from above, this is your area of serving God. You have a golden heart. As you support the voiceless and usher them to their destiny may God also bless and reward you for the good work. I love you💖💕💖💕💖💕💖,

[@TabbyRedeemed]

What makes women or even men take physical abuse time and again. Mimi slap moja na huyo nimejitoa 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

[@margaretmwangi1286]

Cathrine is such a beautiful woman and looks like a real minister regardless of what she has gone through, may the Lord open mighty doors and windows for this bigger than life woman .Amen

[@gulfencounterstv9665]

Wooii...Narcissists wamejaa na wamejificha kwa church😭pole sana Madam Catherine 🤗🤗

[@lizsarah4580]

Women need to identify such men earlier and stay as far away as possible.

[@ndutakamondi7760]

I know this lady from childhood. Very humble and God fearing. I attended her wedding too. Sometimes marriage is messy but my sister keep trusting unto the Lord

[@sarahm316]

Amen

[@Bellanna100]

🥺🥺🥺THIS WOMAN DONT UNDERSTAND SHE'S STILL HURTING EVEN NOW ..MEN YOUR WIFE TEARS IS YOUR EARLY GRAVE ITS A BAD OMEN .IF YOU DONT LOVE HER LET HER LEAVE IN PEACE VERY EARLY..msiulizange why men dies early 👆👆 its this God know how to revenge.. meanwhile mum try to find another way to serve God in God garden there is too much work labours are few ..hatiri bata wakugiginyana haria utaredeka God ministry is wide you can serve him in many ways not only preaching in churches ..

[@loisemuchiri6390]

Every time I listen to this woman's story I feel so sorry for her.

[@wanjirunduta5346]

This story reflects, speaks for many and especially who are dying in marriages especially in the 'church community' It also shows how most christians hujificha na kanisa. Instead of accommodating this lady after the harsh beatings from the husband all she got was rejection. My prayer is that 2021 will pay off for Catherine Wambui. Thanks Monica for handling this with a lot of professionalism especially keeping the interviewee and the viewers on track.

[@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534]

Catherine be patient, with your son, he will be fine,..just pray Catherine...wait for the karma for this man.He must be naccisistic, he was smearing your name to son, What I'm bitter with is the church, this should be the hospital for the broken hearts. The world even prostitutes could have supported their own

[@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534]

God bless this lady, let her serve her God, because human beings have prevented her from doing so

[@wanjirunduta5346]

@@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534 Amen.....My prayer too.

[@elizabethwambui4791]

Again and again Monica you are the best in interviews. You know how to handle everyone coming to you..

[@wanjikuwaweru8541]

I also suffered a lot in the hands of a woman who was a secretary of the women's guild huko Murang'a. She caused me to loose my job and made me a laughing stalk in that small village but Mungu si Athumani... He changed my story. Wambui? Wa Maina? utaja lipa one day. Ngai ndakomaga

[@luciembugua3790]

Catherine continue trusting the Lord he makes things beautiful at his own time.

[@marthawambui3017]

It's sad that we as Christians are first to neglect others when they're in problems. This is sad... really sad😭😭

[@monicagikonyo9396]

I can only imagine the pain you have gone through, sister Catherine. Keep trusting our good God. He is so faithful, he will never leave you or forsake you. In due season, your adversaries will be brought to shame.

[@ruthretoe7232]

Never ask a woman why she left her marriage, never stay in an abusive relationship this story is too hurting

[@langstonzachariah546]

You probably dont give a shit but if you are stoned like me atm you can watch pretty much all of the new series on InstaFlixxer. Have been watching with my brother for the last weeks :)

[@keatonjoey3543]

@Langston Zachariah yup, I've been watching on Instaflixxer for years myself :)

[@judytanui9853]

Monica Kagoni, You have no idea how much your interviews inspire me. I have been through some of these experiences. Even to date, I have never been able to share even with my closest friends some but I hope one day I will be able to share. Your channel has been nothing but inspirational. Keep up the good work!

[@vennyg8144]

This woman is going through the demon of rejection, just like me. I get fired for no good reason, ppl start fights against me over small insignificant things that are overlooked for others. May God bless you with favor and acceptance.

[@susanmbote664]

That man should be arrested, this is too much,in my prayers sister...

[@ruthjoseph7220]

Aki I can feel her pain Monica thx for good job always and inspiring stories ever so sad what women go through in marriage am very sorry...

[@jaynenjenga3718]

Hey Monica. Looking forward.... Continue giving a voice to the voiceless and touching lives. Kudos

[@marywanjiku2948]

What can Monica be reached on reached on phone?

[@marywanjiku2948]

How can Monicah be reached on phone?

[@jaynenjenga3718]

@@marywanjiku2948 check this video at the end her Airtel no. is there.

[@marywanjiku2948]

@@jaynenjenga3718 Thanks my dear

[@jaynenjenga3718]

@@marywanjiku2948 welcome dear

[@winrosejames8014]

Thanks for being brave and candid . Cate had gone through a lot may the lord renew her life . I felt sad after seeing how all this affected her life but our God is able to restore her she has a great smile

[@wamsufitness3217]

Amen🙏

[@WanjiruMuya]

If a man hits you once, that's a bet he will surely do it again😔run as fast as you can.... Abusive partners never change

[@nabasaprima1804]

You are right wanjiru. For me he hit me for the first time and I didn't take it serious, then the second time and again the third time and the beating this third time was the worst in my life time. I didn't leave and now he would intimidate me every time. He would sleep outside and when I ask where he slept, he would start telling he would beat me and I speak kiswahili yet I don't know it. But yesterday but one, I said that enough is enough and I packed my things and left. He had slept where I don't know so I used the chance and left . I am completely sure that God will provide for me, my daughter and the one I am expecting. Women go through a lot

[@eunicewairimu5015]

@@nabasaprima1804 ooh hugs sweetheart pole Sana, surely God will provide, u can't vumilia till ukufe Bure!! Death or chronic deseases follow people like u kuvumilia!! Mtu akigonga once will surely be beating you regularly

[@samuelkamau1777]

Kiura ruga

[@nabasaprima1804]

@@eunicewairimu5015 I have realized that I have been leaving with a narcissist after watching muthoni. I have appreciated this woman because she has taught me a lot. Narcissists are mean and selfish and dont have regard for others. They torture you in all ways. I have suffered because of this man and from today I have promised myself that I will never get back to this man in my life time. Him and his mother having been torturing me in all ways knowing that I am a graduate and on government payroll. It's not only Kenya where women are mistreated. Here in uganda, it is also worse. I watched news on tv of a pregnant woman who died from her husbands beatings and I knew it is what I am waiting for because I'm pregnant and vulnerable. I'm happy that I left..

[@Miss-kariuki__251]

@@eunicewairimu5015 true it starts with a slap

[@gladys_naishoi9190]

she was my sunday school teacher

[@wairimuwakago1253]

Woiye i feel mom but gacathi araugire gwathuka kiura🐸ruga

[@WairimuKimani]

This is one precious woman of God. I would like to host her story in English on my platform

[@kirabindungu8774]

Please do...

[@charitywairimungugi-latz1315]

O brave woman Catherine it is so sad but you are a victor.You were so young.Thank you for leaving him.God bless you so much and your 2021 will be great.

[@wanguibundi4017]

Catharine is a very strong woman she has gone through a lot and God is good in her life. The suffering is part of life but the best is yet to come. I've always believed that there's a God in heaven who will never leave or forsake us glory to His name. Catharine believe me you are going far and God will bless you in the land of the living. Monica thank you and God bless you for job well done. Sweetheart receive lots of love and hugs from Tx.

[@simonkibugi4971]

MK you handled this interview with a lot of professionalism. Cathrene is a strong woman of God who has gone through fire. This story is so painful.

[@stellahnjagiakaemma9057]

This pain was so immense but thank God you were liberated. Tùrìra Jesu dada.

[@jeniffermakau]

Such an emotional testimony. It is so sad that you had to go through all this Catherine. How can the relatives, community, and church people be so heartless? Why would a man be so beastly and get accolades from the community? Having gone through physical abuse in a relationship myself I can relate to your pain Catherine. May the Lord remember you and esteem you and place you in a place that men cannot touch you but give him glory. I cry for those that frustrated you because their judjement was decreed in the tears of your pain. Serve God dear. Subscribing to your channel now. God bless you Monica and Catherine💕💖.

[@sarahwambui2010]

This woman's story is so sad. May God restore her happiness.

[@jackiengigi1480]

omg....i just have so much love for this lady.

[@gpp9667]

ACK acknowledges those who are financially stable and class

[@tamarikimani5701]

Yes,nie ona diagiriruo moko,😡😡🙏

[@wanjirualexander6464]

I think it's good to know someone outside church because being born again doest mean the person qualifies to be the better half

[@hellenkasyoka6745]

Sure dear

[@shishmurage9519]

Very true.

[@annwairimukagiri7259]

Monica you are very beautiful and you know how to interview people. Watching from Europe

[@shishmurage9519]

Domestic abuse pains me because until you have gone through it you can never understand.

[@muthonimwajesu4664]

If There's Something Hard In This World Is To Deal With A Narcissist Character Wueh Sorry Catherine I Also Went Through Alot And Painful Piercing Experience My Dear Sister But Today Am Happy 😊 Am Happy To See You Strong Even If Shedding Tears It Means You Are Hero Mama Keep Going Strong 💪

[@bintiye2]

She's emotional like me. I never like sharing my life experience coz it's really hurts me till today

[@user-um4sc4fg5q]

Even mi idont share it from the day ileft

[@teresamwangi5063]

Same here i cry upto date

[@carowanjiku3126]

It's very traumatic expecially for the children (if you have) .The First Slap and i left with my 2 kids. I have never remarried but my former husband i Think is in the forth marriage. I got my official divorce years latter when i could afford. Woman keep Strong, God is Faithful even to all single parrents. Remain Strong in Him and His WORD.

[@margaretmwangi1286]

You need to speak speak and speak don't hold back so that you heal and release yourself from pain,anger and bitterness. Let your experience not cripple you but sharpen you.you are blessed.

[@bintiye2]

@@margaretmwangi1286 surely its a way of healing but when I get courage of getting it out without crying I'll speak out. I do cry coz sometimes my friends reminds me where I came from and I can't hold it. I would burst into tears until the one who started it changes the story

[@rosewilliamskenya2478]

May Almighty God bless you abundantly.Continue holding on and be still and know that He is God

[@nancymaina234]

Theres so much hypocrisy in the church, so sad. I really sympathise with this mom

[@herinahellen9862]

My God I wish to never meet such men in my life

[@wamsufitness3217]

Amen🙏

[@elizabethnyambura8906]

Amen

[@beatricemungai3022]

Catherine very strong woman.God will really bless you.God will judge those who mistreated you. Be strong our God is faithful

[@gracejimmie5757]

Woman of God stay strong Ngai waku niakui and will take you far. Keep TRUSTING in God your too young and talented..Ndugate kioneki...Only God can understand ur pain..UR healer 🙏🙏🙏

[@loisegitau4897]

Your beautiful and you look young, let GOD be your number one only.

[@kirigowangari4206]

Am blessed and encouraged.like the way mum said....define yourself in the lord.

[@petersonkamau9018]

Monicah,I like the way you conduct your interviews and to Cathy, God is never late in His way of doing things so, just trust in Him

[@Sarahirara]

Servant of God I really feel for you though not to the extent of your pain, open your eyes, when one door closes God opens another one, do not dwell on the so called 'church', without Godliness, God can even give you a ministery, you have gone through fire and now you are pure gold fully qualified and equipped, above all you have a heart for God and His people. May God open your eyes to see what He has in store for you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@rosemarymaina1896]

Catherine, follow your heart....let God fight your battles, not when you have run away, remain there and wait on God. Everyone will soon realize that God has you at heart. Hang in there 💪

[@muthonimilcahnganga1519]

am in tears already first 15 mins of watching.

[@katewabwile9053]

Catherine, try and speak out alot...to heal, I salute you! You're a strong mother, God bless you God remember you

[@lynnieeve]

Sounds to me like the spirit of rejection.May God show His face to her life.Loss of livelihood one too many times on flimsy grounds, physical and emotional abuse from the ones close to her...just doesn't look normal

[@rispathequeen]

I mean this story resembles me God have mercy on voiceless women

[@paulinemuthoni6289]

A very sad story.May God bring you healing.

[@jackiegacheru5801]

Sounds like a narcissistic hubby, they are like demon's...sorry Mum..Hugs

[@bettygachao9596]

Very right Jackie. Unfortunately in Africa Narcissistic Abuse is not well known. It is worse than physical abuse. Am glad she has emphasized that. They are out to destroy the empathetic and lovely and will stop at nothing.

[@shirowkihara2654]

Haki this lady cries her heart out in every interview, may our Lord heals her heart ♥

[@mercykihuga8056]

Mum u are very strong continue holding on to the faith for God will see u to the end.

[@keshikush3908]

Very painful story and very strong mum, God will always fight your battles, hugs mum

[@mbuguafelister848]

God fights our battles don't worry catherine God will crown you with lots blessings

[@lucynjagi5988]

So painful but God in heaven is so faithful and will always make ways where there seems to be no way. Take heart Sister Catherine, We are many in this similar situations and still moving on. For your son, please try your best to bond with him and look for counselors to talk to him because he needs to understand more of what you went through. "'God hates devorce BUT He really loves devorcees"' we are His people and can use us to help others overcome. Gutiri undu umumaga na thutha na maya mothe niamenyaga magikika, that is what i believe because he has done wonders to me after devorce. Monicah, this is the best show ever keep it up.

[@ngukukamau1322]

painful ..God will see you thro lets support her in that ministry she is starting....kwa Ngai kwi mawira maingi otauria ngoro yaku yeriririe gutungatira Ngai kiambiriria ri, Ngai orakinyaniria meririria maku. be strong my sister.

[@marthawangui7237]

You are so strong Catherine..the reason I love you so much...soon nitakutafuta we talk

[@virginianjambimbugua6770]

And what about you Monica Kagoni, Are you single? Tell us your story also.

[@linshiro89]

Am also eager to know

[@florencegachau9091]

She is married by MCA kagoni ( a cousin of mine) nimendanganya Monica?

[@godwinkingori5871]

Reke siume nene.

[@bintiye2]

@Virginia njambi mbugua kagoni needs to let us know whether she's single and why. Like betty bayo she used to hide her life even during the interviews but one she started her tv. She gave it all how she stayed with kanyari. For sure no one can ask me questions while hiding theirs. Why would they like to know mine while theirs still under water ?

[@virginianjambimbugua6770]

Thanks, l think we are sailing in the same ship, wacheni kukaa chini ya maji, wacheni tuwaelewe hata sisi.

[@felistafrancis1162]

She is courageous and humble woman

[@elizabethk8500]

This beautiful woman has not healed and she is suffering rejection,but our God is so faithful He will see you through!

[@carolinemyawira7779]

Woooi she has gone through a lot, bt she is a strong woman

[@matronambugua7983]

Catherine may God give you strength and bless you

[@joeywanjiru973]

Monica your show is very short I think you should bring part one a day two.

[@defender503]

Pain of a woman and a mother.. Mum God will come into your rescue.

[@paulinengugi]

Monicah you are very good at interviewing good job

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

This ACK should not be categorised as a church....That was so selfish of them

[@winniewainaina3143]

These mainstream churches focus so much on marriage but ignore the single/divorced/widowed people.

[@eunicewaweru550]

Catherine I feel your pain to an extent.When you really need believers to stand with you,they become no1 in throwing stones at you, they did not interven when you are going through violence and they do not hold your hand.May God help especially church leaders ...

[@irenemichuki3944]

If I were her, I wld work somewhere else and serve God peacefully

[@rispathequeen]

Am watching this story well in Qatar Doha but its has touched me alot cuz same case made me to live and fly but time will come to share God have mercy on me.

[@annrose4574]

May God protect you siz❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carowanjiku3126]

Salamu zangu from Germany

[@annrose4574]

May God bless this woman

[@shishmurage9519]

Am touched by your story i also went through such abuse in my marriage but i left because i wanted to live and not die. Jesus came to give us life and life more abundantly anything else is a lie from the devil.

[@user-yk6gu2ol7g]

Kumwe mundu no arigwo.........,😥😥 May the church preach the love of Jesus. Am in tears😭😭

[@gracenjuki4616]

Sorry for the pains, true, the church betrayed you, i wish you all the best

[@puritymzalendochannel4426]

Monica your stories are amazing 💓💞

[@mawama6719]

Catherine, you have a beautiful warm smile

[@agneskimondo3575]

Her smile is of another level👌I agree

[@mbiyugladys4516]

God will remember catherine an to all ladies and men who are in abusive marriage

[@carowanjiku3126]

Awasaidie kutoka kwa abusive marrigages. Better single and peaceful hata mlale njaga God's Grace will be sufficient in all situations.

[@annwairimukagiri7259]

I think have seen her in mtogwe Navy. Very beautiful lady

[@pennykaringa3380]

He makes everthing great in its time

[@cateataya1739]

May God open your ways.

[@luckygal5904]

Hi can bear the pain of experience ya mtoto 😭😭😭is soo painful to stay apart with the kid.

[@serahkaiba6404]

I feel so sorry for her looking so young Mummy. Abusive relationship ad pain

[@elispherhunja7301]

It's always darkest before the dawn... May God see you through

[@lidiahmukiria8553]

Oooo......I can relate to that!!!

[@annkirethi3812]

This mama still has alot of pain,stigma of à divorced/single women in that church is so clear,i agree the church failed completely in catherine's journey ,i have also noted 'most'of these pple who tell of painful stories happened to grow in 'painful 'families,pole sana Catherine, you will overcome

[@lucynjuguna9653]

Its a generational problem if not broken it will run in the family till eternity

[@dynamuirury8983]

Monica u r doing a good job bt I dhink this woman has gone through hell in what we call church

[@eddahwambui1306]

Watching this three years later, I hope her story has changed

[@annwambui6777]

This is too much for one person 😭😭

[@wanjiruwanjahe]

If a man hit you once just pack and go

[@irenesteve9765]

Correct ✅

[@paulinengugi]

100%

[@carowanjiku3126]

I was hit once before His Brothers I HIT BACK akastuka hakunipiga tena. I eventually left...

[@princessann885]

Mine hit me once and I left for good now it's 11yrs,,, he regrets it till today cz he never thought I can pack

[@ruthwangari4850]

Why 😭😭😭😭😭 are some humans Soo inhuman? 😭😭😭😭It hurts 🥺😢😢😢😢😢

[@hellenkasyoka6745]

Aki it's so painful, yaani Kuna mbwa mwitu wamevalia ngozi ya kondoo in church, may God save us from such'midugu''

[@newankminspired7425]

I kindly request to be quided and forgiven..Wambui will you be able to accomplish your Divine Assignment under that Harsh environment ..(ACK).. ...?? .God is Everywhere..Widen your Nets and put them deeper..SIMON PETER did and had a big catch..........

[@sammyndekeindekei6581]

her ex husband was a coward that's why he used to create a scene. Sorry mum and may God grant you peace and help you always.

[@gracewarui3997]

That's what narcissist do

[@prettybabygalmichelson6557]

Eagerly waiting

[@ngaruiyamargaret6113]

Petty bby gal nakuona

[@pollynumi600]

Hapa church ya ACK imetuangusha

[@prettybabygalmichelson6557]

@@ngaruiyamargaret6113 thanks dia,nakuona pia

[@prettybabygalmichelson6557]

@@pollynumi600 Kabisa

[@jlmchannel5579]

Hypocrites are in church , I know it!!! Sorry mum for what you went through in your marriage in the hands of anarcissist husband . God heal your soul.

[@gracenjokinjoroge9871]

I Love this program so much Why are you single?

[@rubyking9584]

Ooh my goodness you went through hell in your marriage. Thanks to God to gave you strength.

[@janendaki9380]

God can be served in any other church.Catherine you can be a blessing elsewhere and your pain can help others.

[@euniceprosper7616]

True

[@todaybeasyy2955]

Church is the craziest place to be. Ahujia aingi niamaheni.

[@elizabethnjoki9320]

Pole sana mum umepitia mengi

[@nancywachira6156]

Pole sana Catherine for what you went through in your marriage. I know God is about to open a new chapter in your life. I'm not surprised church betrayed you. Nowadays church is the worse place to run for help.

[@naomikiambu7721]

Waiting