My Ex Is In A Relationship But Still Contacts Me

My ex in a relationship but still contacts me is a topic that's always brought to our attention. There's dozens of reasons why. And it frustrates people even more when you're going through a breakup. Shouldn't they be happy they left and happy in their new relationship? Why are they reaching out when they're in a new relationship?
It was their decision to breakup, they should just move on right?
The answer might not be what you think.
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[@youngw1ze]

When your ex contacts you it's a test from the universe to see if you want more of the exact same misery and turmoil you ran into when you were with them....

[@opusandtarquez]

💪🏽💪🏽🦈

[@judithakukwer869]

My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸......

[@judithakukwer869]

Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸......

[@judithakukwer869]

±16515042288⏭⏭⏭⏭ Hello dear it works I can't believe my 👀 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸eyes 👀.....

[@codycarlson6963]

I don't even listen to these to hold hope anymore, moreover, its to keep NC going and supporting my boys! Great vid guys.

[@yourmajesty2765]

Facts

[@normanperry4336]

They going to call trust they always do it’s on you though to respond or keep booking

[@Rizzy_K]

In a relationship and she still contacts you? She belongs to the streets. She’s clearly unhappy with the new guy and looking for validation from you. Do not entertain her unless, if and only if she dismisses the new guy completely. Even then, stay reserved and keep your options open until you know they are truly ready to commit to you.

[@Giovanni-01]

Great comment

[@Rizzy_K]

@@Giovanni-01 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TEUTONIC__ORDER699]

Sure if you are okay with laying next to someone that banged someone else, she Will Just do it again

[@waynesalisbury]

No contact, be a ghost in the wind! Perfectly said sir💪

[@brownhornet1975]

🤣🤣🤣You guys kill me with “Tarquavion”

[@christopherrivera1880]

That happened to me with the past two relationships that I had, they got a new boo, they contacted me and I ignored them because they are not my problem and they can be someone else’s problem

[@The.Enchantersofdark]

We ended. I blocked him because he wasn't letting me heal in silence while moving on. Just ten days into his marriage and text me from another app. I believe it's more disrespectful to his wife. Than it's to me.

[@MrPatrick407]

Can’t believe bro gone , keep your head up 🙏🏽

[@jonsmith848]

Thank U Gentlemen...always need to Revisit this subject matter 👍🏼

[@yourmajesty2765]

💯💯

[@mitchellbradley24]

Best video yet! Keep growing and spreading that knowledge.

[@opusandtarquez]

Thanks for watching Mitch !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

[@kevinwebster4895]

±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

[@Giovanni-01]

But let's think logically, if she's contacting you while in a new ting, that's probably what she did to you. Why would you then take her back , bc she will more than likely do it again. You can't trust her after that, it's not possible

[@jahleelx9270]

If a woman leaves u for another man she's already proven she can't be trusted. Barring if u cheated or were abusive.

[@gtoguy7330]

Y'all don't get it. They all do that. Its in there nature to find the best man for them. Unless you make her fall deep in love with you that's what they do. Nd even then. They still mite if you fuck up long enough

[@jahleelx9270]

@@gtoguy7330 it don't really matter why they do what they do. They will always avoid accountability for the choice they made. U can't make someone leave u for someone else and then come back. Idgaf what u did. Excluding if u cheated or were abusive. That was a choice. They chose that because they wanted to. That simple. They ain't perfect either but we are expected to be?

[@ariesmoises8947]

Exactly that person is not trust worthy crazy woman I don't think a good woman would be Petty like that

[@Ello3342]

We need another live!

[@urijahfaith2961]

Coach T "He got 5 dogs?" 😂 Perfect.

[@osvaldohernandez5890]

“I miss Murphy “ hahahaha

[@Goingghost47]

That’s facts my ex trying to have a lunch date with me… I’m not trying to get setup … I turn offer down… always try to level up fellas

[@opusandtarquez]

Wow. That’s crazy. What up D!

[@Goingghost47]

@@opusandtarquez what up homies

[@johnorack25]

They come back. Mine just called again... "I'm not feeling ok, and you're the person whos known for 8 years. I have a modeling event and I'm feeling down, I don't know what to do... I feel as though nobody is there for me. I've called people but they're all sleeping and I don't wanna talk to my mom or any of my family; I feel lonely" (That's like a summary) She broke up with me 2 months ago and I just gave her some advice and said byee. Two days ago she fought me over the phone, though. This woman is coming back, and I don't like that. I'm strong now, I'm more attractive, I'm doing a bunch of shit and now she is trying to sneak her way in. I miss parts of her, but not the relationship. Be strong kings! Day 37 of not pursuing her( or so, I'm not really counting 🤣🤣)

[@mutariadamu7278]

±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

[@anthonyr7208]

When they contact you, Ignore them.....that simple

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

I have very clear standards now and will not compromise. I kick myself for not doing this years ago but it is what it is and I’m just happy that I have them now. There’s nothing I can do about the past except for learn from it and be the best I can be today

[@kuy9314]

I had a thing going with a Co-worker I used to hang out 3/4 days a week for 2 months. Untill she shifted her energy and acted more cold and distant so I immediatly shifted mine as well and stood my ground went no contact. It took 2 weeks for her to reach out with : heyy I heard you was looking for your aux cable but I don’t have it I am not responding to this bullshit. NO FREE VALIDATION . 💯

[@irajessicalagua2460]

My Gosh ex texts every single day for 4 mos. She went from saying i miss you to i love you to seeing me then a month and a half ago, she said she feels nothing for me. I still told her I have very strong feelingsfor her. Responded, with a THANK YOU. BUT still messages me everyday like nothing happened. I would always respond casually. I felt I was used for emotional and financial support. When I finally asked her is she with someone else because I was clear I am not going to stay for that. She said yes she is with someone else. I immediately told her I am not here to accept friendship. I still love her but clearly she isn't interested. I told her Let's not talk anymore and should live separate lives. I am done because I felt used. She left out the part being with someone else everyday when she talks to me. I wouldn't know until I asked. I blocked her now. I don't want her to have the incentive of knowing I AM ALWAYS THERE. I am so done. I deserve better. Beware guys. Know your worth.

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

I don’t think I want anyone who doesn’t want me… Like who has rejected me. What pisses me off is I had all of the power and control in a healthy way in the beginning like I was healthy she wanted me etc. etc. but then at some point and I remember specifically the incident I let her get under my skin and the entire power dynamic changed and she became super abusive and I became a Puss. She’s turned into a passive aggressive covert malignant narcissist. I’m trying desperately to regain myself I’ve completely lost myself

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

This time I’m not settling. I have a no my standards clearly and I’m sticking to them come hell or Highwater

[@blender176]

What if they are happy with the new person but are still in love with you and hesitant to get back with you because of certain habits that I was displaying yet still want to see where this new thing goes. Mind you they've been together since December of last year.

[@cbcarlson5008cc]

Haha awesome vid brother, to all out there... Focus on yourself Make your purpose #1 Look good clean up your act Show no emotions to them don't be emotional. Be an adult don't get angry. F@cking be a man. Find a goal and focus on it it keeps your mind off them. Mine are my kids . Definitely listen to these brothers they are straight up on point , f@cking stay thirsty sharks 🦈

[@opusandtarquez]

Like always Cory, Thank You !!! 🙏🏽 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

[@nonenone6884]

He had more money than me. That's it

[@whiteranger79]

What if they are single but reaching out to both you and the rebound? The rebound made them a side chick?

[@joecshow]

What about when the get engaged to a guy they have known 2.5 weeks. Broke up with you the day they met them after 3.5 years with her 3 kids involved from her previous marriage. Now less then 3 months later they are getting married next week. She still contacts me daily…. I’m so hurt and confused….

[@joecshow]

@@charityaneke239 she’s getting married tomorrow

[@ariesmoises8947]

Ex contact me little before Thanksgiving , after 3 years that we broke up but she's with someone I think is like a insurance to them . Block her ass from messenger .

[@opusandtarquez]

Let them go and keep walking

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

Man, why would we even want her back if she left us? If we’re being honest with ourselves why the hell would we want her, especially if she’s been with another dude… Hell no. She’s gonna have to earn that shit

[@alliecat6342]

I blocked my ex bf because I’m sick of him reaching out when he’s in a rebound with a nasty chic he met at the bar and she has oral herpes. He disgusts me.

[@akwasiadjei9606]

After NC almost 5months; she txt me about the food I used to do for her… she misses me but she wants me to lift the tension, she has to come again…. Her birthday is coming and she ain’t getting any msg or anything from me.

[@dgvdc1042]

±2349056214114⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up...

[@inserter400]

What if you have met another woman and its all going well , should you let go of what you got with the new one to go back to the one you were in love with ?

[@jahleelx9270]

Hell no

[@emilyacoxpsychic]

I have to learn to find myself all over again after this bullshit break up and abuse. Like I said, she was not like this at first although there were definitely some traits but it went into a full-blown disorder like sociopath Ology. All I can think about is in the beginning and if I had been man enough this never would’ve happened. I was born a hermaphrodite by the way both full female and male organs

[@4yajustblazin]

Sharks don't/can't swim backwards. I'm a shark

[@opusandtarquez]

We’ll said !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

[@heatherperry1052]

Tarquavion lol 😂

[@elitouchine7552]

So I been with my ex for 4 years and she broke up with me because I was abusive physically and emotionally and she couldn't take that no more so she called the cops and I went to jail for over a year I'm out now and I've been out for 7 months and I've been doing good but she hits me up once in awhile and one time she hit me up last month and saying that she wants to be with me and when I hit her up saying I could pick her up she just ghosted me again but now I seen her today at night while her boyfriend is at work but right now she is pregnant with his child but she didn't want to be pregnant with him so right now their going thru it but anyways last night we had a blast she even told me she was really happy to see me and I told her I was happy to see her too and after we were done eating I took her back to her place so she can sleep but when we came back we chilled in the car for an hour and we were just talking and she started kissing me and I kissed her and we we're holding hands and talking about our memories and having fun and just laughing and smiling and after she told me she loves me and went inside but that's what's going on in my situation so what do you guys think I asked my friends and they say she's gonna come back to me regardless after their relationship has run its course and I know it's going to run its course so what do you guys think thanks great video btw 🤙👍

[@youngw1ze]

Move on bro...she'll continue to straddle both until she can't then she'll stay with him because it's the easier option...

[@elitouchine7552]

@@youngw1ze I would but I need her cuz I'm going thru alot rn and she cares for me but what I'm going thru is I wanna die cuz my life is shit literally my mom said that I'm a bad person, she wished I wasn't born, wished I was still in jail, calls me a drug user and she's right. I take blues the fake oxys it's mostly fentanyl and it's mixed with other stuff that I don't know about, but the reason why I take it is cuz to take away the pain and to kill myself cuz I think it's the best way to go out, and to make things even worse the cops are looking for me and the car that I'm in cuz they pulled up to my mom's house on Monday saying they're looking for the car and they need to check the VIN number and they're going to let the car go, but I think they're lying I think they're going to tow it so I don't know what to believe, but for damn sure I'm not going to prison / jail I'll kill myself before I go back. So I'm going through all this right now and she's here my ex and the reason why is cuz she don't want me to die and I told her already I will not kill myself only if you spend as much time with me cuz I have nobody and when I am with you I don't feel like dying...

[@judithakukwer869]

My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸.....

[@judithakukwer869]

Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸......

[@judithakukwer869]

±16515042288⏭⏭⏭⏭ Hello dear it works I can't believe my 👀 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸eyes 👀.....

[@Surfwithjerry]

Tarquavion lol

[@daver1969]

My ex wife contacted me one day said she had a dream of us having sex we should hook up for that then month later she starts dating new dude acts distant and wierd then a week later she says she misses me and wants to have sex she says i wouldnt do this for just anyone what we have not everyone has. I think this is messed up ive been divorced for 8years now this crap my wounds were healed up now they are ripped wide open again. The way i see she wants her cake and eat it to. Cant have it both ways i feel bad gor new dude if i were here i feel guilty. She wants to keep doing this in secret while dating new guy

[@jahleelx9270]

Man idk how dudes even allow a woman to pull that on them