The moment he called her daughter worthless shoulda been the moment she said "Right...pack your shit. I'll be sending you the paperwork."
@lazallewillemse36174 ай бұрын
Agreed
@axinhedgelion84174 ай бұрын
If it were me in that situation, I would’ve been given Two options…. Apologize, or pack my shit and get out Edit: due to me being too nice for my own good, I would apologize
@cototototorra71064 ай бұрын
tbh we know damn well once his gold digging ass was out he would blame his daughter for that
@pugsabi3 ай бұрын
@@axinhedgelion8417apologies are cheap and useless when forced
@erickaennis27384 ай бұрын
Story 1. Op is definately NTA. The stepdaughter deserved nothing. And OP needs to divorce her money grubbing husband. Stepson seems like a good kid.
@ZIXDiest4 ай бұрын
You know what bro In all of these stories nobody is the asshole. It is unlikely anybody ever will be because they don’t want to look bad so this is just sharing stories. I want to see a story where they are the asshole
@cocothedino_29013 ай бұрын
@@ZIXDiesttheres quite a few, look at r/am i the devil. its a bunch of reuploads of posts from AITA where the OP is being incredibly abusive or callous but either believe theyre justified or are totally oblivious to how theyre in the wrong.
@bambiireynolds58564 ай бұрын
Anyone sympathizing or siding with the stepdaughter in story one has outed themselves as a pos and an abuse apoligist, as well as someone who should never expect their own kids to trust them.
@Permenantlyexhaustedghost1154 ай бұрын
NTA. She treated the stepmom and her child like crap. Does she really expect anything different??? A bully is a bully.
@MistressOP4 ай бұрын
S2: Bless this girls heart. I hope she finds someone who just loves the hell out of her. PEople keep throwing her away.
@billcutting26814 ай бұрын
She’s honestly a loser for not divorcing him for letting him cry, his way back into her house and into her money
@XxXShevampXxX4 ай бұрын
Oh man, that last story was actually really depressing. Especially when she overheard her in laws talking about her not belonging there amongst their family. That shit made my heart hurt for her.
@cototototorra71064 ай бұрын
tbh i understand both sides as it must have been a headache having to deal with op's abusive family
@επιθετικόακτινιδιο3 ай бұрын
They were right. They helped her so much. Her son is their grandson but she is not family. It would be ungrateful not to recognize how much they helped her. She overstayed there. On what grounds must she stay there forever? She has money from her grandparent. And on top of that, both her and baby daddy are idiots. She was begging her ex to stay with her and baby daddy is still thinking about his ex
@Yorkshirefreckles4 ай бұрын
Why are you still with him. Get a grip and give him a shove out the door.
@amyk93974 ай бұрын
but she stayed married to him. this man had so much value that op's daughter was worth the sacrifice
@johnramirz15644 ай бұрын
A man with value shouldn’t call his wife child worthless. A man with value can and should provide his own child the money his daughter needs.
@samoea193 ай бұрын
Right like woman....wtf
@Zminator19864 ай бұрын
Story 1: Divorce? If he's going to treat your daughter like crap and call her useless, then why stay with him?
@PoipoleEntertainment19874 ай бұрын
Another reason why not to marry single parents because of this situation, why is OP still married to this guy anyway?!
@AQUIENLASALA4 ай бұрын
They were both single parents
@terriebtsOT73 ай бұрын
Last story: my heart breaks for OP. Even though her babies dad will always be there, she is alone. She has no family or anyone else to lean on. His family has already started to pull away, and once he starts dating, she will just be "his kids mom"
@flamelily20864 ай бұрын
The people who defend bullies and excuse their behaviour make me sick. They are more concerned about the bullies than they are about the kids that are the victims of said bullies. My grandfathet was a target of a nasty bully when he was at boarding school. He was a gentle person who who was a natural target for bullies. He took noxing lessons, then met his bully one afternoon, and gave him such a trouncing that he was never bullied again. That is how you deal with bullies! Bullies pick only pick on kids who don't fight back!
@moradoemoji78714 ай бұрын
Everyone in the second story were dumb but I really dislike D the most for using OP as if he is the only victim
@rebewtinydino25724 ай бұрын
The girl wasn’t dumb but her family was the fuck would disown her a baby out wedlock I’d common as shit she didn’t cheat on Anyone
@samoea193 ай бұрын
Story 1: she fail her daughter by not divorcing
@jamesplayzreviews4 ай бұрын
Story 1: OP is NTA definitely without a doubt in my mind
@CharlieApples3 ай бұрын
Anyone with a friend or relative in an abusive or problematic relationship, please know that *lecturing them and telling them to “just leave” will push them further into the arms of the person hurting them.* They’re coming to you for comfort and support, not dismissive judgements. It is excruciatingly painful to be in love with someone who alternates between being great and sweet and caring…and then when you least expect it they stab you in the heart and blame you for making them do it. It is a well documented pattern of abuse which is designed to destroy the victim’s self esteem and make them question everything they do. They are living on eggshells 365 days a year, and their partner has thoroughly convinced them that they love them, and that if they were to leave, nobody else would ever love them like they do, because they’re worthless. The best thing you can do is tell them they don’t deserve to treated that way, and tell them they can stay with you if they need to leave. Or if you REALLY care, you could tell the abuser off yourself. But most people tend to just see their friend getting hurt over and over again as an annoyance and none of their business.
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy3 ай бұрын
I really hope she told the stepson to watch his cash.
@justaroodypoo4 ай бұрын
2nd Story the Op has the parents of nightmares.
@matthewhuszarik41733 ай бұрын
I never had my own bully, but I have absolutely no tolerance for them and I believe they should be held accountable.
@josephlawson27683 ай бұрын
"I, of course, felt bad about the paternity test part" Why? This is the exact situation that makes the most sense. He doesn't know you and you had sex once while you were supposedly on birth control. Feeling bad about that is silly.
@gabinathan54994 ай бұрын
OP I WAS BULLIED MOST IF NOT ALL MY LIFE BY OTHER PEOPLE NOT TO MENTION CHILDREN WHEN I WAS SMALL.
@jamesplayzreviews4 ай бұрын
Your point?
@jazzie-sanbelle994 ай бұрын
Story 1 you owe that girl nothing and if husband doesn't see how toxicity within his daughter really is than perhaps you need to think about separation and the mental health you definitely need to protect. Story 2 wtf you need to think about how 🤔 you might not be able to fix it.but seriously seek therapy and maybe live by yourself until you figure out what is the best option with out setting in the toxicity you've created
@STAYATINYARMYSIN4 ай бұрын
“You’re daughter is worthless anyways” “casket or cremation?” “If it comes to my daughter or our relationship, I’m choosing my daughter” doesn’t actually choose her daughter 🤦🏽♀️
@Francina-g5o3 ай бұрын
OP #2 is so pathetic, I want to scream. She should have dumped D from day 1 when he cheated. She took him back played the pick me dance , threw money ay him , called his R make up so🤬. I don’t get it , she needs serious therapy, I’m guessing her parents have a lot to do with it, the lack of self esteem. However you have your own home , money from you grandparents and a child now , it’s time to put on grown women’s panties and take charge of your life.
@AddisynDurocher3 ай бұрын
Why is op still with this man . He's using op. He can pay for his own daughter. He knows the history between op and step kid She doesn't realize the influence she has on her daughter im sure op wouldn't want for her daughter.
@HawkTHSS28934 ай бұрын
NTA and i dont side with the bullys side at all im on 100% on ops and the daughters side i dont consoles bullying at all cause i know how it feels like to be bullied
@artemislove29412 күн бұрын
i have no idea why she married him in the first place. she doesn’t really care about her daughter if she stayed with this man
@patriciajosephs388115 күн бұрын
It was my struggling child or her abuser. She's a good parent. Reminds me of the story where a mother took her child's bully as a teaching assistant, forcing him to opt out of pursuing a degree and instead seek blue collar training to quickly become independent. That mum definitely chose her child's abuser over her child. 😢
@delbertjohnson62184 ай бұрын
Time for hubby to go
@jeb2843 ай бұрын
The last story- she had some abusive ass parents, glad she got the help she needed but D isn’t the one either
@dcg5903 ай бұрын
Are you sure your husband isn’t spending the college money? Op, time for a divorce. Your husband is using you.
@VetaRoberts-sj7sw3 ай бұрын
Nta, a bully is a bully. Don't give her anything
@ketienne10212 ай бұрын
OP NTA, for her stance on the stepdaughter. OP ITA, weaponizing her money but is treated like an ATM. OP has bad judgment in men.
@josanchez6662 ай бұрын
Stick with your blood child over the entitled step kids.
@Karen_thatbish4 ай бұрын
Story 1 - OP is NTA. OP needs to divorce their gold digger husband. The stepdaughter got her attitude towards OP’s daughter & her from the husband. The stepdaughter doesn’t deserve a single penny nor does she deserve to so much as breathe the same air as OP & her daughter. Stepdaughter played stupid games so she can enjoy her stupid prize. I don’t understand why people get into marriages or stay in them when their partners & children treat😮 them & their kids like 💩. I hope OP goes NC with stepdaughter forever because that’s what she deserves.
@XxXShevampXxX4 ай бұрын
Story #1: Hold up, I'm kinda confused. She said he pays child support and alimony but both his kids are grown. Stepson is 20 and stepdaughter is 19.
@barneytaylor93384 ай бұрын
Some places you are on the hook until the kid is 21.
@Hexe_193944 ай бұрын
I think in Germany you have to pay child Support until the kid is 25 or has finished the first "Ausbildung". (Sry it's 3 am and my brain just doesn't come up with the right word xD)
@AQUIENLASALA4 ай бұрын
This story does not take place in North America
@kosho54344 ай бұрын
A revenge affair is still an affair. Two wrongs dont make a right. And now she's in the same position her boyfriend was in. Both are now cheaters.
@lachlanp33653 ай бұрын
Dam you don't bag out someone else's kid to them, the OP should just be like well the step daughter is going to be a doctor so she doesn't need the help. 😁 (Shit eating grin)
@ninaross2114 ай бұрын
DEMAND DAUGHTER DEFEND. HERSELF WHEN GIRL STARTS BEATING DAUGHTER ! INSIST DAUGHTER DONT ! STOP 🛑. FIGHTING ! UNTIL POLICE ! PULL DAUGHTER OFF HER ! DAUGHTER MUST DEFEND HERSELF
@juliearmfield26344 ай бұрын
There was way to many comments on story 1
@professorrosenstock50264 ай бұрын
I think because she replied a lot.
@jeffreycardenas5553Ай бұрын
Story 2 I’m sorry but dude got cheated on not once but twice by the same girl and is still thinking about getting back with her. Like I’m dead 😭😭 like fr how moronic can you be bro wtf. I hope this girl finds her knight in shining armor fr.
@ninaross2114 ай бұрын
LADY ! DUDE ! NEVER ! EVER. ! LOVED YOU ! NOT A. BIT ! HUSBAND ALLOWED. DAUGHTER 2. TOTTAL. DISRESPECT YOU ! YEAR. AFTER YEAR ! BANKING ON. FAT. ALIMONY ! LAYING WAITING ! HUSBAND &. EX. LAUGHING TOGETHER ! WAITING 4. ALIMONY