My Family Friend's Daughter Falsely Accused Me of SA Her, and My Entitled Family Disowned and Kic...

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@legiontepes3474
@legiontepes3474 6 ай бұрын
Fake accusations should be punished with a sentence as long as the one the innocent man would have gotten.
@chantalalexander
@chantalalexander 6 ай бұрын
Agreed. I think the reason why it legally hasn't been considered as a viable punishment, is probably because some people who actually have been SA'ed do sometimes unintentionally misidentify attackers. However in cases like this where the false accusation is purposely and willfully done, folks need to go scorched earth. It is not just the amount of time that someone wrongfully accused has to suffer with, it's essentially a loss of life. Your reputation is ruined, you lose friends and family, you risk losing jobs, college placement, etc., and even when proven innocent there are people who still don't believe you.
@Shuichisaihara5499
@Shuichisaihara5499 6 ай бұрын
@@chantalalexanderI know that too. I watched an episode of forensic files where a young girl misidentified her violator as her uncle, but was actually her grandmother’s neighbor who look similar to him. Thankfully the uncle had his name cleared by his now ex wife who did what the system were too lazy to do. Investigate properly
@SnerMerNer
@SnerMerNer 6 ай бұрын
They’re more worried about dissuading potential future victims than they are about protecting actual current victims.
@jacobbakos3140
@jacobbakos3140 6 ай бұрын
To its maximum with no parole
@jacobbakos3140
@jacobbakos3140 6 ай бұрын
@@Shuichisaihara5499misidentification and lying are different things. There are too many cases where it’s an easily proven lie and there’s zero consequences
@DarkButz
@DarkButz 6 ай бұрын
Story 3 - "cooking isn't a man's job" 90% of all restaurant chefs and cooks: Ayo, what the fuck?!
@tatkkyo9911
@tatkkyo9911 6 ай бұрын
Yup. Cooking is the job of those who want to eat.
@kyleanuar9090
@kyleanuar9090 5 ай бұрын
I've opened a dozen restaurants with hundreds of cooks, there are only about three females but all masculine personalities. It's very harsh working environment and high pressure so feminine personality usually fails. We do put feminine on the expediting position.
@dragb9284
@dragb9284 Ай бұрын
Someone who worked in a kitchen in high school Ayo the hell you say
@Sandcastle21
@Sandcastle21 6 ай бұрын
“You remember you have children other than your wife” 🥶🥶🥶
@Yoonji9212
@Yoonji9212 6 ай бұрын
That was cold af😂
@Envoxity
@Envoxity 22 күн бұрын
The father is a weird ass dude who should never have children another day in his life.
@PoipoleEntertainment1987
@PoipoleEntertainment1987 6 ай бұрын
Another case where the family failed to investigate properly over false accusations. He should have sued the family member for falsely accusing him.
@Mathlover15
@Mathlover15 6 ай бұрын
Makes me wonder why the police were never involved if the family was so certain that OP was guilty. The supposed victim could have also sued him so why weren’t lawyers involved? This whole thing is so stupid. But I do wonder why this woman lied in the first place, what did she gain from it? Attention?
@thesweettooth6667
@thesweettooth6667 6 ай бұрын
​@@Mathlover15some people think that they are doing one last kind favor before exiling the person. Not to mention the person at fault would talk about how they don't want attention. I was a witness to one of these events my friend was accused by his cousin.
@SnowyWolborg
@SnowyWolborg 6 ай бұрын
​@@Mathlover15I guarantee that the so-called victim didn't want the police involved, because when you do that, you have to start explaining yourself, and present some kind of evidence. And she knew damn well that evidence did not exist against him.
@ExCommie
@ExCommie 6 ай бұрын
​@@Mathlover15it was his birthday and the b couldn't stand someone else getting the attention so she made a 1d10t1c remark to get all the attention and it succeeded. She had to be a narcissistic attention seeking b.
@puppiekit
@puppiekit 6 ай бұрын
​@SnowyWolborg it gets kind of tricky when you take into consideration that a lot of actual victims don't get the police involved, either, because 9 times out of 10 the police will tell you "you don't have enough proof so it's a waste of time and we can't do anything". There was literally a case not to long ago where a woman was assaulted, and the police refused to help her because they thought she was lying, even though the hospital literally tested her and found proof of an assault. Most victims aren't even lucky enough to reach the hospital on time. Especially children who can't drive themselves. I just wish you guys would stop generalizing rape when it is an incredibly complex, hard to prove crime. It's something that happens behind closed doors. It isn't as easy as murder or a punch to the face.
@BubblegumGirl366
@BubblegumGirl366 6 ай бұрын
Story 2: Notice how when Op talked about his daughters fiancé he calls him a boy. But his wife who is likely the around the same age is a woman. Yeah that is the sign of a predator
@mohamedemad2051
@mohamedemad2051 6 ай бұрын
What? 😅
@yoshisenpai1167
@yoshisenpai1167 6 ай бұрын
@@mohamedemad2051 bassically the man in the 2nd story sees his daughter's fiance as still a 'boy' but when his new wife was 18 he immediately see's her as a 'capable adult'
@badboy-gn8fu
@badboy-gn8fu 4 ай бұрын
you just jealous men love younger women and we don't want old turkey necks
@basedstreamingatcozy-dot-t7126
@basedstreamingatcozy-dot-t7126 3 ай бұрын
@@yoshisenpai1167 because men and women are different
@TJcreations91
@TJcreations91 3 ай бұрын
​@@basedstreamingatcozy-dot-t7126yeah it definitely shows how the woman is naive and the daughters husband seems decent enough
@IthlinnePewPew
@IthlinnePewPew 6 ай бұрын
My favourite part of the 2nd story was when his new wife was an adult woman when he met her, but his daughter's fiance is a boy...
@samoea19
@samoea19 6 ай бұрын
Right.
@vanzy01
@vanzy01 6 ай бұрын
💯👍🏿
@pauldavisjr.3284
@pauldavisjr.3284 6 ай бұрын
This!
@beckystanavich3217
@beckystanavich3217 6 ай бұрын
I didn’t catch that part, how old is he?
@pauldavisjr.3284
@pauldavisjr.3284 6 ай бұрын
@@beckystanavich3217 I think he said that he was 40 or 41
@Lloyd_Jane
@Lloyd_Jane 6 ай бұрын
Story 2: “You have other children than your wife.”
@Tuco_Salamanca3
@Tuco_Salamanca3 6 ай бұрын
My jaw dropped 😂🔥
@a_noelles
@a_noelles 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 that was hilarious
@blueroses4373
@blueroses4373 6 ай бұрын
Lmao
@kiko485
@kiko485 6 ай бұрын
I cackled at that. 😂😂😂
@vanzy01
@vanzy01 6 ай бұрын
💯👍🏿
@derherrgraf6001
@derherrgraf6001 6 ай бұрын
,,She was to cute to ignore" Ugh. Disgusting at its finest
@mimiwhite1963
@mimiwhite1963 6 ай бұрын
WOW the dude screwed his wife instead of being on time to meet his daughter to reconcile. I hope the child bride leaves him. Interesting that is 21 year old daughter is marrying a "boy" while his wife was an adult at 18.
@dogguy8603
@dogguy8603 6 ай бұрын
I have a good relationship with my family and I would be freaking out if I wasn't early (but still ontime) who tf are these people?
@vanzy01
@vanzy01 6 ай бұрын
💯👍🏿
@Vikashar
@Vikashar 6 ай бұрын
That's a really good point
@mikearroyo3961
@mikearroyo3961 6 ай бұрын
Only one word to describe the guy " Loser Moron". Well, two words. It's a guarantee that she will eventually cheat on him.
@imfromheII88
@imfromheII88 Ай бұрын
Spoken like a true cat lady.
@Burningflame97
@Burningflame97 6 ай бұрын
OP in 1st story is NTA. He has every right to disown them, even to the point of changing his last name. They threw him out for dead over an empty accusation.
@lavendersans2972
@lavendersans2972 6 ай бұрын
Him: 18 is an Adult Also Him: She didnt even introduced me to the "BOY"
@the83rdtrombonist60
@the83rdtrombonist60 6 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is not for the accuser to have, it's for the victim to give. People need to stop the "woe-is-me" 💩 when the victim won't forgive them.
@billjacobs2799
@billjacobs2799 6 ай бұрын
3rd story, OP mental abuse is still abuse, get your son out of the house and away from the toxic mom. By showing favoritism to the sister the mom is mentally abusing the son. It also sounds like the mom is filling the daughter full of bs about her brother. Mom is causing the family to self-destruct, and the blame is totally on her.
@RylieRiddle
@RylieRiddle 6 ай бұрын
S2: anytime a parent says their new SO was friends with their child, it says groomer. Doesn't matter if they were 18, they creeped on their child's friend. 22 years between him and his wife. That's just gross.
@johnnyhall9154
@johnnyhall9154 6 ай бұрын
It was so hard to even listen to the dude's experiences
@goldyd144
@goldyd144 6 ай бұрын
I think the only time a situation like that could be valid if the child's friend is at least 10-15 years old than them (like a work friend, church friend, etc), and the child is at LEAST 25-30+, and the child introduces them _for the purpose of pursuing a romantic relationship._ OP is was just very obviously a creep, and I have no idea what he was expecting from Reddit when he ran there to play "woe is me."
@eric98292
@eric98292 6 ай бұрын
Even if you give him the benefit of the doubt, it's clear he cares more about himself than her. What a pile of crap.
@vanzy01
@vanzy01 6 ай бұрын
​@@eric98292💯👍🏿
@lamargordon6017
@lamargordon6017 6 ай бұрын
​@@goldyd144in other words, this situation is only ok if the friend is well past the wall?
@thuglaza4728
@thuglaza4728 5 ай бұрын
13:20 "You're reminded that you have children other than your wife" That's a fkn Mike Tyson punch 🤣
@AkA553
@AkA553 6 ай бұрын
He met her at 18 his wife is a matured adult so she made an matured decision to marry a man of her father's age. Nice joke 😂😂
@armaggedon390
@armaggedon390 6 ай бұрын
No, he *married* her at 18. He met her earlier.
@Sg190th
@Sg190th 6 ай бұрын
​@@armaggedon390what's the timestamp
@stirrednotshaken4823
@stirrednotshaken4823 6 ай бұрын
7:39 … he explains he met her when she was 18, not a minor and a friend of his daughter. 🤢 I won’t ever understand why grown ass, middle aged men think it’s appropriate to get involved with a girl who is freshly legal, or friends with their children. Come on, there are plenty of people out there who are closer to your own age to meet and hook up/marry. Let the young girls/boys enjoy their lives before they even consider getting married to someone. This girl graduated high school and immediately got involved with a man in his 40’s. Where’s the parties, college sororities, hanging out with friends, finding her dream job, etc.? She’s not going to extend her wings because he will be holding her back cause he’s already “been there, done that”. 🤦🏼‍♀️
@georgeprchal3924
@georgeprchal3924 6 ай бұрын
​@@stirrednotshaken4823I forgot they raised the age of consent to 35.
@lamargordon6017
@lamargordon6017 6 ай бұрын
​@@stirrednotshaken4823some women's dream is to have an established older man take care of them. He also mentioned she was sort of shy, so she probably had no desire to sleep around with guys she met at parties and college sororities.
@SnowyWolborg
@SnowyWolborg 6 ай бұрын
Story #1: There is literally no reason to reconnect. These people have been out of his life for longer than they were ever in it. 22 years is a lifetime. OP needs nothing from these people and they can stay gone.
@SapphireExile
@SapphireExile 6 ай бұрын
Second story: The whole wife being half his age thing aside, which is absolutely disgusting by the way and basically him banging someone who's the same age as his former daughter, how tf did OP not see this coming? He literally told his daughter that he wished she hadn't been born. Not only does someone have to be completely heartless to say that to anyone, let alone their kid, but it more than likely also affected the daughter mentally and emotionally. It probably made her wonder who else might think the same thing about her, and gave her one or more mental breakdown. OP needs to leave his former daughter alone. He burned that bridge by saying that one thing, and there's no coming back from it. OP: My WiFe WaS bEiNg CuTe So I hAd tO bAnG hEr WhEn I wAs SuPpOsEd To MeEt My DaUgHtEr. ^ That's what OP sounded like in my brain. That's where his priorities are, his groomed child bride. Fucking gross.
@cashwat210
@cashwat210 6 ай бұрын
“You have children other than your wife” lmao
@Ruby-ko6pr
@Ruby-ko6pr 6 ай бұрын
bruh, im 20 and still dont think of myself as an adult, i have no life experience, how can a 18y be an adult?
@Cruz2917
@Cruz2917 6 ай бұрын
I didn't start feeling like one until I was 25- 26
@STAYATINYARMYSIN
@STAYATINYARMYSIN 6 ай бұрын
It’s not and it’s weird that the world thinks that an eighTEEN year old is an “adult” it’s just another excuse for these creepy ass old people to justify getting with a young person
@loganblackwood2922
@loganblackwood2922 6 ай бұрын
Some people continue to feel that way and generate no life experiences either. At some point, we have to go by the biological reality and the legal definition, lest we just consider people who fail to grow up as children even if they're 20, 30 or 40.
@AnimeGamer501st
@AnimeGamer501st 6 ай бұрын
21 is a safe bet for both men and women any younger is just a crime socially.
@georgeprchal3924
@georgeprchal3924 6 ай бұрын
And yet some people want 16 year-olds to vote. We're not hobbits who's adulthood begins at 33.
@Krensharpaw
@Krensharpaw 4 ай бұрын
I love how in the 2nd story he told his daughter that he wished she was never born. And then wonders why she wants nothing to do with him. Talk about being clueless.
@WardenSpectreCommander
@WardenSpectreCommander 6 ай бұрын
Story 2 if any of my parents tell me they wish I wasn't born. You can't EVER WALK THAT BACK!!! That parent is forever dead to me!!! She was sweet to meet up with him ,I would have told my grandparents let this ride and leave it alone.
@aleksandarvil5718
@aleksandarvil5718 6 ай бұрын
2:00 ; 2:10 *_"Too Late!!! 22 YEARS TOO LATE."_*
@stardustkevin7322
@stardustkevin7322 6 ай бұрын
Heh incredibles reference
@KarmaTube5
@KarmaTube5 4 ай бұрын
Best comment 😂
@minisamuri2
@minisamuri2 6 ай бұрын
2:05 tbh the best comeback to that would've been "You're right, we *WERE* family. Past-tense. We aren't family now"
@BarbaraCrippen-b1x
@BarbaraCrippen-b1x 6 ай бұрын
It's crazy how family dynamics can get so twisted. The guy who told his daughter he wished she was never born and now wants to reconcile is just mind-blowing. This was a compelling watch, thanks for sharing.
@HubiKoshi
@HubiKoshi 6 ай бұрын
That last story. It makes me wonder, was the wife cheating/using drugs/booze before the whole thing fell apart? Because the way she just started abusing her son was such a weird shift in personality. Did the way OP complimented her son's cooking hit her in some insecurities maybe?
@Mathlover15
@Mathlover15 6 ай бұрын
I’ve heard stories of moms being in a one sided with their daughters but I’ve never heard of moms competing with their sons, at least on this level.
@smokinggnu6584
@smokinggnu6584 6 ай бұрын
I think it's more a case of the wife seeing her own cooking and domestic activities as her sole reason for being in the family, plus the whole rigid gender roles thing, and she saw her son as a threat to her station when her husband complimented their son on his cookign a little too much. Some people can get really, *really* weird about shit like that, to the point of tearing apart families. They take any kind of change to family dynamics like that really badly.
@VeryGoodDeals
@VeryGoodDeals 6 ай бұрын
​@@smokinggnu6584i thought the same thing. She seems to pride herself over her cooking and to be the go-to person in her immediate family for her cooking and has some insecurities or existential crisis or something for that position to be taken away from her. For this reason, altho I think OP made the right decisions for his kids, I honestly think he acted poorly towards his wife and was not being the proper supportive husband. It sounds like he was just telling her she was wrong (which he shouldve done) but not asking her why she was acting like that (which he shouldve also done). Doesn't justify wife basically throwing her life away afterwards, but it does offer a bit of explanation
@devanjohnson3560
@devanjohnson3560 6 ай бұрын
​@@VeryGoodDealshe did ask her why she did it but she didnt give him an answer
@Panwere36
@Panwere36 6 ай бұрын
22 years is far too long, and the first story's OP is NOT wrong for just refusing to "reconnect" with a family threw him away. The Aunt is a better parent than the father that is for certain.
@anthonyburke5656
@anthonyburke5656 Ай бұрын
S1, NTI, DO NOT reconcile, don’t put your family at risk. Why would you risk what you have for an illusion?
@avaphynx
@avaphynx 6 ай бұрын
In second story op wife will end up figuring herself out in her late 20s. And she will leave him.
@strategygalactic
@strategygalactic 6 ай бұрын
Or ahe already has and has made her decision.
@gospelelvis6136
@gospelelvis6136 6 ай бұрын
S2 - His wife was 'too cute' so he missed his meeting to try and reconcile with his daughter? I call BS on the whole story.
@dragb9284
@dragb9284 Ай бұрын
No just sounds like a narc pedo
@aleksandarvil5718
@aleksandarvil5718 6 ай бұрын
Story #1: OP = NTA Aunt & her husband = MVPs 💯😘 The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for bio - _family_ 😂😂
@karinnightmare6700
@karinnightmare6700 6 ай бұрын
As an sa victim the first story makes me wanna vomit this is the shit that makes it so people didn't believe me.
@RazuX5
@RazuX5 2 ай бұрын
Except most people will still believe girls regardless if they were telling the truth or not, and that’s the problem.
@joemama-qy4fb
@joemama-qy4fb 4 ай бұрын
2:09 Damn, those are some good tree-chopping skills. You didn't have to place any blocks beneath you.
@boneymeroney2674
@boneymeroney2674 6 ай бұрын
Eye roll warning for story 2. 😂
@mr.halfright
@mr.halfright 6 ай бұрын
Dude's trying so hard to justify himself, but every new piece of info he gives us just keeps showing how terrible he is, as a father and as a person
@skyelinkhyrule5715
@skyelinkhyrule5715 4 ай бұрын
*Story 3* Wife- Cooking isn't a man's job. Gordon Ramsay: AM I A FUCKING JOKE TO YOU!?
@miceltusav88
@miceltusav88 22 күн бұрын
"We're family!" "And I curse God everyday because of that"
@OfficialREVENGEMusic
@OfficialREVENGEMusic 6 ай бұрын
Story 2 has to be fake just because of how cartoonishly tone deaf an evil op is. Story 3: the wife was obviously looking for an out. She clearly resents her son, and her husband. This was clearly more than just feeling threatened by her son's cooking capabilities. What validates this in my opinion, is the fact that she went on a total bender and cheated on her husband with a younger guy. She's very clearly a clinical narcissist, and should not be around her children at all.
@dragb9284
@dragb9284 Ай бұрын
You’d be surprised how shit some people are
@RedditLullabies-q1c
@RedditLullabies-q1c 2 ай бұрын
I can't imagine how painful it must have been to face that kind of betrayal from your own family. It's devastating when those closest to you don't stand by you during difficult times. Stay strong-you deserve people who trust and believe in you
@_loss_
@_loss_ 4 ай бұрын
That dad called his daughter's husband a boy, not a man. Says alot.
@artemislove2941
@artemislove2941 6 ай бұрын
“i met her when she was eighteen” that’s BARELY the line
@FortheEar-d5f
@FortheEar-d5f 5 ай бұрын
The one about the guy losing his chance to reconcile with his daughter because he couldn't resist his wife's charm was just mind-blowing.
@manutd316
@manutd316 5 ай бұрын
The guy is a doormat and A pushover when it comes to everyone else except the family he left he held his ground when it came to divorce
@rubypeter2025
@rubypeter2025 11 күн бұрын
I love how you bring your ideas to life, it feels so vivid and real. 🌈
@MichaelJEngelmann
@MichaelJEngelmann 6 ай бұрын
It’s immature for a grown adult to lust after a child and then marry them as soon as they’re “legal.” It’s legal for adults to sleep with literal minors in some countries, still doesn’t mean it’s right. Religious or not, it’s morally wrong. It’s manipulation.
@strategygalactic
@strategygalactic 6 ай бұрын
He disnt meer her when she was a child.
@harleyquinn5774
@harleyquinn5774 4 ай бұрын
Do not take disownment of a family member lightly. You may regret the decision later, but that family member is not obligated to take you back after the trauma you caused.
@morganleanderblake678
@morganleanderblake678 6 ай бұрын
Second story HAS to be a rage bait. No one is that utterly incompetent at basic self management. New Wife got groomed, and they've made a dynamic that replaces the daughter. It's gross. and probably to the daughter it feels like he was creeping on her too.
@AnimeGamer501st
@AnimeGamer501st 6 ай бұрын
I actually know people like that.
@georgeprchal3924
@georgeprchal3924 6 ай бұрын
Hogwash, she knew what she was doing.
@WAHegle91
@WAHegle91 16 күн бұрын
God, that second story, particularly the first few minutes, made my skin crawl.
@tdexth
@tdexth 6 ай бұрын
S2 op is disgusting. Plain and simple.
@ChefRye1
@ChefRye1 3 ай бұрын
First OP’s attitude towards his accuser is why women will continue to believe it’s ok to make false accusations. Also I don’t think it was wrong of the aunt to ask for him to forgive but definitely wrong for her to ask him to forget.
@darkxemjas2910
@darkxemjas2910 6 ай бұрын
The family knows that it's too late to apologize, and shouldn't even bother making the attempt. I mean, OP had just turned 19 when they kicked him out. And they're only trying to reconcile with him after 22 years of no contact, when he's 41. And all because the "victim" revealed that it was false months earlier. I mean, what do you think would've happened if the "victim" had died in a car crash or something a couple of years ago? Before she got a chance to reveal the truth? Would OP's family still try to reconcile? I highly doubt it. Not to be a family anyway.
@austinfowler2707
@austinfowler2707 6 ай бұрын
Story 2: im more uninterested in age gaps like that as long as everything is above board. But its the language he uses, calling his wife a woman while his Son In Law is just a boy, that gives me the ick.
@arsinist7663
@arsinist7663 3 ай бұрын
I learned long ago, to require proof of accusations against someone. If you don't have proof, you're automatically wrong or even a liar.
@L4zyBumone
@L4zyBumone 6 ай бұрын
The last story makes me a little bit concerned, the fact that the wife goes from cooking with son -> get jealous of her son because OP compliment the son's cooking -> turns into the son's bully -> cheating and do drugs to the point she almost become a post-person in a seemingly short span of time. I have a theory that the cheating and drugs part was an ongoing issues WAY before all of this started and that the wife's friend is feeding her BS the whole time to encourage such behavior. OP needs to get the full custody, I just can't see the wife can be trusted with children anytime soon if her reaction to her child showing talent is emotionally abusing them
@papaquesito
@papaquesito 6 ай бұрын
Second story: I'm literally 19 and am still living with my parents. I'm learning how to take care of myself everyday and how to be an adult with a job and shit. My older sister is 25 and shes also young, but theres so much mental growth from 18-25. Let alone from 18 to fucking 40. Bro is creepy, and the way he talks about his wife too. That she was "too cute" and he "couldn't help himself." They did't even date for a whole year before getting married. Weirdo... I hope he stays away from his daughter, and that her friend matures healthily to find someone who isn't perverted.
@AnimeGamer501st
@AnimeGamer501st 6 ай бұрын
No they were dating. He just didn't want to say it was before 18. 💀
@xeternalflowerx2000
@xeternalflowerx2000 6 ай бұрын
The biological reality of being an adult is different to life experience yes she’s an adult but she’s not that experienced yet
@alfredmarcos1761
@alfredmarcos1761 6 ай бұрын
That second story, wow...he's such a manchild
@JP-eh4ee
@JP-eh4ee 6 ай бұрын
Story 1: so what did the family do to that fake sexual assault beach
@9LiveEmpire
@9LiveEmpire 6 ай бұрын
and why did she do it >< ?
@theisjepsen22
@theisjepsen22 4 ай бұрын
I feel like forgiveness is a choice to be given, and for it to be a choice it must also be possible to not choose it.
@gg_8383
@gg_8383 2 ай бұрын
People can pretty much expect every false accusation always plays out with people on the accused they’re side to immediately jump to conclusions and abandon them rather than hearing the other side of the story and that’s just tragic (but at least some people believe in they’re innocence)
@RoudebushVredenburg
@RoudebushVredenburg Ай бұрын
really interesting perspective you shared in this video, and I appreciate you opening up about such a difficult situation. but honestly, I can't help but think that there's always more to these stories than what we see on the surface. it’s tough because both sides have their emotions, and sometimes people can react in ways that seem entitled. just saying, it might be worth considering how accusations can affect someone’s life even if they’re false.
@KalbergSundahl
@KalbergSundahl Ай бұрын
Great video! I appreciate how you shared your perspective on such a tough situation. That being said, I can't help but wonder if there might be more to the story that isn't being shown here. It feels a bit one-sided, and I think it’s important to consider how everyone involved might be feeling, not just from your angle. Just my two cents!
@oneuup2490
@oneuup2490 6 ай бұрын
So this man was perverting on his daughter's friends more than likely it was still married to the daughter's mother at that time starting an affair with a child, and then end up marrying that child. And the reason that she is not leaving it's because more than likely you're taking care of her and she doesn't have her own s*** together.
@Bluu-u4t
@Bluu-u4t 2 ай бұрын
The fact that the aunt believed him more than his parents💀
@queenrhubarb1676
@queenrhubarb1676 4 ай бұрын
2nd story the human brain doesn’t finish developing well into our 20s
@SwanderLecount
@SwanderLecount Ай бұрын
Great video, really appreciate the perspective you shared! But honestly, I can’t help but wonder if there's more to the story. It seems a bit extreme for the family to disown you without hearing all sides. It's worrying how quickly people jump to conclusions based on accusations, don’t you think?
@BurdineSchab
@BurdineSchab Ай бұрын
what an intense story you've shared! it's really fascinating to see such personal experiences laid out so openly. however, i can't help but wonder if there might be some missing context here. it feels like there might be more to why your family reacted the way they did. maybe some people are just too quick to judge without knowing the full background? idk, just trying to see both sides!
@dorian1260
@dorian1260 4 ай бұрын
The mother from the third story needed to realize that married people don't need too many single friends.
@tartlynerdy
@tartlynerdy 6 ай бұрын
Story 1 - I'll give her extra points for choosing to pull this stunt on op's birthday so he'll never enjoy another birthday for years without remembering the day his "family" kicked him out and abandoned him. Poor op. At least not everyone was against him. I don't know if I could force myself to see those douchebags but forgiveness? Ooof. Op's brother has audacity in bulk to pull the family card on op after what they put him through. Their cries would have pissed me off more than their apologies. Story 2 - This op sounds like his mom dropped him on the soft spot when he was an infant. The double standard hypocrisy is outstandingly disgusting but not as op trying to pretend he's a regretful dad after saying to his daughter's face he wished she'd never been born. That bridge is completely nuked. I also love all of the excuses op has made for marrying someone barely out of high school. She only chose to be with op because she's an inexperienced idiot. Op is a freaking predator. I really hope his wife has an epiphany she can still do better at her age. I "love" that op sounded so desperate for reconciliation but that didn't matter to him as much as getting laid. Story 3 - NTA. Op's ex-wife is legitimately a psychopath. Op may need to monitor his daughter so she doesn't follow her mom's self destructive path. The timing of when she got those divorce papers is completely irrelevant. She would have reacted the same way because she's the kind of woman that doesn't want to go back to either living with her parents or downgrading to an apartment and a minimum wage job.
@robbramos2047
@robbramos2047 3 ай бұрын
What strike me as fake-ass about this AI-generated first story is there was no mention of a criminal case or charges being filed.
@dollsite
@dollsite 6 ай бұрын
imagine you're an 18 yr old and ur father comes up to you with a surprise, he is marrying a woman and you're excited (or not) to meet ur new stepmom, n ur stepmom is ur 18 yr old friend 💀 oh lord..
@mrsw2923
@mrsw2923 6 ай бұрын
Story 2. Me me me me me. I wanted. I needed. I emotionally abused my daughter and no I want her back. NO.
@l.b.9522
@l.b.9522 6 ай бұрын
Personally I believe in forgiving and forgetting, forgive the people/person so they are released from my mind. Then forgetting about them and moving on with my life without them in it.
@Midgetbear-nk1fe
@Midgetbear-nk1fe 6 ай бұрын
Story 2 is either rage bait or trying to justify his sins to himself
@RobertBishop-xt6yq
@RobertBishop-xt6yq 5 ай бұрын
WOW there are some serious selfish people in this world 🌍
@KarmaTube5
@KarmaTube5 4 ай бұрын
So the mother gets jealous of her son and takes her anger out on him? She sounds like a sexist. He needs to grow up? He’s a ducking child; still a baby! The wife needs to grow up and get over herself
@MercilessJoey
@MercilessJoey 6 ай бұрын
2nd story OP 🤦 she gave you a chance and you blew it
@rmhartman
@rmhartman 11 күн бұрын
I can't stand people with no curiosity. I want to know how the truth came out!
@hattimounattimou8258
@hattimounattimou8258 6 ай бұрын
"you are reminded that you have children other than your wife" 💀💀💀
@DeareBallagh
@DeareBallagh Ай бұрын
this video was really engaging, and it's great to see you sharing your story so openly. however, I can't help but wonder if there are a few more details you could've included about what led up to the accusation. it feels like there's a lot more context we might be missing here. plus, it makes me question how often people jump to conclusions without hearing both sides. what do you all think?
@glenmassey3746
@glenmassey3746 6 ай бұрын
S1. Keep very little contact, if the children visit their grandparents set a rule of not pushing to use the children as a tool to reconnect. S2. Daughter is right to go NC. S3. The woman needs to be checked into a drug abuse program before she's even considered for visiting the kids. Don't let her visit without supervision.
@katherinehutton9870
@katherinehutton9870 6 ай бұрын
When ever you have to say "legally an adult" your in the wrong. Plus it is your daughter's friend.
@MrsSerene
@MrsSerene 6 ай бұрын
Story 3, "I didn't say anything as my wife and I never argue.", it's good that he didn't start a fight infront of the children and what a terrible wife/mother
@erickaennis2738
@erickaennis2738 5 ай бұрын
Story 2. Dude's wife sabotaged his meeting with his daughter. He's betting everything on his barely legal wife who's going to leave him for anorher man her own age. He's gonna die alone.
@Mara_Jade-Skywalker
@Mara_Jade-Skywalker 6 ай бұрын
I only got to the title of the second story. Bro did NOT pull punches.
@Hippo93400
@Hippo93400 4 ай бұрын
i felt for the guy how he was feeling in the 2th story but then he fucks everything up finally getting a chance he screws it up coming to late this guy is such a bag off sprouts like
@laurelrhodes744
@laurelrhodes744 6 ай бұрын
S3: it’s crazy how some of these posts start out seemingly so petty, but then turn into a dumpster fire. The compliments towards the son’s cooking was probably the straw that broke the camel’s back on some bigger issues. The wife’s friend is the biggest villain in the story though. Wife’s actions are inexcusable, but would she have done it without the “friend” whispering in her ear?
@Nikcel72
@Nikcel72 6 ай бұрын
Story 2: he called his daughter's fiance a boy, but says his child bride is an adult. The irony. I hope this is fake.
@EmmaKaramaneas
@EmmaKaramaneas Ай бұрын
I really appreciate the way you shared your side of the story in this video, it's not easy to open up like that. However, I can't help but think that the way your family reacted is pretty extreme. Maybe there's more to the story that we’re not seeing? It feels a bit one-sided, and I'd love to hear more about the other perspectives involved.
@basedstreamingatcozy-dot-t7126
@basedstreamingatcozy-dot-t7126 3 ай бұрын
wtf is going on with the pillars on that bridge? Was that accidental, or did you actually want it to look like that?
@Warfnix
@Warfnix 3 ай бұрын
i forgot to listen to the vid becuse i was just so shocked that he managed to mess up that up so many times lol
@badboy-gn8fu
@badboy-gn8fu 4 ай бұрын
dude in story 2 is a GOD
@MrAwsomenoob
@MrAwsomenoob 5 ай бұрын
Wow story went from "I'm mad my son cooked so now i'm nuking my marriage."
@Sg190th
@Sg190th 6 ай бұрын
Why is the aunt encouraging to forgive and forget? Sure, forgiving just to let go that pain. But you never forget and reconnect with those who believe a person over their own flesh and blood IN SAID FLESH'S BIRTHDAY! I mean, I doubt this story is real anyway. 10:30 Yes, you aren't a pedo. However, you are old enough to be her dad. That's weird.
@SenatiaA
@SenatiaA 6 ай бұрын
She is not telling him to let them go but to move on and keep living his best life.
@Sg190th
@Sg190th 6 ай бұрын
​@@SenatiaAIn that case, then I agree with the aunt.
@Fangroth
@Fangroth 6 ай бұрын
I honestly hope you are right and that this story is fake. It's painful and I don't want it to be truth. OP family basically burned 🔥 the bridge between them by believing someone outside the family over him and now they expect him to forgive and forget ? Nope. What goes around comes around they should have the same kind of forgiveness they gave OP when he need it: 0.
@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121
@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 5 ай бұрын
Story 2 has to be a troll. How do you drop the ball this bad 😭💀
@christianmarshal6117
@christianmarshal6117 3 ай бұрын
I’d ask them how long they thought I was evil. Because there’s no possibile way your parents can immediately switch from our precious son and siblings, our beloved brother, immediately to, evil disgusting rapist, immediately following one accusation with absolutely NO supporting evidence! In order for this to happen they must have already believed there was something very wrong with you and were just waiting for someone to make an accusation to validate their paranoia! If the accuser was also someone they loved and trusted it would be understandable if they started to suspect it was true and to try and investigate the whole thing but the fact they immediately believed to the point they were willing to immediately throw you out, cut you off and break all contact makes it crystal clear that OP was guilty in his family’s eyes before he was even accused, they just didn’t know for what yet.
@rustywarship8449
@rustywarship8449 4 ай бұрын
The second story is literally me writting on reddit 😂😂😂😂😂 -51 karma 😅😂😂😂 Edit : I ain't that guy. But I post rage baits but gotta tell he's bettah than me
@ReverseRslash
@ReverseRslash 3 ай бұрын
Cringe
@rustywarship8449
@rustywarship8449 3 ай бұрын
@@ReverseRslash i know but I love it
@dtownblastinsalvi62
@dtownblastinsalvi62 6 ай бұрын
Story 2 I find it funny op calls us immature when is the immature one so hypocritical he is
@SuperJeremyyoung
@SuperJeremyyoung 3 ай бұрын
So her husband is a boy but an 18 year old is an adult just wow bpd
@SulejmanovskiScharmann
@SulejmanovskiScharmann Ай бұрын
This video is really fascinating and offers a unique perspective on a sensitive topic. However, I can't help but feel that the way the story is presented might overshadow the serious implications of the accusation. It's tricky because it makes me wonder if the focus should be more on the accusations themselves rather than on the family dynamics. What do you all think?
@genebodjtb
@genebodjtb 5 ай бұрын
this has "Me too movement" all over it
@ShamburgHulmes
@ShamburgHulmes Ай бұрын
i really appreciate the courage it takes to share such a personal story in this video. it’s eye-opening, for sure. but honestly, i can't help but wonder if we’re only getting one side of the story here. it feels a bit unfair to jump straight to blaming the family without knowing all the details. what do you all think?
@MichaelJEngelmann
@MichaelJEngelmann 6 ай бұрын
Wow. I’m totally not surprised the age gap marriage story, I’m not surprised they married months in. It’s almost like all these older men know the younger will leave them so they entrap them in marriage. It’s not as easy to leave. And you can still catch the younger in that honeymoon phase when they’re dating.
@Toka972
@Toka972 6 ай бұрын
I don't like when victims don't aim for retribution simply because they moved on... This is self centered reasoning - it's not only them but also potential other victims. That woman who made false accusations need to be sent to jail, pay compensation but most importantly, she needs to be prevented from raising any kids. It's a necessity for society before they learn the same tricks. This is so much worse than what op make it look like or how he feels about it now. It's a common practice because women are very rarely held accountable for this - so much so that it puts the credibility of other women that are real victims of this.
@Ac-cl8iv
@Ac-cl8iv 2 ай бұрын
1) OP is NTA. If you've moved on; then i don't see what's to "forgive and forget". Good luck OP.❤
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