Why I want to know and meet my father despite what he did to my mother. Malaika’s Kimani son speaks

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Lynn Ngugi

Lynn Ngugi

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@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Good morning team LNN, How is everyone feeling today?❤ Gratitude all the way What message do you have for David? You can watch his mother’s episode here kzbin.info/www/bejne/jnaoeqadqbWNrrM To share your story, please send a summary to info@Lnn.digital for consideration Thank you for watching See you later at 2pm❤
@MalaikaKNorway
@MalaikaKNorway Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Strong young man
@irenemutie36
@irenemutie36 Жыл бұрын
I am not feeling well but thank God I'm not sick.thank you Lynn see you♥️
@irenemutie36
@irenemutie36 Жыл бұрын
I am not feeling well but thank God I'm not sick.thank you Lynn see you♥️
@Mueni_fun001.
@Mueni_fun001. Жыл бұрын
Tutafutie follow up ya Abraham's..hawaonekani
@nkosivilekhumalo298
@nkosivilekhumalo298 Жыл бұрын
Hello Lynn please try to use English more I end up not enjoying the story of this boy 's mother because am a Zimbabwean based in South Africa but am your fan and I love you
@MalaikaKNorway
@MalaikaKNorway Жыл бұрын
My son i love you💜
@lilianlutomiah7332
@lilianlutomiah7332 Жыл бұрын
He is very handsome
@lisaedwards7638
@lisaedwards7638 Жыл бұрын
Good job mama you are indeed an example of there is a living God wishing you and your son all the best and may God glory keep manifesting in your lives
@jobent6117
@jobent6117 Жыл бұрын
Good job mama. In the midst of all the bad things you have raised a very strong man. May God keep both of you strong
@phoebekinyua4292
@phoebekinyua4292 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations waoooh. You have a wise young man
@mercywambui2400
@mercywambui2400 Жыл бұрын
You did a good job nimekupenda saana ...those who have gone through rape please learn something from this girl...... the boy is intelligent weuwe. Am following for the next episode please tell us how we can come to Norway too
@annekagiri4303
@annekagiri4303 Жыл бұрын
Thanks David, and Lynn For this show. David is speaking on behalf of a thousand others who grew up without knowing who their birth fathers are. Caution however, there needs to be a way to filter the many "relatives" who will come out because Kimani has a bright future, and many "Georges" will want to be in that future.. all blessings to baby boy. He has a Father in heaven..
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Жыл бұрын
I doubt that many Georges would want to come out as rapists but with this world we never know.
@abitu47
@abitu47 Жыл бұрын
I’m sure he’s intelligent enough to make sure a DNA 🧬 is done ✅ for all those wannabe George’s 🤣🤣🤣
@harrietkamau6710
@harrietkamau6710 Жыл бұрын
For me I would encourage him to appreciate his space and the loving caring and successful mother unlike many and yes he has an earthly father whoever he is wherever he is.
@evalynkemumamagoma2856
@evalynkemumamagoma2856 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Zazezoo
@Zazezoo Жыл бұрын
@@harrietkamau6710 agree, as a single mum I’m not sure how I’d feel if my son insisted on finding his father/ extended family. Considering what the dad did. He knows very well the mum was raped and to put her through this! Just comes to show some people will always want more. My dad did my mum wrong, she passed away but why should I be concerned about him? We should be content with what we have, knowing an extended family doesn’t mean anything and won’t add any value to his life. He might even get more hurt to find out he’s in prison or a big criminal from a bad family. But might turn out ok if he’s only looking for his family
@marymutyaba6182
@marymutyaba6182 Жыл бұрын
He is such a young strong intelligent boy just as the mum, I hope he finds his family🙏🏾 Much love from Uganda.
@nambozosharon722
@nambozosharon722 Жыл бұрын
Here we represent kla
@DaphneMary-yo7ce
@DaphneMary-yo7ce Жыл бұрын
Kabisaa 🙌
@beatricemurage9903
@beatricemurage9903 Жыл бұрын
My mum got married when i was young but she died i never knew who was my dad and my mum's side also i vowed not to look for them coz they didn't look for me i never know who my real family is but all i know is that a family is not based on blood anymore but a love and connection
@magdalenewambui5387
@magdalenewambui5387 Жыл бұрын
He is so calm and has a nice voice 😻
@ruthkimani2605
@ruthkimani2605 Жыл бұрын
He doesn't have accent ya mama iko kwa damu
@Zazezoo
@Zazezoo Жыл бұрын
@@ruthkimani2605eVoice and accent are not the same thing 😅mum obviously wasn’t well educated in Kenya. She didn’t get to learn English in Kenya, so not sure what damu you are on about . We are not English, so not brought up speaking English. The dad probably doesn’t even know English . Many Kenyans have this guys accent
@Kinyatiwanjiku
@Kinyatiwanjiku Жыл бұрын
I now understand why God fought for this guy the many times the mother was tempted to get rid of him. God knew that someday Malaika would give this as a testimony on how she survived all this. Generally what I learn is that even when parents divorce let no parent prevent kids from getting along with the other parent cause at the end of the day the kids will come to question. Not unless it is such a scene like Malaikas …the rest parents should try letting the kids have access to both kids. Trying to picture the thoughts he has had about who the father is how he looks like it is just a lot ….Thank you Malaika for understanding your son and coming out to help him get his answers. Lynn and your team keep doing what you do best❤
@janewambui4090
@janewambui4090 Жыл бұрын
Though sometimes mums prevent their kids from emotional hurt from rejection.
@ndindachristine3771
@ndindachristine3771 Жыл бұрын
The way Lynn is making this young man comfortable is on another level ❤
@janek6843
@janek6843 Жыл бұрын
Lynn and her skill of interaction with all generation is on an another level
@emillypesanai9855
@emillypesanai9855 10 ай бұрын
im humbled by lynn.
@nancynjeri1464
@nancynjeri1464 Жыл бұрын
The journey of a mother never stops.. ❤
@Britken2013
@Britken2013 Жыл бұрын
Oh you're my name sake 😊
@jaynenjenga3718
@jaynenjenga3718 Жыл бұрын
Soo true
@cynthiarichards9113
@cynthiarichards9113 Жыл бұрын
Say it again my Sister; it never ends.
@wisdomlife
@wisdomlife Жыл бұрын
This young man's destiny is in the hands of God! It is great
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen🙏🙏
@HardlyTalk
@HardlyTalk Жыл бұрын
This must have been a hard interview to do because of the magnitude of the issue that led to the creation of this family. Lynn you handled it s well and at no point did you let your biases, personal opinions affect this story. You handled it with the delicateness it deserved and held space for these two people. I applaud the mom because despite all that happened to her and her having a. Million reasons to hate life and a child born out of something as ruthless as rape she chose life for herself and her son. They are not just surviving they are thriving wholistically and that is what being alive is. I also love that she has managed to move past her hurt and extended understanding to her son for him wanting to know his roots despite how difficult that must be. We don't see that often, we are taught to patronize our kids for daring to ask about the absent parents. We deem it as ungrateful with zero regards for the battles that child deals with when it comes to identity. Finally big up to this young man, he solid, straight up. He is clear about why he wants to know the father, honest about what he feels, genuine that he doesn't know what to feel about his dad(which is a huge burden to bear because how do you reconcile a rapist with him being your dad) , it's a tricky, sticky situation. But I am glad so glad that he knows what he is after, meeting the extended family not necessarily bonding with his father. That right there is called boundaries and self awareness. I hope the good Lord at his own time makes it all happen for them and may he keep covering this family because they are an indicator of the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living despite trials and tribulations that threaten to end us. Good job team LNN
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏🙏
@champobwalya3514
@champobwalya3514 Жыл бұрын
The wisdom he carries is too much for his age,i wish he meets his dad so he can get closure and gets to build a relationship with his paternal side of family 🤗
@daisyachiro6779
@daisyachiro6779 Жыл бұрын
Personally, I would not want to meet the man who raped my mother and had a kid with her. I would forgive him but would not meet him so I give this young man credit for being so bold and forgiving and wanting to meet his father.
@marynjokimirie4753
@marynjokimirie4753 Жыл бұрын
Probably you know your das & his family side. He wants Closure.
@neatsniper
@neatsniper Жыл бұрын
Daisy Achiro, hata mimi singependa kumjua. Aiih. I'm still trying to understand why he wants to associate with such a man!! Anyway people are different!
@The_Clinic
@The_Clinic Жыл бұрын
@@marynjokimirie4753 meeting him may not give closure. It will be a journey to the unknown
@janekopp4491
@janekopp4491 Жыл бұрын
Staki kujua Mtu. Alifanya My own Mami that. Mama ako amekufanyia enough you dont need your father who never buy you anything no. No. Mama yako. Amestrangled With you too much. Iyo extended Familie. You will regret to Meetings them. Afadhali kaa na big Familie ya your's Mamis. Thy knews you are in Europ. 🤭
@raya_wan
@raya_wan Жыл бұрын
I am also very confused about why he would want to forge a relationship with a rapist.
@flourishing5168
@flourishing5168 Жыл бұрын
Some of us (single mums)were/are so angry and bitter, with the fathers of children who were Got, through sexual consent on both sides ..even in relationships that never worked.. this should make us to think about forgiveness and letting the Children know their fathers..
@annakagima8534
@annakagima8534 Жыл бұрын
Flourishing some fathers don’t want anything to do with their children
@mercykkjonny1540
@mercykkjonny1540 Жыл бұрын
totally agree
@marthawambui8372
@marthawambui8372 Жыл бұрын
Every boys wants to identify with a male dad at some age. Esoecially during teen age. Si be careful how to haddle
@Zazezoo
@Zazezoo Жыл бұрын
As long as the dad isn’t toxic and will Mess up Your child’s mental health!
@ethanbrian2022
@ethanbrian2022 Жыл бұрын
*In psychology it is called "Vindictive Mother Syndrome or Malicious mother synddrome.Other scientific terms you can google are Parental Alienation program.*
@omondiantony1207
@omondiantony1207 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely wish he can meet his dad and his dad's family for closure and also for that sense of belonging because it is important. I believe he is doing this for the boy within him.
@sonyia7521
@sonyia7521 Жыл бұрын
Now you see, many tribes accuse kikuyus of not wanting anything to do with baby daddy but that's no true. I am a kiuk and here is the thing, most of us love our kids very much and want to protect them with our lives if need be. If the father is willing, and as long as the kid is not endangered, it's very important for a kid to know their dad. And then even us know every kid carry the father's blood and the man gives seed so the kids will naturally want to know the father, so you can't burn bridges.
@ednahchirchir1924
@ednahchirchir1924 Жыл бұрын
True. Just knowing who he is, is enough
@rosemaingi2982
@rosemaingi2982 Жыл бұрын
He's a great young man who only wants to know his Dad for his identity. Otherwise mother and son are great people.
@Zazezoo
@Zazezoo Жыл бұрын
@@sonyia7521you are the one that brought the topic up. Nobody mentioned Kikuyus here. then again, perhaps it’s a thing in your community and good to raise it up! I respect women who protect their kids.
@Linda_Risi
@Linda_Risi Жыл бұрын
"...There is nothing wrong with being black. " 🖤 David Kimani.
@agneswairimu412
@agneswairimu412 Жыл бұрын
I'm turning 45 next month and still hoping to meet my dad or step siblings somehow.... Despite the fact that this story is sad and unfortunate, there's always that void in anyone who was raised by one parent.
@DavTec1
@DavTec1 Жыл бұрын
I also wish I will meet mine one day. My mum ist still silent about this .. , all my aunts are silent.. I was born in Kenya, but mum also met a mzungu who took us to Austria, so I've been out of Kenya since my teen years!!! I'll be 40 in few years! I thought I was too old to have no dad. I started searching him, but it's too hard coz I'm not living there . I just hope one day, we will meet !!!! Let's hope for the best !!!
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
All the very best🙏🙏
@scolasticalusiga1691
@scolasticalusiga1691 Жыл бұрын
we r in the same journey
@puritykibaara7808
@puritykibaara7808 Жыл бұрын
Agnes wairimu... Am also turning 45 yrs and want to meet my other family... Tutafutane .. tutafute Hawa watu.. by 🔥
@scolasticalusiga1691
@scolasticalusiga1691 Жыл бұрын
God u r so Great I didn't know that we're so many with the same problem may you God help us through even if I was told u were death seeing your grave will make me strong woman
@juliatheuri574
@juliatheuri574 Жыл бұрын
What a story! Very intelligent and well composed young man. All I pray for is that he gets to meet his father and introduce him to his extended family. As Christians we like to hope and pray that he realized his bad behavior and repented. Hopefully he is transformed. Malaika you have a golden heart and that is why the Lord has blessed you. You have exemplified to your son what forgiveness looks like. May the Lord continue blessing you and I can’t wait to listen to you at Inspire Global LNN. Good job Lynn as usual👍🙏🏿
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Жыл бұрын
Not bad behavior but a serious crime that warrants a jail sentence.
@janebeardsley7035
@janebeardsley7035 Жыл бұрын
As much as we forgive as Christians hope he served some time in jail as Karen Gakii has mentioned
@SharonWaBarakaVlogs
@SharonWaBarakaVlogs Жыл бұрын
Identity is everything to a child. It doesn’t matter what happened to the parents a child is always innocent. May he find the closure he’s seeking
@dorothyoyieko5597
@dorothyoyieko5597 Жыл бұрын
My daughter let Almighty God protect you.and work hard mama in school and found yourself somewhere I know your dad atakutafuta one day since aliniruka na mimba 💔💔💔💔
@ednahchirchir1924
@ednahchirchir1924 Жыл бұрын
You are a calm,good mannered and responsible boy irregardless of situations you went through. Better than some kids brought up in stable families with both parents
@irenemutie36
@irenemutie36 Жыл бұрын
You better not bro,since I meet my father I'm full of regret but thank God I got to known I have a loving n caring stepmom
@annnkaku8788
@annnkaku8788 Жыл бұрын
The father should just come out and allow the child peace....he is lucky he was never said to be dead....you know an easy way to escape the ordeal!....I applaud Malaika❤❤. Huyu baba ajitokeze tu.😢
@shikuliz4134
@shikuliz4134 Жыл бұрын
How did malaika knew the guy name.because it was at night and it was dark
@annnkaku8788
@annnkaku8788 Жыл бұрын
I didn't hear her mention the guys name....I don't think she actually did.
@Jennysbraids
@Jennysbraids Жыл бұрын
​@ANN NKAKU the son mentioned that his mom told him.
@annnkaku8788
@annnkaku8788 Жыл бұрын
@ Jenny Braids...correct. I hadn't heard the son. Now🤔🤔🤔
@estherwambui4368
@estherwambui4368 Жыл бұрын
Quite true...a kisii man in Kasarani years 1998 ish...called George....somebody.Wa kisii wa Kasarani blood is baying for you now.kazi kwenyu...
@gladwellgichuki8329
@gladwellgichuki8329 Жыл бұрын
This boy got everything, intelligent, tall black and handsome,nice voice etc..keep going boy👏👏May one day God fulfill all your heart's desire 🙏
@jjkui4535
@jjkui4535 Жыл бұрын
Lynn you are a WORLD TREASURE. I genuinely applaud Malaika & her son. God is watching
@lindaonyango6093
@lindaonyango6093 Жыл бұрын
I wish I even had a glimpse of how my dad looked like, or even where he is from, or even whether he is dead or still alive. That thing kills slowly.
@adonai7187
@adonai7187 Жыл бұрын
Sorry
@martharinebiseko1457
@martharinebiseko1457 Жыл бұрын
Oh...hugs
@marynduku8422
@marynduku8422 Жыл бұрын
May God who doesn't fail and who makes impossible possible make it happen for you in Jesus' name
@odrynambuga2705
@odrynambuga2705 Жыл бұрын
It does 😢
@abenakesewah7604
@abenakesewah7604 Жыл бұрын
It soo true. I can relate.
@annewaweru2794
@annewaweru2794 Жыл бұрын
I love this kid energy, I’m just encouraging you that I’m 45 years I’m still searching my father till today, I kept asking ma mom who was my dad , she never gave me the answer and I remember ma mom getting mad at me for asking her that question Growing up As Only child Was not easy I totally understand you in all ways My mom died few years ago after I invited her to America and still she never provided me enough answers ; I pray for you to be a better person prosper and work hard nothing comes easy .
@damarlswanjlru6935
@damarlswanjlru6935 Жыл бұрын
😢😢sorry
@annewaweru2794
@annewaweru2794 Жыл бұрын
@@damarlswanjlru6935 ☺️
@jedidahakinyi9681
@jedidahakinyi9681 Жыл бұрын
In this very same boat. I once tried to ask but she got really upset so I let it be. A relative informed me that he's alive and known, but to just let it be. My mum is still here, thankfully.
@ethanbrian2022
@ethanbrian2022 Жыл бұрын
Give your aunties $100 they will tell you..
@faithakinyi6015
@faithakinyi6015 Жыл бұрын
Our boy is finally here,,,,oh my!
@norahmutisya1615
@norahmutisya1615 Жыл бұрын
My prayer may that evil spirit from your father never to affect your generation....it will end with your father... you're Blessed beyond measure 👌 your level of forgiveness king David and Mum is on higher level...this commands God's favor...coz GOD loves those who forgive.... All the best as you find closure
@bellaolum9768
@bellaolum9768 Жыл бұрын
This is awesome, great to meet Malaika's son, I do hope he'll one day meet his dad. She really struggled with the pregnancy and her newborn son. But see what God has done in both their lives, what a Mighty God we serve ❤❤
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Hello Bella❤❤
@bellaolum9768
@bellaolum9768 Жыл бұрын
@@LynnNgugi hey Lynn 😘
@rosettelillehei7730
@rosettelillehei7730 Жыл бұрын
In western it's really hard to live without a father. There's a day call father's day and on that father's day every kids makes a gift for their dad at school. I had my first son when I was 16 by the teacher in school. I wanted to raise my without that part of piece. By God's grace we came to Canada when he was 2 years old. In school every year on father's day the all month of May, my son use to come home very sad because he doesn't have a dad to give the gift. My son took canceling and I had to look for his dad with a help of my sister. I found his dad when he was 10 years old.
@adventuresofmarie
@adventuresofmarie Жыл бұрын
As a product of rape myself, I feel so much respect for this young man. He is very intelligent, handsome and an amazing man. His love for family is just awesome. May God fulfil His heart desires and if not may Jehova give him peace and continue guiding him to be the man God has called him to be. True testimony of what was sent to destroy you, God has turned it for your good.
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Love and light Marie❤❤
@amandamjali4289
@amandamjali4289 Жыл бұрын
You are Gods child my love. I love you
@martharinebiseko1457
@martharinebiseko1457 Жыл бұрын
Hugs Sweetie
@jaquellyneazangu7037
@jaquellyneazangu7037 Жыл бұрын
Hugs, but GOD doesn't see you that way🤗
@Britken2013
@Britken2013 Жыл бұрын
May the Lord fill the gap if you don't ever find your dad or his extended family. Our God is the Father to fatherless and husband to widows. I wish you all the best this life can give 🙏 🙏
@mercykkjonny1540
@mercykkjonny1540 Жыл бұрын
inshallah the outcome will be amazing i wish him well
@shikohmarie3902
@shikohmarie3902 Жыл бұрын
Have been raised by mum and lived with my mum's family side...it was and is okay...But the first day I set foot in my father's compound when I was 28 I felt a fullfillment and a sense of belonging I had never felt....I understand David 💯
@marymusirika5173
@marymusirika5173 Жыл бұрын
I have a lot of respect for young David. No anger, no resentment!
@simonmugo8006
@simonmugo8006 Жыл бұрын
This is great, but let advice David to continue with his life and time is coming to take care of his mum, love the conversation 💝.
@shontyzbrezzy
@shontyzbrezzy Жыл бұрын
Been looking forward to this part, he’s so humble and so blessed to have a mother like his
@jeddymoon3803
@jeddymoon3803 Жыл бұрын
Can't wait to hear this young man's part of the journey. The mom took us through a roller-coaster of emotions..
@Kasweetie_254
@Kasweetie_254 Жыл бұрын
Longtime dear , nice to see you here 😘
@jeddymoon3803
@jeddymoon3803 Жыл бұрын
@@Kasweetie_254 Naona pia wewe uliset ⏰️
@Kasweetie_254
@Kasweetie_254 Жыл бұрын
@@jeddymoon3803 kabisaaa🤣💯💯
@bheibhei5817
@bheibhei5817 Жыл бұрын
Every child is a blessing,God has good plans for each off us praise Jesus
@julietcute5306
@julietcute5306 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢 I have recall the painful part of my life... instead of meeting my dad for the first time...I was welcomed home with grave😢😢😢😢😢the old one matter 😢😢😢😢how I wish I could just see his handsome face once😢. Love you Dad
@marygoretti3342
@marygoretti3342 Жыл бұрын
This young man is an angel to his mom.and he's destined for greatness...Obama in making God light his ways it's my prayer 🙏
@elizabethwaweru1025
@elizabethwaweru1025 Жыл бұрын
The young man is super amazing & destined for greatness. The mother has done a wonderful job & is so blessed to have healed to the point of facilitating his son to her her abuser. I am so ready for the day my son would ask to know his father. Never thought not having a dad can be such a lonely journey.
@tamashaism
@tamashaism Жыл бұрын
I see forgiveness at its most ..Malaika and her son are a good example of how forgiveness looks like..❤ I pray that they will find the answer they are looking for, but even if they don't! to always remember that they have a father in heaven who fills voids and mends broken hearts 🙏
@nakurusportschannel4211
@nakurusportschannel4211 Жыл бұрын
A very complicated situation for the young man.The father may choose either ways for fear of exposing his dark past to his family if he has one.He won't like them to know he raped and the product of his behaviour is now looking for him.I pray it works out well for Kimani.
@ritahatieno2573
@ritahatieno2573 Жыл бұрын
❤ I was raised by my aunts and grandma without knowing my dad because Mum didn't want to tell me about him, but when I reached 16 my grandma told me about him and I traced the home but he had already died. But I found some inner peace ❤❤❤
@liliannyapolo8850
@liliannyapolo8850 Жыл бұрын
Some of us are out here we don't know our fathers, never met them but just have a name on the birth certificate mum died without saying anything in regard to the matter where do you begin locating him; sometimes I wish there could be an organisation specifically for such cases to link people to their unknown family members
@cathrinewanjiru5648
@cathrinewanjiru5648 Жыл бұрын
This is my case too but i don't have his name...she told me to say..."nilizaliwa home"..so i only got her names
@patriciachakawatah2787
@patriciachakawatah2787 Жыл бұрын
Huge respect for this young man and the mother ❤
@marychochutv
@marychochutv Жыл бұрын
You have handle this gentleman very well Lyn may God fulfil his heart's desires❤
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤❤
@starsfelly6975
@starsfelly6975 Жыл бұрын
such an intelligent young man,may God grant him his wish.
@mercykkjonny1540
@mercykkjonny1540 Жыл бұрын
Amen Amen
@wanjirosamuels3657
@wanjirosamuels3657 Жыл бұрын
You cannot shame the 'shameless' this family has dealt with their emotions and are ready to know their truth. Hurtful as it may , I pray this young man David finds closure
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Hey Sis❤❤
@collettumbo8972
@collettumbo8972 Жыл бұрын
🌹🌹🌹🌹 to the mother. This is quite traumatising may the favour of lord locate this boy.
@fiderismwendemwende5586
@fiderismwendemwende5586 Жыл бұрын
I feel for the boy haki, mayone day meet his father, even if he did what he did to her mother,,
@ewm9356
@ewm9356 Жыл бұрын
I am 32 and still waiting for a suprise from my mom. It is true there is always that void when you know someone is your father and you don't know them. I am quite different from my siblings from my step father and that gives me even the urge to have someone to compare my looks with. For me it's more of closure. Even if I saw him from a far I would be really happy.
@favouriteuhuru465
@favouriteuhuru465 Жыл бұрын
I can imagine what that feels like. I had a honest conversation with my mum about the story surrounding her and my dad for the first time in 2019 when I was 29 years old. I'm 33 now and hoping to contact a DNA test with the supposed to be father because he doesn't seem to be sure that he is my dad. I'm having mixed feelings about having to do the DNA text but I still want to do it to have a closer and just end this once and for all. Though I don't know I will do if it turns out the current person I know as my father is not. I got introduced to him and his family since I was 10years but though we have tried to bond looking back I have realized there were alot of gaps that show that this family is not sure that I belong to them so I just want to do the DNA for clarity. Mind you I have decided to keep the DNA thing away from my mom because she would not agree to it. I just want to do it for myself.
@vivaciousviv2984
@vivaciousviv2984 Жыл бұрын
Malaika was abused with a lunatic at night, this could've been a habit....and definable not remember the victims faces at all. May David find his own closure .❤
@Sophie-qe8yp
@Sophie-qe8yp Жыл бұрын
No bad intention but I feel like this guy should let it go somethings are meant to be a past for us
@georgeadongo9830
@georgeadongo9830 Жыл бұрын
It happened the way it was, the father can just step in and own up to his decisions and say something about it. The young man is so brave
@jobent6117
@jobent6117 Жыл бұрын
Lynn, you are an incredible lady. Born for this. Good job
@keziahwanjiru3480
@keziahwanjiru3480 Жыл бұрын
May our Superior One grant David his heart's desire.
@glslatifahnsubuga51
@glslatifahnsubuga51 Жыл бұрын
Good morning team LNN i just wish the best to this young man
@diannemwanje3733
@diannemwanje3733 Жыл бұрын
I can only say well done mum David for raising an amazing boy despite the circumstances❤❤❤!
@simplymum9860
@simplymum9860 Жыл бұрын
All the best David! You are such an incredible young man and your star is gonna shine so bright that it will illuminate all your extended family for you. Thanks for sharing your story as it’s gonna bless and bring healing and peace to so many people. Lots of love son❤❤❤
@favouriteuhuru465
@favouriteuhuru465 Жыл бұрын
I thought I be the first here but I didn't know how many people were eagerly waiting. I have stayed awake till 3am now just to wait for this video. Let me first watch. I can relate with this young boy because I remember not knowing about my dad until I was like 10years old, the curiosity of finding about my father was so intense and I remember being beaten several times by grandmother because of asking about the details of my father. Thankfully for me I got to find out him at 10years old though even at 33years now we are still trying to build the relationship with my father. I pray and wish for him that he finds out about his paternal family and gets to meet them. It's the most fulfilling thing for anyone to know where they come from. It gives a sense of belonging which I believe this young man is looking for. Kudos young boy. My prayers are with you
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi Жыл бұрын
Our clan is big dear❤❤
@annakagima8534
@annakagima8534 Жыл бұрын
I like the relationship between David and his Mum
@talkszaniculinarykitchen
@talkszaniculinarykitchen Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lynn for handling this sensitive interview with such grace and motherly touch❤
@kyokushabashine7193
@kyokushabashine7193 Жыл бұрын
Well done mum Malaika. I admire her strength,resilience
@wmusinya97
@wmusinya97 Жыл бұрын
All the best to the young man, may he find the peace that he wants Good morning LNN family 👋
@nalukengejosephine-se6cx
@nalukengejosephine-se6cx Жыл бұрын
May God continue blessing these two amazing souls they have gone thru alot . Much love from uganda
@jeddymoon3803
@jeddymoon3803 Жыл бұрын
WOW he is so handsome😊 and I love his voice..
@aminawebo5530
@aminawebo5530 Жыл бұрын
For me , i think mama stevo, anafaa afatiliwe, she know everything
@RuthKisiayo
@RuthKisiayo Жыл бұрын
True
@mukamimaina1181
@mukamimaina1181 Жыл бұрын
Sure
@fridahjose2445
@fridahjose2445 Жыл бұрын
Am so proud of this story..mum and son..you going far..God has brought you this far...I love your understanding ❤..you really got strong hearts..May all people learn to take things positively as you have..
@puritymuroba3127
@puritymuroba3127 Жыл бұрын
My mum also refused to tell me who my dad is despite her telling my 3 elder siblings their dad,she refused to tell me and my 3younger siblings our dad. Also she gave me out when I was still a baby to my grandma.i was brought up by my grandma. My mum is very toxic,I find it hard connecting with her. What irritates me alot is when i make any progress in life,she accredites it to her praying for me and tells me"don't brag you have made it,its because of my prayers"
@marjoriemuchena6031
@marjoriemuchena6031 Жыл бұрын
So humble and very focused boy, I hope God will grant him the desire of his heart.
@joselinekanana3363
@joselinekanana3363 Жыл бұрын
Finally I was waiting for this part ,wishing this young man all the best ,may he find peace🙌❤️
@christinebedad7651
@christinebedad7651 Жыл бұрын
It is my sincere prayer that this young man David, in the case that he does not find his father, that God will give him so much peace to go on with his life. And that the same peace of God will guide him throughout his life. Regardless of how he was conceived .... he is such a intelligent young man and has a bright future ahead. God bless him so much.
@OLOOEVE
@OLOOEVE Жыл бұрын
I took my son to England when he was 5 and promised him that he will look for his dad when he was 18. I then took him to Kenya after tracing a cousin to the dad. Unfortunately we were 6 months late, he was deceased. Wah his half brother became hostile because he thought we were after his brother's properties inherited from the mother. My son is now 25 and doing well in the tech world. We don't need their property, we just wanted family😢
@ladyy-bug
@ladyy-bug Жыл бұрын
You would've taken him earlier
@denismigayi8513
@denismigayi8513 Жыл бұрын
You should have taken him at fourteen
@mercywambui33
@mercywambui33 Жыл бұрын
People out here acting like you knew his dad would be dead😮 You did your part..good on you and your son..
@Kasweetie_254
@Kasweetie_254 Жыл бұрын
Mapema ndo best, good morning team LNN 💕
@prisciliatebid2898
@prisciliatebid2898 Жыл бұрын
Son you are such a blessing to your mother and to the world at large. So nice,full of wisdom and love. May God's purpose for your life be fulfilled and grant you a wonderful wife.
@gracewanyaga3322
@gracewanyaga3322 Жыл бұрын
Such a strong young man with a wonderful heavy voice ❤️❤️❤️.I believe he deserve to meet his father.
@emmanuelkinyana9679
@emmanuelkinyana9679 Жыл бұрын
All the Best Bro to the search of your Dad❤. I wish he comes to the show and tell his side of story too,have time to make both you and your Mum heal from this history that all share and have certain way that has affected you. Goodluck and God bless you ❤🇷🇼
@eunicengigi
@eunicengigi Жыл бұрын
I really hope that this man will get to know his father and please show us the reunion since we are really praying about it if possible 🙏
@tripletsfoundationfpb9852
@tripletsfoundationfpb9852 Жыл бұрын
Have learnt a lot from this story and am inspired me Thank you LNN for covering such stories
@estherkevinakello1807
@estherkevinakello1807 Жыл бұрын
I wish all mums were open enough to their children about the fathers of their Children.
@lucyoyiela6718
@lucyoyiela6718 Жыл бұрын
Yes u are right but remember that other men's they refuse there childrens when they are still in the womb sasa wanaeza fanya
@babieatiti7259
@babieatiti7259 Жыл бұрын
@@lucyoyiela6718 I think she means in this case where most mom's are ashamed on how the kids were conceived like this case,most mothers would not bring themselves to talk about it.
@mimid.6675
@mimid.6675 Жыл бұрын
It would be good if David could find his father for inner peace and closure... But I fear that if he did ,they might be interested in using or exploiting him yet his mother struggled and raised him all on her own...
@abitu47
@abitu47 Жыл бұрын
How do our Fathers live knowing they have beautiful children out here that need them and they’re nowhere to be found? If only they knew what it does to us !!! We don’t want anything from these men. We just want to know our lineage for the sake of our own children 😭😭😭 @Lynn. These are some of the things I ask myself and I vowed to never have kids without them knowing their fathers. It’s a painful experience knowing you exist but you don’t know your other family.
@lucymuthoni6406
@lucymuthoni6406 Жыл бұрын
Come out dad your child is calling for you oooh,am so happy for this young man and especially the mother for bringing up this child despite what she has been through.God make a way for your child to find his dad 🙏🙏
@norinemmuka8949
@norinemmuka8949 Жыл бұрын
David you such an Intelligent kid❤ To the Mum Hugs and much Love ..❤ God enlighten your ways more!!
@kiambacarolynemakena490
@kiambacarolynemakena490 Жыл бұрын
In 2021, with my grandmother's blessings, I tried reaching out to my dad... at 30..😢. I thank God I never sunk into depression.....😢. I even went for therapy.
@johnnjuhiga-pw3xc
@johnnjuhiga-pw3xc Жыл бұрын
On my side i doesn't even now how that creature looks like... Bt one thing for sure am not searching him or want anything to do with him... mm ss nishikwe na stress sababu ya mtu hata hataki kujua nimekua wap for the last 32yrs... Shenz kabisa
@PatViona
@PatViona Жыл бұрын
He is so respectful,her mother raised her well despite the childhood traumas herself underwent.I pray he finds closure
@valentinelifestyles
@valentinelifestyles Жыл бұрын
Finally he's here😊 was eagerly waiting Thank you Lynn❤
@Kasweetie_254
@Kasweetie_254 Жыл бұрын
King David, yes you're intelligent just like your mom said, your words says so.
@jacquelinefraser5511
@jacquelinefraser5511 Жыл бұрын
I listen to his mother yesterday and I keep asking myself why did she go back to that bad lady to live .But now I see this handsome, brilliant and intelligent young man i now understood maybe she was hoping to get to know the man who did this to her ,but I trust God he find his Dad lord I pray you remove what rock he is under,father bring him to light that this young man will get closer .Love from Guyana ❤.
@Gichiritrizah_Ke
@Gichiritrizah_Ke Жыл бұрын
As a single mum I know how hard this conversation might be am also warming up to this kind of conversation with my babies and the thought of it is scary.May God's grace enable us🙏🙏🙏
@ednahchirchir1924
@ednahchirchir1924 Жыл бұрын
You must face the Dragon and deal with it bcoz sooner or later it will come up. The sooner the better so that all of you can go through counselled and get over it
@catekariuki3567
@catekariuki3567 Жыл бұрын
A photo should circulate in Kariobangi and environs, am sure he looks like his dad. Wakenya ni wazuri, they will get hold of the father....I have faith
@ireneodhiambo4131
@ireneodhiambo4131 Жыл бұрын
You have raised your son well Malaika despite all the challenges you have encountered, parenting is no small fete 🙏🏿 very inspiring
@gloshie256
@gloshie256 Жыл бұрын
May he find his father's family..He z too intelligent
@graceg1706
@graceg1706 Жыл бұрын
Waaah watu wamelala uku, team Lynn, team Malaika 🤝🤝
@Thankful-rj7ez
@Thankful-rj7ez Жыл бұрын
Lynn is really amazing at doing interviews. Wow. They way you related with him from the beginning,, awesome
@HomeKamau
@HomeKamau Жыл бұрын
This young man is very brave,I respect him and I prophecy that he will be a voice to rape cases and help them to accept themselves and forgive,to the mom I salute you keep going gal❤
@b2772
@b2772 Жыл бұрын
Very handsome young man. I can tell he has to interpret the Norwegian language to an English accent that where he is so soft-spoken.
@gladyskamau7171
@gladyskamau7171 Жыл бұрын
😢😢Waaaaa.. Kudos to this son! He is a healed from the trauma... Thanks to her Mum Malaika... A small percentage is what is remaining. Bless!!
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