"My EXCLUSIVE Interview with Lexi McCollum!"

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

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[@philliswelcome7371]

I subscribed to channels that are not bias I know everyone has an opinion because I do but I don't have a social media channel. I feel like I can give my opinion I think you should be bias. (I know others don't I might look but don't subscribed. (Make it worth my subscription)🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

​@philliswelcome7371 Baby... If you do you do, and if you don't, oh well... #NoShadeLove

[@Ms.Dirty720]

this lady seems like she never wanted to be a part of the Fletcher family, why would u come on KZbin to roast your father and his family, imo, it’s not a good look, really

[@stillhealing8811]

She said I've never spent any birthdays with them and they've never attended any birthdays with me and then turned around and said that she spent a few birthdays with him.

[@asurles35]

I said the exact same thing!!!!

[@chargingdeck629]

I said the same thing. She said she never spent no birthdays with them and then 2 minutes later said I spent a couple of birthdays with them. Girl go to counseling with all that anger

[@mstoyastyling7459]

Liar can't get up

[@2BGMedia]

I’m sure in the two years that he left the family, he didn’t attend any birthday parties. I’m also sure that when his ex-wife was driving to meet him half way from TN, that he wasn’t attending birthday parties and she wasn’t spending Christmas or holidays with them. I’m also sure, when they were living with another family before they got their own, Lexi probably wasn’t there either. So, she didn’t lie. She probably spent one or two birthdays or holidays with them when she was older, but that wasn’t the norm.

[@djcobb87]

@@2BGMedia Thank You, she clearly said as she got older she basically forced it on him to spend Christmas and birthdays with him

[@user-hb9fd9ft5c]

Wow! For Lexi not to be in the Fletcher's life; she claims to know a lot about them.

[@faithwilliams7826]

Keep in mind that she may not have been perfectly prepared, but it seems like you're looking for a reason to discredit her every word and look for anything you can to bring her down. It's very sad what we have become as a people, always ready to attack one another, just what the system has already designed for our people. Let everybody tell their truth without worrying about people like you cancelling them out!

[@Perkinsfambam]

⁠@@faithwilliams7826she said one thing.. one thing that is true, that I’m sure crossed everyone’s mind… and you comment to the person they are doing everything to discredit her 😮 they said one thing… if that’s everything then it must have convinced you cause wow… you said it was the kitchen sink… so I’ll ask…who ask someone for a car that they barely know and doesn’t want or need anything from them?? How where they married only two years and you claim to know all this info about people who you barely were ever around except for a couple of these dinners and a couple of those dinners… which you obviously enjoyed because now you are very found of the woman’s cooking… anyway…

[@Itschrissytyme]

Lexi speaks like she was her mother who got cheated on by Chris 😳

[@valeriewilson3298]

Yes! She got all this from her mother ..

[@prosperpetuity7987]

And??? M&M kids will feel the same!

[@shamirahjohnson8068]

Yea I said the same thing. She sounds like her mom is speaking through her. It’s giving very much weird 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@warmspicytea4285]

Very much giving jealous bitter child...she seems devious.

[@lifestylewithchiffon]

She holding the bitterness.

[@itsmaw2126]

I PRAY for this young lady. She Really Needs To Continue With Therapy, Forgive And Heal. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@vanessabarnesmiller6015]

If this was her first invite to dinner, how was she looking forward to dinner because LerNail can cook? How does she know prior to eating LerNail's food that she can cook? Why emphasize how good LerNail's cooking is before tasting it? 💕💚💕

[@ToniaAlex13]

Good point. Sometimes it's the things that ppl don't say that I listen to.

[@1985Baby]

Then they were in a good place for 3 years but they haven’t seen her children since November 2022. It’s a lot of loose ends. I’m just observing!

[@BrownieGirrl]

Bc she did visit sometimes as a child & of course they fed her.. Just Ignorant

[@BrownieGirrl]

​@@1985BabyThey live in different states. & A good place for their relationship means being cordial and probably phone calls on the holidays. A lot of you lack comprehension skills. It's very alarming

[@1985Baby]

I comprehend very well! What you want me to do is make an assumption (a thing that is accepted as true, without proof). A lot of you lack discernment which is just as alarming if not more.@@BrownieGirrl

[@iamsamelvie]

Her attitude in this whole interview reeks of insults, jealousy and hurt. Even the way she spoke about her siblings and spilling tea on their situation. I am objective and i can tell Lexi is HURT and i can say this because i can relate to her story but i can also be objective, however when you are TRULY HEALED there are certain things you dont do or say. I can tell Nell & Chris is not perfect by far but theres more to this story than Lexi knows or is telling. She went on a show to promote her business and all now i dont know what that business is or WHO lexi is…but i do know ALOT about the Fletchers and her distain for her father and Nell. This is sad

[@Myopinionmattersthemost]

She's hurt and bitter because she wasn't treated like the in house children, she wasn't a priority

[@beverlyrobinson7873]

She is seeking attention! If I were Chris, I wouldn't kiss her behind to get along with her. She's mad DISRESPECTFUL! It sounds like she's here to bash "the Fletchers".

[@SL-kh5zl]

She is not wrong for having the feelings she has. She is entitled to feel whatever way she wants to feel about HER father not being in her life and say whatever she wants to say about it. Basically, she is saying that whatever you see on the reality show does not tell the whole story. They wanted to do a reality show, but obviously didn't know the real reality was going to be exposed.

[@Perkinsfambam]

@@Myopinionmattersthemostthe shade she was throwing was about materials while claiming not to care about materials… she then went to say the other kids have issues with their parents too so what different treatment other than the materials she talked about…tell me how does a child know what happened between her parents that were only married two years before she was born if it wasn’t from her mama who was single a long time before she remarried?? Other than the messy gossiping adults around?? The mama said Nell found out about her and fell back just like Nell said she did.. but then the mama LEFT!!! And when she came back Nell was there…. Girl you left!!! And Nell came and reaped the benefits of staying and enduring what you walked away from.. not saying it’s good or bad but it’s what happened…. The daughter is going through what kids who parents split go through…. She wanted her parents together… she probably want them together now and she is grown with kids of her own… because that’s just how kids are and how they feel… she is hurt and jealous and understandably so…since her mother encouraged her to chase after her father… and I wonder why, because that’s not good advice at all… yes encourage them to be open and respectful to a relationship, but damn sure don’t chase especially when you see it bringing damage, especially when you remarried a man the child claim is her father because he stepped up… you still wanted her around for whatever morsel she could benefit… and instead of all the trinkets it just left you with child support, which should’ve been able to go directly to the child because you say you remarried a stand up guy… and it left her with scars… and this business??? Is it the weed they be smoking?? Cause why didn’t she talk about it!!!

[@elizabethhargrove9283]

You were very direct with your questions and never interrupted....Bravo, you allowed them to just speak. 🎉🎉🎉

[@aliceevans1803]

She is lying she said she never go to dinner then in the same breath she said she went t o a couple of thanks giving

[@quianalyles5181]

This gets more and more jaw dropping by the minute! These lies are so crazy it’s ridiculous! Interview the people that know the TRUTH

[@dianesanders7067]

I thought she did not keep in touch with them but she knows all there business

[@B-Boo60]

Exactly 💯

[@MissMeChelle]

This lady said Nell and Chris have NEVER spoken badly about her mother her entire time growing up-which she respected. Then proceeds to say she has been wanting to curse out Nell her entire life. Girl why??!!!!!

[@Jinja320]

Chris admitted on the show that he didnt spend a lot of time with Lexi as a kid. Lexi SHOULD be bitter about that.

[@Shesaid_what]

Lexi's mom is so beautiful, and she looks just like her! Mom is a healed, smart, and genuine lady. I pray Lexi finds peace and closure.

[@valeriewilson3298]

Her mom cause all this hate in Lexi.

[@beutifulhaircollectionllc]

I’m only 15 mins in and so far I’m definitely getting the vibe that she is using this as a moment to throw all types of shade and bass her dad.

[@GlamandGossip]

Omg, same here🤦🏾‍♀️

[@indiareed3398]

👏🏾💕👏🏾💕love that her mother is above the bs and is grown woman who knows when ppl and situations are beneath them❤️

[@TonjaJackson-yj6by]

How do you know she’s above the BS just from one interview? We don’t know anything about this lady.

[@sweetjane7375]

​@TonjaJackson-yj6by We know you Nel 😖.

[@jihanharris8175]

How to the daughter know all the parents' business when she was only two when they got a divorce?

[@sweetjane7375]

When did she say all communication ended when they divorced?

[@sweetjane7375]

If all communications ended at the divorce, that says a lot about Chris, so he didn't fight for parental rights or he didn't pursue a relationship with his daughter?

[@kelvinhoskins4075]

The Fletchers need to run for the hills, far away from you. NOT resolve.... She went from tears to if he makes it to heaven 😂

[@arlishayork8479]

They need to run she's dangerous and bitter

[@arlishayork8479]

They need to run from her she's comes off as rude, bad attitude dangerous and bitter. She knows a lot, considering she was never around which makes me not believe everything she's saying.

[@Myopinionmattersthemost]

​@@arlishayork8479the Fletchers were nit goid parents to her and thsts why she has these adult issues.

[@dianeharris5160]

There are holes in this story

[@beverlyrobinson7873]

Lots of them

[@MarieDavis-wx2cm]

Phenomenal interview Fren. Regardless if what she was saying is fact or fiction. Fren you really made her and her mother feel very comfortable and welcoming ❤ Kudos to you Fren

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

Thank you! 😁❤️

[@ChanelNo5568]

Mom got her revenge on Chris today!😂😂😂😂😂 getting on camera giving her input and chiming in from the background to make sure all the tea get out 😂😂😂

[@celestephillips4832]

🤭🤭

[@janellen4278]

This! All while acting like she’s over it, and fine. Damage is caused when you fill your child’s head with “this is what they should do for you”. If Chris is a “bad parent”, then her Mom should have spoken to the Fletcher’s and protected her child until things changed.

[@GlamandGossip]

My thoughts exactly, she's trying to look innocent but she definitely wanted to speak on the Fletchers but trying to look like it's from a healed place, girl no you're not, bye!

[@a.p.3919]

Is she projecting her mom’s hurt from being cheated on? 🤔

[@abiyah3176]

Seems like it

[@SamsP.O.V-hd7rb]

I don’t think the mother is coming off bitter like the daughter. She told her to go to therapy. I think she needs another type of treatment.

[@nikitawashington9328]

​@@SamsP.O.V-hd7rb The mom is not bitter. She moved on but Lexi is old bitter, jealous and trying to compete with Nell... counseling is not working.

[@kimberlybates27]

At some point the mother was bitter, she exposed Lexi to information she didn't know how to process

[@prosperpetuity7987]

Same way those M&M kids will be doing in 10+ years and all of the other bitter women constantly tearing down Martell

[@clarethaperrier6034]

Why now? She sounds bitter and jealous. She's all over the place and I'm sorry I don't believe some of the things She's saying. She wants to embarrass them. Imo

[@caramelAquarius]

A lot of times the truth is embarrassing

[@4me2kno]

The fact that her mom told her this story is blowing me. As a child and a adult she should not know the ins and outs of her moms and dads relationship. Further to put the demise of their relationship on Nell IDK I'm not going for it. I think maybe he may have had a lot of women that he messed with maybe Nell was one of many maybe not maybe he met Nell after he decided to leave the marriage who knows. Lexi is carrying the hatred and hurt mean while everyone else is going on with their lives.

[@prosperpetuity7987]

@@4me2knoso what the hell do you think the M&M kids are going to be like when they get grown!! There parents were dumb enough to document all of their BS!! Word gets around regardless and that’s why you as the parent need to be responsible for what you do and know that it can affect your seed. Don’t take this out on her!! She was the child and has the right to feel how she feels!

[@naomimartin7986]

@@4me2knothe mother said Ms Nell was one of many & she didn’t disclose the ins & outs of the relationship until her daughter was an adult after multiple times of trying to bridge the relationship between them for yrs even driving for hrs so her daughter could visit with her dad.

[@4me2kno]

@naomimartin7986 you have made an assumption that I did not see the interview did not retain the information as well as was not able to comprehend the conversation. All of those are not factual. I do not think that I said in my statement anything about when the mother disclosed anything to her. My position is any adult be it her mother or any other adult that was in her life that fed her any narrative as a child or an adult about a failed relationship is wrong. My mom and dad divorced when I was young. Both remarried both were college educated and professionals. I have never heard neither of my parents aunts uncles friends on both dide say a derogatory word about the other parent. Further I remember when I asked my mom why she and my dad didn't live together and when I got old enough to understand marriage and divorced asked what happen. My mom and dad both said we were young and didnt have no business trying to be married. Do I think there may have been a lot of mess yep do I know the story no do I care no. I have 4 families I love them all my moms my dads and both of my bonus parents. For her to say she jas wanted to curse Nell from when she was a kid is an odd statement. She never said Nell abused or nothing that would make a person have that type of vitriol. Also I am a person that want to hear a whole story and Chris and Nell have not provided an entire account or their perspective. Once they state their perception I will do what I always do and pary for them all to heal. My husband has children and divorced his wife years ago. The mother of the two children raised his kids saying your daddy left us for her made a new family your daddy ain't paying child support etc. The her is not me for the record. He had to show my step children where he paid child support the entire time as well as explain all the times she refused to allow them to see him. They are grown now and one of them was telling me one day about it all. This kid shared that they couldn't rebutt the evidence of child support and was originally skeptical about the mother refusing to allow dad access until the mother when the kids were grown pitted the two children against one another and it was just a big mess and a lot of drama. Now both kids still love their mother. That's unconditional but the way in which they has set boundaries in their personal lives and relationships as it pertains to her because they never knew that she had that type selfishness in her it's pretty amazing to see. I stay out of it and simply say we can't pick our parents and live them while you got them because we all die.

[@michele462]

You did an excellent job of interviewing Lexi.❤🎉

[@nookieeaddy5653]

I don’t believe 95% of what Lexi said! If you have that much hate for the Fletchers why go on the show to entertain them 🙄

[@mrscapricornlovely8316]

I agree with you

[@lifestylewithchiffon]

To promote her business

[@BlackCaliGirl-c9e]

How is it that she had so much to say if she was never around them, make it make sense.

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

Smh, she is clearly lying because her mom said she would meet Chris half.

[@camillecantey]

My thoughts. She laid out all her siblings crap but was mad at the parents so why attack.then say her sister was Switzerland so you saw her as level headed or neutral but quick to back it up as she is this and that

[@prettyeyes8864]

IMO Lexi speaking from her experience growing up and Chris not getting her with his new family. Not having 50/50 custody and not fighting to see her. She wanted Chris more involved in her life. Like the mom said she had to drive her to see Chris not Chris coming to see her. She was Chris first kid. She wanted what he did for his other kids.

[@prettyeyes8864]

According to her mom Neil was a sidechick. Calling her home while she was married to Chris come on. Chris was a cheater that's why he cheated on Neil too.

[@PiscesH]

That’s a point

[@marietta-825]

If BITTER, ENVY, and BOTHERED was a person 🥹😳🤷🏽‍♀️

[@2BGMedia]

Meh, I didn’t get that from her. I think she only spoke out because they were playing in her face.

[@camillecantey]

Agreed

[@bettyjean-do8cy]

@marietta, Lexi and Nail have a lot of similarities when it comes to their explosive temper. Is this the SAME feedback you give to Nail? Or, is it different because you like her and thinks she a Boss?

[@marietta-825]

@@bettyjean-do8cy I think I don’t have to answer to you based on my opinion, thought, or what I feedback I would give Nell. Nell is not the interviewee

[@malindaanderson2909]

🙄. She knows a heck of alot about them to not be around them just a shady mess

[@ms.win_]

I am just confused bc if Lexi didn't spend time with them how come she knows so much about them....🤔..just wondering

[@DeShondaTheFox227]

Yeah I agree with you. I’m confused as well. You don’t know them but you know about them… 🤔🤔

[@Mz.Non-Chalant]

Nell said they were very involved in raising her.

[@Charlotte-vr7ig]

What’s confusing to me is she talks with so much dislike for them and don’t know them. Even sent the gifts back for the kids but yet she goes to film a scene for tv. For what?

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

Thank you, you can see she is lying. Nell said she was a liar.

[@damnpam4680]

@@Charlotte-vr7ig not only film telling bout a car idk what wife that’s married to someone willl be interviewing bout her ex Lexi is grown grown wirh kids right what the hell they seem to want something else no family is perfect Neil never said they were but because we want more of them now we get it why she so mad Im so confused on why the mom talking trying to say Neil was a side chick I don’t believe that shytz

[@francesm.2940]

I bet she regrets having mom on now cause mom is pretty much clearing up 15-20mins of lies. Even the look mom gave when she mentioned being in therapy since she was 14 😂. Girl have you been lying since you were 14 too?

[@Libra337]

This was a wonderful interview! I appreciate how you allowed them to speak without interruption. You made a big difference in Lexi’s processing. She just needed to be heard.

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

Thank you!

[@carmenbyrd3053]

While some of what lexi is saying may be true im struggling with quite a lot of her story

[@Myreddog]

She’s coming from what she experienced from childhood which is normal 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@rbens362]

For someone who says she doesn't really know their family, she sure has a lot to say about them.

[@margarettasturdivant1742]

She comes across as a liar 🤥 and very jealous and disrespectful and the mammy fed her the lies 🤥

[@nekiethacarmouche1943]

This is a classic case of grown folks discussing grown folks business with their children. The mom over time talked to her daughter about her & Chris relationship in grave detail. No way a 2 year old will even remember much about things that happened at that age. Adults have to stop doing this to their children.

[@robinwilson3512]

My heart goes out to her. Family will do the craziest stuff to each other, but at the end of the day, each of them should always want to protect each other's hearts.

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

Envy is one hell of a demon.

[@ericgoldberg1079]

This is a Chris Fletcher issue as he is the root problem. He’s allowed all this to happen and he should protect all his children.

[@carmenbyrd3053]

Where The mom speaks of chris spending time spent with lexi Lexi is more interested in spending chris and nells money ,,, She doesn't want a relationship with her dad she really just wants his and nell money and lifestyle

[@abiyah3176]

Yeah, that Chanel rant was ridiculous and very telling. She also didn’t mention the $20k Nell gave her, but said she’s still waiting on a car.🙄😳

[@danielledavis9876]

​@@abiyah3176How old is she? Better get a job 😂😂

[@Chyna43]

​@danielledavis9876 30's

[@carmenbyrd3053]

@@abiyah3176 talkin bout her middle name is chanel "so you know I like me some chanel" Then I suggest she grind her Asz and get her own damn labels , and stop being jealous of those who already poppin tags ,, gurl bye get a life

[@sheliabradley7467]

I agree

[@paulettefrazier5954]

The anger, hurt, and jealousy is astounding! She’s speaking as if Nell is the one and only issue! Then she clearly HATES her siblings! Great interview though.

[@reginawilliamson6622]

*I wouldn't like them MFs either!!!!* 😒

[@Realbabihairs]

How, is it, clear🙄🙄she clearly HATES her siblings… ??Where is it clear at smh🙄🙄

[@ChrisTEAna43]

I would be jealous if my dad pretended I didn’t exist

[@elainecole9673]

​@@ChrisTEAna43just cause she says it, doesn't mean it's true.

[@reginawilliamson6622]

@@ChrisTEAna43 *THANK YOU!!!!* 💜💖

[@laquonajohnson9870]

I love the way her mother presented herself. Nothing But True Class. A Mother With a Beautiful Spirit.

[@lauramcgrew5604]

She very contradicting, and love to tell everyone business but her own. Im over it.

[@QueensJahJah]

Lexi’s mom is a standup woman I respect her God Bless

[@Misisipibrwngrl]

Thank you so much Queen!

[@ChocolateTah84]

@@MisisipibrwngrlYou are a true Queen❤

[@TexasSpice1999]

No stand up woman would be doing an interview on KZbin airing family business. What’s the point

[@Misisipibrwngrl]

@@TexasSpice1999 Sorry you feel this way. Challenging to have ones business aired on national television to entertain and garner comments like yours. Unfortunately, it’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t kind of thing. Peace & Blessing to you!

[@1985Baby]

"I don't like realty TV because it's not positive" but a YT channel discussing other people not messy. Make it make sense. I see where she get it from smh@@TexasSpice1999

[@Chyna43]

I cant wait until the fletchers come out. She gonna find out EXACTLY what her mother is

[@N.Alex25]

Mom did a good job of telling her side..

[@tesatalkstv]

IMO Lexi is still hurt and she speaks from a hurt place. And bc of that I take everything she says with a grain of salt. She's bitter. In one breathe she says "I don't know these ppl" then in the next goes on to tell us about them. She said I don't have dinners with them, then proceeded to name several times she was at dinner with them. She said she don't know Chris like that and NEVER spent time with him, then goes on to contradict that. Her mom even gave examples of them spending time together. The mom talked about them being at each other's house, picking up Neills son taking them places. The girl is out to make the Fletchers look bad. Lexi said she didn't know they hated her but if she's honest with herself SHE HATES THEM as well. She said she wanted to curse Neill out since a little girl. SHE HATES THEM. I do believe Everything her mom said tho. And I don't believe she was coming from a spiteful place.

[@lexichanel09]

Hello love. I’ve NEVER spent time with Chris alone. Please listen before you comment. The little I know about them is what I shared. I don’t deny they’ve been apart of my life here and there but ultimately they were not present for most of my life. I would never say I hate them but I do understand and see now, that they didn’t care about me😕 it’s fine if you don’t believe me or care for my truth BUT the only thing I gained from this interview is peace and the only intention I had was to share who I truly am with the world and not allow the commenters to have a negative view of my mother or who I am🩷

[@Misisipibrwngrl]

Hello Teatalks Lexis mom here. It’s very tough to sum up a lifetime in an hour but this was an opportunity to share her side. You are correct, she is still very hurt but this hurt differs from the other hurts. She has spent time with them, but it was so sporadic I can probably can count the visits and occasions myself. Therapy is our friend and she’s getting it to heal and be a more healthy Lexi. I appreciate your kindness.

[@TonjaJackson-yj6by]

I saw the same thing and Raye Charles could see too!

[@DeShondaTheFox227]

I agree!

[@TruthBeTold1992]

I disagree with your assessment, but of course we are all entitled to our own opinions. If you really paid close attention to Lexi, you could tell that she actually has love for the Fletchers, and yes she is obviously hurt by them (because she has love for them), but "bitter", I don't think so. If she was bitter, she really could have said a lot worse about them than she did, imo, but she did not. I actually think she spared them. Based upon what Lexi (and her mom said), it is clear to me now why the Fletchers take it real easy on Martell and his shenanigans. Just saying.

[@camillecantey]

How can she say she doesn't know them ,then run the business of the kids..and having a business for 20 years is a long time. The interviewer was great but lexi is bitter and took this opportunity to bash

[@Beautifulme1976]

Amen

[@TeaLove607]

Exactly ! Contradictory. So if they didn't have money. Why would u expect a car smh.. she's bitter and the product of a bitter mother

[@joanvenice503]

​​@TeaLove522 Do you understand abandonment, anxiety & depression? If not STFU.

[@SamsP.O.V-hd7rb]

@TeaLove522, here is the thing, I don’t see the mother as being bitter. It’s more of the daughter. Her mother told her to get therapy.

[@bettyjean-do8cy]

You CAN be around someone for years and NOT know them. Why is this so hard for so many adults to find the compassion and understanding for Lexi’s situation, without judgement? The reality is, there are MORE Lexi’s in this world, and in this comment section, so it’s mind blowing the lack of concern and compassion she has received. It’s no wonder why so many young Black girls and women are ANGRY and hurt because the adults in their lives are forever invalidating, minimizing, shaming, and dismissing their feelings.

[@vickieyarbrough2129]

I had a father who didn't do what he was supposed to do for me and was also a philanderer, but I understand that was not his wife's fault (stepmom).....it was solely my dad's fault. Stepmoms easily become scapegoats; trust and believe if a woman can't stop her man from cheating, she has no control to stop him from having a relationship with his daughter. The first step in healing, imo, is put blame where it belongs (in this case with the father), and begin the healing process. It's cliche, but true, harboring anger and resentment only hurts the person holding on to that stuff.

[@The1KEKE77]

She’s blaming the Fletchers for everything and trying her best to vilify them! How you gonna act like your dad is so bad but you’re returning gifts he’s sending to your kids?! At least he’s trying! She doesn’t have to allow them in her life but she needs to heal and forgive.

[@bettyjean-do8cy]

Black parents: Please STOP dismissing adult children’s feelings and experiences. I see so many comments against Lexi, talking about she’s bitter, and jealous. Show me or us YOUR family wounds. Please have compassion, empathy, concern, and understanding. For those who wonder why so many Black girls are angry, disrespectful, and refuse to talk to their parents, because a lot of parents show up, just like a lot of the people in this comment sections. Lexi is aware she’s hurting and angry, she needed a safe and judgement free space to tell her story, while she works through it with her therapist.

[@roxanneberry1250]

This right here 👏 🙌 👌

[@beutifulhaircollectionllc]

Ya, she obviously is letting her mental issues effect her relationships.

[@carmenbyrd3053]

That girl bashed them folks for as long as she could to the point she just started ramblin and repeating the same ole sentence time and time again ,,, its funny how the Fletchers said nothing about lexi other than what we saw on the episode,, they didn't go out seeking a CC to badh her or air their dislikes about her ,,, she found a one-sided bias CC to give her a platform to purch her sospbox on and just run with a bunch of inconsistent statements ,,just like martel thinking tasha k was on his side ,, this guy could care less one way or the other,,, it gotta few cash apps and clinks and likes,,, so ge dis his job ,, and if chris or nell asked for a platform for a few clicks and likes he'll give them a platform too

[@camillecantey]

I feel ya

[@princesslioness4313]

Amazing Interview! You can see & hear the pain she experienced. Sending prayers to her healing journey

[@neathebestest]

This was a great interview. Loved the way you allowed her the space to speak uninterrupted. You did your big one with this 💪🏾💕

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

Thank you!! ❤️❤️

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

This girl sounds miserable af

[@southafricanlady6427]

There is nothing positive she said about Neil & Chris.is it jealousy of Neil marrying her dad?

[@reeupbabygyrl8053]

And her mother promotes it

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

​@@reeupbabygyrl8053She definitely does!

[@MrsJaytheBeauty]

​@@southafricanlady6427 Extremely jealous of Nell!

[@marywillie2001]

I truly understand her feelings, but she's very bitter because her parents aren't together.

[@marywillie2001]

I am confused about Lexi because her mother had moved. She clearly said that she had built a bond with the Fletcher's. So why is (Lexi) so bitter.

[@af8071]

And that can be true especially after hearing from her mother..

[@Y-burnell]

I don't think she's bitter about her parents being together. I think she's hurt because she really wants a relationship with her Dad. Even now, I see and hear more hurt than bitterness. She talks a good game, but she loves and wants a relationship with her Dad. I totally believe and respect the Mom

[@letskeepitreal601]

You’re right, but at this point, this grown married woman with children, need to grow up and stop having temper tantrums like a two year old

[@deborahgardner6752]

Her Mother is such a breath of fresh air! Lexi you are blessed to have her as a role model. 💕

[@valeriewilson3298]

She's lying!

[@elizabethhargrove9283]

Love when you allow us all to just listen along with you. 🎉🎉

[@Beautifulme1976]

You don't know them, never been around them. Yet they called you to be on TV show with them you came. She is mad at Nell because out all the people her dad cheated on he married Nell.

[@helgapataki4156]

Her Mom's aura is lite, beautiful & authentic. It was refreshing to hear her truth. Although I can relate to Lexi, girl your Mom is "That Girl" you ain't missing nothing, but it does take time. Its their loss for not being present in your life, not yours ❤

[@Misisipibrwngrl]

I sincerely appreciate your compliment! It’s all quite unfortunate but The Creator equips us through our own pain to testimony for others. This is a part of Lexi’s journey to be that testimony. Be well & purposed Queen!

[@tesatalkstv]

I loved her mom as well. She's wasnt trying to bash, just tell her story

[@MsNatz]

Yes I agree. I think mom got this way over time. She seems to have just started accepting her and her ex's relationship but the damage to her daughter's psyche was done from the time her daughter was young. Maybe mom's bitterness in the initial stages was passed on to her daughter. Those seeds are tough to dig up.

[@msspeakit]

That's the part that the nice mama has to take accountability for. It was when the nice mama said " Lexi always was the grass is greener on the other side" that spoke volumes because if everything was so good under moms roof Lexi wouldn't fight or feel left out of the Fletchers mess up life according to double talking Lexi. This was good cop bad cop with Lexi being the bad cop and throwing even the siblings unber the bus. The interview reads vindictive and manipulative.​@@MsNatz

[@francesm.2940]

This girl is so unhappy with her life. You're damn near 40, but you're behaving like a teenager who didn't get her way with her parents. I know her mom is so embarrassed.

[@KenishaBazile]

I would be! I picked up on her shenanigans on the show. It was something about her tone and when she said something about setting their home afire. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me.

[@JSUcutie]

If she hated them so much, why even show up to the dinner? She doesn't know them but she sure knew alot about them. She was 2, her mother told her all this mess.

[@apriljoy425]

Yes!

[@teefoxworth]

Thank you for interviewing her. Lexi and her mom are gorgeous. Classy mom❣❣

[@mmyoung178]

You are an excellent interviewer every time I see you interview someone I’m very, very impressed. Great job and look forward to seeing what your future holds.

[@GivingyouthaREALT]

Thank you 😁😁

[@BlackCaliGirl-c9e]

She just killed the relationship between them for sure, why come out now. has she been talking to Carlos?

[@ebony9998]

They killed the relationship when they ganged up on her

[@BlackCaliGirl-c9e]

@@ebony9998 The relationship already had one foot in the grave at that point.

[@patricejohnson821]

She's passing her and mom's hurt to her kids about her father. So sad life is too short.

[@Nekspeaks]

It’s giving jealousy, if Nell bought her kids a car…and your mom got you a car….whats the problem???…it’s because you feel like there car is better than yours, that’s why you keep saying Mercedes! Smhhhhh

[@brwynn]

🎯🎯🎯

[@QweenKommonSense]

So proud of Lexi!! So many black families have this curse ~ If they don't want people to talk, they shouldn't give anything to talk about. MANY not all, yet MANY of our elders left us NOTHING to respect or pass down to our legacies yet take issue with being cut off and left alone to watch everyone transition around them as they chase the delusion of gaslighting themselves to avoid the shame and guilt along with being accountable for their irresponsible and selfish choices and behavior that created the children and the broken family structure. My mother is a lot like Nell and my father enables her narcissism. I believed her the day ROASTED them at the family dinner. The scapegoat is usually the only one telling the truth. 🎯

[@annmarie9599]

See you at the Reunion. Love the Fletches💕sounds like bashing

[@Summerbreeze_RN]

Sorry I’m not buying all this 🤷🏾‍♀️ for someone who doesn’t have anything to do with them for years on end sure knows a lot about them. Her mom plays a major role in her feelings towards them.

[@novemberreign7255]

I don’t believe a single word this woman is saying because she admits that she doesn’t even know her Dad! She is giving jealous & bitter. It’s a no for me. #TeamFletcher

[@TheLorraine1964]

You are so privileged to have the mother you have and not yelling Neil.😊😂

[@ebony9998]

#TeamLexi I can resonate with her entire story. I’m going through this exact thing right now. I teared up when her mom said she recognized her broken daughter because I have gone to my mom the same way after a falling out. The difference is I’m on that with them if I ever see them again

[@everydaylifewithtaboo6698]

I mean he does get along with Martell a little bit too much for my liking. Why would a faithful husband and picture perfect father ever consider the likes of Martell holt a friend.

[@morsecode9787]

HE'S OLDER & WAAAAY SLICKER THAN MARTELL HE ALREADY THE MARTELL THANG.WITH DIZZY ASS SHAWTTY...

[@lauramcgrew5604]

Birds of a feather😮

[@danielledavis9876]

Because he done dirt with Martell

[@sherihenderson772]

Because he was doing the same dirt as Martell. And he knows Martell has no problem throwing him under the bus

[@caramelAquarius]

​@@sherihenderson772...in that order

[@ChandraEwing]

You handled this interview with such care and professionalism!!❤

[@ChanelNo5568]

She calls them the”The Fletchers” like they are the family that lives down the street😂… To me her issue is more with “Nell” than Chris. She mad that Nell took her father away from her and her mother. She also mad that she didn’t get the life she feels like Chris children got. I don’t care how much counseling she gets, that will always be an issue for her.

[@Legallyontop]

As it should be until he shows her something different. He left her mother, not her, so he should have been an active participant no matter who he is with.

[@ChanelNo5568]

@@Legallyontop the way Lexi tells it, she feels like he not only left his mom, he left her too. I agree, Chris should have been an active parent, however, it seems as though he was not.

[@Legallyontop]

@@ChanelNo5568, agreed and that is why she has an issue. It’s easier to get over something that isn’t still happening, but if they are still causing a divide, she isn’t going to get over it.

[@ChanelNo5568]

@@Legallyontop 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@niolab7]

@@Legallyontopit’s easier to get over something that’s not happening ! Wow - you said that ! . Lexi is very materialistic because her offense & criticisms are always rooted in material things - cars, the house, promoting her business on a show she ‘hates’

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

Check this out, Lexis was 2 years old when her parents divorced.Its so clear she got all this negatively from her mother. A seed of bitterness was sown in her when she was young and now its affecting her mental health.

[@prosperpetuity7987]

And?? That’s the result of parents not caring about the impact of their wrongdoings affected their offspring!! This ish ain’t new and happens all the time and it’s sad and sick!!

[@regbrittany1]

Does she have some mental health issues?

[@donnab.333]

How do you know that? You were there, living in their household to see all of this taking place? You don't make sense at all.

[@monie2u]

She's talking about her experience with them. It's not about her mother. It sounds like her mom has had hope for a relationship with them. Kids know when they're being slighted.

[@beverlyrobinson7873]

ABSOLUTELY

[@kelvinhoskins4075]

She is just like Martell, bitter😮 she should have just stayed quiet and doubled up on the therapy. She needs it

[@nikitawashington9328]

She obviously didn't want a relationship with the Fletchers that's why she is bashing them and bragging about cussing out Nel. Then she said she has been waiting to cuss Nel out. That is very telling.

[@Shesthatgirl53]

Chile how Martell get into this conversation 😂

[@meek_821]

@@Shesthatgirl53😅😅😅

[@vivianjackson1907]

Lexi said she wasn't close to Chris jr., but her mom said they were close. Nell would pick up Lexi and take Chris Jr. and Lexi places together.

[@djcobb87]

No Chris Jr but Nell's son from her previous relationship that's closer to Lexys age

[@FantasyBambi]

You don’t hear that well. Seems your listening to respond and not comprehend. How did you get all of that and MISSED the real tea. Lexi was excited to have a brother (lance) so mom made sure he came along as well. I know it’s strange to you but there are some stand up women who step like this. If Chris was a man, then none of this would have occurred. He obviously left Nell and abandoned the family yet again. Out of his own mouth he wasn’t there a lot. These women tried to keep it together for the chirren sake

[@JLF71]

She has so many memories to claim that she does not know them or wasn't ever around them. She was all over the place. It's so sad.

[@bridgetulmulk584]

She shamed her entire family.

[@lumaspham]

This interview didn’t do for what her what she thought it would.

[@sallyhemings2295]

@@bridgetulmulk584GOOD 😅tell it ALL!

[@lizziecalhoun7564]

Great Interview! Glad to see BOTH Sides!

[@Odior101]

Great interview, blessings and healing to her for speaking her truth and experience… no judgment…

[@Elise-oj4cx]

What makes her think she can dictate what they share on the show??!

[@keeshabrooks6264]

Fact's

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

You can clearly tell she enjoys being in a place of unforgiveness, bitterness and negativity. Its not fair to rob her kids of a relationship with the Fletchers because they are going to want to know them. The Fletchers don't look like they are the kind of people that would hurt the kids. If Lexis talked about me the way she talks about the Fletcher, I won't want to have a relationship with her either. She comes off very toxic and needs deep therapy.

[@margarettasturdivant1742]

Demonic liar is what I get from her and her sneaky mammy she doesn't fool me with the act WOW

[@lisabrown7409]

The fletcher don't deserve her, she's honest, fletchers are suspect, imo.

[@reginawilliamson6622]

Is that what you're taking away from her conversation?!?!? THAT'S SOME SAD @$$ SHYT!!!!!

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

​@@lisabrown7409No she's not honest because her mother said she was taking Lexi halfway so Chris could get her but she said she didn't go around them. Lexi lied !

[@lisabrown7409]

@@overcomeriam6overcomer328 in my opinion, it's ok that she's feeling a way.

[@StillFly469]

One minute she was never around the family and the next minute you know everything.

[@kimberlyregina]

For someone that hasn’t been around them she knows quite a lot. Where’s Iyanla Vanzant when you need her?

[@Standingupstrong993]

Yessssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!

[@auzij4949]

😮 I like the Fletchers, but I'm NOT surprised and Carlos is probably TWIRLING barefoot bc he didn't secure that interview 😂😂

[@a.p.3919]

I’m sorry but she’s just not believable.

[@kyliedrinks1]

Lexie does seems hurt and needs to heal but I totally empathize with her. Your dad moves on and pretty much prioritize someone else before you, his own flesh and blood. That would hurt me to my core if I was her too. Like damn am I not worthy enough!?

[@valeriewilson3298]

Trust it's not that simple. Her mother was bitter... Lexi is who her mother was when she was little.

[@kyliedrinks1]

@@valeriewilson3298 and why was the mom bitter?

[@valeriewilson3298]

@@kyliedrinks1 it's just too hard to explain. Look up Parent Alienation syndrome. Lexi has every last symptom. Lexi grew up in a two parent household, ain't no way she should have this much trauma. And what mother would listen to their child act like Lexi. I would be appalled. Don't block your blessings with all this hate.

[@kyliedrinks1]

@@valeriewilson3298 it’s not hard to explain. Her mother could have been bitter due to Chris infidelity and probably him toying with her emotions. But let’s not act like when some men move on to a new woman, they then prioritize her and not their outside children. And sometimes it’s the woman who gets in their head and stop the man from being super active with his kid/kids. Look at how Nell yelled at Lexie at the dinner and then they all gained up on her and Chris Sr just sat back and watched 🙄🙄 Lexie is very much entitled to feel the way that she does because that was her experience growing up. Even if there was parental alienation, why didn’t Chris seek out custody or establish some type of visitation plan!? That man didn’t give a damn.

[@kyliedrinks1]

And Lexie mother is a great mother. She’s letting her child voice her emotions and express how she feels instead of invalidating and minimizing her. She’s not scolding her for how she feels. If that’s how she feels then that’s that! It’s up to Lexi to find forgiveness in her heart and move on from the situation.

[@lisabrown7409]

Thanks for conducting the interview. it was her story to tell! Love her ❤️

[@sheilarumph6578]

Thanks for allowing her to speak her truth ❤

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

Yes her lies.

[@kaybrooks8780]

She’s messy! I’m sure some parts of her story is true, but they’re are other sides to this story.

[@carmenbyrd3053]

Right off the bat it's clear lexi has a chip on her shoulder and for sure an ax to grind ,,, it appears nell is who she really has an issue with ,,, she absolutely encouraged the CC to bash chris snd nell ,,, Clearly at age 3/5 lexi has a scewed version of the demise of her parents relationship ,,, and sense she really only has her mothers side of the story who's to say what was engrained in her thoughts about her father ,,, and by the time she did form any kind if relationship with him its clear she had already formed a hard stance against chris , nell snd her Fletcher children

[@reginawilliamson6622]

*I Would Too.....WTF do you mean?!?!?* 🤨

[@carmenbyrd3053]

@@reginawilliamson6622 exactly wtf I said is exactly wtf I mean ,,, problem ?????

[@reginawilliamson6622]

@@carmenbyrd3053 *NAAAAAH Babygurl..... If there is a Problem.... YOU HAVE IT!!!!* I see through Nell!!!! And Trust & Believe, if the Fletchers Stay on this show long enough....A person with DISCERNMENT will see through Ha @$$ Too!!!

[@reginawilliamson6622]

@@carmenbyrd3053 *But YOU AIN'T said $**#it** Thou!!!!* 🥱

[@carmenbyrd3053]

@@reginawilliamson6622 how bout we just agree to disagree on the subject

[@sharane52]

Wait now, the Mom is saying the kids spent time together and they were going back and forward to each other house 😵‍💫.

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

She did which proves Lexis is a liar.

[@Royaledaughter1]

If you were so young ( toddler) how do you know this is true Girl by. It's something in the water in that part of Ala

[@sharonking9822]

Great interview but how do she know so much of there business if she was barely around. I believe she is hurt and she holds a lot of anger and hurt in it reflects that she is jealous of the relationship her dad has with the new family. How can they invite her to anything she is holding grudges and Nell has tried but she hates Nell from what I am hearing .

[@abiyah3176]

She said she’s resented Nell since childhood. Why would her, her husband or her children want you around when you feel that way about her??? Chris is not just her dad. He’s being pulled in several different directions, and they all matter.

[@imjustsayin404]

Congratulations on the interview!!!!! So glad I finally get to hear her side!

[@PiscesH]

Damn I would’ve never thought Neil was that type of woman

[@elleburns8168]

She wasn't lying her daddy has no backbone, the cars was in the dam driveway.

[@vivianjackson1907]

For her to say that she doesnt know much about them, she is giving details such as Chris Fletcher's favorite soda. Then she said she has been in a good place with them for the last 3 years.

[@vivianjackson1907]

YES! I thought the same things, especially the soda. This is sad. Lexi's mother had her when she was 18 or 19. They were actually kids themselves. If the mother was only married to Chris for 2 years, it seems that she didn't really know Chris who sounds like his was a woman Chaser.

[@sunnygibbs925]

Lexi spilling ALL THE TEA!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@apriljoy425]

And it makes no sense. She obviously hates them but still went to dinner.

[@faithwilliams7826]

You could tell her pain after she responded at the dinner. I've actually been where she is and was concerned and I am so extremely happy for this interview. I pray that she keeps in mind that her dad appears to be trying and I don't think that he hates her and is truly wanting to be there as best he can and to give him some grace. I am certain that at some point, things will get better, whether it happens when your children have grown up or prayerfully before then . Life is too short and God always is forgiving of us. Please remember that. Much love and God's grace and blessings to you all😇❤️🙏.

[@damnpam4680]

My husband would be asking me now why you need to tell a side to ppl when been together 24 yrs I said MY husband no shade she says she don’t know them but knows all there business and Lexi can tell her truth in her perspective but why did we need to know about Lance having a child if a man done that to a woman some of y’all would mad AF lastly In the words of Kerry Washington as adults if you have childhood trauma it’s your responsibility to get help to fix it, when she ready to mend things with her dad then get counseling with him that’s where it should start and end he’s her father period also her mom seem to really wanted to say something agate all this time what’s she said didn’t make sense I think she was going through ish for awhile and they wasn’t together they both had moved on it’s giving she’s giving us the things she want us to know not everything

[@girlmelanie4]

Allergic to punctuation?

[@damnpam4680]

@@girlmelanie4 you can put them where they’re needs IDGAF 😜😘👍🏾

[@girlmelanie4]

@@damnpam4680 two words. Adult ESL.

[@sallyhemings2295]

@@girlmelanie4😅apparently!