My FIL, Who Hates Me and Believes I Trapped His Son for His Money, Falsely Claims I Cheated on Hi...

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@erickaennis2738 4 ай бұрын

Story 2, the husband wants to baby trap you so you won't leave. He knows you have 1 foot out the door. OP should leave this toxic situation.

@erickaennis2738 4 ай бұрын

Story 1. Ok what is the point of revealing you are bisexual AFTER you are married? The point should be moot if you are in a monogamous, commited relationship. Just stay single and be with who you want. Don't drag other people into it. Op deserves better.

@erickaennis2738 4 ай бұрын

Edit, also I think she wants to use OP as her beard as well. I think she's a lesbian. Sorry. Otherwise, you tell the person up front so they can make an informed decision. Selfish.

@classicrockkid345 4 ай бұрын

Because not everyone finds out their sexuality when they're a damn horny teenager. It wasnt until last year I found out I was Aromantic

@roses_are_rosies345 4 ай бұрын

in the video the wife had romantic interactions with other females before she met OP

@momoangel9243 4 ай бұрын

@@roses_are_rosies345 not to mention she was trying to make op open the relationship, even after op voiced he did not want that, so regardless of her orientation she is a ahole even before the cheating came out, Which was very hypocritical of her since she, herself was cheated on before.

@WeaponXSigma 4 ай бұрын

@@classicrockkid345 You missed a key part in the video which was pointed out in the comment below yours

@Zminator1986 4 ай бұрын

Story 2: RUN

@lindah3803 4 ай бұрын

Last story: OPs has done well with her adopted daughter. Did she drop the ball with the stuffy,yes. It's not the end of the world. She's working it out with her daughter. OP mentioned that they love baking together. I think that would be a great thing to expand on. Maybe a cookbook with a picture of their 1st attempt at a recipe. Then do the recipe again in 2 yrs and add a picture of that one.

@cloudyboy1756 4 ай бұрын

S1: that like reason number one why you don’t date nurses,it’s bordering on an orgy in there lol

@MistressOP 4 ай бұрын

S3: bless that little girls heart.

@artistictalent 3 ай бұрын

I feel the child in the 3rd story may suffer from imposter syndrome. She mentally logs (not maliciously) the moments she isn't given something but the bio kids do. While she has her own traditions with her adoptive mom, she sees the moments where she isn't included as proof of her being the odd one out. The one who "isn't really her kid". That is heartbreaking to consider, and I can fathom why she takes such moments so hard. I hope she sees and feels fully and throughly as her adoptive Mom's actual true daughter one day, where such feelings don't haunt her.

@mericawillis2338 4 ай бұрын

Story 3 - NTA

@sweeety969 3 ай бұрын

3rd story i fear OP might be overcompensating if anything, in order to help the youngest feel accepted, and it might get in the way of her relationship with her older daughter if she's passing down family heirlooms to only the youngest daughter ro make her feel more accepted. Im not saying that's definitely what's happening but I wonder if the grandma was consulted before she gave the heirloom to the adopted daughter over her biological one, who was older and may have more of a claim to it traditionally. In this scenario it's impossible to not be TA cause either way somebody will be hurt so I think OP should have given it to them both, to share, and asked them to wear it to their engagement or some other event and ensure it gets passed down the generations that way.

@momoangel9243 4 ай бұрын

Story 1, her being bi has nothing to do with the divorce, it's because she was pushing for a open relationship that op do not want nor consents to under any circumstances, and she has been nothing but a ahole about it, And her cheating just proved she was nothing but a selfish ahole, Seriously i say this all the time it doesn't matter what gender identity or orientation you are, do not treat your innocent partner horribly under any circumstances, and she did just that, Even if she was straight she still would have been a ahole, for trying to force a open relationship on op and cheating on him., Story 2, hell naw even i wouldn't even wanted him back after that shit, and then that afterwards?!? nope i would find a lawyer, pack all my important documents and shit, and him and his father can go straight to hell, op deserves better then that and she needs to realize she doesn't need someone like him.

@francinetitherington4060 4 ай бұрын

I swear more than 90% of all the stories when one if the partners suggests that they open the marriage they are already cheating.

@blue3532 4 ай бұрын

It should be 99%

@diivaiinthehouse1 4 ай бұрын

S3: NAH. The daughter misses her mom a lot but that doesn't make on the bad mom. I think the cook book had more care than the stuffy.

@madmohawk6560 4 ай бұрын

That girl needs to run first the fiance doesn't believe her and now wants to babytrap her nah she needed to be gone after he believed his dad

@lindah3803 4 ай бұрын

Not to mention all the crap Daddy Dearest has said to OP. Hubby doesn't believe that either. Can't believe she never thought to record him doing that.

@kurieita7607 4 ай бұрын

I mean the problem, at least for me, isn’t that she stated she was bi after they got married it’s that girly asked to _open_ the relationship😭 girl couldn’t just share fictional and or celebrity crushes with OP noooo she wanted to open the marriage😭 Which honestly, on a serious note, I don’t get it, maybe bc I’m a teen, but why do people in any situation ask to open the relationship after dating or being married? Isn’t that stuff better to discuss before getting together or something?

@illadiel6049 4 ай бұрын

Enough of the time it's because they already have someone they want to cheat with and want to make it "legal". Other times it's an often misguided way to spice up the relationship. You've definitely hit the nail on the head that it is something that needs to be ironed out before marriage. Being in that sort of relationship requires openess, honesty and transparency, and that requires communicating with your partner(s) because you not only need informed consent, but also to ensure that nobody is likely to get hurt, and what to do if someone does get hurt. It's not for most partnerships

@heavenlysenju9948 4 ай бұрын

It completely is. People just put labels on taboo things and then act like you're the weirdo for not being accepting of it. Open marriage may as well be an oxymoron. People used to "swing" back in the day, now they want whole ahh separate partners on the side. Ridiculous, don't even get me started on open relationships, just "friends with benefits" with extra steps. But nah, its really a new thing. Surrrreeee.

@tracisr 4 ай бұрын

I hate the stories that dont have an ending! I need to know how it turns out for op2

@r.i.pmydog7723 4 ай бұрын

Story 3 why wouldn’t you juts but another set of stuff toy?

@sweeety969 3 ай бұрын

Because she can't magically age one by 18 years. It's not the stuffie that's the point. She has other stuffies. It's the youngest feeling like an outsider because she's adopted. She can buy her another stuffie -and she did- but she can't magically go back in time and give birth to her.